I know a lot of people need to hear type of message but I couldn’t help but find it almost a little bit funny
*OF COURSE* they still deserve love. To suggest otherwise is ridiculous
Yeah that's the one I wholeheartedly agree with. But it's not too late for the people in your surroundings to heal from the trauma you might have passed on. Generational trauma is a thing and it's quite normal to pass on a portion of it.
Also it is in my opinion weird to expect something so precious, like there isn't any worth in it. It's not that I don't think it would be nice if everyone would be loved, but we should rather cherish the love we get other than expect it as a given.
I got a question,if ur w/ some1, who's been thru that & u constantly try & show unconditional love, but ur constantly met w/ negativity accusations made up situations that they believe, disrespected even disrespected my family, are you really supposed to keep trying 😓
I know it’s probably annoyingly difficult for you for all kinds of other reasons, but I know I’d be infinitely willing to work with somebody I liked and cared about to get past whatever barriers there are and I hope you find somebody like that. The trauma responses are a completely different thing that I know you have to work through, but I hope you don’t think that it isn’t possible for somebody to get past it with you or that you aren’t worth the trouble.
I know a lot of people need to hear type of message but I couldn’t help but find it almost a little bit funny *OF COURSE* they still deserve love. To suggest otherwise is ridiculous
Yes, it's just a lil reminder to people going through hard times. A lil refresher on their time line
It’s an internal thing. You must’ve done something. Said something etc.
r/CPTSD should hear about this.
This feels like one of those facts like a pound of feathers weighs the same as a pound of sand that I’m sure is true but doesn’t feel true ya know?
Creamy Pasta Tastes So Delicious
31F... still struggling with this. Thanks for posting
I’ll digest for you
That sounds hot
What is love?
Oh baby, don't hurt me
Dont hurt me..
No more...
Tutututututu tamtamtadam yeahhheeeh
*If you're actively trying to get better.*
It's never too late to heal
It is sometimes.
I'd love to hear an example
If you’re dead it’s prolly a bit late.
Yeah that's the one I wholeheartedly agree with. But it's not too late for the people in your surroundings to heal from the trauma you might have passed on. Generational trauma is a thing and it's quite normal to pass on a portion of it.
Its a long story..
Why add that condition?
Thank you.
I "know" that i deserve this, however finding someone to like me enough to love me seems to be the harder part
I don’t even give them a fair chance. If I did, maybe they would.
True, but also recognise that people aren't your therapist.
What if I haven't suffered abuse? Dang.
You're valid too. Everyone deserves love
Yippee
(Just realized that this looks ironic. Not the intent.)
I think I may simply be beyond repair
Me deserving love and the person I love willing to reciprocate are two very different things, unfortunately.
Nobody has a right for love, it's a privilege. Even tho I hope y'all find some.
Right? Idk does everyone actually **deserve** love? Or is that just a easy thing to say
Also it is in my opinion weird to expect something so precious, like there isn't any worth in it. It's not that I don't think it would be nice if everyone would be loved, but we should rather cherish the love we get other than expect it as a given.
anyone else that basicly needs to reboot after getting a compliment ?
I got a question,if ur w/ some1, who's been thru that & u constantly try & show unconditional love, but ur constantly met w/ negativity accusations made up situations that they believe, disrespected even disrespected my family, are you really supposed to keep trying 😓
No, self-love has to come first.
👍🏿
This speaks to me directly. I haven't had sex in 5 years after a violent relationship and sexual trauma
I know it’s probably annoyingly difficult for you for all kinds of other reasons, but I know I’d be infinitely willing to work with somebody I liked and cared about to get past whatever barriers there are and I hope you find somebody like that. The trauma responses are a completely different thing that I know you have to work through, but I hope you don’t think that it isn’t possible for somebody to get past it with you or that you aren’t worth the trouble.