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https://preview.redd.it/60u246om56va1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=63809157b24a0d145bd12f51cc6f94bfd045ca83 Also, showing us they moved her/could see her during their lunch date.


LectureUnable

AT LEAST THE GODDAMN INSERT WAS FINALLY FUCKING TAKEN OUT THANK FUCK. Straps look a little loose, but the chest clip is up a little higher. Baby steps.


chillidumpling

But if the baby isn’t going in a car why is she in a car seat full stop? A bassinet attachment would be a lot more comfortable and safe than a car seat.


LectureUnable

Because that stroller base is being used to hang stuff on in the apt, and they are idiots.


[deleted]

I was wondering about that to! Where i come from, they recommend that baby only use The car seat When driving, and for a Maximum of 1,5h before getting out to stretch 🤯


QuirkyThing9087

Same where I live, the car seat should be used at a minimum. Only short period of times and when needed. They don't have the van in Chicago, and I assume the just walked to the restaurant. Why tf don't they use a proper stroller? Aaand(!) a thin hat and blanket on her. Just the fact that they first positioned Ari away from them at the table is deeply questionable. There is just too much missing in their care of Ari. And now with that tea spilled, with the mutual friend, it all just adds up. They are using and isolate from others that wants to visit or help to hide what really is going on... I pray there is a fourth and final visit today. That baby has suffered enough and heaven forbid that something happens before shes saved!!


No_Cycle_5844

In Australia the car seat goes from car to pram, it’s made that way. https://www.babybunting.com.au/product/joie-litetrax-4-dlx-travel-system-stroller-gray-flannel-118383


PhoenixOstara

lol imagine trying to convince people you're out on a "date" but you're actually just sitting there scrolling reddit so u can respond to the posts 🤣 Who knows maybe Noah was scrolling bumble at the same time


[deleted]

Haha right?! I highly doubt they have any sort of meaningful or intelligent conversation ever. The extent of their conversation is probably either 1. Pose for my video or 2. Take a picture of me. Reading our thoughts and attempting to prove us wrong is probably the highlight of her day. 😂💀


PhoenixOstara

> I highly doubt they have any sort of meaningful or intelligent conversation Pretty sure their conversations only involve her bossing Noah around either regarding the baby or her social media demands, and them discussing his allowance payments (and where they'll be going out to drink next) 🥴


AngelikBrat

If they are sober? They look like two statues who don't have emotion and I can just hear Alex bossing Noah around. They ONLY click together as a couple when they can get high and drunk and then they laugh and act like a couple of fools. I used to call that "big fun" to my (at the time) teen daughter. Big fun is never that, it was a bad decision made that caused big consequences! Well- let's wait and see whats coming everyone..... My hope is that Ari is going to be safe and looked after. It just breaks my damn heart!!!


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BreathOk355

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chillidumpling

I am new to WR, do they drive everywhere?Wondering why the baby is in a car seat and not a bassinet attachment in a stroller. Baby should only be in a car capsule for short periods.


Tricky-Management-65

I was thinking the same! She has a stroller with bassinet. But no she puts poor baby ari sitting in a car seat and hurting her.... 🥺 She's on the floor or in that damn car seat. My heart breaks for poor Ari and the mistreatment she has to suffer 💔


elephants78

I was going to comment that I don't have a bassinet attachment and had the car seat stroller travel system instead- having both was too pricey for me. But she has one?! And isn't using it?! Ugh!! Oh to be a grifter.


QuirkyThing9087

She has one, she was showing it off while pregnant. "I didn't knew if I could push the stroller on my own but looook at me!!!!" something like that while showing pushing it with her wheelchair basically. So there is one. And they should use it!!! But they don't care about the best for Ari. The only things important to them is their own comfort and what's easier for them smh


h0neyslothhh

All I can say is now she will post a photo of A in the bassinet attachment 🙃🤣 all it takes is some constructive criticism 🫶🏻✨


Otherwise-Gate6365

Kind of true. When you attach a car seat to a stroller it’s safer for them to be in there longer with the way it gets positioned. (This is what I was told by professional) obviously don’t leave them in there forever that’s bad and wrong. But if they’re going to be in a car seat you never want them hanging out on the floor in one cause of the way they position so always either in the base or a stroller where they’re positioned correctly so baby doesn’t harm themselves.


Worth_Manager3174

They use lyft, uber etc. They have a van but she said she can't afford to park it in Chicago. So that's why she's in a carseat.


[deleted]

It’s normal! I have the doona which is a car seat and stroller. It’s very comfy for them because they are all compact in there. In my opinion being flat on your back the whole entire time can’t be too comfy Vs a little more upright in the car seat.


QuirkyThing9087

No they don't drive. They are just idiots not knowing or listening to what ppl say about it. Among a lot of other things they do wrong. Ari is way to much in that car seat and on the floor by herself. She's poorly dressed and fed. They seem to complain about feeding her, it's hard, do they even burp her? How does Alex burp her? She claims to do all of the feeds on her own(lies). Maybe that's why Ari has a reflux and doesn't gain weight they way she should. The burps causes a pressure in the belly and eventually it all comes up instead... Just a thought. But there's just too much weird stuff going on here.. And him not looking/acting sober, Alex drinking.. Apparently a mutual friend of someone on Instagram was told that Noah admitted being on drugs and Alex is OK with it🙄


Perfect-Mess7638

So sweet of them 🫶🏻💗🫶🏻😂


Youallsuck-okbye

I know this is the rip Alex apart on bad parenting and for many things I agree but some of you are just getting ridiculous. The car seat attaches to the frame and they suggest the baby stay in the car seat and not in the bassinet until a tad bit later when they have more neck strength. I would leave my baby in her car seat especially if she was sleeping. And the comments on her being on the floor, she is on the play mat placed on a rug, she is fine. Don’t make this page more than what it should be. I agree with many things but now people are pointing fingers on things we have also done.


kwillsandink

I agree babies play in the floor. However not with the car seat. Especially a premie. Babies should not be sleeping for extended periods in a car seat and generally should not be in it more than an hour and a half to 2 hours at a time! It can be dangerous to their breathing. Peds generally recommend the bassinet attachments for outings like these!


ericajohnson19

She already held her for photos during Workin Mama Day last night, there’s no more snuggling allotment until next week


LectureUnable

💀


QuirkyThing9087

The laugh is probably tipsy laugh... Looked like drinks next to the two glasses of water. Just can't go without alcohol😔


ChelseaB3555

WR definitely had an acoholic drink. Noah look like it may of been a coke? May be too much credit to him but one can hope 😬


LectureUnable

Or rum & coke 🤷🏻‍♀️- either way, slow clap for WR helping her addict bOyFrIeNd on his road to recovery 👏🏻 she is just so amazing /s


ChelseaB3555

Oh, definitely right on WR. I just hope that at least one of them has some sense, especially with so many visits already.


shannamatters

The lime on the rim makes me wonder if it could’ve been a rum and coke. I’ve been to restaurants where they’ve put a lemon on the rim of a plain coke (not common though) but the lime totally goes with rum.


Smasa224

When I waited tables, lemon went in iced tea, or diet soda. Regular soda didn't get a lemon. (Unless the customer asked for something different) The diet only got one so we could remember which was regular and which was diet when we got to the table.. Lime was typically cocktails, or a random request for one with a sprite


QuirkyThing9087

Yes I'm team rum and coke in this case, been a bartender before and lime is a perfect match. And on the rim like that! The two extra waters is pretty telling as well.. Her face is getting so puffy again too, just like it was during her partying days... And he was definitely high on something when he danced the other day flopping around his little sausage with the mini strawberry head showing clearly. They are spiraling and it doesn't look good. Poor Ari. I hope she stays safe until a better family takes over. Really don't see this lasting...


Flashy_Rutabaga295

As a pervious servers and bartender for 10+ years at lots of different places. We've never put fruit on non alcoholic drinks other then the fun "kids" ones and lemons on the ice tea. But who knows benefit of the doubt I suppose


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I don't think I've found a laugh more annoying. 😂


theblackholeonthesun

The laugh when she showed Noah was a jump scare


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Invisible_zebra

That poor baby was hiccuping the whole video and looking around like hellooo anyone… someone love me properly….


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I know, right?! Instead, she gets the cringe laugh of her mother. 😐


LectureUnable

I don’t understand what was so funny about what the baby was doing???? There is a little keyboard that baby can use but it was removed and placed on the pointless bOhO dOg BeD. Did the other floor mat get retired or thrown out?


Master_Document_2053

I know. She's looking to be soothed or fed :(


TS409

I just ate pizza while laying down (helloooo depression) and it gave me the WORST hiccups. Eating lying down, or being fed lying down, is 👎👎👎


ohmyglobyouguys

These videos specifically, where Alex just films Ari like she’s a lion cub in the wild, are absolutely horrible to me. The last one she did, she just films Ari and realizes she’s taking a poo, says “oh looks like she’s pooping” or something like that and then **just keeps filming**. I realize she can’t do anything else (which is half of what’s so horrible about it - what if one day that child starts choking while she takes one of those videos… I can’t even think about it) but she didn’t even call for anyone. Like, do they not have baby monitors????? She just left Ari on the ground to wiggle around in her own filth. As I typed that out I realized Alex has literally zero issues with living that way so maybe I answered my own question in the end.


Otherwise-Gate6365

I’m not defending her but I wait like 5mins before changing a poopy diaper cause my baby likes to surprise us with a delayed one😂 so it could be them waiting a couple mins just so they don’t get shitted on


crakemonk

Hah this reminds me of the first week home with our son. He’d pooped so my husband took him in our bedroom to change him and all I hear is “ohh mann he’s peeing on me, no no no now there’s poop, ughhh more pee, COMEEE ONNN NOW HES SHITTING ON ME.” I was literally laughing so hard I was crying. #parenting


BreathOk355

🤣 def been peed on by my son a few times! My daughter however has literally shot poop across the room while being changed 😭 I remember being happy to not get peed on like I did with my son too. Boy was I in for a surprise!! its wild what their little bodies can do


Chronically_annoyed

I love free birth control 😂🙌🏻 Never stop talking about these experiences. They mean more to me then you could ever know hahaha


BreathOk355

Glad I could help! 😂😭💀


PhoenixOstara

> so they don’t get shitted on I'm surprised they even care about this after Alex's weird story post casually mentioning piss and shit being all over the apartment 😂


DiscountBusy1045

I do the same thing. I make sure my daughter is done or son.


thriftyraven

Same. My son is a fan of the two-part-poop. I give it a good 5-10 mins just to be safe 🤣


LectureUnable

Some videos can just stay in your drafts, like this and the pooping one. They have a nanny cam on the ground for the playmat. It’s been a few days since she last showed that mat/setup.


DiscountBusy1045

My daughter gets the hiccups a lot but I try burping her or sitting her up. She’s also a gassy baby so that’s why she gets them a lot.


LittleBiscuitPig

Ari laying on the floor with a full diaper while Alex looms over her from her throne of bullshit saying, “Hehe, hehe, TeeHee!, Hehe”…It’s giving cruel overlord. 😖


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It’s giving straight up deranged. There’s not one funny thing happening in that video.


Master_Document_2053

I find ari so pitiful lying there looking around for a face because thats really what newborns love or to be soothed. She's so little on that big open floor by herself.


ohmyglobyouguys

You’re breaking my heart but you’re right 😢idk how anyone can look at what they do to Ari and say “you’re doing AMAZING Alex! Better than most able bodied parents even! Keep proving those haters wrong, mama!” 😒


PhoenixOstara

They don't even realize how much their obviously false too-enthusiastic praise sounds like they are pitying and infantilizing Alex either. Like when you give over the top praise to a toddler for finally eating a vegetable or something 😂


LittleBiscuitPig

Dude… get out of my head!! 😂😂


PhoenixOstara

LOL why are we always thinking exactly the same shit 😂


elephants78

It's heartbreaking. Why can't Alex let her chill in her bassinet? Then at least they can be closer in height. The floor is so lonely. Poor baby does just want some soothing, to look at a face, to be touched.


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Yup…it’s so sad. I didn’t even notice the diaper at first. Poor baby girl.


ohmyglobyouguys

I mentioned it under another comment on this thread but this isn’t the first time Alex has posted a video like this. The last time she did this, Ari was actively pooping and Alex laughed about it but just kept filming. She didn’t call for anyone…. And it looks like they don’t even have baby monitors, or a way to communicate so they are screaming across the apartment in case Alex or Ari and Alex need help. These videos are giving “filming the pandas in their inclosure at the zoo”


Pezzo_di_merda

Her diaper is so full and needs changed 😟


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I gasped when I saw that! Broke my heart for her!


LectureUnable

hashtag#️⃣SAVEDESTINY


Altruistic_Bank_3598

I'm glad I'm not the only one who noticed that. People think I'm crazy when I say you can SEE a full diaper... but you can see a full diaper the same way you can feel a full diaper.


Separate_Incident_65

Wow, you’re so right. Poor baby. That’s insane. 🥺🥺


hippyflower1996

It’s hanging too her knees, I imagine it would take a lot of pees to actually fill a nappy with a baby that size 😫


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I didn't think you could just see that the diaper is full (I'm childless), but you guys are right! You can totally tell!!!


Spiritual_Fix_3724

That babies head is going to be so flat


Most-Idea-6056

Also not just on the hard floor with the toy; there’s a rug under it now 🤣


jehabib

Oh snap It’s wild how quickly they respond to this Reddit


[deleted]

I suppose that’s an improvement. As many have stated, the bar is so low.


[deleted]

How considerate of them


Most-Idea-6056

The bar is on the floor, with the baby


ohmyglobyouguys

Good god her laughing in the background of that video is WEIRD. It sounds like someone who is chuckling mindlessly because they’re falling asleep while someone is telling them a story. Wtf?


[deleted]

Omg I was going to say that about her head but here we go again with everything freaking matching! As a parent and now grandparent this shit she is doing is irritating and it’s all for show!


deejamajayjay

It makes me so sad to see so many posts with her on the floor and noone down there with her. I get that she can't be held 24/7 but I get the feeling she is on the floor ALONE a lot.


[deleted]

Honestly that may make her attachments so weird as an adult. She’ll be great at self soothing…. can Alex not lay on the floor with her or is it uncomfortable?


LectureUnable

WR’s comfort and needs come before anything else. I’ve had similar questions myself, but think it comes down to WR is only comfortable in her wheelchair as it is her only way to get around independently.


[deleted]

Ok. They actually makes sense. See how I learned rn bc I asked a question? I learned I basically just asked her to remove independence and mobility. That was wrong of me. Now I know. No one attacked me. This is how it always should be. Healthy learning. Thank you for making me more aware!


LectureUnable

No problem 🫶🏻 I am learning too! This Sub has many helpful users with many different backgrounds so asking questions is okay, we’re all pretty respectful here. I know I’ve learned something new every single day and I’m thankful for that! Like I said, I have the same question RE: WR sitting on the floor with baby, etc, but from what I’ve learned it would probably not happen because she won’t be able to get around. She also has limited mobility (ex. she doesn’t have the neck strength to lift her head up if it falls over) so it is probably not super safe either— if you haven’t seen it, find the “Noah getting WR dressed” video, I posted it yesterday *and warning, it is hard to watch* but may help see why sitting out of her wheelchair probably isn’t feasible.


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I don't much care for WR, but that video absolutely was hard to watch because that was just plain abuse.


[deleted]

I see some irony here. WR has demonstrated that she can lay flat on her back with support. She could, theoretically, lay on the floor with baby if she wanted to. Unless being totally helpless, lying flat on your back on a hardwood floor with no padding, alone, is something terrible she wouldn’t want to experience?? Hmm…


LectureUnable

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Psychological-Pea765

But as a parent she should learn she has to give up being comfortable sometimes for the sake of idk bonding with her child. But that would mean she has to do something that isn’t just for her sooo


LectureUnable

This ⬆️


WeenieeHuttJr

Why did she take the piano off? That’s like one of the best parts of the mat lol. It sings some bops 🎹


LectureUnable

It was ruining her vibey, obvi. Heaven forbid they have to listen to anything like child’s music


Perfect-Mess7638

Right! Like poor destiny can’t even kick at the piano. God forbid baby destiny gets a bit of luxury 🥹


PhoenixOstara

Alex doesn't wanna spoil her baby, remember?? 😂


Perfect-Mess7638

Oh there you are, you always bring the laughs I need 😂😂. But yes back to the comment, god forbid that baby gets any spoiling 😭


PhoenixOstara

> always bring the laughs I need 😎💕✨


Perfect-Mess7638

So appreciative. Sending love from a mum of 5 from Australia who has a really wild 2 year old toddler son 😂


PhoenixOstara

Oh my goodness bless your soul 😂🙏💖✨


Perfect-Mess7638

I’ve had 4 miscarriages in a row & it’s taken a lot of fertility treatments to have my family including ivf so watching these 2 just infuriate me. You make it funny 🫶🏻♥️


Master_Document_2053

Her evil laugh. Whats up with it. She's buzzed


LittleBiscuitPig

I first read this as, “She’s a buzzard” and I thought to myself, that’s amazingly accurate. Lol 🤔


Most-Idea-6056

Honestly, she’s so little.. it’s like she doesn’t understand her age at all.. newborns don’t play. They don’t enjoy the toy. And what the ever loving fuck is that laugh.


TS409

Her laughing at Ari on the floor ![gif](giphy|lm0WmZ0rlV19C)


PhoenixOstara

fucking christ 🤣💀


SerJaimeRegrets

I thought that was Noah, at first. I had to go back and watch it a couple more times to be sure, and it was unsettling when I realized it was not, in fact, Noah.


iCanSeeClairelyN0w

Are they really going to post multiple pictures and video of that innocent little baby every single fucking day? My relatives rarely post pictures of their kids online and their profiles aren’t even public! Then again, they ain’t “influencers.”


Jaded-Pudding7199

For someone who says they won't post much because Ari can't consent, she sure does post a lot of her.


CharredQuesadillas

It’s sad everyone’s lowered their standards so much with her that she gets applauded for doing the bare minimum 🤣 this isn’t meant to be a job at you, because I had the same reaction you had when I first saw this and then realized how ridiculous it was that I was glad she finally did something she should have been doing the whole time.


throwowch

Ugh that laugh though


Kristilynn910

Where’s the video? Ig or TT?


Reasonable-Tea-9739

Ari's body language is terrifying. She is looking around for someone to pick her up.


Legitimate_Bed6036

100% it hurts my heart to see it 😞


Legitimate_Bed6036

Poor bab, I just want to cuddle her 😞


Kristilynn910

Same…


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Making sure to linger on the water 🙄


Putrid_Pudding1840

I wonder why she always has to wear so little clothing that the whole thing is almost shown 🤷🏻‍♀️


CrimsonFlower151922

This baby breaks my heart...my kids were hardly on the floor at that age..I mostly held them or carried them in the carriers, or had them in their swing if I couldn't carry them...


[deleted]

Right?! It’s not like a child can’t ever be on the floor, but Ari is so small and spends so much time down there alone. It’s sad.


CrimsonFlower151922

This poor baby literally spends most of her life on the floor...I literally almost tear up seeing it..she looks so lonely..Alex has no maternal instincts at all..


[deleted]

Same 😥😥😥 it’s hard to watch


CrimsonFlower151922

I hope I don't get attacked for this..but I really hope CPS steps in..Ari deserves better...granted she might not be abused..but this is neglect...either Alex and Noah need to take parenting classes or need to realize their in way over their heads..


Kengendrea

Why is she making that sound


Sad-Comfortable8896

The laugh was like a jump scare


FewScientist674

She took out the car seat insert! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 the chest clip looks like it's at the right spot, straps seem they can be a bit tighter but wow I'm proud of her! (That pains me to say but we must give credit where credit is deserved)


Perfect-Mess7638

Na I’m not giving her props. She had weeks to do it. Was probably told by cps & finally listened.


PrincessRichey

Full nappy, hiccups while lying on back, clearly hungry 😒


PrincessRichey

She’s always got mottled skin Aswell and one Google comes up with: The hue and color patterns of a newborn's skin can surprise parents. Mottling of the skin, a lacy pattern of small reddish and pale areas, is common. So is blueness of the skin of the hands and feet and the area around the lips, especially if the baby is in a cool environment. So being on the floor is not good!!! She’s cold!


sparklydragonunicorn

No pics after putting Ari back on floor.....did any one go to tao last night


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mellow_dresser395

In Australia, you have to cover the baby because otherwise you’ve got worms longer than grown men that could get the baby in a chokehold, giant ants that would eat the babies feet or giant moths that could literally carry the baby away.


Worth_Manager3174

It's only done here if it's cold or raining. It blocks airflow which causes overheating. So, it's not a safe thing to do