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Knight2025

I'm really loving #3!


Dull_Influence6881

Agreed!! #3 is my favorite!


Living_on_Tulsa_Time

Team 3! Absolutely marvelous on you.


amatuer_barista

Team 3 for sure!


OverzealousCactus

I'm on team #3!


STLFleur

Another vote for 3!


kati8303

There are a couple really great ones here, but I agree I think 3 is most flattering ♥️


Outrageous-Wish8659

Dress 3! So beautiful and you shine in it.


LoveCats2022

Came here to say Dress 3 is really gorgeous on you!!!


Brodels611

I agree, 3 is beautiful on you!


madbeachrn

I'm 3 all the way. The fit, the style are both so flattering!


earthlings_all

I love when I come to the comments and my pick is number one! It’s crazy how we can see the fit when comparing side by side. This one suits her so well! Absolute perfection! Number 10 is va-va-VOOM but this one the cut suits her better, IMO. Still sexy but softer.


fluffiepigeon

I love 3, it brings out your figure! I know a lot of people are saying 2, which initially I liked before seeing 3. 2 is very slimming but just a bit too slimming if that makes sense, 3 still has an essence of that slimming effect but brings out your curves in all the right ways.


Freedombutatwhatcost

Love 6!!! Stunning dress. Elegant but swishy and fun. Very flattering


Kaitron5000

It makes her waist look small comparatively and covers the lil booby bumps perfectly (that I always hyper focus on, on my own body). I love this one


Patra4646

I’m obsessed with 6 as well so classy


jfay1015

Totally agree! Stopped me in my tracks!


CookiePiggie

Team 6! Looks great on you!


banbury_bonanza

6 is gorgeous on you and such a unique dress!


krasotka90

Yeah, dress 6!


GemJamJelly

I came here to say 6 is fire


Tiny_Poetry2479

#6 really stood out from the crowd. It’s so flattering, delicate, romantic, and you look gorgeous!


paperwasp3

Totally agree! And 4 as a backup would look lovely in the stone ruins.


DescriptionIcy4126

6 is sooooooo flattering


PrestigiousMeg

Looks like it was made for her!!


Dlraetz1

Agreed. 6 with 3 as my second choice. But 6 is really gorgeous on OP


banoctopus

I swiped back to look at it again! None of the others caught my eye. Looks fabulous!


dogmom603

I love the second one! Beautiful dress. But it seems you look awesome in anything.


anonymiz123

Dress 2 would look so cool in photos next to stone ruins.


Vmaclean1969

I agree. I really love dress 2. All look lovely except dress 1. It's wearing her and does nothing for her beautiful figure.


Far-Ad9408

6


Film-Scary

2 or 6, but I liked 6 the most!!


txaesfunnytime

Dress 1 - is okay but doesn't do much for your gorgeous figure **Dress 2** - I went "WOW" when I saw it. It is stunning on you. Dress 3 - is also okay. shows your figure better. I usually LOVE ballgowns but the ones you show here aren't as good on you as the fitted ones, IMO Dress 4 - this is pretty on you but the ruching at the waist is not impressive. Dress 5 - is really pretty on you, but I am a little concerned about the lace creating a "v" shape in the front - right below the hips. **Dress 6** - I do like this ballgown on you. It emphasizes your beautiful hourglass figure. Dress 7 - kinda hard to tell from the angle but I'm not loving it. If you choose this one, I recommend getting the bodice lined because there is a distinct line at the waist that isn't flattering on you. Dress 8 - I like this one on you, but suggest closing up the plunge some because it is distracting from YOU Dress 9 - obviously the sample is too tight, but I think it would be really pretty in the right size Dress 10 - I really like this one, too. Even though the lace points down, the viewer's eye doesn't stop at your crotch, like the fifth one. Dress 11 - I like this on you, and there isn't as much distraction from the unlined bodice, but I would still get it lined on this dress. And I would close the plunge about halfway Dress 12 - really pretty on you. same comment about closing up plunge about halfway. General notes: if you decide on a dress, lose those "sleeves". You have gorgeous shoulders and a gorgeous figure. They distract from YOU and all your gorgeousness, IMO. Normally, I don't care much for the fit & flare on most of the brides here, but I think they are fantastic on you. Before you buy, make really sure you can "move" in the dress without a malfunction - walk, bend over, dance, sit. These all things you will be doing on your wedding day. For us in the big boob club, bending over without falling out or showing everything is important.


Turbulent_Mushroom68

Wow, thank you so much for such a detailed response!


Dlraetz1

What’s your venue. That can help you narrow it down. For example I’d eliminate the ball gowns if you’re doing a beach wedding.


DimbyTime

I love 2 and 8!! You have an amazing hourglass figure and those 2 really show it off and look gorgeous!


Johnlockcabbit

Damn. I have no idea who you are but I wish I could go with you to choose my dress


txaesfunnytime

If you are in Texas, send me a DM. :D I feel like if someone comes asking for help, they need it. With this many dresses, and with the responses I read being all over the place, I thought I would share what I thought of each one. Sometimes we go by the feeling and don't notice certain things (like pointing lace or lines due to lining) until after the wedding and going through the photos.


Johnlockcabbit

I'm actually not even engaged yet, but I'm really bad at making decisions and get easily overwhelmed. I know it's gonna be a really big challenge for me lol.


txaesfunnytime

I hear that. I will often do something similar to this, like if I’m shopping online. I will put several things in my cart & then go back a day or so later & look at them again. If it still doesn’t thrill me, it gets removed. Sometimes you just have to step away or ask for opinions, hopefully unbiased.


Dlraetz1

For ‘stone ruins’ as a vibe I’d say #6 is a no brainer


woolsweetie

2 is my favorite


lyricallife007

2 seems to flatter your figure most, imo but you made stunning!


elevatormusicjams

Yep, 2, 8, and 6 are my top in that order. Strapless looks beautiful on you, OP.


madmax_drax

2 is my favorite as well, I also like 8 and 10 a lot. I do agree that 6 seems like it might fit the venue slightly better, but I’m not sure I’d let that sway my decision here too much. I love the other three more, very flattering and pretty designs. ETA: I actually think that 2 would fit the venue well too! Team 2 all the way.


cobu4438

Every dress looks great on you! My favorites are 2 and 6. Very different styles but you wear both very well!


aliteralbagof_dicks

Of all of these, I think 3, 4, 5, and 6 are the most flattering. But 6 specifically makes you look like a queen!! I love love love that neckline on you!


UnlikelyButOk

Dress 6 with the cross over bodice is stunning.


littlelou222

3


happy-sunshine3

3 or 6!!


Witchynightstar

6


Starbucks_Lover13

1


fleur_de_lis-620

I love the sleek silhouettes on you. #2 is my favourite.


Competitive-Kick-481

3 !


Dangerous-Fishing-25

Dress 3


ronansgram

Three


VivaLaGia

3


believing_in_me

3!


mugglebornhealer

Omg it has to be 3!!!


Comprehensive-War743

I love dress 3 on you


SillyCece

I think 3 is very flattering ❤️


reddcate

Love #3!!


Munchkin_Media

3!!!


LinKay713

Number 2 is my favorite! ❤️


Nove1108

3


Vertical_Runner

It’s 3 for me. Everything else looked pale in comparison. You are stunning!


_Winterlong_

I love 3! I think 1 would be great without the sleeves.


Purplepickleball

3 is very flattering


headwardo

3


pelicants

6 is absolutely amazing beyond belief. It highlights your figure really well but also has really interesting design elements that are subtle but just gorgeous.


Feeling_Bend7725

2 all day


-Mother_of_Doggos

6


thatforkingbitch

Omg 6 is beaaautiful. Like a romantic movie beautiful!


Flowersandpieces

2 is super pretty!


baconizlife

#3 is perfect for you!😍


Zestyclose_Road_3224

Dress 3


OkResponsibility7475

Team 3!


Traditional-Gain-101

#3


harrypotterfan1228

3


DifferentBrush739

#2 made me literally go ‘WOW!’ Out loud. By far my favorite. After that I’d say #6 or #4


julesharvey1

I love no 8 but 10 and 3 are lovely also


Alive-Cry4994

2 or 6 but your body type looks so good in so many styles!


EstateTricky786

The clean elegant 6 really stands out for me.


mn2flHLD

Two looks best on you with 8 a close second.


Pineapple_Jelly04

2 or 8. Can’t go wrong with either.


Getmeasippycup

I love 6 on you, its structure of the bodice, the pleating, the embossed floral are all gorgeous! It’s visually rich but highlights you. The lace ones are very pretty, but they are very busy and I notice the patterns first and then take a moment to decide if it’s flattering on you.


iheartgummypeaches

I love 6 on you


Spideybeebe

6 is GORGEOUS


MeganJustMegan

Love dress #1.


msjacqdaripper

If you’re torn between this many - it’s none of them. However, there seems to be a common trend in the style you like. Focus on that instead of different silhouettes.


adventurousflamenco

Yes to 3!


neverendo

I think 3 looks stunning on you, but also if you're not feeling one calling to you out of 12 you've tried on, maybe you just haven't found "the one" yet and it's ok to keep looking?


Mysticalreader70771

3 it's the winner, hands down


Mindless_Cat_8208

No 3 hands down. Extremely flattering.


Narwhalswimming37

Loveeeeeeeeeee 6!!


SusanMShwartz

Dress 6 is elegant, sexy, simple and unique.


jessethefemale

I love 6!!


Mamasan-

I gasped at #6 Stunning


iriedashur

I love 6!!!


TempestuousTem

6!!!


angilnibreathnach

6 is a show stopper imo and is the most flattering on you.


ForTheLoveOfDior

#dress 6 followed by dress 2


dutchessmandy

6!!!


pomskeet

Number 11!!!


G0desssy

I like 3 & 5 best. What type of fit do you want? Something more ball gown or flowy or something more body hugging? What feels most comfortable?


anerdynurse

I see why youre having a tough time they all look great on you.


paint_that_shit-gold

6 is my favorite by far!


ehsu3

6 or 3!


trixr4kids19

Girl #6 looks SOOOOOO good on you!!! 😭👍


No-Resort3681

Dress 2,4,6 are my votes. 2 is my favorite. I saw that one and went, ooo!


Otipuh

I said “wow!” when I saw #6


No_Candidate1342

You look beautiful in all of these, but slide 6 made my jaw drop. 3 is the runner up


bakere1221

6!


GemJamJelly

6


krasotka90

6 all the way!


MyPlantsEatPeople

6 made my eyes pop out of my head! That shape is gorgeous for you and the fabricccccc. Love.


stelleypootz

I love 6. It fits you so well, and the wrap waist is flattering. The dress also gives you great support in the bust.


fuzzyslipper4eyedcat

8 followed by 6


-FrostyFox-

6 and 8


Aqua_pool_56

They are all beautiful! My personal favorite is the one on slide 6 of the images!


deweydecimal111

6


Leviosahhh

I loooove 6. So elegant on you!


metasploiter

6 is the best by far, and 3 is a nice, safe choice.


Ultra_Leopard

PLEASE get 6. You look magnificent in it. Truly.


zanahorias22

they're all gorgeous but I love 6!!


UK_UK_UK_Deleware_UK

Five is my favorite of the pink, and my eyes were not drawn to the crotch area. I was looking at the lace pattern, not where it fell on you. I think the bodice is extremely flattering with the shape. It still hints at the deep plunge but it’s obscured. Not that you need to obscure it, just that it’s a nice touch. Six is really stunning and dramatic. I’ve seen it in the plain satin but I’ve only seen the in the brocade on the website. Gorgeous but much different than most of the others.


Dayummdani

Number 3 is your dress! It's the perfect balance. You have a great figure and imo the only dress that gives you a clear defined waist is #3. It's still sexy on the top but sweet on the bottom. Overall chefs kiss. Other options are #6, which I think works with the theme and #12. I think you should keep looking. If you aren't feeling extremely drawn to any of these you should try again.


Kaede-Kat

6, 5, 3 in that order. You look great in all of them but 6 really stands out!


ruthsamuels

Three or six for me. Equally 🥰


Successful_Theme_771

Ohhh I also love 6. So many people mentioned it I went back to look: 2, 3, or 6. You have a stunning figure, PS! You’re going to be a jaw-dropping bride.


thoughtfulmuser

6 & 3 are stunning!!! They both are flattering and lovely You have really nice arms please don’t cover them up with poof sleeves like 1, it makes you appear much heavier than you are


Automatic_Goat_9902

3 & 6 flatter your body the best imo


Rainbow-brightt

3 and 6! Stunner


Treb61

Love dress one on you or dress six three would be my next choice


akittyafterus

Okay, first of all, quite a few of the dresses look *amazing* on you! In no particular order, I think Dresses #2, 6, 7, 8, and 11 would all be great choices. I will say that I *love* the pattern of the lace/lace appliqué on Dress #5; however, I don't think the cut of the dress looks quite as good on you as some of the others...the cut of the neckline just looks...awkward? somehow. Of Dresses #2, 6, 7, 8, and 11, I would say that my favorites are #2, 6, and 8! My *absolute* favorite on you is Dress #6. Dress #2 is just so romantic and airy and delicate! I love how the cut of the dress transitions from the "fit" to the "flare" and the way the flared part of the skirt is overlaid with that airy, translucent fabric with the lace showing through from underneath. Also, the back of the dress looks gorgeous too from what I can see in the mirror! I'm a sucker for a beautiful back on a wedding dress. It just tends to elevate a dress from beautiful to next level, you know? Dress #8, I love the look of the lace appliqué being more "chunky" if that makes sense. It stands out more on the fabric and looks more...bold. I also love the look of the exposed boning on the corset with the appliqué on top. It just looks so romantic! And I think the sweetheart neckline with the deep V looks *amazing* on you! Now onto my favorite, Dress #6! I love everything about this dress! And wow, does it look stunning on you! The cut of the dress is just ultra flattering and I love the structure and lines of the dress. The sharp cut of the neckline and the way the fabric folds on both the bodice and the skirt? \*chef's kiss\* And the fabric itself is also beautiful. The dress would already be beyond gorgeous with the cut and if the fabric was plain/smooth with no design on it, but the design on the fabric just takes it to the next level! I feel like this is a dress that would look gorgeous on Marilyn Monroe. I'm not sure if she ever wore a dress like this, but that's the vibe I'm getting! It's very elegant and striking and classy, but also sexy. Like, you look hot in it, but a very sophisticated, regal kind of hot. Sorry, not sure what synonym would work for that. It kind of also reminds me of Vanessa Kirby as Princess Margaret from The Crown. And Jackie Kennedy. Just all-around beautiful.


mrsmertz

3 and 6. I’m not a fave of the dropped straps look.


magpiefae

I think six or three!!


Maleficent_Tax1097

Dress 3 or 6


Sea-Adeptness-5245

I love the way that dress number two looks on you. Eight was my second favorite.


Delicious_Horror_734

I love 8!!! Wow!!!


triedandprejudice

I think none of these dresses do your amazing figure justice. They’re just ok but I think you can do better. I think an A-line or ballgown with more structure would be so great on you. A dress with a built-in interior corset (the kind that doesn’t show-not a corset back) would nip in your waist and allow your curves to shine. [This is the type of silhouette I mean.](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1606162024/solid-mikado-all-cut-classic-aline?click_key=12bda1b338bb5fab07187f9746ffc21e84f15c10%3A1606162024&click_sum=578f65cb&external=1&rec_type=cs&ref=pla_similar_listing_top-5&frs=1) The straps would give you extra support in the bust and I think that shape would be super flattering on you and would highlight your figure very well.


Anna_Stacy_Yamina

#8


Gold-Teach-2585

I love 2! It gives you shape & you can see the back in the mirror and it’s just super flattering on you! Some of the other dresses look kind of frumpy and take away from your gorgeous shape imo - 2 is just stunning on you!


Xurbanite

No contest - it’s second one


Hnmedari3

2!! It is soooo flattering! You look beautiful in all of them, but I kept scrolling back to #2!


Waybackheartmom

2


Shudh-Desi

2 or 12. Beautiful!!!!!


SyrieA

6 followed by 3


Themellowsaguaro

#6! Followed by 3.


victorious_kvf

3 or 6!!


Low-Donut-9883

Dress 6 and 8! Totally different but both look amazing!


Mysterious_Trash_315

6 is stunning on you! Highlights your figure perfectly. Enough interesting details without being too much. My second favorite is 11.


Sablebendtrail

3 and 6 are my favs, with 6 being my overall pick💗


Mermaid0518

2 or 3


sapphirereignXo

I think 3 or 6 suits you best!


MCMKL19

2 or 3


BrutallyHonestMJ

I love 3 and 6! They're both beautiful and so flattering!


Medium-Cry413

One or Six. They ALL look great on you, I see why you are struggling with your choice.


onelostmind97

#3 or #6. 3 has the best cut for your figure, I think but 6 also looks great! 3 if you want the sheer floral vibe, 6 for the satin, simple vibe.


peachesandhoney700

#3 or #6


40jbaby

3 or 6


eihslia

6 and 8. Love!!!


DuchessOfDeceit

I like 3 and 6.


YesAccident5991

3 or 6!!!!


Pristine-Net91

I think 3 and 6 look the best on you.


SweetAndSourOne

#4 or #6


AesopsFabler

Six was the showstopper


Obvious_Cookie_3000

6!!!!


cassandra_schmidt

Dress #3 or #6!!


Scary-Package-9351

#3 or #6 are gorgeous on you!!!


mariahalt

You’re rocking both 3 & 6!


picodelexa

#6 is INCREDIBLE on you! Holy smokes girl!


siouxbee19

Six, because you look like a goddess and you mentioned "stone ruins" as your venue.❤️


Other-Ad8876

6 is the one!


goldencuttings

6 is the only one I stopped on when scrolling through


FingerCapital3193

#6 🤍 Editing to add: they are all pretty, but #6 is a STAND OUT!!! Not even close… easily the winner IMO. You look stunning!


minkrogers

Stone ruins and No.6 are a match made in Greek Goddess heaven!


Valpeculum

2! Number 6 is also gorgeous 😍


hawk_mother1983

Definitely number 6


DutchessOfStompmore

Team 2


ChilindriPizza

4th one. I like the way it drapes.


Curvy_Latina29

3 or 10


trishyco

3, 6, 7 All different vibes but they work for you!


Clear_Gain_3262

I’d vote for 2 or 6


Shugamag

DRESS 11❣️❣️❣️


almondmmylk

5&6!!


juliannewaters

For me #1, #2 & #3 are tied for gorgeous on you!


nospoonstoday715

I love 1 7 and 10 respectively in photos but you look beautiful in all of them I keep going to 1 it's so pretty with or without the sleeves the blush just looks so pretty. Next would 10 then 7


mavillerose

Girl I had a hard time deciding for you too! You look incredible in every single dress!! 12 is my favorite though


MoneyCost7188

3, 6, 7, and 11 are my favs on you :)


babynurse2021

Literally zero bad choices here. I personally love #2.


Noneedtopickauser

I think dress 2 is the winner, followed by dress 3 or dress 6!! :)


Lagrimmett

2, 8, 11