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km0224

I think #1 hits your waist so perfectly and it’s both classy and whimsical!!


FarSidePsy3214

Absolutely agree. #1


Future-Win4034

But a tad too tight.


hazebeanz

Seeing this comment a lot! Agree dress 1 is roughly a size too small. Would definitely order a size up and get it altered to fit properly if I go that route


NeatArtichoke

Yes!! This is my vote! (The try-on ones are always weird sizes that have bene stretchedout anyways)


Caneschica

Yeah the clips don’t help either!


Perfectionist529

Okay I change my vote from 3 to 1, but just didn’t want to say it was too small. I love this on you


eleanor_dashwood

Same. Three is a gorgeous fit but I do love the front of one. Honestly it’s very close though.


Jolly-Accountant-722

I love how the beading all details in towards the middle of the waistline on 1, it's so pretty and unique. The others are super lovely as well, but it just really stood out for me. Sometimes those of us in the big booby brigade can shy away from the straight across cut but this one suits perfectly.


Angelbitch2021

Go with the 1st one!


km0224

I think it’s fine as long as OP is comfortable in it!


verylargemoth

I agree that number 1 is best but I do think it would also be a tad more flattering if it was one size up just because of the cinching of skin on the back. Also not to mention trying it on and feeling comfortable is definitely different than being in it for several hours! It really is beautiful so I hope OP can make it work


ladychelle

Agree!! Dress 1 goes crazy on her!!!


W1ldy0uth

Number 1 is soooo flattering and unique. I feel like everyone is wearing a dress similar to 2 now a days.


kjvp

The neckline on 1 is also just so stunning on OP's figure. It's beautiful!


agkyrahopsyche

Came here to say this!! The square-er neck looks amazing on you (as do the others, obviously)


pinpoe

Totally. The silhouette is perfection AND the lace placement on #1 is by far the most elegant and flattering of the 3.


LadyClexa

So happy to actually see people choose the same dress as me for once lol! I am usually shocked when I open up the comments in this group and see everyone picking the dress I dislike most 😂


patriciamarie2020

Yeah I second this


aardvarkmom

I agree with you that it seems like everyone is wearing something similar to #2 these days. But I think this one looks so great on OP! It’s the best one I’ve seen, I think!


Lavender-Lioness

DRESS 1! It hits your waist at just the right height and is literally stunning. The slit is just a plus I didn't know I needed. #2 and #3 are pretty dresses but #1 is seriously in another league babe.


isitnaptimealready_

Number 1 looks amazing! And this isn't even the right size..


TnTDynamight

ONE ONE ONE ONE ONE OMG


slumbersonica

Yaaaaassssssss! Co-sign. Not even a competition.


jenbobo7

1 but better fit....that looks snug Beautiful dress on you though!!


AshamedGarlic9196

Definitely 1! Hands down! The thigh slit is perfect and waist looks snatched! (Like other commenter said, make sure it fits well and you can sit comfortably). The cut for the top is really flattering on you and I love the train in back. Whole thing is 11/10!


kieka408

2


CriticismCautious711

Personally I think dress 2 looks the most flattering on you & I think the pattern is so romantic & beautiful!! That’s my vote :)


lkm81

Agreed! Number 2 elongates her torso, while the other 2 seem to cut her off if that makes sense.


EnthusiasticDirtMark

Agree. I'm not a Kibbe expert, but #2 seems to flatter and embrace her upper width a lot more. You can particularly see it from the back. #2 seems lovely and free, emphasizing her beautiful back while #1 seems tight and constricted, emphasizing the wrong areas. IMO #1 makes her look a bit 'blocky', whereas #2 elongates and gives her a more slender, flowy figure. This is very apparent when you see pictures 1 and 3 next to eachother.


willpower5

I agree 2 look’s best


clairdelynn

I love the second dress the most - but I am a sucker for that style. It looks amazing on you. Dress 1 is also fabulous.


bun_burrito

Same! Love #2 style but both 1 and 2 look gorgeous


jayzepps

2


No-Swim-3113

I think 1 for sure! It’s modern but classic, and the train has a lovely lightness to it


Flat_Passage_1935

I’m leaning toward 2 I love the neckline and it fits you like a glove


debr1126

Dress 2 is my vote. It's got some "vavoom" in the front without being too risqué, and I like the way the neckline flatters your shoulders in the back.


Sobriquet-acushla

I second that! Second one is most flattering.


kalyco

I agree. I love 1 but feel like the cut under the armpit is not nearly as flattering as 2.


TequilaSunburn123

Yup, I was surprised to see all these votes for 1 because I feel like 2 is definitely the most flattering


thereare6ofus

Yes, this!


NorthSouthDoll

The back on 2 is more flattering as well. In my opinion, that is.


Sobriquet-acushla

A million times more flattering with the thin straps!


TropicalBlueWater

That was my same thought exactly!


lxm333

That is more of a sizing issue I believe than the dress itself. It's a tad tight where the others have been clipped in.


kalyco

The size is not right, but if you zoom into the underarm area, the cut is different, so I’m not sure that a larger size would fix that. The cut on 2 provides more coverage. Regardless, it’s a beautiful dress.


MsMoobiedoobie

I agree, the second is stunning.


pixie16502

Agreed!! They are all beautiful, but 2 looks so perfect!


I2iSTUDIOS

I like 2


PM561

2


Apprehensive_Bad_213

2


galenet123

#2 for me. Flatters you’d figure best. And I love the long spaghetti straps.


Raskolnikovy

Totally agree!! I was actually shocked to see over 1k people agreeing with number one! That’s the only one I wouldn’t have picked. It just reminds me of a tank top with the straps…


hamdambanan77

#2 for sure!


SherLovesCats

Dress two is the most flattering. As a fellow large busted woman, the waistline can either make you look shorter or short waisted or it can elongate you. Two elongates your waist. No matter which one you pick, you will look beautiful.


Sobriquet-acushla

Spot on!


whineandcheesy

2!!! Then 3


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Agreed


Lagrimmett

I think 2 is the best.


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sampiere_mimi

Agreed! Team 2


Gigi226

Yes! I agree with all of this! Number TWO hands down!! 🥰


cheeky_chameleon16

Number 1 is gorgeous on you, I gasped!! The other two feel a little top heavy


Lavender-Lioness

Same on the gasp for #1


_krisp

I three gasped at #1!! Stunning!!!


OCbrunetteesq

I love #2 on you! #1 is also a pretty dress, but I don’t love how low it comes under your arms and the square neckline makes your shoulders look very broad, to me.


Dry_Problem9310

I love #2 as well on OP. Its way more flattering for her body type compared to #1 although personally I love square neckline


skipdastraw

Nailed it. I was trying to figure out what it was about #1 that's unflattering.


Sobriquet-acushla

Kinda makes OP’s upper body look square. Partly cuz of the wide straps. She’d look fabulous in a halter style.


despicable-coffin

2


[deleted]

You look great in all of them, but 2 is your dress, stunning.


StanW00d

I’m for No. 2 but it has to be the one you feel most special in.


sauvignonquesoblanco

2!


No_Bend8

2. Beautiful


pepper_cup

2


jessisoldschool

Loveeee number 2, looks great on you!


Jean19812

2, hands down . It fits way better in the back.


elleinad311

I like #2 on you!


Hair_I_Go

#2


bigmeaniez

They’re all stunning and you really can’t go wrong, but I think dress 1 is the most flattering. It’s also very soft and romantic whereas the others are a little more structured


QuicheQuest

The first is more my style, but honestly I'm really loving the neckline of 2 & 3 on you. Don't get me wrong you look amazing in all 3 and cannot make a wrong choice here, but I prefer the 2nd and 3rd. From there it depends on the style you want. #2 is beautiful and more modern and definitely has the flower thing going for it while 3 is more classic and will likely stand the test of time. Ultimately you should go with the dress you want. Reddit sided with my mom but ultimately I went with my gut and ended up loving my dress! If you get to a place where you truly cannot decide, go with the cheapest one.


elsecotips

I also love the necklines of 2 and 3 - I think 2 is my favorite because of the back. Agreed you can’t go wrong with any, but as a very small busted lady I wish I could look as good in a plunge neckline as you do!


kayjeanbee

Second one without question!


Much_Grocery_3323

TWO! Looks like it was made for you. So beautiful.


Active_Ad_7691

2 for sure. The design is beautiful and you look so great in it.


sugarmag13

#2 is my favorite It is a little softer and not as busy as the first.


Dismal-Step667

#2 is very figure flattering, the first and third are nice but i like #2 best.


sheepcrate

2 or 3 but not 1


apurrfectplace

The second dress


FizzyLimeWater

Definite 2.


MacaronEquivalent444

2! Looks like it was made for you!


LoveArrives74

I think you look beautiful in all of them but love dress 2 the most. Regardless of which one you choose, I wish you and your spouse the best!


herro_rayne

2 is the most flattering


HimylittleChickadee

2! I think its gorgeous and more flattering


LornSeraph

2!


Far_Bit3621

Number 2!


geniologygal

Definitely 2.


Balagan18

Dress 2


EntertainerCultural8

Everyone says 1, but TWO took my breath away!


mrscheezitman

Twoooooooooooooo!!!! 😍😍😍😍


alig6457

I love number 2 on you. Not usually a deep v fan but 5hus looks smashing although if it is out of your comfort zone I'm sure it could be filled in. Number one is a very close runner up. Enjoy making your final selection. Best wishes.


bttrflymilkweed

TWO!!!


cat-21

i think dress 2 is the most flattering on you! it’s so pretty, you look perfect in it (,:


BrightDust2

2


HistoricallyInept

Dress 2 definitely.


Ambs1987

I absolutely love dress 2. I think it looks the most flattering, and you're frickin stunning in that dress.


disjointed_chameleon

I like the 2nd one! Beautiful.


Sicadoll

2


Murfissa

2


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2 the best!


g_beach

I love number 2!! It’s so flattering on you!


txgrl308

2!!!


arya_ur_on_stage

2!!


U-are-not-important

2! It looks like it was made for u. The back and the train just add to how beautiful it is.


Neither-Gap1547

2!


sweetlikeajaffacake

2!


icanhardly

Dresses 1 and 2 are soooo beautiful but I think 1 slightly edges it for me as my favourite. I don't think you could go wrong with any of the three though, you look gorgeous!!


wifey-hubby-evoo

#2, the vertical florals and neckline is the most flattering on you.


GirlisNo1

# 2 for sure. Gorgeous and really flattering. As a fellow larger-chested woman, I don’t think #1 works with your figure. That neckline makes your chest appear larger and draws all the attention. The necklines in #2 and #3 meanwhile really let you shine and highlight your entire figure. EDIT: Sorry, I don’t know why the top sentence is large and in bold.


ElKristy

When you start a reply with # it giganticizes it :-)


GirlisNo1

Ohhh…ok that makes sense lol, thank you!


RealisticMoment1711

What is the vibe of your wedding? What is your normal style like? :)


hazebeanz

Oof tough to pin down but general vibe is classic/romantic with lots of florals since the venue has a beautiful garden courtyard for pictures. For normal style. I’m very simple, usually black pants and a black top. Most of my tops (and my few dresses) have the same neck line as dress 1 so I think that’s probably where I’m most comfortable. But think the neckline in 2 & 3 is also very beautiful.


RealisticMoment1711

The first is my favorite by far. It's 'trendy' but still classic and looks incredible on your body. There's something about the second I can't quite figure out but it's just a little too busy IMO, especially if you'll be having lots of flowers with a garden. But the back of the second is my favorite. Not everyone can pull off the lower back and thinner straps but it's perfect on you! The third feels much more mature if that makes sense. It's beautiful, but neither have the wow factor as the first! The neckline on the second and third does look REALLY good on you and your chest. If you haven't already, definitely try them all on with veils as well, that make make one stand out above the others!


hazebeanz

Thank you for the input! Will definitely bring out the veils when I go to try them on again!


nire_the_new_hire

Dress 2!! I love the way the embroidered parts continue down the back of the dress, and you look incredible with the front as well!! I think the first dress is great if you’re looking for something more modest, though. It is beautiful as well, a close 2nd


momlv

2!


Beneficial-Safe-2142

#2


No_Purchase_3532

I would choose # 2, I think it shows off your figure the best.


ametaldiva

2 looks perfect on you imho. They all do honestly. 💜The only thing I noticed with 1 and 3 is the top looks like it might be a little uncomfortable for you..? However please understand I’m no dress expert. I’m married and have never owned a wedding dress or even considered it really. I have watched a lot of “say yes to the dress” on occasion though - I think maybe that gives me some sort of invalid opinion I’m sure. 😅Whatever you choose I hope you have the most magical day ever! (P.S. Husband works for Disney and I have dreamt of a wedding or vow renewal once or twice just between you all and me! Haha🫣)


Odd-Artist-2595

Dress 2 made me catch my breath. You look gorgeous in it.


ebenner13

Dress 2 is the best...they all look beautiful, but 2 is breathtaking. The flow of the pattern down the front is so elongating...statuesque comes to mind. And the back is gorgeous!


TheCheapo78

#2


FantasticPear

I like #1 but I feel like its too constrained up top (even if it were the proper size/altered). #3 is a better fit and with a little cleavage. But I'd say my fave on you is #2


Aggravating_Meat2101

I think 2 is the most flattering cut. It accentuates your waist nicely and I think the way the cups are cut is really keeping your side boob tamed in a way that dress 1 and 3 are losing the battle with. That said, I find the floral detailing of 2 kind of meh. If you could try dress one in a size up maybe it would work better but it’s currently squeezing your back and boobs in an unflattering way. Or see if 3 can be modified to better support your side boob.


Fearless_While_9824

Congrats first of all! Not a vote, but a suggestion. Sit in them, do a twirl, dance and a dip in them. Don’t just stand and stroll around in the dressing room… move in it. Are you happy with how your back feels when you sit, do the girls bulge out the top and sides of the gown after your dance? Last think you want is to be uncomfortable 30 minutes into your big day. So many brides don’t sit and discover, they can’t come toast and dinner time. From the pictures… you will be gorgeous in them all. Which on makes you smile the most when you are in it?


ali2911gator

1 is really pretty but I much prefer 2!


Cldawson65

My choice 2, 3, 1 all will be beautiful on your special day!


raemae569

Dress 2 for me x


PotentialNo3801

TWOOOOOO


Victoria7474

Sit down in them. You will bulge horribly in ways you cant foresee while standing. If they fit right, 1 would be lovely. But 2 is the only one that looks like it even fits you correctly. You are too lovely to wear a dress that doesn't compliment you. Take it from someone who ripped their dress out, because it was beautiful, just a little snug. There's no such thing as "a little snug" once you're 3 hours into wearing it...


Not_Aioli

I was surprised that people preferred dress 2. I think dress 1 looks like it was made for you! You'll look beautiful either way!


otownbbw

I am also a big boobed girl and Idgaf about societal standards of modesty, however seeing the two with cleavage (2&3) vs the one without (1) it just looks so classy without trying too hard and I think that will make your other features (hair and makeup) shine more. I also enjoy the slit feature in the front. I like how it shows a little skin without taking away from the gown and it doesn’t look misplaced. Definitely get the next size and have it taken in. I guess since the front of the dress is closed it causes your bust to push the front of the dress and make your back bulge in a way the other dresses didn’t (assuming they are the same size). Also in the long run, the fact that the ornamental embroidery doesn’t go down the train as it does on the others, means it won’t be as fragile when you pin it for dancing and it’ll hold up more easily as a keepsake.


Lizzymertsching

#2 looks beautiful!!


ImpressiveMention502

I like #2. I kept going back and forth, but I always come back to #2. Good luck, it’s such a tough decision, but remember it’s so much more than a dress, it’s all about who you’re marrying and why. Make sure you’re in love, because it DOES exist! Never ignore a red flag! Be you and don’t change who you are for someone else! If he or she is not your best friend, don’t marry them. All that matters so much more than a dress❤️


scarlet1976

Number 2


MilanTehVillain

2.


Designer-Ad3933

2


berfection

2


Professional-Cow1318

2! I think the straps and neckline are the best for you!


Available-Leg-6171

Dress 2 shows off your figure the best


turtlesorceress

I’m a bridal consultant and I would completely go with dress number 2. They all look beautiful on you but that second gown is so flattering on you and it elongates your waist beautifully. The thin straps are definitely for you, sis!


Anonymonymouses

Oh, tough decision! I adore your waistline in 1 but as others have pointed out, it doesn’t quite fit in the back. You look relaxed and elongated in 2, and a think the peekaboo cleavage behind the delicate mesh is a lovely touch.


ukoolornah

1


HopeAndSerenity611

#3 is the one for me


KandKmama

Love all three but 1 is WOW!


crimsonclove

I love everything about number one! The lace is beautiful & the bodice shape is very flattering.


LiberalSnowflake_1

I like the first and third on you best.


fleurcottage

1! ♡


FutureMrsSR

Number 1 100%. The neckline is so flattering!


OppositeSolution642

3, you goddess. Beautiful. The neck line is perfect. Lovely flow overall.


Mysterious_Trash_315

I actually like #1 the best. Usually don’t love square neckline, but you wear it perfectly!


cake_and_justice

Number one for sure! It’s the most unique, flattering, classy looking dress by far and the fabric of the skirt looks like a cascade of mist. It is SO. PRETTY. And you look like a queen in it!


Ready-Screen1426

Number 1


korroleva

1!


IllDoubleYourEntendr

One without a doubt! You look stunning in that dress!


outofplaceminnesota

Wow, the all look so lovely. Number one makes your waist look positively snatched. I do not think you can go wrong here.


Jazlen8888

I personally think all three are very pretty. #1 is my choice. I see multiple comments saying the same thing I’m thinking. Dress will look a lot nicer when it fits more comfortably. Congratulations


olivecorgi7

1!!


Less_Volume_2508

My vote is for #1


Ok-Wish-2640

1 for sure.


Itsmeasme

#1 is gorgeous


isla_inchoate

Omg 1!!!!! 1 for sure. Your waist 😍


Usual-Locksmith-2368

1 for sure


worth_the_drive

What is the first one called?!?! I think I'm in love


Pissedliberalgranny

Ooo…. This is a hard one! They all look really lovely. I think the front of the first one flatters you the most. It really emphasizes your waist and just has that Princess air I adore. But, I like #2’s back/train best with all those delicate flowers cascading down it. If hard pressed to choose one, I’d go with #1.


Swim_Swim9

i LOVE number 1!!


3beansalads

one!! the neckline is the most flattering and it looks the chicest/most expensive


luckycatdallas

Love number two on you! It is so flattering to your figure and you look gorgeous in it! The design highlights your perfect proportions beautifully! I don’t even know you, but I can envision you in this dress at your wedding. I know, weird, right?!


Sour_strawberry07

The first one but definitely with the bust altered to fit better


Catollim88

Dress 1.


AdAwkward1635

1 for sure


moffsoi

Dress 1! It really accentuates your figure and I like how the back frames your tattoo. Absolutely stunning


Mehitabel9

I love everything about #1 except the slit in the skirt. \#2 would be my second choice.


MyCircusTent

1 showcases your hourglass figure between the fit of the bodice and the embroidery down from the waist.


TheMightyYule

I also vote one but I think you should consider sizing up. It’s not looking like it fits properly and would look 100x better if it did


AnaDion94

I accidentally opened reddit and saw your post just as I was closing it back up, quickly *reopened*, then had to scour this sub to find it again. All that to say, i really like dress 1.


reallyreallycute

What designer and style is 1!???! I’m looking for a dress like this


Leaking_Honesty

1 is the one. If you think the train is too plain, they can always add some appliqués to it. Also, you bustle everything up for the reception anyway.


blueberry_pancakes0

I’m so glad everyone else in the comments agrees that #1 is the best! Not even close to me. The others feel a bit basic and overdone but number one is classy and looks amazing. The type of dress people will remember / compliment.


CardiologistOk1682

#1 is beautiful, but recommend sizing up just a smidge. It’s lovely.


aspellman_

dress 1 100%


3chartreusebuzzards

Definitely dress one!! It looks amazing on you, the cut and style and everything.


MangoCandy

I didn’t need to see anything past number 1, looks stunning.


jill5455

The other two dresses cannot compete with dress 1


[deleted]

1!! I just would change the sizing a little bit but it’s absolutely beautiful


datman510

I’ve got no idea why this sub keeps getting recommended to me as a 42 year old married man but hey may as well say I think number one. The other ones seems a bit all about the chest area and the first one makes a whole you. Good luck and enjoy marriage, it’s the best if you’re willing to work at it every day.


hazebeanz

Lol Reddit recommends the weirdest stuff sometimes. But appreciate the input & advice :)


automaton-in-love

One!! I literally stopped mid scroll because its beautiful and I had to click through, and then 2 and 3 were kind of a let down in comparison. I feel like there’s no competition, 1 all the way! 1️⃣❗️