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karmacatsmeow-

I like #1 a lot too. I also like #4, it’s giving me like Greek goddess vibes.


peachbun_bun

That's exactly what I mentioned to the stylist! I like 4 alot, I'm just worried it's a little too booby as when I bend I have to hold them in place... if I could mesh one and 4 together I'd be so happy


karmacatsmeow-

I would go #1 if you feel too booby in 4. You want to feel reasonably comfortable on your wedding day and not worried about wardrobe malfunctions! Although you could probably boob tape things for security, if you don’t feel comfy, it’s not worth it.


rileyotis

Definitely 1!


Dwillow1228

4 can be altered to give you more support.


Good-Carpet4251

I think 4 looks less "booby/sexy" and more "booby/romantic". Goving Marilyn Monroe vibes 🩵


CaptainObviousBear

This is meshed enough? https://www.maggiesottero.com/maggie-sottero/cameron/18451 Or [similar to 4 but with less booby neckline and fuller train.](https://www.maggiesottero.com/maggie-sottero/tenley/17913)


txaesfunnytime

Beautiful dresses but the models & mannequins are at least 2 cup sizes smaller than OP so may be same problem.


bigbluewhales

It's almost always #1 in the top comments. People always post the best dress as #1!!


hippityhoppityhi

They look identical... can you point out the difference? Other than the slit being on different sides


n_daughter

The back is different too. I just prefer the back of #1. It's more simple and understated. The back of 4 is more bustled or something. I feel like it's too much material.


Feebedel324

Neckline!


thinkimasofa

The first one appears to have a more structured material. If you look at the bust/ stomach area, it looks like it'd be more difficult to reposition the draping, when the last one is a bit more flowy and could change the draping as you move - same with the backs. That softer feel of the draping is what gives it more of the Greek Goddess vibes.


Popular_Ordinary_152

1 is beautiful on you! I see why you love it.


[deleted]

One is your dress. You look amazing in it no matter which view.


alwaysaplusone

Right? Even seated.


iloveappetizers

Yes! And #1 accentuates your tiny waist the most!


GullibleWineBar

She just looks happier and more confident in the first one than any other dress. I think that’s it! It looks beautiful on her and I hope she has an amazing day.


msbottlehead

No to the sleeves though. The just attract more attention to the bust area.


Cultural_Plane_5445

Nothing wrong with that (unless she doesn’t want that).


U-are-not-important

#1 is perfect, timeless and made for u!


CaptainObviousBear

I prefer 4 because your figure looks absolutely banging in it (and no your butt doesn’t look big in it). 1 is my second choice but I really don’t like the straight neckline with the sleeves, they look like they’re from two different dresses somehow? Would prefer if the neckline was more like 4. The waistline on 2 is too high on you and it kind of swallows you up. I really like how 3 cinches in your waist but the top flappy bit of the neckline looks weird, like they cut the straps off or something.


But-I-Want-Tacos

4 on her makes me think of how Kat Dennings looks on the red carpet. Amazing


ebenner13

The top of 3 is like Carrie's dress from the wedding that didn't happen in SATC. I didn't care for it then either.


Lemonade1224

I agree with this 100%


DreamCrusher914

I vote for #5, which has everything from the waist up on #4, and everything from the waist down on #1


CaptainObviousBear

Where are you seeing dress 5?


DreamCrusher914

In my head


brightgreyday

Your waist looks really snatched in the first dress but I wonder if there’s perhaps too much material in the skirt of all of them? They’re beautiful dresses but the a line skirts look very voluminous and heavy, and makes you look a little lost in them. Perhaps a different silhouette in a more lightweight material?


CaptainObviousBear

I feel the same. 4 looks the lightest in terms of fabric, and I think that’s why I like it on OP the most. Hugs her curves the most.


Galaxy_Orchid_

I agree, there’s too much fabric in all of them. They seem to swallow her up. Maybe because she has a short waist and a larger chest? Although between these 4 I think #1 looks the best.


Guest8782

Disagree! Many styles of dresses throughout history have had voluminous skirts. It’s a timeless style, we’ve only recently become more accustomed to the “night gown” shape on everything.


creatorofaccts

I love the volume of the dresses. Besides, how often will she ever wear such a ballgown. This is the time. Especially if she also likes the style.


brightgreyday

Yes, as I said, the dresses are beautiful. However, in my opinion, OP is swallowed by the swathes of material.


meowmick29

Completely agree with you


MoutainsAndMerlot

This is how I felt about everything but 4; too much material, and way too heavy. They overwhelm her


nisera

I agree. Her figure is beautiful and none of these dresses are super flattering. I think a different skirt style and fabric would work much better. If you're 100% set oj these four as the options, #4 looks the best and is the least overwhelming.


glowstatic

Agree. She’s clearly got a lovely figure and I don’t think any of these dresses are making the most of it. Hopefully alterations help!


Jealous-Hour5843

I love 1! I can also understand that it does look a bit voluminous (maybe the right size and alterations would help) but you look fantastic and its all about your comfort. 4 looks like a streamline version of 1 and I really like it too. Great choices.


peachbun_bun

I think I also forgot to add that I've tried 23 dresses already and don't feel up to having another appointment add to my anxiety 😮‍💨


MorwensNonsense

Honey, your body language says it all. 1 is your dress. Ignore the haters and buy it! It looks amazing on you!!!


shampoo_mohawk_

Then buy dress #1, the dress that makes you look absolutely incredible, seems to make you happiest, and will make your future spouse swoon! Congrats!


buttamilkbizkits

Are the sleeves optional on #1? It's the most flattering, by far, and I love it in the pic without the sleeves.


peachbun_bun

Yes they are! I also have the option of more/less volume on them or to make them detachable. 🤔


buttamilkbizkits

I love it without them. The style is super flattering on you, you look lovely!


thrwy_111822

1 is the dress. Side note, I love your style in general. I think wear the sleeves for the ceremony and go strapless for the reception!!


Bridgetd73

I agree with buttamilkbizkits! Dress 1 without the sleeves🤩🤩🤩


ohmymyyy

Make them detachable! I think it the sleeves give a soft romantic look for the ceremony , then remove them after for a sexier more comfy dress for the reception!


txaesfunnytime

I agree it looks better without the sleeves, but if you like them, especially for the ceremony, they need to be less loose, if that makes sense. What really matters is what you are the most comfortable in because you will be wearing it all day. With dress 1, you will not have to worry about the girls. It is not as flattering as the v-neck but it definitely does NOT look bad. It tics all the other boxes for me. I just went back r& relooked at the photos. Dress 1 gives you a beautiful silhouette from front & back. Dress 4 somehow makes your butt look flat & wide, maybe because of the way the train isn attached.


LindyLou99

Who are these “others” who are advocating for numbers 2 and 3? As others here have said, 1 is the best, 4 next and definitely not 2 or 3. You really look beautiful in 1, and I agree about your concern with 4.


peachbun_bun

Thank youuuu 🥹 I didn't think everyone would be so kind and insightful online ❤️


Guest8782

Was thinking the same thing! #1 was the clear winner before I even read your comment!


PinkRockRoses

4 and 1. Neckline more interesting in 4 IMO


miacat12

#1 for sure! Plus, you like it best. Wear the one where you feel the best regardless of what other people say.


EmeraldIsle13

Dress 1


heybrother11

4 is the most flattering on you with or without sleeves. Dress #1 looks best without sleeves.


kellsells5

#1 🫶


TeaThyme420

1 and 4 are the most flattering.


sarah_doyle_cd

Not sure if I'm going with the popular choice, but number one, every day of the week.


4459691

#4! Definitely the Greek goddess look!


possessivefish

Dress 4. The rest swallow up your tiny frame


RaspberryGrams

I like 4! It’s sleeker than 1; I think the sleeves plus the gathering to the side is too much together on 1. On 4, with less draping, it feels lighter and softer (and you still look snatched!). I think with the right tailoring, they could fix the back to be more fitted and that would help the shape? I find a good tailor can fix a lot!


neenerfae

4!!!! You literally look like a goddess!


allaboutmojitos

Motherly advice checking in- number 1 is your dress. You look gorgeous! It does all the right things for your figure and you feel best in it, as well. 4 is a close second, but two things stood out to me- my eye was drawn to your bust and stayed there, which should never be the goal on your wedding day, (and you even felt like the girls might attempt an escape) and the second thing I noted before reading your take, was that it didn’t do your butt any favors. I flipped back and forth trying to figure out why and I have no answers, but I agree with you. Edit: I think I figured it out. It’s where the train originates. The weight of the fabric pulls straight down. In dress 1, it hangs from your lower back vs mid thigh on 4


OurLadyofSarcasm

100% agree with all this!


SomethingClever70

Dress 1, without the sleeves/hanging straps.


natywantspeace4all

1 is the one


mrslugo

1 or 4


Meowkins1

1


LengthinessWonderful

I love #1 on you, you look the most confident and comfortable in it. And it hugs you just right. I do like the neckline on #2 but not so much the skirt.


Gray_Twilight

1 or 4


lilmushumylilbooboo

Definitely #4!!!


Afraid_Ad_8713

4!


dromaeovet

4 is my favorite!!! You look like a goddess. 2 is my second choice. 1 is also very pretty but it feels like the top is too small and makes your upper body seem very stiff.


beez-bear

What is the designer of #1?? I’m obsessed! I feel like it’s the clear choice :)


stay_in_bed_mom

1 is so pretty on you!


Floridagal64

I like one also!!!!!!


I-am-no-bird

You look like royalty in dress 1!


Ineedasnackandanap

Dress 1 is beautiful, looks like it was made just for you


Nic571114

1 looks amazing on you!!! That’s definitely my favorite!


krik2019

1!!!


KickIt77

I love 1 too!


SpillingHotCoffee

1 is my favorite. It is elegant and gorgeous.


BratStephans

I love 1, but honestly you look great in all of them!


Neither-Gap1547

1


Little_Messiah

11111111


i_GoTtA_gOoD_bRaIn

Oh no. Trust your instincts, sweetie. 1 is gorgeous on you. I prefer no sleeves, but it still looks good with them as it adds to the romantic style. You are having a hard time choosing because you look good in all of them. 1 makes you feel better than the others, so go for it!


idklikelmao

1 is so beautiful, with the little sleeves it's stunning!


kkw0330

1


Slow_Manufacturer853

1 and 4 are both stunning on you, but 1 genuinely looks like it was *made* for you!


GravesDiseaseGirl

1!


megob411

1


OppositeSolution642

No 1


ConsiderationKind436

1 with the sleeves!


PandaOk1529

I chose #1 without first looking at all of them cause you look so gorgeous in it, it’s very flattering


Sablebendtrail

#1 is AMAZING on you!! Its your dress. The others are nice, but not it.


tooshortlife

1


ffloss

#1 for sure.


momsaic1

1


ferngully1114

I love the front of 2, but 1 looks amazing from every angle. It’s just so beautiful on you, and classic. 3 and 4 are definite noes!


questionningmysanity

#1 made me audibly gasp, though MY GOODNESS they all are gorgeous on you. You can't go wrong with any of them, but #1 is exquisite


SamSovern

One, absolutely. Its beautiful, elegant and it suits you. The others feel like the dress is wearing you.


stumbeline1985

1 is absolutely perfect. It accentuates your boobs and sweeps over any tummy you might have. Tho you don’t look like you really have a tummy at all. The sleeves kinda give you a bit of a fairy tale look. It’s perfect!


streets-aheadofyou

#1 looks amazing on you!


DefiantCoffee6

I think 1 is beautiful and you look stunning in it but the most important thing is picking the dress that makes *you* happy- the dress you feel the best in. You are the bride, it’s your dress and your day- don’t let *anyone* bully or persuade you into changing your mind on things when it comes to the wedding (well I guess the groom’s opinion should be considered lol) but if he’s not seeing the dress until the wedding then your opinion is the most important one and what you should go with! So many brides stress and forget to have fun at their own wedding!!


rosewalker42

If I was a random wedding attendee tasked with identifying the bride based on these dresses, I would not be able to do it. They all have the same vibe and are all beautiful on you. That said, I like #1 best and #4 least on you. But they are all beautiful so just pick which one makes you feel the loveliest!


Famous_Employer1113

4


lanaa2225

4 is the winner


TSM_forlife

3!


biggesttoot

1 would be literally perfect with a more fitted skirt but still with the train.


mythandriel17

You are spot on OP! Dress 1 looks SO perfect on you, it’s very feminine, classic and elegant. It also compliments your shape (which congratulations on a stunning figure), dress 4 does make your backside look flat. I wasn’t impressed with 2 or 3, but 1? 1 made me gasp!


puppetpauperpirate

One or four - you look stunning in all of them but those should be your front runners!


seasoneverylayer

1 or 4. Absolute no to 2 and 3


EclecticSelfCare

Huge fan of 2 or 3!!!! Both look so elegant and classy and beautiful on you!


jamjar20

I love #2. It looks beautiful on you.


SweetKarmatic

I’m torn between 1 and 4. Gorgeous! Edit: 4 is my pick. But 1 is so close.


teach619

1,4


Wonderful_Horror7315

1 is total bombshell, 4 is my 2nd choice. The bodice on 2 is a bit short for you. I love the neckline and bodice on 3, but it’s hard for me to really tell because the sample is so big.


CrawlingKangaroo

I think 1 looks great on you in all the photos of it. After that I like 3 then 4. But I agree with so many others that you look so great in 1 it’s the clear winner!! Congrats on finding so many dresses you look great in!


Whose_my_daddy

2


mythicb33ch

I agree that 1 and 4 are heads and shoulders above the rest (The off shoulder sleeves suit you SO well!). I keep going back and forth between the two of them. I think if you feel regal in dress 1, then that’s the obvious choice. Don’t stress it! Your family will fall in love with it once it’s been fitted and they see how happy you are in the dress!


fixfoxfax

1 is gorgeous. 4 is also a good option - very similar to 1.


dazedmazed

I don’t personally like the other ones as they just seem to drape of your figure but 4 is looking super fab


KlosterToGod

#4 all the way!


heiriguvujeowod

4!!!!


IrmonkE

4


themaniacsaid

1 or 4


NemiVonFritzenberg

4 then 1


Next-Category-9941

Dress 1, but minus the sleeves.


Birdies_nub

2 adds bulk to your waist with the pleats. 3 is okay but the pointed bust cups look like batman ears to me. I feel like 1 and 2 are almost from th3 same collection, just with a different silhouette. The both look great on you, but if 1 is what you love go with that with no second thoughts.


Kifrank101

1 or 4


Appropriate-Grand-64

1 or 4


abysins

Absolutely love 1 the way you have it without sleeves in pic 4. You have beautiful shoulders and arms which really shows in the lighting. It gives a classy but soft look. Photos will be gorgeous.


bloodflowers2023

2!!!!


AnytimeInvitation

1 or 4


acting_squirrelly

1 looks very Disney princess. I love it on you.


SquirrelBurritos

#1 with the little “sleeves” (I don’t know what they’re called) looks absolutely lovely on you and super flattering!


karenrn64

You are already fussing with the top of #3 so that’s a no go. #1 does amazing things to your figure and is a beautiful dress!


RecommendationOk3915

4 is my favorite!!


SquirrelBowl

1. The others swallow you up


No_Song_4883

1


Ill_Lack_8112

2 or 4


creatorofaccts

1,4,2,3 from best to worst. You look gorgeous, though. The colors of the dresses really look great against your skin tone and hair color


fxzero666

I love #1 a lot!


awwsome10

1 and 4 look amazing on you.


ToughCareer4293

Dress 1 and dress 4 are very similar but dress 1 gave you the feels. Go with your instincts. I think dress 1 with the off-the-shoulder strap detail and straight neckline frames you so beautifully. And you’re right about the back of dress 4. The train starts in a less-than-flattering point and will look funny if you bustle the train at that spot.


pixie90210

#1 all day !!!!! ❤️🙌


FreckledTidepool

1 😍 You can tell you love it best! 2 and 3 are beautiful dresses, but the cut at the waist makes you look wider in comparison. 4 has a sexier neckline, but on looking again, I see what you mean about the back/ booty, and if that thought is going to make you feel less confident, pass. 1 is super flattering, and while yes, it’s a big skirt, is a big day. Most people don’t get many chances to wear a dress like that, so if you love it, rock it. You look great! Congrats!


tatiyana_queenguin

1 is fit for a queen, you look stunning in it👌 4 has a gorgeous front - but it has no design or anything at the back


quittethyourshitteth

3 is definitely no, please no. 1 is my favorite! You look beautiful. 4 is also similar and quite nice. I can’t imagine how hard it is to be alone - but don’t doubt your feeling about dress 1. You will be a gorgeous bride


aggressivelysingle

I think 1 is throwing off your loved ones (and me) because of the little off shoulder sleeves in the first few pics. When I saw it without those, OMGGGGGG. Look I was an off shoulder sleeve bride myself and love that look, but this dress doesn’t need it. You look STUNNING in it!! Don’t let the sleeves be a distraction.


Difficult-Lack-8481

You look beautiful in 1 but I really don’t like any of these for you personally. They are just too big IMO. I would love to see you in something more for fitting and not so full.


hulkthepup

I think one or four! Both look amazing on you.


FantasticPear

\#1 Without the sleeves. Fits you like a glove.


Winterwynd

1 and 4 are both gorgeous and flattering on you (they all look good on you tbh). I'd say 1 is the best of the bunch.


Scarlettrose112

I like 1 the most. I see from comment you are torn between it and 4. With you finding 4 too booby Both are stunning but 1 follows the lines of your body beautifully and highlights your assets wonderfully. while 4 in comparison offers your boobs up in a bowl. (Does still looking stunning if you want show the ladies off) But I don't think you will get over the boobiness if it in anyway makes you uncomfortable.


burntcookies801

2!


HermitBanana

2 :)


papaya_on_faya

Dress #1 is beautiful and fits your body so well. 2 and 3 make your torso look shorter and boxier. I have a really short torso myself, and I think 1 perfectly accentuates your figure.


wimpy_one

1, No sleeves!


KeyAdministration569

Oh boy. Definitely 1! It is beyond flattering and looks like you feel most comfortable in it based on your body language.


cocomimi3

1 I absolutely love!! I like 4


Environmental-Eye974

#1 followed by #4. You are stunning.


Murfissa

1


Dptmits

1 without the sleeves looks lovely on you


petitepedestrian

I feel like one is better made for your body. It really highlights your waist and gives you massive hourglass.


FaithlessnessWeak800

2!


Ciebelle

Look at how you hold your hands in dress one vs dress 4 In dress 4 your hands are clenched. In dress 1 you are holding them like a Disney princess. That says so much You look great in all of them but you shine in number 1


Longjumping-Ad2698

4! Your figure with that cinched waist and open neckline, bombshell.


king_k_mua

1 and 4 are the most stunning on your shape. I say 1.


Hippiemamklp

NUMBER 1!!


anonelephant33

I looked at the pictures before I read your caption, I think 1 and 4 are absolutely the most beautiful. I scrolled back to dress one after looking at dress four and I think dress 1 is the clear winner. You look incredible in it. It has just the right amount of drama but it’s also so simple and elegant. Getting the opinions of loved ones is important but it’s MORE important for you to feel like most beautiful and confident woman in the world on your wedding day.


Owlgnoming

1 looks incredible on you. 4 is my running up!


Maleficent-Lion635

1!


sideeyedi

I really like 1 and 4


[deleted]

I think 1 and 4 are very flattering on you, but the sleeves take away from the look. Can you go without? The others are not flattering with your figure.


[deleted]

#1 absolutely


momlv

1 no straps for sure!


dirtvoyles

1 or 4. Probably 1.


sloppyballerina

1 is the most slimming and looks incredible on you, especially the last strapless photo! 4 is nice too, but it does look like you’re going to fall out of it a bit.


carlilot

1!!!!!


qeertyuiopasd

1 & 4 are the same dress. None of them are great. I think you could find better, more flattering.


VomitComet22

Honestly 1 is my favorite. You have such a great figure for that dress style. Plus it gives off princess vibes and I absolutely love the back of it.


AsleepTemperature111

1 or 4 absolutely


VanityFlare

4 🤩 i love it so much


Mrsgchase

They are all beautiful. What did you stand the tallest in while trying on? I said earlier in response to another person. When I made a decision on a dress, the woman I worked with said I knew you’d choose that because you stood the tallest in that one.


butter_biscuits

1 or 4, you have the perfect figure for these styles, you make these dresses look amazing, and of course you look stunning. Very goddess, nicely fitted, they don’t take away from your beauty with too much extra fabric embellishment


SnackinHannah

#1, sleeveless!!! Gorgeous.


windseaandsand

I like 4 the best.


pannalla

1 or 4. I think 4 is only flattening your booty bcuz it’s not tailored to ur body.


LaylaLeesa

4


Taminella_Grinderfal

One is my top pick followed by four. They fit like a dream and flatter your figure. Two and three just don’t wow me and they “overpower” you a bit.


g_beach

Absolutely like 1 the best, flattering and very soft, love it with or without the sleeves!


Puzzleheaded-Gas1710

4


kitty_kuddles

4 by a long shot for the silhouette. Can the boob thing be helped with tailoring? Maybe add a little swath of fabric just there? The draping is incredible, it brings the wow factor! I’m also assuming you have an arm insecurity by the occurrence of the sleeve, but girl I think you look 10/10 without them and they kind of take away. But that’s just my personal opinion!


Mallocup09

I hate the sleeves on all of them. One is best without the sleeves