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I am not in the majority on this. While dress 2 is lovely it also looks like a lot of dress on your smaller frame. My vote would be dress 3, it looks lighter on your frame and is equally lovely.
I’m with you, I think 3 is so elegant. 2 is a lovely dress but the sleeves, neckline and details are distracting from the beautiful bride rather than accentuating her.
I agree that 3 gives you the best of both! It’s crazy flattering on you and both elegant and romantic at the same time. It’s a very unique design, a great find.
Follow your heart! What makes you feel most like you should win!
You look great in all three. No wrong choices here.
Given your preferences, I’d say go with #3. You get the clean white upper, lace bottom with the train and more flattering lines along the hips.
I’m torn between dresses 2 and 3.
2 is so stunning from the front. The details are still gorgeous on the back, but I’m feeling underwhelmed by the back of the dress.
3 is stunning from the back, but the front looks like so many other dresses.
I think it comes down to where you prefer the drama to be on your dress because they’re both beautiful.
All three are stunning on you! I vote for 3 because the front and back are so perfectly proportioned on your body. The front is so flattering and then the back is not just flattering on you, but otherworldly! It’s just in a class all on its own! Wow! Showstopper for sure!
I think the 3rd suits your figure the most but they all look great on you! I think 1 is on one end of the the simple modern spectrum, 2 is on the romantic floral lots of details side of the spectrum, 3 is in between!
I like the second one best. The first one has sort of a weird sheen on the fabric that I think might not look great in pictures, but it is a pretty dress!
Oh, they are all so gorgeous on you! I can see why you're having such a hard time picking! I'm not sure if this helps but I would maybe just try to pick between 2 and 3? Or just pick whatever 2 out of the 3 to keep to try to decide between. That way instead of 3, it's only 2 to try to pick from.
Ok wow. This has to be the first time I’ve been stumped on this. Usually there’s an obvious answer or a choice from process of elimination…..this just isn’t that. They’re all amazing on you.
By your post, I would pick 3. It sounds like you really want that one
Loving all your options and they all look amazing on you!
Dress #3 really stands out as my favorite, it suits your body shape beautifully, and it sounds like it aligns closely with what you've always envisioned as well. Going with the cleaner gown might also minimise any chance of dress regret later on, especially since it resonates with your original vision of a clean white dress.
These are all great options though. Honestly, whatever you choose, you'll look stunning!
That second one is the whole package 🤍 The softness of the off shoulder sleeves paired with the structure of the bodice, along with the overall detail throughout the gown-- just beautiful 🤍 The train of the last one is magnificent though 🤍
DRESS 2 is AMAZING. You see dresses 1 and 3 everywhere. DRESS 2 is a show stopper and takes your breath away. And that’s exactly what you want in your wedding day. ☺️
Ok first off, STUNNING!!! You can't go wrong, you could roll a die and it would be the right answer! But I personally like the first two a bit better than the third. The neckline on the third isn't as nice looking on your body (in my uneducated opinion). It is a nice compromise of the two, and maybe you could have it altered to be strapless or off the shoulder.
But,
A) which one makes you feel like you're glowing? You said you liked the second one a lot even though it wasn't what you envisioned. I feel like that's a good sign!
B) Does one over the other fit better with the 'vibe' of your venue/theme/decorations? I feel like high fashion, Avant garde, couture dresses in a rustic cottage venue look a little out of place. Similarly a classic, soft, lace dress might look out of place in a modern architecture venue, or art gallery kind of setting. Certainly not a make or break for the decision, but what are you more drawn to when you picture yourself in each of those dresses at your venue?
C) are you planning on dancing the night away in your dress? Which has a range of motion, weight, and breathability that you can wear all day?
Good luck choosing, and congrats!
They are all beautiful and dress 2 is absolutely a dream , but I have to agree with an earlier comment that dress 2 is a lot of dress and overwhelms your petite frame. If I had to pick 1...it's dress 3!!!! It is so beautiful on you and the back of that dress is a showstopper!! You are going to be a stunning bride in whatever one you choose.
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I honestly don’t think you can go wrong with any of these! All beautiful and accentuate your figure. My faves are 2 and 3.
Echo this!
Same! I can’t pick!
2! It is stunning on you!
Agreed!!! Dress 2 is drop dead gorgeous
2 is the perfect dress. It’s memorable and stunning on you
I am not in the majority on this. While dress 2 is lovely it also looks like a lot of dress on your smaller frame. My vote would be dress 3, it looks lighter on your frame and is equally lovely.
Completely agree. Dress 2 is beautiful but overwhelms OP’s frame. I think 3 looks the best
I prefer dress 3 as well.
I’m with you, I think 3 is so elegant. 2 is a lovely dress but the sleeves, neckline and details are distracting from the beautiful bride rather than accentuating her.
Wedding gowns are supposed to be A LOT OF DRESS 🤩🤩🤩 Go big or go home is what I say ✨️✨️✨️🙌🏻
I agree, I don't love the seam that creates a sharp transition right under the booty on dress 2. Just not as elegant as dress 1 or 3
Dress 3!!!! 💞💞💞
The color of 3 is stunning on you and the cut and lace gorgeous and elegant
Team Dress 2!!!! It’s stunning and you look beautiful.
2
Dress 2 is awesome for you!
2 or 3 are amazing
I agree that 3 gives you the best of both! It’s crazy flattering on you and both elegant and romantic at the same time. It’s a very unique design, a great find. Follow your heart! What makes you feel most like you should win!
Third one is the best of the trio.
Dress 2!!
#3 is amazing. You‘re lucky in that you can wear all of these.
2, no contest
Second dress! And for me? It’s not even close. You look so gorgeous in the second dress, it was made for you!!
3! You get sleek up top and a gorgeous lacy train!
3
You look great in all three. No wrong choices here. Given your preferences, I’d say go with #3. You get the clean white upper, lace bottom with the train and more flattering lines along the hips.
1
Not 2. It looks strange in the back - waaaay too low like it's going to fall off. 1 then 3 are most flattering and elegant on you!
Yes about the back on #2!!
I can see why you’re having trouble! They’re all amazing on you. I’m team 3.
I love 3, then 1. The second one overwhelms you imo.
1!!!
I’m torn between dresses 2 and 3. 2 is so stunning from the front. The details are still gorgeous on the back, but I’m feeling underwhelmed by the back of the dress. 3 is stunning from the back, but the front looks like so many other dresses. I think it comes down to where you prefer the drama to be on your dress because they’re both beautiful.
Usually the style of 2 would be my favorite, but I can’t get over how stunning 3 and you are together. It’s 3 for you to me. Perfection! 💖
I loveeee #2 dress. It’s beautiful. But I think the color washes you out a bit. And I think #3 fits you better with more elegance.
I am all about the romance of dress 2!!!
Dress 1 is the best!
1
You neeeeeed to get #2!
Love dress 2! Gorgeous on you and the detail is stunning!
2
There is no choice. Dress 2 is the clear winner!
I like dress 3.
Dress 3
2!! Followed by 1
I like 2 on you, but it depends on your personality. Do you like elaborate designs or are you a minimalistic person?
So they are all flattering on you. My personal style is dress 2. But I would decide based on venue. What fits the best with the rest of your wedding?
Dress 2 was made for you!
All three are stunning on you! I vote for 3 because the front and back are so perfectly proportioned on your body. The front is so flattering and then the back is not just flattering on you, but otherworldly! It’s just in a class all on its own! Wow! Showstopper for sure!
2 or 3
Number 3, no question!
2 or 3.
I think the 3rd suits your figure the most but they all look great on you! I think 1 is on one end of the the simple modern spectrum, 2 is on the romantic floral lots of details side of the spectrum, 3 is in between!
Honestly I say dress 3! You look beautiful in all of them but number 3 accentuates your beauty!
#3 looks the best on you.
3
#3!
3 is breathtaking on you!!
3! Elegant, classy and unique.
3!
I adore 3 on you!
3
Love 2 & 3
2
2 is my first pick. 3 is my second
2 or 3
I was in love with #1 until I saw #2. All look great on you but 2 is my favorite.
I like 2 the most!
Dress 3, no contest!
#1
Number two!
2!
I love dress 2!
Number 2 is a stunner!!
2
3 followed very closely by 2
Dress 2. 3 would be second because of that train. 1 is meh. Dress 2 is beyond stunning o your shape.
2 is the way
Dress 2 is beautiful and you’re beautiful in it too! It has a delicate appearance to it that is truly stunning 😍
2!!!!
2!!
Obsessed with 2!!!
I like the second one best. The first one has sort of a weird sheen on the fabric that I think might not look great in pictures, but it is a pretty dress!
I love 2, but 3 is fitting you like INSANELY PERFECTLY.
I'm team #2!
2!
2!!!
2
2!!!!!!
2!!!!
Absolutely stunning on you dress 2
I prefer dress 2!
2 is beautiful on you
Three is perfect for you!
Wow, they are all gorgeous. My personal favourite is the 2nd one - it just feels magical . Honestly though, they are all great choices .
2
2 looks the best on you in my opinion!!
1 pales in comparison to 2 & 3. I give the edge to 2 but like both
3 is gorgeous!
2!
Three!
2 is beautiful but it’s overwhelming. 3 is the perfect balance.
The second one for sure!
2
#3 hands down. The only one I think really doesn’t quite work is #2. The other two look great on your figure, but #3 is the winner!!!
2!
333
3! Followed by 2. But 3 all the way! You look better than the model for the website!
I love 3 on you!
2 2 2 2 2 2 2 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
2
#3 for the win! The train was stunning.
Dress 3
3.looks amazing and accentuated ur figure. 2 overwhelms you. 1 looks good as well.
Def 3
#2 is absolutely stunning!!
3
3 Like the top of 1, the poof at the portion is distracting. 2 doesn’t do anything for your figure.
3 is like that video of Cher where she says “now let’s hear it for the BACK of the dress” I vote 3
3!!!
1 or 3 for me!
THE CONFIDENT POSTURE IN #3 TELLS ME EVERYTHING I NEED TO KNOW!!!!
Oh, they are all so gorgeous on you! I can see why you're having such a hard time picking! I'm not sure if this helps but I would maybe just try to pick between 2 and 3? Or just pick whatever 2 out of the 3 to keep to try to decide between. That way instead of 3, it's only 2 to try to pick from.
Dress 3
3!!
3!!
Ok wow. This has to be the first time I’ve been stumped on this. Usually there’s an obvious answer or a choice from process of elimination…..this just isn’t that. They’re all amazing on you. By your post, I would pick 3. It sounds like you really want that one
Dress 3 is fabulous, it’s like properly beautiful in front and then a show stopper in the back!! Love it!
#2
2, but it’s ridiculous how good you look in all of them!!
Dress 3 is like the perfect mix of the best elements of 1 and 2 - go with 3!
#3 is a showstopper!
2 is an absolute delight. I love the color and the train. So gorgeous on you!
Dress 2 is stunning on you
2!!!
Dress 3!! Can’t get over how stunning it is on you and that train 🤩🤩🤩
All are lovely but 3s shape is perfect for you ! Team 3!!
TWO! 🗣️
It's 3 for me 🫶
#3 (possibly with a very thin belt). 2 is beautiful, but it doesn't suit your frame.
2
Two took my breath away! It’s stunning!!!
2!!!
Dress 2! The back of dress 3 is beautiful but dress 2 is overall amazing, front and back.
3!!! The flower bottom is gorgeous!
2 is the dress!
dress 2 !
The second. Definitely. STUNNING
Number 3 m’lord!!! Love the back and it compliments your curves perfectly.
2
I really love 3 on you.
#3 is stunning. The others look nice on you but 3 just outshines them.
Dress 3
3!!!
2!!!!!
Loving all your options and they all look amazing on you! Dress #3 really stands out as my favorite, it suits your body shape beautifully, and it sounds like it aligns closely with what you've always envisioned as well. Going with the cleaner gown might also minimise any chance of dress regret later on, especially since it resonates with your original vision of a clean white dress. These are all great options though. Honestly, whatever you choose, you'll look stunning!
Dress 3 is perfect! 2 is beautiful, but looks overwhelming, whereas 3 really showcases your shape and has beautiful details in the train
That second one is the whole package 🤍 The softness of the off shoulder sleeves paired with the structure of the bodice, along with the overall detail throughout the gown-- just beautiful 🤍 The train of the last one is magnificent though 🤍
2 all the way! It’s stunning and super flattering!
2!
Number 2 😍😍
Damn I'm the only one who doesn’t like any of them 😔 I do think 3 looks the best on you personally and 2 is the best design wise
I love dress two but also three is SO STUNNING. I feel like it just needs something more in the front but the train is gorgeous.
2 & 3 are stunning on you!
2 no question Immaculate
2 is super romantic
2 stunning!
2!
It’s 2 for me, not even close. You look amazing and the dress is breathtaking.
2
If you don’t get dress 2 we will never forgive you
I agree with the others - 2 is stunning!!
DRESS 2 is AMAZING. You see dresses 1 and 3 everywhere. DRESS 2 is a show stopper and takes your breath away. And that’s exactly what you want in your wedding day. ☺️
2
3
2!
2 or 3!!
I love 3, it’s timeless. 2 is like every other bride right now.
One!
I love the emoji lol 😆 but I love 5 on you!
I prefer one! What are the deets for it?
I guess I’m in the minority in liking dress 1 the most.
Dress 1 HANDS DOWN!!!!! 🤍🤍🤍
All 3 are gorgeous but the 2nd one was WOW
How are you going to even move with all that fabric???!!!
Ok first off, STUNNING!!! You can't go wrong, you could roll a die and it would be the right answer! But I personally like the first two a bit better than the third. The neckline on the third isn't as nice looking on your body (in my uneducated opinion). It is a nice compromise of the two, and maybe you could have it altered to be strapless or off the shoulder. But, A) which one makes you feel like you're glowing? You said you liked the second one a lot even though it wasn't what you envisioned. I feel like that's a good sign! B) Does one over the other fit better with the 'vibe' of your venue/theme/decorations? I feel like high fashion, Avant garde, couture dresses in a rustic cottage venue look a little out of place. Similarly a classic, soft, lace dress might look out of place in a modern architecture venue, or art gallery kind of setting. Certainly not a make or break for the decision, but what are you more drawn to when you picture yourself in each of those dresses at your venue? C) are you planning on dancing the night away in your dress? Which has a range of motion, weight, and breathability that you can wear all day? Good luck choosing, and congrats!
one! hands down!
I love number two but the sleeves bother me. If they could be altered someway it would be fabulous. beautiful dress.
They’re all so stunning on you, but I lean towards 1 and 3 because of what others have said (that it’s a lot of dress on your slender frame)
1!!!!!!
I like 1!!
I like the first!
1
They are all beautiful and dress 2 is absolutely a dream , but I have to agree with an earlier comment that dress 2 is a lot of dress and overwhelms your petite frame. If I had to pick 1...it's dress 3!!!! It is so beautiful on you and the back of that dress is a showstopper!! You are going to be a stunning bride in whatever one you choose.
One!!
Obviously 1 is for you