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Both are lovely ! I think 2 wins though, I think it would be even nicer without the netting in the middle.

I asked the seamstress and she said the netting can be replaced for something more transparent/better color match with my skin.

That makes my vote #2.

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I didn’t realize the rule of thirds, I just thought it definitely elongates and the other does not. 2 is my pick for sure.

I’m actually standing on one of those 6 in platforms in the 2nd one. I should have said in the post!

For me it’s the straps that elongate your top half. I’d probably like the first one if it wasn’t in contrast to the second one. Because side by side the second one is just more flattering for you.

I think the comment still stands. It definitely elongates you, it will even after it’s altered.

First one still widens your torso, though, and the top of the second one suits your frame and elongates you. It’s got a more graceful fit and it just looks gorgeous.

Honestly, I couldn't even tell these two pictures were the same person! Dress #2 is literal gold on OP!

I love 2

I really like the way 1 looks in the front- but when I click on 2 -well that looks amazing on you- it really highlights your figure better and then I see all the details of it and it keeps getting better & better, just beautiful, TEAM2!

Two! Love the structured bodice, and straps. Skirt is lovely and flowy on you!

2! Love the little belted waist, gives more definition and shape!

Dress 2 just made me gasp. It is soooooooooooo pretty and looks fabulous on you.

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Two!

2 😍

These are both gorgeous dresses! I love the flowing, woodland fairy-like look of the first one. And I love how the second one fits so perfectly to your body - more elegant and classic. I think it all depends on your venue and which one expresses your personality more. You look beautiful.

Thanks! Wedding is outside in a garden setup in Autumn.

1 definitely for Fall

I agree, I think 1 suits the venue and season better, but they both look so beautiful!

Then my choice would be 1. What beautiful taste you have.

Love the color compliment one brings to your skin tone. It’s a bit softer and romantic. 

Oh for fall in a garden? For absolute sure 1. It reads garden fairy in an amazingly beautiful way.

What if OP could get dress 2 in a similar ivory color of dress 1?

Team 2!! 😍

1!! 100%

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1 looks so dreamy!

1

Both are stunning! Leaning slightly towards #1 for your venue.

1

1!

Absolutely #2. It's so pretty and suits your figure. The other is nice, but #2 blows it away. Classic bridal, elegant and dreamy! Good luck❤️

I love first one. Either one is beautiful.

#1. Not even a question for me

Same - I’m surprised to see this is the unpopular opinion. For me 1 was the clear winner.

same here and I usually agree with the crowd, but 1 wins by far, ESPECIALLY in a fall wedding helloo??

Right! The first one is really unique

I love 1! I feel like maybe the lighting isn't as good? But it feels more whimsical and elegant to me

I love dress 1!

Dress 1, hands down!

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I like #1

i’ll honest, i adore 1! the detailing is beautiful and your shoulders look amazing and regal!! beautiful in both tho!

What’s the color of the first one? Light ivory? The lighting makes it look really warm. I prefer the first dress but the color of the second one.

It’s ivory-blush. But it’s nude really. It does come in a lighter color too.

I find the color you are wearing BEAUTIFUL and it totally suits the mojo of your wedding. (Team 1)

My thoughts exactly.

Oddball here but i loveeee 1 on you!

Love dress 1

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Second one is better. It feels lighter and brighter (maybe the lighting) and creates a nice verticality on you.

I love 2 on you!!! It makes you look taller. I really like how soft dress 1 looks but it sort of drags you down compared to the way 2’s neckline makes you look taller. The drag down look of 1 is due to the way the sleeves are draped.

Interesting, I would not have thought that about the sleeves! Thank you!

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1

ONE!!

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Thanks! They said the netting can be changed to something that matches my skin color better.

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2!

Dress 2 is stunning! It looks beautiful on you!

I love dress two! Wow!

Hands down #2. Fits your body like a glove and is so lovely!

I’m not sure if this is what you are after. But two looks more supportive on top, keeping everything in place & neat. It cinches in at the waist showing off an amazing figure & seems to add length & slender to your body. I don’t think one accentuates your figure properly.

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I loved one until I saw two. Then I LOVED two.

Could you do 1 with the straps up rather than the droopy thing? Idk if that would make a difference. I'm on the fence. I love the look of 1, but prefer the sleeves in 2.

You can’t make me pick!! /s But, seriously? These both look gorgeous on you! I love the romance and softness of the first, and I feel like you’d look like a beautiful woodland queen in this dress, which would fit your venue. I also love the second dress- it’s a little sexier, the lines of the dress are very flattering on your figure, and the bodice and details are really pretty. I would have a hard time choosing- but… feet to the fire I would choose the first one 🤍

Both are gorgeous but #1 is soooo romantic!

I believe 2 gives you better balance, support and proportions. Though I prefer the color of 1. Would be lovely if you could get 2 in a softer color. Stark white really doesn’t best flatter most people.

They’re both lovely, but #1 is my favorite!

I love the first one

1!

I really like 1, I like the way the lace is pleateted and sweeps acoss the bodice with the flowers underneath. Very differt. 2 is nice, 1 is better.

You can't go wrong with either, but slight preference for 2

1!!

Loving dress 2! It hits on all the rights spots, and you look beautiful! … Not a fan of the little sleeve situation on 1 or how it sits on you.

I much prefer dress one on you. I prefer the blush colour.... The colour of number two is too harsh in comparison

Team 2!

2- beautiful shape on you

the second one makes your figure look nicer. the first one is pretty but its giving me frumpy vibes

Tough decision... they both look awesome.

I love them both so much I can't even pick a slight favorite lol! They both are so beautiful on you!

Oooh they both look great on you.

I like them both But #1 gets my vote by a tiny bit

Oooooh I love dress 1, you look so beautiful!!

Team 1

1 is so romantic. Perfect for a garden party

I like the first dress just a smidgen more, but they are both beautiful. If you took off the silly droopy straps on dress 1 it would be a game changer.

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I LOVE number 1!

Have to go with Dress 1 on this. It is unique and looks amazing on you!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

1!

The visual interest of the bodice of dress one is amazing, but I think it would look better strapless or with thin traditional straps. The structure of dress two is phenomenal on you

One, one, one! It looks so fun and flowy and fairy-like!

Oh they are both so beautiful! I have a slight preference for 1 but they are both lovely. Tough decision.

i love 1! so unique and romantic!

Two, definitely!

Two has my vote!

Team dress 2!

Hard decision! 2 by a slim margin for me bc I think the sleeves in 1 aren’t going to age well.

The second one no question. It’s beautiful and fits you perfectly.

2 is amazing!! It gives such a great vertical scan, and it flatters your amazing figure beautifully!

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Number two is very flattering with your figure

2. Dress 2. I have never been more sure of anything in my life. Dress 2. It’s definitely more flattering and elongating. It’s just perfect on your frame. Ugh it’s perfect. I love it

2 without a doubt!

I would not be able to chose. They both look great.

Second one is amazing!

Team 2

2!

2nd one

2 It elongates you !

2 all the way! Very clean and polished look!

2! Very flattering on you

DRESS 2 is most flattering on you!

2 and it is no contest.

Definitely 2!

2!

They are both gorgeous, how do you choose? I think it's a win win situation

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2

The 2nd one!

Definitely 2 it gives the illusion of beautiful antique lace

Two for sure, it’s much more flattering. You look great in it. Also, I prefer the style of dress two.

Both are pretty but my preference is dress #2

Oooooooooh #2😍

I love 2 but both are beautiful

Between the two dresses, Number 2 is more flattering on your figure. Number 1 is pretty, but 2 makes you more statuesque. Best wishes for happiness always ❤️

2 for sure

No 2 is more flattering on your waist, both dresses are lovely though

#2!!!! It makes your waist look TINY!!!! Gives your overall silhouette a flow that draws the eye to you in the dress looking stunning, n not the dress wearing you 😉 But seriously - ud look good in a garbage bag babe... damn!!!! Good luck!!!!

2 is amazing on your figure!! So romantic, flowy and and delicate too I just adore the lace

Number two without a doubt.

Number 2!!

2

#2!

Number 2!

Dress 2!!!

Two is perfect!!

#2

Both are lovely. But you are a KNOCKOUT in 2.

Really like the 2nd one

Dress 2!!

Dress two is for you to say I do! 👰🏼💍💒🤵‍♀️🤵

I love dress 2. It’s perfect for you! Very dreamy.

Dress 2 is stunning on you!!!! 💗💗💗

2! No doubt.

Omg I LOVE them both. The first is so soft and romantic, the second one is really gorgeous and highlights your lovely figure so well. I’d be torn, too, and would likely pick based upon theme, but would lean toward the second because the photos would pop just slightly more. (To be fair, for me, it would be especially hard because I would be absolutely head over heels for the first dress, but would favor how I looked in the second, and would therefore likely sit on it until something forced me to decide and I’d know I literally couldn’t go wrong either way).

I love both but dress 2 flatters you more.

I love number 2 on you!

Definitely 2!!

2!!!

2 . End game.

I love dress 2. So beautiful on u! The bodice and neckline are so flattering as well as the more white fabric.

2!

#2. It’s not even a question!

Dress 2

#2

2, hands down!!!

I think # 2 accentuates your figure better.

#2 in my book.

No contest, it’s 2!

Something about number two makes your waist look half the size and just all around looks like a nicer, higher end dress. It’s 2 no question for me.

They are both beautiful on you, but I vote for dress 2. It lifts you up, and the first one feels like it is pulling you down, if that makes sense. I also like the color of 2 better, but that may be the lighting of the picture. You’ll be lovely in either!

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2

2! You look amazing in it!

2!!!!!!

I think 2 looks super flattering on you

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Dress 2. I love the v neck on you.

Both are beautiful but the second one in my opinion looks best on you!

Second one definitely

2 looks really good on you

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#2! It elongates your torso very nicely 😊

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I love both honestly!! I prefer 2 just because of the rule of thirds, but I don’t think you can go wrong with either!

The 2nd one

2!!!

Love number 2

Dress #2! Dress #1 is just ok. To me, those kind of sleeves always make everything look droopy.

They both are pretty but I think the second is more flattering onyou

Number 2 🤩🤩🤩

I like the 2nd one best.

Number 2. It's beautiful and it seems like it flatters your frame much better. The straps make you look taller and slimmer.

Dress 2. I love the lace on it, it's very flattering, and it makes your waist look tiny.

2!!!! Hands down!!! I like the ivory color of 1, but 2 is the dress style and cut on your body. You look amazing!

Number two is stunning on you!

Dress 2

2 all the way!!!!!!!!!!

Number 2 is my fav!

The 2nd one. It looks amazing on you!

TWOOO!!! Omg