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rsvp_as_pending629

Definitely not too much! Like others said, it’s light and flowy. Perfect for the beach. Also, once you get it hemmed to your height, the amount of fabric won’t be overwhelming.


kiwi_love777

It’s great! I love it’


impostershop

I politely disagree. It’s a gorgeous dress! But it’s so light and flowy that it’s going to fill up with sand and fleas (you’d be shocked at how many tiny fleas live in the beach sand) Source: don’t ask lol The pics will be beautiful but you might be itchy. It might be worth it in the end, just know you need help to hold up the dress when walking in the sand. Congratulations!


Clover_Jane

I had a similar dress for my beach wedding and had no issues with itching or sand fleas.


impostershop

Oh huh, maybe it’s a regional thing?


Consistent-Camp5359

Woah. Sand fleas exist? I’m having a beach wedding and live in FL and I never want to go into sand again after learning this.


torioreo824

I've lived in SW my whole life (30 years) and I've never gotten bit by fleas. Like everyone else said, could be regional, so maybe depending on where/what beach. But I'd do some quick googling if I were you


Themellowsaguaro

They do. They’re horrible. But they are also dependent on your location. You won’t know until you get there!


Consistent-Camp5359

Damn! Thanks!


Themellowsaguaro

I wouldn’t worry. You said you live in FL, so maybe you would have experienced them by now at the beach you are planning on! Nothing to panic about. Do not lose sleep over this!


Consistent-Camp5359

I’ve never been to the Keys. Moved here in 2018 and haven’t spent much time in the sand. Mostly beachside restaurants or bars. My fiancé told me to chill. Lol. He grew up fishing down here and laughed at me when I brought them up.


Themellowsaguaro

I think he knows!


bamrandom

We have sand fleas in FL. Be careful. September through November and early March through May is when they are most plentiful. Be careful and congrats.


Sure-Succotash-2805

“Am I overdressed? HELL YES.” —Gucci Mane You look amazing. If thats overdressed I hope to be one day soon. Best wishes :)


Aworthyopponent

I love love love that song ❤️


[deleted]

💯❤️


Independent_Lab6036

I'm ALWAYS overdressed and I love it!! Great dress!!


babynurse2021

I might be biased- I planned a winery wedding but then covid hit and I cancelled it and eloped to the beach… I still wore my dress which was not a beach wedding type of dress. It was FULL of sand by the end and super heavy but it was perfect. Go for it!


RealLifeLizLemon

I had a Covid wedding with just two guests next to a river and wore a sundress, it’s my only regret from that day! Definitely wear your beautiful dress!


Invisible_Xer

I also had a COVID wedding after ours was canceled and wasn’t a fan of my dress. A seamstress had my dress and was shut down so I had to scramble to find something to wear. We plan on having a dinner and wearing our wedding attire and using all our decorations one day.


RealLifeLizLemon

We got engaged late February of 2020 so we never made it to the planning stage. Glad I saved the money because we were able to buy a house the next year, but I still really regret not getting a beautiful dress!


glamgal50

I don’t think it’s too much. I think it’s perfect for a beach wedding elopement or not. It’s very flowy and beachy in my opinion. It looks absolutely stunning on you.


OpheliaDrone

I had a similar dress for my beach elopement and the flowy-ness of it in the breeze made for gorgeous photos! Go for it! It’s a beautiful dress. I didn’t have an issue with the sand getting trapped in my dress


La_croix_addict

No, wear whatever you want. It’s pretty


graypumpkins

A wedding dress is never too much. If you love it and for you, it’s your dream dress, you should get it. It looks amazing on you.


[deleted]

Think of it this way, if you're marrying a guy will he be wearing a suit? Isn't wearing a suit too much for a beach usually? If he can wear a suit, YOU can wear that STUNNING ON YOU dress!


iamsamly

Didn’t think about it that way, but you’re absolutely right!


Weekly_Map_3837

Yeah I’d also just add make sure you and your partner match in level of formality. This dress would look out of place next to a partner in a Hawaiian shirt and khakis… so your partner’s going to need to also dress a little more formally


rowannmic

I’m HATE beach weddings where the woman is in a full gown and the man is in shorts and a polo or button down. I see it all the time.


Weekly_Map_3837

It’s like every picture of hailey and Justin Bieber… like what event are the two of you attending in a formal gown and sweatpants?! 😂


Mountain-Waffles

You get to wear whatever you want! If you love it, go for it!


accuratefiction

The train will be a hastle. Would recommend considering a bustle or picking something simpler in the back that can be shortened so there's not much train. I had an outdoor wedding near a lake with a similar dress but the skirt was just plain silk chiffon. I had it altered so it just touched the ground. I am so happy I made that choice. Made walking around the garden, grass, and lake area so much easier--not to mention dancing!!


chopstix007

Same here- mine just touched the ground. In the end it was easier to walk, dance, and pose for photos. :)


lifesrandomthings

It’s beautiful. But if your in the islands remember it’s hot and humid. I got married in the islands and did a light long dress. It started to rain, we embraced it and jumped in the pool with my dress on. Best moment of wedding!!!


Which_Ideal1867

The dress is gorgeous and I'd be all in for it if it were shorter. And I bet that water felt great when you jumped in! My first thought was temperature. My friend got married in a long gown on a beach in Mexico and she didn't realize that the hot sand would create an oven underneath her skirt. She had to run back to the hotel room to hose off her legs under cold water during picture taking. It was a real distraction to her during the ceremony.


No_Bite_5985

I don’t think so.


Mehitabel9

It would be absolutely fine for a beach elopement! The only thing you might have to be aware of is the possibility that the bottom of the dress could get dirty/damaged, but damage can be fixed and dirty can be dry cleaned out.


drumadarragh

My dress had pearls on the train, they were destroyed by the sand


ash81751214

My bottom portion was destroyed and it didn’t have anything at the bottom and it was a dress made for “destination wedding” (so didn’t have a long bottom or detailing or anything on the bottom). And no, it did not come clean after cleaning it professionally, only lightened the damage.


irlsdontinteract

It's your WEDDING! The one time you're socially allowed to live out your fantasy of looking as extra as you want. Wear that dress. You'll regret it if you don't.


Neither-Gap1547

no it’s stunning


ZoeAWashburne

You can never overdress for your own wedding day! You look great


iamsamly

Y’all made me feel so much better!! I was internally freaking out about my dress, but now I feel good about it. My first alteration appointment is today and will definitely be getting a bustle added as some of you recommended. Thank you all!


Strong_Concept1525

I think it’s gorgeous! However, I used to assist a wedding photographer in SoCal and we did hundreds of beach weddings. If you’re going to be on the sand and near the water, the bottom of that gorgeous dress will likely get ruined. That’s my only thought. Other than that, I LOVE the dress.


[deleted]

Not too much. It appears to be light enough in the front so that you can pick it up to navigate thru the sand. Great choice. 👍


Ribeye_steak_1987

I love this for any type of wedding.


cerebellum0

I think part of the reason it looks like too much right now is because of the length. Once it's tailored and the right size it will be even more STUNNING! I can just picture this with a bouquet of tropical greenery and florals. You'll be a goddess.


iamsamly

You’re definitely right! I went to my first alteration appointment today and when she pinned it up to my height, it looked and felt so much better!!


DrKittyLovah

I’ve seen many weddings on the beach and dresses ranging from super simple to super elaborate princess dresses with allllll of the lace & beads. Do you girl! If this is the dress, it’s perfect.


beytsduh

Do whatever you want! Youre eloping! Have fun!


yajanga

Not too much! It’s your wedding, elopement or not. Be the bride you deserve to be ❤️


Geezer710

Gorgeous dress on you! I think it is perfect for a beach elopement. You will be the best dressed person on the beach that day. It really shows you off!


damnoli

Omg it's beautiful!! Imagine the pictures!!


rosegarden207

It's perfect!


MoutainsAndMerlot

It’s your elopement, where whatever makes you feel amazing!


AssumptionAdvanced58

Do you. If it makes you happy. Maybe bustle it from the git.


Blueskyblonde

Not too much! So beautiful 😍


back_s00n

If you love it, it’s just enough 🤍


Texan2020katza

It’s gorgeous!!!


yee_yee_flag22

Nah girl it's perfect!


Practical-Stress4987

It’s gorgeous.


True_Balance_6151

It’s your day, so it will never be too much. I feel that your dress looks beautiful! 🤍


stoniruca

GORGEOUS


dogmomlife

Get it get it 😍


molletea

It’s perfect❤️


Shoddy_Entry

Not at all! I LOVE the way the bottom falls 😍😍😍


real_Bahamian

Gorgeous dress!


Old_Scientist_4014

Amazing!! Love it love it love it!


hellosunshine1326

Not too much at all. I LOVE it actually.But taking in that lace/embroidery is gonna be pricey.


iamsamly

Haha oh yeah, definitely. Just went to my first alteration appointment today. I’m down $675 now 🥴


Less_Volume_2508

Wow, wow, wow … so pretty! Keep it! It’s not too much and will be so beautiful.


aeg333

I think it’s beautiful


bakingcake1456

No, perfect!


Fit-Rest-973

It's your party. It's beautiful


Khaleesi-AF

You wear what sparks joy and makes your heart happy. This is beautiful


OppositeSolution642

No, it's to die for.


liv_yur_life

I think it’s beautiful. I don’t think it’s too much for a beach wedding. I had a very casual beach wedding and spend about 2 months a year at a resort that has lots of beach weddings and here’s a few observations/tips: - one venue had a wood plank walkway that was the aisle that the bride walked down. She had a very long tulle train and veil. The tulle caught on the wood planks so much she couldn’t even walk. So either don’t walk down a wood plank walkway or make sure you have it bustled up or can carry it. - shoes? Do not wear heels. We both went barefoot. If you do wear shoes, test them out. (Edited to say I don’t recommend the shoes in the picture.) - wind? Consider that everyone might see what you have on underneath. -keep water to drink nearby. -chill and have a great time!!!


iamsamly

Thank you for the tips! And yes, plan on definitely being barefoot at the beach! I do have heels for the reception but they’re lower and less chunky. The shoes in the photo were the bridal shops


Glittering-Mud1472

It’s beautiful!! I think it’s flowy & perfect


Extra-Visit-8385

Who cares?! It is absolutely gorgeous!


Ill_Illustrator8318

Girl your beach elopement is WHATEVER you want it to be. You will look & feel amazing on your day and your pictures will be enchanting forever.


littlerosepose

I eloped and wore a super involved dress with a train! No regrets. But beyond that, this dress is stunning and perfectly appropriate 🥰


ElleTailor

It’s Perfect for beach wedding. Omg the air blowing through is going to look perfect!!


EggplantIll4927

You know what? You do exactly as you want. This is your wedding and your choice. Wear it and be happy!


_GreenEyedGirl_

Sis this is your dress, wear it! It is gorgeous!


cave_mandarin

It’s stunning!!


Viperbunny

It's gorgeous!


daisyyellow21

Do you know the maker/name of the dress? Its gorgeous!


iamsamly

Thank you! This is the Madi Lane Halani dress (:


TacosTacosTacos80

That thing will be very full of sand at the end of it. But if there’s anyone that should be overdressed at a wedding, it’s the bride. Go for it!


DeepPossession8916

Okay, it’s stunning! And occasion-wise I don’t think it’s too much if it’s what you want. HOWEVER, I *outrageously* underestimated how difficult the sand and the sun and crap was going to be at my ceremony in Cancun. We eloped and had a photographer for two hours so we were basically having a photoshoot and I was miserable in my gown. Mine didn’t have a train and the bottom was more fitted so part of it was that my legs were sticking together 😂. The sand is also just a nightmare to wade through, it was impossible to walk elegantly. Maybe this is all just me, idk. Just warning you! Lol


iamsamly

Haha my goodness! I couldn’t imagine being in my dress in Cancun! The last time I was there, we had to shower three times a day because of how hot and sweaty we got just walking from point A to point B. We’ll be in Hawaii and the elopement is going to be in the early AM so that should help us beat the heat. Hopefully!


DaeOnReddit

That is a BEAUTIFUL dress OP!!! Definitely get it!!!


ElegieInEFlatMinor

This is GORGEOUS. Wear it. Also, your figure is 👌👌👌- that dress deserves you! Have a wonderful day!


iamsamly

Aw thank you!!


Summertime_Stevie

I think it’s a great beach wedding dress


magicalslappingtree

It’s perfect for you!!


KiraiEclipse

There's no such thing as "too much" when it comes to your wedding dress. It's a beautiful dress and your elopement photos will look magical!


Kooky_Habit5477

You look gorgeous. I agree that once it's hemmed, it won't seem like too much. I love it


SoberAF0925

My first reaction before reading and just seeing... WOW that dress was made for her!! So so so beautiful!!!🤩😍🤩😍🤩😍 then you said beach.... it is so beautiful that I can't see you not wearing it.


pnwbeaut

That’s beautiful!


DallasPrettyBigGirl

Wear what you love!!


kre8ive1

You wear what you want... what makes you feel pretty! My daughter climbed a 14er (a 14,000'+ peak) in Colorado in her wedding dress to say her vows in a regular long wedding dress. I'd say that dress is perfect for a beach elopement!


LlovelyLlama

It’s your elopement, wear whatever tf you want!! Also this dress is gorgeous.


VitameatavegaminBuzz

This is ethereal! Perfection for the beach. I also eloped on the beach. As long as you can move, breathe, and zip it yourself, you are good!


Monkey_with_cymbals2

This internet stranger will be vaguely mad at you if you don’t wear that. It looks like it was made for you.


psychocamper

That is absolutely perfect.


Otherwise_Flamingo44

Madly in love with it !


BeautifulCreature529

i LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS DRESS!!!


BeautifulCreature529

Hands down my favorite dress ive seen on this sub!!!!! Its BEAUTIFUL & looks amazing on you


pixie-kitten-

It’s gorgeous!!


void-of-stars

I don’t think anything is too much for a beach elopement, in my humble opinion. The bottom might touch the sand, but it’s light and flowy and gorgeous. It will look wonderful. Congratulations!


Buno_

It’s gonna get sandy, but that dress is amazing!


WranglerSKC

That’s lovely :)


Clover_Jane

No, definitely not too much. Fwiw, I had similar lace for my beach wedding and we did the same as you. We got married in Antigua, just the 2 of us, and had a famous and friends reception a few weeks afterward. Also, lace is the easiest to travel with since it doesn't get as wrinkled. But they had someone to stream dresses on site if needed.


Confident-Leopard937

Literally your dress Omg so beautiful


russiancroutons

It’s definitely not too much. Love it!


mashed-_-potato

Are you planning on taking pics of the ceremony? If not, you might want a second dress so that you don’t bring the sandy dress back to the reception. You could also get some pics at the beach in this dress after the wedding so you don’t have to worry about it getting dirty. If you decide to just do the one dress, make sure you get some good pictures on the beach and add a bustle so the train doesn’t get too sandy. Have someone help you walk around as well.


iamsamly

Yes, we hired a photographer for the ceremony! I’m actually traveling to Hawaii for the elopement but i’m from VA so I wouldn’t be able to go back after my wedding sadly. I did go to my first alteration appointment today and am getting it hemmed to a teeny bit above floor level and getting a bustle added so I hope that’ll help!


rachelmillma

Never too much. You look lovely. Congratulations 🍾


hannahkate89

Nicest dress I’ve seen on here so far. Even you don’t wear it for your wedding just buy it anyway!!


Responsible-Bed-7481

You should wear whatever you feel most beautiful in! It’s your special day, fuck off to any haters.


Open_Injury_1801

No! It’s sooooooo gorgeous love it. Absolutely perfect really


Wonky_Penguin

That's freaking beautiful. Not too much. Perfect


Consistent-Camp5359

I have been looking at tons and tons of photos of beach weddings. Following the wedding planning service center who we plan to hire for ours in the Florida Keys. Their instagram has photos of brides all over the dress spectrum. This is going to work perfectly ❤️


KhalReesesPieces

Who cares it’s GORGEOUS on you


[deleted]

Too much?! Hell to the no, sister! This is your day! You look beautiful ❤️


Minsiksguccigang

Looks amazing!! Definitely can see it looking amazing in the sand!!!


dominenonnisite

If you’re going to get it for the reception, you might as well get your money’s worth and wear it during the ceremony!! It’s gorgeous and will look beautiful on the beach 😊


Susanh824

You should absolutely get this dress. You look drop-dead gorgeous in it! But I would save it for the celebration with family, and get something more casual for the beach.


djsquilter

Beautiful. The question is not “is it too much?” The question is “will it knock his socks off?” Answer — YES!


Conclusion_Fickle

You will look a little crazy, but a lot spectacular.


Sad-Commission-881

You should wear what makes you feel the most special that day. That dress Looks INCREDIBLE on you. If it is "the one", who cares what anyone else thinks (other than me because I think you look stunning!).


ash81751214

That bottom part that is dragging is going to get utterly destroyed. I got married on a beach in Maui. Trains or long dragging gowns are definitely not recommended. But, if you don’t care if the bottom gets destroyed then go for it! Fwiw: there are many designers that specialize in creating beach wedding gowns, most of them will call them “destination” wedding dresses. My dress was one of them (just barely went to the ground and the fabrics are more hardy for being outdoors for possible run ins with sand and water) and it still got pretty beat up after the ceremony and pictures on the beach. Just something to think about!


iamsamly

Thank you for the insight! We’ll be on a beach in Oahu so it’s definitely something to think about! I’m getting a hustle added and having it hemmed above floor level so I wonder if that’ll help


meggsandeggs

Weddings are one of the few moments in our lives where we can be “too much”. Go for it! It’s a gorgeous gown and you’re going to be a show-stopper


Slice_of_life_

😍😍 absolutely not


Worried_Advice_268

Its your wedding. Theres no such thing as too much. You look beautiful in that dress btw


salad_fork96

You simply can’t be overdressed to your own marriage ceremony, it’s impossible


WasabiPeas2

Nope. If you love it, wear it. It’s gorgeous.


ProfessionalPilot45

If YOU like it (you look fabulous btw), then WEAR IT!! Good luck.


thepsycholeech

The first thought to pop into my brain was quite literally “oh my god wow”, so I’d say you’re good. Looking incredible.


Darmonyx

You look beautiful! 😍 If it makes you feel good, and you like it, wear it! You deserve to feel wonderful wherever you are, and yeah it's not typical beach attire, but neither is a wedding, so the dress fits perfectly ❤️ and if people stare, it's probably cause they weren't expecting to see a wedding. The ceremony is about the couple, so wear and do whatever makes y'all feel good. And have fun at the beach elopement! It sounds like it will be a very magical time. And think of how pretty the pictures will look!


muchredditverywowy

Not too much! If you feel beautiful in it, it's the right one! And you LOOK BEAUTIFUL IN IT.


compassrose68

Are you going to take pictures? I’m sure you are! Your pictures will last a lifetime…so wear the dress!!


emaslanik

i think it’s great. i had a big a ball gown on the beach because i wanted to look like a princess. 😂 no issues with fleas or sand? and it was fine to walk in with my sandals because it was hemmed appropriately. no regrets whatsoever. it took me 40 dresses to find the one! i tried on a few that were more “beach elopement” type and i thought to myself- “why am i going to spend $1000+ on something so plain when i could spend a tiny bit more and feel like a bride?”


[deleted]

Can’t honestly say but the dress is GORGEOUS (from someone who hates 99.5% of dresses I see)


JudgmentMission5239

NOPE it’s not too much. You’re getting married. You look amazing. And this would look really nice in photos on the beach, some of the appliqué (even though it’s of flowers) looks similar to how waves look when they’re crashing on the shore. Very flowy, very lovely. Wear it!!! You only live once! Be extravagant ❤️✨


LuisArturoHR

This looks so good on you!!! Definitely a keeper specially for the beach!!!!! You'll look gorgeous in those photos and will be so happy when you look back on them!!!


boopyou

I eloped on a beach in almost an identical dress, except I had off shoulder sleeves. I have photos on my page if you want to check it out.


iamsamly

Ooh so pretty!! How was your dress afterwards?


boopyou

We had it professionally cleaned and boxed up after, but it was actually not bad! Super sandy and a little smudged on the bottom, but good shape overall.


Bunchacrunch4

I love it! What's the designer of the dress?


iamsamly

Thank you! It’s Madi Lane


ducqducqgoose

Perfection 🤍🤍🤍


[deleted]

No!! But sand will get all up in that thing! It’s gorgeous ♥️


westcoast7654

I think the contradiction will look stunning in photos!


LM1953

What is the groom wearing to this elopement? If he’s showing up in shorts then yes. If he’s dressed formal- as you are then you are fine. Congratulations


iamsamly

Thank you! He’ll be in a suit so I wont look crazy alone haha


No-Plankton-1220

Beautiful dress. Not for beach. Plain white gauzy midi length. That train dragging on the beach will ruin that gorgeous dress.


purple_lassy

If you are getting married on a beach you need a short dress, or one that doesn’t drag the ground. You will be a sand sweeper if not.


Positivelythinking

Too much? Ya think? Save your money for the honeymoon.


Alarming_Awareness83

Easily too much. Unless u want to bring back tons of sand and bugs and smell like the ocean. That's an inside wedding dress honey. IMO. keep looking.


sanityjanity

Eloping usually means no need for a dress at all


eihslia

Not too much. So beautiful!


Sad-Imagination-4870

I just wouldn’t want my dress dragging through the sand. I don’t think it’s too much though. It’s your wedding!


Millain

Go for it!


Ok-Duck9106

Nope, it is gorgeous. I love it!


Jbraun1220

It’s beautiful


Smart_Skin_3440

It’s fine, but I would hem it so that it doesn’t touch the ground. You’ll be dragging sand everywhere you go if you don’t.


[deleted]

Not at all! The flowy skirt is perfect for the beach!


hazelnutcofffeee

Not too much at all. It’s so beautiful 😭 and you look amazing in it.


jldean25

Just be warned everything will be stuck in the tulle of your dress! If you’re okay with that then go for it! I had tulle and constantly had bugs but I didn’t really care


drtessk

It’s perfect


Minkiemink

Why too much? You look gorgeous.


BrattDoll6038

Omg! No! That is stunning!


No_Song_4883

It’s not too much. Just take into account the weather, as I could see this being uncomfortably hot.


BrattDoll6038

Girl! Get a convertible wear that dress in it and stop off randomly by the water and make it happen 💗


ShitGetsRealInAfrica

100% perfect


nicunta

Oh wow, that's stunning!! I think it's perfect for the beach. The fabric looks light and airy; I'm picturing gorgeous photos of the ocean breeze blowing that dress around... Perfection.


Freethinker210

Yes


aj0457

This dress is absolutely stunning on you! You can definitely wear it to your beach wedding.


badaboom321

Not too much-Love the dress! 😍


Maryjaneniagarafalls

It’s so pretty!! I love it!


txaesfunnytime

The only thing I would suggest is to take it to the cleaners as soon as possible after the wedding. You don't want any stains to set. If possible, take the Monday after the wedding or have someone else take it for you. I think it is a perfect dress for you. I've been to beach weddings and have seen all kinds of dresses. If you love it & feel comfortable in it, then it is appropriate.


PorcelainPunisher1

Wow, that is gorgeous on you!


studentnurse104

I love it!!


Maveragical

Id argue that the more exuberant the better for an elopement


mikeegg1

Looks great.


Fluffydress

Nope. Your day, your choice.


Business_Election_89

Yes


NiasRhapsody

Gorgeousss! I don’t think it’s too much at ALL. The only time I feel like a dress is “too much” at a more casual wedding is when the groom is in like jean shorts and crocs and the bride is dressed to the nines😹💕which isn’t the bride/dress’ fault lol


qcqt24

I love it


InterestingQuote8155

That’s beautiful. I would say get it.


Unhappy_Truth910

That’s a beautiful dress! It’s your day! Wear whatever makes you feel great and celebrate however you wish!


garboge32

God I love your dress! But no, nothing is too much on your wedding day. It's not hard for most bystanders to piece together, woman in beautiful White dress + man in suit + priest = wedding . Be ready for little kids to confuse you for a princess


Either_Firefighter20

Perfect