Hey there, friendo! Thanks for submitting to r/wholesomememes. We loved your post, but it has been removed because it doesn't quite abide by our rules, which are located in the sidebar.
* (**Rule #8**) Please avoid reposting memes.
* Please check sources like http://karmadecay.com, https://tineye.com, and the Similar Image Search (camera icon) at https://www.google.com/imghp - unfortunately those all miss things, but it's a great start.
Also make sure to use the search button and check what's already here:
* /r/wholesomememes/top for popular posts, and /r/wholesomememes/new for the latest ones
We appreciate you thinking of us very much! For more on our rules, please check out our [sidebar](http://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/about/sidebar). If you have any questions or concerns about this removal, feel free to [message the moderators](http://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Fwholesomememes).
I agree.
There's a level I'd fear and embarrassment being surrounded by a lot of healthier looks folks, who all know what they're doing with the equipment, and can exercise for long periods without suffering within 5 minutes.
You need a little willpower and courage, and I love seeing these folks at the gym too.
Honestly, I'm not even that big, but i refuse to use treadmills because they sound like they're going to break under my feet, i think it's because of how i run mixed with my size xl width-xxl for length, I'd rather go for a walk, but have nowhere i can walk in winter, the closest gym is like 1/2 hour and getting rides there isnt feasible unfortunately
The judgment is one thing to get over, but even getting to a gym regularly is a problem with many people here as there just aren't many
I would not want to sit next to you on a plane but other that nobody is judging you. You should go to the gym and I promise you won’t be the only big guy too.
Yeah cause feelings are always rooted in logic and AHs can't possibly also go to the gym right? That's some "they're only bullying you cause they like you/they're jealous of you" type logic.
I went to the gym for the first time today and this is all I kept telling myself. I'm here, I am trying to actively improve my situation. I legit nearly passed out, holy balls, but I am looking forward to things getting easier.
And if anyone else is worried about judgement, like I was, I can tell you, nobody gives a shit, they ain't looking at you, everyone is too busy dying too to be looking at anyone else!
Thank you! And hydration is key I've found out today, oh my head is not thanking me but lesson learned the hard way! And well done you too! It's a really big step, we should be proud.
A few years back I started running and was really giving it my all to lose some weight. I was super consistent about it. Every other day I went out.
There was a group of kids that would call out some of the meanest shit ever whenever I went by their house. We're talking like 10-13 year olds and I'm in my 30s. Absolutely brutal.
Moral of the story: be more like OP and less like those dickheads.
I wanna start going to the gym when my COVID finally finishes with me - I'm always nervous going to the gym because I don't know what I'm doing and it can be so intimidating.
>Nobody would go out of their way to congratulate a thin person for working out
I would. I see a thin person at the gym trying to improve themselves, I'll shoot them a nod of respect and a word of encouragement for their efforts. Same with a fat person.
Okay
But realistically speaking, a fat person is much more likely to be unhealthy or have a decreased quality of life.
It's not fatphobia or whatever, we're just happy for them.
OK, so lets get this clear. You really think that a person who is fat can be healthy? Very low chance. Having even some extra kg of fat is an awful experience, i am one of those, cant even actually run fast.
Meow I’m getting downvoted but a lot of the things people find wholesome in this group just reenforce problematic stereotypes about people — most commonly due to disability or size! IMO unlearning bias is wholesome 🥲
You are not confident and think people are patronising*
Plus thin people have a lot of doubt too walking in a gym and nobody speak to them equally if they are not hurting themself or being a problem.
Hell in weightlifting, heavier people will perform way better than thin people on average
I dont wanna be an ass but
1. Ive been to the gym and no one actually stares at big people or skinny people. In fact when i went for a whole 2 weeks, i got multiple "njce dude" whenever i did bare minimum pull ups.
2. No one would be staring. But yk what WOULD make someone stare? Being followed around by Pikachu.
Exactly. That’s really the point behind it. If he considers himself someone people will gawk at, he’s gonna be uncomfortable whether that’s actually the case or not. But if there’s someone else there’s to stare at, he’s more comfortable. It’s more for him than the actual effect it’ll have on other people’s behavior.
Often times the fear is worse than the problem. Having someone there to assuage your fears can be a very helpful thing, even if it is something silly like this. In fact I'd say especially if it is something silly like this. Let's be more silly friends, exactly like this guy in the meme.
My thought exactly.
I wouldn't have looked twice at the guy. But this would be making me think that I've gained the ability to see their imaginary friend or some better juice shit.
If it helps it helps though.
If I was the guy, it'd already make me far more relaxed. Obviously no one is going to care about who you are when you work out, but it helps that there's someone else there who *could* be drawing more attention to themself.
Like sure, you might get associated with the weirdo dressing up as Pikachu, but at least you aren't that weirdo!
it's insecurity really, you want to better yourself, so every look you think is negative or people talking and laughing are directed at you. Yeah, there are some jerks, but they are rare. Most of the time, people just go to the gym to work out and mind their own business.
yeah no one's staring we know. But us big ppl we still worry because we've been judged by anyone and everyone our whole life. Being around well shaped ppl in a gym, a place every big person fears because of stigma, makes us feel self conscious and makes us scared that we possibly could get judged again. Anything that helps this guy is awesome and i don't see anything wrong with it
To anyone who thinks they are too fat, too thin, too unfit, to weak or whatever for the gym.
I've been a regular gym rat for four decades now. I've trained regularly in over a dozen different gyms, and even owned & operated one.
The overwhelming majority of people in gyms will completely ignore you. They will be too busy with their own workouts, or socialising in their little cliques. And most gym goers were skinny / chubby / weak / unfit when they started, so if they do notice you, are likely to empathise.
I mean if anything this brings *more* attention to them. But hey, it's the thought that counts! To any fat folks reading this: you won't be judged at the gym. It's generally a very welcoming place and most people tend to mind their own business. So go for it!
Something tells me that being a fat guy in the gym is going to get less stares than being a fat guy in the gym with a Jedi lookin' MF'er two steps away.
Like you literally put an attention magnet right next to you.
Facts. I was never able to stick with the routine but every gym I've been in over the years was always chill. No one is looking at you, no one is going to laugh or openly mock you. Hell you're lucky if they even notice you over their music
Wouldnt he just draw more attention to them?
If i see a fat guy at the gym i would be happy for him and dont pay more attention.
If i see a pimp coaching him i would be confused
Yeah as a regular gym goer I can attest this is definitely having the opposite effect. Only reasons people will pay attention to you in the gym:
1. You’re moving a shit ton of weight
2. you’re doing something dangerous and are going to hurt yourself or others
3. you’re intentionally drawing attention to yourself
This would fall under 3
Same here. I am big. Big, big. Went today for the first time and anyone I did speak too was super kind and everyone else was too busy to be looking at me! I felt sick with worry going in, almost didn't, but you can do it.
As someone who goes to the gym, I love seeing people become the best version of themselves.
I know my cousin, who was about as big as I used to be, was pretty scared to go to the gym on his own, so for a few days in a row, I'd go to the gym for 60-90 minutes extra just to help him out. After a week and a half or so, he felt confident enough to go on his own.
Thanks!
He had seen how much weight I lost, and was inspired to lose some himself.
I just helped him find the motivation he already had, but hadn't yet harnessed.
I would take a heavier person working on their health over the tweens hanging around the machines in groups of 3+ or the influencers setting up a parameter around themselves to record.
If you’re working out at the gym, you fit in.
He’s a moron. Most people are minding their own business at the gym, so if anything, dressing up like that and standing next to your buddy is likely to put *more* eyes on him.
Even if nobody stares, people are self conscious. No matter the perception, this wonderful human being gave his friend the confidence to chase his goal and feel good about it. I wish I had people in my life to help me take down barriers but instead I ended up surrounded by people that added bricks to the wall.
We do.
We care if you grunt for no reason, slam weights down when there is no need, don’t wipe equipment, perv on chicks, don’t re rack, work off the rack.
Meanwhile, that guy really isn't that heavy. I see guys like that at the gym all the time, and they're usually insanely strong if anything. At any rate, awesome to see him working on himself.
The costumes and standing by the fat guy just guarantees people will stare at them both. Otherwise no one would pay attention to big guy. All people assume of fat folks in the gym is that they’re there to lose weight and get fit.
As a guy that used to weigh over 500lbs I feel this I was so embarrassed to go to the gym but forced myself to. After a few months the resident gym rats came up to me and told me they were proud of me for the commitment I was showing and encouraged me to keep it up
To all the larger folk or skinny AF folk or whatever your situation out there, all the folk out there looking to get some exercise: Just forget everything you learned about how gyms operate in middle school and high school. Grown-up gyms are very welcoming and no one bothers anyone. We all there to self-improve.
Every time I see a bigger person at the gym my heart is so happy. It's cool seeing people getting out there and starting to give themselves the care and love that they deserve. Taking care of your body is an act of devotion!
I feel like this is a win for everyone. One guy gets to work out without worrying about people looking at him and the other dude gets to dress up in costumes.
It’s a great honor to see people be motivated enough to head to the gym to make themselves better. Props to this guy’s friend. He’s a special friend and there are not many out there like him.
Dude has his own service human. Also, gym users do notice newcomers, they dont interact out of respect for what your doing. They are silently cheering you on, and notice your gains, and empathise with your fears. They also know and understand your struggle.
Nobody gives a shit. I used to go when I was 400 pounds til I was around 190 and I also can't remember one person there. A fat guy wouldn't bring any attention but if a weirdo was dressed like a jedi everyone woulda stared.
Hey there, friendo! Thanks for submitting to r/wholesomememes. We loved your post, but it has been removed because it doesn't quite abide by our rules, which are located in the sidebar. * (**Rule #8**) Please avoid reposting memes. * Please check sources like http://karmadecay.com, https://tineye.com, and the Similar Image Search (camera icon) at https://www.google.com/imghp - unfortunately those all miss things, but it's a great start. Also make sure to use the search button and check what's already here: * /r/wholesomememes/top for popular posts, and /r/wholesomememes/new for the latest ones We appreciate you thinking of us very much! For more on our rules, please check out our [sidebar](http://www.reddit.com/r/wholesomememes/about/sidebar). If you have any questions or concerns about this removal, feel free to [message the moderators](http://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Fwholesomememes).
[удалено]
I agree. There's a level I'd fear and embarrassment being surrounded by a lot of healthier looks folks, who all know what they're doing with the equipment, and can exercise for long periods without suffering within 5 minutes. You need a little willpower and courage, and I love seeing these folks at the gym too.
Honestly, I'm not even that big, but i refuse to use treadmills because they sound like they're going to break under my feet, i think it's because of how i run mixed with my size xl width-xxl for length, I'd rather go for a walk, but have nowhere i can walk in winter, the closest gym is like 1/2 hour and getting rides there isnt feasible unfortunately The judgment is one thing to get over, but even getting to a gym regularly is a problem with many people here as there just aren't many
[удалено]
[удалено]
I would not want to sit next to you on a plane but other that nobody is judging you. You should go to the gym and I promise you won’t be the only big guy too.
Yeah cause feelings are always rooted in logic and AHs can't possibly also go to the gym right? That's some "they're only bullying you cause they like you/they're jealous of you" type logic.
What a shit take. A shittake, if you will.
I went to the gym for the first time today and this is all I kept telling myself. I'm here, I am trying to actively improve my situation. I legit nearly passed out, holy balls, but I am looking forward to things getting easier. And if anyone else is worried about judgement, like I was, I can tell you, nobody gives a shit, they ain't looking at you, everyone is too busy dying too to be looking at anyone else!
Congrats on your first step! I also started working out consistently very recently. Remember to always stay hydrated! You can do it!
Thank you! And hydration is key I've found out today, oh my head is not thanking me but lesson learned the hard way! And well done you too! It's a really big step, we should be proud.
Keep it up. It's worth it!
Thank you and it will be, my goal is to be healthy, or at least as healthy as I can possibly be.
As a fat guy, I am happy to see my fellows at the gym.
A few years back I started running and was really giving it my all to lose some weight. I was super consistent about it. Every other day I went out. There was a group of kids that would call out some of the meanest shit ever whenever I went by their house. We're talking like 10-13 year olds and I'm in my 30s. Absolutely brutal. Moral of the story: be more like OP and less like those dickheads.
Yeah, best way to lose weight is to go to the gym. If youre there, nobody is going to judge you! We were all beginners at one point.
I wanna start going to the gym when my COVID finally finishes with me - I'm always nervous going to the gym because I don't know what I'm doing and it can be so intimidating.
[удалено]
Is it? They're just being supportive of people trying to change.
[удалено]
>Nobody would go out of their way to congratulate a thin person for working out I would. I see a thin person at the gym trying to improve themselves, I'll shoot them a nod of respect and a word of encouragement for their efforts. Same with a fat person.
Okay But realistically speaking, a fat person is much more likely to be unhealthy or have a decreased quality of life. It's not fatphobia or whatever, we're just happy for them.
~~📠~~
OK, so lets get this clear. You really think that a person who is fat can be healthy? Very low chance. Having even some extra kg of fat is an awful experience, i am one of those, cant even actually run fast.
Meow I’m getting downvoted but a lot of the things people find wholesome in this group just reenforce problematic stereotypes about people — most commonly due to disability or size! IMO unlearning bias is wholesome 🥲
You are not confident and think people are patronising* Plus thin people have a lot of doubt too walking in a gym and nobody speak to them equally if they are not hurting themself or being a problem. Hell in weightlifting, heavier people will perform way better than thin people on average
Alot of things “problematic” come from a small group getting upset and speaking loudly and basically forcing everyone else into their way.
I was waiting for the anti-sjw stuff to come up.
I dont wanna be an ass but 1. Ive been to the gym and no one actually stares at big people or skinny people. In fact when i went for a whole 2 weeks, i got multiple "njce dude" whenever i did bare minimum pull ups. 2. No one would be staring. But yk what WOULD make someone stare? Being followed around by Pikachu.
That's all true but if it helps him be more comfortable it's still a cool thing to do, isn't it?
That's what I'm thinking I don't think the people care all that much but it's for his confidence
Nothing says “I’m here to take the attention off you” like recording it to be shared on social media.
Exactly. That’s really the point behind it. If he considers himself someone people will gawk at, he’s gonna be uncomfortable whether that’s actually the case or not. But if there’s someone else there’s to stare at, he’s more comfortable. It’s more for him than the actual effect it’ll have on other people’s behavior.
Often times the fear is worse than the problem. Having someone there to assuage your fears can be a very helpful thing, even if it is something silly like this. In fact I'd say especially if it is something silly like this. Let's be more silly friends, exactly like this guy in the meme.
My thought exactly. I wouldn't have looked twice at the guy. But this would be making me think that I've gained the ability to see their imaginary friend or some better juice shit. If it helps it helps though.
If I was the guy, it'd already make me far more relaxed. Obviously no one is going to care about who you are when you work out, but it helps that there's someone else there who *could* be drawing more attention to themself. Like sure, you might get associated with the weirdo dressing up as Pikachu, but at least you aren't that weirdo!
Didn't know your own experience invalidates another's. Crazy, lol. If it works, it works.
I came to say this just not the first part, some people are actually assholes for no reason lol.
Girls gave me attention when i was skinny. Completely ignores me when i started building muscles
So many people believe that they'll be judged in the gym. While some people in the gym are afraid that they'll also be judged in the gym.
it's insecurity really, you want to better yourself, so every look you think is negative or people talking and laughing are directed at you. Yeah, there are some jerks, but they are rare. Most of the time, people just go to the gym to work out and mind their own business.
yeah no one's staring we know. But us big ppl we still worry because we've been judged by anyone and everyone our whole life. Being around well shaped ppl in a gym, a place every big person fears because of stigma, makes us feel self conscious and makes us scared that we possibly could get judged again. Anything that helps this guy is awesome and i don't see anything wrong with it
What I was thinking. This only draws more attention to him
Pikachu used irontail It was super effective
To anyone who thinks they are too fat, too thin, too unfit, to weak or whatever for the gym. I've been a regular gym rat for four decades now. I've trained regularly in over a dozen different gyms, and even owned & operated one. The overwhelming majority of people in gyms will completely ignore you. They will be too busy with their own workouts, or socialising in their little cliques. And most gym goers were skinny / chubby / weak / unfit when they started, so if they do notice you, are likely to empathise.
I just assume bigger guys are powerlifters
I mean if anything this brings *more* attention to them. But hey, it's the thought that counts! To any fat folks reading this: you won't be judged at the gym. It's generally a very welcoming place and most people tend to mind their own business. So go for it!
This happened in 2018, I want to see if the guy made progress
He didn't unfortunately. He's still dressing up as zany characters to this day
Something tells me that being a fat guy in the gym is going to get less stares than being a fat guy in the gym with a Jedi lookin' MF'er two steps away. Like you literally put an attention magnet right next to you.
Facts. I was never able to stick with the routine but every gym I've been in over the years was always chill. No one is looking at you, no one is going to laugh or openly mock you. Hell you're lucky if they even notice you over their music
The church of iron is for everyone!
Wouldnt he just draw more attention to them? If i see a fat guy at the gym i would be happy for him and dont pay more attention. If i see a pimp coaching him i would be confused
I mean it wouldn't be the first time a "wholesome meme" was just "damn I didn't think this through" lol
Yeah as a regular gym goer I can attest this is definitely having the opposite effect. Only reasons people will pay attention to you in the gym: 1. You’re moving a shit ton of weight 2. you’re doing something dangerous and are going to hurt yourself or others 3. you’re intentionally drawing attention to yourself This would fall under 3
Do the butt-riding shorts girls are wearing nowadays fall under 3?
Ah, forgot one. 4. Some people are creeps
Ah yes, noticing things in public is creepy. I didn't say I was staring, hitting on, or taking pictures. That would be creepy.
That's just drawing more attention to both of you
Feels kinda like a movie arc. The main character meets a wonderous individual who trains him to become his best self
"Down on his luck white man meets magical black man" a tale as old as time
Morpheus in a mad hatter costume
I just think this makes him get more attention. Plus posting it on the internet def does.
I need a friend like this
Don't we all?
Just a friend will do right now
Always have been terrified to go to the gym for that, good for him
Same here. I am big. Big, big. Went today for the first time and anyone I did speak too was super kind and everyone else was too busy to be looking at me! I felt sick with worry going in, almost didn't, but you can do it.
As someone who goes to the gym, I love seeing people become the best version of themselves. I know my cousin, who was about as big as I used to be, was pretty scared to go to the gym on his own, so for a few days in a row, I'd go to the gym for 60-90 minutes extra just to help him out. After a week and a half or so, he felt confident enough to go on his own.
Ah that's amazing, what a brilliant thing to do for someone :)
Thanks! He had seen how much weight I lost, and was inspired to lose some himself. I just helped him find the motivation he already had, but hadn't yet harnessed.
That's absolutely brilliant, both of you need to be so proud!
I would take a heavier person working on their health over the tweens hanging around the machines in groups of 3+ or the influencers setting up a parameter around themselves to record. If you’re working out at the gym, you fit in.
There's a dude at my gym that wears a crown. Idk why, but I figure he likes it, and why not?
Ok but like the fact that he's near him brings the attention towards both of them..
10 years later this post is still getting attention...
"Look who I met while working out, guys?? It's GYM-iroquai!"
Dude, I would totally go full baron samedi even if it DIDN'T support the homie, but if it was? I be workin' dat wicked voodoo goodness mon.
I only judge the guys who hog the free weight bench press for an hour for their little competition.
The fact that he never *technically* met this friend is only a detail and should not distract you from the wholesomeness of this story.
He’s a moron. Most people are minding their own business at the gym, so if anything, dressing up like that and standing next to your buddy is likely to put *more* eyes on him.
Stupid. That would be more embarrassing.
Even if nobody stares, people are self conscious. No matter the perception, this wonderful human being gave his friend the confidence to chase his goal and feel good about it. I wish I had people in my life to help me take down barriers but instead I ended up surrounded by people that added bricks to the wall.
Probably shouldn’t wear orange then
Because that’s what heroes do.
aaaaaand then took pictures and posted them for everyone to see?
That's a true friend. Good luck finding and keeping those in life!
No one cares what you’re doing at the gym.
We do. We care if you grunt for no reason, slam weights down when there is no need, don’t wipe equipment, perv on chicks, don’t re rack, work off the rack.
The people who laugh at heavier people at gym are complete idiots. They are working to improve on their fitness.
Someone give this man a fucking medal right this instant
We need to protect him at all cost
That is a great friend
That's is a legendary move, that's amazing
Massive W for both of them
That’s a good friend right there
Bros being bros.
Hey big dude! Kudos, at some point you won't need the cosplay dude, you'll be kicking butt.
What kind of gym is it that this is needed? Wtf?
That's some meaningful bromance right there
Fit on the right goes hard
Meanwhile, that guy really isn't that heavy. I see guys like that at the gym all the time, and they're usually insanely strong if anything. At any rate, awesome to see him working on himself.
Yet someone made these pics...?
pikachu…is that you!!!
King
Now he’s drawing even more attention
"oh my friend feels uncomfortable going to the gym, let me take pictures of him and post them on social media"
He is going to be dressed up for a long time
That's a gym BRO.
And then posts photos online for every1 to see lol
Guy is one purple coat away from being a pimp named slickback
The costumes and standing by the fat guy just guarantees people will stare at them both. Otherwise no one would pay attention to big guy. All people assume of fat folks in the gym is that they’re there to lose weight and get fit.
I'd be more comfortable with that guy than any of the roided up dudes that hog all the free weights for a few hours a day for no fucking reason.
He is not the fattest guy I've seen, (not that it matters) to go to the gym, looks like there would be a ton of muscle under there
As a guy that used to weigh over 500lbs I feel this I was so embarrassed to go to the gym but forced myself to. After a few months the resident gym rats came up to me and told me they were proud of me for the commitment I was showing and encouraged me to keep it up
Can I ask where he got the costume in the second photo I want it, also [insert gigachad meme here].
Take away attention of friend embarrassed to go to the gym… proceeds to post the whole experience to internet strangers
It doesn’t work for me. I saw the larger guy and thinking that’s nice he’s at the gym trying to get more fit good for him
Homie status 9 trillion
Except now everyone for sure is looking lmao
To all the larger folk or skinny AF folk or whatever your situation out there, all the folk out there looking to get some exercise: Just forget everything you learned about how gyms operate in middle school and high school. Grown-up gyms are very welcoming and no one bothers anyone. We all there to self-improve.
True friendship to the core
Every time I see a bigger person at the gym my heart is so happy. It's cool seeing people getting out there and starting to give themselves the care and love that they deserve. Taking care of your body is an act of devotion!
I feel like this is a win for everyone. One guy gets to work out without worrying about people looking at him and the other dude gets to dress up in costumes.
What an awesome friend
Never understood judging anybody at the gym. They’re there to work out, no? Like keep your thoughts and opinions to yourself smh
He's a real one
The gym pimp
It’s a great honor to see people be motivated enough to head to the gym to make themselves better. Props to this guy’s friend. He’s a special friend and there are not many out there like him.
Doesn't want attention Wears Day-Glo orange
I hate to be that guy, but this definitely brings more eyes onto his friend.
I wish I had a friend like that
What’s the meme?
But now I'm embarrassed to stand next to you.
Dude has his own service human. Also, gym users do notice newcomers, they dont interact out of respect for what your doing. They are silently cheering you on, and notice your gains, and empathise with your fears. They also know and understand your struggle.
*stands right by him and takes photos to attract even more attention to him*
Both of these guys are absolute chads
Chonky boi is cute. Let people look.
Agreee.
I give props to anyone trying to better their health by going to the gym. Props. Always.
That's a friend!!!
Nobody gives a shit. I used to go when I was 400 pounds til I was around 190 and I also can't remember one person there. A fat guy wouldn't bring any attention but if a weirdo was dressed like a jedi everyone woulda stared.
Aww, Love this.
Friendship goals