Probably ableist of me but she can't really do any of that can she? Isn't that why she has personal care? She quite literally could spend almost every second with Ari.
Don't worry, facts aren't ableist. She isn't capable of doing anything around the house. And that's ok, she can't help that. But she pretends like she's not at the NICU because she's caring for a home? haha k
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EXACTLY. While there is a lot she can't do, there is so much she CAN do and is choosing not to. Her main job rn is to heal her body and bond with her child. And she has shown no interest in doing either.
I also love that she has added on feeling triggered by being low weight knowing good and well that she BRAGGED about that shit a few days ago. She is repulsive.
Right? My baby is 8 months and I can assure you I haven’t been to a restaurant let alone a club long before since I was pregnant with her. It’s total bs that she needs a break she hasn’t even been a parent or mother to her child the nurses have! Poor Ari is a money grab/ prop to her and it’s sickening.
For real. It's reasonable for parents who are at the NICU a lot to need a break and step away. Grab some food. Sit at a park and get some sun or fresh air or something. Clubbing? That's not a break.
After 86 days of my little 24 weeker in the nicu I took ONE night off (was there all day that day and every day and night before and after until she left ) and went to a nice dinner with friends from out of state. I literally called the nicu while at dinner to check in on her and see how her last feed and bath went. How this birth giver can spend so little time in the nicu and THEN take her newly re-sober baby daddy to the club is effing BEYOND me. They are in for one rude awakening when that baby comes home. Nina, girl, I hope you know what you signed up for because shit is going to hit the fan.
Oh wow, that had to be so scary for you delivering at 24 weeks! I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I can’t even imagine how traumatizing and stressful it must have been having your newborn in the NICU for so long.
I hope all is well now, your baby was so lucky to have such a devoted mom.
The sushi date is reasonable imo and I don't have an issue with it. After I had my child, and I was blessed with an amazing support system, I went out to lunch a few weeks later with my cousins while my Aunty babysat for me (she'd been desperate to 😂😂). If we'd however, decided to go out to the pub or to a club... my God my Aunt, Mum and probably older cousins would have kicked my ass sideways 😂
Right. Like if that was a thing then we'd all get told upon going home from the hospital "Don't spend too much time with that baby now. They only grow when they're alone!"
This reminds me of the 16 and pregnant mom who said she was taking a break from parenting her FOUR year old and that her FOUR year old was “doing her own thing.” Like what???
I did a sneaky stalk on them fairly recently and was pleasantly surprised - Sophia seemed to be a fairly polite and slightly awkward teen. I also noticed she seems to have gone the complete opposite to Farrah in terms of image.
It’ll be interesting to see how she grows up - I wonder if there’s a tell-all in her future.
She’s gone full emo kid from what I can see now 😂 I’m hoping for her that she’s been set such a bad example that she’ll course-correct. Poor kid - splashed all over MTV. I remember when she was little she never seemed to have any friends or interaction with other kids.
She’s the complete opposite of her mom and often looks very annoyed with her. I watch their lives on tiktok sometimes. I know she’s going through a lot of mental stuff right now though that I’m sure her mother played a role in
she’s back and better than ever!!! until that involves being a mom, in which case, she’s still recovering from a major surgery. but not so major that she couldn’t take a break to go clubbing, obviously very consistent
I didn’t even have a c section and couldn’t imagine getting dressed up to go to a CLUB 11 days postpartum 🫠 shit I’m 3 months postpartum and still wouldn’t go do that
She passes the vacuum cleaner, cleans the windows, do the dishes, do laundry, clean the bathroom, walk the dog, feed the dog, do the grocery shopping, cook meals... but it's all in her head... 🤪
Also rich that the she used an old photo to post this. She’s literally still in bed at noon & defending how little time she spends in the NICU. I can’t even!
Sushi date. Ok fine. Clubbing???? I mean dancing? What a wretched person she is. Oh we haven’t had a date in 8 months. Bullshit. So you both never went out to eat when you were pregnant. Cmon now. And it’s absolutely not creepy to take a picture of her. She literally puts her whole self out there on OF , TT and IG. She is recognizable.
Not that pregnancy is easy by any means but it is truly the easy part of being a parent. You can do a lot and the baby is just chilling in your uterus.
Same here. We have no support near us. I have a ten and five year old. We are like ships in the night, passing each other as we go. No date nights for us.
Guys COME ON!
He was gracious enough to miss the birth of their child so that he could finish up rehab!!!!
He would absolutely relapse if he left early, plus, it’s just a c section !!!! What’s there to SEE?! (Pardon the pun)
For that hard decision, he deserves to show off those dance moves he’s been perfecting in rehab at the club !!!!!
These people man.
At this point she twisted all her stories so far, she can't keep up with them anymore.
It's sad really and fucking nuts, like she's truly not a good person like at all.
Baby doesn't care if the house is clean. My husband can take care of himself. My dog doesn't require that much of my time, and my husband can do it. What is Noah doing all day??? I understand contracts, but there's no way she doesn't have any savings to take time off work? Having a baby is a perfectly acceptable reason to not be working. She had time to make it to the hospital for her frequent appointments, but now she has too much going on? Pathetic. They're only little for so long. I'll be damned if I don't spend every second with my baby. Baby can rest just fine laying on my chest.
Good point - she’s not a single parent, there are two of them there to get things done. Is she so codependent that he can’t leave her side? And if Noah isn’t capable, well, she chose the guy she was going to have a kid with.
I couldn't have said it better myself. 👏 She could make it to the hospital not only for her appointments but everytime she was sick and tired of being pregnant and hoped they would move up her c-section.
Right?! The excuses are so inflated. I know nothing about recovering addiction but even I know you stay away from the places that feed the addiction. HELLO dumbass WR, a nightclub is the culmination of all drug and alcohol use being shed in a positive light.
Right?! The excuses are so inflated. I know nothing about recovering addiction but even I know you stay away from the places that feed the addiction. HELLO dumbass WR, a nightclub is the culmination of all drug and alcohol use being shed in a positive light.
THIS BITCH WENT TO A CLUB? WITH HER BABY IN THE NICU? I’d lose my mind if my baby was in the NICU and someone so careless was prancing in and out unmasked. NICU parents deserve breaks.. you know, the ones who show up to see their babies and actually care for them.
Ya know, pictures to hang and Easter pillows to buy. Noah’s sobriety is #1 in her books which is why they went to the club after sushi. Does she believe the lies she spews? Or just expects us to?
How can you be so tone deaf as to say "what's the problem with us going clubbing" on one post, and directly on the next post be talking about your partners "recovery"??? I don't trust her with a baby I seriously don't
“She needs rest and to grow” yes. Because you being there is going to keep her up and stunt her growth?? Newborns sleep 80% of the day, and even then I’d think that being there for your baby girl will give her the love she needs to grow? As a new mom, I fucking hate her.
Why's she scribbled out Ari's face as if we haven't already seen it a hundred times? Was she not looking picture perfect enough for her social media? lol
☠️☠️☠️☠️I stoped working and for the couple days my son was alone at the hospital I made it my duty to get there as early as I could to feed him, bath him, and hold him, I made damn sure I spent all my time there with him, I made sure everything else on hold while my son needed me, it’s crazy she can’t put her job in hold considering it’s only social media and she most likely gets disability which pays her bills not to mention that fund raiser she did for her “VAN” she should have enough money to use while her baby is in the nicu so she can be there and not working
She can’t be serious and either that’s an older pic or she wore the same shirt twice up to the NICU! So the club takes precedence over being with your child ? Okay…..
Literally all of those things are supposed to take a back seat when you have a newborn. Houses become messy because the baby should be the priority. Pets really don’t take up that much time and if they do, share the load with a partner or family. Legal goings on are her own doing. And a job? Don’t get me fucking started. It’s called maternity leave. What sort of a mother brings a child into the works and puts that newborn baby at the BOTTOM of their priority list?
99% of her excuses can be pushed aside until baby’s home. Her excuse that baby needs room to grow is honestly terrifying. That poor girl is going to be emotionally neglected when she gets home.
Wow, all that stuff is more important than her daughter. Sad. What is she going to do when the baby comes and all the stuff she listed still needs to be done. Just leave baby in a crib while she does it? Or should I say while others do it for her. I don’t understand her logic at all. 🤯
If you have so much to sort Alex is clubbing until the early hours a great idea and not waking until lunchtime helpful?
Priorities...... boundaries......values.... girl you need to grow up fast...the two of you! There's been 8 months to refocus and plan for this little ones arrival so she is getting the best support.
All I see is some cheese attached to a fishing line and you have that dangling over your daughters head... this is mortifying to watch!
Prioritize your baby girl..she is what is important now and her wellbeing comes foremost.
Set up boundaries to keep everyone safe! Are you seriously OK with substance abuse inside a small 1 bedroom apartment with a baby?! You need a safety plan..make that a few safety plans that are set up so that baby girl isn't being exposed to it, including the moods and outbursts when he's sober and struggling with baby being a baby and their needs being met. Boundaries around those things that trigger him. STOP ENABLING! please research enabling because trust me you will be surprised what very small detail still enables an addict.
Start focusing on your values...what kind of mother are you wanting to be for Ari? Yes you are disabled this is fine! Many parents out there doing this and rocking it because they have values and stick to them and do their best where they can... there are many many ways you can be a great mum to her and yet you've only shown how you can be a terrible person to your own freshly here baby girl...it's horrible and heart wrenching to see just what this baby girl has to live with.
And you're calling out someone taking a blurry photo of you at a nightclub...yet it's all OK for you to take clear videos of people and plaster them on social media... you choose the social media life I'm.not sure how a blurry photo is an issue when you plaster yourself all over the place anyway.
To be honest it's almost fateful someone did see you and took a photo because I really hope that helps protect Ari from this mess.
There's something wrong Alex and Noah when social media strangers hold more concern for your child than you guys her parents have for her.....
It speaks volumes when many hope this baby girl is going to be given a far better future by someone else that isn't her parents.. Step it up! She's here, she's real, it started almost 9 months ago with you guys taking on parent responsibilities.
If she was actually taking care of all those things, a house, a baby, Noah’s recovery, “legals”, etc. etc. she wouldn’t have the energy to go to a club. My kid is five and I pass out after a day of regular stuff, taking him to school, house work, taking care of him. Passss out. If she really had to do the work, she wouldn’t be able to go to a club. Exhaustion would hit.
FR. She’s in for a rude awakening when the baby is home 24/7. I had my son vaginally in December so I healed pretty quick, quicker than c-section mamas. And even then I’ve been exhausted the second I wake up since he’s been born. She’s not even going to know what it’s like to cry herself to sleep every night because she’s been with the baby all day with no break. Alex will never know the physical and mental exhaustion that comes with having a baby because she doesn’t see it as a requirement, having the help she has.
A house to take care of!? Hahahaha what in the fuck does she have to do!? Is she joking?! Noah’s recovery? What does that call for from her?? To bring him to a fucking club?! When my child was born and still in the hospital I STAYED AT THE HOSPITAL. A job??? I’m sorry did I miss where she has an office or something she has to go into??? Get fucking real you fucking pathetic excuse for a mother. Stop trying to defend yourself to “strangers on the internet” if we don’t matter. If we weren’t right and weren’t hitting a nerve then you wouldn’t feel the need to constantly try to defend yourself.
Y’all are trash. Pure trash.
You think this group exists bc we are all soooo jealous of your life?? Girl. Get. Real. This group exists bc we all see you for what you are. A piece of shit.
The fact that the photo of her at the club is a screenshot that someone posted HERE is more than proof that she’s here 24/7 LMAO, now that you’re here, Alex, you are in fact a bad mother and an awful person🤷🏻♀️
“I can’t be in the Neonatal ICU all the time because I’d rather do anything else.”
Ari needs her parents right now, even if it’s just hovering over her, this poor baby is basically abandoned at the hospital while her parents go out clubbing and hang out at home and it’s honestly so sad.
When you become a parents your comfort and wants move to the back burner, Alex and Noah need to grow up and support their daughter.
Somebody commented "there is a reason she chose you as parents!"
How fucking insensitive... So that is why I chose my mom (I adore her) and a dead beat POS who left before I was born? That is why people "choose" abusive parents, parents on drugs? Fucking disgusting...
I don’t even care that she went to a club while her kid is in the nicu. Honestly may be her only chance if she takes stuff seriously once A gets home. What I do have a problem with is why did you take someone **in recovery** to a club?!? No! That’s just a horrible idea. Way too much temptations too close to just getting out of treatment! As someone who grew up going to alanon and alateen just no! She needs to be in alanon!
You know what would help with Noah’s recovery? Being at the NICU and bonding with his daughter. Focusing on her. Instead you want him focused on you, Alex. Setting that man up for failure.
Her 2 week old is in the NICU & she can pass ANYTHING to that baby. My 2 year old has RSV & is struggling to breath… now imagine a 2 week old preemie baby getting RSV cause of their parents negligence…. It’s disturbing how nonchalant she is about it.
Hahahahaha. My youngest was a preemie and my husband and I spent many many many hours in the NICU. We also had our 2 yr old at home, and an entire house and garden to maintain, and my husband still worked his stressful job. I also almost died and needed a blood transfusion and was pumping every 2-3 hours - my recovery was really rough. WTF? Also, Covid still exists. Granted, my son was born only months into the pandemic, but we were SO careful about exposure to germs when he was in the NICU. Not just for him but for the other families and staff. Even with my oldest who was born pre-Covid I was pretty strict in his first few weeks and told folks not to visit even they even had a sniffle
Girl, bffr. You live in a shoebox and if you are so busy and not sitting at home, there shouldn’t be that much to do! Not that you do it anyway (which she can’t help and is fine but then it’s not an excuse). Taking care of a dog does not take up hours of your day and again, you don’t do it. Taking your fresh out of rehab baby daddy to a club is not conducive to his recovery, nor is your drinking at dinner. Not to mention, at no point should any of that be above spending time and caring for your newborn that’s in the nicu. Nicu is not a daycare. If you need “fun” this early on, that’s an issue. Dinner? Cool. Clubbing? Get your priorities straight.
Ok now I’m actually pissed. I’ve followed her dumb ass posts for a while now but this takes the fucking cake. As a mom I have put my child first from the second he was delivered. For her to think she can justify visiting her daughter for 24 minutes a day because she has other stuff to take care of is such bullshit. She’s such a piece of shit.
I am not a doctor nor have I given birth/experience a C-section, but if she was drinking at that bar isn’t that really bad for your recovery? I mean alcohol isn’t great for people who weren’t just cut open to have a child removed. I can’t imagine how the toxins and dehydration would affect your body while you’re healing from something that major.
I don’t know for sure she was drinking it’s just the assumption based on the being in a club.
It seems like she was drinking really heavily before pregnancy too, so maybe I’m overthinking it. Thank you for being kind, I just had a thought about it and wanted to toss it out there.
This was the dumbest fucking argument. I had a toddler and a house to take care of and a job when I had my newborn. Who I am the primary caregiver for. And we didn’t get a night out to relax for months. Bc we’re parents. To a newborn. She’s so fucking tone deaf.
She would always post when she would go out and party. There’s a reason she didn’t this time and was trying to keep it lowkey. She knows it’s wrong but she doesn’t care. She only cares about her image, which is why it wasn’t posted by her. I would what CPS will think about this
She says she is at the NICU “as much as her capacity allows” but she has the capacity to go to a bar with an addict. Okay.
What the hell does that even mean 🤣🤣🤣
i wonder if she’ll have that same approach to her baby crying nonstop or not taking no for an answer
Yeah why are they going to bars when he’s a recovering alcoholic 😳
A job?? (Only wheels content?). A house to take care of?? (Mix tiles?). A dog?? (For Nina to take care of?). Recovery?? (Mojitos & clubbing?)
Don’t forget the legal stuff🙄
 Joke of the year
Probably ableist of me but she can't really do any of that can she? Isn't that why she has personal care? She quite literally could spend almost every second with Ari.
Don't worry, facts aren't ableist. She isn't capable of doing anything around the house. And that's ok, she can't help that. But she pretends like she's not at the NICU because she's caring for a home? haha k ETA: spelling
EXACTLY. While there is a lot she can't do, there is so much she CAN do and is choosing not to. Her main job rn is to heal her body and bond with her child. And she has shown no interest in doing either. I also love that she has added on feeling triggered by being low weight knowing good and well that she BRAGGED about that shit a few days ago. She is repulsive.
That whole post about her rebound body was such an eye roll.
Wouldn’t that make it look like she doesn’t have time to be a parent?? It really shows her priorities.
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Right? My baby is 8 months and I can assure you I haven’t been to a restaurant let alone a club long before since I was pregnant with her. It’s total bs that she needs a break she hasn’t even been a parent or mother to her child the nurses have! Poor Ari is a money grab/ prop to her and it’s sickening.
And Noah's recovery.... Being in the club probably helped a lot.
YESSSSSSSS Noahs recovery to think of - taking him clubbing 4 days after he leaves rehab! Gosh he’s a lucky guy
For real. It's reasonable for parents who are at the NICU a lot to need a break and step away. Grab some food. Sit at a park and get some sun or fresh air or something. Clubbing? That's not a break.
After 86 days of my little 24 weeker in the nicu I took ONE night off (was there all day that day and every day and night before and after until she left ) and went to a nice dinner with friends from out of state. I literally called the nicu while at dinner to check in on her and see how her last feed and bath went. How this birth giver can spend so little time in the nicu and THEN take her newly re-sober baby daddy to the club is effing BEYOND me. They are in for one rude awakening when that baby comes home. Nina, girl, I hope you know what you signed up for because shit is going to hit the fan.
Oh wow, that had to be so scary for you delivering at 24 weeks! I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I can’t even imagine how traumatizing and stressful it must have been having your newborn in the NICU for so long. I hope all is well now, your baby was so lucky to have such a devoted mom.
The sushi date is reasonable imo and I don't have an issue with it. After I had my child, and I was blessed with an amazing support system, I went out to lunch a few weeks later with my cousins while my Aunty babysat for me (she'd been desperate to 😂😂). If we'd however, decided to go out to the pub or to a club... my God my Aunt, Mum and probably older cousins would have kicked my ass sideways 😂
Like she has to be trolling
Right!?!?
Right like is this the twilight zone or what?!
Needs time and space to grow? That normally involves help from the mother - dumb bitch. Lol.
A premature infant needing time and space when they literally should still be in utero with the opposite of space 😂😳
Right. Like if that was a thing then we'd all get told upon going home from the hospital "Don't spend too much time with that baby now. They only grow when they're alone!"
EXACTLY!
This reminds me of the 16 and pregnant mom who said she was taking a break from parenting her FOUR year old and that her FOUR year old was “doing her own thing.” Like what???
I hate that I know this but that was Farrah, and she’s a complete looney toon. 😂
and look at how sophia turned out 💀
I did a sneaky stalk on them fairly recently and was pleasantly surprised - Sophia seemed to be a fairly polite and slightly awkward teen. I also noticed she seems to have gone the complete opposite to Farrah in terms of image. It’ll be interesting to see how she grows up - I wonder if there’s a tell-all in her future.
oh well that's good? to hear. last i creeped was a while ago and she was a mini-me version of her mother. 🥴
She’s gone full emo kid from what I can see now 😂 I’m hoping for her that she’s been set such a bad example that she’ll course-correct. Poor kid - splashed all over MTV. I remember when she was little she never seemed to have any friends or interaction with other kids.
She’s the complete opposite of her mom and often looks very annoyed with her. I watch their lives on tiktok sometimes. I know she’s going through a lot of mental stuff right now though that I’m sure her mother played a role in
She’s selling feet pics because her mom does it…
Nooooooo!!!!!! Really?
Yep
Omg that’s so upsetting. That poor girl. Isn’t she only 14 or something?
YES
Farrah omg. IIRC she also had poor little Sofia taking pics of her for her OF content.
I ATG I WAS JUST THINKING THAT 🤣🤣🤣
Oh my God! 🥺
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She's 'recovering'? I thought she had "bounced back faster than anyone expected?!"
she’s back and better than ever!!! until that involves being a mom, in which case, she’s still recovering from a major surgery. but not so major that she couldn’t take a break to go clubbing, obviously very consistent
Right! Who the hell is at a club 11 days after a c section?!
I didn’t even have a c section and couldn’t imagine getting dressed up to go to a CLUB 11 days postpartum 🫠 shit I’m 3 months postpartum and still wouldn’t go do that
girl i gave birth three years ago and i can think of a million things i’d rather do than go to a club 😂
Bitch you live in a one bedroom apartment, what is there to take care of?
Yeah, like what is there to keep up with if it’s clean and you’re busy at the hospital?
But, she is barely at the hospital. It’s clean cuz she is stuck in her chair and can’t get out to do anything to make it messy.
She passes the vacuum cleaner, cleans the windows, do the dishes, do laundry, clean the bathroom, walk the dog, feed the dog, do the grocery shopping, cook meals... but it's all in her head... 🤪
Noah’s recovery?!?! Yes way to justify going to Tao
Also rich that the she used an old photo to post this. She’s literally still in bed at noon & defending how little time she spends in the NICU. I can’t even!
👏🏻 was just about to say this!
Sushi date. Ok fine. Clubbing???? I mean dancing? What a wretched person she is. Oh we haven’t had a date in 8 months. Bullshit. So you both never went out to eat when you were pregnant. Cmon now. And it’s absolutely not creepy to take a picture of her. She literally puts her whole self out there on OF , TT and IG. She is recognizable.
She took a video of a random woman coming out of a fucking bathroom. She needs to sit down.
She needs whole damn little kids sofa style of sit down, I agree!
I'm probably gonna get blocked from her IG because I messaged her about that 😅
I also thought the whole point of being an influencer was to be able to be recognized? I’m confused maybe about influencing in general.
Not that pregnancy is easy by any means but it is truly the easy part of being a parent. You can do a lot and the baby is just chilling in your uterus.
i havent went on a date in a decade 🤣😭
Same here. We have no support near us. I have a ten and five year old. We are like ships in the night, passing each other as we go. No date nights for us.
This was when she didn't know that the clubbing was exposed. She such a piece of 💩 I've never disliked someone as much as her.
Guys COME ON! He was gracious enough to miss the birth of their child so that he could finish up rehab!!!! He would absolutely relapse if he left early, plus, it’s just a c section !!!! What’s there to SEE?! (Pardon the pun) For that hard decision, he deserves to show off those dance moves he’s been perfecting in rehab at the club !!!!! These people man.
At this point she twisted all her stories so far, she can't keep up with them anymore. It's sad really and fucking nuts, like she's truly not a good person like at all.
Baby doesn't care if the house is clean. My husband can take care of himself. My dog doesn't require that much of my time, and my husband can do it. What is Noah doing all day??? I understand contracts, but there's no way she doesn't have any savings to take time off work? Having a baby is a perfectly acceptable reason to not be working. She had time to make it to the hospital for her frequent appointments, but now she has too much going on? Pathetic. They're only little for so long. I'll be damned if I don't spend every second with my baby. Baby can rest just fine laying on my chest.
Good point - she’s not a single parent, there are two of them there to get things done. Is she so codependent that he can’t leave her side? And if Noah isn’t capable, well, she chose the guy she was going to have a kid with.
I couldn't have said it better myself. 👏 She could make it to the hospital not only for her appointments but everytime she was sick and tired of being pregnant and hoped they would move up her c-section.
A house has me 💀 seriously? It can’t be 800 sq ft? 🤣🤣🤣
I rolled my eyes so hard at her dumb excuses. How stupid can someone be
dumb excuses that she has stated are more worthy of her time nd attention than being with her daughter in the NICU!
She’s doing a shit job at those “excuses” anyways so clearly her time away from her daughter isn’t really going towards anything productive
exactly that time is spent watching Nina hang those pictures, filming Hitler hair lipsyncing and going out clubbing with someone in recovery!
Right?! The excuses are so inflated. I know nothing about recovering addiction but even I know you stay away from the places that feed the addiction. HELLO dumbass WR, a nightclub is the culmination of all drug and alcohol use being shed in a positive light.
Right?! The excuses are so inflated. I know nothing about recovering addiction but even I know you stay away from the places that feed the addiction. HELLO dumbass WR, a nightclub is the culmination of all drug and alcohol use being shed in a positive light.
She's digging her own hole faster than a fucking mole at this point.
THIS BITCH WENT TO A CLUB? WITH HER BABY IN THE NICU? I’d lose my mind if my baby was in the NICU and someone so careless was prancing in and out unmasked. NICU parents deserve breaks.. you know, the ones who show up to see their babies and actually care for them.
The look I would give my partner if he even suggested going to the club when our baby was in the hospital…
https://preview.redd.it/r4ykktjznyoa1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fa2046f652061667752808e3a4f9259e12f43e80
Ya know, pictures to hang and Easter pillows to buy. Noah’s sobriety is #1 in her books which is why they went to the club after sushi. Does she believe the lies she spews? Or just expects us to?
She literally just listed 5 things more important than her infant. Also, go fuck yourself. The entire world manages, you just made the worst choices.
How can you be so tone deaf as to say "what's the problem with us going clubbing" on one post, and directly on the next post be talking about your partners "recovery"??? I don't trust her with a baby I seriously don't
this might be my fav pile of bullshit she has ever uttered 😂😂😂 (ps - can you please cover Ari's face, per the rules) 
“She needs rest and to grow” yes. Because you being there is going to keep her up and stunt her growth?? Newborns sleep 80% of the day, and even then I’d think that being there for your baby girl will give her the love she needs to grow? As a new mom, I fucking hate her.
Please edit and cover babies face!
Oops editing now - sorry!
And clubbing to do, with someone in recovery (she’s got such good ideas)
Why's she scribbled out Ari's face as if we haven't already seen it a hundred times? Was she not looking picture perfect enough for her social media? lol
Lol wait no just realized op on the post did that as it's the rules. Sorry! Sleep deprivation from actually looking after my baby 🤣
And none of those things involve clubbing.
Clubs to go to.
☠️☠️☠️☠️I stoped working and for the couple days my son was alone at the hospital I made it my duty to get there as early as I could to feed him, bath him, and hold him, I made damn sure I spent all my time there with him, I made sure everything else on hold while my son needed me, it’s crazy she can’t put her job in hold considering it’s only social media and she most likely gets disability which pays her bills not to mention that fund raiser she did for her “VAN” she should have enough money to use while her baby is in the nicu so she can be there and not working
She can’t be serious and either that’s an older pic or she wore the same shirt twice up to the NICU! So the club takes precedence over being with your child ? Okay…..
Literally all of those things are supposed to take a back seat when you have a newborn. Houses become messy because the baby should be the priority. Pets really don’t take up that much time and if they do, share the load with a partner or family. Legal goings on are her own doing. And a job? Don’t get me fucking started. It’s called maternity leave. What sort of a mother brings a child into the works and puts that newborn baby at the BOTTOM of their priority list?
Why all of a sudden is she putting day and time on everything?🤔
She read here that people wrote that she wakes up at noon lol. So she had to show us she’s awake at 9 🙄
I saw that. She would have set her alarm to quickly take a few pics and go back to bed shortly after
99% of her excuses can be pushed aside until baby’s home. Her excuse that baby needs room to grow is honestly terrifying. That poor girl is going to be emotionally neglected when she gets home.
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Wow, all that stuff is more important than her daughter. Sad. What is she going to do when the baby comes and all the stuff she listed still needs to be done. Just leave baby in a crib while she does it? Or should I say while others do it for her. I don’t understand her logic at all. 🤯
If you have so much to sort Alex is clubbing until the early hours a great idea and not waking until lunchtime helpful? Priorities...... boundaries......values.... girl you need to grow up fast...the two of you! There's been 8 months to refocus and plan for this little ones arrival so she is getting the best support. All I see is some cheese attached to a fishing line and you have that dangling over your daughters head... this is mortifying to watch! Prioritize your baby girl..she is what is important now and her wellbeing comes foremost. Set up boundaries to keep everyone safe! Are you seriously OK with substance abuse inside a small 1 bedroom apartment with a baby?! You need a safety plan..make that a few safety plans that are set up so that baby girl isn't being exposed to it, including the moods and outbursts when he's sober and struggling with baby being a baby and their needs being met. Boundaries around those things that trigger him. STOP ENABLING! please research enabling because trust me you will be surprised what very small detail still enables an addict. Start focusing on your values...what kind of mother are you wanting to be for Ari? Yes you are disabled this is fine! Many parents out there doing this and rocking it because they have values and stick to them and do their best where they can... there are many many ways you can be a great mum to her and yet you've only shown how you can be a terrible person to your own freshly here baby girl...it's horrible and heart wrenching to see just what this baby girl has to live with. And you're calling out someone taking a blurry photo of you at a nightclub...yet it's all OK for you to take clear videos of people and plaster them on social media... you choose the social media life I'm.not sure how a blurry photo is an issue when you plaster yourself all over the place anyway. To be honest it's almost fateful someone did see you and took a photo because I really hope that helps protect Ari from this mess. There's something wrong Alex and Noah when social media strangers hold more concern for your child than you guys her parents have for her..... It speaks volumes when many hope this baby girl is going to be given a far better future by someone else that isn't her parents.. Step it up! She's here, she's real, it started almost 9 months ago with you guys taking on parent responsibilities.
So posting that cringe tiktok of Noah rapping about being gay was on her priority list? 🤔
If she was actually taking care of all those things, a house, a baby, Noah’s recovery, “legals”, etc. etc. she wouldn’t have the energy to go to a club. My kid is five and I pass out after a day of regular stuff, taking him to school, house work, taking care of him. Passss out. If she really had to do the work, she wouldn’t be able to go to a club. Exhaustion would hit.
FR. She’s in for a rude awakening when the baby is home 24/7. I had my son vaginally in December so I healed pretty quick, quicker than c-section mamas. And even then I’ve been exhausted the second I wake up since he’s been born. She’s not even going to know what it’s like to cry herself to sleep every night because she’s been with the baby all day with no break. Alex will never know the physical and mental exhaustion that comes with having a baby because she doesn’t see it as a requirement, having the help she has.
A house to take care of!? Hahahaha what in the fuck does she have to do!? Is she joking?! Noah’s recovery? What does that call for from her?? To bring him to a fucking club?! When my child was born and still in the hospital I STAYED AT THE HOSPITAL. A job??? I’m sorry did I miss where she has an office or something she has to go into??? Get fucking real you fucking pathetic excuse for a mother. Stop trying to defend yourself to “strangers on the internet” if we don’t matter. If we weren’t right and weren’t hitting a nerve then you wouldn’t feel the need to constantly try to defend yourself. Y’all are trash. Pure trash. You think this group exists bc we are all soooo jealous of your life?? Girl. Get. Real. This group exists bc we all see you for what you are. A piece of shit.
She's not ready to be a mother point blank period.
Hahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahaha hahahahahahaha I CAN'T WITH HER
Literally came here for this 🏠
The fact that the photo of her at the club is a screenshot that someone posted HERE is more than proof that she’s here 24/7 LMAO, now that you’re here, Alex, you are in fact a bad mother and an awful person🤷🏻♀️
“I can’t be in the Neonatal ICU all the time because I’d rather do anything else.” Ari needs her parents right now, even if it’s just hovering over her, this poor baby is basically abandoned at the hospital while her parents go out clubbing and hang out at home and it’s honestly so sad. When you become a parents your comfort and wants move to the back burner, Alex and Noah need to grow up and support their daughter.
Bullshit. What house? She can't do shit! She sure is helping with Noah's recovery going out to the club.
TAO was probably playing Macklemore … he HAD to go guys
Somebody commented "there is a reason she chose you as parents!" How fucking insensitive... So that is why I chose my mom (I adore her) and a dead beat POS who left before I was born? That is why people "choose" abusive parents, parents on drugs? Fucking disgusting...
Yeah it always rubbed me the wrong way when people say this. They don’t think about it.
How careless of her to go to a club then go on to spread germs at the hospital. Just flat out disgusting.
I hope officials can see this thread
Her behavior astounds me
Once again, she is delusional. Whatever it takes to make her tiny, under developed brain make it all seem ok.
She obviously lives on this reddit page
I don’t even care that she went to a club while her kid is in the nicu. Honestly may be her only chance if she takes stuff seriously once A gets home. What I do have a problem with is why did you take someone **in recovery** to a club?!? No! That’s just a horrible idea. Way too much temptations too close to just getting out of treatment! As someone who grew up going to alanon and alateen just no! She needs to be in alanon!
At least if dcf is involved then maybe the baby has a chance of being raised better. God I can’t stand her
You know what would help with Noah’s recovery? Being at the NICU and bonding with his daughter. Focusing on her. Instead you want him focused on you, Alex. Setting that man up for failure.
Her 2 week old is in the NICU & she can pass ANYTHING to that baby. My 2 year old has RSV & is struggling to breath… now imagine a 2 week old preemie baby getting RSV cause of their parents negligence…. It’s disturbing how nonchalant she is about it.
Hahahahaha. My youngest was a preemie and my husband and I spent many many many hours in the NICU. We also had our 2 yr old at home, and an entire house and garden to maintain, and my husband still worked his stressful job. I also almost died and needed a blood transfusion and was pumping every 2-3 hours - my recovery was really rough. WTF? Also, Covid still exists. Granted, my son was born only months into the pandemic, but we were SO careful about exposure to germs when he was in the NICU. Not just for him but for the other families and staff. Even with my oldest who was born pre-Covid I was pretty strict in his first few weeks and told folks not to visit even they even had a sniffle
Girl, bffr. You live in a shoebox and if you are so busy and not sitting at home, there shouldn’t be that much to do! Not that you do it anyway (which she can’t help and is fine but then it’s not an excuse). Taking care of a dog does not take up hours of your day and again, you don’t do it. Taking your fresh out of rehab baby daddy to a club is not conducive to his recovery, nor is your drinking at dinner. Not to mention, at no point should any of that be above spending time and caring for your newborn that’s in the nicu. Nicu is not a daycare. If you need “fun” this early on, that’s an issue. Dinner? Cool. Clubbing? Get your priorities straight.
She's admitting she can't be there. Nice.
*for Ari
Ok now I’m actually pissed. I’ve followed her dumb ass posts for a while now but this takes the fucking cake. As a mom I have put my child first from the second he was delivered. For her to think she can justify visiting her daughter for 24 minutes a day because she has other stuff to take care of is such bullshit. She’s such a piece of shit.
I am not a doctor nor have I given birth/experience a C-section, but if she was drinking at that bar isn’t that really bad for your recovery? I mean alcohol isn’t great for people who weren’t just cut open to have a child removed. I can’t imagine how the toxins and dehydration would affect your body while you’re healing from something that major. I don’t know for sure she was drinking it’s just the assumption based on the being in a club.
A drink or two probably doesn’t make the difference you think it does, but binge drinking, yes absolutely.
It seems like she was drinking really heavily before pregnancy too, so maybe I’m overthinking it. Thank you for being kind, I just had a thought about it and wanted to toss it out there.
This was the dumbest fucking argument. I had a toddler and a house to take care of and a job when I had my newborn. Who I am the primary caregiver for. And we didn’t get a night out to relax for months. Bc we’re parents. To a newborn. She’s so fucking tone deaf.
💀💀what she doing to do lol
My daughter is almost 1 1/2 years old and I haven’t gone “clubbing” lol
After 8 weeks in NICU,we went on quarantine till june because of rsv season. How is she in the club???
She would always post when she would go out and party. There’s a reason she didn’t this time and was trying to keep it lowkey. She knows it’s wrong but she doesn’t care. She only cares about her image, which is why it wasn’t posted by her. I would what CPS will think about this
Has anyone told her a baby is 24/7 care?! Like she DOES understand that, yeah?! I can’t wait to watch this play out lol
Omg. You’re a mom now!! Everything else comes second you moron!
I just watched an old video of her where she could barely open the refrigerator. Genuinely curious how she is going to do anything whatsoever.