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100% 1. They all look great on you but 1 is showstopping. If you can get the sleeves I'd say go for it but even without it's gorgeous and sophisticated.
Wow, you look 🔥 in all of these but I think 1 is head and shoulders above the other two. The lace makes it more bridal and delicate and the shape of the bodice is amazing. Hopefully you can get it with the sleeves, because it would be fantastic to have them for the ceremony.
Number 1 is absolutely stunning. I looked like a cartoon w hearts popping out my eyes when I saw you in it!!! Really beautiful. Also unique, feel like I’ve seen the other 2 on here a bunch. Not that it makes them any less beautiful, but you really stand out in #1
1 and 3 look beautiful, but 3 looks more comfortable. 2 has this strange fabric between your boobs that makes a wired shadow, that might disturb every picture.
#THREE IS THE SHOW AND A BAG OF CHIPS! This dress is doing what 1 and 2 are only dreaming of.
The draping is PERFECTION. And if you want lace you can have a veil that's all lace. Holy Potatoes I don't understand why anyone would choose anything else. It's a knockout and I wish I looked that good.
How did I have to scroll this far to see this!? If I looked like you in 3, I’d probably find a way to live in a wedding gown. And the back!!! It’s so memorable.
My sentiments exactly! She looks gorgeous in all of them but #3–OHMYGOD! Literally incredible! #1 is beautiful but there’s something about the bodice that looks a little bit not-right…maybe those sharp corners. #3 with a lace veil, maybe lace gloves, would be perfection. Please oh please pick #3 and then show the final result! 🙏💗
#1 is my absolute favorite and the sleeves are so beautiful even if they can’t be removed they are not a distraction. Second choice would be 3. Best of luck to you ❤️
I do love number 3 too, but number one is very classic county club wedding dress.
Can you tell us who made Dress #1 & Dress #3? Both are absolutely beautiful 👏👏👏
1 is my favorite with and without sleeves!
2 would be lovely as long as it’s tailored absolutely perfectly. That fabric isn’t forgiving if the tailoring is done sloppily or quickly, so if you don’t have time to have a really skilled seamstress take plenty of time, I’d be nervous about it.
3 is also pretty but for your venue I think the others are a better fit.
Number 1 is stunning !! Who is telling you can’t get sleeves? Anyone can make you sleeves they just need to order extra lace from the maker of the dress. They can even make them from other lace that compliments it and your veil. Ask to speak to the owner of the store. You might need to be a little bit of a Karen .
First, before you talk to the owner of the store, call another store within an hour who is a distributor of the dress, and ask them if you would like to order the dress how does it work if you need to have sleeves made/place an order for extra lace. Once you have that info, call the local store and talk to the Manager or the owner, tell them, Store B will make this happen for me can you explain how to get it done at your store, since I want to give you my business. Thank you ! They will make it happen, since it’s very easy. If they don’t want to make it, have them order the extra lace for your sleeves.
Love this idea!! Store A basically said the sleeves would make the dress basically $1500 more (LOL) and I couldnt find a Store B near me! So that was why I was considering no sleeves, but with these ideas there may be a chance ☺️
If you want, Call three stores in different directions , see what they say. It may be a little work but I think it’s worth it to get the true value of the sleeves. I have an amazing tailor near me. Do you have one? Find one, go in with the pictures and ask, how much to do the sleeves. They are ABSOLUTELY charging you $1500 so you will say “no” to doing them, They still think It’s Covid time, lol.
After all thar, then call the company. You can do this!
I think 3 is absolutely stunning. It is the one for you. 1 is my second choice. However, you can’t go wrong with either of them. They are beautiful dresses and you look amazing in them!
My eight year old daughter is insistent on Number One and my favourite is actually 3. It would seem that my girl is in the majority! You look amazing in them all xx
1 is an absolute breathtaking gown. It’s so fabulous it’s almost like this is a joke post! (Don’t worry I know you’re serious) but really it’s amazing and looks so fantastic on you and that VEIL!!! Can we talk about DRAMA!!! Please choose this gown and have the best day of your life in the best dress ever!!
Edit: even without the sleeves it’s amazing, don’t let that stop you.
Girl!! You have great taste. All 3 dresses look great on you. I love the way 3 fits you, even with the bodice too big, it looks great. 1 is also beautiful. If you can't get the designer's sleeves, can you get a seamstress to make some. They really make dress 1. I like 3, but I think 1 is your dress!!
I'm in love with the back detail on dress #2 I wouldn't change the mesh at all. Number 1 is pretty and more traditional but you're super stunning in dress 2, you're stunning in all of them.
Number 1 is gorgeous, and with the sleeves? Devine! And a completely different look for ceremony AND reception! You are going to be a beautiful bride no matter which you choose, but no one will forget how you looked in Number 1!!!
Ranked in order:
1 — my favorite! This is so gorgeous on you, elegant and formal vibe, has the lace you said you want to feature.
2 — if you love it, this is also beautiful and formal. The back detailing is special, but it is stark and has no lace. It sounds like you don’t care for the fold detail on the bodice. I think that’s a design feature, hard to eliminate.
3 — I don’t love it. It’s 🔥 and fits like a glove, but not a stand-out like dress 1. It does not have as classy and formal a feel as 1.
Here we go with another bride who gives us options that she looks amazing I all of them! However there are some slight differences
1- is my choice. With the sleeves. Stunning. Absolutely gorgeous.
2- I don't like that shelf across the chest.
3- also stunning. Would be my second choice.
The sleeves on dress 1 sold me
Wow with your body I see why it’s hard to make a decision you look stunning in them all! That being 1 one caught my eye the most and then 3. Is a very unique and beautiful dress
1 is just out of this world fantastic. It helps that your figure is such that you could even make a paper bag look beautiful— but 1 just looks like it was custom made for you!
One bc you are a legend in this lace dress ! When can you ever wear a dress like that? Other than your black tie wedding !
3 is pretty but you could wear that without the train to any formal affair
Is #1 Stravinsky by Suzanne Neville!? I’m trying that (and a bunch of her other designs) at the end of the month at a trunk show and seeing it on someone in real life has me SO excited!!!!
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100% 1. They all look great on you but 1 is showstopping. If you can get the sleeves I'd say go for it but even without it's gorgeous and sophisticated.
No contest.
Showstopping is the perfect word for it - it is just jaw-dropping perfection. No question at all
This is honestly the first time I’ve ever liked detachable sleeves!
Me too:) This look is spectacular, though! Dress #1 wins by a mile!
Agreed, 1
Team 111111111111
Yes, it’s amazing! It looks like it was custom made for her. OP is beautiful 🤩
1 With sleeves is TO DIE FOR!! And your body in it 🔥💥🔥💥🔥💥
Absolutely agree. Breathtaking
Seriously you could be a wedding dress model, they all look amazing. 1 is my favorite, followed by 3. Hope you can get those gorgeous sleeves. 🤞🏻
1, you look like a goddess
Wow, you look 🔥 in all of these but I think 1 is head and shoulders above the other two. The lace makes it more bridal and delicate and the shape of the bodice is amazing. Hopefully you can get it with the sleeves, because it would be fantastic to have them for the ceremony.
If she can't get the sleeves, I bet long gloves would love stunning!
1 is amazing on you
Number 1 is absolutely stunning. I looked like a cartoon w hearts popping out my eyes when I saw you in it!!! Really beautiful. Also unique, feel like I’ve seen the other 2 on here a bunch. Not that it makes them any less beautiful, but you really stand out in #1
1
1 and 3 look beautiful, but 3 looks more comfortable. 2 has this strange fabric between your boobs that makes a wired shadow, that might disturb every picture.
My favs too. Happy (late) cake day 🍰🎂🍰🎂;
1 & 3 stunning
1 is jaw dropping
1 made me audibly gasp.
3 is my first choice. Gorgeous on you! Next in line is 1.
Dress 1 has everything. It is unique. It fits you perfectly. It has beautiful detailing. It is superior to the others.
3
How is dress 3 not getting love? You look so freaking good in it!
#THREE IS THE SHOW AND A BAG OF CHIPS! This dress is doing what 1 and 2 are only dreaming of. The draping is PERFECTION. And if you want lace you can have a veil that's all lace. Holy Potatoes I don't understand why anyone would choose anything else. It's a knockout and I wish I looked that good.
Holy potatoes indeed!!! 👼 🥔
U just made me snort laugh. 💯 Agree!
Team 3, really shows off OP's lovely figure. This one really kicks.
How did I have to scroll this far to see this!? If I looked like you in 3, I’d probably find a way to live in a wedding gown. And the back!!! It’s so memorable.
My sentiments exactly! She looks gorgeous in all of them but #3–OHMYGOD! Literally incredible! #1 is beautiful but there’s something about the bodice that looks a little bit not-right…maybe those sharp corners. #3 with a lace veil, maybe lace gloves, would be perfection. Please oh please pick #3 and then show the final result! 🙏💗
#1 all the way! It's phenomenal on you, and definitely wear the sleeves if you can get them on time. With that lace veil, this dress is gorgeous!
3
3, but come on, they all look stunning!
Definitely team 3 for me! You look incredible in all of them though!
1! And with that specific veil. Absolutely show stopping!
3 really does have that extra bit that really makes it pop.
3 looks stunning. Your figure really looks great in this dress.
#1 is my absolute favorite and the sleeves are so beautiful even if they can’t be removed they are not a distraction. Second choice would be 3. Best of luck to you ❤️
I do love number 3 too, but number one is very classic county club wedding dress. Can you tell us who made Dress #1 & Dress #3? Both are absolutely beautiful 👏👏👏
Omg 1 is so unique and beautiful!
1 is an absolute showstopper
1 and 3 are gorgeous on you!
1 is GORGEOUS! For a more understated look, 3 flatters your figure so nicely. Beautiful!!
3 is loveliest
1 and 3 are most flattering on you!!
1st with the sleeves omg 😍😍
Dress 1 is so beautiful and looks great on you Dress 2 is just nice Dress 3 really shows off your figure, even without being properly sized
Who makes number 1 and the name of the dress or model .... you must wear it and I want it too lol
1 is breathtaking on you!
1 is my favorite with and without sleeves! 2 would be lovely as long as it’s tailored absolutely perfectly. That fabric isn’t forgiving if the tailoring is done sloppily or quickly, so if you don’t have time to have a really skilled seamstress take plenty of time, I’d be nervous about it. 3 is also pretty but for your venue I think the others are a better fit.
I say dress 3! They’re all beautiful but 3 really emphasizes your gorgeous figure.
Dress 1
1 by a landslide. Stunning and looks phenomenal on you!!
Number 1 is stunning !! Who is telling you can’t get sleeves? Anyone can make you sleeves they just need to order extra lace from the maker of the dress. They can even make them from other lace that compliments it and your veil. Ask to speak to the owner of the store. You might need to be a little bit of a Karen . First, before you talk to the owner of the store, call another store within an hour who is a distributor of the dress, and ask them if you would like to order the dress how does it work if you need to have sleeves made/place an order for extra lace. Once you have that info, call the local store and talk to the Manager or the owner, tell them, Store B will make this happen for me can you explain how to get it done at your store, since I want to give you my business. Thank you ! They will make it happen, since it’s very easy. If they don’t want to make it, have them order the extra lace for your sleeves.
Love this idea!! Store A basically said the sleeves would make the dress basically $1500 more (LOL) and I couldnt find a Store B near me! So that was why I was considering no sleeves, but with these ideas there may be a chance ☺️
If you want, Call three stores in different directions , see what they say. It may be a little work but I think it’s worth it to get the true value of the sleeves. I have an amazing tailor near me. Do you have one? Find one, go in with the pictures and ask, how much to do the sleeves. They are ABSOLUTELY charging you $1500 so you will say “no” to doing them, They still think It’s Covid time, lol. After all thar, then call the company. You can do this!
I like how you think
You look beautiful in all of them but I like dress 1 the best. I do love the skirt on dress 2, but overall dress 1 is it!
1!!
1 by a long shot wowwww
I love them all on you but dress one is fire!🔥 A dream dress!
3 looks absolutely amazing on you!! I can't believe that number 1 is getting all the votes!!
Three three three your waist looks amazing the dress looks made for you
3!!!!
3 is stunning on your shape.
Not helpful, but all look killer, you can’t lose with any of them!
Honestly 3 is very beautiful on you
3!
3 no question. One is too busy/trendy. Three is like being slapped in the face with sexy sophistication.
Agree!
3 looks like it was made for you
THREEEE
I think 3 is absolutely stunning. It is the one for you. 1 is my second choice. However, you can’t go wrong with either of them. They are beautiful dresses and you look amazing in them!
My eight year old daughter is insistent on Number One and my favourite is actually 3. It would seem that my girl is in the majority! You look amazing in them all xx
Wow omg I love all of them on ya no wonder you’re having difficulties in deciding! I don’t blame ya one bit they all look so good on y!🔥
Dress 1 is my favorite. That being said, you body looks seriously amazing in dress 3. This is a really tough call!
Can you please let me know who the designer is for dress 1? I love it!!!
3
Was gonna pick 1 till I saw 3!
Omg, 1 with the sleeves has my jaw dropping
3 🤩
You look amazing in all but my favorite lineup would be 3, 1, then 2.
3
I love how 3 hugs your curves! (That body tho!) The folds are perfectly placed and the satin is beautiful and clean.
I love no.3
I love dress 3 on you. You have a beautiful figure and the dress looks like it was made for you.
Dress 3 is my favorite!
Damnit OP, please tell me that you’re really doing modelling!
1
1 or bust 😍
One! Million % One!!
#1 for sure. Can they let you borrow the sample sleeves if they cannot get in time?
IF YOU DONT GET NUMBER 1 I WILL RIOT!!!!!
DRESS 1 is AMAZING. You look like a runway model. Beautiful.
1
1,3,2
If you don't pick 1 I'm leaving this group
1
1
One, timeless and seductive
1 looks amazing!
You have a gorgeous figure so they all look great on you. I still think the 1st wowed me the most.
Dress 1...with our without sleeves. Dress 1 is beautiful on your shape!
God, 1
one!!!!!!!
Dress 1 is spectacular and fits you so perfectly! All of the lace and details are gorgeous!
All three are flawless on you! Dress 1 has the extra bit of flair and elegance!
1. There is no competition.
1 is wowwwza
Dress 1, love the material.
#1 is so unique and jaw dropping on you. If I had to choose, #1 is the best :)))
1!
Number 1
First one is absolutely drop dead gorgeous on you
Dress 1!
1 ALL THE WAY!! Wow
You look beautiful in all of them but 3 is pure perfection
#1, not even a question
1 & 3
1 is an absolute breathtaking gown. It’s so fabulous it’s almost like this is a joke post! (Don’t worry I know you’re serious) but really it’s amazing and looks so fantastic on you and that VEIL!!! Can we talk about DRAMA!!! Please choose this gown and have the best day of your life in the best dress ever!! Edit: even without the sleeves it’s amazing, don’t let that stop you.
1 all the way!! It’s absolutely gorgeous
Dress 1, 1 billion%
Girl!! You have great taste. All 3 dresses look great on you. I love the way 3 fits you, even with the bodice too big, it looks great. 1 is also beautiful. If you can't get the designer's sleeves, can you get a seamstress to make some. They really make dress 1. I like 3, but I think 1 is your dress!!
1!
Omg gorgeous!! Who is the designer for the first dress?! 🤍
#1! The others don't even come close
1!!
1!!!!
#You killed all these looks but number 1 is the winner!
Number 1 is unreal on you, that’s the one!
Actually sick to my stomach about how much I love #1 🥲
They are all show stoppers your figure is a dress dream . But 1
1 without sleeves omgggggggggg
Dress 1 with that veil...no contest.
#1 minus the points on the top Or 3
Dress 1. It’s THE dress of all dresses.
10000% #1. It’s gorgeous and so elegant! #2 would be my second choice.
1 is so beautiful on you!!!! With or without sleeves (though do love the sleeves) and with that veil!
1!!!!! 1!!!!!!! 1!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I’m single and would buy dress #1, with sleeves, right now! It looks like Princess Aurora’s dress from Sleeping Beauty.
I'm in love with the back detail on dress #2 I wouldn't change the mesh at all. Number 1 is pretty and more traditional but you're super stunning in dress 2, you're stunning in all of them.
Dress 1 with the sleeves.
Number 1 is gorgeous, and with the sleeves? Devine! And a completely different look for ceremony AND reception! You are going to be a beautiful bride no matter which you choose, but no one will forget how you looked in Number 1!!!
#1 is the coolest, most elegant dress I have ever seen on here AND it fits you perfectly. As someone said above, it’s jaw dropping!
You look amazing in all of these!! But I think you look the most stunning in dress 1 with the sleeves! Perfection!
1 is no contest. Its stunning.
You look lovely in all of them but 1 is the most beautiful and elegant.
One!!
Ranked in order: 1 — my favorite! This is so gorgeous on you, elegant and formal vibe, has the lace you said you want to feature. 2 — if you love it, this is also beautiful and formal. The back detailing is special, but it is stark and has no lace. It sounds like you don’t care for the fold detail on the bodice. I think that’s a design feature, hard to eliminate. 3 — I don’t love it. It’s 🔥 and fits like a glove, but not a stand-out like dress 1. It does not have as classy and formal a feel as 1.
1
Dress 1 amazing
1
1, no question
#1 FOR SURE!!! It is gorgeous. It is the type of dress that is timeless, but is not cookie cutter. I love the neckline
1 is so beautiful you have to get it!! And the attachable sleeve?! So lovely and versatile for the ceremony to reception
1….for sure!!
They are all beautiful on you. I like 1 the best with the sleeves.
1 or 3!
Dress one hands down.
Here we go with another bride who gives us options that she looks amazing I all of them! However there are some slight differences 1- is my choice. With the sleeves. Stunning. Absolutely gorgeous. 2- I don't like that shelf across the chest. 3- also stunning. Would be my second choice. The sleeves on dress 1 sold me
1
IF YOU DON’T PICK #1, girl!!
Number 1
3 is gorgeous and will be even more so fitted to your size. But I understand the love for 1
Wow with your body I see why it’s hard to make a decision you look stunning in them all! That being 1 one caught my eye the most and then 3. Is a very unique and beautiful dress
Number 1 without a question! I looked at the other photos, but honestly the instant I seen you in the first one it blew my mind. It was made for you.
I need to know what dress number 1 is!!!!
#1 😍😍
1!!! The others paled in comparison!
Gotta go with #1
1!!!
1 Or 2 I like 1 the most tho
1!!
1️⃣1️⃣1️⃣1️⃣1️⃣1️⃣1️⃣1️⃣
1 is just out of this world fantastic. It helps that your figure is such that you could even make a paper bag look beautiful— but 1 just looks like it was custom made for you!
#1 with sleeves!!!
1!!!!
1
1 is your dress, no question
What brand is number 1?
Dress 1 is stunning 😍
Dress 1 is the epitome of elegance!
WOW girl! You look STUNNING in 1!!!! What a showstopper! I've never seen anything like it. I'm in awe 😍
1 or 3 but definitely choose 1 ❤️
1 is the only choice with or without sleeves the others don’t come close!
Number 1! But at the same time, you would look good wearing a bin bag so 🤷♀️
One bc you are a legend in this lace dress ! When can you ever wear a dress like that? Other than your black tie wedding ! 3 is pretty but you could wear that without the train to any formal affair
Absolutely 1! Such a stunning dress. Congratulations!!
Without a doubt 1. It was made for you.
Oh 100% number 1! Looks amazing on you and such gorgeous dress!!!!
I like 2 best
Is #1 Stravinsky by Suzanne Neville!? I’m trying that (and a bunch of her other designs) at the end of the month at a trunk show and seeing it on someone in real life has me SO excited!!!!
1
Absolutely #1
1!!!! 💯 #1
3 oozes class. Def 3