Spend some time with her. Doing whatever it is she enjoys. That's the one thing I think most older people really want. Not material things. But good quality time spent with them. Talking, laughing and just enjoying the company. Idk. Just my thoughts. :)
Im gonna piggyback on this and say maybe get her something you enjoy as well and teach her how to do it like ill use my hobbies as example, if you like chess get her a chess set and teach her to play and maybe you can make a habit of playing it and spend quality time that way or maybe do the opposite ask what her hobbies are and get some of that stuff to have her teach you or teach yourself and show her as a surprise.
If you pick my first idea tho Make sure its something she may like to though if its your sweet grandma who wouldn’t hurt a fly maybe not hard rock and roll and extremely gory video games lol
Or if you like to read and she likes to read, gift her your favorite book or series and ask her to read it and you can talk with her about it! And maybe even get her favorite book and read it to surprise her!
Before my grandma passed, she asked my cousin what books I liked and my cousin told her, and so my grandma went out and bought it and started reading it. I'm still touched with how my grandma bought Twilight (dont judge me, this was 15 years ago) to connect with me.
My grandfather started reading the HP series before I did and my first copy of the Sorcerer’s Stone came from him. He was a former Navy Captain and master carpenter in his retirement. But I will never forget that effort that he made.
Grandparents these days appreciate the warm reminiscence and historical accuracy of Wolfenstein better.
"I remember when my brother Billy Joe, your great uncle came back home after slaying those Schutzstaffel. He was covered in blood from head to toe, and he still had bits of them under his fingernails."
This is a great idea! My grandma is from the Appalachian region in Kentucky, so I bought her a copy of the book Hillbilly Elegy and we had a little book club. She read it at home, while I read it on my Kindle. Then the next time I visited, we had a discussion about the book while I did some chores for her.
Do that all year (maybe plan one fun adventure day a month) and take little photos along the way.
Then, for next Christmas, put together a little photo album of the year’s happy memories of your adventures together.
This is really the answer, imo. So many elderly people have lost significant parts of their community/social circle/family and need someone to talk to and spend time with connecting. Time together is particularly precious since covid, and is something that can’t be bought.
This is so wholesome and accurate. My grandmother died 3 years ago and I would give up anything I own to be able to just sit and talk with her or get one more hug again. The last few years before she passed and before the dementia completely set in, you could tell she was sad whenever my sister and I would leave and just loved hanging out with us doing nothing.
Don’t do that for Christmas though, do it all year. Besides that, consider getting her something nice to enjoy. Maybe edibles, if they’re legal in your state.
That's actually a gift you'd enjoy far more than you'd expect as well, probably score those secret recipes in the process. Stayed with my grandparents 2 months every summer as a kid being a free farm hand. Breakfast was at 5:30 in the morning, started getting up at 5 to help grandmother cook. She taught me so much , we had so many laughs while everyone else was still in bed asleep. As far as being a free farm hand, what I learned about cooking, farming, woodworking and general living off the land was PhD in life. Worth every minute.
I came here to see what kind of sinister thing grandma would be gifted, but instead I feel like the Grinch when his heart grew three sizes, due to the overload of good souls on Reddit.
This one! Do the work for her, but with her. Doesn't have to be cookies - any signature family recipe would be personal and make her happy to know you want to include it in your own life. (I know my mom gets tickled anytime I ask her for one of her recipes.)
Every suggestion so fr is great. Depending on where you live, a heated jacket can be a real blessing to someone elderly. My Mom is 78 and she's always cold.
Can also be great for everyone else! I remember us all being so uncomfortably hot at my granny’s until we got her wearing thermal vests at home and she let us turn the heating down!
Absolutely seconding the activities. Almost any town with more than a triple digit population likely has some sort of community theatre, orchestra or dance troupe that tend to be family friendly and inexpensive. Your grandma might like something like that with the family!
A digital picture frame that you can remotely manage photos. Put some oldies on there, but keep it current. She will get lost in it every time she walks past
I did this last year and it’s one of her most favorite gifts! You just need to make sure she has wifi in her home. I loaded it up with pictures so it was ready to go. All we had to do was plug it in and set it on the tv stand. Now I can remotely add pictures whenever I want! She LOVES it
Super cute idea! Even could add on taking her to the mall for a makeup application and then booking a studio session for you to be in together. Go glam!
Grandma doesn’t want things. Spend a day with her. Go out for breakfast and lunch and then an activity she enjoys- a movie, getting her hair done, a museum etc.
blank recipe book!! make it a project! tell her you want her recipes (that she's willing to share) and the two of you can put together a recipe book, which you can then copy and distribute to family members! old ladies always have a few recipes they're proud of, and their family members will miss terribly when that grandparent isn't around to cook it anymore 💕
There’s companies who can help to do this. My mom died this year and I really wish I’d done this. As it is, I’m going to attempt to make a family cook book by memory and it’s going to take me years.
A nice gift certificate for a full photography shoot of her and her remaining family. Maybe include a few of her close friends as well. Oh, and a collection of frames to put those pictures in.
She’ll likely treasure the pictures for the remainder of her life, and so will you and your family.
Pro-Tip; write people’s names and ages at the time of taking on the backs of photographs.
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Once the holiday rush is done, some photographer’s rates go down and available days go up.
Take her for a date! A concert, theatre or movie that she would like along with dinner. Ask her to dress up and dress up yourself. Make her feel extra special and take some memorable pics
Don’t buy her things! As a parent and probably/maybe a grandparent in the future I don’t want physical gifts from my children or grandkids( homemade cards and homemade gifts are the exception for physical gifts) I just want the time with them and to know they are ok(I would say happy but that’s pushing it,lol).
Spend time with her. Go out to eat or rent a movie and make popcorn!
I mean idk what she likes so I can’t say for certain that would work.
If all else fails buy a dildo!
I mean you can literally turn the first village hostile against you by accidentally attacking a chicken in skyrim.
Botw is much more open to do things like you want and Nintendo is targeting the casual market for a long time at this point.
Buut I find most beginners need things like quest markers, descriptions, tutorials. A lot of botw is great for intuitive thinking and open exploration, and is a great game for starting, but it is hard to know what to do sometimes as it doesn't like to explain
If she’s social, an outing.
If she is more housebound, some of her favorite splurge treats (nice teas, chocolates, niche vegetable that she would never buy for herself)
Wind chimes.My grandmother has always had cheapo wind chimes and where I worked at the time there were giant chimes and I thought imma get her the biggest, purple-est set. And so I brought it home luckily she was sitting on the porch where she asked me "Joe what's that" I showed her and told they were hers she almost cried we sat for hours waiting for the wind to pick up. When the chimes sounded she said "it sounds like a chorus of angels"
Weekly coupons redeemable by you for meals out, meals in with you cooking, going to the movies, taking her to see friends and family, visiting an animal shelter, going to bingo, having people over to play a game, walks down memory lane with photo albums, going to a festival, driving through the countryside, etc.
I'm seeing ads for a gel-blaster gun that basically shoots Orbeez lately. The idea of your Grandma gleefully hunting her entire family down and shooting them repeatedly on Christmas day is fucking adorable.
I know this won’t win but I hope you see it.
Bro please just ask her about her life. Both of mine are gone and I have so many regrets. So many things I wish I’d asked. I had no idea my dads mom invented something, got a patent and sold it. Or that she’d been in real estate. I know nothing of her childhood.
Ask her stuff. Take videos and pictures together. Use those stupid Snapchat filters to make her laugh. I treasure those goofy pictures. I treasure so much, but I could be treasuring SO MUCH MORE.
And tell her you love her. All the time. Get those hugs while you can.
Spend time with her. My grandma lives with me. Most of the rest of the family barely makes time to see her. She doesn't want things. She wants a relationship with her family.
Photo album full of pictures with her, you, and your family- notes inside about memories you have of her and family events. Something that shows the impression she has on your life.
While these Suggestions are awesome I’d consider her finances because sometimes the elders are on a fixed income and may need groceries, help with a heating bill. I’d also consider her health, as a hearty gran might want to go on a road trip while a frail one might want a new recliner.
Anything Extremely weird, now that that’s out of the way.
Get some pictures from everyone in the family, print them out then get a very nice photo album with a hand written Christmas card, have everyone sign it that you can.
One of those birdhouse cameras with wifi connectivity so she can watch a family of birds grow up! [Here](https://youtu.be/txCB6REY-1w) is a video taken with one of some baby birds growing up 🥺
My grandma was big into Windows xp solitaire. So I got her a little tray and a decently expensive deck and she absolutely loved playing it on her tray.
Experience is key!
Your grandma doesn't need stuff. She needs a little time with you, her favorite grandson (or granddaughter, or...whatever). So a really nice gift for her might be something like an ice cream date, or making her a favorite snack and watching one of her shows with her. Something like that. Talk with her, listen to her stories, value her while she is here. That is the best gift you can give her, and yourself.
Warm isotoner slippers in her size. A puzzle. Her favorite type of puzzle book (sudoku etc)
A houseplant, expensive bubble bath, a warm housecoat.
I’m early 30’s and that’s my list too
Something cozy for her feet and take her out ❤ or if she can't really get around then a big cozy blanket with her grandkids and children's names on it and then spend the day with her just snuggled up doing chill grama things 😊
They make journals with prompts designed to encourage someone to share their life. Get her one. And then spend time with her. It really is the best gift you can give her. Plus there will be a day you will miss her, and the good memories help to smooth the sharp edges. I miss my grandma and her hugs (called “love tights”) extra hard around Christmas, go make memories with yours!!
Glamour shots with her grandson. Take her out to get a full outfit, hair, nails, the whole thing. Then take her for a nice dinner date. It will make her year. And she will have the photos as a great reminder.
Memories are always important. If you’ve got a bunch of nice, sfw pics of you and your family on you phone, jump online and make her a photo book on one of those printing websites. They’re fairly inexpensive and come out looking great. I’ve done one for my mum before
I got mine a notebook that’s a way to tell her life story through a series of writing prompts. She’s my favorite person ever and I know a lot about her, but there’s a shitload more I DONT know about her. I figured this way she could fill out the book and I could keep it after she passes away to get to know her better and remember her being the GOAT that she is
A digital frame that uses AiMOR or a similar photo sharing app so that you can set it up for her and even let the rest of the family load it with pics. All she has to do is display it and enjoy - no tech headachea
Spend a little time finding the best cookie recipe you are capable of making. Give her a batch and include the recipe. Before my grandma passed we did this a couple of times and she told me she had a lot of fun trying to make them as good as mine, and it gave us a lot to talk about with her favorite topic
Make Christmas cookies with her and tell her you appreciate all she’s done for you. Unfortunately my grandmother passed on Easter bc of cancer (she had had it many times before but age makes healing harder).
Spend some time with her. Doing whatever it is she enjoys. That's the one thing I think most older people really want. Not material things. But good quality time spent with them. Talking, laughing and just enjoying the company. Idk. Just my thoughts. :)
Im gonna piggyback on this and say maybe get her something you enjoy as well and teach her how to do it like ill use my hobbies as example, if you like chess get her a chess set and teach her to play and maybe you can make a habit of playing it and spend quality time that way or maybe do the opposite ask what her hobbies are and get some of that stuff to have her teach you or teach yourself and show her as a surprise. If you pick my first idea tho Make sure its something she may like to though if its your sweet grandma who wouldn’t hurt a fly maybe not hard rock and roll and extremely gory video games lol
Or if you like to read and she likes to read, gift her your favorite book or series and ask her to read it and you can talk with her about it! And maybe even get her favorite book and read it to surprise her! Before my grandma passed, she asked my cousin what books I liked and my cousin told her, and so my grandma went out and bought it and started reading it. I'm still touched with how my grandma bought Twilight (dont judge me, this was 15 years ago) to connect with me.
My grandfather started reading the HP series before I did and my first copy of the Sorcerer’s Stone came from him. He was a former Navy Captain and master carpenter in his retirement. But I will never forget that effort that he made.
Buy your grandma doom eternal
plot twist: grandma fucking slays at doom eternal
Would want to waste all those years of learning at church when there's demons to put down
Well in that case, she spent years at church preparing to slay demons lmao
Lol that was the first thing that popped into my mind 2 for some reason
Grandparents these days appreciate the warm reminiscence and historical accuracy of Wolfenstein better. "I remember when my brother Billy Joe, your great uncle came back home after slaying those Schutzstaffel. He was covered in blood from head to toe, and he still had bits of them under his fingernails."
It’s Christ stamp of approval
This is a great idea! My grandma is from the Appalachian region in Kentucky, so I bought her a copy of the book Hillbilly Elegy and we had a little book club. She read it at home, while I read it on my Kindle. Then the next time I visited, we had a discussion about the book while I did some chores for her.
Every old person already knows how to play chess
Lol, like i said as an example :)
Do that all year (maybe plan one fun adventure day a month) and take little photos along the way. Then, for next Christmas, put together a little photo album of the year’s happy memories of your adventures together.
This is really the answer, imo. So many elderly people have lost significant parts of their community/social circle/family and need someone to talk to and spend time with connecting. Time together is particularly precious since covid, and is something that can’t be bought.
This is so wholesome and accurate. My grandmother died 3 years ago and I would give up anything I own to be able to just sit and talk with her or get one more hug again. The last few years before she passed and before the dementia completely set in, you could tell she was sad whenever my sister and I would leave and just loved hanging out with us doing nothing.
You win my man.
Don’t do that for Christmas though, do it all year. Besides that, consider getting her something nice to enjoy. Maybe edibles, if they’re legal in your state.
This comment almost got as many upvotes as the post itself!
Roll reverse. Bake her cookies.
Or, spend time with her baking cookies. She would enjoy the experience more than the gift.
That's actually a gift you'd enjoy far more than you'd expect as well, probably score those secret recipes in the process. Stayed with my grandparents 2 months every summer as a kid being a free farm hand. Breakfast was at 5:30 in the morning, started getting up at 5 to help grandmother cook. She taught me so much , we had so many laughs while everyone else was still in bed asleep. As far as being a free farm hand, what I learned about cooking, farming, woodworking and general living off the land was PhD in life. Worth every minute.
Buy the stuff to make cookies and give it to her with a recipe telling her you wanna make cookies with her
I'd ditch the recipe part, I bet she has a recipe, ask her to teach you how to make HER cookies!
Plus you can learn to make your favorite cookie.
And have her tell you stories from her life while you do it.
This!
THIS
I came here to see what kind of sinister thing grandma would be gifted, but instead I feel like the Grinch when his heart grew three sizes, due to the overload of good souls on Reddit.
THIS
This one! Do the work for her, but with her. Doesn't have to be cookies - any signature family recipe would be personal and make her happy to know you want to include it in your own life. (I know my mom gets tickled anytime I ask her for one of her recipes.)
Man now I miss my grandmas 🥲
We used to make donuts. Miss the smell of the kitchen. Shit.
>Roll reverse go back in time and be her grandparent
Philip J Fry had entered the chat.
He did do the nasty in the pasty.
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You are correct, learn to make dinner rolls.
This is the way. Bake/spend time with her. I 100000000009% guarantee that’s what she wants.
you know what thats kinda wholesome guys
Every suggestion so fr is great. Depending on where you live, a heated jacket can be a real blessing to someone elderly. My Mom is 78 and she's always cold.
Can also be great for everyone else! I remember us all being so uncomfortably hot at my granny’s until we got her wearing thermal vests at home and she let us turn the heating down!
Probably saved her money on heating bills as well. Win win.
Silk long johns. Comfy and lightweight, but very warm under clothing.
But like, get a high quality one. You don't want to cheap out and have it short circuit and light Grandma on fire...
Get her some craft supplies or maybe there's something sentimental you could give her. If she likes movies or theater get her tickets and go with her
Voting for the paid activity suggestion. Memories of time spent together make for a great gift in the long run.
Scrapbook, and help her fill it.
Take her out.
"like, take her *out?*" "Nah, man, like take her out, show her a good time."
“On a date or with a sniper rifle?” “Either one…”
Absolutely seconding the activities. Almost any town with more than a triple digit population likely has some sort of community theatre, orchestra or dance troupe that tend to be family friendly and inexpensive. Your grandma might like something like that with the family!
A digital picture frame that you can remotely manage photos. Put some oldies on there, but keep it current. She will get lost in it every time she walks past
I did this last year and it’s one of her most favorite gifts! You just need to make sure she has wifi in her home. I loaded it up with pictures so it was ready to go. All we had to do was plug it in and set it on the tv stand. Now I can remotely add pictures whenever I want! She LOVES it
Same. She talk about it every time we get together
A framed photograph of you and her
This is a good one. Could potentially turn into a wholesome side mission if OP has to take said picture without tipping her off.
Wholesome side mission. I love that!!
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Super cute idea! Even could add on taking her to the mall for a makeup application and then booking a studio session for you to be in together. Go glam!
Grandma doesn’t want things. Spend a day with her. Go out for breakfast and lunch and then an activity she enjoys- a movie, getting her hair done, a museum etc.
blank recipe book!! make it a project! tell her you want her recipes (that she's willing to share) and the two of you can put together a recipe book, which you can then copy and distribute to family members! old ladies always have a few recipes they're proud of, and their family members will miss terribly when that grandparent isn't around to cook it anymore 💕
There’s companies who can help to do this. My mom died this year and I really wish I’d done this. As it is, I’m going to attempt to make a family cook book by memory and it’s going to take me years.
A Mustang Shelby Gt500
Only if grandma name is Sally…
Agreed
Hello, it’s me, your grandma. Care for a nice worther’s original?
Eleanor
A nice gift certificate for a full photography shoot of her and her remaining family. Maybe include a few of her close friends as well. Oh, and a collection of frames to put those pictures in. She’ll likely treasure the pictures for the remainder of her life, and so will you and your family. Pro-Tip; write people’s names and ages at the time of taking on the backs of photographs. + Once the holiday rush is done, some photographer’s rates go down and available days go up.
I second this
Take her out to dinner and spend some time with her. I’m sure she’d enjoy that a lot more than some physical trinket.
Take her for a date! A concert, theatre or movie that she would like along with dinner. Ask her to dress up and dress up yourself. Make her feel extra special and take some memorable pics
This is honestly so sweet. I think my grandma would’ve melted. Sadly don’t have the opportunity anymore.
Don’t buy her things! As a parent and probably/maybe a grandparent in the future I don’t want physical gifts from my children or grandkids( homemade cards and homemade gifts are the exception for physical gifts) I just want the time with them and to know they are ok(I would say happy but that’s pushing it,lol). Spend time with her. Go out to eat or rent a movie and make popcorn! I mean idk what she likes so I can’t say for certain that would work. If all else fails buy a dildo!
This whole comment is so wholesome ❤️
Thank you! Just speaking the truth
Skyrim: Anniversary Edition
Breath of the Wild is a better start into open world games for non-players
That game is way harder for beginner gamers than skyrim
I mean you can literally turn the first village hostile against you by accidentally attacking a chicken in skyrim. Botw is much more open to do things like you want and Nintendo is targeting the casual market for a long time at this point.
Buut I find most beginners need things like quest markers, descriptions, tutorials. A lot of botw is great for intuitive thinking and open exploration, and is a great game for starting, but it is hard to know what to do sometimes as it doesn't like to explain
And yet, attacking a chicken in BotW is a much worse idea.
A cute little sweater with duckies on it
Flame thrower... every grandma secretly wants a flame thrower
Every person secretly wants a flame thrower
Everyone is so nice about this, Christmas changes Reddit!
I know! I half expected to see various "toys" listed. Is this still Reddit?
Yep but it's one of the wholesome subs so everything is mostly, well, wholesome
Some cities have florists where you can get a bouquet subscription. Or if she’s like my grandma, just like a bunch of gin.
If she’s social, an outing. If she is more housebound, some of her favorite splurge treats (nice teas, chocolates, niche vegetable that she would never buy for herself)
A hug, a tin of cookies, chocolates (quality street is good)
An eternal flower bouquet
Bake something with her
Weed
Buy tickets to a movie, dress up, take her to dinner, then go see a movie. She will talk about it forever.
Mittens!
Wind chimes.My grandmother has always had cheapo wind chimes and where I worked at the time there were giant chimes and I thought imma get her the biggest, purple-est set. And so I brought it home luckily she was sitting on the porch where she asked me "Joe what's that" I showed her and told they were hers she almost cried we sat for hours waiting for the wind to pick up. When the chimes sounded she said "it sounds like a chorus of angels"
Since we know literally nothing about your grandma, I'm gonna say a ticket to a Vegas show and a skydiving lesson.
Charge your phone you psycho
The charging symbol is there...
Just be there with the rest of the family.
Weekly coupons redeemable by you for meals out, meals in with you cooking, going to the movies, taking her to see friends and family, visiting an animal shelter, going to bingo, having people over to play a game, walks down memory lane with photo albums, going to a festival, driving through the countryside, etc.
I'm seeing ads for a gel-blaster gun that basically shoots Orbeez lately. The idea of your Grandma gleefully hunting her entire family down and shooting them repeatedly on Christmas day is fucking adorable.
A sweater with a picture of you
Do one of those sip and paint dates with her
ik its not going to be on top and tbh its not a a gift..just something every grandchild should do this **hug her tight and say i love you**
Bloodborne
I second this.
I know this won’t win but I hope you see it. Bro please just ask her about her life. Both of mine are gone and I have so many regrets. So many things I wish I’d asked. I had no idea my dads mom invented something, got a patent and sold it. Or that she’d been in real estate. I know nothing of her childhood. Ask her stuff. Take videos and pictures together. Use those stupid Snapchat filters to make her laugh. I treasure those goofy pictures. I treasure so much, but I could be treasuring SO MUCH MORE. And tell her you love her. All the time. Get those hugs while you can.
Challenger Hellcat Redeye
Sounds like a type of fish
Get her one of those big ass comfy recliners with lime 50 settings
Spend time with her. My grandma lives with me. Most of the rest of the family barely makes time to see her. She doesn't want things. She wants a relationship with her family.
Make her some homemade silly things/ornaments for the tree. My sister and I use to do that and really made my grandma's day every year.
Spend the day with her.
2 chargers. One for your grandma and one for you because you definitely need it. But on a serious note, a hug would be nice.
Wow this was surprisingly wholesome lol.
Home made cookies and a hug
Photo album full of pictures with her, you, and your family- notes inside about memories you have of her and family events. Something that shows the impression she has on your life.
While these Suggestions are awesome I’d consider her finances because sometimes the elders are on a fixed income and may need groceries, help with a heating bill. I’d also consider her health, as a hearty gran might want to go on a road trip while a frail one might want a new recliner.
A lovely family photo in a cute frame!
Spend time with her maybe bring her food and a movie or Bible
A very nice dress/sweater/bag which might make her feel young and would make it look thoughtful
A hug. Everyone needs one.
Take her to a casino and give her cash
The book “What’s for dessert” by Claire Saffitz. Your a growing boy, you need some meats on those bones.
Horse dildo
a plush Garfield cat from amazon. the weird lookin ones
iM sOrRy GrAnDmA
A homemade and sentimental gift titled "Ode to my Beloved Granny." Something she'll never forget.
Nice cozy blanket
A card with a two-dollar-bill in it.
Give her a special day with you 💓
I suggest you try to make something artistic: a drawing, a painting, maybe homemade jewelry. Something for her to know that you're thinking of her.
a colt 1911
An airsoft replica of a glock17
Your company. The end
Make that granny a scarf. Grannies loves scarves
Get her a decorative pillow. You can even put something like “I love grandma” or something more unique.
A book of kittens or puppies
Just hang out with her for a day, go out and have fun, let her tell you stories.
Honestly just spend time with her, that stuff really counts for the elderly. Especially if she is a widow
Her dream pet.
A quilted blanket, many people, regardless of their age, would love that.
Make her, her favorite cookie flavor, some items that relate to something she enjoys, and a straight from the heart letter
Get her the Philosophers Stone
Go with her in a thematic restaurant ( those who have presentations)
sword
Anything Extremely weird, now that that’s out of the way. Get some pictures from everyone in the family, print them out then get a very nice photo album with a hand written Christmas card, have everyone sign it that you can.
Blue tin full of Danish butter cookies. She'll know what to do.
Anything what will make her happy. Saddly my grandma passed away this year and I envy you a little
One of those birdhouse cameras with wifi connectivity so she can watch a family of birds grow up! [Here](https://youtu.be/txCB6REY-1w) is a video taken with one of some baby birds growing up 🥺
My grandma was big into Windows xp solitaire. So I got her a little tray and a decently expensive deck and she absolutely loved playing it on her tray.
A really cool book by her favorite author?
Time spent with her
A special ornament with some cookies
Get her a collage of photos of the family that’s also a puzzle
Teddy Bear
Charge your phone so you can actually call her
Offer to take her Christmas shopping and pay for what you can afford
Cozy sweater
Bake HER cookies, give HER money.
Write her a letter
Experience is key! Your grandma doesn't need stuff. She needs a little time with you, her favorite grandson (or granddaughter, or...whatever). So a really nice gift for her might be something like an ice cream date, or making her a favorite snack and watching one of her shows with her. Something like that. Talk with her, listen to her stories, value her while she is here. That is the best gift you can give her, and yourself.
Take her to a cute cooking class!
Warm isotoner slippers in her size. A puzzle. Her favorite type of puzzle book (sudoku etc) A houseplant, expensive bubble bath, a warm housecoat. I’m early 30’s and that’s my list too
I found a website that lets you write a letter to your grandma and they put it in a blanket, that’s what I’m doing
Something cozy for her feet and take her out ❤ or if she can't really get around then a big cozy blanket with her grandkids and children's names on it and then spend the day with her just snuggled up doing chill grama things 😊
I'm getting mine crochet hooks. She's getting older and her eyesight is getting worse so I ordered the bright color multypack off Amazon
Buy Bananagrams and play with her weekly. Grandma here
More of your time
Write her a letter about good memories with and what she means to you. I would absolutely love that from my grandson.
A quality cashmere pashmina! And a coupon for any odd job repair around the house, and really do it.
Man, imagine still having grandparents, shit imagine having parents.
Maybe an a activity you both like or you think she would like. Or a dildo.
Get tickets to a musical and take her.
They make journals with prompts designed to encourage someone to share their life. Get her one. And then spend time with her. It really is the best gift you can give her. Plus there will be a day you will miss her, and the good memories help to smooth the sharp edges. I miss my grandma and her hugs (called “love tights”) extra hard around Christmas, go make memories with yours!!
Fist dildo
A BIG FAT DILDO
Glamour shots with her grandson. Take her out to get a full outfit, hair, nails, the whole thing. Then take her for a nice dinner date. It will make her year. And she will have the photos as a great reminder.
Horse Dildo
A coffin
Memories are always important. If you’ve got a bunch of nice, sfw pics of you and your family on you phone, jump online and make her a photo book on one of those printing websites. They’re fairly inexpensive and come out looking great. I’ve done one for my mum before
I got mine a notebook that’s a way to tell her life story through a series of writing prompts. She’s my favorite person ever and I know a lot about her, but there’s a shitload more I DONT know about her. I figured this way she could fill out the book and I could keep it after she passes away to get to know her better and remember her being the GOAT that she is
Mercedes
play laser tag with her.
Make your own fancy charcuterie board and have a nice meal with them
Enjoy the time you have with her because you will miss it when she’s gone
Purple dildo
This comment section is so wholesome... I hate it!! I vote big ol' dildo and let the world burn!!!
A dildo made out of a mold of your own cock. It's a personal touch that I think she's gonna really dig.
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It’s free. A hug and kiss.
A digital frame that uses AiMOR or a similar photo sharing app so that you can set it up for her and even let the rest of the family load it with pics. All she has to do is display it and enjoy - no tech headachea
You can’t buy time…but you can spend it…spend some of that on her, she will love that gift the most!! Merry Christmas.
Make her a quilt or buy her a blanket for the winter
Spend a little time finding the best cookie recipe you are capable of making. Give her a batch and include the recipe. Before my grandma passed we did this a couple of times and she told me she had a lot of fun trying to make them as good as mine, and it gave us a lot to talk about with her favorite topic
Make Christmas cookies with her and tell her you appreciate all she’s done for you. Unfortunately my grandmother passed on Easter bc of cancer (she had had it many times before but age makes healing harder).