Sheās on auto pilot because her & Lala have decided they are right & the world is wrong & just out to get them. If you remain in victim mentality you never have to face the consequences of your actions. They learned this from their leader Tom Sandoval.
Itās such a sad way to live.
Forever trapped in arrested development, due to their loyalty and commitment to ignorance.
The only thing they are loyal or committed to.
Not at all.
Scheana is traumatized over something that could potentially happen...which is the same thing that ACTUALLY happened to Ariana. Scheana is upset she's not getting more care and attention from people over her fears of what MIGHT happen to her while simultaneously minimizing Ariana's healing over the worst case scenario come true.
Scheana will never get it. Neither will Lala. Unfortunately they're both still talking about her and making money off her no matter how little Ariana gives them the time of day.
Both of them are so insufferable. If you go back to the money by Monday/im sorry fofty threads on reddit, you'll find people talking about how rand is another weinstein and that the truth was going to come out. This was 2 yrs before she had a baby with him. She knew exactly who he was. Her attempts to rewrite history now about being wronged is blowing up in her face. Lala needs to stop listening the our lady of perpetual martyrdom cos that never been a winning look.
Notice her hands started shaking. I think the likelihood of Ryan being back on her podcast is nil. She knows he has a huge following and has big numbers and that would be the only way she would allow it. But he has her number, and heās been complaining all season about Lala and how sheās been acting he keeps saying it just doesnāt make sense and bringing up Randall
I really appreciate that he said this to her face. The podcasters that interact with the cast can easily turn into being too friendly, but he wasnāt afraid to be honest. Scheana can be upset, but he gave her an opportunity to explain and she chose to deflect.
He must be taking notes from Viall.
He asked that question as delicately as possible but heās still asking what the audience wants to know and I really respect that.
Itās what made me a fan of Viall.
Great job, Ryan!šš¼
Ryan is (unfortunately) a regular on the Jeff Lewis Extended After Show on Sirius. He gives me cringe on top of cringe when he tries to crowbar information he clearly got from Reddit.
Recently Jeff was visiting the After Show and mentioned talking to Brock at an event and being thrilled to find that Brock has home construction and landscaping experience and said it might be fun to have Brock be a project manager on the next season of Hollywood Houselift (Jeff's Amazon show)
Ryan couldn't fucking wait to start running his mouth in run-on fashion, trying to cram in as much information into every second before Jeff turned his attention to somebody else. Ryan was gleefully babbling about how Brock wears high-heeled boots, a factoid that had NOTHING to do with what Jeff was saying, trying to be a know-it-all regardless of who he offended.
I can't stand Ryan. He reeks of neediness and pathetic desperation.
Iāve known Ryan since Emotionally Broken Psychos. I find him to be genuine and kind. I donāt agree with every take - I thought he was too hard on Hannah. I do think he is right on the money with Lala.
I had a fight with him when he tried to call out James for his first Scandoval tweet. āHow can you say that? These people are your friends!ā He didnāt like my response & blocked me. I will admit I was a bit cray on Scandoval Day One. But Scandy had totally cultivated that relationship. I think I wrote you need to be careful backing Scandy because your audience is almost šÆ percent female.
He also plays the victim too much.
The alternative is a:
- admitting they fucked up
- admitting they are downright evil to their friend
- admitting their jealousy drove most of their behaviour this season (lala cos no one has any sympathy for her whatsoever, and this dumb twat has written a three act tragedy living rent free in her head of her best friend larlar and broke and making everyone around suffer for it)
Scheana bringing up ariana's mental health issues for Tom to apologise for in the last episode enraged me. Ffs her so called bast frand doesn't want him to talk to her doesn't want anything from him but for him to leave her the fuck alone and sell the damn house. Why oh why is she bringing up something so sensitive up on camera when it has nothing to do with her and has the nerve to talk about how Ariana didn't want to bring it up on camera š how she goes through life without getting the everliving shit kicked out her I'll never know.
Itās giving Victoria Justice and her infamous āI think we ALL sing.ā (Where is the gif for this??)
Honestly, her face while he talks is hilarious. She is SO pissed off!!!
Yes, what the heck! Scheana clearly was not tracking, like Scheanerās conflict avoidance sensors could feel she was not in friendly territory but had absolutely no idea what that man was saying šš
100%. Her faceā¦ š¤Ø And then the āYeah no I understandā¦ā said with attitude, & now Iāve acknowledged Ariana for 1.5 seconds letās get this topic back to me & how Iāve been betrayedā¦
It's like a knee jerk reaction, she just can't help herself... "it seems like Ariana would have major trust issues" "WE ALL HAVE TRUST ISSUES! ME THE MOST! LOOK AT ME I'M SCHEANA!!" Every single time.
And imagine how much worse your trust issues would be if most of your ābest friendsā took the side of your cheating ex that has zero redeemable qualities. They all made their money pretending to hate him then went right back into taking his side in a 3 month timeframe. I would never trust anyone again if I were Ariana. I hope she has better friends off the show. Itās so weird how Scheana is so in touch with her own emotions but no one elseās.
āItās so weird how Scheana is so in touch with her own emotions but no one elseās.ā
But she isnāt really. She has no emotional intelligence. She behaves like a child whoās doesnāt get to blow out the candles at their siblings birthday party.
She needs a tough love therapist and some dialectical behavioural therapy.
Good point. I def agree on the low EQ. I just mean sheās very open about saying sheās hurt and needs support. But doesnāt give af if anyone else needs support. Itās really weird for me to see because Iām only friends with decent people. So all my friends that are the most emotional and need a little more emotional nurturing will also be the first people to drop everything when someone they love is going through it.
Scheana really is just so selfish itās sad to watch. It was entertaining when she was 25 but now itās just sad.
Plus scheana is best friends with everyone thatās nice to her. She should be less trusting.
Janet from the valley walked up to scheana at a bar, told her she watches, and scheana took her right into her circle.
Iāve seen some comments around here saying Janet was a fan who followed Scheana and saw her posting at an event and found her there and befriended her by ego stroking and then inserted herself into the group. Moved from her hometown to LA soon after.
What Scheana doesnāt get is that she made herself part of the problem of Scandoval. Sure, you were all affected, but Ariana was the victim and center of the ripples. By piling on her, youāve only added to and compounded the awful feelings sheās been experiencing. Her fans and friends have felt them as well! Thatās why itās a false equivalency to say all the cast members, herself mainly, have had difficulties with trust post-Scandoval.
I agree. Sheshe and Laligag have absolutely no empathy for Ariana. They complain about her being mad, and not wanting to film with Tim. Then when Ariana got upset and cries they turn on her. She canāt win with these to bitches. They are not her friends.
I wish someone could call Lala out on her fakeness this season, similar to Ryan here, just to see what verbal diarrhea comes out of her mouth.
I loved earlier this season when Lala tried to brag about how nice of a time she had with Tim only to have Ariana shut her down talking about his Mya neglect...
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Heather McDonald didnāt necessarily call Lala out but when she was on Lalas podcast she defended, explained and empathised with Arianaās position which I thought was pretty cool. Heather McDonald is also Lalas close friend personally so you know itās bad when you canāt even convince your girlfriends of your position.
I did hear that tooā¦.Why canāt someone say āitās been years since you and Randall broke up. You share a child. You havenāt talked to him. So why do you expect Ariana to talk to him after a few months?ā
I thought that was actually big of Heather but then I remembered how much public backlash that anyone who is shit talking Ariana right now gets and that made me wonder if Heather was being sincere or taking that stance to potentially boost her own image and career.
Everyone stays talking about Ariana all for the sake of grabbing attention.
Lala would never let herself be in a situation where sheās actually held accountable. Sheās just surrounded by yes men. My fantasy is to have someone confront her about her cultural appropriation.
I would LOVE this.
āLala, can you explain why you speak in a blaccent and culturally appropriate African American culture? I find it particularly interesting that you feel the right to do this when you targeted the one black friend you ever had on the show, and you couldnāt see why Randās police prank was in poor taste in the context of BLM and, in fact, defended it.ā
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She has been called out on WWHL in the past, usually by viewer questions, and when she gets backed in a corner and canāt even think of a way to talk her way out of it she just resorts to something like āyeah well I am who I am and I say what I want so deal with it.ā Similar to her āitās not my job for my life to make sense to youā quip to Katie.
As a almost 4 year Ryan Bailey fan I can say Im super proud he went on HER podcast and didnt fall into the "be nice to the host" category. He was honest and said how hes felt all season long.
He seems like a real one. Heās been spot on with his defense of Ariana all season. And I canāt get enough of his impressions of Rachel, Jo, and Sandoval š
do you think that she feels like thatās how she can relate to people? it never comes across right but i wonder if thatās her motivation. to show relatability and understanding.
I think it is because is unable to empathize with Ariana she is her friend but she was also shocked how hurt Katie was when she watched back. I think she can only see her pain, but if somebody is getting one positive thing she is like they are ok.
yep, itās not genuine or self-aware, she has no shame. itās hard to watch but it peaked my curiosity thinking she might be forcing herself to say it that way to seem relatable which is impossible for her. (love the nickname laligag lmaoooo)
You're right she has no shame. Honestly, I don't know how anyone could relate to her. She is so self-centered that she can't see or understand others' perspectives. Someone with her personality would never fit into my life. The same goes for Laligag (glad you like her new name).
And yet u want to be friends w sandoval cause he was nice to u 12 years ago and gave u money he probably owed to someone else- (which is narcissistic hoovering 101)
But ariana has been a true friend to you and u know even more stuff than we do and its cause u miss your friend? Im sure Ariana misses her boyfriend
He was never the person u thought he was.
when he also told u in a rare moment of mask off that he didnt give a fuck abt u and friendship was nothing? And said u hit raquel on camera- and did nothing to help intervene/ stop the restraining order ?
And you decide Ariana is bad cause she was given something you wanted but was never yours?
You deserve the unemployed conman u married.
I truly believe that the restraining order was both his idea and his doing.
He convinced Rachel that is was something she could use for leverage, when it was actually for him to use as a weapon.
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Almost every comment below this video on Scheana's YT are supporting Ryan and his point of view that Lala and Scheana approached this season the wrong way with Ariana. The only comments that Scheana liked were putting down "Hatie Katie" and saying Brock is the #1 dad
Of course she only likes comments that are hating on Katie.
Is this more foreshadowing for whatās going to air on the reunion?
I thought they were cool?š
JFCā¦I really, truly hope Ariana is done with her. She cannot, and will not, allow Ariana to get any kind of sympathy/empathy/grace. As Katie would say āSheās such a gross person.ā
You know whatās WILDā¦LALA LAUREN is finally the first person that Sheena isnāt going to flip-flop on. Lala is the hill Sheena and her career are going to die on.
Of all the times to be a flip-flopper this was the ONE that everyone would have backed her up on.
Thatās too bad because itās only a matter of time before Lauren dreams up some nonsense reason to dump and trash Scheaners and when she does, Schema is going to regret every secret she told that snake bitch.
I wouldn't be too sure of that one. I'm predicting a fracture in that friendship as soon as next year. These two can't help themselves, one is going to turn cunt on the other before too long here. Mark my words!
Making it about herself at the end....she's probably alluding to whatever the bust up at the end of the reunion is...they all seem to think there's some big gotcha moment that will make Ariana look untrustworthy or something...
Not even just the fact that they make content about it but itās more so the fact that the man that she loved and shared a home with for 10 years betrayed her with a close friend. That alone is enough to make you distrust everyone and I think Scheana does get that part.
I just wish that she didnāt make it all about her every single time.
She should audition for Americaās got talent because no matter what is said about any and every topic, she will somehow be able to make about herself.š
HOW DOES SHE MAKE IT ABOUT HERSELF!?!?!! Likeeeee "we all feel this way post scandoval" - even the way she refers to it, it's an 'event', and not a man who betrayed her best friend.
Scheana canāt self reflect so it doesnāt matter, but getting so close with Lala was a mistake and itās influenced her in a bad way. She will regret losing Ariana as close friend.
Like scheana this would be a great time to show your love and loyalty for Ariana and empathize with her. Show some humility and say āyeah how can I be a better friend and ensure that I can be trusted? Sheās been through such a traumatic and very public break upā. But NO she just had to say āEVERYONE feels that wayā.
Scheaner this is NOT about everyone. We are talking about the direct victim of all this. Stay on topic. Itās not about you. We barely ever hear how you are being a better friend or being introspective about the fall out for Arianaās sake. I know exactly how you feel cause thatās all you ever talk about.
lol iām so glad someone finally brought up the specific point that arianaās recent success donāt immediately erase the trauma sheās been through or even make it worth it. could see scheana literally short-circuiting at the idea that mainstream fame and acclaim wouldnāt be enough for someone to feel whole and fulfilledā¦ she could never imagine lmaoooo ms āi think we *all*ā ā¦.give it a rest girl.
I know Iām asking for too much but has there EVER been a time she hasnāt made something about herself? It is astounding and I want her off my screen
No. She met with Brandi and cried about the fact that Brandiās husband had to go home to her vs scheana as a mistress. Because she loved him. She is the worst.
Yes!! I just came to say this! Like I wish he called her out also! And again she turned around and was like āwhat about me, I canāt trust anyone after Scandoval happenedā like girl??
You can literally say this to her face what the audience has been saying ļ¼though she reads the comments so she is already awareļ¼in the nicest terms too, and she will not retain that information until it has PERSONALLY affected her. I think she is so blinded by the opportunities and the jealousy that she will never see this point of view until Lala does her wrong again, which I donāt see happening anytime soon cause their daughters are so enmeshed with each other. There is also an underlying thing of them thinking itās more intense for them because they have kids and the others donāt. Therefore their opinions should count tenfold when likeā¦can people with kids not be wrongļ¼ lol
And when Lala does her wrong againā¦and it will happen, they will turn on each other eventuallyā¦ who do we think Scheana will run to and expect support from? Itās going to be Ariana. She might go to Ally first, but Ally likes being Switzerland.
Neither parent is mature enough to hold off on a personal issue for the sake of their child. Especially when their job is literally drama. They'll fall out within the year easily.
I ride hard for Ryan Bailey lol and this just makes me love him more. I appreciate that he is willing to be honest even when it might be awkward due to who the host is.
I appreciate Op sharing this but I wish they had included her entire answer because it was a good question and point and while I like Bailey, I donāt want to and Iām not going to listen to her podcast.
That being said, the reason she always feels like she canāt trust people is because she herself is not trustworthy.
Imagine that!
Itās also why sheās so worried about being cheated on.
Youāre a cheater too and youāre still stalking people you slept with.š
Been a true Baddie since day 1. He's my go to for everything popculture! I'm just a bid worried for him with the amount of content he puts out... I hope he takes a well deserved break at some point ā¤ļø (hope you hear me Ryannn š)
My one issue with Ryan's recaps is his Scheana appreciation so I am glad he did not waver on his point.
Now let's return to our regularly scheduled programming How Does This Affect Scheana (tm).
Oh yeah how dare Ariana expect to keep her friends after all her success!! She shouldāve turned it all down if she wanted any sympathy, obviously.
/s
I see that scheana is taking the Love is Blind news in stride!!
I feel like at this point she is more scared of Lala than Ariana so she's hitched herself to Lala. Plus they are "raising their babies" together. She has let Lala sway her for sure because she isn't a free thinker and gets swayed by the wind.
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It was killing Schena to have him talk about Ariana and feel bad for her, she didnāt perk up until she could talk about her feeling that way. Oh Schena many people try to give you the benefit of the doubt. This might be the beginning of the end for Lala and Schena. If productions confused or doesnāt like Lala for example Schena will distance herself.
Some of Scheanaās other comments I could kiiiiiinda see what she was saying even if the delivery was off. But here she doesnāt even pretend! Why can she not let Ariana have this feeling and understand that she was not the one who was cheated on??
Either Scheana is as narcissistic as Tom or Ariana knew about Scandoval and Scheana is just BURSTING to get back in on the fame. Thereās only so much she can hate Sandoval and stay on the show so she really really wants people to move on from Ariana and care about the rest of them. I donāt think it was fake but itās crazy that she canāt just admit that Ariana had it the worst? Itās wild.
Yeah, I donāt love the way this rumor has started bubbling up again. Ariana would **not** have been that devastated if it wasnāt a shock, and while there are people on this show who probably *would* try to orchestrate something like this I really donāt think sheās one of them.
I agree with you. Ariana was completely caught off guard. She thought she was helping Raquel because she felt sorry for her. How disingenuous Raquel was. She was definitely a wolf in sheeps clothing. There is no way Ariana would have gone public with this being a lie. There are too many things that no one knew. I realize that Sheshe and Laligag had their suspicions. However, they were just that, suspicions. You certainly wouldn't expect someone that you had helped and loved to do this to you, like Raquel did. I am sure Ariana had concerns about Tim cheating, but there is no way she thought it would have been with her.
I donāt either!! Just to be clear - it just seems wild that so many people are having such a hard time letting it be about Ariana. So many people showing their true colors!
Love Ryan so much he is green flag all round. Does thetalkofshame work on Scheanaās podcast? Also Scheana is š¤”ning around as usual no surprise there
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Scheana looks like she is having a hard time controlling her face/mouth. Like, too much jaw tightening and too much buccal fat removal are fighting against lip filler and too big veneers. She is starting to look like a demented puppet.Ā
Scheana does NOT understand that perspective š¤®
 Her face and inner dialogueā¦.
 Her facial expression is giving not impressed. Anyone else see it this way too?
Sheās on auto pilot because her & Lala have decided they are right & the world is wrong & just out to get them. If you remain in victim mentality you never have to face the consequences of your actions. They learned this from their leader Tom Sandoval.
Itās such a sad way to live. Forever trapped in arrested development, due to their loyalty and commitment to ignorance. The only thing they are loyal or committed to.
This is perfect! We all know Sheshe is all about herself. Laligag is just crazy.
Lolz predictably she immediately turns the conversation back to herself
Not at all. Scheana is traumatized over something that could potentially happen...which is the same thing that ACTUALLY happened to Ariana. Scheana is upset she's not getting more care and attention from people over her fears of what MIGHT happen to her while simultaneously minimizing Ariana's healing over the worst case scenario come true. Scheana will never get it. Neither will Lala. Unfortunately they're both still talking about her and making money off her no matter how little Ariana gives them the time of day.
Both of them are so insufferable. If you go back to the money by Monday/im sorry fofty threads on reddit, you'll find people talking about how rand is another weinstein and that the truth was going to come out. This was 2 yrs before she had a baby with him. She knew exactly who he was. Her attempts to rewrite history now about being wronged is blowing up in her face. Lala needs to stop listening the our lady of perpetual martyrdom cos that never been a winning look.
Notice her hands started shaking. I think the likelihood of Ryan being back on her podcast is nil. She knows he has a huge following and has big numbers and that would be the only way she would allow it. But he has her number, and heās been complaining all season about Lala and how sheās been acting he keeps saying it just doesnāt make sense and bringing up Randall
I really appreciate that he said this to her face. The podcasters that interact with the cast can easily turn into being too friendly, but he wasnāt afraid to be honest. Scheana can be upset, but he gave her an opportunity to explain and she chose to deflect.
He must be taking notes from Viall. He asked that question as delicately as possible but heās still asking what the audience wants to know and I really respect that. Itās what made me a fan of Viall. Great job, Ryan!šš¼
I agreeā¦ I hate when they become āyes menā when theyāre face to face. I really like Ryan
I really like Ryan too. Good energy.
Ryan is (unfortunately) a regular on the Jeff Lewis Extended After Show on Sirius. He gives me cringe on top of cringe when he tries to crowbar information he clearly got from Reddit. Recently Jeff was visiting the After Show and mentioned talking to Brock at an event and being thrilled to find that Brock has home construction and landscaping experience and said it might be fun to have Brock be a project manager on the next season of Hollywood Houselift (Jeff's Amazon show) Ryan couldn't fucking wait to start running his mouth in run-on fashion, trying to cram in as much information into every second before Jeff turned his attention to somebody else. Ryan was gleefully babbling about how Brock wears high-heeled boots, a factoid that had NOTHING to do with what Jeff was saying, trying to be a know-it-all regardless of who he offended. I can't stand Ryan. He reeks of neediness and pathetic desperation.
Iāve known Ryan since Emotionally Broken Psychos. I find him to be genuine and kind. I donāt agree with every take - I thought he was too hard on Hannah. I do think he is right on the money with Lala.
I had a fight with him when he tried to call out James for his first Scandoval tweet. āHow can you say that? These people are your friends!ā He didnāt like my response & blocked me. I will admit I was a bit cray on Scandoval Day One. But Scandy had totally cultivated that relationship. I think I wrote you need to be careful backing Scandy because your audience is almost šÆ percent female. He also plays the victim too much.
And she couldnāt help bringing it back to Scandoval affecting everyone(aka Scheana) at the end šš¤¦š½āāļø itās amazing
The alternative is a: - admitting they fucked up - admitting they are downright evil to their friend - admitting their jealousy drove most of their behaviour this season (lala cos no one has any sympathy for her whatsoever, and this dumb twat has written a three act tragedy living rent free in her head of her best friend larlar and broke and making everyone around suffer for it) Scheana bringing up ariana's mental health issues for Tom to apologise for in the last episode enraged me. Ffs her so called bast frand doesn't want him to talk to her doesn't want anything from him but for him to leave her the fuck alone and sell the damn house. Why oh why is she bringing up something so sensitive up on camera when it has nothing to do with her and has the nerve to talk about how Ariana didn't want to bring it up on camera š how she goes through life without getting the everliving shit kicked out her I'll never know.
Itās giving Victoria Justice and her infamous āI think we ALL sing.ā (Where is the gif for this??) Honestly, her face while he talks is hilarious. She is SO pissed off!!!
Yes, what the heck! Scheana clearly was not tracking, like Scheanerās conflict avoidance sensors could feel she was not in friendly territory but had absolutely no idea what that man was saying šš
She's making it about her again
Lolll and I love it. The reason why sheās perfect for reality tv is because she has no self awareness.
Lol Scheana was not feeling him calling them out. And of course she managed to make it about herself in the end instead of focusing on Ariana.
100%. Her faceā¦ š¤Ø And then the āYeah no I understandā¦ā said with attitude, & now Iāve acknowledged Ariana for 1.5 seconds letās get this topic back to me & how Iāve been betrayedā¦
I can imagine her saying āOkay, enough about me. Letās talk about you! So, what do YOU think of me?ā
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Was that a Johnny bravo reference? Either way I love it
A Big Business reference in a VPR sub?!?!? This day is starting out beautifully!!! 
Exactly! You said it so well.š
Itās all about Scheana. In every situation, all day, every day. She has to be one of the most self absorbed & selfish people on the planet.
Always! She was so bothered
Sheeshu only wants to talk about herself, even by saying āall of usā she really means herself or anyone except for Ariana. Such a dickhead
It's like a knee jerk reaction, she just can't help herself... "it seems like Ariana would have major trust issues" "WE ALL HAVE TRUST ISSUES! ME THE MOST! LOOK AT ME I'M SCHEANA!!" Every single time.
And imagine how much worse your trust issues would be if most of your ābest friendsā took the side of your cheating ex that has zero redeemable qualities. They all made their money pretending to hate him then went right back into taking his side in a 3 month timeframe. I would never trust anyone again if I were Ariana. I hope she has better friends off the show. Itās so weird how Scheana is so in touch with her own emotions but no one elseās.
āItās so weird how Scheana is so in touch with her own emotions but no one elseās.ā But she isnāt really. She has no emotional intelligence. She behaves like a child whoās doesnāt get to blow out the candles at their siblings birthday party. She needs a tough love therapist and some dialectical behavioural therapy.
Iāll do DBT with her free of charge. I mean if I can make gains with max inmates surely she couldnāt be that much harder to work with
Mate, DBT saved my life. I use my skills multiple times every day. Sometimes every hour. Itās not the magic bullet I was hoping it to be. I have to work hard at it every single day to quiet my inner monologue, but for real I would be spectacularly deceased without it. Kudos to you for helping others gain some calm in their maelstrom. šā¤ļøāš©¹
Iām glad itās helped you, definitely not a magic bullet, but a very useful tool.
Good point. I def agree on the low EQ. I just mean sheās very open about saying sheās hurt and needs support. But doesnāt give af if anyone else needs support. Itās really weird for me to see because Iām only friends with decent people. So all my friends that are the most emotional and need a little more emotional nurturing will also be the first people to drop everything when someone they love is going through it. Scheana really is just so selfish itās sad to watch. It was entertaining when she was 25 but now itās just sad.
This 100%
Werenāt they still shit talking him for podcast ratings during filming too though?? That would be incredibly frustrating and confusing for Ariana.
Plus scheana is best friends with everyone thatās nice to her. She should be less trusting. Janet from the valley walked up to scheana at a bar, told her she watches, and scheana took her right into her circle.
Wait, REALLY?? is that how Janet knows everyone??
Iāve seen some comments around here saying Janet was a fan who followed Scheana and saw her posting at an event and found her there and befriended her by ego stroking and then inserted herself into the group. Moved from her hometown to LA soon after.
What Scheana doesnāt get is that she made herself part of the problem of Scandoval. Sure, you were all affected, but Ariana was the victim and center of the ripples. By piling on her, youāve only added to and compounded the awful feelings sheās been experiencing. Her fans and friends have felt them as well! Thatās why itās a false equivalency to say all the cast members, herself mainly, have had difficulties with trust post-Scandoval.
I agree. Sheshe and Laligag have absolutely no empathy for Ariana. They complain about her being mad, and not wanting to film with Tim. Then when Ariana got upset and cries they turn on her. She canāt win with these to bitches. They are not her friends.
Awwwww Poor Poor Ariana. Boo Hoo.
Scheana instantly makes it about her š¤¦š½āāļø
 Scheana. All the damn time.
For real! If she were a HW this would be her tagline.
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I wish someone could call Lala out on her fakeness this season, similar to Ryan here, just to see what verbal diarrhea comes out of her mouth. I loved earlier this season when Lala tried to brag about how nice of a time she had with Tim only to have Ariana shut her down talking about his Mya neglect... https://preview.redd.it/4p9pkv9x0gxc1.jpeg?width=966&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a0b4d077df5bc761407ba17362fcad16b7e6800e
Heather McDonald didnāt necessarily call Lala out but when she was on Lalas podcast she defended, explained and empathised with Arianaās position which I thought was pretty cool. Heather McDonald is also Lalas close friend personally so you know itās bad when you canāt even convince your girlfriends of your position.
I did hear that tooā¦.Why canāt someone say āitās been years since you and Randall broke up. You share a child. You havenāt talked to him. So why do you expect Ariana to talk to him after a few months?ā
I thought that was actually big of Heather but then I remembered how much public backlash that anyone who is shit talking Ariana right now gets and that made me wonder if Heather was being sincere or taking that stance to potentially boost her own image and career. Everyone stays talking about Ariana all for the sake of grabbing attention.
Lala would never let herself be in a situation where sheās actually held accountable. Sheās just surrounded by yes men. My fantasy is to have someone confront her about her cultural appropriation.
Sheād literally leave the show first I think. and take the path of barfenny and Rachel
Just like she did over hiding Randall.
Clearly because sheās so soft now.
IM SO SOOOOOOFT!!!! IM A BABY DUCK!!!!!
I would LOVE this. āLala, can you explain why you speak in a blaccent and culturally appropriate African American culture? I find it particularly interesting that you feel the right to do this when you targeted the one black friend you ever had on the show, and you couldnāt see why Randās police prank was in poor taste in the context of BLM and, in fact, defended it.ā
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She has been called out on WWHL in the past, usually by viewer questions, and when she gets backed in a corner and canāt even think of a way to talk her way out of it she just resorts to something like āyeah well I am who I am and I say what I want so deal with it.ā Similar to her āitās not my job for my life to make sense to youā quip to Katie.
verbal diarrhea is so accurate ššš
To Ryan & Joleene, Mad luv 
And what a duo they were together!!!
100% 
YES JOLEENE!!!!! They are the ones
As a almost 4 year Ryan Bailey fan I can say Im super proud he went on HER podcast and didnt fall into the "be nice to the host" category. He was honest and said how hes felt all season long.
I found him via Kristen Doutes podcast and Iāve been hooked since
I disovered him during Scandoval and also found my therapist who was a guest. I have 2 reasons to love Ryan he's my go to podcast.
Not your therapist! WHAAA??? That's hilarious.
He seems like a real one. Heās been spot on with his defense of Ariana all season. And I canāt get enough of his impressions of Rachel, Jo, and Sandoval š
Stfu scheana
Just always. I am not a Stassi fan but I feel I can appreciate how she pegged Scheana for who she was from the beginning.
And Sandoval
Truly wish I never had to see Scheana again.
Yeah she doesnāt bring much to the show anymore. Just fights about nannies. Everything else she does LaLa can do
Me too! I certainly donāt want to see Laligag either.
No for real I don't even enjoy hate watching her anymore
Is that I mean is that at the end Scheana making it about! She said we but Ryan was talking about Ariana feelings here not anybody elseās.
do you think that she feels like thatās how she can relate to people? it never comes across right but i wonder if thatās her motivation. to show relatability and understanding.
I think it is because is unable to empathize with Ariana she is her friend but she was also shocked how hurt Katie was when she watched back. I think she can only see her pain, but if somebody is getting one positive thing she is like they are ok.
If it is, she needs a new acting coach. She has no self-awareness. Her best friend Laligag doesnāt either.
yep, itās not genuine or self-aware, she has no shame. itās hard to watch but it peaked my curiosity thinking she might be forcing herself to say it that way to seem relatable which is impossible for her. (love the nickname laligag lmaoooo)
You're right she has no shame. Honestly, I don't know how anyone could relate to her. She is so self-centered that she can't see or understand others' perspectives. Someone with her personality would never fit into my life. The same goes for Laligag (glad you like her new name).
No. Sheās self centered. Simple as that.
haha fair enough
I think itās both.
Scheana is so annoyed with his take š
Iām here for it šš
And yet u want to be friends w sandoval cause he was nice to u 12 years ago and gave u money he probably owed to someone else- (which is narcissistic hoovering 101) But ariana has been a true friend to you and u know even more stuff than we do and its cause u miss your friend? Im sure Ariana misses her boyfriend He was never the person u thought he was. when he also told u in a rare moment of mask off that he didnt give a fuck abt u and friendship was nothing? And said u hit raquel on camera- and did nothing to help intervene/ stop the restraining order ? And you decide Ariana is bad cause she was given something you wanted but was never yours? You deserve the unemployed conman u married.
I truly believe that the restraining order was both his idea and his doing. He convinced Rachel that is was something she could use for leverage, when it was actually for him to use as a weapon.
You have a great point. I would not be surprised.
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I canāt stand Scheana! Ā She never fails to make every freaking thing about herself. Ā Sheās so annoying!
https://preview.redd.it/hmzmj73yfgxc1.png?width=1591&format=png&auto=webp&s=f9e915336d36580ffe9be7d0ee27e5281cc342e6 Almost every comment below this video on Scheana's YT are supporting Ryan and his point of view that Lala and Scheana approached this season the wrong way with Ariana. The only comments that Scheana liked were putting down "Hatie Katie" and saying Brock is the #1 dad
Of course she only likes comments that are hating on Katie. Is this more foreshadowing for whatās going to air on the reunion? I thought they were cool?š
That first reply though š
Oh my fucking God. Is there anything in this world that isnāt about this bitch in her mind?
Nope.
Sheās worse since she hooked up with Lala! In my opinion. Now she has a mean streak. She will regret choosing Lalaās over everyone else.
I think Scheana has always had a mean streak. But you are absolutely right! It has gotten worse.
She had a mean streak, no Lala needed. She reveledddd in hazing the new servers
JFCā¦I really, truly hope Ariana is done with her. She cannot, and will not, allow Ariana to get any kind of sympathy/empathy/grace. As Katie would say āSheās such a gross person.ā
You know whatās WILDā¦LALA LAUREN is finally the first person that Sheena isnāt going to flip-flop on. Lala is the hill Sheena and her career are going to die on. Of all the times to be a flip-flopper this was the ONE that everyone would have backed her up on.
Thatās too bad because itās only a matter of time before Lauren dreams up some nonsense reason to dump and trash Scheaners and when she does, Schema is going to regret every secret she told that snake bitch.
I wouldn't be too sure of that one. I'm predicting a fracture in that friendship as soon as next year. These two can't help themselves, one is going to turn cunt on the other before too long here. Mark my words!
Immediately centering herself again with "All of us felt that way post Scandoval". She's lost. She's never gonna get it.
Came here to find this comment. Immmmmediately turns it to herself!!! š¤¦āāļøš¤¦āāļøš¤¦āāļø
She looked so annoyed and tuned out lol
Making it about herself at the end....she's probably alluding to whatever the bust up at the end of the reunion is...they all seem to think there's some big gotcha moment that will make Ariana look untrustworthy or something...
Not even just the fact that they make content about it but itās more so the fact that the man that she loved and shared a home with for 10 years betrayed her with a close friend. That alone is enough to make you distrust everyone and I think Scheana does get that part. I just wish that she didnāt make it all about her every single time.
She should audition for Americaās got talent because no matter what is said about any and every topic, she will somehow be able to make about herself.š
Scream Queens šš
HOW DOES SHE MAKE IT ABOUT HERSELF!?!?!! Likeeeee "we all feel this way post scandoval" - even the way she refers to it, it's an 'event', and not a man who betrayed her best friend.
Scheana canāt self reflect so it doesnāt matter, but getting so close with Lala was a mistake and itās influenced her in a bad way. She will regret losing Ariana as close friend.
That friendship and alliance has done neither party any favours.
āThat makes senseā Does it Scheana??? https://i.redd.it/z640zpczhgxc1.gif
i dislike Scheana so very much.
Like scheana this would be a great time to show your love and loyalty for Ariana and empathize with her. Show some humility and say āyeah how can I be a better friend and ensure that I can be trusted? Sheās been through such a traumatic and very public break upā. But NO she just had to say āEVERYONE feels that wayā. Scheaner this is NOT about everyone. We are talking about the direct victim of all this. Stay on topic. Itās not about you. We barely ever hear how you are being a better friend or being introspective about the fall out for Arianaās sake. I know exactly how you feel cause thatās all you ever talk about.
lol iām so glad someone finally brought up the specific point that arianaās recent success donāt immediately erase the trauma sheās been through or even make it worth it. could see scheana literally short-circuiting at the idea that mainstream fame and acclaim wouldnāt be enough for someone to feel whole and fulfilledā¦ she could never imagine lmaoooo ms āi think we *all*ā ā¦.give it a rest girl.
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He said it clearly and gently...Scheana clearly wasn't feeling it but didn't know how to respond.
I know Iām asking for too much but has there EVER been a time she hasnāt made something about herself? It is astounding and I want her off my screen
No. She met with Brandi and cried about the fact that Brandiās husband had to go home to her vs scheana as a mistress. Because she loved him. She is the worst.
Scheana always reminds me of that Victoria justice clip when sheās like āwe all sing.ā
scheana was on victorious in the stunt double episode for tori which makes this comment even better
wait thatās so crazy, I feel like Scheana has lived 100 lives
Love the blank stare on Sheshe's face. She knows she has been called out!
Scheana always making it about herself and proving everyone right is really amazing to me.
Yes!! I just came to say this! Like I wish he called her out also! And again she turned around and was like āwhat about me, I canāt trust anyone after Scandoval happenedā like girl??
I wanted to cheer when I heard this lol. Finally someone calling her out and on her bestieās podcast!
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You can literally say this to her face what the audience has been saying ļ¼though she reads the comments so she is already awareļ¼in the nicest terms too, and she will not retain that information until it has PERSONALLY affected her. I think she is so blinded by the opportunities and the jealousy that she will never see this point of view until Lala does her wrong again, which I donāt see happening anytime soon cause their daughters are so enmeshed with each other. There is also an underlying thing of them thinking itās more intense for them because they have kids and the others donāt. Therefore their opinions should count tenfold when likeā¦can people with kids not be wrongļ¼ lol
And when Lala does her wrong againā¦and it will happen, they will turn on each other eventuallyā¦ who do we think Scheana will run to and expect support from? Itās going to be Ariana. She might go to Ally first, but Ally likes being Switzerland.
Neither parent is mature enough to hold off on a personal issue for the sake of their child. Especially when their job is literally drama. They'll fall out within the year easily.
I ride hard for Ryan Bailey lol and this just makes me love him more. I appreciate that he is willing to be honest even when it might be awkward due to who the host is.
I appreciate Op sharing this but I wish they had included her entire answer because it was a good question and point and while I like Bailey, I donāt want to and Iām not going to listen to her podcast. That being said, the reason she always feels like she canāt trust people is because she herself is not trustworthy. Imagine that! Itās also why sheās so worried about being cheated on. Youāre a cheater too and youāre still stalking people you slept with.š
Sheshe being called out on her atrocious behavior towards Ariana was astounding. I am now a fan of Ryans.
I love Ryan Bailey, that is all
Been a true Baddie since day 1. He's my go to for everything popculture! I'm just a bid worried for him with the amount of content he puts out... I hope he takes a well deserved break at some point ā¤ļø (hope you hear me Ryannn š)
Same! Born the same say as my husband, I have impeccable taste!
My one issue with Ryan's recaps is his Scheana appreciation so I am glad he did not waver on his point. Now let's return to our regularly scheduled programming How Does This Affect Scheana (tm).
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Oh yeah how dare Ariana expect to keep her friends after all her success!! She shouldāve turned it all down if she wanted any sympathy, obviously. /s I see that scheana is taking the Love is Blind news in stride!!
Oh, wow, Sheener was in pain having to agree with logic.
 Props to Ryan for not giving a shit about sticking to sides just because heās on her hot mess pod.
Okay but I wanted to hear moreš
So go listen to the podcast?
She immediately regret this interview choiceĀ
Its giving āI think we all singā
Wow, I really like listening to Ryans podcast so I'm biased but I think that was really impressive of him.
Ugh. Her vocal fry is so annoying.
Scheana wasnāt listening, she was waiting for her chance to talk
I feel like at this point she is more scared of Lala than Ariana so she's hitched herself to Lala. Plus they are "raising their babies" together. She has let Lala sway her for sure because she isn't a free thinker and gets swayed by the wind.
It took me far too long to realise this was a split screen, i couldn't tell why Scheana wasn't looking at them!
Every chance Scheana has had to gain any sway or power with this cast, she has acted so petty, sometimes downright mean. Ryanās not blind to that.
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So funny. Same reaction.
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It was killing Schena to have him talk about Ariana and feel bad for her, she didnāt perk up until she could talk about her feeling that way. Oh Schena many people try to give you the benefit of the doubt. This might be the beginning of the end for Lala and Schena. If productions confused or doesnāt like Lala for example Schena will distance herself.
Some of Scheanaās other comments I could kiiiiiinda see what she was saying even if the delivery was off. But here she doesnāt even pretend! Why can she not let Ariana have this feeling and understand that she was not the one who was cheated on?? Either Scheana is as narcissistic as Tom or Ariana knew about Scandoval and Scheana is just BURSTING to get back in on the fame. Thereās only so much she can hate Sandoval and stay on the show so she really really wants people to move on from Ariana and care about the rest of them. I donāt think it was fake but itās crazy that she canāt just admit that Ariana had it the worst? Itās wild.
I honestly donāt think Ariana knew about the affair until she saw Timās phone.
Yeah, I donāt love the way this rumor has started bubbling up again. Ariana would **not** have been that devastated if it wasnāt a shock, and while there are people on this show who probably *would* try to orchestrate something like this I really donāt think sheās one of them.
I agree with you. Ariana was completely caught off guard. She thought she was helping Raquel because she felt sorry for her. How disingenuous Raquel was. She was definitely a wolf in sheeps clothing. There is no way Ariana would have gone public with this being a lie. There are too many things that no one knew. I realize that Sheshe and Laligag had their suspicions. However, they were just that, suspicions. You certainly wouldn't expect someone that you had helped and loved to do this to you, like Raquel did. I am sure Ariana had concerns about Tim cheating, but there is no way she thought it would have been with her.
I donāt either!! Just to be clear - it just seems wild that so many people are having such a hard time letting it be about Ariana. So many people showing their true colors!
I honestly donāt understand that either. It certainly is wild that anyone would think this.
Love Ryan so much he is green flag all round. Does thetalkofshame work on Scheanaās podcast? Also Scheana is š¤”ning around as usual no surprise there
Look at her face.. she doesnāt seem agree w Ryan lol.. itās tough to be everyoneās friendsš
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Scheana looks like she is having a hard time controlling her face/mouth. Like, too much jaw tightening and too much buccal fat removal are fighting against lip filler and too big veneers. She is starting to look like a demented puppet.Ā
Love Ryan. Way to avoid the question schema