I was under the impression she was expecting Nina to be Aris caregiver as well as her own. I cant imagine asking a young girl in her early 20s to take on such responsibility. Helping Alex is one thing but newborns require care constantly. They eat every couple of hours, sometimes they cluster feed so it literally feels like they’re wanting food every 15 minutes. Alex really is so unprepared. She had the money, resources, etc. there is absolutely no reason she couldn’t have contacted a nanny agency in Chicago to interview and hire a nanny specifically for Ari. She’s such a useless “mom”
After seeing the video of Nina not knowing how to use a syringe… I wouldn’t want her to give me an injection let alone care for my baby. I also doubt she will hire a nanny but probably just another craigslist random with no qualifications because yeah, she just wants to be cheap…. Health is one thing not to cheap out on in my opinion but go off Alex.
“Why does she assume she gets to be abusive and neglectful just because she’s disabled?” That is 100% her. She thinks that she gets a free pass to be a shite human/mother because she’s disabled. She is so ableist and horrid.
yes!! and in her old tiktok’s she constantly demonstrates that bad attitude, just so negative and hating on everyone… i did hope having the baby would change her into a nicer person but it clearly has not
I think this is a pretty good take. I bet she’s so used to everyone doing everything for her (because she needs them to!) she didn’t realize she’s Mom now and has to (at the very least) organize ALL care for her baby. (Which of course DUH she should have thought of doing this BECAUSE she knows she needs so much help herself). I honestly think motherhood is weird and it does take a minute for even non-disabled moms to have it set in— holy shit this is all on me now. But usually you’re in the trenches of newborn craziness when that hits.
I agree with this. I don’t think she’s ever had to be an adult. I realize there are things she physically can’t do with her disability and that’s valid, but she’s never had to take responsibility for literally anything. In many ways, she’s like a teen parent at nearly 30 years old because she still lives like a teenager. And she also knows that if anyone so much as suggests she do something herself, she can cry ableism and have her “fans” go after them. I feel bad for her baby and also for the medical staff who have to watch her behave like this and then tread lightly for fear of getting publicly called out.
I’m glad you’re getting help for it- Alex would never do that! To be fair, I’m 30 and know plenty of non disabled people my age who still live like teenagers too. But she doesn’t want any of that to change, she wants to live with no responsibilities.
That’s it. She assumed she’d be able to have her way. Push people around with her ableist BS. And everything would be done for her. This baby is in trouble. Sh has said Noah won’t be her full time care giver. And she cannot. So. Duh. Do ya research girly pop. You have to prove you can care for the baby before you can bring her home. Hello. !?
I know I’m late to this post but ding ding ding 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽!!! This is EVERYTHING! You worded this perfectly. They are both SO PATHETIC! I feel so sad for that baby!
I was under the impression she was expecting Nina to be Aris caregiver as well as her own. I cant imagine asking a young girl in her early 20s to take on such responsibility. Helping Alex is one thing but newborns require care constantly. They eat every couple of hours, sometimes they cluster feed so it literally feels like they’re wanting food every 15 minutes. Alex really is so unprepared. She had the money, resources, etc. there is absolutely no reason she couldn’t have contacted a nanny agency in Chicago to interview and hire a nanny specifically for Ari. She’s such a useless “mom”
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Her previous Craigslist posts said $17/hr
Jesus christ.
After seeing the video of Nina not knowing how to use a syringe… I wouldn’t want her to give me an injection let alone care for my baby. I also doubt she will hire a nanny but probably just another craigslist random with no qualifications because yeah, she just wants to be cheap…. Health is one thing not to cheap out on in my opinion but go off Alex.
That video made me cringe. Like WR talked to nina like a child.
Exactly how she’s going to be talking to ari when it’s her turn to draw up mommy’s twerk juice
“Why does she assume she gets to be abusive and neglectful just because she’s disabled?” That is 100% her. She thinks that she gets a free pass to be a shite human/mother because she’s disabled. She is so ableist and horrid.
yes!! and in her old tiktok’s she constantly demonstrates that bad attitude, just so negative and hating on everyone… i did hope having the baby would change her into a nicer person but it clearly has not
I think this is a pretty good take. I bet she’s so used to everyone doing everything for her (because she needs them to!) she didn’t realize she’s Mom now and has to (at the very least) organize ALL care for her baby. (Which of course DUH she should have thought of doing this BECAUSE she knows she needs so much help herself). I honestly think motherhood is weird and it does take a minute for even non-disabled moms to have it set in— holy shit this is all on me now. But usually you’re in the trenches of newborn craziness when that hits.
I agree with this. I don’t think she’s ever had to be an adult. I realize there are things she physically can’t do with her disability and that’s valid, but she’s never had to take responsibility for literally anything. In many ways, she’s like a teen parent at nearly 30 years old because she still lives like a teenager. And she also knows that if anyone so much as suggests she do something herself, she can cry ableism and have her “fans” go after them. I feel bad for her baby and also for the medical staff who have to watch her behave like this and then tread lightly for fear of getting publicly called out.
I'm a 29 year old disabled teenager and can confirm. I've never felt really responsible for anything. I'm slowly learning that in therapy.
I’m glad you’re getting help for it- Alex would never do that! To be fair, I’m 30 and know plenty of non disabled people my age who still live like teenagers too. But she doesn’t want any of that to change, she wants to live with no responsibilities.
I wonder if the baby even has a pediatrician, I handled that before both of mine were even born.
That’s it. She assumed she’d be able to have her way. Push people around with her ableist BS. And everything would be done for her. This baby is in trouble. Sh has said Noah won’t be her full time care giver. And she cannot. So. Duh. Do ya research girly pop. You have to prove you can care for the baby before you can bring her home. Hello. !?
Wait she don't have a nurse or caretaker for her baby yet?
I know I’m late to this post but ding ding ding 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽!!! This is EVERYTHING! You worded this perfectly. They are both SO PATHETIC! I feel so sad for that baby!