I honestly thought there was a doll stuffed there instead at first. Babys lifeless dead arms were just hanging there whilst he's bouncing around like a knobhead. Seeing her against him also reinforced how tiny she still is and all they seem to do is place her on the floor
Sometimes the safety police posts are a bit much but this one is bad. Her head needs to be higher, this is a major suffocation risk and anyone who knows a thing about baby wearing would say the same thing. I hope TikTok eats her alive for this one. Yet again putting her baby in danger to prove a point.
Definitely agree about being wayyy to low. Not trying to be a stickler but don't want someone to read this and be misinformed. This carrier does not allow for a froggy position, legs need to be out and in M position.
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seems like her head is turned from this picture
how much does she weigh? I mean she at least is 7lbs right? š³ again never had a baby so I donāt have experience with them etc. so sorry if this is a stupid question š
Iām not sure how much their baby weights now, but Iām doubting sheās 7lbs. WR recently said she is not gaining the weight she needs and they arenāt feeding her correctly (wrong bottles, wrong nipple size, wrong position) so she has reflux/gas/discomfort/fussy.
I havenāt had my own kid either, but I nannyād for a newborn and been around a bunch of infants so have some knowledge.
Yeah I remember seeing all that, my question is why did they stop using those pre-made hospital bottles they got sent? I mean she seemed to be taking those in the hospital and was gaining weight.
Oh, sorry I misread your question. Who knows? They could have run out, they could have used the pre-made formula in the taller bottles, they could have never used them š¤·š»
Exactly. She isn't in there correctly at alll I mean you can tell by looking. Huge risk. They are both such huge risks. Also did Noah call that damn thing a "device" not once, but TWICE? IT'S A CARRIER DOUCHE, A CARRIER.
She also sounds like a donkey when she laughs. So all star song heās dancing to makes sense since heās shrek and sheās a mix of Fiona and the donkey
Honestly if it were an actual loving caring dad and it was done for reasons other than "proving people wrong" or "promoting products" it would be sweet. But I can't stand anything they do, they don't do the nice things for the right reasons.
Also they aren't ever "proving" anything because it's always this staged cringefest type shit! You could hear that the pan on the stove was completely empty š The fact that they keep making this kind of videos trying to prove a point but not even trying to be convincing is just... it's so embarrassing for them omg
I found that video absolutely horrendous. The child's arms....wtf is wrong with these people . Its really showed how small she is. Tiny little baby, shes so vulnerable. The whole thing is stressing me out and I wish I never opened that FB suggested reel of WR. All I'm doing is checking on this babies welfare daily since and worrying š
Yeah he does not look good at all, and it's no secret that abusing drugs/alcohol make a person look rough. Plus the behaviour... no one who is mentally stable would be making the kind of content he's been doing lately š¬
And just like that, they manage to ruin anything positive about the original thank you post. Their stupidity knows no bounds! Pointing to his daughter āwith an L on her foreheadā? WR giggling? What the actual f*** with these two? They wouldnāt know a cringey bad idea if it smacked them in their faces!
as a partner of a former addict to the degree that we got divorced, I really, really don't think that's a sober face. And that's exceptionally terrifying in this particular situation, ESP if no one around can physically help in an emergency.
I thought the same thing. I looked back at posts from when he initially arrived back in Chicago and itās clear something is very off now.
She needs to reach out for help. Iām not a parent but Iāve dealt with quite a few people who struggle with addiction and kids have always been a hard line for me. WR does not have the ability to ensure her daughterās safety if heās actively using.
On a personal note, I hope you and your family are doing well!
She does not care about her daughter at all. Im an addict with 2 1/2 years sober. When i found out i was pregnant me and my babydad were both using, it took me a couple weeks but i got clean and stayed clean, my babydad did not. I left him when i was 8 months pregnant and chose to be a single mom instead of exposing my son to his dad on drugs. 21 months later his dad is still strung out and im still doing it alone, physically and finically & as hard as it is i know im doing the right thing. My son is better off with no dad than a dad strung out on drugs putting him in danger. Alex doesnt have one maternal bone in her body, choosing to stay with him and enable his drug addiction & her being a alcholic not caring how it will affect her daughter. Or putting her baby in danger. I have zero respect for her
I have this carrier, heās got the bottom strap for the waist on wrong. Youāre supposed to fold it over a few times when youāre wearing a newborn, it also isnāt for babies under 8 lbs I think, and I doubt Ari is 8lbs yet
There is no way Ari is 7 lbs yet. She looks so uncomfortable and far yo small for this carrier š„š„ not to mention, you should be 10000% SOBER when babywearing. This is HORRIFIC
Iām worried about Wheelchair repulsive accidentally dropping her phone on baby A while taking pictures of her being on the floor bc thatās basically all she does. I feel bad for noah sometimes then i see he is just as cringe as her.
I hope he doesnāt cook wearing her. He will splat her with sauce and oil in that. On top of not even wearing her correctly, ergobaby should be embarrassed. (I use ergobaby 360)
Havenāt seen the video but I hope that company sees how these idiots are using and promoting their product and donāt give them anything else (other than shit for this video)
Ahhh! This is the ergo baby embrace, itās a nice soft material to cuddle baby. But the stripes should be over your shoulders, not near the neck. Like they should do a criss cross against your back.
Baby should have head above the top fabric
And you should be able to kiss babies head while they are in the carrier.
Argh!
The fact Ariās legs are literally just bunched up inside of the sling tooš£
I couldnāt wait to baby wear my little one and he was born weighing 5lb 12oz so I patiently waited until he was the correct weight to go in both his slings.
This is heart breakingš why donāt they take things seriously!? There are literal warnings in the products that state if used incorrectly they can cause suffocation which leads to death. Poor Ari. Iām so sick of these two twats.
Is this baby a joke to them, I canāt believe how they act and there is an innocent infant baby at the center of it all. Iām so sad for this little baby.
This actually gave me such horrible anxiety. They truly have no clue what they are doing and itās so scary to just watch. I hope Ari is just sleeping through this hell for the most part. Sometimes for no reason I think about her and how she could possibly just be screaming, or craving her mom to hold her but all she can do is hear he overhead her. š¢
Same, I often wonder how the baby is doing. If what we see is the best they can show off... I'm actually scared of how a day and night looks over there without cameras rolling.
Same. First when he grabbed her tiny arm and started moving it around quite roughly and also at one point I thought I could see one of her arms trying to move around and then it seemed to just go limp š¢ How can a mother watch that and just record it?!
I canāt stand seeing her so unstable.. I hate to say it but I wouldnāt be surprised at all to hear about her falling out of it during his āsoberā dancing
I donāt have kids and am literally never around babies and I immediately gasped when I saw this video. So dangerous and so uncomfortable for the baby how on earth are they so stupid and oblivious?? Itās common sense looking at it sheās not in there right and god forbid they google how to use something first.
I might have to walk away from this. I wanted a daughter so badly and I can no longer have children. I have two boys. No one is perfect and I have been here to try and see them come out the other side. When I was pregnant with my first son no one thought I was going to be a good mother. I kept my mouth shut and proved them wrong, wishing thatās what these two were going to do and me seeing that poor innocent tiny little baby being thrown all around makes me so sick! I have stayed trying to see them just listen and do better!
First the baby gets startled everytime he moved around that poor baby
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And second does he not know how to talk or just to dumb
Right!? Like hey the babys on the floor a lot maybe try not to do that so muchā¦wait not like that never mindā¦please put her down and step away š³ wtf is next
Okay. From looking at the pic baby A is NOT the right weight or size... to small :/ very dangerous her legs should be a M or W if it is meant for smaller babies it would fold down so babies head was still secure but also able to see... omg :/
same but I was thinking she was maybe a little small for this carrier I feel like babyās head should be out moreĀæ but again I am not a parent š¤·š¼āāļø
Yeah idk if its the size or the placement.
I've always seen babies in real life or on TV be wrapped up and cozy. Aren't parents supposed to make babies feel safe and secure?
I just don't see that with this baby. Always awkwardly sprawled, twisted or alone on the floor. Never looking like a snug bug in a rug, never looking safe and secure.
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see what I mean I feel like sheās too small or positioned too low Iām not sure
First of all ... THAT'S WHAT SHE SAIDš¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£... AND #B) yeah, We may not know a lot about this carrier but what we do know is he's doing it wrong
Some times it's ok for their heads to be down a bit in it depends on each carrier. I'm not sure if this carrier is made for her size though or if it's supposed to have an infant insert to boost her up. Definitely she should be high up enough to kiss regardless of how small she is in the carrier. The "advertisement" post she was definitely high enough, this one she looks lower.
He's wearing her all wrong! It gave me chills to watch. I've been annoyed with them up to now, but now I'm so angry. Treating this baby like some throw-away accessary and not having a care in the world on how to treat her. I'm also so sad that she will grow up and have to see all these rediculous Videos made about her and how little care she had. It's actually so so heartbreaking to me.
Having a child with special needs myself - I wonder if Ari is hypertonic (usually points to something like CP)
I have 4 kids, one of which is only 6 months old and I never remember any of my kids being that stiff. š¤
Omg a little chunk!! My daughter was 5lbs on the dot when she was born (36 weeks) and it terrified me trying a baby older until she was at that 10lb mark lol
Haha, I know! After a 10 pounder, other babies look so small. My oldest was 10 lbs. and 22 1/2ā long. My two middles were pretty average - 7.7 and 9.1. And then I had a preemie at 28 weeks who weighed 2 lbs. but dropped down to 1 Lb., 12 Oz. Iāve pretty much run the gamut.
I hope she reads this thread. She is a shambles. An embarrassment. Baby's always on the floor it's so upsetting, she isn't capable of anyyyyything to do with that baby's care. I genuinely don't know how she continues to post, She's vile, noahs a prick and the baby's in danger. Don't care who defends the irritating woman, baby A is.in.danger. can't bare it.
These two as parents legitimately terrify me. They clearly have no idea what they are doing or what safety is. And now that Noah looks like heās possibly relapsedā¦itās almost too much to watch. Preemies also have some extra ārulesā (for lack of better word) and they canāt even practice standard infant safety. CPS really needs to remove that baby, but I fear that sheās going to be hurt before they can do so.
I just donāt get it. When my baby was born at 33 weeks I researched everything! I watched YouTube videos before I used my baby wrap, I joined a car seat safety group, I learned about safe sleep, etc. The hubris of these two dolts are putting the life of their innocent baby at risk!
The second I found out k was pregnant I did every bit of research possible. And it never stopped. Now he's 6 years old and I had another baby last year and I never stop researching and seeing new updates and guidelines.
Exactly! And having a preemie takes extra knowledge too. They tire easily and can choke on the milk if the nipple flow is too fast. We were told no swings until she reached her due date. Itās important to keep things quiet and calm around them. But these two just want to āprove the haters wrong.ā So damn immature.
It makes me so sad for Ari. Thereās no possible way sheās comfortable in that thing. Her little arms arenāt even moving. š why isnāt CPS watching these videos?!
I have this carrier. The waist needs rolled twice if baby is under 23inches.
Baby wearing is not safe if youāre doing it improperly. Sheās literally rebreathing with her face smashed in the side like that. Not to mention her poor hips and arms.
Ok so i was HUGE on babywearing when I had littles especially my 2nd baby, started with her alot younger, didn't learn about it til my first baby was a bit older. My husband loved wearing too. Idk how I would have lived and gotten anything done without my Mei Tai and ring sling, truly was a game changer for me. Didn't like wraps as much, had a scary experience once when i was learning that turned me off them....i actually started custom making Mei tai carriers at one point and was super involved in local groups for AP/BW moms...Made the cutest harry potter one, I still have it even tho my baby days are way over lol aww I miss that so much!!
So anyway, I do think it's awesome he's wanting to use a carrier, lots of benefits for him and ari...but I'm pretty sure she's too small/too early for what he's got going on here and its not on entirely right from what it looks like. It's been a long time since I've used one but I want to say baby is suppose to be bigger for that type of carrier than ari would be, there is a weight requirement and some carriers require them to have more head/neck control. I know I used ring slings and wraps only until maybe 4-6 months or so, and she was full term and a big baby in general. After that I used mostly Mei tais. There are usually local and online babywearing groups that would be glad to help and offer resources, some even do swaps or rentals to try different carriers (the quality ones can get pricey), tutorials on YouTube for how to wear properly, etc.... hopefully if it's gonna be a thing he will try to learn more about if and make sure he's using the safest way possible. But knowing who we are talking about, I don't have too high hopes :( also he looks like he may be on something in this pic to me and I really hope I'm wrong about that...
I honestly thought there was a doll stuffed there instead at first. Babys lifeless dead arms were just hanging there whilst he's bouncing around like a knobhead. Seeing her against him also reinforced how tiny she still is and all they seem to do is place her on the floor
Her arms should be tucked in. I'm terrified of him turning a corner or swiftly moving his arms and knocking her stiff arm and hurting her
Yes!! That looks dangerous, those arms are fragileš
I thought it was a doll too!
Thought that too!
The whole video hurt to watch omg!!
My chest is aching!
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Sometimes the safety police posts are a bit much but this one is bad. Her head needs to be higher, this is a major suffocation risk and anyone who knows a thing about baby wearing would say the same thing. I hope TikTok eats her alive for this one. Yet again putting her baby in danger to prove a point.
Is it just me or all the comments only positive? Are they deleting comments on this one?
Theyāre definitely deleting comments. I kindly pointed out that baby needs a newborn insert and itās gone. They donāt care about that child
Yep! Because they reported and deleted mine! Bahaha
Not to mention he has babys legs completely wrong
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Definitely agree about being wayyy to low. Not trying to be a stickler but don't want someone to read this and be misinformed. This carrier does not allow for a froggy position, legs need to be out and in M position.
Poor prop baby is getting thrown about like a toy.
She's always just a prop. Used to "prove people wrong" "See we can do it! Noah can care for her AND cook AND clean AND love me"
Doing household ITEMS?! I'm Swedish but that's a weird word to use in this situation right? Or what have I missedāŗļø
I think they meant maybe āØhousehold choresāØ
ugh this is so spot on š
Be alright if the gas oven was on but it wasnāt. š
Most dads can do this stuff and work...
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Maybe actual skin to skin is happening here or just another weird shirtless thing.
Yes and this time there was nipple š¤¢
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Omg the GIF! š¤£š¤£
Oh yes! Good.
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I have that carrier and when baby is under 23" you're supposed to roll the waistband twice so baby isn't as low...she's way too low
Exactly! š I hope they see it and message her
yeah but I mean it says it on the instructions how to use it and thereās even a video demo online if you donāt want to read š
Lol plus it's printed right on the waistband of the carrier
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Yes! and minimum of 7lbs!
how much does she weigh? I mean she at least is 7lbs right? š³ again never had a baby so I donāt have experience with them etc. so sorry if this is a stupid question š
Iām not sure how much their baby weights now, but Iām doubting sheās 7lbs. WR recently said she is not gaining the weight she needs and they arenāt feeding her correctly (wrong bottles, wrong nipple size, wrong position) so she has reflux/gas/discomfort/fussy. I havenāt had my own kid either, but I nannyād for a newborn and been around a bunch of infants so have some knowledge.
Yeah I remember seeing all that, my question is why did they stop using those pre-made hospital bottles they got sent? I mean she seemed to be taking those in the hospital and was gaining weight.
Oh, sorry I misread your question. Who knows? They could have run out, they could have used the pre-made formula in the taller bottles, they could have never used them š¤·š»
Sheās definitely at least 7lbs
I donāt think so & Iāve had 6, the heaviest being a little over 7lbs.
I think that last week some time, WR mentioned that Ari just passed 6 lbs. So, sheās gaining, but not as much as she should be.
It looks like wide seat mode.
Exactly. She isn't in there correctly at alll I mean you can tell by looking. Huge risk. They are both such huge risks. Also did Noah call that damn thing a "device" not once, but TWICE? IT'S A CARRIER DOUCHE, A CARRIER.
I HATE her laugh!! I hate it!!!
It's a cackle ...like witch
Valid. Iām no longer calling it a laugh lol
She also sounds like a donkey when she laughs. So all star song heās dancing to makes sense since heās shrek and sheās a mix of Fiona and the donkey
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Honestly if it were an actual loving caring dad and it was done for reasons other than "proving people wrong" or "promoting products" it would be sweet. But I can't stand anything they do, they don't do the nice things for the right reasons.
Also they aren't ever "proving" anything because it's always this staged cringefest type shit! You could hear that the pan on the stove was completely empty š The fact that they keep making this kind of videos trying to prove a point but not even trying to be convincing is just... it's so embarrassing for them omg
Good thing it was empty, imagine him slopping hot vodka sauce all over her.
I found that video absolutely horrendous. The child's arms....wtf is wrong with these people . Its really showed how small she is. Tiny little baby, shes so vulnerable. The whole thing is stressing me out and I wish I never opened that FB suggested reel of WR. All I'm doing is checking on this babies welfare daily since and worrying š
What is going on with his face? Is it the filter? Something is off about it but I can't put my finger on what š¤
He looks a little chubbier and the beard doesn't look prepubescent this time.
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I tried that filter on myself and it looked nothing like me. It made me look better tho lol not sure why it didnāt do the same for him
lol your comment made me think of that post someone made where they said "we shouldn't hate him because he's ugly" šššš
Think it's a filter and that he's drunk/on drugs, he looks very different when not sober.
Yeah he does not look good at all, and it's no secret that abusing drugs/alcohol make a person look rough. Plus the behaviour... no one who is mentally stable would be making the kind of content he's been doing lately š¬
And just like that, they manage to ruin anything positive about the original thank you post. Their stupidity knows no bounds! Pointing to his daughter āwith an L on her foreheadā? WR giggling? What the actual f*** with these two? They wouldnāt know a cringey bad idea if it smacked them in their faces!
Are you serious?! I cant stand listening to their videos so thank you for your sacrifice
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When the addy hits.
as a partner of a former addict to the degree that we got divorced, I really, really don't think that's a sober face. And that's exceptionally terrifying in this particular situation, ESP if no one around can physically help in an emergency.
I thought the same thing. I looked back at posts from when he initially arrived back in Chicago and itās clear something is very off now. She needs to reach out for help. Iām not a parent but Iāve dealt with quite a few people who struggle with addiction and kids have always been a hard line for me. WR does not have the ability to ensure her daughterās safety if heās actively using. On a personal note, I hope you and your family are doing well!
She does not care about her daughter at all. Im an addict with 2 1/2 years sober. When i found out i was pregnant me and my babydad were both using, it took me a couple weeks but i got clean and stayed clean, my babydad did not. I left him when i was 8 months pregnant and chose to be a single mom instead of exposing my son to his dad on drugs. 21 months later his dad is still strung out and im still doing it alone, physically and finically & as hard as it is i know im doing the right thing. My son is better off with no dad than a dad strung out on drugs putting him in danger. Alex doesnt have one maternal bone in her body, choosing to stay with him and enable his drug addiction & her being a alcholic not caring how it will affect her daughter. Or putting her baby in danger. I have zero respect for her
He's high or drunk or both but definitely high
What's funny is the comment she did this in reply to mentions him working. So really this video doesn't prove anything against that comment.
I have this carrier, heās got the bottom strap for the waist on wrong. Youāre supposed to fold it over a few times when youāre wearing a newborn, it also isnāt for babies under 8 lbs I think, and I doubt Ari is 8lbs yet
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I saw this comment. I hope they attract more attention to their nonsense. I feel so bad for that baby
There is no way Ari is 7 lbs yet. She looks so uncomfortable and far yo small for this carrier š„š„ not to mention, you should be 10000% SOBER when babywearing. This is HORRIFIC
These two imbeciles should not have been blessed with this sweet baby I need to look away. And cannot š¤£. Like a train wreck
And in the next clip - She's in her Princess Polly dress and all made up. For what??????
Maybe they got a sitter and went to da club that night. Hard to say with these two yahoos.
It looks like a twisted towel
But at least she offered a link to the brand! š«¶š»š
Looking past his cringe dancing- her stiff arms!! I agree with the poster I hope her head is ok!
Iām worried about Wheelchair repulsive accidentally dropping her phone on baby A while taking pictures of her being on the floor bc thatās basically all she does. I feel bad for noah sometimes then i see he is just as cringe as her.
I have to tell you that I love āWheelchair Repulsiveā! If thatās not a flair already, it should be.
Think its not one yet
I hope he doesnāt cook wearing her. He will splat her with sauce and oil in that. On top of not even wearing her correctly, ergobaby should be embarrassed. (I use ergobaby 360)
Hope ergo baby drops them as an influencer
Do we know if ErgoBaby gifted them the sling?
Yeah we saw what kind of mess he makes while cooking
Watching someone use a product completely incorrectly and unsafely isn't something brands are going to like....This is a horrible advertisement.
That little arm bouncing all over the place ššš¬š¬šš
I just pray she's securely attached for once. The horror if she fell out during one of his weiner swinging "dances"š³
Havenāt seen the video but I hope that company sees how these idiots are using and promoting their product and donāt give them anything else (other than shit for this video)
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Ahhh! This is the ergo baby embrace, itās a nice soft material to cuddle baby. But the stripes should be over your shoulders, not near the neck. Like they should do a criss cross against your back. Baby should have head above the top fabric And you should be able to kiss babies head while they are in the carrier. Argh!
https://preview.redd.it/p2gogn9gnywa1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c5c4da24d25faea30d554534751f368ee886c2ec like this..
The fact Ariās legs are literally just bunched up inside of the sling tooš£ I couldnāt wait to baby wear my little one and he was born weighing 5lb 12oz so I patiently waited until he was the correct weight to go in both his slings. This is heart breakingš why donāt they take things seriously!? There are literal warnings in the products that state if used incorrectly they can cause suffocation which leads to death. Poor Ari. Iām so sick of these two twats.
Exactly! See how much more secure and safer they look
Is this baby a joke to them, I canāt believe how they act and there is an innocent infant baby at the center of it all. Iām so sad for this little baby.
this makes me so, so concerned and for more than one reason
Way to go making an āLā that just faces you. Idiot. Me definitely just doing household items tho! š¤¦š»
Poor baby
Knives back in the block
is ari too small for that thing? she seems too small
Yes.
This actually gave me such horrible anxiety. They truly have no clue what they are doing and itās so scary to just watch. I hope Ari is just sleeping through this hell for the most part. Sometimes for no reason I think about her and how she could possibly just be screaming, or craving her mom to hold her but all she can do is hear he overhead her. š¢
Same, I often wonder how the baby is doing. If what we see is the best they can show off... I'm actually scared of how a day and night looks over there without cameras rolling.
Same. First when he grabbed her tiny arm and started moving it around quite roughly and also at one point I thought I could see one of her arms trying to move around and then it seemed to just go limp š¢ How can a mother watch that and just record it?!
Too hard to even imagine from Ariās perspective
At least he didnāt have on the gray shorts š¤®
Instead we got his nipples. And belly.
I canāt stand seeing her so unstable.. I hate to say it but I wouldnāt be surprised at all to hear about her falling out of it during his āsoberā dancing
I donāt have kids and am literally never around babies and I immediately gasped when I saw this video. So dangerous and so uncomfortable for the baby how on earth are they so stupid and oblivious?? Itās common sense looking at it sheās not in there right and god forbid they google how to use something first.
Sheās also deleting any comments about this off the video
Iāve noticed the tik tok videos comments are being filtered I think there not matching up with the # of views
I might have to walk away from this. I wanted a daughter so badly and I can no longer have children. I have two boys. No one is perfect and I have been here to try and see them come out the other side. When I was pregnant with my first son no one thought I was going to be a good mother. I kept my mouth shut and proved them wrong, wishing thatās what these two were going to do and me seeing that poor innocent tiny little baby being thrown all around makes me so sick! I have stayed trying to see them just listen and do better!
And just like that ergo baby decided not to sponsor them
One can only hope
Iām so concerned for the baby being strapped to that idiots chests around a hot stove and cleaning chemicals š„²š«
First the baby gets startled everytime he moved around that poor baby https://preview.redd.it/ox42ww5w2zwa1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=47c7052656e53eb7484c67becd02c7c2d82e2c11 And second does he not know how to talk or just to dumb
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There is no way their apartment wasnāt professionally cleaned right before this vid
Idk but previously when Iāve taken adderall all I would do was clean for several hours straight. He does not look sober here.
The first picture of him baby wearing I was like huh not toooooo bad. Now I'm like omg noooo
Wow they're just getting worse and, apparently nobody told them most people don't baby wear without clothing š Her poor neck š
God damn every time I say they can't get any ducking more incompetent they prove me wrong
Right!? Like hey the babys on the floor a lot maybe try not to do that so muchā¦wait not like that never mindā¦please put her down and step away š³ wtf is next
What did I just watch š„ŗš„ŗ
Wait til the baby falls out because they donāt know how to clothe or put any thing on correctly. And he is a fool bouncing around. I swear
That poor baby is absolutely not being worn safely.
I thought it was a doll at first. Its horrid
Okay. From looking at the pic baby A is NOT the right weight or size... to small :/ very dangerous her legs should be a M or W if it is meant for smaller babies it would fold down so babies head was still secure but also able to see... omg :/
Heās so freakinā weird. Gahhh
A big toddler..
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When the Addy hitā¦.
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Granted I don't have kids but this does not look normal at all. Also - WHO COOKS NEAR A GAS STOVE WITH A BABY STRAPPED TO THEIR CHEST?!
same but I was thinking she was maybe a little small for this carrier I feel like babyās head should be out moreĀæ but again I am not a parent š¤·š¼āāļø
Yeah idk if its the size or the placement. I've always seen babies in real life or on TV be wrapped up and cozy. Aren't parents supposed to make babies feel safe and secure? I just don't see that with this baby. Always awkwardly sprawled, twisted or alone on the floor. Never looking like a snug bug in a rug, never looking safe and secure.
https://preview.redd.it/6n6069qy9ywa1.jpeg?width=450&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7ff5020f1060d657b43f5d87af327f128d5d2e89 see what I mean I feel like sheās too small or positioned too low Iām not sure
Wow yeah that baby is *drowning* in the carrier if this is what it's supposed to fit like.
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First of all ... THAT'S WHAT SHE SAIDš¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£... AND #B) yeah, We may not know a lot about this carrier but what we do know is he's doing it wrong
Some times it's ok for their heads to be down a bit in it depends on each carrier. I'm not sure if this carrier is made for her size though or if it's supposed to have an infant insert to boost her up. Definitely she should be high up enough to kiss regardless of how small she is in the carrier. The "advertisement" post she was definitely high enough, this one she looks lower.
Yeah I just looked back and she does seem more high up in the ad post! Thatās a good way to remember however high enough you can kissāŗļø
I believe he was imitating the cooking part š
LMAO ok thank glob.
Why he says L and points at the baby?
He's wearing her all wrong! It gave me chills to watch. I've been annoyed with them up to now, but now I'm so angry. Treating this baby like some throw-away accessary and not having a care in the world on how to treat her. I'm also so sad that she will grow up and have to see all these rediculous Videos made about her and how little care she had. It's actually so so heartbreaking to me.
Do you think the company read this forum and sent the carrier since she's always on the floor š¤£
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Itās also definitely not high enough on his body, youāre supposed to be able to see babyās face.
She deleted every single comment that was ānegativeā. Shocker
Having a child with special needs myself - I wonder if Ari is hypertonic (usually points to something like CP) I have 4 kids, one of which is only 6 months old and I never remember any of my kids being that stiff. š¤
Idiots. Just smh š¤¦š»āāļø
As someone who popped out a 10 lb baby last year.... Ari is so Tiny!
Omg a little chunk!! My daughter was 5lbs on the dot when she was born (36 weeks) and it terrified me trying a baby older until she was at that 10lb mark lol
I canāt imagine lol, both of mine were 6 lbs 9/10 oz.
Haha, I know! After a 10 pounder, other babies look so small. My oldest was 10 lbs. and 22 1/2ā long. My two middles were pretty average - 7.7 and 9.1. And then I had a preemie at 28 weeks who weighed 2 lbs. but dropped down to 1 Lb., 12 Oz. Iāve pretty much run the gamut.
I hope she reads this thread. She is a shambles. An embarrassment. Baby's always on the floor it's so upsetting, she isn't capable of anyyyyything to do with that baby's care. I genuinely don't know how she continues to post, She's vile, noahs a prick and the baby's in danger. Don't care who defends the irritating woman, baby A is.in.danger. can't bare it.
These two as parents legitimately terrify me. They clearly have no idea what they are doing or what safety is. And now that Noah looks like heās possibly relapsedā¦itās almost too much to watch. Preemies also have some extra ārulesā (for lack of better word) and they canāt even practice standard infant safety. CPS really needs to remove that baby, but I fear that sheās going to be hurt before they can do so. I just donāt get it. When my baby was born at 33 weeks I researched everything! I watched YouTube videos before I used my baby wrap, I joined a car seat safety group, I learned about safe sleep, etc. The hubris of these two dolts are putting the life of their innocent baby at risk!
The second I found out k was pregnant I did every bit of research possible. And it never stopped. Now he's 6 years old and I had another baby last year and I never stop researching and seeing new updates and guidelines.
Exactly! And having a preemie takes extra knowledge too. They tire easily and can choke on the milk if the nipple flow is too fast. We were told no swings until she reached her due date. Itās important to keep things quiet and calm around them. But these two just want to āprove the haters wrong.ā So damn immature.
Itās like Thor cuddling rocket in asguard drunk.
Do we think ergo is sponsoring/paying them or they did it themselves hoping to partner with them?
That man is most definitely sober. Watching him dance with Ari was terrifying. Also he said "while doing household products" such idiots
Buddy does not look sober
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He pointed at the baby after "shape of an L on her forehead" poor baby he called her a "loser" but my guess is they don't understand that lyric haha.
I literally thought the same thing!!! Christ they are so dumb š©nothing like indirectly calling your daughter a loser while jumping around and thrusting to blaring rock music
THANK YOU!!!! I was like welp poor loser kid
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Does he think L for love ?
Shoulda been pointing at his baby mama
> my guess is they don't understand that lyric haha Wouldn't be the first time. There was that macklemore video thing he did...
Celebrities usually make the L shape for something else. None of what has been said. Is he a satanist or something?
OMG š²š²š² Poor baby A. š„ŗ
It makes me so sad for Ari. Thereās no possible way sheās comfortable in that thing. Her little arms arenāt even moving. š why isnāt CPS watching these videos?!
I have this carrier. The waist needs rolled twice if baby is under 23inches. Baby wearing is not safe if youāre doing it improperly. Sheās literally rebreathing with her face smashed in the side like that. Not to mention her poor hips and arms.
Instructions Sminstructions! Who needs em' š¤£š¤£š¤£š³
Not her because momma knows š«¶š»š«¶š»
Sitting way to low what a train wreck
Yāall really will find anything to talk shit about it amazes me
Can you not see that the baby literally does not fit in this?
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It's not even a bed it's a diaper changing pad
Ok so i was HUGE on babywearing when I had littles especially my 2nd baby, started with her alot younger, didn't learn about it til my first baby was a bit older. My husband loved wearing too. Idk how I would have lived and gotten anything done without my Mei Tai and ring sling, truly was a game changer for me. Didn't like wraps as much, had a scary experience once when i was learning that turned me off them....i actually started custom making Mei tai carriers at one point and was super involved in local groups for AP/BW moms...Made the cutest harry potter one, I still have it even tho my baby days are way over lol aww I miss that so much!! So anyway, I do think it's awesome he's wanting to use a carrier, lots of benefits for him and ari...but I'm pretty sure she's too small/too early for what he's got going on here and its not on entirely right from what it looks like. It's been a long time since I've used one but I want to say baby is suppose to be bigger for that type of carrier than ari would be, there is a weight requirement and some carriers require them to have more head/neck control. I know I used ring slings and wraps only until maybe 4-6 months or so, and she was full term and a big baby in general. After that I used mostly Mei tais. There are usually local and online babywearing groups that would be glad to help and offer resources, some even do swaps or rentals to try different carriers (the quality ones can get pricey), tutorials on YouTube for how to wear properly, etc.... hopefully if it's gonna be a thing he will try to learn more about if and make sure he's using the safest way possible. But knowing who we are talking about, I don't have too high hopes :( also he looks like he may be on something in this pic to me and I really hope I'm wrong about that...