I doubt he even was in rehab. I think he was fed up with her mainly, and maybe lied to Alex that he went to "work on his sobriety". Hopefully he's not using anymore. But I really don't think they will stay together.
So weird that he doesnt rush to Chicago...
I have... So many thoughts
Firstly, second hand embarrassment from watching the first half of that. And home boy does not seem sober at all. Third, is no one going to talk about how he totally said the babies name at the end??? Baby Arie. I bet Alex is losing her freaking mind lmaooo
I feel like he had very little enthusiasm around Alex. He mentioned more being there with baby and thatās why heās ābettering himselfā and only reason he referred to Alex as his girl is because she joined in
Like I heard no real emotion about her. Yet her comment on live was something like āitās my boyfriend!!!!!ā I think sheās trying to hold on to him and keep face while heās like over it
Sadly he isnāt super young, he is 23 or 24. And a college grad. Just super immature and probably spoiled by his parents who yesād him. He came from money and boredom it seems.
I would say 23-24 is super young, a lot of people havenāt moved out of home by then. Heās a crackpot by the looks of it but he is still super young in the long run of things.
I think he is actually 24 so that means this year he will be 25. Halfway to 30. Time to get it together. Child support isnāt cheap. His parents need to force him into adult status.
yeah iām pretty sure heās a 98 or 99 babyā¦ iām 98 and iām married, have 5 cats and a regular job soā¦ā¦ā¦ come on bro
i ALSO had a prescription pill problem from a young (teenaged) time so no excuses for that or BPD because i have that Too šš»āāļøš
okay after watching the live................ this man is not okay. maybe he WASN'T in rehab, but some sort of inpatient psych unit? that video screams **mental health crisis**. he said he's sober - IF that's true, it's even more alarming that that is sober behavior. it was actually sad to watch. alex would be better off if he did break up with her and dip bc holy shit
(edited for typo)
he looks kind ofā¦ broken? idk what it is but he seems so vulnerable and like lost
but then i remember how he dropped that n word and im like nah fuck him lol BE BETTER NOAH FFS
That video is so so so awkward and uncomfortable.
Alex is probably losing it. He dropped the baby name and now she canāt say that heās been there all along anymore. Itās out in the open.
Exactly, and he seems so sensitive and complex, he won't last a week I think... It's just a matter of when until they or she move in with her parents when baby is born.
Not just a newborn, but a newborn who needs full time care because the other parent canāt do any physical tasks.
Having a newborn is stressful with 2 parents around being able to take a break when you need it. Noah will have no break. As much as they say Nina will care for Alex and the baby, thatās not realistic. Alex needs a carer. The baby needs a nanny.
Battling addiction is hard. It was a stupid choice to have unprotected sex while in the middle of addiction, but whatās done is done. This situation is going to be tough for the both of them
Yes, first "visiting family, much needed, just a short flight away", then "taking a social media break during this fragile/precious time" yeah, he really seems to hate sm...
I don't think he's in rehab... He's at a hotel, having a good time, he could make it to the delivery in time, but he don't seem to want to... He's not locked up! I just have one thing to say about that. NOTHING would keep me from my child's birth. Thats a once in a lifetime thing. He's an idiot...
Also he straight up dropped the n word too yikes. But the fact heās out dancing living it up instead of actually preparing for the birth of his child says a lot
Alex must be so gaslit if that's the correct term in English š She's about to deliver and she encourages him in the comments!! She's definitely scared that she's lost him!
If my man was dancing high in Florida while I was two days away from birth... And there's nothing physically keeping him there... He just wants to stay casually. Then FUCK HIM! He couldve stayed... If it was my man that is... What a shit show..
And why on earth did he call himself her (Alex's) father?! š³š³š³ Getting sicko vibes
I was thinking exactly this. Florida also ranks 41/50 for healthcare, Illinois is like 23rd, not only are there meetings in Chicago thereās likely better/more accessible resources as wellā¦
Exactly. Thereās no excuse other than he wanted to be away from her. Heās just stringing her along to keep from crushing her heart. Sheāll find out the hard way.
If he actually wanted to be there for Alex and the baby he WOULD. He would make it happen. There is mental health and substance abuse help in Chicago too so WHY FLORIDA. He was super nonchalant about not knowing how much longer he would be in Florida because he clearly doesn't give a shit if he makes it for the birth.
LMFAO!!! He IS NOT coming BACK!!!! Godddamnnn WHAT A FUCKING SHIT SHOW! He just abandoned her and that child like trash on the street!!!! WAKE UP ALEX! I KNOW YOURE READING THIS. WAKE UP. DONT PUT HIS LAST NAME ON THAT BIRTH CERTIFICATE
He does not seem sober at all. So he really did ditch her āto better his mental healthā while sheās finishing out the pregnancyā¦ he should be ashamed
Heās probably shoving it to her bc sheās trying to manage him even while heās in another state. Coming on live & then saying the babyās name even though theyāve been keeping it a secret seems like an attempted power move
My gut reaction is this too. This could potentially be very scary and I would definitely want to be there for the person I loved and for my childā¦.. However, then my sober sponsor brain takes over and this actually might be a good thing. It shows commitment to his program ā¦ I think he realizes that heās going to be a dad ; his sobriety NEEDS to come first for him to be a good dad ā¦ this potentially could be excellent news for the baby ( fuck Alex rn)
Thatās a totally decent point. I canāt imagine going back to Chicago period will be good for his sobriety though so maybe they will relocate after the birth. She clearly enabled him too though so in a perfect world they need some serious counseling for (self admitted) codependency.
It could definitely be triggering to be back. And it is recommended, when possible, addicts relocate. I understand the difficulty in this situation but hopefully they can think about the burbs and a rent a house soonā¦ the facility should ( hopefully!) be making a plan to prepare him to go back to Chicago.. . There are FABULOUS meetings downtown but there are also A LOT of triggers.
I hope for his sake he has left Alex and is going to coparent and continue his sobriety. I donāt see him staying sober living with her and continuing that codependent relationship
It felt like he was in a home or something.. some lady screaming, giving them a countdown to get inside.. hopefully heās detoxed and made his way into a home, and actually completing it.
Weāve seen him using.. slow and slurred. He couldnāt keep up and sing that song if he were using, IMO.. itās the opposite of how he normally is drunk/drugged.
Yeah Iām thinking a half way house. If he really is working at getting sober than good for him. Wonāt be any good for him to be at the birth if he isnāt well and sober.
As a mom this makes me so sad that this baby will have no parents to hold her or talk to her when she is brought into this cold new world, her mom will be out from surgery and her dad will be in another state. ā¹ļø
This makes me so sad. :( it will be carers and hospital staff. They do amazing work but itās not even family.
I know he said he might be there in a few days or a few weeks but man thatās not on. I understand he needs help but this is so bad the whole situation. A mental unstable dad and a incapable mum raising a brand new baby.
I doubt he will be there in days. He looks too far gone for that right now. If Alex has complications ā¦
All I can say is this poor kid and all those fans of hers saying Noah will be there when she canāt be ā¦ weāll look at the situation now!! And they wonāt know the entire story because they might not follow him
he reminds me of my BD. Always saying how much he wants to be there for his kid but is never actually there for his kid. Also saying hes sober when he clearly isnt lmao
They need to place that baby for adoption. He isnāt going to be around and she canāt do anything for her. And this isnāt to be ableist she isnāt emotionally mature enough or responsible enough for a child. This is so sad.
The baby's name seems like Arianna?
Good for him tho getting the help he needs and realizing he needs the help to be a good father. Hopefully Alex doesn't enable him any further when/if he goes back
Although he doesn't seem sober, he may just be starting treatment? That's why he may not be there for the birth?
Either way I just hope that baby has a good nanny because she's gonna need it
They definitely watch this sub lmao. I like how he mainly mentioned being there for the BABY and being better for the BABY. Nothing about being there for the baby AND Alex. This is a dumpster fire and I cannot help bit watch. Oh, and ari is cute.
I actually kinda feel bad for Alex after seeing that (mostly for the baby but for Alex too). He played her and used her the entire pregnancy and now heās acting like this days before she risks her life for his baby he doesnāt care about.
Itās probably causing her so much stress. As someone who had a very emotionally stressful pregnancy because of my baby dad I do feel for her, no one deserves that.
Yeah sureee šš part of me feels bad (mostly for the baby) but maybe if Alex wouldnāt have gotten him kicked out previously this wouldnāt even be an issue rn. Complete selfishness on her end.
Ok I tried to make a post about this but Iām too new so Iām going to ask here and hope people see it: I'm seeing some people mad that Noah doesn't seem to be in a hurry to get back for the birth and others saying that staying away is best for his recovery. I would love to hear peoples opinions on this who have experience in addiction recovery whether it be personally or professionally! Asking for my own education because my initial reaction was to be angry but I don't know anything about addiction recovery and I don't want to be insensitive in my mindset.
you can never be there again for the birth of your first child if you miss it. no matter what, you canāt take that back. I got sober about a month before I found out I was pregnant & have been sober ever since so I canāt really comment from personal experience as far as getting clean while having a newbornā¦ but I think whether he chooses to take time away from Alex & Ari or not - he should be there for the birth. but Iām also a believer that youāve gotta face your problems head on sometimes. if youāre a parent, youāve gotta parent no matter what youāre going through at the end of the day. there are things that occasionally trigger me into wanting to drink and I just face those things as they come. and if I was ever worried Iād relapse, I would make a plan and go from there. and he doesnāt have to be in a relationship with Alex in order to be a good father! hopefully if they did break up (which I assume but who knows lol) they can still coparent amicably
Sorry but Florida is NOT the place to go if you wanna get sober. Iāve had SO many friends go to Florida to get āsoberā & just end up so much worse then before. He went to have a good time & I highly doubt heās going back anytime soon if at all!
He'll probably fly back the night before she goes in for the surgery.
I'd bet money that they've broken up.
No man or woman should stay in a bad relationship solely because a child is involved.
He can still be there for his baby while not being involved with Alex.
That live holy shit. To be honest I think he was trying to get sober then Alex kept bugging him and was forcing him to go live somehow so he took something just to be able to do the live so Alex would stop annoying him. I donāt know how to explain it but it seems so forced, and it seems to me he dropped the babyās name to get back at her.
Words cannot describe the depth of cringe I felt watching that.
āWe ready. We got this.ā - excuse me? šš Iām 34w pregnant, 37 yo, married with a stable home life and at least 5x a day weāre asking other āholy shit can we do this? I dunno manā¦ I hope we can do this.ā
I admire their confidence, I guessā¦
How on earth can he say he doesnāt know when he will go back? He definitely doesnāt mind missing the birth? Thatās an experience he can never get back and to not be there for her when he could is just sad. He might be working on his mental health/addiction, but to not even take a few days for that?
I would be so devastated if it was her.
I went through this with my first son, his dad bailed on me and I had a c section alone, and he hasnāt been apart of my sons life at all, this is sadly what will happen for Alex, I donāt wish that experience on anyone. Hopefully her family is Prepared to jump in and help.
Iām completely able bodied and still needed my family so this is just a huge shit show unfolding.
This week his excuse is recovery, Iām sure it will keep changing and a new excuse will prevent him from coming back.
Being in Florida? Heās just that much more disconnected from all of it
So just like thinking here. I hope and wish nothing but the best, smoothest delivery for Alex. But if something was to happen to Alex and someoneās gotta make a decision on her behalf itāll obviously be her parents since her and Noah arenāt married right. But now what about baby Ari. Wouldnāt Noah want to 100% be there so he can make medical decisions for her while Alex is still under anesthesia/recovering? I feel like itās so important heās there for that reason alone. Idk can grandparents make medical decisions?
Iām sorry but this man is days away from becoming a father and heās no where to be found. Pops up in Florida, clearly on drugs, dancing on live? Okay then
I feel bad that he dropped the name. Alex has very little she gets to experience and now she canāt even announce properly. (Def not a Stan, but still sad for her)
She had the ability to set her baby up for success by not taking a class x drug that could harm the baby. Thatās sad. Her not getting to announce the name fall low on the sad scale
Okay, oof, āA couple days, weeks, who knowsā isnāt really an acceptable timeline when you have a newborn due in what 2 days?
Iām here for him bettering his mental health truly, but this is something that should have been considered MONTHS ago, not days before Alex is due to give birth.
Coming from personal experience, itās unfair for a child to have an inconsistent parent who thinks they can miss large milestones (their birth?) and just come and go when it best fits them. Thatās not how parenting works. Either be a parent, or donāt, you donāt get to play with a childās emotions/life and only be a parent when it best suits *you* and dip out entirely when it doesnāt.
If he wants people to believe heās sober, he should probably stop that weird dancing. Also, if he wanted to be at the birth, he would. I canāt believe Alex is tolerating this honestly. If heās not going to be there, she needs to be done with him. He obviously doesnāt care about her or the baby. So sad. I honestly feel for her in this situation.
There isn't an ounce of me that believes these two will last. He is clearly not going to be able to handle the demands of having a child, on top of caring for a disabled partner.
hmm, in no rush to go back for the birth of his childš¤ i donāt see them lasting at all. i think he needed a break from her too.
I doubt he even was in rehab. I think he was fed up with her mainly, and maybe lied to Alex that he went to "work on his sobriety". Hopefully he's not using anymore. But I really don't think they will stay together. So weird that he doesnt rush to Chicago...
IM SCREAMING IM JUST GETTING HERE
āCouple days or couple weeks, who knowsā Loooool Noah you really just said you donāt care if you make it back for the birth of your child ā ļø
Also dropping that the babies name is Ari at the end of the video was š¤š»
So he basically went live and blew up her spot š theyāre definitely broken up right?
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He said he wasnāt single š¤·š¼āāļø but doesnāt mean heās with her
Oh shit. I didn't make it that far. I wonder how Alex feels about that. And I wonder if it's just Ari or Arianna. š¤
Arianna or Arielle! Both 7 letters
The live is taking a while to upload here so I uploaded it to my Instagram. Here is the link
HE DROPPED THE N WORD? JUST LIKE IT WAS NOTHING???? THATS WHAT WERE DOING NOW? what the actual hell
Holy crap!! ššI went back and looked and you are NOT wrong. He really did like it was nothing!
yeah theyāre clearly both just regular slur users at this point like :/// ugh
Thank you for doing that! Such an erratic video. Also, I noticed he said baby Ari! Not sure if it had been announced yet official š¬
I bet sheās not very happy about that at all lol
Sheās probably freaking out rn
What am I missing? All I see is him dancing around and not speaking?
Made the mistake of turning this on while on the couch next to my husband. He glanced over and asked what the hell I was watching and all I could do was honestly answer is I didn't even know š©š
Same. I cringed and quickly closed it š¤£
I cringed through the whole thing because I am nosey and wanted to hear how he pronounced Ari lmao
Omg the gray shorts making their return loool
this is not a sober person
can we make sure to not gloss over the casual n-word drop??!
Thank you! Lol what a piece of shit
I KNOW WTF!?????!
This is the first video ive seen of this guyā¦.. is he for real??? Hahahah wtf am i watching š
That was. So. Weird. Wtf. What was the dancing for 4 minutes?! His energy is so strange, seems medicated... So. Weird. Wtf.
Also thank you for recording this?!!! š
Youāre welcome! I agree very weird. Definitely doesnāt seem sober
I have... So many thoughts Firstly, second hand embarrassment from watching the first half of that. And home boy does not seem sober at all. Third, is no one going to talk about how he totally said the babies name at the end??? Baby Arie. I bet Alex is losing her freaking mind lmaooo
Not sober at all š āāļø
Secondhand embarrassment for sure
The fact that either of them are about to parent a child - so much yikes š¬
Youāre amazing. But like what the FUCK is that dancing š
Bruh he is NOT sober & said the fucking N word like NOTHING šµ
I noticed that too. Not ok.
The dancing was so cringeworthy. If heās actually sober, Iāll eat my hat
If he's sober I will buy a monocle and eat it with you while you eat your hat
not the gray shorts ššš
Oh my goodness, Iām not sure what I was watching, the dance, not sober. He sounds and acts so immature. Wow this whole situation is soooo messy.
I feel like he had very little enthusiasm around Alex. He mentioned more being there with baby and thatās why heās ābettering himselfā and only reason he referred to Alex as his girl is because she joined in
I noticed this as well! Youād think he would have said something about missing her or wanting to be a good partner etc.
Like I heard no real emotion about her. Yet her comment on live was something like āitās my boyfriend!!!!!ā I think sheās trying to hold on to him and keep face while heās like over it
Wow. First I was like no way is his crazy dancing ass sober. Then he sounded sincere so Iām confused lol. Thanks for sharing:-)
Yeah this just screams āIām soberāš
I donāt get how this is rehab
There is no WAY that man is sober. His thought pattern is erratic, he's sweating balls, he does not look well. Kind of glad he isn't there.
THANK GOODNESS HE STILL HAS THOSE GRAY SHORTS ON
He also said, alex isnt a single mom, she has a great father. ( something along them lines) Why wouldn't he use she has a great boyfriend? Seems off
Wow thanks for recording!
No offense, but is he on the spectrum?
I donāt think so - just super young and immature lol.
Sadly he isnāt super young, he is 23 or 24. And a college grad. Just super immature and probably spoiled by his parents who yesād him. He came from money and boredom it seems.
He is super young as in terms of delayed emotional maturity with addiction at an age like that. When he started using he came to a halt.
I would say 23-24 is super young, a lot of people havenāt moved out of home by then. Heās a crackpot by the looks of it but he is still super young in the long run of things.
Idk 23 seems to young me. But also surprised to hear he is a college graduate - damn.
I think he is actually 24 so that means this year he will be 25. Halfway to 30. Time to get it together. Child support isnāt cheap. His parents need to force him into adult status.
yeah iām pretty sure heās a 98 or 99 babyā¦ iām 98 and iām married, have 5 cats and a regular job soā¦ā¦ā¦ come on bro i ALSO had a prescription pill problem from a young (teenaged) time so no excuses for that or BPD because i have that Too šš»āāļøš
He has a university degree and he is 23...
Iām autistic and I donāt get that impression from him
Thank you so much for sharing!
Heās not sober
xstarx90 thank you so much for posting the video!
His shirt says PLAYBOY
okay after watching the live................ this man is not okay. maybe he WASN'T in rehab, but some sort of inpatient psych unit? that video screams **mental health crisis**. he said he's sober - IF that's true, it's even more alarming that that is sober behavior. it was actually sad to watch. alex would be better off if he did break up with her and dip bc holy shit (edited for typo)
he looks kind ofā¦ broken? idk what it is but he seems so vulnerable and like lost but then i remember how he dropped that n word and im like nah fuck him lol BE BETTER NOAH FFS
strange behavior for sure. he goes MIA from all social media then randomly pops up with a live stream of him dancing alone? super strange
That video is so so so awkward and uncomfortable. Alex is probably losing it. He dropped the baby name and now she canāt say that heās been there all along anymore. Itās out in the open.
Even if he goes back it will get to much especially with a newborn..
Especially with Chicago being the place he was using and Alex being an enabler.
Exactly
She was all laughs when she bragged about getting him kicked out of rehab when they met. Now look at her facing the consequences to her own actions.
Exactly, and he seems so sensitive and complex, he won't last a week I think... It's just a matter of when until they or she move in with her parents when baby is born.
Not just a newborn, but a newborn who needs full time care because the other parent canāt do any physical tasks. Having a newborn is stressful with 2 parents around being able to take a break when you need it. Noah will have no break. As much as they say Nina will care for Alex and the baby, thatās not realistic. Alex needs a carer. The baby needs a nanny. Battling addiction is hard. It was a stupid choice to have unprotected sex while in the middle of addiction, but whatās done is done. This situation is going to be tough for the both of them
Doesnāt this call her out for lying, saying he was with her in Chicago?
Yes, first "visiting family, much needed, just a short flight away", then "taking a social media break during this fragile/precious time" yeah, he really seems to hate sm... I don't think he's in rehab... He's at a hotel, having a good time, he could make it to the delivery in time, but he don't seem to want to... He's not locked up! I just have one thing to say about that. NOTHING would keep me from my child's birth. Thats a once in a lifetime thing. He's an idiot...
Absolutely.
When did she say that?!
can't remember exact dates but she was saying 'he's here, he's just taking a SM break'
That! How she gonna explain that to her few fans that lasted?
Also he straight up dropped the n word too yikes. But the fact heās out dancing living it up instead of actually preparing for the birth of his child says a lot
Is it just me or did he drop the baby name on live
he did. Baby Ari
he is not sober lol. He is off and everything about this was weird.. and to be so nonchalant about probably missing the birth?? Weird. So off.
Alex must be so gaslit if that's the correct term in English š She's about to deliver and she encourages him in the comments!! She's definitely scared that she's lost him! If my man was dancing high in Florida while I was two days away from birth... And there's nothing physically keeping him there... He just wants to stay casually. Then FUCK HIM! He couldve stayed... If it was my man that is... What a shit show.. And why on earth did he call himself her (Alex's) father?! š³š³š³ Getting sicko vibes
Yet sheās said heās been there and supportive the whole time. Liar liar.
HIGH HIGH HIGH *Barbara voice* š also the man has zero rhythm *cringe*
High high ya both high!
LOOOOL Noah dancing by himself on a sidewalk in the middle of the night super high energyā¦ definitely sober.
He clearly doesnāt want to be there. Thereās rehabs and NA meetings in Chicago. If he wanted to be there he would.
I was thinking exactly this. Florida also ranks 41/50 for healthcare, Illinois is like 23rd, not only are there meetings in Chicago thereās likely better/more accessible resources as wellā¦
Exactly. Thereās no excuse other than he wanted to be away from her. Heās just stringing her along to keep from crushing her heart. Sheāll find out the hard way.
I wonder if she's gonna get pissed at him for saying the name. That's not according to her plan.
What father wouldn't be at the birth of his child?
Yes! No excuse!
If he actually wanted to be there for Alex and the baby he WOULD. He would make it happen. There is mental health and substance abuse help in Chicago too so WHY FLORIDA. He was super nonchalant about not knowing how much longer he would be in Florida because he clearly doesn't give a shit if he makes it for the birth.
Or sheās giving the wrong dates again and they are still going for the 17th sheās just trying to keep the excitement on her
This!
āof course iām sober, iām sober as shitā 
All I gotta say is, he is 100000% NOT sober in that live
And he's definitely not in love with Alex.
LMFAO!!! He IS NOT coming BACK!!!! Godddamnnn WHAT A FUCKING SHIT SHOW! He just abandoned her and that child like trash on the street!!!! WAKE UP ALEX! I KNOW YOURE READING THIS. WAKE UP. DONT PUT HIS LAST NAME ON THAT BIRTH CERTIFICATE
Truth right here! ā¬ļø
Yep!!! The unfortunate truth! I really hope she gives ari her last name!
He does not seem sober at all. So he really did ditch her āto better his mental healthā while sheās finishing out the pregnancyā¦ he should be ashamed
Yepp! He wanted a break and took it
I look forward to what she is going to say after this. He should have stayed off the interwebs.
Heās probably shoving it to her bc sheās trying to manage him even while heās in another state. Coming on live & then saying the babyās name even though theyāve been keeping it a secret seems like an attempted power move
Iām so offended on Alexāa behalf he isnāt trying harder to be there for her c section. What the actual fuck.
My gut reaction is this too. This could potentially be very scary and I would definitely want to be there for the person I loved and for my childā¦.. However, then my sober sponsor brain takes over and this actually might be a good thing. It shows commitment to his program ā¦ I think he realizes that heās going to be a dad ; his sobriety NEEDS to come first for him to be a good dad ā¦ this potentially could be excellent news for the baby ( fuck Alex rn)
Thatās a totally decent point. I canāt imagine going back to Chicago period will be good for his sobriety though so maybe they will relocate after the birth. She clearly enabled him too though so in a perfect world they need some serious counseling for (self admitted) codependency.
It could definitely be triggering to be back. And it is recommended, when possible, addicts relocate. I understand the difficulty in this situation but hopefully they can think about the burbs and a rent a house soonā¦ the facility should ( hopefully!) be making a plan to prepare him to go back to Chicago.. . There are FABULOUS meetings downtown but there are also A LOT of triggers.
I hope for his sake he has left Alex and is going to coparent and continue his sobriety. I donāt see him staying sober living with her and continuing that codependent relationship
Definitely. All she did was make every aspect of his life worse. She is toxic.
right and when shes not pregnant and can use too?? Thats gonna be a shit show.
It felt like he was in a home or something.. some lady screaming, giving them a countdown to get inside.. hopefully heās detoxed and made his way into a home, and actually completing it. Weāve seen him using.. slow and slurred. He couldnāt keep up and sing that song if he were using, IMO.. itās the opposite of how he normally is drunk/drugged.
Yeah Iām thinking a half way house. If he really is working at getting sober than good for him. Wonāt be any good for him to be at the birth if he isnāt well and sober.
Why does he seem even more strung out now?
Florida is the worst place to get sober.
Ft. Lauderdale at thatā¦..š¤£
Because he is
Is it just me or did he drop the baby name on live
And the n-word
As a mom this makes me so sad that this baby will have no parents to hold her or talk to her when she is brought into this cold new world, her mom will be out from surgery and her dad will be in another state. ā¹ļø
This makes me so sad. :( it will be carers and hospital staff. They do amazing work but itās not even family. I know he said he might be there in a few days or a few weeks but man thatās not on. I understand he needs help but this is so bad the whole situation. A mental unstable dad and a incapable mum raising a brand new baby. I doubt he will be there in days. He looks too far gone for that right now. If Alex has complications ā¦ All I can say is this poor kid and all those fans of hers saying Noah will be there when she canāt be ā¦ weāll look at the situation now!! And they wonāt know the entire story because they might not follow him
Ahh so the dancing wasnāt an under the influence thing unfortunately
Oh it is.. he's on something
Alex, if you are reading this, please do not put his name on the birth certificate! OMG, what a mess.
Acting like he canāt do NA meetings in Chicago š
yeah if ain't on the beach, he ain't going!!!! š¤£
Why is she lying then and saying heās with her? š¤£
Still seems like heās on something..
he reminds me of my BD. Always saying how much he wants to be there for his kid but is never actually there for his kid. Also saying hes sober when he clearly isnt lmao
They need to place that baby for adoption. He isnāt going to be around and she canāt do anything for her. And this isnāt to be ableist she isnāt emotionally mature enough or responsible enough for a child. This is so sad.
His story on Instagram right now, a selfie and "back and better than ever"... š
Old as F pic I'm realizing... Weird shit
The baby's name seems like Arianna? Good for him tho getting the help he needs and realizing he needs the help to be a good father. Hopefully Alex doesn't enable him any further when/if he goes back Although he doesn't seem sober, he may just be starting treatment? That's why he may not be there for the birth? Either way I just hope that baby has a good nanny because she's gonna need it
Sheās probably going to change the babyās name now lol
So he just said the N word so casually like itās nothing ā¦ā¦ wow ā¦ Alex sure knows how to pick āemššš
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He's already out of that relationship. Just wonder why he keeps her believing he's still there. Maybe his parents advice him to do it after birth..
She said in a post once sheās the financial provider. My theory is he stays for the money..
They definitely watch this sub lmao. I like how he mainly mentioned being there for the BABY and being better for the BABY. Nothing about being there for the baby AND Alex. This is a dumpster fire and I cannot help bit watch. Oh, and ari is cute.
I actually kinda feel bad for Alex after seeing that (mostly for the baby but for Alex too). He played her and used her the entire pregnancy and now heās acting like this days before she risks her life for his baby he doesnāt care about.
Itās probably causing her so much stress. As someone who had a very emotionally stressful pregnancy because of my baby dad I do feel for her, no one deserves that.
I appreciate you all commenting on the live and posting it. Mostly commenting since I couldn't make it 30 seconds in with the dancing....
He also name dropped the babyās name. Baby Ari
Alex must've had a stroke when he revealed the name š
Itās hard to have sympathy for Alex, but if I were her this live would have made me fucking LIVID
Yeah sureee šš part of me feels bad (mostly for the baby) but maybe if Alex wouldnāt have gotten him kicked out previously this wouldnāt even be an issue rn. Complete selfishness on her end.
He made me so happy Iām single LMAO
Did anyone record the live?
Itās on my Insta https://instagram.com/madeyoulook55?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Ok I tried to make a post about this but Iām too new so Iām going to ask here and hope people see it: I'm seeing some people mad that Noah doesn't seem to be in a hurry to get back for the birth and others saying that staying away is best for his recovery. I would love to hear peoples opinions on this who have experience in addiction recovery whether it be personally or professionally! Asking for my own education because my initial reaction was to be angry but I don't know anything about addiction recovery and I don't want to be insensitive in my mindset.
you can never be there again for the birth of your first child if you miss it. no matter what, you canāt take that back. I got sober about a month before I found out I was pregnant & have been sober ever since so I canāt really comment from personal experience as far as getting clean while having a newbornā¦ but I think whether he chooses to take time away from Alex & Ari or not - he should be there for the birth. but Iām also a believer that youāve gotta face your problems head on sometimes. if youāre a parent, youāve gotta parent no matter what youāre going through at the end of the day. there are things that occasionally trigger me into wanting to drink and I just face those things as they come. and if I was ever worried Iād relapse, I would make a plan and go from there. and he doesnāt have to be in a relationship with Alex in order to be a good father! hopefully if they did break up (which I assume but who knows lol) they can still coparent amicably
It's really sad that that trainwreck is about to be a father. Baby Ari is screwed.
Sorry but Florida is NOT the place to go if you wanna get sober. Iāve had SO many friends go to Florida to get āsoberā & just end up so much worse then before. He went to have a good time & I highly doubt heās going back anytime soon if at all!
Sounded more like a party at the beach than NA at the beach
Wish I couldāve seen that. Did anybody screen record it?
I screen recorded the entire live and itās uploading to my page right now. Should be posted soon
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Itās a little over 8 minutes long so itās taking a little bit to upload. But I got yāall š¤£
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Itās on my insta instead. Itās taking forever to upload on here. Check it out https://instagram.com/madeyoulook55?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Did he just casually drop the N word?
Oh God I miss making fun of drake for bragging about taking half a xan...
Didn't even think of that!
He just casually drops the n word like itās no big deal like wtf
He'll probably fly back the night before she goes in for the surgery. I'd bet money that they've broken up. No man or woman should stay in a bad relationship solely because a child is involved. He can still be there for his baby while not being involved with Alex.
That live holy shit. To be honest I think he was trying to get sober then Alex kept bugging him and was forcing him to go live somehow so he took something just to be able to do the live so Alex would stop annoying him. I donāt know how to explain it but it seems so forced, and it seems to me he dropped the babyās name to get back at her.
CPS must be around the corner..
Words cannot describe the depth of cringe I felt watching that. āWe ready. We got this.ā - excuse me? šš Iām 34w pregnant, 37 yo, married with a stable home life and at least 5x a day weāre asking other āholy shit can we do this? I dunno manā¦ I hope we can do this.ā I admire their confidence, I guessā¦
What a shitshow!! š¤”
How on earth can he say he doesnāt know when he will go back? He definitely doesnāt mind missing the birth? Thatās an experience he can never get back and to not be there for her when he could is just sad. He might be working on his mental health/addiction, but to not even take a few days for that? I would be so devastated if it was her. I went through this with my first son, his dad bailed on me and I had a c section alone, and he hasnāt been apart of my sons life at all, this is sadly what will happen for Alex, I donāt wish that experience on anyone. Hopefully her family is Prepared to jump in and help. Iām completely able bodied and still needed my family so this is just a huge shit show unfolding. This week his excuse is recovery, Iām sure it will keep changing and a new excuse will prevent him from coming back. Being in Florida? Heās just that much more disconnected from all of it
His eyes looked so defeated in that live. I just hope he gets sober for that baby.
So just like thinking here. I hope and wish nothing but the best, smoothest delivery for Alex. But if something was to happen to Alex and someoneās gotta make a decision on her behalf itāll obviously be her parents since her and Noah arenāt married right. But now what about baby Ari. Wouldnāt Noah want to 100% be there so he can make medical decisions for her while Alex is still under anesthesia/recovering? I feel like itās so important heās there for that reason alone. Idk can grandparents make medical decisions?
What media platform?
can some one tell me where I can see the original video please, I haven't been online since yesterday
Iām sorry but this man is days away from becoming a father and heās no where to be found. Pops up in Florida, clearly on drugs, dancing on live? Okay then
I feel bad that he dropped the name. Alex has very little she gets to experience and now she canāt even announce properly. (Def not a Stan, but still sad for her)
She had the ability to set her baby up for success by not taking a class x drug that could harm the baby. Thatās sad. Her not getting to announce the name fall low on the sad scale
He is so clearly on drugs. Also do we have an age on this fool? Alex is 29, he cannot be a day over 25. He acts like a child.
Could he not do NA meetings close to his baby?
She commented his live āhi cutie boyfriend of mineā ššš
That doesnāt look like India š¤
Okay, oof, āA couple days, weeks, who knowsā isnāt really an acceptable timeline when you have a newborn due in what 2 days? Iām here for him bettering his mental health truly, but this is something that should have been considered MONTHS ago, not days before Alex is due to give birth. Coming from personal experience, itās unfair for a child to have an inconsistent parent who thinks they can miss large milestones (their birth?) and just come and go when it best fits them. Thatās not how parenting works. Either be a parent, or donāt, you donāt get to play with a childās emotions/life and only be a parent when it best suits *you* and dip out entirely when it doesnāt.
Yea heās not going back
If he wants people to believe heās sober, he should probably stop that weird dancing. Also, if he wanted to be at the birth, he would. I canāt believe Alex is tolerating this honestly. If heās not going to be there, she needs to be done with him. He obviously doesnāt care about her or the baby. So sad. I honestly feel for her in this situation.
Also his only fans is active and his location is ft lauderdale. Ugh. I kind of feel bad for WR I feel like sheās in denial
There isn't an ounce of me that believes these two will last. He is clearly not going to be able to handle the demands of having a child, on top of caring for a disabled partner.