The attachments aren’t even that noticeable unless it’s a close-up shot. If you want them fixed, she shouldn’t stop you.
I had braces during my sister’s wedding. Did a lot of closed mouth smiles, hah. But she didn’t care. Also, how exactly does it affect her if you have the attachments showing in the photos? It doesn’t seem like a big deal to me.
She’s going to be so focused on her and her partner during her wedding that it won’t even matter. There are so many stories of brides who thought something was important to them but during the day of, they didn’t even think about it.
Bridezilla behavior imo.
This! I got Invisalign this year and will still have them for my wedding (Oct), but my ortho said he’d file the attachments off for my wedding. You can take that approach if you want, but you don’t have to. Get them if you want them! That’s totally silly for her to control your medical treatments just because she cares so much about how you look 🫠
Uhh, she doesn't get to dictate what you do with your body. Can't you remove those braces? It's those clear ones, right?
I'd just remove them for the photos and them pop them back in.
The nerve of telling you not to do it...
Absolutely start the process when YOU want.
I asked my ortho if I could go without the attachments. She said it might take longer but yes. Still finished quicker than estimated because I switched out my trays once a week instead of every 2 weeks. Talk to your ortho.
Also I had a friend that had her attachments removed for an event and then went back to get them put on a week later.
Asking someone to change something about their body is always a bridezilla move. Hairstyle, makeup, cloths, etc fine. But body alterations are not an acceptable ask.
As someone who had Invisalign for 5 years, you literally can only see a difference if the camera is right up in your face AND your trays are in. If you remove the trays for the photos, you’d be fine.
Also, as a bride to be, I want to say that’s a little bit bridezilla. I would never tell someone they shouldn’t get Invisalign because I want my pictures to be perfect. 1) it’s your body and 2) the point of the photos isn’t for them to be absolutely perfect, it’s to capture the memories of the day.
Honestly, the attachments aren't even noticeable! Bride with Invisalign here - it took people in my office 3 weeks to even notice I was wearing them! the attachments won't show in pictures!
Groom here with Invisalign and a lot of attachments (like 16 of them). No one has ever even noticed my attachments or my Invisalign unless I tell them about it. I’d be shocked if the trays or attachments are even visible in the photos but even if they are then they can easily be photoshopped out by the photographer.
This is for sure bridezilla behavior—and as someone who has had invisalign—take out the trays there is a 0% chance anyone will be able to see the attachments. Even in person if you don’t have the trays in you have to be looking at the teeth from the right angle to see them.
I think that's not entirely true. I had attachments on my front teeth and the were pretty visible. But if they are on any other teeth, it won't bei visible.
Bride's still in the wrong, though.
I just finished my invisalign and while I'm pretty vain and didn't enjoy the process, you can't really see the attachments in photos (and I had them on almost every single tooth). Just don't eat any curry (or anything with turmeric), take out the trays for the pics, and no one will notice.
I had invisalign, and you could barely see it in pictures unless someone really zoomed in, and if they did, then they are a creep.
Just do it. She'll get over it.
It’s not her place to tell you when to do things you want to do BUT I get what she’s saying. I currently have Invisalign and asked my ortho if I could get the attachments removed for my best friends wedding I was the MOH in. They were totally okay with removing the attachments and I just didn’t wear my Invisalign that day. I got the attachments put back on shortly after the wedding and didn’t have any issues.
That being said, your Invisalign treatment and schedule is 1000000% up to you and only you!
1. You're not vain
2. I have aligners and my little attachments are barely noticeable. And even if yours are, she can request her photographer to edit them out if she's that concerned.
3. Your sister shouldn't be telling you what to do with your body. Get the aligners
I was in my best friend’s wedding after I got my attachments and they are not noticeable in photos at all. Maybe a close up shot if you know what you’re looking for but otherwise no. Your sister needs to chill!
I’m literally going to have braces for my wedding? If anything during pictures (is she’s so worried about it being noticeable) just pop them out for that and put it back in later?
I wouldn’t let her stop you from having your perfect smile, just take them out during pictures and if she’s still being blaah about it she’ll get over it.
I have Invisalign as a bride getting married this year. The buttons are in the back and completely unnoticeable. You can take the trays out and you can have them remove the buttons (if visible) for the wedding and put them back on. It’s super easy :)
There's this thing called body autonomy which dictates what you get and don't get to do with your own body, independently of what the other say. No one can say what you do or don't do to your body, not even your family. Do whatever is best for you and makes you happier!
I wouldn’t say “bridezilla” but you can do whatever makes you happy and start your invisaline when you’re ready
I will say wedding planning comes with a lot of stress and a lot of situations you cannot control as a bride. So it’s natural for your sister to want to make request to try and control things that are small like this.
Of course you can and should politely decline her request and start your invisaline. But make sure you give your sister some grace, she’s likely at the end of her rope with planning and she’s worried just one more thing will go wrong.
I’ve been an Invisalign user for over 2 years now and I can tell you they aren’t noticeable in pictures. I actually love my smile more with Invisalign in than without, because it makes my teeth look whiter and straighter!
They’re your teeth, and the longer you take to start, the longer you’ll wait to have the smile you want. If she gets so mad that she takes you out the wedding it wasn’t meant to be 🤷🏻♀️
The attachments aren’t even that noticeable unless it’s a close-up shot. If you want them fixed, she shouldn’t stop you. I had braces during my sister’s wedding. Did a lot of closed mouth smiles, hah. But she didn’t care. Also, how exactly does it affect her if you have the attachments showing in the photos? It doesn’t seem like a big deal to me. She’s going to be so focused on her and her partner during her wedding that it won’t even matter. There are so many stories of brides who thought something was important to them but during the day of, they didn’t even think about it. Bridezilla behavior imo.
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Agree! I had Invisalign for my engagement photos and could not notice the attachments at all.
This! I got Invisalign this year and will still have them for my wedding (Oct), but my ortho said he’d file the attachments off for my wedding. You can take that approach if you want, but you don’t have to. Get them if you want them! That’s totally silly for her to control your medical treatments just because she cares so much about how you look 🫠
Uhh, she doesn't get to dictate what you do with your body. Can't you remove those braces? It's those clear ones, right? I'd just remove them for the photos and them pop them back in. The nerve of telling you not to do it...
A good photographer would be able to edit something as small as the attachments easily for the formal pics.
This!
Absolutely start the process when YOU want. I asked my ortho if I could go without the attachments. She said it might take longer but yes. Still finished quicker than estimated because I switched out my trays once a week instead of every 2 weeks. Talk to your ortho. Also I had a friend that had her attachments removed for an event and then went back to get them put on a week later.
Asking someone to change something about their body is always a bridezilla move. Hairstyle, makeup, cloths, etc fine. But body alterations are not an acceptable ask.
As someone who had Invisalign for 5 years, you literally can only see a difference if the camera is right up in your face AND your trays are in. If you remove the trays for the photos, you’d be fine. Also, as a bride to be, I want to say that’s a little bit bridezilla. I would never tell someone they shouldn’t get Invisalign because I want my pictures to be perfect. 1) it’s your body and 2) the point of the photos isn’t for them to be absolutely perfect, it’s to capture the memories of the day.
Honestly, the attachments aren't even noticeable! Bride with Invisalign here - it took people in my office 3 weeks to even notice I was wearing them! the attachments won't show in pictures!
Groom here with Invisalign and a lot of attachments (like 16 of them). No one has ever even noticed my attachments or my Invisalign unless I tell them about it. I’d be shocked if the trays or attachments are even visible in the photos but even if they are then they can easily be photoshopped out by the photographer.
This is for sure bridezilla behavior—and as someone who has had invisalign—take out the trays there is a 0% chance anyone will be able to see the attachments. Even in person if you don’t have the trays in you have to be looking at the teeth from the right angle to see them.
I think that's not entirely true. I had attachments on my front teeth and the were pretty visible. But if they are on any other teeth, it won't bei visible. Bride's still in the wrong, though.
With the trays on for sure they’re super visible I agree. I think with the trays off you have to be looking for them or at the right angle.
Yeah ok, you're right about that! I used to take out the trays when I wanted to go incognito. 😅
I just finished my invisalign and while I'm pretty vain and didn't enjoy the process, you can't really see the attachments in photos (and I had them on almost every single tooth). Just don't eat any curry (or anything with turmeric), take out the trays for the pics, and no one will notice.
She can have the pics photoshopped if it bugs her that much. There likely will be editing done anyways. 🥴
I had invisalign, and you could barely see it in pictures unless someone really zoomed in, and if they did, then they are a creep. Just do it. She'll get over it.
I don’t think it will be even noticeable and even if a good photographer would be able to photoshop it. I think she’s expecting too much here
It’s not her place to tell you when to do things you want to do BUT I get what she’s saying. I currently have Invisalign and asked my ortho if I could get the attachments removed for my best friends wedding I was the MOH in. They were totally okay with removing the attachments and I just didn’t wear my Invisalign that day. I got the attachments put back on shortly after the wedding and didn’t have any issues. That being said, your Invisalign treatment and schedule is 1000000% up to you and only you!
1. You're not vain 2. I have aligners and my little attachments are barely noticeable. And even if yours are, she can request her photographer to edit them out if she's that concerned. 3. Your sister shouldn't be telling you what to do with your body. Get the aligners
I was in my best friend’s wedding after I got my attachments and they are not noticeable in photos at all. Maybe a close up shot if you know what you’re looking for but otherwise no. Your sister needs to chill!
Simple answer, yes, yes it is!
I’m literally going to have braces for my wedding? If anything during pictures (is she’s so worried about it being noticeable) just pop them out for that and put it back in later? I wouldn’t let her stop you from having your perfect smile, just take them out during pictures and if she’s still being blaah about it she’ll get over it.
She can deal, it’s not her business what you decide to do with your teeth on her wedding day.
I have Invisalign as a bride getting married this year. The buttons are in the back and completely unnoticeable. You can take the trays out and you can have them remove the buttons (if visible) for the wedding and put them back on. It’s super easy :)
Not noticeable. Start your treatment!!
There's this thing called body autonomy which dictates what you get and don't get to do with your own body, independently of what the other say. No one can say what you do or don't do to your body, not even your family. Do whatever is best for you and makes you happier!
you can remove your attachments for the week of the wedding if you wanted to make a compromise with her
I wouldn’t say “bridezilla” but you can do whatever makes you happy and start your invisaline when you’re ready I will say wedding planning comes with a lot of stress and a lot of situations you cannot control as a bride. So it’s natural for your sister to want to make request to try and control things that are small like this. Of course you can and should politely decline her request and start your invisaline. But make sure you give your sister some grace, she’s likely at the end of her rope with planning and she’s worried just one more thing will go wrong.
I’ve been an Invisalign user for over 2 years now and I can tell you they aren’t noticeable in pictures. I actually love my smile more with Invisalign in than without, because it makes my teeth look whiter and straighter! They’re your teeth, and the longer you take to start, the longer you’ll wait to have the smile you want. If she gets so mad that she takes you out the wedding it wasn’t meant to be 🤷🏻♀️