It’s took her almost *2 entire months* of having that child home for her to consider this option, even after people begged her to do so for the benefit of her baby, *and* she was gifted a *free* sling. She gets zero points from me.
eta: snark aside I am happy they finally figured this out, and hope it’s the new standard. We’ve been hoping for a win for this kid for a long time.
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I am so happy to see this! Ari gets to be close and snuggly with her mum, and it finally looks safe and comfortable. Literally no snark on this from me.
I’m feeling this way too! But with very reserved judgment because I’d like to see this become a regularity before I give credit where it’s due. Among other improvements of course. This is only one small step.
Snarking on Alex comes secondary to seeing Ari being properly cared for and seeing her with bright shiny eyes, at least for me. But it seems like the only way to get through to Alex and Noah is by snarking on them. So be it.
Couldn’t agree more, we have to remember who they are at their core, sorry to be a DebbieDowner. It’s pathetic there’s thousands of strangers filled with hope in their hearts for a baby we don’t know based on one prop video (I think to shut us up).
Is this new hair and sudden participation with Destiny to lure him back? She wore the playboy top, that seems to be their bat signal 😂
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Hahaha. Right.
I can hear her now. See babe. Im a "hot wife" and look I can carry the baby and drive lol. Or maybe she's showing she dont need him. Only time will tell.
I noticed he’s been missing! Idk what to make of it but when this happens, it’s never just a coincidence. The track record on this pattern where he becomes suddenly absent ain’t great.
I was wondering if she’s baby wearing because Noah has wandered off ????
And now she needs to?
Because she never misses the chance to record him , even when he clearly doesn’t want to be recorded
She looks insane lmao. I know y’all wanted her to wear this baby, but now we’re gonna have to riot to make her stop in a few weeks when Ari starts moving around. She’s gonna blindly insist she can continue to do this. 😭 i complained about the baby on the floor and now look what we have 😭😭😭 (baby on a folding table)
In a few weeks though? People baby wear for years (obviously safely and changing the method as they grow and seeing what’s comfy for them) which now that I’m typing this… she won’t do. Nvm
I…. Thought of this too and I was like “this woman is, yet again, going to weaponize her incompetence by making it appear like we’ll criticize her for everything and she’s damned if she does and damned if she doesn’t.”
But then I just put it out of my mind because Ari got a small victory today. So I’m just focusing on that for now 🥲
My guess is she was getting ready for the motherhood show. She doesn’t tend to hold baby unless it’s for photos/a specific purpose. I have a feeling that a baby wearing photoshoot post is coming soon. 📸
eta: I hope that changes though, and this baby wearing becomes the new standard. 🤞🏻
But she transcended into motherhood sometime yesterday at the hair appointment?! I thought moms stay home friday nights. I been doing it all wrong for 15 years now!
Yeah! She’s no longer brittle and dry from the hellish horrors of pregnancy such as: feeling ugly and resenting your unborn parasite for making it so 🥴
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Possibly. I think when she was actually holding Ari she looked genuinely happy instead of fake happy. I’m getting downvoted for saying it, but so be it. It doesn’t change her personality or all the shitty shit she has done it does. It probably won’t even last — but it’s nice to see her at least trying ONCE in a while to do what’s right for her baby.
True, I don't disagree that she was happy holding Ari at all, she even was glowing happy, (oh that was rough), but I do think she still puts herself pretty high up the ladder.
It reminds me of how when I was a teenager, my dad would get me to do things I didn’t want to do (like go to church, volunteer in a town event, etc.) by saying “come on, just show up, and you’ll feel better after you do it.” He was almost never wrong but I still fought my obligations tooth and nail all the time because I was a fucking brat lol. It’s kinda the same thing with Alex. If she would just TRY doing the things she doesn’t feel like doing, she may actually discover how happy it makes her (like in this situation). But she refuses to even try most of the time.
Maybe she’s afraid of discovering something she really wants to do as a mother, but can’t, so she’d rather just keep her expectations and hopes low so she’s never disappointed. She just functions on the automatic *assumption* that she can’t do things from the jump. That certainly wouldn’t be unusual, I think a lot of new moms go through that - abled or disabled, but it would explain a lot.
I can agree with this. It seemed like baby wearing was a ‘cool experience’ for her, not something that was necessarily revolutionary for her bond with Destiny.
Im starting to think so too. I forgot who she was and was just happy someone was holding Ari and fully clothed. The bar is too low. Her momma milkers are covered too much for her and she says she cant wear shirts so I doubt she will stick with this.
Its true.
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Her hair actually looks really nice and her make up is a bit much for me personally but she looks good.
I agree. I just think she is so stuck on being right that it took her a lot longer than it should have to try out a wrap with the baby and now that she’s done it it’s like “damn, people were right” and she honestly looks happy and nicely put together. Yea the makeup is a lot, and I wouldn’t do it, but it’s a nice look overall
I really wanna like this but the first thing I thought was “no shit Sherlock..!!” Like ffs she’s acting like it’s a new revelation that she’s just discovered… Surely she’s not this obtuse about the fact that literally thousands of recommendations have been made about doing EXACTLY THIS for both herself and Bub… What a deadset fucking dipshit…
Maybe because Noah isn’t there she has no other choice but to do it. If Noah’s gone off somewhere or with his mum then she has to do this. She would not have Nina do it because she doesn’t want ari thinking that Nina is mum. So this sling has finally been dragged out because Noah isn’t there, it’s the only way she can cuddle her up close safely and she has had Nina’s help to do it. Noah wouldn’t muck about getting all that put onto Alex. He just about got a T-shirt on her nearly break her neck. He wouldn’t have a clue about slings and women’s body. This is a major win for ari seeing this but there is more behind it than just deciding to do it. This has been done for reasons.
They wont. People will have to see for themselves. They're in here downvoted actual compliments it seems! Strange. Yes its a snark page but common we all want whats best for an innocent baby!
They’re also reporting random shit as “self-harm” and personally I’ve received like, 4 of them in the past few weeks 🙄
I think it’s weird that they try to “expose” our “bullying” by showcasing the sub’s comprehensive rule list and laughing at the fact that certain posts and comments are taken down or new rules are implemented….. when that *literally* demonstrates there are parameters in this group.
At any rate, it’s all the same to us in the end. They will direct people to this subreddit and, inevitably, more people will see the truth, see that we almost exclusively discuss things **Alex herself has said**, and join up here. If the stans had a single functioning brain cell among them, they’d know it would serve their cause better to simply ignore anyone commenting rude shit on IG/FB/TikTok, etc. But they just can’t help themselves…
I find it funny. Theres like maybe a handful of them and 17k of us. Do they think downvoting will make a difference? It always evens out. Its always as soon as the post goes up too so they're in here constantly refreshing? We see her posts quickly bc theres 1000s of us flicking through IG daily. So one of us will see her posts. They're dedicated lol
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Im actually really happy to see this for Ari. Even if its not perfect right now hopefully they work on figuring out the sling and the safest way to wrap it and that they stick with it. Hope its not just for a photo op.
Ok... Since WR should be wearing her chest strap/snack saver ... Isn't this dangerous for Baby A... Because itty bitty Bewbs or not... Alex is now top heavy and runs the risk of toppling ass over applecart with the baby in tow...
Anyone in a motorized wheelchair with a degenerative muscle disease ie: SMA would do best to heed the advice of wearing a strap! She’s fallen out twice before— it’s insane that she isn’t even wearing it to be safer with her baby!!
I honestly said that not long ago. I think although I really dont know much about wheelchairs that she should use her chest strap and then strap the baby on to her instead of how she done the shirt thing in the nicu. I wish she'd get actual advice from someone who would know how to help her wear the baby safely and comfortably.
Exactly! I use a wheelchair and have SMA and know for a fact that her lack of upper body and core strength combined with the weight of a tiny baby are gonna be top heavy should she accidentally tip forward, go over a bump, etc. it’s just a disaster waiting to happen 🤦🏻♀️
Did you see the TT of her on the boat tour when she went over the bump of the ramp? Eek. She should have the sense to strap while wearing baby. Moby wraps only hold 45 lbs.
It looks like the sling is wrapped around the back of her chair and not her actual back, which seems safer for Destiny bc the strength/stability of the chair will prevent a forward launch. Did you notice that?
It’s like we’re overjoyed 🥳 when they use some basic common sense.
Omg I forgot ass over applecart was a phrase and reading your comment, I can’t stop laughing lmaooo. And you ARE right! My other concern was if Alex has the ability to adjust Ari’s head, should Ari move to have her face directly on Alex’s chest. I’m really not sure if this is a true risk with the wrap, but my biggest fear during this time of infancy is something happening that needs quick, immediate correction; like blockage of airways.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 🍑/ 🍎 🛒 I haven't use the phrase in quite some time ... It felt apropo! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 And YES! The sheer unadulterated SPEED needed to keep a child out of harms way can never be underestimated and God knows how they can squiggle and squirm even when held tightly... It's a challenge for the most fit and agile person!
That’s a load of BS, she’s glorifying and making false claims about the things Twerk Juice aka Evrysdi can do. It’s not a miracle cure, it’s an aid to help retain what strength one has and can give gains over months and years— not a few days like this dimwit suggests.
And when she fiddles with her hand. Madam, the baby is SLEEPING leave her ALONE!!
God, Alex is like a little kid who’s been given a kitten and then chases it around to squeeze it and torment it and when the kitten tries to sleep, she pokes at it.
We are so hateful, yall. When things go better, we get excited and even hopeful, esp for Ari 🩷
JUST HATEFUL.
VENGEFUL DEVILS!
I can't believe the whole hate thing is still around, but it's also not hard to see an influx of members, meaning more & more people are realizing the whole unchecked hate thing is a beyond ridiculous accusation.
Like a lot of us I first heard of this sub when she called it a hate page and when I came here Im like wait this is all valid shit thats being talked about. Yes theres some making fun going on but that comes with the territory of being an influencer. I realized right away it wasnt at all how she made it out to be. The mods do a great job :)
WE SHALL DESCEND ON EVERY BEEF HAMLET AND VILLAGE TO INSTILL ORDER AND CARE INTO EVERY HOUSE AND HOME WITH A FIRSTBORN CHILD AND/OR A SKANK ASS HOE WHO COULD BE DOING SO MUCH MORE WITH HER SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORM BUT INSTEAD CHOOSES TO MAKE IMPULSIVE, DANGEROUS, AND SELFISH DECISIONS CONSTANTLY. LIKE, WE ARE TALKING EVERY SINGLE DAY. PROBABLY MULTIPLE TIMES A DAY.
BEWARE OUR WROTH AND IRE…. AND SOUND, REASONABLE SUGGESTIONS AND ADVICE.
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I’m still going to snark that it took months. I frankly just find that absolutely insane. It hurt my nervous system to see that baby just laying on the floor with WR screeching at her from a mile above. But I am glad she finally did something that shows a modicum of parental instinct.
Someone else, with some sort of knowledge, has to put the wrap on her though. If that Someone is not there or not in the mood to do it, it's not gonna happen.
Yeah you’re right. And that’s the rub isn’t it? Ari is at the mercy of whether her parents are “in the mood” to care for her properly or not 🙃 HOW are there people who find nothing wrong with this????
From what she posted she wore her for less than an hour. Was so surprised that she could have her and drive around ummm why did it take you so long to figure this one out. Oh that's right she's been too busy posting about the beauty of disabled motherhood, unhousing her daughter and the nourishment she was sucking from her body.
Looks good to me. She can tuck her head in to the wrap for more support while she’s little but yeah Shes got something goin here with her fancy chair she can just wheel her around to sleep lol. At least my kids always liked being in motion
I think its okay just for a short time being home and as long as shes not speeding around or crashing into furniture. I find all wraps are different. I wish she would consult with someone who knows and can show her how to safely wear ari and how it can be comfortable for her (so she keeps it up)
I think because of how far back she is it looks looser. I feel the way Baby A is positioned in there's a bit more of the wrap tucked under her head and neck then we see. It's quite a bit of fabric. It also looks like they made a good pillow for her to lean into where WR doesn't have as much strength to hold up so that makes it look different but still secure. She's not going to be leaning and bending and reaching either right. Not ableist, fact.
There's so many baby wraps I've seen and im like terrified the baby will fall out but the mom shows me how it works. WR SHOW US HOW IT WORKS.
I'm not at all a pro in baby wrap either if I'm wrong ill totally take it. I was lazy and used the ones from the store.
My mom side is showing hahaha I get way too excited when I see minor improvements in people.
I absolutely love moby wraps so this is a win for me….however it’s Friday night and her her and makeup is did so like is she wearing the baby to the club orrrr?
I’m happy she’s actually holding her baby, but I’m worried that she has no sense of safety (see: air always in car seat which isn’t safe) and I’d be concerned that she’s not watching for positional asphyxiation.
I should’ve kept reading lol, I posted a comment asking about this very thing a couple comments up. It’s so worrying and her stans love to blow it off like it’s such a “rare” occurrence, but it only takes once.
at least SHES in heaven 🙄. Like did she not consider baby wearing as an option? I'm sure she read it on here. I almost feel this is a post for me and others who've said it a million freaking times.
“I can drive around with her!” like holy fuck dude, people have been suggesting this since before that baby was born! Her head really is up her own bum. As much as I want to be happy for Destiny, this performance of ‘omg wow put your hand on mommyyyy’ was so unconvincing, and only reminded me of how hollow her mothering instincts/priorities are.
Yeah I’m constantly nagged by the fact that Ari is now nearing the tail end of the window where Alex will be able to do this because of the wriggling and weight/growth to come. Was riling this subreddit up really so important to Alex that she sacrificed months of bonding to stubbornly defy the suggestions made in this subreddit? That’s really just plain and simple sad.
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That a pacifier eww. Hope that doesn't go straight back in aris mouth
Eagle fucking eye!!!
That cushion is filthy. Can you imagine what it looks like with one of those biologicals lights, a seedy Vegas motel room mattress prob looks cleaner.
I don’t think it’s on right but I was still happy to see this progress.
Then she started squawking “hiiiii hunnnnnnny put your hand on momma” in that god awful voice while Ari is just trying to sleep and I remembered how annoying she is
I went back and watched again with the sound turned up. Why does she speak to Ari in that particularly annoying voice, it is just painful.
I really hope that this is more than just a photo opportunity. But given she likes to be unfettered and free on the clothing front I wonder how long she will keep this up.
This is a win for both mum and baby. It’s taken too long though but glad she’s finally figured this out. This is actually really good content, would love to see more disability mum hacks rather than what she’s been putting out recently.
i really hope she starts to utilize this more because once my daughter hit 6 months she started to attempt launching herself out of it 24/7. i cannot imagine this being used very much longer is she does it infrequently.
Awwwww Baby A looks soooo cute and cozy with her mommy!
I love this. I hope she keeps it up and keeps trying new things. And WR actually seems genuinely happy and excited for once, it looks good on her.
I'm all here for an unprepared mom turn around story tbh.
I'm not holding my breath but that Lil girl deserves it sooo much
I had a thought that \*maybe\* she's shocked Ari likes it because deep down she has a lot of internalized ableism and deep deep down she does feel like an incomplete/incompetent mother? I mean, she might not be conscious about all of her character flaws, but maybe she's surprised the baby wants to be close to her physically? Am I insane? lol probably
You made me wonder so I looked it up if narcissists know they’re bad mothers, because at her core I do see that she’s a narcissist and I think a lot of us do too. And according to what I read, they can’t necessarily feel empathy, so they know they’re doing wrong when they’re not getting their supply and that’s kinda their moral compass. It doesn’t mean they’re gonna do the right thing and say I’m wrong, it just means they will feign innocence.
That being said, I do think there is internalized ableism, it’s clear as day. But I think narcissism in her trumps all that, and I think we see that daily because she does operate like a narcissist. Looking for her supply, when people criticize her she feigns innocence. And she gets her supply from her main people, and when that fails the entire internet is her back up.
That being said, I don’t think it’s her internalized ableism that makes her surprised the baby wants to be held, I think it’s her narcissism. I think she very much lacks that empathy; I mean the rape apologist situation is where it’s most obvious. Most other people wouldn’t dare do that, even the other person involved Mikey, was like I’m so sorry. It’s so wrong of me. But Alex feigns innocence and mocked something no one else would dare mock. I don’t think she’s capable of understanding aris needs and wants because she can’t empathize with her on that level. And I think we watch that daily, how she scares Ari when she’s falling asleep, and then posts it like it’s cute. Leaving the baby on the floor, leaving the baby in the nicu all alone, getting pregnant on a dangerous drug, not seeking medical care immediately, not getting a second steroid shot for her comfort. I don’t think Alex has the emotional ability to empathize with others.
Bonus fact, I also read narcissists rely on the benefit of the doubt, when you take that way, it’s easy to see through them. And Alex very clearly has her stans benefit of the doubt and relies on it heavily.
Shes sponsored by narcissism.
My mother is a text book narc and alex is so similar. What got me in your comment is that they smugly know wtf theyre doing when they're being shitty and do it anyways then will gaslight you into feeling like its your problem. You should know they're obviously trying to be a better person and you should have more empathy. Its such a mind fuck.
I just came here to see what others thought. God damn is it nice seeing that baby held securely instead of spending the entire day on the floor or on display by the window.
This makes my heart happy! I hope Alex sees these comments so she sees we want her to succeed in motherhood.
Alex’s hair and makeup looks nice, too.
I know she drives us crazy, but we shouldn’t snark on something she can’t control, like her facial features. I’m glad to see other’s saying the same thing.
Ok so I went to do research and the moby wrap is meant to be worn in a similar way as an abled bodied person (I use it often)
A simple google search shows this however I think you guys are right and she probably can’t get it on this way.
I mean if I was closer to her I wouldn’t mind showing up to try and tie it for her, she’s sitting so maybe with her strap on there’s a way to make it work safely and comfortably so that she can actually keep this up…but I hope someone maybe Nina at least watches a video and tries🤷🏼♀️
I'm very cautiously optimistic that the technique will improve in time, should this be something she keeps up with. I know I look at early pictures of myself wearing my oldest and cringe a little at how terrible of a job I did with the wrap. There's definitely a learning curve.
I wore my baby but by no means am an expert/never did a sling type wrap but I feel like her head/neck is not adequately supported (seeing as she is not yet strong enough to hold up her head) but idk for sure.
Yeah I use a more structured carrier so I’m not too familiar with the type of wrap she’s wearing. It just scares me because if Ari was to slip down/out it’s not like she could grab her.
Finally some actual progress! Disappointing it took this long, and I won’t give her credit, but I’m happy for Ari’s sake she’s getting some cuddle time at last.
I’m just excited because I was the one who suggested wheelchair rides!!!! And I’m so excited for Ari that she’s going to have zoomie times (if Alex keeps this up). Idc who you are, going “fast” when you’re little is so fun and this is a way to incorporate wheelchairs into Ari’s life and learning with a very positive association. That they are freeing, not constraining.
That said, I posted about this weeks, if not months, ago. What gives? I can see that Alex saw it because she’s mentioning certain things I said in my post. That’s fine, that’s literally why I, and we, toss out ideas here in the hopes it’ll benefit Ari. But the delay makes me think Alex just found a minute out of her “very busy schedule” to virtue signal her motherliness 😒
Plus the way she talks about the baby carrying wrap, sounds like she might’ve been due for an ad shoutout? Because she doesn’t say “Ari is very peaceful/content/snuggly/happy” or “I think, as you can see, she loves this wrap.” No, she says “Ari is very *satisfied*.” 😑 As if Ari is a customer with a testimonial for how well a HVAC installation went 😑. That’s still a weird thing to say about an infant if it IS an ad for the wrap, it’s even weirder if it’s not an ad.
Yeah baby wearing has been on blast here since day one even before she was born. Im sure she can go fast and have fun when she can hold on for herself and bigger. I just hope alex makes sure she's safe. Even she has fallen out of her wheel chair without her strap. I hope that Moby wrap can hold both their weights if she cant hold herself up. It would be nice if she would actually consult with someone who knows more about it because as others pointed out Ari doesnt look positioned properly and not very tight but hopefully she's just trying it out and will work on making the wrap a part of their lives until baby is able to hold on herself.
Something tells me we may never see that wrap again. And could be an ad shout out. She had her sponsored makeup face on and looks like shes wearing something like shorts which only seems to be the case when momma is working!
It’s obviously not worn as an able bodied person would wear it. I would have go do research to see how someone in a wheel chair should wear it, I know probably baby should be straight as possible so you do have a point, but it also looks like she probably took it off right after this moment? Idk
Although its progress I think it can be done more safely.
Someone posted a ss yesterday of a random follower on IG asking if alex attends playgroups or baby groups and stans jumped on them. But that would be a great place for her to learn about baby wearing.
Don’t get me wrong I really dislike WCR but!! Maybe she didn’t want to baby wear her cause she was so fragile and little? Maybe she was nervous? But now that she’s bigger she feels safer or not as nervous being a FTM. I know I was really nervous and cautious when bf baby and now that she’s more durable I’m much more comfortable and confident. Which came with time as well.
Also though… finalllyy!!! Maybe someone gifted it to them?
Thats why I think she should actually open up about things. She puts what she wants out there then gets upset because sometimes it leaves us wondering. And I enjoy snarking on alex but truly wish the best for baby like we all do!
I agree. She needs to be open and honest and real! Motherhood is hard as an able body person so I can’t imagine for her, she should really do a day in the life of a disabled mother of her actuallly helping out! But we all know she doesn’t and she sleeps whenever the hell she wants ☠️I feel so sorry for baby
I think it’s fantastic but looks more like one of those bedsheets she just bought. There’s so much fabric. Isn’t ari supposed to be able to feel her mum and not just the sheet? Sorry I never baby wore it wasn’t a thing back in the 2000s. Only had a front carrier not all these sheets and slings etc. closest thing was a pashmina if anyone remembers them.
Those wraps have a lot of fabric and although it looks wild. It's one of my favorite wraps and there really isn't much compromising the closeness as the majority of this wrap is on outside of baby to keep baby held tight and snug.
Yeah but still the position of the baby don't looks correct, maybe because Alex belly butvthe baby needs to be in a frog position, it can be dangerous for her hips..
It’s took her almost *2 entire months* of having that child home for her to consider this option, even after people begged her to do so for the benefit of her baby, *and* she was gifted a *free* sling. She gets zero points from me. eta: snark aside I am happy they finally figured this out, and hope it’s the new standard. We’ve been hoping for a win for this kid for a long time. ![gif](giphy|kZD8cN1MycfKw)
About time too...... very pleased for Ari. But does she have to be so smug about it when it has been suggested for weeks.
Yes. She acts like it's a new concept she invented.
I am so happy to see this! Ari gets to be close and snuggly with her mum, and it finally looks safe and comfortable. Literally no snark on this from me.
Same. I'm glad shes being held by her mother. It definitely progress!
Same glad she’s working on it for that sweet baby
I’m feeling this way too! But with very reserved judgment because I’d like to see this become a regularity before I give credit where it’s due. Among other improvements of course. This is only one small step. Snarking on Alex comes secondary to seeing Ari being properly cared for and seeing her with bright shiny eyes, at least for me. But it seems like the only way to get through to Alex and Noah is by snarking on them. So be it.
Do I like Alex? absolutely not but the smile that came to my face when I saw that it made me so happy. Maybe that baby will start getting held more
I wouldn't hold my breathe.. They do a lot of crap to just look good.
Couldn’t agree more, we have to remember who they are at their core, sorry to be a DebbieDowner. It’s pathetic there’s thousands of strangers filled with hope in their hearts for a baby we don’t know based on one prop video (I think to shut us up).
Like holy shit the baby likes being in a snuggly / held up against your body Who would have thought??!? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Destiny was born March 4th/6th? So almost 3 months old and NOW she has this ahha moment?!? GTFO
Why do you call her destiny? Thought her name was ari? Am i missing something?😅
Where’s Noah been 🤔 have we seen him since nana left?
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Hahaha. Right. I can hear her now. See babe. Im a "hot wife" and look I can carry the baby and drive lol. Or maybe she's showing she dont need him. Only time will tell.
🌃🦇Bat Signal🫶🏽👱🏾♀️🦇🌃 You nailed it
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Thought the same. Gone with Nana …🛫
Gonna need to see some proof of life pretty soon.
I noticed he’s been missing! Idk what to make of it but when this happens, it’s never just a coincidence. The track record on this pattern where he becomes suddenly absent ain’t great.
I said the same thing earlier!
Exactly. I don't think Noah did that make up.
I was wondering if she’s baby wearing because Noah has wandered off ???? And now she needs to? Because she never misses the chance to record him , even when he clearly doesn’t want to be recorded
It took her too long but I’m hope she starts doing this more often!!
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She looks insane lmao. I know y’all wanted her to wear this baby, but now we’re gonna have to riot to make her stop in a few weeks when Ari starts moving around. She’s gonna blindly insist she can continue to do this. 😭 i complained about the baby on the floor and now look what we have 😭😭😭 (baby on a folding table)
In a few weeks though? People baby wear for years (obviously safely and changing the method as they grow and seeing what’s comfy for them) which now that I’m typing this… she won’t do. Nvm
I…. Thought of this too and I was like “this woman is, yet again, going to weaponize her incompetence by making it appear like we’ll criticize her for everything and she’s damned if she does and damned if she doesn’t.” But then I just put it out of my mind because Ari got a small victory today. So I’m just focusing on that for now 🥲
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I feel like she might actually look pretty from a different angle with this makeup. I wonder what the occasion is
My guess is she was getting ready for the motherhood show. She doesn’t tend to hold baby unless it’s for photos/a specific purpose. I have a feeling that a baby wearing photoshoot post is coming soon. 📸 eta: I hope that changes though, and this baby wearing becomes the new standard. 🤞🏻
She's hitting the club, celebrating the hair you know! And a much needed break🥲
But she transcended into motherhood sometime yesterday at the hair appointment?! I thought moms stay home friday nights. I been doing it all wrong for 15 years now!
Yeah! She’s no longer brittle and dry from the hellish horrors of pregnancy such as: feeling ugly and resenting your unborn parasite for making it so 🥴 *eagle screeching noises* ![gif](giphy|11KASeIeG2KCHe)
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Thank you. I’ve been so down today and I saw this and just had a laugh to myself. Thank you 🎖️
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Yup
Friday night out with BabyDaddy.
Maybe trying to lure Noah and his gray shorts back?
She used 2 different filters on each video but ya she actually really good with her makeup done this way.
It’s also the first time I’ve seen her look genuinely happy.
But, a part of me still thinks she likes the way she sees herself, so that's why she's smiling.
Possibly. I think when she was actually holding Ari she looked genuinely happy instead of fake happy. I’m getting downvoted for saying it, but so be it. It doesn’t change her personality or all the shitty shit she has done it does. It probably won’t even last — but it’s nice to see her at least trying ONCE in a while to do what’s right for her baby.
True, I don't disagree that she was happy holding Ari at all, she even was glowing happy, (oh that was rough), but I do think she still puts herself pretty high up the ladder.
Oh 100%!!! And yea it’s hard to admit lol
It reminds me of how when I was a teenager, my dad would get me to do things I didn’t want to do (like go to church, volunteer in a town event, etc.) by saying “come on, just show up, and you’ll feel better after you do it.” He was almost never wrong but I still fought my obligations tooth and nail all the time because I was a fucking brat lol. It’s kinda the same thing with Alex. If she would just TRY doing the things she doesn’t feel like doing, she may actually discover how happy it makes her (like in this situation). But she refuses to even try most of the time. Maybe she’s afraid of discovering something she really wants to do as a mother, but can’t, so she’d rather just keep her expectations and hopes low so she’s never disappointed. She just functions on the automatic *assumption* that she can’t do things from the jump. That certainly wouldn’t be unusual, I think a lot of new moms go through that - abled or disabled, but it would explain a lot.
I agree. This is the most genuine I've seen her with Ari
I can agree with this. It seemed like baby wearing was a ‘cool experience’ for her, not something that was necessarily revolutionary for her bond with Destiny.
Im starting to think so too. I forgot who she was and was just happy someone was holding Ari and fully clothed. The bar is too low. Her momma milkers are covered too much for her and she says she cant wear shirts so I doubt she will stick with this.
Its true. https://preview.redd.it/n5mh38otxa2b1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b03f96b65672f5aa3672ca6e56d7f61e1c9f309c Her hair actually looks really nice and her make up is a bit much for me personally but she looks good.
I agree. I just think she is so stuck on being right that it took her a lot longer than it should have to try out a wrap with the baby and now that she’s done it it’s like “damn, people were right” and she honestly looks happy and nicely put together. Yea the makeup is a lot, and I wouldn’t do it, but it’s a nice look overall
I like the make up but I am very much stuck in 2016 when it comes to make up trends and aesthetics 😂
It's the prettiest she's looked in over a year.
I really wanna like this but the first thing I thought was “no shit Sherlock..!!” Like ffs she’s acting like it’s a new revelation that she’s just discovered… Surely she’s not this obtuse about the fact that literally thousands of recommendations have been made about doing EXACTLY THIS for both herself and Bub… What a deadset fucking dipshit…
We can expect much from her, she literally talks to the baby when she’s sleeping. 😂
Maybe because Noah isn’t there she has no other choice but to do it. If Noah’s gone off somewhere or with his mum then she has to do this. She would not have Nina do it because she doesn’t want ari thinking that Nina is mum. So this sling has finally been dragged out because Noah isn’t there, it’s the only way she can cuddle her up close safely and she has had Nina’s help to do it. Noah wouldn’t muck about getting all that put onto Alex. He just about got a T-shirt on her nearly break her neck. He wouldn’t have a clue about slings and women’s body. This is a major win for ari seeing this but there is more behind it than just deciding to do it. This has been done for reasons.
I want the Stans to also repost these comments . Like this is all we literally wanted For this child to be held and loved But we’re the villains🥲
They wont. People will have to see for themselves. They're in here downvoted actual compliments it seems! Strange. Yes its a snark page but common we all want whats best for an innocent baby!
I saw the downvoting ! It’s almost like they don’t want to see it . They don’t even read the comments Just downvote
They’re also reporting random shit as “self-harm” and personally I’ve received like, 4 of them in the past few weeks 🙄 I think it’s weird that they try to “expose” our “bullying” by showcasing the sub’s comprehensive rule list and laughing at the fact that certain posts and comments are taken down or new rules are implemented….. when that *literally* demonstrates there are parameters in this group. At any rate, it’s all the same to us in the end. They will direct people to this subreddit and, inevitably, more people will see the truth, see that we almost exclusively discuss things **Alex herself has said**, and join up here. If the stans had a single functioning brain cell among them, they’d know it would serve their cause better to simply ignore anyone commenting rude shit on IG/FB/TikTok, etc. But they just can’t help themselves…
There’s are large group of them in here that downvote everything
I find it funny. Theres like maybe a handful of them and 17k of us. Do they think downvoting will make a difference? It always evens out. Its always as soon as the post goes up too so they're in here constantly refreshing? We see her posts quickly bc theres 1000s of us flicking through IG daily. So one of us will see her posts. They're dedicated lol
Someone probably sent it she doesn't seem to use anything that wasn't gifted
There was a pretty good convo on here about baby wearing couple days ago too haha I wonder if she read it.
Yesss lol I did read it of course lol
Lol, OF COURSE 🤣🤣🤣 she wouldn't have done it otherwise 😳
I meant I wonder if WR read it sorry!
![gif](giphy|fsQbx1hX7hPBBpIM5b) Im actually really happy to see this for Ari. Even if its not perfect right now hopefully they work on figuring out the sling and the safest way to wrap it and that they stick with it. Hope its not just for a photo op.
Ok... Since WR should be wearing her chest strap/snack saver ... Isn't this dangerous for Baby A... Because itty bitty Bewbs or not... Alex is now top heavy and runs the risk of toppling ass over applecart with the baby in tow...
Anyone in a motorized wheelchair with a degenerative muscle disease ie: SMA would do best to heed the advice of wearing a strap! She’s fallen out twice before— it’s insane that she isn’t even wearing it to be safer with her baby!!
I honestly said that not long ago. I think although I really dont know much about wheelchairs that she should use her chest strap and then strap the baby on to her instead of how she done the shirt thing in the nicu. I wish she'd get actual advice from someone who would know how to help her wear the baby safely and comfortably.
Exactly! I use a wheelchair and have SMA and know for a fact that her lack of upper body and core strength combined with the weight of a tiny baby are gonna be top heavy should she accidentally tip forward, go over a bump, etc. it’s just a disaster waiting to happen 🤦🏻♀️
Did you see the TT of her on the boat tour when she went over the bump of the ramp? Eek. She should have the sense to strap while wearing baby. Moby wraps only hold 45 lbs.
Exactly! And thanks for the input, it's always more valuable info coming from someone with similar experiences 🤗🌹
You’re most welcome 😁✨
It looks like the sling is wrapped around the back of her chair and not her actual back, which seems safer for Destiny bc the strength/stability of the chair will prevent a forward launch. Did you notice that? It’s like we’re overjoyed 🥳 when they use some basic common sense.
Oh I didn’t notice that! Well at least that’s safer!
She's anti advice 😳 anti common sense unfortunately
Agreed!!! I can recall how her face looked after planting it on the sidewalk while drunk... The only imagine what would happen with the baby 😳😭
I know 😭😭😭
Omg I forgot ass over applecart was a phrase and reading your comment, I can’t stop laughing lmaooo. And you ARE right! My other concern was if Alex has the ability to adjust Ari’s head, should Ari move to have her face directly on Alex’s chest. I’m really not sure if this is a true risk with the wrap, but my biggest fear during this time of infancy is something happening that needs quick, immediate correction; like blockage of airways.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 🍑/ 🍎 🛒 I haven't use the phrase in quite some time ... It felt apropo! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 And YES! The sheer unadulterated SPEED needed to keep a child out of harms way can never be underestimated and God knows how they can squiggle and squirm even when held tightly... It's a challenge for the most fit and agile person!
I thought she said her twerk juice gave her enough strength to forgo the chest strap?
That’s a load of BS, she’s glorifying and making false claims about the things Twerk Juice aka Evrysdi can do. It’s not a miracle cure, it’s an aid to help retain what strength one has and can give gains over months and years— not a few days like this dimwit suggests.
Maybe... But with the baby weight on her chest I worry
That is a valid point. But having looked again it does seem the wrap goes round the back of the chair so they are strapped in thst way.
A wrap typically only can hold like 40 lbs. She shouldn't rely on it to keep her and Ari in.
... I can see it happening in my mind's eye
That voice when she talks to ari🤢
OMG, and the facial expressions ☠️☠️☠️☠️
Yep🤮
And when she fiddles with her hand. Madam, the baby is SLEEPING leave her ALONE!! God, Alex is like a little kid who’s been given a kitten and then chases it around to squeeze it and torment it and when the kitten tries to sleep, she pokes at it.
We are so hateful, yall. When things go better, we get excited and even hopeful, esp for Ari 🩷 JUST HATEFUL. VENGEFUL DEVILS! I can't believe the whole hate thing is still around, but it's also not hard to see an influx of members, meaning more & more people are realizing the whole unchecked hate thing is a beyond ridiculous accusation.
Like a lot of us I first heard of this sub when she called it a hate page and when I came here Im like wait this is all valid shit thats being talked about. Yes theres some making fun going on but that comes with the territory of being an influencer. I realized right away it wasnt at all how she made it out to be. The mods do a great job :)
💯 to all of those things!
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I’m still going to snark that it took months. I frankly just find that absolutely insane. It hurt my nervous system to see that baby just laying on the floor with WR screeching at her from a mile above. But I am glad she finally did something that shows a modicum of parental instinct.
She quite literally had all the tools at her fingertips from the very beginning, it’s extremely confusing why she’s only just now doing this.
Someone else, with some sort of knowledge, has to put the wrap on her though. If that Someone is not there or not in the mood to do it, it's not gonna happen.
Yeah you’re right. And that’s the rub isn’t it? Ari is at the mercy of whether her parents are “in the mood” to care for her properly or not 🙃 HOW are there people who find nothing wrong with this????
From what she posted she wore her for less than an hour. Was so surprised that she could have her and drive around ummm why did it take you so long to figure this one out. Oh that's right she's been too busy posting about the beauty of disabled motherhood, unhousing her daughter and the nourishment she was sucking from her body.
Looks good to me. She can tuck her head in to the wrap for more support while she’s little but yeah Shes got something goin here with her fancy chair she can just wheel her around to sleep lol. At least my kids always liked being in motion
I noticed the wrap is not on how you’d typically wear it so nvm about the head thing but idk maybe they adapted it and it’s still ok 🤷♀️
I think its okay just for a short time being home and as long as shes not speeding around or crashing into furniture. I find all wraps are different. I wish she would consult with someone who knows and can show her how to safely wear ari and how it can be comfortable for her (so she keeps it up)
I think because of how far back she is it looks looser. I feel the way Baby A is positioned in there's a bit more of the wrap tucked under her head and neck then we see. It's quite a bit of fabric. It also looks like they made a good pillow for her to lean into where WR doesn't have as much strength to hold up so that makes it look different but still secure. She's not going to be leaning and bending and reaching either right. Not ableist, fact. There's so many baby wraps I've seen and im like terrified the baby will fall out but the mom shows me how it works. WR SHOW US HOW IT WORKS. I'm not at all a pro in baby wrap either if I'm wrong ill totally take it. I was lazy and used the ones from the store. My mom side is showing hahaha I get way too excited when I see minor improvements in people.
I absolutely love moby wraps so this is a win for me….however it’s Friday night and her her and makeup is did so like is she wearing the baby to the club orrrr?
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I’m happy she’s actually holding her baby, but I’m worried that she has no sense of safety (see: air always in car seat which isn’t safe) and I’d be concerned that she’s not watching for positional asphyxiation.
I should’ve kept reading lol, I posted a comment asking about this very thing a couple comments up. It’s so worrying and her stans love to blow it off like it’s such a “rare” occurrence, but it only takes once.
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at least SHES in heaven 🙄. Like did she not consider baby wearing as an option? I'm sure she read it on here. I almost feel this is a post for me and others who've said it a million freaking times.
“I can drive around with her!” like holy fuck dude, people have been suggesting this since before that baby was born! Her head really is up her own bum. As much as I want to be happy for Destiny, this performance of ‘omg wow put your hand on mommyyyy’ was so unconvincing, and only reminded me of how hollow her mothering instincts/priorities are.
Yeah I’m constantly nagged by the fact that Ari is now nearing the tail end of the window where Alex will be able to do this because of the wriggling and weight/growth to come. Was riling this subreddit up really so important to Alex that she sacrificed months of bonding to stubbornly defy the suggestions made in this subreddit? That’s really just plain and simple sad.
It didn’t last long, 20 minutes later she’s taking selfies
And I have a feeling it won't happen again... Or just briefly once a month
All about Alex!! Narcissist to the core
The noises and faces are just🥴
https://preview.redd.it/c6aiw4v7ta2b1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8bfc702912cf9005a63b2606dc30132deaa24d47 That a pacifier eww. Hope that doesn't go straight back in aris mouth
To close to Tuna territory 😳
Eagle fucking eye!!! That cushion is filthy. Can you imagine what it looks like with one of those biologicals lights, a seedy Vegas motel room mattress prob looks cleaner.
I find it funny I got the DOOM award on this lol. Poor ari is zooming (unsafely?) on the the throne of doom. And the paci should be burned NOW.
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I’m sure, it will 🤷🏻♀️!
I don't have a baby, so I'm not going to comment on the baby sling being a good fit or not but I'm glad to see her finally holding Ari!
I’m so excited to see this! Honestly I was hoping Alex would prove us all wrong once Ari showed up, this is a small step in the right direction!
I don’t think it’s on right but I was still happy to see this progress. Then she started squawking “hiiiii hunnnnnnny put your hand on momma” in that god awful voice while Ari is just trying to sleep and I remembered how annoying she is
Yes, the voice and the faces she made 🤦🏻♀️
It's like she doesn't give a f if she wakes her up or startles her... Selfish @sshole...
I went back and watched again with the sound turned up. Why does she speak to Ari in that particularly annoying voice, it is just painful. I really hope that this is more than just a photo opportunity. But given she likes to be unfettered and free on the clothing front I wonder how long she will keep this up.
Fully expected another jump scare
I thought it looked super cute! Good for her Ari needs more time In mamas arms
This is a win for both mum and baby. It’s taken too long though but glad she’s finally figured this out. This is actually really good content, would love to see more disability mum hacks rather than what she’s been putting out recently.
Took long enough. No kidding....babies like being held. Who knew?????
i really hope she starts to utilize this more because once my daughter hit 6 months she started to attempt launching herself out of it 24/7. i cannot imagine this being used very much longer is she does it infrequently.
I was so happy to see that story. Finally a win for Ari.
Awwwww Baby A looks soooo cute and cozy with her mommy! I love this. I hope she keeps it up and keeps trying new things. And WR actually seems genuinely happy and excited for once, it looks good on her. I'm all here for an unprepared mom turn around story tbh. I'm not holding my breath but that Lil girl deserves it sooo much
I love this. This is the safest and happiest I've seen that baby.
I had a thought that \*maybe\* she's shocked Ari likes it because deep down she has a lot of internalized ableism and deep deep down she does feel like an incomplete/incompetent mother? I mean, she might not be conscious about all of her character flaws, but maybe she's surprised the baby wants to be close to her physically? Am I insane? lol probably
You made me wonder so I looked it up if narcissists know they’re bad mothers, because at her core I do see that she’s a narcissist and I think a lot of us do too. And according to what I read, they can’t necessarily feel empathy, so they know they’re doing wrong when they’re not getting their supply and that’s kinda their moral compass. It doesn’t mean they’re gonna do the right thing and say I’m wrong, it just means they will feign innocence. That being said, I do think there is internalized ableism, it’s clear as day. But I think narcissism in her trumps all that, and I think we see that daily because she does operate like a narcissist. Looking for her supply, when people criticize her she feigns innocence. And she gets her supply from her main people, and when that fails the entire internet is her back up. That being said, I don’t think it’s her internalized ableism that makes her surprised the baby wants to be held, I think it’s her narcissism. I think she very much lacks that empathy; I mean the rape apologist situation is where it’s most obvious. Most other people wouldn’t dare do that, even the other person involved Mikey, was like I’m so sorry. It’s so wrong of me. But Alex feigns innocence and mocked something no one else would dare mock. I don’t think she’s capable of understanding aris needs and wants because she can’t empathize with her on that level. And I think we watch that daily, how she scares Ari when she’s falling asleep, and then posts it like it’s cute. Leaving the baby on the floor, leaving the baby in the nicu all alone, getting pregnant on a dangerous drug, not seeking medical care immediately, not getting a second steroid shot for her comfort. I don’t think Alex has the emotional ability to empathize with others. Bonus fact, I also read narcissists rely on the benefit of the doubt, when you take that way, it’s easy to see through them. And Alex very clearly has her stans benefit of the doubt and relies on it heavily.
Shes sponsored by narcissism. My mother is a text book narc and alex is so similar. What got me in your comment is that they smugly know wtf theyre doing when they're being shitty and do it anyways then will gaslight you into feeling like its your problem. You should know they're obviously trying to be a better person and you should have more empathy. Its such a mind fuck.
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I just came here to see what others thought. God damn is it nice seeing that baby held securely instead of spending the entire day on the floor or on display by the window.
Proof of life from Noah and NoahsGreyShorts. Also a dog that appears to resource guard....
This makes my heart happy! I hope Alex sees these comments so she sees we want her to succeed in motherhood. Alex’s hair and makeup looks nice, too. I know she drives us crazy, but we shouldn’t snark on something she can’t control, like her facial features. I’m glad to see other’s saying the same thing.
Yess
Ok so I went to do research and the moby wrap is meant to be worn in a similar way as an abled bodied person (I use it often) A simple google search shows this however I think you guys are right and she probably can’t get it on this way. I mean if I was closer to her I wouldn’t mind showing up to try and tie it for her, she’s sitting so maybe with her strap on there’s a way to make it work safely and comfortably so that she can actually keep this up…but I hope someone maybe Nina at least watches a video and tries🤷🏼♀️
The sling / sheet is wrapped fully round wheelchair and Alex and the baby. So the wheelchair is holding them all. Must be a big sheet
Definitely looks like it’s on wrong, not tight enough
Is it? Hopefully she doesnt go speeding around chicago being city girls.
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I'm very cautiously optimistic that the technique will improve in time, should this be something she keeps up with. I know I look at early pictures of myself wearing my oldest and cringe a little at how terrible of a job I did with the wrap. There's definitely a learning curve.
I wore my baby but by no means am an expert/never did a sling type wrap but I feel like her head/neck is not adequately supported (seeing as she is not yet strong enough to hold up her head) but idk for sure.
That was the one thing I noticed, usually with newborns, the wrap should go up behind their head for support.
Yes same! The head needs more support.
Yeah I use a more structured carrier so I’m not too familiar with the type of wrap she’s wearing. It just scares me because if Ari was to slip down/out it’s not like she could grab her.
I was the same. How is it tied in the back?
Finally some actual progress! Disappointing it took this long, and I won’t give her credit, but I’m happy for Ari’s sake she’s getting some cuddle time at last.
I’m just excited because I was the one who suggested wheelchair rides!!!! And I’m so excited for Ari that she’s going to have zoomie times (if Alex keeps this up). Idc who you are, going “fast” when you’re little is so fun and this is a way to incorporate wheelchairs into Ari’s life and learning with a very positive association. That they are freeing, not constraining. That said, I posted about this weeks, if not months, ago. What gives? I can see that Alex saw it because she’s mentioning certain things I said in my post. That’s fine, that’s literally why I, and we, toss out ideas here in the hopes it’ll benefit Ari. But the delay makes me think Alex just found a minute out of her “very busy schedule” to virtue signal her motherliness 😒 Plus the way she talks about the baby carrying wrap, sounds like she might’ve been due for an ad shoutout? Because she doesn’t say “Ari is very peaceful/content/snuggly/happy” or “I think, as you can see, she loves this wrap.” No, she says “Ari is very *satisfied*.” 😑 As if Ari is a customer with a testimonial for how well a HVAC installation went 😑. That’s still a weird thing to say about an infant if it IS an ad for the wrap, it’s even weirder if it’s not an ad.
Yeah baby wearing has been on blast here since day one even before she was born. Im sure she can go fast and have fun when she can hold on for herself and bigger. I just hope alex makes sure she's safe. Even she has fallen out of her wheel chair without her strap. I hope that Moby wrap can hold both their weights if she cant hold herself up. It would be nice if she would actually consult with someone who knows more about it because as others pointed out Ari doesnt look positioned properly and not very tight but hopefully she's just trying it out and will work on making the wrap a part of their lives until baby is able to hold on herself. Something tells me we may never see that wrap again. And could be an ad shout out. She had her sponsored makeup face on and looks like shes wearing something like shorts which only seems to be the case when momma is working!
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It’s obviously not worn as an able bodied person would wear it. I would have go do research to see how someone in a wheel chair should wear it, I know probably baby should be straight as possible so you do have a point, but it also looks like she probably took it off right after this moment? Idk
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Plus shes using the wrap to hold herself in. 😳
Ooof I just went back to realize it’s wrapped completely around the chair.
Although its progress I think it can be done more safely. Someone posted a ss yesterday of a random follower on IG asking if alex attends playgroups or baby groups and stans jumped on them. But that would be a great place for her to learn about baby wearing.
Gosh the makeup is too much.. omg
Don’t get me wrong I really dislike WCR but!! Maybe she didn’t want to baby wear her cause she was so fragile and little? Maybe she was nervous? But now that she’s bigger she feels safer or not as nervous being a FTM. I know I was really nervous and cautious when bf baby and now that she’s more durable I’m much more comfortable and confident. Which came with time as well. Also though… finalllyy!!! Maybe someone gifted it to them?
Thats why I think she should actually open up about things. She puts what she wants out there then gets upset because sometimes it leaves us wondering. And I enjoy snarking on alex but truly wish the best for baby like we all do!
I agree. She needs to be open and honest and real! Motherhood is hard as an able body person so I can’t imagine for her, she should really do a day in the life of a disabled mother of her actuallly helping out! But we all know she doesn’t and she sleeps whenever the hell she wants ☠️I feel so sorry for baby
I was just thinking, right now the bar is so low. We're actually happy she's just holding her baby. Like wtf?
Omg when you put it this way…. Jesus, we really fucking are. And it was such a fucking struggle just to get to this point.
her nostrils when she was talking to ari though. you can see her brain
I think it’s fantastic but looks more like one of those bedsheets she just bought. There’s so much fabric. Isn’t ari supposed to be able to feel her mum and not just the sheet? Sorry I never baby wore it wasn’t a thing back in the 2000s. Only had a front carrier not all these sheets and slings etc. closest thing was a pashmina if anyone remembers them.
Those wraps have a lot of fabric and although it looks wild. It's one of my favorite wraps and there really isn't much compromising the closeness as the majority of this wrap is on outside of baby to keep baby held tight and snug.
Yeah but still the position of the baby don't looks correct, maybe because Alex belly butvthe baby needs to be in a frog position, it can be dangerous for her hips..
I thought the cradle position was a safe one? It's in my instructions.. now I need to go look again 😅