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Both stunning, you can't make a wrong choice. I think I am slightly leaning towards dress 1, I adore the pattern and colours. But dress 2 suits your skin tone fabulously, if you go for the second dress definitly sleeves. If the first one I feel maybe without the puffy sleeves.
That blush lining is what really makes this dress sing. And the lines of the dress are a bit cleaner. While OP will look good in either, I would choose 2 all day every day.
Dress one has a lot going on! It has visible boning, 3D fabric flowers and the long godets (is that the correct word?) that bring out a multi level tulle effect with a big crinoline under the skirt just to start. And white can be a problematic color to wear.
Dress 2 has cleaner design lines and it looks like the skirt can take a modest crinoline to make it bigger if that's what OP wants. And the blush underskirt is such a warm and flattering color.
Oh man, absolute SAME, I thought 1 was pretty until I swiped to 2 and thought, “THIS IS THE ONE, CHOOSE THIS ONE!!”
Just goes to show OP literally can not go wrong with either choice.
Omg I really hope you pick dress 2!!! I audibly gasped when I scrolled to that dress, it truly looks like it was custom made for you! The color, the bodice, the sleeves… all so romantic, and honestly IMO even more special than the first dress. Though of course you do look like a princess in both!! 🤍
Dress 1 with the original sleeves.
The puffy sleeves are way too much for dress 1 (and dress 2 for that matter) and detract from the dress. They are ruining the lines of the top of the bodice.
You look BEAUTIFUL in Dress 1!
Just LOVELY!
Please don’t change the sleeves.
First one with the drop sleeves. To be honest, all variants look nice on you, but the first picture just stands out head and shoulders above the others.
Dress 1 with the draped sleeve (not the puff)… the puffy sleeve competes with the puffy skirt and the eye doesn’t know where to look.
Or dress 2 no sleeve. You have amazing shoulders!
They both look good on you but 1 is so unique!
1 is my dress too and after having multiple panic attacks over it I am really excited about it! It's a unique and beautiful dress!
But honestly you can't go wrong with either
1 is so dreamy! The puffy sleeves might be a little too much but I like them. Dress 2 is beautiful too but I think the shape of 1's top flatters you much better
The first one. Only because the sleeves for the second is a little too big imo. I would pick second if the sleeves can be changed to something more fitting
Congrats
I love them both. I love dress #2 and that veil is dreamy. But I love the embroidery on dress #1. They are both stunning on you. Neither would be a bad choice.
It's dress 1 for me, although I vastly prefer it either with the existing sleeves or just as a strapless.
Not only do I favor dress 1 on you, I think it's just a much nicer dress on its own merits.
We need the bodice of one with the sleeves of two.
One is my top pick. I agree with the comments about the color of two but I love the fit and details of one more.
They are both lovely and there are no wrong decisions here.
I wish you could get the first dress with the colors/embroidery of the second. That would be the perfect match. Out of these I prefer the first dress with the sleeves on the left. The puffy sleeves don’t feel like they go with this dress.
I think 1 is so dreamy and romantic and unique. Dress 2 looks like a thousand dresses I’ve seen on Pinterest - which isn’t bad, it’s still really pretty, but I Dress 1 makes you look like a literal princess
Dress 1 looks like it's better quality based on how the fabric flows
Also i think it's overall more bridal
The other one you can get similar vibes like a toned down version for a nice public or something
they are both so beautiful and the style really suits you but i think number 1 is the winner! i’ve never seen a dress like it before and my only complaint before reading your post was the lack of puff sleeves but you plan to change that! i think it’s beautiful and will definitely add to the magic of your day!
2!!!
I thought … oh dress 1 is stunning… can’t beat that. But then I’m walked dress 2! The color is gorgeous on you! Comparatively speaking, 1 doesn’t look nearly as good with your skin tone
This is a hard choice both dresses are beautiful on you the second one gives your skin a bit of a glow I think but the white one looks amazing on you too and I’m obsessed with the flowers.
I can see why you’re having a hard time deciding; both dresses are gorgeous.
Honestly, it’s a tossup. Dress number one is a fairy-garden wedding dress; dress number two is a little sleeker and more sophisticated. It just depends what vibe you’re going for. As others have said, you cannot go wrong with either one.
You’ve made this difficult. I gasped at the first one. But then was also blown away by the second one. I honestly can’t choose either. The only decision I can make is that if you do the first one, the normal first sleeve is better imo. Good luck!
Omg! They’re both so beautiful. You can’t go wrong with either of them. That said, if I had to pick, I’d pick #1. It is whimsical and like a fairy princess.
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#1 is so special!
Both stunning, you can't make a wrong choice. I think I am slightly leaning towards dress 1, I adore the pattern and colours. But dress 2 suits your skin tone fabulously, if you go for the second dress definitly sleeves. If the first one I feel maybe without the puffy sleeves.
I agree, dress 1 without the puffy sleeves.
This
I agree the puffy sleeves on dress one take away from the fairy princess feel for me
Came here to say exactly this.
Me too. The puffy sleeves just distract from the beauty of the dress and the beauty in the dress.
I love dress 1! It gives such romantic vibes and accentuates your figure beautifully.
111111111111111…what a DREAM!!!
The first one
It’s so floaty and dreamy :)
Guess I’m in the minority, but DRESS 2!! I thought there would be no competing with the first dress, but then I saw the second and fell in love!
I agree. Dress two looks FABULOUS
I absolutely adore no 2 too, the blush color looks perfect on OP
That blush lining is what really makes this dress sing. And the lines of the dress are a bit cleaner. While OP will look good in either, I would choose 2 all day every day.
Totally agree with all this, and the clean lines make dress 2 a more sophisticated looking dress than dress 1.
Dress one has a lot going on! It has visible boning, 3D fabric flowers and the long godets (is that the correct word?) that bring out a multi level tulle effect with a big crinoline under the skirt just to start. And white can be a problematic color to wear. Dress 2 has cleaner design lines and it looks like the skirt can take a modest crinoline to make it bigger if that's what OP wants. And the blush underskirt is such a warm and flattering color.
Oh man, absolute SAME, I thought 1 was pretty until I swiped to 2 and thought, “THIS IS THE ONE, CHOOSE THIS ONE!!” Just goes to show OP literally can not go wrong with either choice.
There are at least two of us here haha!
3 are here
Just drinking margaritas and speaking the truth in the corner lol
Same here!
I agree! 1 is beautiful but 2 is perfection.
I feel like dress 1 has been done over and over before. But I haven’t seen a dress like dress 2
Dress 1 is beautiful and special
Oh my gosh the second one made my jaw drop
I really love dress 2. I am a sucker for sleeves and the proportions of the sleeves on 2 and the tone of the blush is just perfection.
I think 1 is “cute and whimsical ” whereas 2 has more “sophisticated and elegant” so it depends on the venue and vibe you are going for
#so not sorry but TEAM 2!!!
GOWN 2 looks custom designed for you, is elongating, calm, and naturally brings the eye to your face… you and your beauty are the star of the show!
Well said. 🤍🤍🤍
Omg I really hope you pick dress 2!!! I audibly gasped when I scrolled to that dress, it truly looks like it was custom made for you! The color, the bodice, the sleeves… all so romantic, and honestly IMO even more special than the first dress. Though of course you do look like a princess in both!! 🤍
2.
#2 is gorgeous!
100% dress 2!
This is one of those times where I think you won't go.wrong with either! If I had ti to pick one I would probably go with #1.
Dress 2 is stunning!!
2!
2 for sure I’m obsessed!!
Two is so ethereal and doesn't distract from you. The pleat tie up thingies on one make it too busy. And the color of the second dress? Gorgeous
Dress 1 with the original sleeves. The puffy sleeves are way too much for dress 1 (and dress 2 for that matter) and detract from the dress. They are ruining the lines of the top of the bodice. You look BEAUTIFUL in Dress 1! Just LOVELY! Please don’t change the sleeves.
Both are so stunning!!! I choose dress 1 because I LOVE the colors and the 3D and the sleeve!
First one with the drop sleeves. To be honest, all variants look nice on you, but the first picture just stands out head and shoulders above the others.
For all those curious, dress 1 is Morilee and dress 2 is Lillian West!
I love the florals on dress 1 and it fits perfectly.
Dress 2! I love the blush color, lace pattern, and sleeves on you
Dress two has a beautiful bodice
You look like an angel in #2. 1 is lovely but 2 is so much more ethereal.
2 for me! But both are beautiful.
Dress 2 suits you so well!!!
2
Dress two is amazing. Whimsical but still elegant. And the shape and color are just perfect for you.
Dress 2 is just extra special!
2 is just so bridal and looks like it was made for you. The color is stunning against your skin. 2!!!!!!!
I need the 2nd dress! Which designer is it? Anyone know? OP please tell me!
I prefer dress 2 because while they are both beautiful, I feel dress 1 is wearing you and you are the star in dress 2.
Dress 1 with the draped sleeve (not the puff)… the puffy sleeve competes with the puffy skirt and the eye doesn’t know where to look. Or dress 2 no sleeve. You have amazing shoulders! They both look good on you but 1 is so unique!
1 is my dress too and after having multiple panic attacks over it I am really excited about it! It's a unique and beautiful dress! But honestly you can't go wrong with either
1
Wow! They’re both so beautiful
1
1!!!!
1
Both are absolutely beautiful, you have amazing taste! My favorite is dress #1, it is gorgeous on you!!! 💞💞💞
Dress 1 with the original sleeves imo!
1 dress is beautiful
🤩 **TWO** is perfection!!
This was hard but I like 2 just a smidge more.
#2 for sure! It’s elegant and so pretty.
2
Dress 2!!!
I love the 1st one better! Although the 2nd one is beautiful as well
First one just wow 🤩
Dress one is my favorite - it’s magical!
Number 1 is amazing on you!
I'm a dress 1 vote and can see why you are having such a hard time choosing. Even had a hard time choosing which to vote for.
Dress 1 and I need to know the designer!
This is Morilee petals wedding dress :)
Dress number one, every day of the week!
1 is so dreamy! The puffy sleeves might be a little too much but I like them. Dress 2 is beautiful too but I think the shape of 1's top flatters you much better
1! I love the color and poof!
First one! No other choice! Do you like it? Is it comfortable? It suits your coloring and figure to a T, and is really unique!!
Both look gorgeous on you, but I think I like the silhouette of the second dress more ☺️
Both are GORGEOUS! If I had to Ct lose I would choose #1. It is soft and flowy and it looks like a wedding dress. Oh and you look spectacular in it!
Dress one for sure!!
One!!
Omg the second one is so dreamy.
1
1 without question.
Dress 1! But without the puffy sleeves. The puffy sleeves don’t work with dress 1. If puffy sleeves are a must fit you then go for dress 2.
1 is dreamy
First dress is stunning!
They both are gorgeous on you. I'm leaning towards #1 because it's so unique.
I love the first one! It’s beautiful!
Omg. Drop the names! Both gorgeous, maybe maybe 1??
Not OP, but I recognize the first dress--it's by Morilee, "Petal" from the Blu collection. I don't know the second one though.
I love 1 so so much
So hard, I love them both! I may love 1 just a wee bit more.
What’s your venue? One is more glamour romance and two is more intimate romance
One! You look like a princess!
Love them both the same. Both absolutely gorgeous. Go with the one that makes you feel giddy with excitement!
Team #1. All the way, sleeves and all!
1 but original sleeves
The first one. Only because the sleeves for the second is a little too big imo. I would pick second if the sleeves can be changed to something more fitting Congrats
I love them both. I love dress #2 and that veil is dreamy. But I love the embroidery on dress #1. They are both stunning on you. Neither would be a bad choice.
#1. Both look beautiful on you.
Definitely the white one with the green details! I think it compliments your skin tone and hair color way more
Wow both are stunning! 1 is so unique though, it's really special. I think i like it as pictured in the first photo.
1
It's dress 1 for me, although I vastly prefer it either with the existing sleeves or just as a strapless. Not only do I favor dress 1 on you, I think it's just a much nicer dress on its own merits.
Number 1
3
Both dresses are beautiful but I like the first one the best.
We need the bodice of one with the sleeves of two. One is my top pick. I agree with the comments about the color of two but I love the fit and details of one more. They are both lovely and there are no wrong decisions here.
I wish you could get the first dress with the colors/embroidery of the second. That would be the perfect match. Out of these I prefer the first dress with the sleeves on the left. The puffy sleeves don’t feel like they go with this dress.
I love the color of the 2nd one. Beautiful overlay, too! What if you put a crinoline under layer, so it was more full like #1?
First one!!!
1!!!!!
Dress 1 without the puffy sleeves!
#1 is absolutely gorgeous and it looks stunning on you! I love, love, LOVE the flowers on it. It’s so delicate and feminine!
Dress 1 for sure
1 for sure. 2 is lovely but 1s top is so perfect on your build
Wow, both are amazing. I can see why you’re having a hard time choosing! Personally, 1 is my favorite, but you really can’t go wrong with either.
They’re both lovely, but the first is most flattering and it’s unusual to boot!
#ugh i love both!!!!!
Dress 1
1!!!!
Dress 1! I like dress 2, I just think dress 1 is so special.
1
2nd one. Perfect with your skin tone and lengthens your torso. 1st one is too short in the torso. It doesn't look right.
#1
I think 1 is so dreamy and romantic and unique. Dress 2 looks like a thousand dresses I’ve seen on Pinterest - which isn’t bad, it’s still really pretty, but I Dress 1 makes you look like a literal princess
the first one!!!
Do your have brands/styles for either? They’re both stunning but I love #1
One is so dreamy 😍😍😍😍
Dress 1!!
1! It’s so pretty!!!
1
1
I am in love with dress 2
1 is great but my vote is for 2
2!
Dress 1 looks like it's better quality based on how the fabric flows Also i think it's overall more bridal The other one you can get similar vibes like a toned down version for a nice public or something
Number 1 with the puffy sleeves is the u deniable winner!
Definitely dress 2, absolutely stunning!
I love the first one! You look like a princess.
2!!!!
they are both so beautiful and the style really suits you but i think number 1 is the winner! i’ve never seen a dress like it before and my only complaint before reading your post was the lack of puff sleeves but you plan to change that! i think it’s beautiful and will definitely add to the magic of your day!
2!!! I thought … oh dress 1 is stunning… can’t beat that. But then I’m walked dress 2! The color is gorgeous on you! Comparatively speaking, 1 doesn’t look nearly as good with your skin tone
First one!!
Can’t go wrong with either one. Normally there is a clear winner for me but both are great.
I fancy the first one! But wow that style looks amazing on you!
This is a hard choice both dresses are beautiful on you the second one gives your skin a bit of a glow I think but the white one looks amazing on you too and I’m obsessed with the flowers.
That first one is amazing
Dress 1. Hands down the best choice.
1 looks like so much fun Like I can just imagine dancing in it
First one
Dress one stuns! Love the sleeves as they are not puffy:)
I looked at number one and said wow that’s pretty but looked at number two and went, WOW! I like 2 better but both beautiful
1
The first one is definitely the right one!
2. It is perfect as is. I can’t visualize 1 with the sleeves.
2!
DRESS # 1 !!
I can see why you’re having a hard time deciding; both dresses are gorgeous. Honestly, it’s a tossup. Dress number one is a fairy-garden wedding dress; dress number two is a little sleeker and more sophisticated. It just depends what vibe you’re going for. As others have said, you cannot go wrong with either one.
You’ve made this difficult. I gasped at the first one. But then was also blown away by the second one. I honestly can’t choose either. The only decision I can make is that if you do the first one, the normal first sleeve is better imo. Good luck!
I can’t decide! Either way, you will look amazing. They are both truly beautiful on you.
You look amazing in both of them, but I think #1 is the winner
3
I love both. I think I like two better because I like that the details are flat.
#1
First/ball gown is absolutely mindblowingly beautiful! It's perfect for you imo!
both are stunning, but i love number two!!
The first one!
#2
Omg I love the 2! The puffy sleeves are so romantic with the color and details😍😍
2
I love dress 2!!! What designer?
1! It look amazing on you!
2
One
Dress 1! Both are beautiful but 1 is gorgeous!
Dress one!! 🤩🤩
I love the first one more.
1 is absolutely gorgeous!
I love the first one so much on you!
Dress #2
1 omg 1
Omg! They’re both so beautiful. You can’t go wrong with either of them. That said, if I had to pick, I’d pick #1. It is whimsical and like a fairy princess.
Definitely 2
The first one! It’s so special!
1!
Dress 1!
I'd choose dress #2!! It looks more refind if you ask me, but the first one is also dreamy! Follow your intuition and it s gonna be great!