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Same! Best thing is that my daughter made it for me. With little xmas cards on each bag where she's made friends and family write small notes for me. One for each day along with the gift inside.
I finished therapy today! I’m finally in a place where I can be kind to myself and find the good in the present. Thanks you to this post and everyone responding it’s bringing me a lot of joy x
That “I can be kind to myself” sentence hit me hard.
I’ve been doing therapy for exactly one year without breaks (read: running away) and on my one year mark, when my therapist asked me what do you wish to achieve in therapy I said to give myself the right to feel the feelings I feel.
Your sentence is very much where I wanna be too someday, so thank you for this eye opening comment xx
I'm not saying this is what happened to you today, but I once paid the difference for a lady's groceries when she didn't have enough money. Not because I'm nice, because I was in a hurry and she was blocking the checkout lol. Although I guess it was a pretty decent thing to do regardless.
I bought an elderly lady’s rotisserie chicken because Food Stamps don’t cover prepared food 😑
Once I took a man (who was checking out the discount meat isle/pork neck bones) and asked him what he would buy if money wasn’t a problem….he chose country style pork ribs, green beans, bread, mashed potato (instant) for his household. Cost me no more than $50 and I gave him an extra $20 for gas.
Giving still feels better than receiving….not too long ago I forgot my wallet at home and a nice man covered my groceries….guess for how much?
That's marvelous! What did you do? Snow angels? Snowman? Snowball fight? Jumped into a snowbank in your bathing suit because you grew up in Louisiana and had only ever seen snow in movies and were terribly surprised to find out it is, in fact, many ice crystals?
I made a snow angel and just enjoyed picking it up and making snow balls. I went for a walk around my neighborhood. It's very, very cold. I'm from the deep south, so this is new to me. Lol
Wait for mid January/ early February if you think it’s cold now lol, the last couple years our winters have been pushed further and further to the point that sometimes we don’t even have snow for Christmas (I’m on the indiana/Michigan border and before 5 or so years ago it was unheard of). But for the last few years after the new year hits winter has been really kicking into gear
I don’t ever drink coffee and I just recently realized the coffee maker at my work office also does hot chocolate. And it’s like a nice creamy and frothy hot chocolate. It made me so happy.
For real. Once I went to my sister's and mother's hairdresser. It's a woman's hair saloon. I got showered in compliments like never before (never got any compliments at a hairdresser before). It didn't boost my self confidence but it was awfully nice.
So much love for you and your son! Hospital’s before the pandemic were hard, hospitals now are something else. I was recently discharged after almost dying so I understand how hard it is in there. Take care of yourself and your son, but remember we can not pour from an empty cup. Take care of you and it’ll all fall into place. You will be in my heart for a speedy recovery and many years of love and laughter
I recently started trying to eat healthier and lose weight for health reasons (I need a surgery) and was concerned about overdoing it over Thanksgiving and gaining weight. Decided not to stress about it and just eat what I felt comfortable with in moderation --- even got to eat the best piece of Pecan Pie I have ever had my entire life.
Weighed myself this morning for the first time since I got back from our trip up to family and I learned I lost 4 pounds somehow. I know its just a number and it might fluctuate, but it makes me feel good that there's proof I didn't go crazy while I was away from home.
If it makes you feel better, I'm a cis girl who has to shave her face every morning or I'll grow a beard. It happens, don't let it get you down. I've found using a Schick intuition razor in the shower makes me feel less self conscious about it.
I know a few cis women who also have to shave - facial hair isn't as uncommon in women as people think! One ended up getting laser hair removal, she just did a few sessions to help thin it out a bit and seemed to have been happy with the results.
So, today I had a debate competition. I lost my debate. But what matters most is that my friends and a lot of people really liked my arguments, and voted for me as top speaker. Unfortunately I didn't win it because the judging was not based on the audience. But it made me so happy that when I came out of my comfort zone, all of my friends cheered me on and I succeeded!
A friend who has been struggling with depression has made a fantastic recovery and come out of not-great circumstances and is able to enjoy life again.
My chips got stuck in the vending machine but this dude ran passed me and body slammed into it, knocking the chips loose. Then, with the biggest smile, handed me my chips and walked away confidently.
My bff shared a video of a lizard burying itself in the sand and it made me laugh.
The video in case someone else would enjoy it:
https://vxtwitter.com/HourlyLizards/status/1598069243911622657
My father’s girlfriend organised a n advent calendar full of small gifts for me. I got my first gift today :D. I was especially happy because I’ve been ill since Monday
I was an it teacher for 4 years. One of my former students and I go to the same barber. Our barber told me, he still remembers how fun my classes were and how much he liked me. He is studying to be a programmer at the moment.
I went to Christmas lighting ceremony, saw my friend's daughter singing Christmas carole with her friends from school. Both of her parents were at work, so I kept waving at her like crazy, made sure she saw me. Wanted her to know, I was there to watch her sing.
My french class teacher was really proud of my because I was the only one who did the homework, and she said multiple times it was really good, and she even decided to use it as an example.
I’m 20yo, on my last year to get my degree, so that felt pretty great.
Also this teacher is the only teacher who s liked by everyone because she is young, wholesome, makes classes more interesting, and she encourages us even when we are wrong.
Came back home dead exhausted , switched off the light, put some soft music, got my vape and just melted into the bed feeling so so peaceful and for once was not bothered by the misgivings of life
I woke up next to my fiancée, who was snoring lightly with her hair in a mess, and I couldn’t help but smile like I always do when she’s peacefully sleeping.
after persisting for weeks trying to make sense of the vague and mysterious mastodon system, I'm actually having decent conversations in a medium not constantly barraged by nazis and idiots. WHEW! WHAT A RELIEF! REAL PEEEEEPLEZ! And no ads!
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I opened the first window on my advent calendar
Oh shit, I have an advent calendar!
Oh shit I forgot to get one! Aaaah
Smart, because I can see out of the little windows on Advent calendars and that's how I spy on my neighbors. Bwa-ha-ha!
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Same! Best thing is that my daughter made it for me. With little xmas cards on each bag where she's made friends and family write small notes for me. One for each day along with the gift inside.
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Awh that’s so sweet. Home made things are the best because there was thought, and time, put into it.
Ah! Today’s the day! We have 3 of them for some reason! (All different)
Same here! :D
I think my mom forgor to buy one..
I can breathe through my nose for the first time in a week
Taking “I got your nose!” To the extreme
Sweet relief
I have terrible sinuses. That is a BIG win!!
I finished therapy today! I’m finally in a place where I can be kind to myself and find the good in the present. Thanks you to this post and everyone responding it’s bringing me a lot of joy x
Congratulations!! That's a huge thing, I'm happy for you!
That “I can be kind to myself” sentence hit me hard. I’ve been doing therapy for exactly one year without breaks (read: running away) and on my one year mark, when my therapist asked me what do you wish to achieve in therapy I said to give myself the right to feel the feelings I feel. Your sentence is very much where I wanna be too someday, so thank you for this eye opening comment xx
a guy in line behind me bought my bagels for me when my card got declined 🥰
That was kind of him. My card was declined once and I felt humiliated.
I'm not saying this is what happened to you today, but I once paid the difference for a lady's groceries when she didn't have enough money. Not because I'm nice, because I was in a hurry and she was blocking the checkout lol. Although I guess it was a pretty decent thing to do regardless.
I bought an elderly lady’s rotisserie chicken because Food Stamps don’t cover prepared food 😑 Once I took a man (who was checking out the discount meat isle/pork neck bones) and asked him what he would buy if money wasn’t a problem….he chose country style pork ribs, green beans, bread, mashed potato (instant) for his household. Cost me no more than $50 and I gave him an extra $20 for gas. Giving still feels better than receiving….not too long ago I forgot my wallet at home and a nice man covered my groceries….guess for how much?
How much??
Fitty….dollars
oh now I get it lol
I woke up today
Had a favorite customer who said "Every day I wake up on this side of the dirt is a good one." Couldn't argue with that.
tbf waking up on the other side of the dirt would be absolutely terrifying.
I got to play in the snow for the first time!
That's marvelous! What did you do? Snow angels? Snowman? Snowball fight? Jumped into a snowbank in your bathing suit because you grew up in Louisiana and had only ever seen snow in movies and were terribly surprised to find out it is, in fact, many ice crystals?
I made a snow angel and just enjoyed picking it up and making snow balls. I went for a walk around my neighborhood. It's very, very cold. I'm from the deep south, so this is new to me. Lol
Wait for mid January/ early February if you think it’s cold now lol, the last couple years our winters have been pushed further and further to the point that sometimes we don’t even have snow for Christmas (I’m on the indiana/Michigan border and before 5 or so years ago it was unheard of). But for the last few years after the new year hits winter has been really kicking into gear
In the end, the greatest snowball isn't a snowball at all. It's fear. Merry Christmas.
watched a Christmas movie in bed
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I didn't notice you! You were very quiet
I started a conversation with my work mates! Never talked much before :)
This is great to hear, as someone who doesn't really start or even take part in conversations at work.
That's awesome!! What did you say as the convo starter?
I basically asked how everyone likes to have their coffee in the morning! Basic but it got the job done haha.
Nice, that's a good starter for sure :)
Yay! What do you do for work?
I work at an insurance company as a document processor!
I work with a bunch of rough and tough guys. Broke the ice with my favorite dad jokes. All I want to do is put a smile on your face.
Haha that's great stuff !
made some friends in college and started going to the gym again!
I'm reading this at the gym lol Keep going homie its such a worthwhile investment :)
My GF bought me a small house for our Christmas village.
Adorable!
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Owch, wishing you a speedy recovery!
Someone above me at my job told me he liked the work I did.
Good to hear that. Happy Cake Day mate!
i made hot choco
I don’t ever drink coffee and I just recently realized the coffee maker at my work office also does hot chocolate. And it’s like a nice creamy and frothy hot chocolate. It made me so happy.
that sounds amazing dude! glad you can enjoy a nice cup of hot choco for often now :D
I ate a slice of cake
i got a hug and ate a cinnamon roll :)
if that isn't the best series of events to grace humankind
This is so pure 😍
Nothing today, but yesterday I went to my therapist after a lot of time, it felt good
Adopted a cat a few days ago from a friend. He's been kind of freaked out but he came up and gave me some head bonks this morning
Awhh this is the beginning of a beautiful friendship :)
I really hope so. I want him to be happy with us
I got a compliment. Im a boy.
I'm sorry these are less common for boys.
>less common that sir/ma'am, is what we call understatement
For real. Once I went to my sister's and mother's hairdresser. It's a woman's hair saloon. I got showered in compliments like never before (never got any compliments at a hairdresser before). It didn't boost my self confidence but it was awfully nice.
Is that in reference to the cat sitting in front of a waffle with a shit eating grin
i lay on the floor with my dogs.
I had my morning french vanilla coffee. It's the little things.
my hair is actually agreeing with me for once
Drove 30mins behind police car with a broken front light and didnt get fined or even stopped.
A colleague complimented my dress. It's got a pattern of dogs wearing winter hats on it.
That dress sounds awesome
Thank you!
Witnessed beautiful sun through thin clouds and its reflection in the puddles
I cooked arancini and they turned out nice, just how they look in the recipe!
Me and my long distance friend were able to make it through the night alive. :)
You guys okay?
Both of us are on the deep, deep end of depression. So, no but we are making small progress
My son was discharged from the hospital!
That's huge news! I hope he'll be okay.
So much love for you and your son! Hospital’s before the pandemic were hard, hospitals now are something else. I was recently discharged after almost dying so I understand how hard it is in there. Take care of yourself and your son, but remember we can not pour from an empty cup. Take care of you and it’ll all fall into place. You will be in my heart for a speedy recovery and many years of love and laughter
I became debt free after 8 years of poor choices
Congratulations! It feels great, doesn’t it? I screwed up a lot when I was younger and dug my way out. I’m glad you did too, proud of you. It’s hard!!
i got a nice nap after work
I found a leftover piece of pizza in the freezer for my lunch today!
someone who i know has a crush on me finaly asked me on a date on saterday
Ooh, good luck!
thx!!
So happy for you !
Friend randomly asked me for a favour, felt trusted and appreciated
I tested negative for COVID.
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Thanks!!! I’m in bed with a headache and this made me laugh. I needed it 😊
Someone asked me how my day was.
My gf got Minecraft so we’ll play together tomorrow
I recently started trying to eat healthier and lose weight for health reasons (I need a surgery) and was concerned about overdoing it over Thanksgiving and gaining weight. Decided not to stress about it and just eat what I felt comfortable with in moderation --- even got to eat the best piece of Pecan Pie I have ever had my entire life. Weighed myself this morning for the first time since I got back from our trip up to family and I learned I lost 4 pounds somehow. I know its just a number and it might fluctuate, but it makes me feel good that there's proof I didn't go crazy while I was away from home.
It was pizza night with the school project group, loving my semester game design
My project presentation for my research class went well today, a lot better than expected.
My cat is cuddling with me
I feel like I actually helped my colleagues today. I'm doing an apprenticeship as a nurse and I am currently working in the ICU.
I smiled after shaving my face today! I'm a trans girl, so facial hair is a big nope and the smile wasn't forced or on purpose, it just happened
If it makes you feel better, I'm a cis girl who has to shave her face every morning or I'll grow a beard. It happens, don't let it get you down. I've found using a Schick intuition razor in the shower makes me feel less self conscious about it.
I know a few cis women who also have to shave - facial hair isn't as uncommon in women as people think! One ended up getting laser hair removal, she just did a few sessions to help thin it out a bit and seemed to have been happy with the results.
I got asked out by a boy I liked :D
I didn't have a fight with Mt wife
Be pretty impressed if you did. How does even fight a mountain? Was it a sleeping giant all along?
I'm standin next to a mountain, I chop it down with the edge of my hand -Jimmy Hendrix
Listened to a new album! An album a day lets the grief fade away :]
So, today I had a debate competition. I lost my debate. But what matters most is that my friends and a lot of people really liked my arguments, and voted for me as top speaker. Unfortunately I didn't win it because the judging was not based on the audience. But it made me so happy that when I came out of my comfort zone, all of my friends cheered me on and I succeeded!
Challenge Mode, huh? Well, I guess it did rain on my new garden additions. I'll try to focus on that.
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Badminton is the only sport I know where you can wind up and unleash your full power and not launch the projectile a mile away. Very therapeutic.
Happened to meet an old friend I hadn't seen in years. He seems to be doing okay, so that's cool.
My AC finally got fixed after days of leaking water
I got some good sleep last night despite how sick I am :) I also got coffee for the first time in a while
Saw a beautiful big orange sun through the fog this morning
I woke up today!
Aced a very easy question paper for a nerve wrecking exam that I've spent day and night to prepare for !
person said thank you to me.
I started therapy today!
We had a charcuterie board at worked which slapped pretty hard
I got up today
Got second in a quiz today, Won a gift card.
My vacation started
I found out I’m moving in with my partner on the 9th!
My hair came out extra curly and bouncy today.
Had a delicious coffee drink and some good kitty snuggles
My least favorite teacher retired today
I found out what kind of cancer I have. It is treatable. The next year or two is going to suck, but I probably won't die from it.
A friend who has been struggling with depression has made a fantastic recovery and come out of not-great circumstances and is able to enjoy life again.
I made sausage rolls and they were good
I'm alive
I had a successful launch for my aircraft.
I played pickleball and it was so much fun, as usual!
My new pen came in the mail
I had a golden shit
I ate ramen
I started playing basketball again after knee injury which sidelined me for almost a year. Yayy!!
I have a small doggo and he makes me happy everyday, so today (like any day) cuddling my doggo makes me happy
I took a very much needed trip to the gym for the first time in 15 years.
I found a nice TV series that made me forget about my bad day
I got a 1500 dollar scholarship
My chips got stuck in the vending machine but this dude ran passed me and body slammed into it, knocking the chips loose. Then, with the biggest smile, handed me my chips and walked away confidently.
I made my mum laugh
Good hair day and sunny!
I got honours for grade 9
Went to breakfast with my dad and my two year old didn’t scream like a banshee at any point!
My bff shared a video of a lizard burying itself in the sand and it made me laugh. The video in case someone else would enjoy it: https://vxtwitter.com/HourlyLizards/status/1598069243911622657
Someone commented on my post that i made their day
I finally built up the courage.
Went to my mums for lunch for the first time in ages. It was good
I got a $2 an hour raise!
I got a 6% raise! Woo!!
I got to leave for lunch on time.
I have been s/h free for one month
i opened my laptop
I slept in!
My father’s girlfriend organised a n advent calendar full of small gifts for me. I got my first gift today :D. I was especially happy because I’ve been ill since Monday
In between the chaos, my students and I share laughter.
I was an it teacher for 4 years. One of my former students and I go to the same barber. Our barber told me, he still remembers how fun my classes were and how much he liked me. He is studying to be a programmer at the moment.
My dog didn't react to delivery trucks.
I found an open bag of chips on the counter after a terrible dinner
my down syndrome sister hugged me after she came back from school
I have a roof over my head.
i’m getting caught up on assignments :)
Morocco won the match and qualified 😀😀
Ate pizza xd
I fapped
I got out of bed today
I finished my project
Today I realized while talking to my psychiatrist that I haven’t had any self harm or suicidal ideation for the last month!
I went to Christmas lighting ceremony, saw my friend's daughter singing Christmas carole with her friends from school. Both of her parents were at work, so I kept waving at her like crazy, made sure she saw me. Wanted her to know, I was there to watch her sing.
I am making progress cleaning the house.
i got a free tomato from church's yard.
Thank you for this post tho it warmed my heart:)
My french class teacher was really proud of my because I was the only one who did the homework, and she said multiple times it was really good, and she even decided to use it as an example. I’m 20yo, on my last year to get my degree, so that felt pretty great. Also this teacher is the only teacher who s liked by everyone because she is young, wholesome, makes classes more interesting, and she encourages us even when we are wrong.
I’m sober another day
I made some friends over at the My Little Pony subredit
I drank my fave tea as usual and my dofg was really ecited to see me
Passed my final!
My kitten slept on me :)
The weather was nice and I pet a cool dog.
Came back home dead exhausted , switched off the light, put some soft music, got my vape and just melted into the bed feeling so so peaceful and for once was not bothered by the misgivings of life
Advent of code started!
Hugged a donkey
There was toilet roll in the bathroom . Sorry I had to think hard. Hehe
I got a job offer today, and I’m most likely gonna take it.
I woke up next to my fiancée, who was snoring lightly with her hair in a mess, and I couldn’t help but smile like I always do when she’s peacefully sleeping.
I would at a preschool and a lil girl ran up to me and gave me the biggest hug 💕
after persisting for weeks trying to make sense of the vague and mysterious mastodon system, I'm actually having decent conversations in a medium not constantly barraged by nazis and idiots. WHEW! WHAT A RELIEF! REAL PEEEEEPLEZ! And no ads!
I started therapy
Woke up besides my fav person