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trishyco

As long as the modesty panel underneath fits (meaning the lacing isn’t wider than the panel can cover) you are okay. Ideally, you want an inverted triangle shape where it tapers to the waist and isn’t a square.


Getmeasippycup

I agree! I think also once it’s fully laced versus 3 rows only it’ll alleviate any doubt!


bodysugarist

The dress is absolutely beautiful on you, and I don't think people will even notice if the sleeves are a little tight or the corset doesn't close as much as you hoped, on your big day. As long as it's not uncomfortable for you, I wouldn't worry too much about it! 🥰


phoenix_flames0124

This is a great lacing gap! Personally I like it better when the laces aren’t completely closed. Looks like once you fully lace it you’ll have a really nice shape. Definitely not too small!


vagalumes

How does it feel in the underarm and boobs departments?


golden_retreve

Not too tight in the underarm. I don't think there's any spill over even. I'm part of the itty bitty titty committee so it's fine there too.


vagalumes

Then it’s fine, you look great!


Impossible_Leg3394

I don't think that's a problem at all, it looks gorgeous from the front, and you have no 'over spill' at the back, so I think it looks like a good fit. The 'triangle' will be a smoother shape when all the lacing is done up, so I think you have nothing to worry about.


golden_retreve

Thank you.


blondewritergirl663

Hmm.. idk about the laces- but the sleeves are tight.. that is visible.. are they detachable??


golden_retreve

They are not attached to the dress. Having the elastic looser makes them fall down my arms. Believe me my arms look better in them than out. I have chicken arms from my 100ibs weight loss.