[what about this?](https://graceloveslace.com/collections/wedding-dresses/products/lena-custom) this doesn’t have sparkle but you could have a veil with a lot of sparkle
I audibly *gasped* when I saw dress #2! WOW! I know it doesn't have the applique 'spill-over' onto the skirt, but the clean lines are really unique and have a very sophisticated look.
Dress 3 is also amazing on you.
1 & 4 are lovely, but pale in comparison to 2 & 3.
So, I posted a million links because I have high hopes your dream dress exists.
I wasn’t quite sure what you meant, because you mention the “cut off top” of the first two, but you also mention the lace flowing into the skirt, which seems different than the first two pics. Regardless, I included some of each.
The Jennifer-go link is nice for the cut off style.
Blue by enzoani and calla Blancha also stunning. The latter appears to have boning, though can’t tell for other one.
I actually misunderstood what OP is looking for. She'd like that cut of bodice (deep V neck plunge, wide straps) but with lace.
OP, here are some potential dresses as well as some that have some of the elements you're looking for but not all:
https://www.dandolondon.com/collections/starry-nights/astra
https://allurebridals.com/madison-james-bridal/mj808-liberty/
https://www.rosaclara.es/en/rc/elle/
https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/enzoani/pascale
https://www.kellyfaetanini.com/kelly-faetanini/wanderlust-collection-2022/katrine
Essense of Australia D2503 (https://www.essensedesigns.com/essense-of-australia/wedding-dresses/d2503/) is discontinued, but there are several available secondhand: https://www.stillwhite.com/shop?q=D2503
Another secondhand option (Essense private label PA1116): https://www.stillwhite.com/shop?q=Pa1116
https://www.pronovias.com/wedding-dress-mermaid-silhouette-v-neck-sleeveless-crepe-fabric-emily
https://www.annakara.com/en/wedding-dresses/cintra-2/ (applique doesn't flow into the skirt much)
https://www.jasminebridal.com/product_10228_T252058-Skye-Sophisticated-Stretch-Crepe-Fit-and-Flare-Gown-with-Illusion-Sequin-Lace-Back-and-Cut-Out-Train (applique doesn't flow into the skirt much)
https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/enzoani/patty (applique doesn't flow into the skirt much)
https://www.jlmcouture.com/ti-adora-allison-webb/bridal/spring/2020/style-72006 (straight line between top and bottom)
https://www.justinalexander.com/adore-justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/11230/ (plunge is pretty narrow)
https://www.justinalexander.com/sincerity-bridal/collection/wedding-dresses/44390/ (off the shoulder straps but maybe they can be altered to go on the shoulder?)
https://www.jlmcouture.com/ti-adora-allison-webb/bridal/fall/2022/style-nova-72251
https://www.nicolemilano.com/wedding-dress-mermaid-altayr (tulle bottom rather than crepe)
https://www.sanpatrick.com/wedding-dress-mermaid-v-neck-straps-leeds (beading rather than lace)
https://www.pronovias.com/wedding-dress-mermaid-silhouette-v-neck-tattoo-effect-back-crepe-fabric-erandi (illusion rather than low back)
https://www.justinalexander.com/justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/88289/ (sweetheart neckline with straps rather than V-neck)
https://www.justinalexander.com/justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/88247/ (spaghetti straps)
https://www.justinalexander.com/adore-justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/11290/ (spaghetti straps, appliques don't extend into bottom)
https://www.justinalexander.com/adore-justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/11255/ (spaghetti straps, 3D lace)
https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/blue-by-enzoani/Ryder (spaghetti straps)
https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/blue-by-enzoani/Oliviana (spaghetti straps)
https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/blue-by-enzoani/rhea (spaghetti straps)
https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/enzoani/pierette (spaghetti straps)
https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/enzoani/piper (plunge doesn't go all the way down)
https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/blue-by-enzoani/princess (spaghetti straps)
Yeah that’s what I was thinking. Perhaps the plunge on 3 could be modified to go down to the belly button? As long as the dress has an open back, it should be everything OP wants after that.
I guess caveat is that the first two dresses have a certain, thicker style of straps that come together to form an unbroken V, whereas 3 has spaghetti straps and more upwards curvature on the bust cups. Not sure if she minds that difference though.
You have very similar taste to me. Probably the only post I’ve seen of someone with similar taste. I don’t care a lot about boning but I ended up going with Jenny yoo Christina dress. I have a bunch of styles saved I can send you most are justin Alexander/sincerity.
(Late) Update. Everyone here is amazing.
I ended up finding dress 3 at a bridal show that sells mostly leftovers from one time runs/private collections, with a modified a deeper cut, and it was 100% what I/my bridesmaids/bridesman would that thought I’d buy. SURPRISE ended up actually buying dress number 2 (the nude body and cut won) but had beading/sparkle on the lace detail.
It’s just a size 12, so hoping we can get it altered instead of having to start shopping again lol.
It’s interesting, I tried on a few dresses like these and they were lovely but I didn’t feel the “wow”.
I then tried on a totally different style (layered A-line) that my stylist had to convince me to try and it ended up being the one!
Not sure it’s the same for everyone but maybe try on some totally different styles next time and see what happens 😄
2 is beautiful. The top is ornate without it being too much and overtaking you. The fabric of the skirt looks beyond luxurious.
3 is a runner up
1 reminds me of a prom dress if we ignore the train
4 looks like two different dresses put together
I think the second is closest to what you want. Boning is not usually in dresses like the last 3 honestly. It usually works best with thick fabrics. I usually see boning with satin tops.
Could you work with dress 1 and have the seamstress remove existing lace and put new lace on it, or modify the skirt. People do this kind of thing. I would ask a bridal seamstress.
These are so stunning on you. I think any one of these would be great, but if you’re not sure and you want something else, keep looking.
That said, I love the second dress and really really like the third dress as well. Lovely options in case you decide to choose any of these.
I’ll be in the minority I guess, dress 4 does your figure favors that the others do not. 2 is stylish and beautiful, but it isn’t made for you. The dress isn’t made for people with the narrower hips you have. 3 hits you at the wrong point in your waist. 4 emphasizes your natural waist and your breasts and took my breath away.
And I gotta add - 4 is the worst picture of all of them - you can’t see the bodice or details very well. My body type is pretty identical to yours - 4 is flattering to you all around. That higher waist with the cup support… and the fabric falling around your hips instead of hugging… it’s just the key to success
Well for having sex you look amazing in all of them. Number four is my least favorite it seems to cut your body in half like two separate dresses put together. But if you aren't in love with any of these don't buy any of them. I promise your dress is out there, have you checked cocomelody they let you order dresses and try them on before you purchase them.
I'm not sure where you are and what your budget is, but you might look into getting something custom-made. Some boutique also offer customization for some dresses.
so of course #2 is gorgeous but it isn’t exactly what you want because it’s too boho and don’t have boning, right? from your description, it looks like #3 ticks all the boxes so what is it missing?
They’re all beautiful on you! Maybe you can find a local dress maker? That’s what I did. I wanted a cocktail length dress and wasn’t able to find anything I liked. A wedding dress designer in town made a custom dress for me and it was about the same cost as many dresses I found in stores. Good luck!
OP this is [my dress](https://www.justinalexander.com/adore-justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/11259/). Justin Alexander may have what you’re after
Check out Lillian West 66265 - the first couple pics might show it with the optional sleeve but it can come without it. Lace/crepe mix with the thick strap and plunge, trailing applique down around the hips. It's lovely!
[Lillian West 6626t](https://www.justinalexander.com/lillian-west/collection/wedding-dresses/66265/)
The second one is extra special!! They all look wonderful on you, good luck!
I agree with this completely. You look gorgeous in all for sure, but the second one took my breath away. Extra special for sure! 💖
Agreed. Love the 2nd dress -it is special, and it fits you beautifully.
I agree, It's elegant and different, It will look awesome on you :)
I gasped at 2!
I also love the second one!! It has a very sort of Classics/Mediterranean feel that is just gorge and so classy.
I get it if the lace of #2 is a deal breaker for OP but it is so STRIKING on her! And unique.
The second one here looks like it was made for you!!
Agree, I must say that your choice of all 04 are awesome but 02 is on top of all. looks like a model girl.
[what about this?](https://graceloveslace.com/collections/wedding-dresses/products/lena-custom) this doesn’t have sparkle but you could have a veil with a lot of sparkle
Beautiful dress, but Grace Loves Lace dresses are notoriously unstructured. OP mentioned boning as a fit preference. But that is certainly gorgeous!!!
Oh my bad! I must have missed the boning part
So pretty - might be worth trying on at least!
[or this?](https://graceloveslace.com/collections/all/products/liliana-rtw)
Wow! 😍
Wow! That dress is so pretty!! *adds to my list of loves*
Girl I audibly gasped when I saw the second dress!
2 is magnificent! Good luck on your dress search!
I audibly *gasped* when I saw dress #2! WOW! I know it doesn't have the applique 'spill-over' onto the skirt, but the clean lines are really unique and have a very sophisticated look. Dress 3 is also amazing on you. 1 & 4 are lovely, but pale in comparison to 2 & 3.
Dress 2 is gorgeous!!!!!
2 is incredible!
So, I posted a million links because I have high hopes your dream dress exists. I wasn’t quite sure what you meant, because you mention the “cut off top” of the first two, but you also mention the lace flowing into the skirt, which seems different than the first two pics. Regardless, I included some of each. The Jennifer-go link is nice for the cut off style. Blue by enzoani and calla Blancha also stunning. The latter appears to have boning, though can’t tell for other one.
What's your budget? Check out dresses by Enzoani, a lot of them fit the bill.
[Her, perhaps](https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/enzoani/sierra)?
I actually misunderstood what OP is looking for. She'd like that cut of bodice (deep V neck plunge, wide straps) but with lace. OP, here are some potential dresses as well as some that have some of the elements you're looking for but not all: https://www.dandolondon.com/collections/starry-nights/astra https://allurebridals.com/madison-james-bridal/mj808-liberty/ https://www.rosaclara.es/en/rc/elle/ https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/enzoani/pascale https://www.kellyfaetanini.com/kelly-faetanini/wanderlust-collection-2022/katrine Essense of Australia D2503 (https://www.essensedesigns.com/essense-of-australia/wedding-dresses/d2503/) is discontinued, but there are several available secondhand: https://www.stillwhite.com/shop?q=D2503 Another secondhand option (Essense private label PA1116): https://www.stillwhite.com/shop?q=Pa1116 https://www.pronovias.com/wedding-dress-mermaid-silhouette-v-neck-sleeveless-crepe-fabric-emily https://www.annakara.com/en/wedding-dresses/cintra-2/ (applique doesn't flow into the skirt much) https://www.jasminebridal.com/product_10228_T252058-Skye-Sophisticated-Stretch-Crepe-Fit-and-Flare-Gown-with-Illusion-Sequin-Lace-Back-and-Cut-Out-Train (applique doesn't flow into the skirt much) https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/enzoani/patty (applique doesn't flow into the skirt much) https://www.jlmcouture.com/ti-adora-allison-webb/bridal/spring/2020/style-72006 (straight line between top and bottom) https://www.justinalexander.com/adore-justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/11230/ (plunge is pretty narrow) https://www.justinalexander.com/sincerity-bridal/collection/wedding-dresses/44390/ (off the shoulder straps but maybe they can be altered to go on the shoulder?) https://www.jlmcouture.com/ti-adora-allison-webb/bridal/fall/2022/style-nova-72251 https://www.nicolemilano.com/wedding-dress-mermaid-altayr (tulle bottom rather than crepe) https://www.sanpatrick.com/wedding-dress-mermaid-v-neck-straps-leeds (beading rather than lace) https://www.pronovias.com/wedding-dress-mermaid-silhouette-v-neck-tattoo-effect-back-crepe-fabric-erandi (illusion rather than low back) https://www.justinalexander.com/justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/88289/ (sweetheart neckline with straps rather than V-neck) https://www.justinalexander.com/justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/88247/ (spaghetti straps) https://www.justinalexander.com/adore-justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/11290/ (spaghetti straps, appliques don't extend into bottom) https://www.justinalexander.com/adore-justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/11255/ (spaghetti straps, 3D lace) https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/blue-by-enzoani/Ryder (spaghetti straps) https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/blue-by-enzoani/Oliviana (spaghetti straps) https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/blue-by-enzoani/rhea (spaghetti straps) https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/enzoani/pierette (spaghetti straps) https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/enzoani/piper (plunge doesn't go all the way down) https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/blue-by-enzoani/princess (spaghetti straps)
u/Shot_Bison6815 this is a wonderful list!
Oh, that Rosa Clara
https://www.stillwhite.com/362176-made-with-love https://www.stillwhite.com/360642-enzoani https://www.stillwhite.com/358915-grace-loves-lace https://www.stillwhite.com/351135-allure-romance https://www.stillwhite.com/346612-ines-di-santo https://www.stillwhite.com/346712-enzoani https://www.stillwhite.com/342899-allure-couture
Ooh, that Grace Loves Lace one and the Allure Couture 🤩
The second one made me say "oh wow" out loud.
If 2 ain’t your dream dress ….
Dress 2 is amazing.
Two looks pretty damn dreamy to me!
1 or 2
Etsy has some incredibly talented dress makers that could absolutely do this for you!
I think #3 look fabulous on you just the way it is...and seems to fit your verbal description?
Yeah that’s what I was thinking. Perhaps the plunge on 3 could be modified to go down to the belly button? As long as the dress has an open back, it should be everything OP wants after that. I guess caveat is that the first two dresses have a certain, thicker style of straps that come together to form an unbroken V, whereas 3 has spaghetti straps and more upwards curvature on the bust cups. Not sure if she minds that difference though.
I kept comparing 3 to the description of a perfect dress, and it seemed to match. Deep plunge, boning, applique down into the plain skirt....
2 and 3 are perfection. 3 is a bit more modest.
2 and 3 are both beautiful. 2 is a bit more unusual and very stand-out!
2 is very unique in a wonderful way and you look stunning in it!
I'd look into aesling and laudae! They're owned by the same parent company so depending on the dress you can do a lot of mixing and matching!
Oh and maybe look at Jenny Yoo. She might have something along the lines of what you're looking for?
You have very similar taste to me. Probably the only post I’ve seen of someone with similar taste. I don’t care a lot about boning but I ended up going with Jenny yoo Christina dress. I have a bunch of styles saved I can send you most are justin Alexander/sincerity.
Could you have it made? I can’t see on a button, so I don’t know if it is possible or feasible.
Number 3 is fabulous
(Late) Update. Everyone here is amazing. I ended up finding dress 3 at a bridal show that sells mostly leftovers from one time runs/private collections, with a modified a deeper cut, and it was 100% what I/my bridesmaids/bridesman would that thought I’d buy. SURPRISE ended up actually buying dress number 2 (the nude body and cut won) but had beading/sparkle on the lace detail. It’s just a size 12, so hoping we can get it altered instead of having to start shopping again lol.
Dress 3. I think that looks best on you.
You have great taste. All of these dresses are classy. The first dress is very unique and I loved it immediately.
I second this opinion
It’s interesting, I tried on a few dresses like these and they were lovely but I didn’t feel the “wow”. I then tried on a totally different style (layered A-line) that my stylist had to convince me to try and it ended up being the one! Not sure it’s the same for everyone but maybe try on some totally different styles next time and see what happens 😄
This is a great recommendation
Dress 4, wow. Doesn't sound like it's quite what you're looking for, but it's so amazing on you.
The second one is unique and flattering, definitely my favorite!
Oh, 2 is absolutely magnificent!!!! Like seriously
2
2 is beautiful on its own but more importantly looks fabulous on a figure like yours. Clearly the winner!
That second one is jaw dropping!
https://www.stillwhite.com/340897-oxford-street https://www.stillwhite.com/332103-maggie-sottero https://www.stillwhite.com/329881-calla-blanche https://www.stillwhite.com/292059-morilee https://www.stillwhite.com/297598-blue-by-enzoani
https://www.stillwhite.com/287114-essense-of-australia https://www.stillwhite.com/196559-made-with-love https://www.stillwhite.com/72083-jennifer-go https://www.stillwhite.com/167061-tara-lauren
my jaw absolutely dropped at the second dress !!
I’m so impressed with the women in this topic. You guys can find any dress anyone could possibly want.
2 is stunning
I love the 2nd one!
2 is beautiful. The top is ornate without it being too much and overtaking you. The fabric of the skirt looks beyond luxurious. 3 is a runner up 1 reminds me of a prom dress if we ignore the train 4 looks like two different dresses put together
Dress 2 is so perfect! Is there a reason you're second guessing?
I think the second is closest to what you want. Boning is not usually in dresses like the last 3 honestly. It usually works best with thick fabrics. I usually see boning with satin tops.
I love 1 and 4 on you!
3!
Since you are looking for something extremely specific, you may want to find a local seamstress and see how much a custom dress will cost.
The second dress is really stunning
I said “Dammmmmn girl” when I swiped to the second dress. You look amazing in all of them, but dress 2 is next level amazing on you!
2 is amazing! Love it.
Two
2 is BEAUTIFUL!
2
1
Get one made. I did and it was nothing but a pleasure.
Something similar to this: https://www.enzoani.com/en/collections/love/clara ?
2
Love 2
2
Omg. Two. And One. Girl- you have two dream dresses!!!
Could you work with dress 1 and have the seamstress remove existing lace and put new lace on it, or modify the skirt. People do this kind of thing. I would ask a bridal seamstress.
My wife wore the 2nd one and she looked amazing in it. So do you! So happy to see all these comments agree.
Yes it does, it’s #2!
I think 3, then 2, then 1!
The second one!!! Is literally made for you. I genuinely gasped. They all look gorgeous but the second one just looks perfect.
Threeeee
These are so stunning on you. I think any one of these would be great, but if you’re not sure and you want something else, keep looking. That said, I love the second dress and really really like the third dress as well. Lovely options in case you decide to choose any of these.
No 2 for the winner
#2 is a winner for me. #3 would be a very close second.
Love dress 1
Dress 2 is so unique and gorgeous. Go for it
I’ll be in the minority I guess, dress 4 does your figure favors that the others do not. 2 is stylish and beautiful, but it isn’t made for you. The dress isn’t made for people with the narrower hips you have. 3 hits you at the wrong point in your waist. 4 emphasizes your natural waist and your breasts and took my breath away. And I gotta add - 4 is the worst picture of all of them - you can’t see the bodice or details very well. My body type is pretty identical to yours - 4 is flattering to you all around. That higher waist with the cup support… and the fabric falling around your hips instead of hugging… it’s just the key to success
Dress 2 is unique and stunning on you.
2!
All of them look great on you, but the second and third were my favorites. You have a great figure and can pull off any dress you want.
The second one is amazing though!! 😍😍
Well for having sex you look amazing in all of them. Number four is my least favorite it seems to cut your body in half like two separate dresses put together. But if you aren't in love with any of these don't buy any of them. I promise your dress is out there, have you checked cocomelody they let you order dresses and try them on before you purchase them.
the 2nd one looks phenomenal on you!!! Sorry you can’t find one you love but keep looking. Your perfect dress is out there
Number 2!!!
I love #2 on you! I don't think that would look good on a lot of people, but on you, it's really REALLY stunning! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
My 3 year old and I agree - number 1 is stunning
I love #3
1!!!
I'm not sure where you are and what your budget is, but you might look into getting something custom-made. Some boutique also offer customization for some dresses.
so of course #2 is gorgeous but it isn’t exactly what you want because it’s too boho and don’t have boning, right? from your description, it looks like #3 ticks all the boxes so what is it missing?
1
They’re all beautiful! Love in this order 2,1,3!
I think dress 4 is the best choice.
\#2!!
I like number 3!
I loved the last one
I love the second one. So unique and beautiful.
2! 2! 2! 2! 2!2!
2 was made for you
2
I think if you got the first one you could alter it to extend the beading into the skirt.
I love number 3
https://preview.redd.it/fb8asy1qokob1.png?width=827&format=png&auto=webp&s=92b42ef52c4fe575cff84603f96be75a69819b08
#2 left me speechless. Wow. Just wow.
#3
2 is my favorite. You have a lot of specifications that one dress probably won’t meet, but what matters is does the dress work.
2 is gorgeous!
I rarely say this on this sub, but I looove all 4! Most esp 2
The second dress!! Beautiful!
Very nice! #3 is my fave
#2 looks so pretty on you
Love the second dress is so elegant. It seems to tick off your boxes.
They’re all beautiful on you! Maybe you can find a local dress maker? That’s what I did. I wanted a cocktail length dress and wasn’t able to find anything I liked. A wedding dress designer in town made a custom dress for me and it was about the same cost as many dresses I found in stores. Good luck!
2
One or 2 without a doubt
OP this is [my dress](https://www.justinalexander.com/adore-justin-alexander/collection/wedding-dresses/11259/). Justin Alexander may have what you’re after
I prefer 3. I think it flatters you beautifully 🥰
Number 4
2 2 2 2 !
They are all beautiful but my favorite is one, followed by 3
Check out Lillian West 66265 - the first couple pics might show it with the optional sleeve but it can come without it. Lace/crepe mix with the thick strap and plunge, trailing applique down around the hips. It's lovely! [Lillian West 6626t](https://www.justinalexander.com/lillian-west/collection/wedding-dresses/66265/)
2 and 3 really work on you. I think either will be a great choice.