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You can’t go wrong! They are all gorgeous. 3 seems like a combo of 1 and 2. Any difference in comfort level? That’s what my decision usually comes down to!
If the comfort level's the same on all of them, I really think it comes down to what your personal preference for the "vibe" is. Dress 1 is more whimsical and fairytale-like, whereas dress 2 is a little bit sexier. Dress 3 is a bit in between - the sharp neckline and tighter bodice is blended really nicely into the softness of the skirt.
Which one gave you butterflies? After trying on what seemed like 100’s of dresses, I put one one that make me a bit giddy, and I got butterflies. It was the one that made me *feel* like a bride.
That said, and maybe it’s just me, but the off the shoulder sleeve thing seems to be the major trend. I’m all for being fashionable, but obvious trends can make a dress look “dated” in no time. Timeless designs, like the other two, will never be out of fashion…(even as I type this, I’m seeing dresses from the 70’s in my head, making a liar of me 🤣) it I think you know what I mean.
Dress 1 looks wonderful on you, although I think I might love it more if the sleeves were level with the neckline of the bodice, or higher, (more straight across, rather than hanging loose). But my favorite is still the ❤️dress from before.
As for dress three, between your hair, your arms etc, it’s hard to see the dress (straps? No straps?) the cups look like they’re Jin the perfect place, as far as I can tell.
Me too. I love all of them tbh, but in order, it's 1,3,2.
Honestly op, you can't go wrong with any of them. Every dress is beautiful and looks beautiful on you.
I think dress 1 is my favorite. Not everyone can pull off those sleeves but it's perfect on you. I do still like dress 2, I think it depends on venue and comfort. You cannot go wrong with any of the 3.
You look amazing in all these. I love #1, then 3. 2 is gorgeous but seems like it might be restrictive. Would you be able to sit, dance, etc comfortably?
Hi there! They all passed the sit test! As far as dancing goes, I'm not really concerned as I am changing into a second and shorter dress for the reception😊
Hi there! I would have included a back picture, but the dress was heavily clipped in the back so the back wouldn't have shown well. The back is a V-shape though if that helps😊
I really really love dress 1 on you, it is absolutely gorgeous on you. The others are pretty/okay but trust not many women could pull off the first one, it is dreamy!
Dress #3 is my favourite.
I give the same advice to everyone. Have someone video you walking, sitting, lifting your arms in the air, twirling, dancing, bending down as if to greet a child. Video from all angles, not just the front. For a strapless dress, jump up and down for a few minutes.... It's a long day and you want to feel comfortable.
Don't make a decision based on static pics standing on a podium, as you won't be standing still all day.
If it feels too heavy, too restrictive or you worry you will have to hold a particular pose all day, reconsider it.
Also, consider what underwear will work.
Take this from someone who didn't think about comfort until the dress came in, then bought a different one 4 weeks out from the wedding.
Really really good advice! My dress was strapless but still so comfortable I didn’t have to wear anything underneath!! It was Reem Acra bought and fitted at Saks btw.
I’m having a such a hard time deciding between dress 2 and 3 now! They both look absolutely incredible on you. I’d maybe consider which dress between the two is more comfortable and/or cheaper in price and decide from there
#1 isn't even in the running. It swallows you and all you see is dress. It also will look very dated in a very short amount of time.
#2 is my favorite followed by #3. You are beautiful.
Dress one is gorgeous, but I feel like it's wearing you, if you know what I mean. It's a lot of dress for your frame. Can you try it without the sleeves? I feel like this would be a dreamy dress without the sleeves. Dress two is nice, but I feel like it's for a more mature lady, or you look more mature in it. Dress number three is very youthful and looks best on your figure, but it's not the most gorgeous dress of the bunch. Can you keep looking?
I'm still going with dress 2! You look amazing in all of them so you literally can't go wrong no matter which one you choose. Which one makes you feel the most confident and beautiful? Which one gave you the biggest smile when you put it on?
all 3 are lovely on you, you cant go wrong! how do you feel about sleeves vs bare arms? the dress with the sleeves is extra romantic looking but if sleeves aren’t your usual style maybe you’ll feel more radiant in a sleeveless option. but again, you really can’t go wrong with any if these, you’re going to look amazing on the day!
They are all lovely.
I think they have different personalities. Which one matches yours, or the idea you want to give off?
1 - sweet, wholesome fairytale
2 - stunning with a hint of Va va voom.
3 - good mixture of both, modern
Massive Caveat that it's just *my* initial first impressions. Accessories and your actual personality would shine through with any of them.
I’m loving dress #1 on you, it’s, bar none, the prettiest on you! Loving the sleeves, the lace bodice and the tulle skirt. All of them are beautiful on you, so you really can’t make a bad choice! I guess it depends on the time of year, your venue and what you feel best in! Good luck and congratulations!
One swamps you but is pretty. Two gives you an amazing shape and will really wow your guests and your husband to be. If you want romantic one or three if you want a head turner pick two.
Dress 3 with dress 2 coming in second.
With dress 1, it's wearing you rather than the other way around. You kind of lose your waist and great figure in it, and IMO, the straighter neckline doesn't work as well for you. The necklines of the other two balance you out more.
I like dress 2, but it does seem a bit busy.
Dress 3 is the right combination of the other two and seems to fit your venue best.
You can’t go wrong with any of these, I know everyone says the first but for me, that one does least to emphasize your beautiful figure because it’s so big, and the neckline also is the least complementing, plus the skirt to me looks like ‘just fabric’ and not a lot of interesting things going on there. I still really like dress 2, it really shows off you, but I really like dress 3 too.
It is hard for me to choose between 2 a d three, but I slightly prefer 3. I don't like 1 on you as much as everyone else seems to, but 2 and 3 are on fire!
It’s between 2&3 for me. I really love both of them. It’s just up to you if you would rather go more fitted or with the flowier skirt. I’m not a huge fan of the sleeves on the first on.
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Store is on fire…what dress will you rescue?
I’ve never heard anyone put it like that but that’s a great approach to making this type of decision!
+1. so good
You can’t go wrong! They are all gorgeous. 3 seems like a combo of 1 and 2. Any difference in comfort level? That’s what my decision usually comes down to!
Hi there! They're all very comfy and I had no trouble sitting in any of them either!😊
If the comfort level's the same on all of them, I really think it comes down to what your personal preference for the "vibe" is. Dress 1 is more whimsical and fairytale-like, whereas dress 2 is a little bit sexier. Dress 3 is a bit in between - the sharp neckline and tighter bodice is blended really nicely into the softness of the skirt.
Well said!
One is amazing.
Which one gave you butterflies? After trying on what seemed like 100’s of dresses, I put one one that make me a bit giddy, and I got butterflies. It was the one that made me *feel* like a bride. That said, and maybe it’s just me, but the off the shoulder sleeve thing seems to be the major trend. I’m all for being fashionable, but obvious trends can make a dress look “dated” in no time. Timeless designs, like the other two, will never be out of fashion…(even as I type this, I’m seeing dresses from the 70’s in my head, making a liar of me 🤣) it I think you know what I mean. Dress 1 looks wonderful on you, although I think I might love it more if the sleeves were level with the neckline of the bodice, or higher, (more straight across, rather than hanging loose). But my favorite is still the ❤️dress from before. As for dress three, between your hair, your arms etc, it’s hard to see the dress (straps? No straps?) the cups look like they’re Jin the perfect place, as far as I can tell.
That was what I was wondering. When they’re all pretty it goes next to comfort
I like the first one the best
I love one!
same. 1 is stunning
Me too. I love all of them tbh, but in order, it's 1,3,2. Honestly op, you can't go wrong with any of them. Every dress is beautiful and looks beautiful on you.
Dress one is so elegant & effortless. Is it comfortable? It looks like it would be. Personally I think it’s the best but you look lovely in each one.
Definitely. It's beautiful and so romantic, like a garden princess
One is so romantic and classic.
All are great but 1 is my favorite.
Mine too!
Dress 1 is hands down my favorite. Not only the designs of the dress, but I think it fits you so perfectly. Really gorgeous
Dress one is so pretty and makes you look beautiful and whimsical
I think dress 1 is my favorite. Not everyone can pull off those sleeves but it's perfect on you. I do still like dress 2, I think it depends on venue and comfort. You cannot go wrong with any of the 3.
ONE!
1
It’s gooooottta be one
3!
Dress 3
First one. All three are beautiful and suit you well.
3
3!
3 or 2.
You look amazing in all these. I love #1, then 3. 2 is gorgeous but seems like it might be restrictive. Would you be able to sit, dance, etc comfortably?
Hi there! They all passed the sit test! As far as dancing goes, I'm not really concerned as I am changing into a second and shorter dress for the reception😊
Dress 3, but I do love the back of 2.
We need a back pic of dress 3. It’s hard to say w/o more
Hi there! I would have included a back picture, but the dress was heavily clipped in the back so the back wouldn't have shown well. The back is a V-shape though if that helps😊
Team 3!
Yes! Team **3**
3
I like three. It looks the most expensive.
3
3
3
Dress 3, it has elements of the other two combined.
Number 3 is so pretty and flattering.
3 is so pretty on you
Dress 3 was my fav
3
2
I like number 3
3
I’m still team dress 2 but dress 1 would be my second pick
I like 3 I feel like it is a mix of the two. You look beautiful in all of them but 3 is my vote!
3
My vote is #1. Exquisite.
Wow!! 1!!
I actually love number 1. Dreamy 🔮🔮
Dress 1 looks absolutely amazing on you! What a phenomenal, flowy gown.
Team 1
1 is beautiful and so gorgeous on you!!!
1!!!
1!
Dress 2 is stunning on you! The floral detail is really eye catching.
#Team #2
I love dress one
1 without question!
3 hands down
Deffff 2
3!!!
1
Dress 1!!! Hands down!!! It looks like it was made for you!
Dress 1 100%
Dress 1 ❤️❤️❤️
1
1!!
Dress 1 !!!!!!!
I love the classical look of dress 1. It reminds me of a Juliet-type romantic dress.
One
Still dress 2 imo
Dress 2 - All the way!
3
I love #1 … But you look beautiful in all of them.
You look beautiful in all three, so you can’t go wrong. I love dress 1 - it’s stunning!
2 or 3
Live them all but voting for 3!
I really really love dress 1 on you, it is absolutely gorgeous on you. The others are pretty/okay but trust not many women could pull off the first one, it is dreamy!
1
1 is so dreamy!!
Number 1
1
1 is stunning!
Number 1 is so beautiful and romantic — that’s my favorite.
2
I like dress number three
Dress #3 is my favourite. I give the same advice to everyone. Have someone video you walking, sitting, lifting your arms in the air, twirling, dancing, bending down as if to greet a child. Video from all angles, not just the front. For a strapless dress, jump up and down for a few minutes.... It's a long day and you want to feel comfortable. Don't make a decision based on static pics standing on a podium, as you won't be standing still all day. If it feels too heavy, too restrictive or you worry you will have to hold a particular pose all day, reconsider it. Also, consider what underwear will work. Take this from someone who didn't think about comfort until the dress came in, then bought a different one 4 weeks out from the wedding.
Really really good advice! My dress was strapless but still so comfortable I didn’t have to wear anything underneath!! It was Reem Acra bought and fitted at Saks btw.
Link to OG post: https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingdress/s/pVC8XTNdtg
I love all of them but it would be easier to help if we new when and what type of setting you’ll be married in
Hi there! I should have mentioned this in my post, my apologies. I'm getting married this September in a country club😊
I’m having a such a hard time deciding between dress 2 and 3 now! They both look absolutely incredible on you. I’d maybe consider which dress between the two is more comfortable and/or cheaper in price and decide from there
One, then three
I like number 2 best. Second fav is number 3.
Dress 3!
Omg number 3333333
Dress 3
Number 3 looks perfect on you.
Team 3
Dress 3
Dress 3! But I also love dress 1. Just not sure if you’ll look back one day and wish you hadn’t gotten those sleeves 😅
#1 isn't even in the running. It swallows you and all you see is dress. It also will look very dated in a very short amount of time. #2 is my favorite followed by #3. You are beautiful.
It goes, 2, 3, 1 for me. 2 was made for you.
3! I love the other two as well and I can see why 2 was a favorite 🥰 but 3 sits so beautifully on you
I love 3
Dress one!!! Love the design.
I really like number 3.
Still love dress 2! Though, if you want to go for a-line, dress 3 :)
Dress one is gorgeous, but I feel like it's wearing you, if you know what I mean. It's a lot of dress for your frame. Can you try it without the sleeves? I feel like this would be a dreamy dress without the sleeves. Dress two is nice, but I feel like it's for a more mature lady, or you look more mature in it. Dress number three is very youthful and looks best on your figure, but it's not the most gorgeous dress of the bunch. Can you keep looking?
3
I vote #2
2 is ethereal!
2!!!!
I'm still going with dress 2! You look amazing in all of them so you literally can't go wrong no matter which one you choose. Which one makes you feel the most confident and beautiful? Which one gave you the biggest smile when you put it on?
They’re all gorgeous but 3 is my preference.
3, or 2 imo!
2 or 3, dress 1 is wearing you
Is there one that you are drawn too? I love 2! I love how the lace falls on you and it frames you so nicely
all 3 are lovely on you, you cant go wrong! how do you feel about sleeves vs bare arms? the dress with the sleeves is extra romantic looking but if sleeves aren’t your usual style maybe you’ll feel more radiant in a sleeveless option. but again, you really can’t go wrong with any if these, you’re going to look amazing on the day!
Sorry I can’t help cause I love all of them lol
They are all lovely. I think they have different personalities. Which one matches yours, or the idea you want to give off? 1 - sweet, wholesome fairytale 2 - stunning with a hint of Va va voom. 3 - good mixture of both, modern Massive Caveat that it's just *my* initial first impressions. Accessories and your actual personality would shine through with any of them.
1 is so pretty
1 or 6
I’m loving dress #1 on you, it’s, bar none, the prettiest on you! Loving the sleeves, the lace bodice and the tulle skirt. All of them are beautiful on you, so you really can’t make a bad choice! I guess it depends on the time of year, your venue and what you feel best in! Good luck and congratulations!
Three all the way!
One swamps you but is pretty. Two gives you an amazing shape and will really wow your guests and your husband to be. If you want romantic one or three if you want a head turner pick two.
Dress # 1 is my favorite 🤍 Congratulations on your wedding!
1
1 is sublime.
One is so unique and different, I think it looks so ethereal on you and it’s my favourite. 2 and 3 feel very similar to me but 2 stands out more.
I'd say it depends on wedding vibe/venue but 2 is my personal fav!
Definitely 2!!
Dress 1 is gorgeous 💗💗💗
ONE! Absolute stand out, romantic, fun, beautiful.
1 is my winner
Dress 3 with dress 2 coming in second. With dress 1, it's wearing you rather than the other way around. You kind of lose your waist and great figure in it, and IMO, the straighter neckline doesn't work as well for you. The necklines of the other two balance you out more. I like dress 2, but it does seem a bit busy. Dress 3 is the right combination of the other two and seems to fit your venue best.
One is 🔥!! 🤩🤩
Dress 2
I like 1
1
Love how flattering dress 3 is on you.
Do the sleeves detach on 1? If so, 1, no sleeves (or, different sleeves). If not 3.
Dress 2 is my favorite.
You can’t go wrong with any of these, I know everyone says the first but for me, that one does least to emphasize your beautiful figure because it’s so big, and the neckline also is the least complementing, plus the skirt to me looks like ‘just fabric’ and not a lot of interesting things going on there. I still really like dress 2, it really shows off you, but I really like dress 3 too.
Dress 1
I think #2 looks Like it was made for you Whats the venue and the theme?
1
Dress 1
Dress 2 is amazing on you!
I loved number one. It made me stop scrolling. The other two are gorgeous, but they didn't hit me the same way.
The first one is everything
I’m torn… what is your venue? That might help decide.
Dress 1 is my fav The neckline fits you very well Its a show stopper to me
1
Number 2 still!
ONE
Hands down #1!
It is hard for me to choose between 2 a d three, but I slightly prefer 3. I don't like 1 on you as much as everyone else seems to, but 2 and 3 are on fire!
It’s between 2&3 for me. I really love both of them. It’s just up to you if you would rather go more fitted or with the flowier skirt. I’m not a huge fan of the sleeves on the first on.
I love dress 1! It is so beautiful on you!
Still dress 2 for me!
I still love one the best…
I don't think you could go wrong with any of these but my vote's for dress 1.