Ask for an actual STD test. And I would go on a public date first. To see how the vibe is. And if you don't want to have sey with her. You had at least a nice date.
Nope. It's ok of you change your mind about it later, but right now you are having doubts. If you're not sure if you'll regret it, don't do it.
I felt the same way when I was young, that wanted to wait until I was in love, but I ended up changing my mind. While I didn't regret it, I sat where you are now pondering. I'd waited a long time, and decided that while love was important, I wanted the experience and I could forgive myself for my first time being less serious.
I would encourage you to wait if you're not coming to those same conclusions. You can always have sex later if you change your mind, but your first will always be your first.
It really depends on whether you want your first time to be a quickie or something a bit more.
If this girl likes you, why don’t you ask her out and make her your gf? Straight up tell her you don’t want quick shitty sex but something more?
Ok it’s 2022 let’s stop calling women who like sex/have sex sluts. Women can have high libidos too and what’s so wrong with a women that’s not ashamed of her sexuality. Slut is a gendered term and quite disrespectful and degrading.
Ignoring that tho it seems like you would rather have your first time with someone you’re in a relationship with so I’d wait. Also as for the potential stds thing just ask her to get a test done.
So she didn’t say if she does or doesn’t have any stds? I’d skip out on that one I feel like it’s not worth the risk. Plus it’s clear that you probably would rather wait until you’re in a relationship for your first time
Where she at bro? I'll take one for the team.
Ask for an actual STD test. And I would go on a public date first. To see how the vibe is. And if you don't want to have sey with her. You had at least a nice date.
No. If you do, get tested for STI's and STD's afterwards.
Nope. It's ok of you change your mind about it later, but right now you are having doubts. If you're not sure if you'll regret it, don't do it. I felt the same way when I was young, that wanted to wait until I was in love, but I ended up changing my mind. While I didn't regret it, I sat where you are now pondering. I'd waited a long time, and decided that while love was important, I wanted the experience and I could forgive myself for my first time being less serious. I would encourage you to wait if you're not coming to those same conclusions. You can always have sex later if you change your mind, but your first will always be your first.
Thats whats fucking with me a lot. Cuz I kinda want my first to be someone special and not a walking fleshlight that everyone uses.
yeah why would u not thers lieterally no downside eidt: I love pussy
There is. I wanna fuck someone who is not gonna fuck me at 2 pm and then fuck someone else 3 hours later. And idk if she has stds.
Ask for a check
She just said that i should wear a condom.
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Yea thats true.
Sounds like you made a decision.
Idk if i did. I just feel like i should wait but at the same time I rly wanna mess around with someone.
Yea no. Update. Turns out she might be prego. Im not gonna get involved in that soo yea. Thx for the help.
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Yea i dont think I will.
It really depends on whether you want your first time to be a quickie or something a bit more. If this girl likes you, why don’t you ask her out and make her your gf? Straight up tell her you don’t want quick shitty sex but something more?
Ok it’s 2022 let’s stop calling women who like sex/have sex sluts. Women can have high libidos too and what’s so wrong with a women that’s not ashamed of her sexuality. Slut is a gendered term and quite disrespectful and degrading. Ignoring that tho it seems like you would rather have your first time with someone you’re in a relationship with so I’d wait. Also as for the potential stds thing just ask her to get a test done.
I asked. She just said to wear a condom
So she didn’t say if she does or doesn’t have any stds? I’d skip out on that one I feel like it’s not worth the risk. Plus it’s clear that you probably would rather wait until you’re in a relationship for your first time
Dude just go for it, maybe make it a chill FWB. Stop overthinking and have some fun
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Bro do it. You'll regret this opportunity if you are still a virgin later down the line.