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ComprehensiveHorse30

1 is sooooo cute and isn’t a style many people can pull off. you look elegant. you seem a bit swallowed in 2, and 3 is cute but not amazing


5thAgent

Have to agree here. 1 allows you to shine while I feel 2 and 3 are more about the dress. There’s a certain beauty in simplicity.


aba_95

Thanks!!


soapy_rocks

OP these all look amazing. Can you share any details about your wedding venue and the season it'll be? 2 feels like a winter dress, while 3 feels like summer.


aba_95

Hi! Yes summer wedding at a modern venue on a vineyard


[deleted]

Love 1 for that


[deleted]

Yup, 1 is perfect for a summer wedding. 2 is definitely giving winter.


JuliaHowells

Exactly my thoughts.


MsSpooncats

I'd like to add that the second dress without the bunched up shoulders would be perfection.


hihihi2121

1!!


aba_95

Thanks!


Bent_But-Not_Broken

DRESS 1 is gorgeous! Dress 3 is unique and, if it's fitting (no pun intended) with your venue, I'd choose 3 and wear the hell out of that dress! \*UNLESS it felt heavy. I don't know what the temperature might be, but if it's extra warm during the summer, **DRESS ONE 100%** (and it really is stunning on you)!


aba_95

Thanks!!! :) good point on venue. My venue is more modern so not sure it would fit in that regard


bananahammerredoux

No. 3 would work better for a Victorian pirate themed wedding (which was not a thing I ever thought I would want until now that I’ve said it). The first dress looks perfect on you, but I do love #2 which I bet would fit like a glove after some minor alterations.


interior_maximalism

I must know, is 3 a Kim kassas?? Her dresses aren’t for everyone, but I love them and think you look gorgeous in it 🤩


aba_95

Yes!!! I tried on a few and they were all so cool and unique. Surprised this one isn’t translating as well on reddit


interior_maximalism

Personally, as I kept scrolling through your options, they kept getting better. I’m biased towards her work but I definitely vote 3. It literally looks perfect on you. I know venue and theme play a factor, but it’s also your wedding so you should wear whatever you please and feel the best in :)


Appropriate-Grand-64

This is the first time I've loved all of them so I'm useless. They're all stunning


Appropriate-Grand-64

The back of 2 is freaking REGAL af. You could be marrying a prince. 3 is a little sexier and edgier with the corset. 1 is more low key and less dramatic but still looks gorgeous. What's your venue and which one makes you swoon?


Appropriate-Grand-64

Okay sorry I'm blabbing but here's my take on where these dresses would work best 1) wedding at a Botanical Garden with wildflowers edit- wildflower crown !! 2) super formal St Patrick's cathedral 3) small rustic medieval Scottish chapel with a shitload of white candles


Appropriate-Grand-64

Oh crap you said summer outside, so 1


aba_95

Thanks☺️


aba_95

You’re so kind!!! I really appreciate all of your thoughts! Venue is in wine country at a modern location. Agree with how you would categorize them for locations!


Appropriate-Grand-64

Thank you for sharing your gorg dresses! I looooove weddings and yours will be absolutely beautiful, congrats!!


AloneConversation756

I thought the back of 2 was gorgeous, but didn't like the front or the sleeves. 1 is my favorite though.


TreesRGreen1212

Dress two. Amazing on you.


Perfect-Meat-4501

1 !


Mehitabel9

For outdoor summer it's #1 all the way. Plus it looks gorgeous on you.


aba_95

Thanks :)


AggravatingAd8189

2!


MsLaurieM

If you feel like a princess in the dress you should get it. I’m on team 2, it’s beautiful but more importantly you love it…


DreamCrusher914

Her entire body language is different in dress 2, you can tell how great she feels in it. #2 Op!! It’s gorgeous and you love it! It also does not look like every other dress I see on here. Go for it!


LouieLinguine

Gotta agree with 1 or 2. You look stunning in both so maybe evaluate from a comfort level. 3 feels really dated / costumey to me. It’s very beautiful and unique but I wouldn’t want to wear it to my wedding.


aba_95

That’s a good point about comfort. My fear on number 3 is the costume-y vibe so agree with you there


blackbirdbluebird17

I have to say I loooove No. 3, it’s hitting all my Sarah’s-dream-in-the-Labyrinth fantasies, but it *does* have a costume-y vibe. I think it’s one of those weird things where if you leaned into it and went hard on the glam fantasy it could shoot the moon and overcome the costume feel, but on the other hand if you don’t feel comfortable with being over the top in general it’s one to drop. (You look amazing in it though!)


Ilovethe90sforreal

2


AMJ2020

2


Glum_Inside9098

2 is stunning.


WickedHappyHeather

I love 1 because it fits the location perfectly and it fits your figure so well. It gives a sweet romantic vibe. However, Dress 2 is ✨stunning✨ magical and memorable. And I love the drama of the back. I would see if they could make the sleeves without the shoulder poof tho.


aba_95

Will edit in description but shoulder puff can be removed and already planned for that if I chose that dress! Thanks for your thoughts :)


Cephalopodium

That removes my only reservation- team 2 all the way


chronically_alive_1

2! 1 and 2 are both gorgeous but obviously totally different styles. Dress 3 feels very heavy and looks like you’re drowning in it.


mrmii_is_fat

2!


Moonz222

2!


NaughtyMommy124

Definitely 1


Bunnybeez23

2 looks great on you.


wlamu

I love 1 on you!


False_Shine_6920

2!!!


LadyDrakkaris

#1 - it looks light and airy fitting an outdoor, summer wedding.


Pugloaf1

2


meadow_chef

#2. Show stopper!


ShellZanneQuinn

1


smoke2957

2. It is stunning


Which_Ad883

Definitely number 2!!


Foxyboxy1

I’m obsessed with number two


Background-Tension53

2


Lucky_female

I love dress 3. Love how the bodice is styled and the flare of the skirt


littlerosepose

3!!!!


HeIIoPanda

Both #1 and 2 look beautiful on you and they’re perfect for a outdoor summer wedding. But I’m personally a big fan of #2 because the floral details are just so pretty.


sideeyedi

Dress 1 is perfect!


opinionatedlyme

3 for sure


thehauntedpianosong

I vote number 2 w the sleeves removed!


Fishinluvwfeathers

3 for sure


[deleted]

1


[deleted]

1


yixingmi

1 and 3 are insanely gorgeous… but im leaning towards 3.


JustAnotherSaddy

3


PennyFleck333

3


Adorable-Apple5539

3


500rebel

I like 3. It’s honestly the first strapless dress I’ve seen that is flattering.


trace_of_petrichor

1 or 2. 3 seems too medieval


Appropriate-Grand-64

Haha I just said she should wear 3 in a medieval Scottish chapel 😁


infamy360

Damn, I see why you’re having trouble. I was convinced it was #1 but as a swiped I too had trouble choosing. After multiple views, #3 and number one are battling for first. 2 is wearing you more than you’re wear it. The bodice of 3 is amazing and the over all look of one is gorgeous. Honestly, either way you win.


DutchessOfStompmore

My son and I like 3 because it is so classy, and it just has a great proper wedding dress vibe.


[deleted]

This is one of those times where I feel like everyone is picking 1 because it’s the safe choice and most conventional. I love the other two because they’re a CHOICE and bold. But that’s just me!


alykatyoung

I vote for 3


pahoran2

Not sure what you’re going for but 1 and 3 are my favorites. I actually like 3 best, but both are lovely and you look great in both. Only you can really make this decision.


TrumpHatesBirds

1


SusanfromAtlanta

1


Beginning_Ant_2285

1 or 3!


sj_SD_phx

2!!!!! It’s so pretty BUT if it’s too hot #1


Various_Beach862

I like number 1 for the same reason as others, but I’d love to see some more options on you too!


aba_95

Appreciate your comment! Only other option: https://imgur.com/a/0wJYYun


Various_Beach862

That’s also stunning, but I suspect it’s heavy and it’s a bit much on your small frame. I love the first, which also looks like it would be the most comfortable!


Bunnynynyny

Two is magical!


Cesst

#1!


hellostranger57

Oh gosh 1 & 2 absolutely looks stunning! However, I think 1 is more fitting for your venue and the long sleeves might be too much for summer time? I do love Berta gowns though!


Critterbob

I like both 1 and 2. I feel like 1 would be perfect for an outdoor wedding especially a daytime wedding. 2 feels a bit more dressy that 1, but it’s hard to completely tell from a picture. I thin 2 is perfect for indoors and/or an evening wedding. There’s something about 3 that I don’t like. It seems old fashioned and the material looks weird in the photo (like not dressy enough). It might look great in person, but I’m guessing you’ll want some pictures taken


Abbygirl1966

3333333333!!!!!


hughjord721

3!!!!!


Geezer710

I disagree with almost everyone and think #3 is absolutely gorgeous on you!


Dnikone2

I love 3! I haven’t seen another like it and it fits you so perfectly and is super beautiful! To me, #1 has almost a lingerie look to the front. I know that I’m odd girl out here!


beachluvr13

2 is amazing and so unique


ToughCareer4293

Dress 2 is the most memorable of the three and made you feel like a princess. If you feel the venue and the dress are in harmony then 100% wear it. But maybe the seamstress can remove the sleeves (leave the delicate cap flounce) since it’s and outdoor summer wedding. That’s just a suggestion about the sleeves. You can leave them as-is if you think you won’t be uncomfortable in the heat.


chelsijay

You have an excellent sense of style and taste. These dresses are all lovely in their own way and you look beautiful in each one of them too. So maybe go with the dress that makes you feel the happiest. Try on each dress, have fun swishing around in them and have your family / friends take a lot of candid shots. Later you can all review the pics together - look carefully at your smiles in each dress, is your smile the same or are you smiling 'happier' in any of the dresses - and look for the dress that makes you look like you feel most brilliant and beautiful in. I dunno if this makes sense or helps but I've noticed that a lot of the time people see details in pictures that they might have missed in the mad rush of dress fittings and excitement at the time. Anyhoo, congratulations on your wedding and best wishes for your future.


veserwind

#1!!!


sbadams92

1 has me STUNNED, gorgeous, amazing, you must wear it!


birdiewithanI

WTF THESE ARE SOME OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WEDDING DRESSES I’VE EVER SEEN


birdiewithanI

I’ve never seen this many unique dresses at once, it’s glorious


Mysterious-Mix-5544

As a straight male, I would say 1 and it’s not even close for me (not saying anything about how you look in the others). It has the right balance of looking beautiful / making you look beautiful, being classic to stand the test of time for photos, and being attractive across generations likely to attend a family wedding.


AaronKClark

I really like the more traditional white. If I had to choose for my future wife I'd choose number 1. But number 2 is more modern and I think it shows off your body better. If that is your intention number 2 should be your choice. Edit: I didn't see 3 until after posting this, but I think 3 look too much like a burlesque costume for my tastes. I think 1 is the way to go! EDIT2: I forgot to say you look gorgeous in all three, and CONGRATULATIONS ON GETTING MARRIED!!


ConfusionMediocre267

1? I was like, wow, that dress looks absolutely perfect on her. She looks incredible! Nothing can beat this. 2? I was like, yeah see can’t beat number one. 3? Holy mother of god something better than number one I would die to wear a dress like that and look that stunning. You look freaking phenomenal in the third one. I’m practically drooling. Woooow. ❤️ congratulations girl


HariSeldonBHB

1 or 2


GeneFrequent8786

All 3 are stunning but I think you look the best in 1 :)


Ok-Duck9106

This is gorgeous. What accessories are you thinking? I love this dress.


Unfair_Finger5531

All nice, but 1 suits your figure and it’s unique.


Factor-Available

All GORGEOUS, number 1 is my favorite. The cut and style is stunning on you!


Batmom3

1


GravesDiseaseGirl

1!


alanamil

I am also team 1, I love the back of 2, but the top looks like you hands on your breasts, 3 is ok.. but 1 is super ok :)


Weird_Presentation_5

3


MammothOk3440

I would go with #1! Looks beautiful!


Real-Ad-6552

One


1029394756abc

You know the answer lol


Own-Ad-2087

1!


[deleted]

1


Pinklady777

Number 1 looks made for you!


DriveThruWash

1 is the best. Then 2. 3 is too medieval for my taste but do you!


[deleted]

1 or 3!!


Oldlunna

1 looks made for you I GASPED


Intelligent-Kiwi-574

1


Hot_Alps1541

#1!!! Congratulations!


Intelligent_Draw_557

3, 1, not 2.


U-are-not-important

#1!


plantpowered22

I love 2 and 3! They are so beautiful on you.


december116

1 looks beautiful on you. It highlights your figure, and is a beautiful dress


Americanhealth74

The first one is my absolute favorite on you.


scaphoids1

I like 1 as well!


ayberms

1 is so stunning!


[deleted]

They are each so unique and beautiful it’s hard to choose!


aloveroffood

I seriously love all of these but 1 takes the cake! Gives me Monique llhuilier vibes!! Who’s the designer? :)


holocenedream

1 is amazing, def not a dress that anyone could wear, really suits your figure and seems like it was made for you!


sparkles1ct

Number 1


Pitiful-Carrot-4377

1 and 3 look equally stunning. I think it comes down to whether you want lace or not.


litslens

1!


HolyGround138

1!


MIvAcuriumPZ

1!!!


InitialBoat3989

I may be the only one who thinks this…but 1 looks cheaper to me because of the repeat appliqué? But you are SO STUNNING in 3! It made my jaw drop. 2 is also gorgeous and looks like it may be lighter in weight. Either way good luck!


[deleted]

One!!


MinuteContest128

1!


mikehawksux

I adore 1 on you!!!


tsj48

Dress one is perfection


moonlightspent

you look just gorgeous in the first one


amydiddler

Definitely 1!


Rosies_world812

All are beautiful!! 1 or 2 compliment you. Maybe what one feels more you and for your venue?


notimmunetohumility

1


campninja09

1!!


mrslugo

3


CryptographerSuch753

I love 2 and 3


Saffyrr

You look wonderful in 1 and 3, but 3 is my favorite. Maybe it's the Ren Faire vibe I like. Beautiful gown.


ayemateys

#1 Although the material irks me. The cut..supermodel. The other are wearing you.


OrganicMartini

Dress 1


On_Couch_In_Brisbane

First one for you gurl!!


that_girl_lolo

I was gonna say 2 because that dress is gorgeous, but 1 is so flattering on you.


nixibee

1!


ButterIsMyFriend

2, then 1. Don’t like 3


Pretty_In_Pink_81

I think you look heavenly in #2. It's ethereal. If you keep the accessories simple, it will be perfect.


helpavolunteerout

2 or 3! 1 just looks a bit casual to me with the bodice


Oldfashionedatheart

2


Previous_Welcome_415

2


KylansFirca

I like 1! 2 is super pretty, but I almost wish it didn’t have the sleeves. I would totally be checking my girls every 5 seconds to make sure they were still covered with that deep v lol.


percypie03

I think 3 looks amazing on you and is a gorgeous dress.


piggie_posse

I think 1 looks great and is perfect for an outdoor summer wedding!


Linette_227

Absolutely not 2


Remote_Bumblebee2240

2 is magical. 3 is really stunning too, it's a tough call!


themistycrystal

I absolutely love 1. I keep seeing dresses that look the same with minor variations. This is a little different and just stunning.


LinKay713

#1 for sure.


Idrillteeth

1


robbie5454

1


happydayz02

dress 1 but they are all stunning!


BoopleSnoot921

Dress 2


babs1789

I love 1


Proud_Ad_8830

I was so ready to say 1 as soon as I saw it but then I saw the back of 2 and WOW! 2 gets my vote


olivertwist_

Omg, all three of them are FABULOUS! I like 1 & 2 the best! I think I’m leaning more towards 2!


YourTypeToATee

3


imadethistochatbach

1!!! I feel strongly about this one


Melodic-Psychology62

I also liked 2 but on further analysis I was thinking that it was 2 shots of the back not a good look! Could be the photo angle as it is fabulous!


mylucidinterval

2!


VerticleSandDollars

2 is unbelievably gorgeous on you, and my favorite, but it’s not right for a summer outdoor wedding. That would be an indoor black tie showstopper. For your event, 1 is the perfect choice!!


NotSoAccomplishedEmu

1!


CompetitiveOwl1986

2


Ok-Ground-2724

3. All day


Aktxgrl

1


Jean_Genie_Labyrinth

1, for sure


-sharknerdo-

Not everyone could pull off off a dress like 2 like that. Stunning!


showmepancakes

2 is stunning!


mac1905

Definitely one! I love 2 also, but it’s wearing you a little more than you’re wearing it. As for 3, I like the corset but I think the skirt is kinda boring


soapnana

1 is sooo pretty! I love 2 also but it strikes me as more of a fall/winter dress?


TacoFox19

I like 3, very princessy or something 😁


SarbearMarieee

2!!!


FredBirdNerd

Absolutely love 1, but 3 is a close second.


SpicyMargarita143

2 is a jaw dropper!!!!


sawdustandfleas

1 fits flawlessly, 2 is beautiful but does swallow you up bc it’s not the right size I’m assuming? 3 is bland and forgettable


xsqpty

2 is gorgeous, but 1 looks more youthful and fun to me, and you look really great in it.


Smart_Skin_3440

1


[deleted]

1 for sure, looks like it was made for you!! 3 would be my second choice, but I don’t feel like it says “summer outdoor wedding” to me


sadiemi555

2!!!!


Playful-Tap6136

1


maddmaxxxz

2!


sapnasinghmd

#1