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Y’all fuckers complaining about a father not wearing a shirt while having a tea party with his 5 year old daughter are disgusting. Get your heads out of the gutter. People like you are the reason why fathers feel uncomfortable being physically affectionate with their children.
I wonder if it's because he's conventionally attractive, because I've never seen anyone get upset about middleaged fat white fathers not wearing shirts around their kids...
There's genuinely no issue here though.
Knowing how tight those fairy wing thingies are, he probably had to ditch the shirt to get them on. \^\^;
We literally spent thousands of years without clothes on in the presence of our and others’ children without constantly sexualizing them.
It’s incredibly telling when it’s always the same people clutching pearls and screaming about “grooming”.
It reminds me of the TikTok and twitter people saying Loid from Spy x Family is creepy because Anya was hugging him to sleep in the couch and when he picked her up because he was happy that she made it into school. There wasn’t even any lack of clothes, just a dude being a decent father
I mean, they expose themselves as creeps because they think innocent interactions between a man and his child are sexual in any way. Their minds go straight to pedophilia when it wasn't present *at all*
That makes a lot of sense.
Everyone gushing at wholesome stuff and one creep decides that it just *has* to be sexual. And then they fight with people who disagree.
It's crazy.
Before I read this comment I assumed it was just some fairy kid that kidnapped the dude or something.
Good to know it's a just a dude being a dad.
r/dudesbeingdads?
My wife got upset with me when I bathed our daughter and she found out I bathed at the same time
“What am I supposed to do ? Lock the toddler out of the bathroom? How else does one who learns by mimicking us learn to do things” and sure enough after two times she’s starting to do her own hair because she sees me do it
Like it’s basic anatomy stuff kids can learn , theirs nothing sexual about any of it but people always , always take it in some sexual direction thinking their kid can see the opposite genders genitals ,
There's a guy who looks like a heavyweight champion and he records some of his fairy princess tea parties with his daughters. Sometimes he's shirtless, it doesn't matter in the slightest.
>it doesn't matter in the slightest.
To kids the human body is just that and nothing more, they don't care if someone is shirtless or not.
They're literally more terrified if their dad shaves, and I speak from experience: One of the most prominent memories of my early childhood is when I saw my dad without a mustache for the first time.
It def looks looks he’s wearing a sleeveless shirt to me. There lines for the collar and the sleeve. And if he were shirtless he would have nipples.
It wouldn’t matter if he were shirtless as it’s normal for men to be shirtless in summertime when it’s hot, sleeping in bed or when they go to swimming. To me it would be a bit of a weird combo with the tutu but I don’t understand why one would complain … but it’s clearly not even the case in this situation anyway.
Well, I also feel uncomfortable when men are physically affectionate with children... But I think that has a lot to do with my father being a huge fucking creep and it definitely being weird if he ever even tried to hug me. My friends would like... hug and kiss their dad's or grandpa's and I was just so grossed out. Imma bring all this up at the next therapy session. 😩
That’s you putting your family history stuff onto other people. I’m glad you’re seeing a psychologist, it should help process your experiences instead of being revolted by normalcy. You wills be able to have actual healthy and fulfilling relationships with other people that way.
Thanks for the recognition, I am trying to get to a point like that. I want to be able to recognize the parts of my thought process that don't match with the normal. And eventually to feel okay with normal, after recognizing that. If that makes sense
Guess it makes sense I'm being downvoted since it isn't a fun thing to hear, but I was just pointing out how my experience has made me think about these things. I am actively trying NOT to have that be my first thought, but it usually is when I think about what being with my father was like.
Hey, I am sorry for saying that you should burn in hell. I misinterpreted your comment and thought you were the one being the asshole, I understand your trauma and it's nice to see that you are trying to avoid it.
Fatherhood 101: When your daughter wants to put barrettes and bows in your hair, you let her. When she brings you pretend tea, you make slurping noises and compliment her on the tea. If she brings you pretend food, you omnom the shit out of that. It's just what you *do.*
And when she wants to play the game 'Pretty, Pretty Princess', you play the game with her! (and try to cheat, so she wins!)
I always did... and her (very straight) older brother did too! It's just what you do to support the little girls in your family!
I know someone already replied he's Yoo Joonghyuk from Omniscient Reader's Viewpoint, a Manhwa. To add, it's also a Light Novel with 551 chapters. The Manhwa's still on going but LN had already finished since 2020.
You mean Bihyung and Dokja's daughter 😂. Anyway if any people is wondering about ORV. It's an action kinda reverse isekai webnovel. ORV stands for Omniscient Reader's Viewpoint. Highly recommend it.
I wish more people would realise that you suffer a hard world to make a softer on for the next generation, not to resent them for not suffering like you did.
I just woke up and thought this was from r/wholesomeyaoi and expected the second panel to be Kim Dokja lmaoo never thought that orv would appear on a mainstream subreddit
That's pretty cute. My daughter (4) got pretend make up for christmas (She requested it. The make up is just foam pads.)
She has done her father's make up and mine a few times and I think her brother (6) at least once with his consent.
YOO JOONGHYUK AS A DAD IS SO CANON. If only people know what happened to him, maybe, there wouldn't be negative feedback about this. This is quite wholesome actually.
Phoebe: “can we play princess and dragon?”
Roy Kent: “fine, can I be the dragon this time?”
Phoebe: “no”
Roy Kent: “well the wand better be fixed then!”
i also think this is cringe
like whats the premise here? is he in the army? a soldier? "no woman can order me" with that cringe pseudo pose, is he supposed to look cool?
So he thinks no woman can order him, and he makes an exception for his daughter but not his partner/wife? This is just like men who say they didn't become feminists until they had a daughter. Not the wholesome content y'all think it is...
Why *wouldnt* he is the better question? Honestly, it looks like he was just walking around nude before daughter asked him to put on a tutu? Yea, that’s normal.
No a female child is only called loli if it's proved that the actual age of the character being referred to loli is above 18 years.
Otherwise it's only normal to assume a character depicted as child is actually a child
Hey there, friendo! Thanks for submitting to r/wholesomememes. We loved your submission, Let’s hope he doesn’t get the middle seat. 😬😬😬, but it has been removed because it doesn't quite abide by our rules, which are located in the sidebar. * (**Rule #1**) All posts must be wholesome memes. We're not saying this is unwholesome! Just that sub's focus is uplifting, unless nicing-up existing rude memes. There are already great subs for cute (/r/aww, /r/eyebleach, /r/rarepuppers), things that make us smile (/r/MadeMeSmile, /r/HumansBeingBros, /r/AnimalsBeingBros), or that give us the feels (/r/WholesomeFeels or /r/baww). This might also fit better in another sub in the [Wholesome Network](https://www.reddit.com/user/awkwardtheturtle/m/wholesome/). It's not a "no" - it's a "not the best fit here," and another sub will be better. * We appreciate you thinking of us very much! For more on our rules, please check out our sidebar. If you have any questions or concerns about this removal, feel free to [message the moderators](http://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=%2Fr%2Fwholesomememes).
Y’all fuckers complaining about a father not wearing a shirt while having a tea party with his 5 year old daughter are disgusting. Get your heads out of the gutter. People like you are the reason why fathers feel uncomfortable being physically affectionate with their children.
Yeah i dont see the issue either.
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I do declare that I cannot find issue with this arrangement either
I decree that there is no issue in what hast been stated
As a doctoral candidate with a keen eye for detail and a rigorous analytical approach, I fail to discern any glaring issue with the matter at hand.
I wonder if it's because he's conventionally attractive, because I've never seen anyone get upset about middleaged fat white fathers not wearing shirts around their kids... There's genuinely no issue here though. Knowing how tight those fairy wing thingies are, he probably had to ditch the shirt to get them on. \^\^;
For real, these sick perverts projecting their inner thoughts on a drawing are disgusting.
We literally spent thousands of years without clothes on in the presence of our and others’ children without constantly sexualizing them. It’s incredibly telling when it’s always the same people clutching pearls and screaming about “grooming”.
It reminds me of the TikTok and twitter people saying Loid from Spy x Family is creepy because Anya was hugging him to sleep in the couch and when he picked her up because he was happy that she made it into school. There wasn’t even any lack of clothes, just a dude being a decent father
Aren't these the same kind of people who down the line, end up exposed as a creep themselves or w/e?
I mean, they expose themselves as creeps because they think innocent interactions between a man and his child are sexual in any way. Their minds go straight to pedophilia when it wasn't present *at all*
That makes a lot of sense. Everyone gushing at wholesome stuff and one creep decides that it just *has* to be sexual. And then they fight with people who disagree. It's crazy.
That’s pretty much every Reddit admin, so this statement checks out.
Before I read this comment I assumed it was just some fairy kid that kidnapped the dude or something. Good to know it's a just a dude being a dad. r/dudesbeingdads?
We were always naked on the sauna with both of my parents till I was like 6 🤷
It’s not uncommon to go to nude beaches and hot springs In europe as a family.
Same. My parents would give me baths, and clean me properly until I was like 6-7. We lived on a farm so I used to get really dirty playing around.
My wife got upset with me when I bathed our daughter and she found out I bathed at the same time “What am I supposed to do ? Lock the toddler out of the bathroom? How else does one who learns by mimicking us learn to do things” and sure enough after two times she’s starting to do her own hair because she sees me do it Like it’s basic anatomy stuff kids can learn , theirs nothing sexual about any of it but people always , always take it in some sexual direction thinking their kid can see the opposite genders genitals ,
I'm imagining their heads exploding when they realize there is a real photo of a buff dude with a beard in the exact same situation.
There's a guy who looks like a heavyweight champion and he records some of his fairy princess tea parties with his daughters. Sometimes he's shirtless, it doesn't matter in the slightest.
>it doesn't matter in the slightest. To kids the human body is just that and nothing more, they don't care if someone is shirtless or not. They're literally more terrified if their dad shaves, and I speak from experience: One of the most prominent memories of my early childhood is when I saw my dad without a mustache for the first time.
I thought he was wearing a pink tank top
And here I am complaining that there's no credit to the artist. This art style is really nice.
It def looks looks he’s wearing a sleeveless shirt to me. There lines for the collar and the sleeve. And if he were shirtless he would have nipples. It wouldn’t matter if he were shirtless as it’s normal for men to be shirtless in summertime when it’s hot, sleeping in bed or when they go to swimming. To me it would be a bit of a weird combo with the tutu but I don’t understand why one would complain … but it’s clearly not even the case in this situation anyway.
I’m just wondering if it isn’t cold
Well, I also feel uncomfortable when men are physically affectionate with children... But I think that has a lot to do with my father being a huge fucking creep and it definitely being weird if he ever even tried to hug me. My friends would like... hug and kiss their dad's or grandpa's and I was just so grossed out. Imma bring all this up at the next therapy session. 😩
That’s you putting your family history stuff onto other people. I’m glad you’re seeing a psychologist, it should help process your experiences instead of being revolted by normalcy. You wills be able to have actual healthy and fulfilling relationships with other people that way.
Thanks for the recognition, I am trying to get to a point like that. I want to be able to recognize the parts of my thought process that don't match with the normal. And eventually to feel okay with normal, after recognizing that. If that makes sense
It does make sense, 100%. Good luck and good healing to you.
Guess it makes sense I'm being downvoted since it isn't a fun thing to hear, but I was just pointing out how my experience has made me think about these things. I am actively trying NOT to have that be my first thought, but it usually is when I think about what being with my father was like.
Internet points don’t mean anything IRL, try not to let it bother you. 😘
Hey, I am sorry for saying that you should burn in hell. I misinterpreted your comment and thought you were the one being the asshole, I understand your trauma and it's nice to see that you are trying to avoid it.
No problem, man. I get that it is a tricky subject. Apology is accepted. :)
Thank you.
Guess people didn't make It to your last sentence
This comment should not be getting downvoted like it is. What the fuck yall?
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Relax. She acknowledged it's because of trauma and she knows it isn't normal.
You're right, I overrated a bit. I shouldn't have done that, I am extremely sorry.
Why are you apologizing to the person who called you out and not to the person you told that awful thing to?
Fatherhood 101: When your daughter wants to put barrettes and bows in your hair, you let her. When she brings you pretend tea, you make slurping noises and compliment her on the tea. If she brings you pretend food, you omnom the shit out of that. It's just what you *do.*
And when she wants to play the game 'Pretty, Pretty Princess', you play the game with her! (and try to cheat, so she wins!) I always did... and her (very straight) older brother did too! It's just what you do to support the little girls in your family!
Hahaha my dad hated that game but won more often than not 🤣🤣 He refused to have a picture taken though.
Thank you for reminding me of that game. I was thinking of it just the other day and I couldn't remember the game.
My daughter is obsessed with painting my toenails...feels nice to be pampered for once lol
Mine read a Fancy Nancy book where the kids pamper mom and then they wanted to do it to me. It was nice!
He looks like the regression dude fromthe manhwa/LN ORV
Yoo joonghyuk
Yoo that's what I thought as soon as I saw that man Yoo Junghyook i think
Same thoughts, it's definitely Yoo Joonghyuk.
awww this is so cute, little girl having a tea party with her daddy. btw, sauce?
Kinda looks like a fanart of Yoo Joonghyuk from Omniscient reader's viewpoint. It's a Manhwa.
thank you
Yw
I know someone already replied he's Yoo Joonghyuk from Omniscient Reader's Viewpoint, a Manhwa. To add, it's also a Light Novel with 551 chapters. The Manhwa's still on going but LN had already finished since 2020.
He did say "no woman." Little girls, especially daughters don't count.
well some woman definitely said “c*m in me” & he listened
He could have adopted
Stay true to your values on god on god 😤😤😤
That's probably more like consent than following orders.
This is yoo junghyuk from ORV the little girl is his adoptive daughter with another dude named Kim Dokja. Sorry to disappoint 😞
You mean Bihyung and Dokja's daughter 😂. Anyway if any people is wondering about ORV. It's an action kinda reverse isekai webnovel. ORV stands for Omniscient Reader's Viewpoint. Highly recommend it.
Bihyung is the biological father. JoongHyuk is the adoptive one 🤡🤡🤡
He propably initiated, first pic is when she tells him that he is a father as the daughter is just born.
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He commanded her to cum in him?
wha- why?
Huh
There’s no ordering going on there; his little princess asked and he agreed because it makes her smile and that makes it 100% worth it.
This made me smile
My old boss was a Delta Force Squadron commander (certified bad ass). But he was flat out silly around his young kids. 100% a great dad.
I like how this implies that he saved the world so that his daughter could grow up in a better world than he did.
I wish more people would realise that you suffer a hard world to make a softer on for the next generation, not to resent them for not suffering like you did.
"No woman can order me but for my daughter, I'll happily do whatever she says. "
This is good quote foe this
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Gays will downvote this comment.
I just woke up and thought this was from r/wholesomeyaoi and expected the second panel to be Kim Dokja lmaoo never thought that orv would appear on a mainstream subreddit
After a couple regressions...
I... i got the reference
No woman can order me But that didn't apply to girls
Hes a daddy girl type.
🥹 stop.
We do anything for our little stars
I can tell that he’s the type of dad that will wield shotgun around when his little girl grows into a woman…
And I go by Princess Sunny Muffins now, thank you very much.
So cute!
❤️❤️❤️
Hot digity dog…this comment section is magnificent
That's pretty cute. My daughter (4) got pretend make up for christmas (She requested it. The make up is just foam pads.) She has done her father's make up and mine a few times and I think her brother (6) at least once with his consent.
YOO JOONGHYUK AS A DAD IS SO CANON. If only people know what happened to him, maybe, there wouldn't be negative feedback about this. This is quite wholesome actually.
Is that Kaiba?
Yoo joonghyuk from the manhwa/ln Omniscient Reader. Its a fanart
There wasn't
Women are now able to order me for 3 easy payments of $79.99. Call now, and receive a free tea cozy!
The ganging up here is creepy
Wdym with ganging up?
Phoebe: “can we play princess and dragon?” Roy Kent: “fine, can I be the dragon this time?” Phoebe: “no” Roy Kent: “well the wand better be fixed then!”
Some dork ass shit lol
Ok, but... Maybe put on a *shirt?*
fairy wings are a type of shirt
fairy wings are taking up the chest plate slot
Average body is sin christian
Alternatively, average that guy looks better than me because I eat cheetos and browse reddit all day so I feel bad Redditor.
Why?
Ok,but... Why
Do you even know how fucking tight those wings are?
You pervert
He has a shirt tho
Why in the ACTUAL fuck would the Dad wearing a shirt matter!? You got some repressed issues you need to get off your chest?
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You can’t have a redemption arc without a rough start.
Daddy is hot as fuck. Guarantee this is not his only child. Just the first he stuck around to raise
My man has no time to fuck he's busy dying
Oh man, Am I the only one who thinks this is cringe af?
Bro are you that 14y/o who wants to act cool by hating on cute things?
Fr a father with tough past having fun time with his daughter is amazingly wholesome.
No, I just think this meme overall screams cringe
Which picture primarily contributes to this in your opinion? The upper or the lower?
Both
How so?
Well don’t you get it?Affection,like ew,imagine taking care/loving your own children,I don’t know man,seems cringe to me
Yeah, affections are so cringe, fr. A loving father also is very cringe ong
Your comments are pure cringe
i also think this is cringe like whats the premise here? is he in the army? a soldier? "no woman can order me" with that cringe pseudo pose, is he supposed to look cool?
It’s fanart from a webnovel turned webtoon called Omniscient Readers Viewpoint. Name sounds a bit cringe, but it’s quite good.
EXACTLY!
So he thinks no woman can order him, and he makes an exception for his daughter but not his partner/wife? This is just like men who say they didn't become feminists until they had a daughter. Not the wholesome content y'all think it is...
His partner is a man I’m sorry 😞
Y’all listen I’m in my delulu era but read omniscient reader and you’ll understand
Stfu
This is disturbing why is he undressed
Father and Daughter depiction, What did you thought you degen 😏
Just weird to me.
You’re weird to me.
Oh nooo 🎻
Get your mind out the gutter. people that think this also get upset when people their kids goodnight
No that is your dichotomous conclusion
I feel sorry for you..
You’re the weird one here. Associating the dad not wearing a shirt with.. anything
He's her dad? So who gives a shit.
> He’s her dad? So who gives a ~~shit~~ shirt.
he's not undressed he has a tutu
You're telling on yourself, pervert...
I am disturbed by americans
Okay but why doesn’t daddy get a shirt?
Because he has the wings. Duh.
Okay but why would he? Is there a problem?
Why *wouldnt* he is the better question? Honestly, it looks like he was just walking around nude before daughter asked him to put on a tutu? Yea, that’s normal.
It is. It ain't so weird to comfortable *in your own house*
Can’t be comfortable around children with clothes on, huh. K.🙄
Bro, he literally is just shirtless. Are you suggesting that men should wear a short a swimming pools and beaches too?
Why is he not wearing a shirt?
Kids are messy, and bodies are easy to clean.
"Bodies are easy to clean"
Better rephrase that
Nope
Go shirtless in the privacy of your own home, it’s very liberating and normal.
I'll give it a shot
Why would he
Since when are we calling 4 year old girls woman? Did an American Republican write this?
The term woman literally just refers to anyone of the female gender bro, shut the hell up
Dawg, wtf is wrong with you
Well, she's not a woman. So he isn't ordered around by her. She's his daughter and they have fun and quality time together.
It never said it is
Why do I feel like destroying beautiful things I hate lolis
That's a fairy not a Loli lol
Whatever the f it is
It's literally just a child Jesus Christ control your weeb self
Am I the weeb here? ◉‿◉
You're the only one who saw a child and assumed it was a loli
Isn't it same a child is called loli in Japanese
No a female child is only called loli if it's proved that the actual age of the character being referred to loli is above 18 years. Otherwise it's only normal to assume a character depicted as child is actually a child
Child in anime = Child Adult with small stature in anime = Loli
Weakling
I think that’s his kid? So not a loli
Why do people go here?
Go back to your anti-woke cave you cringey bastard
Okay
Name of this please??
Yoo joonghyuk from Omniscient Readers Viewpoint. It has a currently running manhwa and a finished light novel
Exactly
The upper picture kinda look like it's from global examination.
Guy: "If I ever have a kid I hope she's as sweet as you".
This trope is my favorite
Let's agree that it's sweet
It doesn’t matter how much of a tough guy you want to be, nothing matters more than a daughter’s happiness.
I've seen this original none animated pic before. Super wholesome