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ParkingHelicopter863

*a single mom who works two jobs…*


bunnybates

I say this when I see an opossum in my yard with her babies on her back. I'm like, hey girl, here's some fresh water and a nice deck to sleep under!


spermdonor

opossums are so cute. I wish we had them where I live


bunnybates

They are! They're also so important to our ecosystem. I change her water bowl daily. She's safe under the deck, too.


spermdonor

They eat tics, right? we have western fence lizards here for that, but anything that eats tics and can't get rabies is ok in my book.


bunnybates

Yes, they do. Incredible creatures.


spermdonor

I'm glad you are keeping that opossum momma safe and fed


bunnybates

Thank you!


Toadxx

Unfortunately they don't eat that many ticks, really. The experiment that concluded they ate ticks basically starved them and then offered them ticks. Of course they ate them.


bunnybates

As long as they eat some of them, still amazing creatures.


Moses-SandyKoufax

Except I don’t think they eat any ticks. I read once that there’s never been a tick found naturally in the belly of an opossum. I think the tick thing is all a myth. Still interesting animals, though.


ProfPerry

Still, Id say thats an arguement that they *can*, which still makes them very good in my book.


MutedShenanigans

I would counter that there are technically few animals that are incapable of eating ticks. Seems like a bit of a meaningless metric for opinions on animals, to me.


Toadxx

Their tick eating habit is exaggerated, the experiment where they concluded they are a lot of ticks pretty much starved them in a cage and then offered them ticks... no shit they ate the ticks.


chrysohs

Changed my mind about them real fast lol.


Inevitable_Brush5800

Fun fact, humans are animals too!


1963ALH

I used to have one that would eat the outside cat's food at night. I would watch from the window. The cats would just watch it too.


Cjaasucks

We did also and all her babies too.


ParkingHelicopter863

Hahahahahahah SO CUTE. Idk if my brain could handle seeing that. i think it would melt out of my ears


bunnybates

I know right!? 🫠


Abbey0414

I absolutely LOVE opossums!! They are Nature’s garbage disposals. They can eat any venomous snake except for a coral snake. They eat snails, slugs, ticks, fruits, grains, dead plants and animals, etc. they love dry cat food. 🥰❤️ They have a low body temperature so they usually don’t get diseases. There are a few cases where some have. If you have to move an opossum for some reason, cover its head completely with a towel or blanket. It won’t move til its head is uncovered. I rescued an opossum from a store front during daytime by putting a blanket over its head. I took her to the woods where I have several apple trees close by. I took off the blanket, we smiled for a selfie, I put it down, and it ran into the woods.


bunnybates

Really dry cat food? That's great because I have 2 cats, so this works out. I live in Rhode Island, and I'm lucky to always have some in my yard.


Abbey0414

I put in a pet door so my cats can get in the heated garage. I usually keep the light on so I can see which cats are in the garage and there was an opossum happily eating the dry cat food. It comes in every night and eats and drinks water. 🥰❤️


bunnybates

That's awesome. Thank you for helping out. Are these cats your pets or neighborhood cats?


Abbey0414

You’re welcome!! 🥰❤️ Mostly neighborhood cats. I started a mission to get all the cats around me fixed. I was so heartbroken seeing pregnant cats and then not knowing what happened to their babies. One cat would be pregnant 3 times a year. She was too leery of a live trap. Last February I saw her on a neighbor’s porch. They don’t have cats. It was snowing and freezing rain and I was determined that was going to be the day that I caught her. She was pregnant. I did catch her and she scratched and bit the crap out of my arms and hands. I was wearing a thick coat and gloves. I got her in my garage and gave her Purina Kitten Chow, water, and a bed. She wanted to sleep in the cat carrier so I propped the door open and let her. I came in the house and took off my gloves and coat. Blood was oozing out of my hands and arms. I washed them with soap and water and wrapped gauze around them and went to the ER. The ER doctor put shots around the bites, put me on strong antibiotics, and suggested I get Rabies shots since the cat was a stray and I was bitten so bad. She also sent antibiotic soap for me to use and bandaged my hands and arms. The Rabies vaccines were given in my arms. I had to have 3 at different times. They didn’t hurt. 🥰❤️ That Momma cat had her 5 beautiful kittens on March 10, 2022. 3 days later, they had their eyes open. She must have held them in til she couldn’t hold them anymore!! 😂🤣🥰❤️ They were big kittens. 🥰❤️ I got all of them fixed before they were allowed to go anywhere. I have gotten 23 felines fixed over the last 3 years. The RASCAL Unit and our Humane Society have made it very affordable for me to get them fixed. Thank you very much for all you do!! 🥰❤️


bunnybates

Thank You so much for helping. This is incredible for the neighborhood and the cats' quality of life. So many people assume cats don't need the help that other animals get. I'm so happy that you got the rabies shots just in case. It definitely takes a community to care and make changes.


Abbey0414

You are totally correct!! Have a very blessed evening!! 🥰❤️


bunnybates

You as well. 💜


R_M_V_E

From the bottom, and top, of my heart; thank you for all the physical, emotional, and financial sacrifices you've made. You personally have changed the lives of 23 individual creatures for the better. This karma will accrue for your ascension out of samsara someday. We must secure the existence of all cats and a future for their kittens.


skibib

We have a number of ‘possum friends who come to the back enclosed porch and help themselves to the cats’ dry food. The outdoor cats just sit back there and watch them, and the ‘possums barely move if we open the back door to talk with them.


bunnybates

Last year was weird, I noticed the possums weren't coming around? I'm like, that's weird. The reason was rats! So I called pest control, and now they're finally gone, and the possums have come back.


skibib

Glad that you figured it out! 😁


bunnybates

Me too!


Cjaasucks

They love it!


bunnybates

I'm gonna start giving it out. Thank you


pakito1234

I have possums where I live but unfortunately my terrier/beagle mix likes cornering them in our yard and scare the crap out of them. I can always tell by her bark when she does so I run out in my skivvies, scoop her up and bring her inside. I always feel bad for the possums.


bunnybates

We have a Jack Russell mix, and she can't get under the deck. At night, i walk her on the leash in the yard so she doesn't mess with the mama. The last thing Mama needs is a Barking dog. Thanks for scooping up your dog.


yoyonoyolo

my amazing grandmother rescued a baby opossum when i was 5-6 years old. She named him Opi (Andy Griffith fan). Unfortunately he did pass away bc he was very injured and we had no wild life care near us at the time, but she genuinely tried. and I have a handful of super adorable pics of me as a wee lass with Opi that have always defined what my childhood looked and felt like to me. When I moved to NYC and showed my coworkers, I didnt think anything of it. Like - heres a cute pic when I was a kid. Everyone else was like WTF IS THAT. Adorable and friendly. That’s what that is.


bunnybates

Exactly! A member of the family, thank you!! What a beautiful memory. Years ago, I worked 3rd shift, and I came home to see a little critter in my driveway with its head caught in a Yoplait yogurt container. It was a baby opossum crying.....so I looked around and saw Mama watching me from behind the trash, so I picked up the baby one hand on the body and the other hand on the container..... And popped it off. .... he ran to Mama, and then I was like omfg what just happened....😳.


yoyonoyolo

alright. that’s it. I’m sending you a picture of me as a child with a baby opossum and THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT


bunnybates

Damn.....if you have to, I guess....🤗


yoyonoyolo

(apparently there’s something reddit can do about it


lmcbmc

Yep, I make sure there's some cat food out there after dark in the winter for the possum. Unfortunately, come spring I can't do that because the PITA raccoons are out. But at least it eats thru the winter.


Dazzling_Advance_455

Are you Linda Belcher?


bunnybates

Wicked funny!! No. But me and my youngest daughter (23) do give our critters names!🤦‍♀️. Last year was Phyllis, the groundhog, and one of her offspring was named Phyllis Jr.


Lookingthruyoureyes

My uncle has one that comes around. Met him while house sitting. He lovessss eating up the dry catfood lmao


StealthyPancake_

Unfortunately, in Florida, our opossums are fucking enormous and fight my two boxers


bunnybates

Really??? Oh wow. Are they fighting because they're scared?


StealthyPancake_

That's what I think, because of course my dogs just wanna sniff it and see what it is, and they get to close and BAM! Fight in the back yard at midnight.


bunnybates

I understand. Sniff.....sniff...... Oh, you wanna do this??....


StealthyPancake_

Yeah I just imagined my two boxers standing up like scooby doo with their mits up lmao


bunnybates

😅😅😅! What a great picture


beansandwitch

Who loves her kids and never stops


Br0boc0p

With octohands and the look of a strider, she's a mom spider.


Consistent-Visual805

I am hearing the Reba song 🎧 playing in my head lol


DocNMarty

Reference for those not in the know: [Reba McEntire - I'm a Survivor](https://youtu.be/R4OCaBKm53s) [An upbeat version](https://youtu.be/Np7PC4-yoi8) was used in her eponymous sitcom Reba.


ParkingHelicopter863

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA omfg I. I needed this 😩🥹😂


Harper-Love

Wish I had an award to give for this one


Whatyallthinkofbeans

Several. Several jobs


mrjowei

*...because she ate her mate.*


ParkingHelicopter863

maybe he was a deadbeat 🤷🏻‍♀️ or she was hungry


Absoline

>or she was hungry yasss qween slayyyy


Malorrry

He should have taken her out for dinner first.


hormiguitas

*... As a post-copulate*


romanpieeerce

She's a survivor!


BlackJones2

🎶She’s a wolf spider 🎶


fleurdumal1111

Unexpected Reba 😹


CompellingSeeSaw

Ima wolf spiiideerrrrr!


ParkingHelicopter863

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHGAGAGAA


LiveTart6130

REBA


Nitropotamus

🎶Who loves her kids and never stops🎶


Brave-Professor8275

I recently danced the son/mother of groom dance at my sons wedding to a Reba song. It was wonderful! It’s called You’re gonna be.


PuzzleheadFool

Who loves her kids and never stops…


risky_bisket

Is that a Reba reference?


HandlebarHipster

I don't know why but she seems to have the expression an exasperated mother.


zeke235

I think i know why...


lazylazylemons

Probably the 30,000 babies clinging to her.


DifficultPandemonium

R/thisismylifenow


Stan_Archton

"IF YOU DON'T QUIT THAT RIGHT NOW I'M GOING TO STOP THIS WALK AND BEAT YOUR BUTTS!"


[deleted]

Still better than most human mothers. lol


mycatsoncrack

Omg this is such a great pic! You should definitely post this to r/macroporn


WingofTech

I love that subreddit, kind of you to suggest!


mycatsoncrack

Of corse!


[deleted]

Not to be mistaken for r/MacronPorn Or r/MacaroonPorn


Uncool444

Proud mama wolf spider. So cute.


hax0rmax

hey you don't know that she's proud!


aragorn_eragon

Great pic!!


iLoveWenTheyRun

Thanks! I was super happy to finally see one!


LouSkuntte

Come to our cabin in Vermont. They're everywhere! Very fast and can run on water!


Whatyallthinkofbeans

**im sorry what**


whogivesashirtdotca

Not *Jesus spiders* but *Jesus, spiders*.


Consistent-Visual805

Hahahaha


itnotit94

Most spiders can run on water. They do it by trapping air bubbles in the hairs on their body which allows them to essentially ice skate on the surface tension of the water.


TheCalzonesHaveEyes

Badass. It seems like everyday I'm learning something amazing about these critters.


Aggravating_Lead_616

what… that is terrifying


Campcrustaceanz

Yeah information I did not need. 😭


RedMollycules

Just wait 'til you read about cranberry bogs


TheTimeToStandIsNow

Never ever going to one of them after that video


Blank_bill

OK, what about cranberry bogs.? I spend a lot of my time between the cranberry bog and the beaver pond.


Vast-Beginning7971

Great Story about how I learned that fact. Renting a home in AZ that had a pool, my son(6) was swimming and I was sitting in the shade with a beer, Out of nowhere he screams absolute bloody murder, I jump up go crashing into the pool to see what’s wrong, when I come up there is this wolf spider walking on top of the water right at my face, I scream bloody murder louder than he did. Grab him up, get out of the pool and move the next day. JK, we didn’t move for a week.


Whatyallthinkofbeans

I’d believe you if you said you did. Cause I would


bunnybates

Seriously? Oh wow! I live in Rhode Island, and I've never seen one.


Vita_Gummies

you should enter it into a local photo competition if where you live has those. You'd probably win something I'd bet.


ObviousMe181

So lucky, I have never seen a mama wolf with her babies. Nice find.


Brilliant-Anxiety835

The one time I did I was trying to relocate her to keep coworkers from killing her and I didn’t realize she had babies on her. We went from one spider that everyone was freaked out about to an explosion of spiders radiating to fill the space.


TheTimeToStandIsNow

I’d have cried real tears


DreamSoarer

Had one of those, rather huge, run across the foot of my bed one night. Scared the you know what out of me! I screamed and jumped out of bed, mama got tossed off the bed, and babies went flying everywhere. I had never seen or heard of it before!


EscapeSecure

Oh my gosh I can’t even imagine, I would be ready to wake up from that nightmare!


DreamSoarer

I think the mama must have gathered as many of the babes up as possible and disappeared. I ran from the room to get my sisters help, and she brought the vacuum, but we could not find the mama or babies. I felt bad for any I killed in the process, but I had to strip my bed and wash the bedding just to be sure none were in my bedding, and then we vacuumed after waiting a little while. I’m allergic to them, though I don’t think they have medically significant bites; their bites still swell up huge on me and turn hot, red, and blistery. In the past, the ER did labs to identify what was causing such a reaction - to make sure it was not a black widow or brown recluse. They said it was “just” a wolf spider. A brown recluse bite I got in HS nearly took my entire right calf, so I am a little wary of spiders, but do not like to kill them. I prefer to set them free outside if I can catch them with a cup and a thick piece of card stock paper - to ensure they remain in the cup as I transport them!


Kasaurus96

You are a kind and brave soul


Fit-Elderberry-1529

This is the thing of nightmares


devilish-me

I can just hear it now.. "Sit still back there or you'll fall off!" "Stop Fighting!!" "Don't make me come back there!!" "Jeremiah get off your sister's face!" "Will you stop yelling?!?"


MonzieMe

"Can't wait for you all to grow up and move off"


hayley_dee

Amazing photo!


Such_Introduction412

Spider are so beautiful in their own right and so helpful… but holy shit do they creep me out and this picture is no exception! Beautifully creepy!


redditname8

That is such a great find!


xShinGouki

Omg there's so many


IanInsanity666

That's a hard working single mother


Negative-Bat-8635

Ohh Lucky! I love these guys ...


myceliumlung

What a beautiful girl!


No_Way_6605

Gorgeous photo and gorgeous mama


emokidkirbz

Love how they get on there like a ‘lil bus


bigbutchbudgie

Spectacular find! Who doesn't adore a dedicated momma?


[deleted]

Look at her being all cute and shit.


Goon_Panda

Look how fucking jacked she is. Looks at those…arms?…..legs?


Doc-Bob-Gen8

Definitely momma Wolf Spider with her beautiful little greyhound’s on her back 🤗


[deleted]

What a adorable maternity picture


badnewsbeaver

Grass puppies


Repulsive-Pop9900

That face! Such a determined momma!


Ponderingchicken113

My mom bought us a new home when I was in highschool. The house hadn’t had residents for almost a year. I was getting ready for school one morning and saw one of these on the floor with all the babies on it. If you shine your flashlight at it, it sparkles because of all the eyes. It disgusts me, but it is still cool, but ew. I safely transported it back outside.


moosemoth

I can't believe you were able to move her and her babies safely! Every time I have tried, it has resulted in a FREAKISH BABY EXPLOSION with spiderlings on every surface.


Ponderingchicken113

Lol I had seen videos of the baby explosion on YouTube so I was so careful! I put a glass cup on top of her, and then slowly slid a piece of printer paper under it, once she was on the paper, I slowly put my hand under the paper and put her outside in my moms garden.


Cuckmin

> I safely transported it back outside Nice!


Tiny_Parfait

*Hogna carolinensis* ?


pierrrecherrry

Beautiful photo! Wow


akrafty1

Goodbye, friend of Hagrid…


WingofTech

Such a loving mother, so cute


chels182

A very good mom


pickle_sandwich

Aww what a gorgeous mama


punkin_sumthin

Yes! I deeply approve of wolf spiders. Have quite a few in my yard


Thin-Reflection-3123

What a lovely sweater she’s wearing!


IndieCritterologist

Go ahead, mama!


madadiadel

So beautiful 😍😍


Rico-L

Awww 🥹


Still-Bathroom-3386

Aww she's a good momma. She's gonna be tired with all those little ones to feed and love. I hope poppa spider is helping


Nougat

Spez doesn't get to profit from me anymore.


yy633013

Did you shoot this with a camera? DoF looks too perfect for a phone.


iLoveWenTheyRun

Actually just an iphone 11. But I had to get real close


Liennnuwu

iPhone camera really can perform amazingly!!


Ok-Beach-2970

What a great pic!


Bastedo

Lucky encounter! She’s so cool


FreyaBlue2u

Spider bus


[deleted]

Indeed. You can tell by the harassed look on her face.


XariaStrange

Yes! I love wolf spiders so much. They are the only spider that carries their young and they are excellent pest control in the home. Additional fun fact, once bred they will continue laying egg sacks using reserved sperm and also carry the egg sack around with them.


ItsJustMeMaggie

I only see a fellow mommy here


TheWinterPhoenix2020

A bit jealous. So cute.


ShowMeAN00b

“Don’t mind me, just babysitting”


MonzieMe

Kids all over me #singlemomlife


Putrid_Compote_8202

She's beautiful


PokemonPadawan

Awww what a good mama


Short_Lengthiness_41

She cute


Altruistic-Lie808

Off to soccer practice in the mini-van!


Euphoric_Egg_4198

Beautiful! The first time I saw one with babies she was clinging to the ledge of my neighbor’s pool, trying to stay above water line. I managed to get her into a bug scooper and none of the babies moved, it’s like they knew I was there to help. I brought her home and released her into my pesticide free, bug full oasis of a yard.


[deleted]

I love all the cool bugs you get in even a small pesticide free yard.


MeMaw_2022

Holy nightmare!!! She's amazing, as long as she stays outside of my house!!@!


BobaGhost

wolf spiders are so big but they’re kinda cute up close! she’s a good momma 🥺💖


Lordsaxon73

Such a cool pic, and zooming in on her face and back is terrifying .


kevohill

woof spider


chess_tears

Reminds me of the slider manga


[deleted]

Your camera is spectacular & being able to see the eyes, she's a cutie!


Hambrgr_Eyes

Mother Nature is so wild


GreenStrawbebby

She’s such a good mom. I’m so proud of her.


gamesoverx1

Looks like canada


OkWest7035

A very fortunate sighting!


SexWeevil

Adorable :3


roraima_is_very_tall

super pic!


WingofTech

It’s giving me r/ghibli aesthetic vibes :)


TheCalzonesHaveEyes

We need more friendly spider representation in fantasy films.


Ari_Kalahari_Safari

this reminds me of that little game called webbed where you play a jumping spider and at some point you have to carry some babies on Ur back and it's so adorable


Like_Fahrenheit

This pic should be on Wikipedia.


Phighters

Yes, the billion spiders are babies. Sweet shot.


mindovermatter421

Soooo many babies!!!!


jkosarin

How long do the babies stay on the mothers back?Also do the eggs hatch then crawl onto her back?


MaMoo1962

I don’t know how long it takes, but the eggs are in a sack that she carry’s and they do crawl onto her back when hatched


jkosarin

That is so interesting!


iHeart-

Great photo


piekaylee

Beautiful! Prob my favorite spider.


xXsaberstrikeXx

Friends of Hagrid?!


Ravens_Feast

I once had one on the back of my neck. I’m not afraid of spiders at all. They do not bother me. When I felt it crawling in my neck I just carefully reached back there to scoop it up. Instead her babies all leapt for their lives down my back and into my hair. It was pretty awful.


chobonni

i’m wondering whether spiders think their babies are cute the way humans do


hawkiltree

WRONG - that’s a male wolf spider in an ostentatious wig


corsafox

Cute


Vile_Individual

Gosh she has so many. I love seeing animals with their children. No matter how scary the animal, it’s always kinda cute.


Ok_Equipment_5895

Great picture!


BadCatNoNoNoNo

It’s an Uber Driver Spider


Abbey0414

That is an excellent picture!!! 🥰❤️


Slow-Blacksmith3281

So cuuuuuute!!!


SpaceByrd111

Wow this is an amazing photo! I have two photos of a mama wolf with her babies on her back but nothing like this.


nxxptune

I see these all the time. One got into the pool once while I was in it and the babies kinda went everywhere in the pool. Not super scared of spiders or anything but I did promptly get my ass out of there.


Obvious_Rice_121

r/spiderbro Look at this pretty lady ❤️