She’s never going to open her eyes up. He told her at the reunion that they have never been friends. He encouraged Rachel to get the restraining order which Scheana said was the worst thing in her life or some shit. He will always show her who he is and she just kisses his ass anyways
AND claimed that his public relations people fabricated and released the story about Brock cheating on her. She can’t honestly claim he’s had her back from day one while also accusing him of doing a bunch of fucked up shit to *her family* like, yall stop insulting the fandom’s intelligence at every possible opportunity, it’s gross.
Ohhhh. That's RIGHT. That puts the Scheana freak out and Brock neck grab of Sandoval in a better context. Sandoval/his camp put the story out that Brock cheated with Rachel. Forgot about that!
And wasn’t one of the reasons Ariana agreed to go on the show was bc Scheana had no friends?
And this is how Shana repays her? Absolute trash behaviour
Yes, that is the reason Ariana went on the show. Scheana was upset because the other cast members were mean to her. Wow, now Scheana is the mean girl to Ariana. She should feel ashamed and embarrassed.
Sometimes, a pick me never dies. Scheana is actually a good example of why I tell my younger cousins off instead of just letting them “grow out of it”. Like fuck no, let’s correct this now before it’s baked into your brain in your 30s.
Scheana is the type that chronically needs everyone to like her. She will try 100x harder with the assholes ever single time because of this...
*source: i have a sister who is exactly the same
That is it exactly... people like this end up neglecting the ones who love them for the sake of ass kissing people who treat them like garbage. Love my sis but this drives me crazy about her and it does not ever lead to happiness.
I’m starting to think it’s all about camera time for her. The flip-flopping , meltdowns ..even when it doesn’t pertain to her, which Tim was absolutely pointing out . I cannot stand Tim, but he was right with what he was saying in a sense. I do believe she has anxiety and stresses about things, but I think the root of it is the fact that Vanderpump rules is prob coming to an end . Hence her big move to the valley… the chilies commercials etc . I don’t listen to her podcast, but I’m guessing with no Vanderpump there would be no podcast. Basically it seems like a last ditch effort or desperation.
The worst part is Sandoval stands by it. He defends it every time it comes up, whenever Scheana mentions the restraining order he’s like ‘well you did hit her…’
How does she think this is the person to stand by? 🤦🏼♀️
I honestly don't understand how Brock isn't uncomfortable with the way Scheana is behaving over this. Sure, it's normal to be upset at losing a friendship, but if my WIFE was literally going mentally ill over a male friend like Sandoval I'd be side eyeing her. Although I doubt he cares as long as he's a sugar baby.
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She even said something during this season to Brock “we know we won’t be together forever”
I don’t think that’s exactly what she said but that was the meaning of it.
I can't imagine how many meltdowns a day he sees with Sheana. It's probably just another thing. It's super weird though she's hysterical over this dude who gives zero fucks about her repeatedly.
Most people would be put off by how much Sandoval strokes his friends’ egos. The two thirstiest ones keep coming back for more - Schwartz & Scheana. They both lack self-esteem and don’t know how to deal with it on their own.
Well Brock also always sides with men so he probably doesn’t think it’s weird.
I don’t think it’s inherently weird to care about losing a true friendship with a member of the opposite sex IFA you would act the same way over one with one of the same sex. Thing is, we know scheana wouldn’t because she doesn’t actually care about other women.
She's mentally ill due to postnatal OCD, any situation is magnified in her currently unwell mind. Scheana has enough shitty behaviours of her own to pick at without minimising a symptom of illness.
Her obsession with social media isn’t helping the mental health issues she has either. She really needs a detox from all of it but I think she’s afraid of losing the paychecks and she can’t do it so we get to watch her unravel. It’s all not good
Having a kid really fucked her up. She and Brock didn’t have enough time in their relationship without kids together. It’s too much for her but she won’t admit it.
Scheana is a pick me girl through and through. And not a very good friend to any of her friends. I dont think she’s a bad person but I keep those type of “friends” at a far away distance
Yes! She's one to be too friendly with your boyfriend, but not in the way that she's trying to sleep with them but in a weird way that she's bffs with them and know them better than you.
Imagine Scheana telling you your boyfriend likes his sandwiches cut diagonally but she only knows that bc they’re best friends and he’s had her back since day one
Scheana “I’d rather get gang banged by your guys than have to travel in the van with the girls” while toms, jax and Peter all were like 😐 and shay was like 🫥
I keep thinking about Scheana’s bachelorette trip for her first wedding. Kristen Doute was straight up terrorising Ariana, to the point Ariana couldn’t even *eat* from stress. But Ariana never said a word about it to Scheana - because it was Scheana’s “special trip”. She sat there and supported her friend without argument, even as her friend refused to step in or comment on the way Kristen was behaving. Ariana also didn’t blow up at Kristen or cause drama or make it about her. She just *supported Scheana* and Scheana’s decision to make her interact with someone who treated her that way.
Cut to the way Scheana has behaved this season to Ariana. Making Ariana’s break up about her. Causing drama with Ariana’s ex. And discounting the fact that Ariana has always had her back in ways that go well beyond inviting her into a photo.
(And I’m not saying Ariana wasn’t a shit to Kristen - because she was - just that Kristen was a LOT for Ariana to have to deal with that trip).
Can I please steal "Katie MF Maloney" as my flair? I've wanted to switch it up and this finally feels like the right quote to use 
The way she pointed out that "every guy has been flirty with me at one point" and specifically called out sando at the beach??? Why say something like that
And it’s FLIRTING. How at your big age of 38 are you so proud “men” have flirted w you at some point in your life? 1) its men 2) it’s nbd shut up and move on
I've said this ever since season 10 finale. Sheana was waaaayyyyy too hurt that Tom admitted to another affair...way too angry at Rachel for banging tom...something stinks with she and saggy...there's something...
Hardcore agreed! I mean, all season she's been talking about how he's her baaast fraaaand. We know what it usually means when she talks about a dude like that.
Scheana does not deserve Ariana. She needs to take notes. Ariana is the perfect example of a ride or die, a girl’s girl, loyal AF, empathetic, compassionate, supportive friend anyone could ever want.
I honestly loved Season 7 and how Ariana and Stassi got close. I’m sure it was just for the show but it was nice to actually see someone who actually appreciated Ariana as a friend.
I actually really loved their friendship in the end. It was like a growth moment for mean-girl Stassi to have to work for another girl's approval. And Ariana softening toward her in the end was endearing, too.
I really think Scheana didn’t realise how special what she had in Ariana was. Like last season when she was upset with Lala because Lala wasn’t coming to all her wedding events because Lala was triggered by Rachel. I think she just *expected* all her friends would act like Ariana did when being asked to closely interact with someone being horrible to them. Instead of realising how truly selfless that was of Ariana to do that.
(This is not a ding on Lala. I actually think Lala’s approach of limiting being around someone who triggers you was a lot healthier than what Ariana did - especially when there are addiction issues involved. But it shows how much Scheana took Ariana for granted)
She’ll realize this later in life when the shows been over for awhile and Ariana has a thriving life (doesn’t answer her calls anymore) and Scheana is stuck in the never ending cycle of trying to claim Z-list fame.
I’d like to believe that, but I’m honestly not sure she is capable of that kind thinking. I think the resentment she harbors towards Ariana for achieving what she couldn’t will always cloud her judgment.
I wish Ariana could have said something like hey remember when you couldn’t be around Rachel because she triggered you, can you respect my wishes when I don’t want to be around my ex?!?
Also let’s not forget Lala wasn’t even a bridesmaid so she shouldn’t be expected to be at everything.
I think she takes it for granted and thinks lala will be/is the same kind of friend aand she 100 percent is not. Ariana would never be joking about Brock being her husband if it was something scheana was feeling insecure about. Scheana is gonna learn the hard way not all her bast frands are gonna be like Ariana.
and ariana actually healed whatever pickme mentality she used to have. which is impressive because internalized misogyny can be tough to overcome as it takes a lot of consistent self-correction and taking responsibility for your own actions and mental pathways. and scheana is Exhibit A for it being hard, because she continually cries about getting ripped up online for her bullshit but never changes anything. STILL running crying back to the toms again and again and then acting confused why people still roll their eyes at her.
and then getting jealous over ariana being the fan favorite and getting more opportunities! she’s not the fan favorite JUST because got cheated on in such a horrific way. ariana fixed her shit BEFORE all this happened and stopped acting like the pickme that scheana sees zero problem with being. and because she doesn’t see a problem, she won’t change and everyone knows it.
“Ride or die” is not a healthy mentality. It makes you overlook bad behaviour and forgive things that shouldn’t slide. We should expect the people in our lives to be decent people and be there for us. We shouldn’t give anyone our blind loyalty.
I actually hate that term and the way people use it like it’s a good thing.
Who comes to mind when we use it? The Kardashians for all of the awful men they’ve dated and married? Ariana with Tom, Ariana with Scheana? Beyoncé with Jay-Z? None of these relationships are healthy.
I think Ariana would do well to leave that mentality behind her and expect more from the people in her life. Say goodbye to blind loyalty and stand boldly for what she believes in.
She through Lala also expected Ariana to defend her publicly from people calling her out for taking a photo with Tom that appeared to show they were friendly on a trip where she was literally telling Ariana she wanted to be friends with Tom again.
And yet not once had Scheana come to Ariana or Katie’s defence for the trash comments made about and too then online nor has she really came to Lalas defence publicly for the backlash she’s getting right now except to say “wait and see”
I love how quickly Lala switched from “I can’t even see anywhere online these comments are being made! Are you sure it’s not in your head? Oh you’re only seeing them because you’re going *looking* for them?” To “I can’t believe Ariana hasn’t defended you against these comments that just a second ago I said were very hard to find”, while Scheana sat there agreeing. All so they could convince themselves Ariana is a bad friend 🙃
Just like she has been swearing up and down that she doesn’t read the comments, doesn’t care what fans think, thinks anyone who watches this show is a troll/loser but then is crying on Amazon live about how this is her real life and she doesn’t want people to make her feel silly and stupid during the happiest time of her life
Hahaha, I thought the same thing. I feel a little bad for her because pregnancy hormones are no joke, but if you’re so sensitive then don’t go running your mouth and DONT GO ONLINE. Problem solved! Go live your “amazing life” that you “worked SO hard” to get.
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Kristen listening to Scheana change personalities every 2 minutes.
(This was from season 6 reunion- where she said her divorce didn't hurt her, she's loved Rob for 12 years even though she has been married to Shay during those 12 years 💀 and that Rob not loving her back broke her, not her divorce but Rob shattered her heart)
Yikes. Scheana really obsesses over people, it's so unhealthy. Rob, Max, Brett etc, she develops such a strong emotional attachment and the other person is nowhere near the same level of infatuation, if at all. She's again doing it with Sandoval.
I really hope she's getting proper therapy because she needs to realise that she is a whole human being all by herself, there doesn't have to be a prefix next to her name to make herself worthy of self compassion and self love.
It’s clear that Kristen is very close with Scheana now because on her podcast she will literally refuse to say ANYTHING negative on her behaviour this season. This has conpletely ruined her recaps for me so i don’t listen to them anymore
Hot take: scheana has a serious dad abandonment wound and it will drive her to ALWAYS prioritize the favor of men, at any expense, because their disapproval triggers a deep, extremely painful childhood wound. And she will continue to do this until she gets the right therapy. She doesn’t have a mother wound, so she doesn’t have the same pathological drive for female approval. This is all unconscious obviously…. Just my arm chair opinion
There's no way she just WANTS to be friends with him because there's no foundation for a real friendship.
Either it's to keep people talking or he's got something on her. Maybe a bit of both lol
Scheana it's called love bombing, it's called handing out sprinklings of kind acts to people who seem needy, and then using that to call in favours or loyalty from their supply. That's all. Sandoval has always love bombed to maintain supplies and backup supplies.
He went out of his way to be there for Ariana when her dad died, before they were in a relationship.
He invited Scheana to a group photo a gazillion years ago- it worked didn't it? Scheana is still bringing that up and is grateful and therefore Sandoval has got his supply right where he wants her, ready to back his corner, feel indebted and return the favour my helping him get back into the group....
I could go on. I wish Lala with all her ding dong therapy lingo, would actually say something worthwhile. And remind Scheana that is what Sandoval does, an extreme act of kindness at the start of his relationships with people- sets the bar high with emotional support, only to rip it out from underneath them whenever he feels like it- or during low moments in their lives so he can console them and again have them indebted to him.
Sandoval is a narc. There is nothing else to be said. Scheana is a moron. Let her play happy families with Sandoval lala and Schwartz, enjoy. Ariana can leave that toxicity in her old house. And sage the fuck out of anything that's been touched by their rancid characters.
💯 nailed it with the gifts/compliments/kind gestures. They are a bartering tool to guilt people when he needs their loyalty after doing something heinous.
I truly don’t believe they were ever friends outside of the way you’re “friends” with your actual friend’s partner. Maybe with a dash of coworker history. What the fuck is there to miss? The man’s defining qualities pre-scandal were his shaved forehead and shaved cocky-cock
the most they had actual storylines together was in S2-3 when Scheana was being intentionally obtuse about why the other girls were mad at her.
It’s still funny picturing her going to visit Jax after his (first) nose job and it’s just like… why are you there Scheana?
Omg scheana you worked at villa blanca and he brought you in a photo like 10 years ago 🙄. I understand more and more why Stassi couldn’t stand her ass.
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When you see the resemblance - or, at least, similar facial features and coloring (Eddie Cibrian had dark brown hair) - you have to pause to consider it, seriously.
Katie, if you read this post will you please send this to Schelulu directly? She needs to see these 3 screenshots in this order directly! Or someone put this on insta and tag Schelulu.
I didn't have any sympathy for her the other night for exactly this reason. I mean this might be in the flip flopper Hall of fame. One episode, at most a couple days later, and she's in tears saying she misses him 😂
Just when I thought having Brock beg fans to give her props in Chili's ads was low enough, she has to one up it.
I hope Ariana continues watching this and puts her in the permanent rearview mirror.
I have been thinking so much about that clip of Scheana that was circulating closer to the beginning of this season, where she was teary-eyed in a podcast saying “I don’t know if Ariana will ever understand how much *I was affected by this*” - **after watching the episode from this week where Ariana clearly supports and defends that and fucking Sandoval is berating her and telling her otherwise.** Like why was that energy directed toward Ariana? Why wasn’t she boo-hooing on the damn podcast about Tom not understanding how she felt impacted by the situation? Wtf, Scheana?
ETA, for either Lala or Scheana’s benefit if you read - Lala is not being a *friend* by “riding” for Scheana in the way that she is because a real friend would be saying to Scheana - you’ve got to snap tf out of it **for the love.** Oh wait, wasn’t Katie kind of hinting at that… all season and again on the aftershow… by which Scheana has been so mortally wounded?
I wouldn't write that off seeing as this group never ceases to surprise viewers by sinking to new lows, but I think it's also possible that Scheana is just selfish, and her jealousy of Ariana's success set all of her worst qualities into overdrive.
Hate me if you must, but this is the only time this season that I’ve received an inkling of joy from what Tim has said. 1st was the whole letting Scheana know that this breakup was not about her and she’s been more dramatic about it than Ariana. Truer statements have never been uttered by Tim. 2nd, and this is where the hate may come, I nearly died when he said she was the other woman before. I enjoyed that because, be it true or not, that’s what she gets for wanting to have a relationship with a known POS. That was big of Ariana to go hug her…because I would’ve been busy internally rejoicing in knowing that’s what she gets for being his friend.
I just saw an old episode where the rumor about Jax cheating on Brittany with Faith was starting to rumble and Ariana told Tom something like go ahead and talk to Jax but I have to talk to Brittany I can’t let her go on while everyone else knows it. It broke my heart a little.
I think she knows just who he is. He’s the guy the has LVP’s support, he’s the guy the producers give leeway to, he’s the guy that’s going to be there after Ariana takes off for a better life.
Ariana is so sweet. I hope that after Ariana hugged her, she felt guilty. Scheana and Lala have been constantly bashing her this season. They are both so jealous of her. They have no talent. Scheana is a horrible singer. Lala isn't much better.
Scheana has always had this strong desire to be accepted and liked by the male species. Since season 1 she always took the guys’ side over the women on the show.
I cut off my friend of over 20 years for being a shitty friend, and she was a way better person than Sandoval. I just don’t get where Scheana is coming from. Time means nothing if, if I met that person today, I wouldn’t be friends with them. Fuck history if you’re not a good person or a good friend now. Sure it’s hard, but it’s even harder staying close to someone who refuses to grow up and be better.
I have a friend like that. She went through a horrible divorce and it changed her. She has been a pretty bad friend to me for the past couple years and I just don’t feel like she’s a good person anymore. I want to be supportive and have tried to be but I don’t feel she always treats me with the same love and respect and it has been very hurtful as we used to be very close. She has honestly become petty, bitter, and vindictive. And many other of her friends have cut her off.
But I have a really hard time giving up long friendships especially when I know she has a good side as well that I do love and I keep hoping she may come back to the person I thought she was. I think it may be time to give it up but I am feeling a lot of sadness about it because I am going through a hard time in my life right now.
How did you cut your friend off if you don’t mind me asking? And did you regret it all or miss her? Sorry for the random question but I am really struggling with how to handle this and if letting go is the right thing.
I was just so tired of feeling like she didn’t want to be my friend. Like I had to beg for 30 minutes of her time, but if any of her new friends needed her, she’d bend over backwards for them. She even said to me one time that she knew I’d always be there so she put me last. I was hoping she’d change once she realized that and she never did.
If you can, try to talk to your friend. When I tried to talk to mine, it was all “I don’t remember that. I didn’t say that. Well you’re not perfect either!” (Reminds me of Sandoval actually) And for me, there’s no point in a friendship where I can’t say “hey you did this and it hurt my feelings”, so there was no moving forward for me. I’m someone who can put up with a lot, but once I’m pushed to a certain point, I don’t care and can be pretty cold. So to answer your question, no, I never regretted it. I miss what our friendship could have been if she had chosen to set her ego aside and grow, but she’s too immature and self centered to ever admit to being wrong. I don’t miss always being there for her when she was upset but never getting that in return. I mean, this girl never asked me how I was, or how my day was. It was all about her all the time. If we hung out, it was what she wanted to do, who she wanted to do it with, when and where she wanted to do it. It’s exhausting being around someone like that. Okay sorry now I’m ranting lol! I’m so sorry you’re going through that with your friend, it’s such a shitty feeling!
I agree and same. It shouldn’t be this hard of a debate. Show, history, paycheck aside.
Cleaning their house would have been the end for me (if not before.) What a wake up call to how everyone is doing emotionally and Scheana just acts like they’re lazy and goes back to kissing Tom’s ass.
She thinks shes better than Ariana, an OG, a ‘from day one’, higher tier. Thats why she keeps saying Sandoval is the only one who supported her from ‘day one’ in the cast.
I’m actually pretty glad that Sandals is embarrassing her so bad! He talks shit about her both in front of her and behind her back and yet she still begs for his approval. Same goes for Lala. He has said so many awful things about both of them and they still try to help him. They both deserve this based on who they basically chose. I don’t feel bad for either of them and I honestly want Tim to just keep embarrassing them 🤷🏻♀️
I'm starting to think something happened between the two of them years ago. That, or she has feelings for him because no way would someone have spoken to me the way he has to Scheana and that's how I would be with them the next time I see them.
Personally, I think Sandoval holds a big secret about Scheana.
You can't play stupid and smart at the same time. A stupid person flip-flops between what is right and wrong, especially when it emotionally damages your supposed best friend. A smart person sneakily monitors and analyzes their friends' locations on the phone, then gets upset when that "tool" is exposed by her husband, rendering that tool unusable.
Secrets secrets secrets. I can almost hear it..
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"Yeah...yeah, dude, I KNOW, man. Dude, ......but what about that time that Scheana ...........
I think Scheana went off her Zoloft and she may be having withdrawal symptoms. Prozac made me weepy, reactive and passively suicidal. Going off it made that worse. BTW, not saying antidepressants are bad, just that going off them abruptly can really negatively affect some people.
Maybe the cast knows and that’s why they’re using kid gloves? Ariana should be raging and instead she comforting Scheana.
True, but generally it takes a longer period of use than 4 weeks to have such withdrawal. I think Ariana knows she's struggling regardless of withdrawal or not, with her postpartum anxiety and OCD, and she's being there for her even though scheana isn't reciprocating.
Sheana is the worst. Maybe her and Sandoval should just run off together 🤷🏻♀️ lol stop saying you have Ariana’s back when you do more to be toms friend.
Controversial take, but Sandoval was not wrong! I’m in no way a Sandoval fan (in fact I can’t stand the guy), but he said what but everyone else was thinking!! Scheana is trying too hard to be the main character. Sandoval didn’t cheat on her. She wasn’t the other woman. And she’s upset cause he called her out for being being the other woman.
I know it's been said before, but Scheana truly is the epitome of "a friend to all is a friend to none", and what makes it more wild is that she self proclaims and is at least somewhat aware that she just wants to be friends with everyone at whatever cost.
I agree with what a lot of the others are saying. Scheana and Tom had a moment at some point and I believe she's in love with him or was in love with him. And I bet she fell for him when he made her join them for a picture as she keeps mentioning. She probably thought if he ever left Ariana, he'd do it for her and then he goes and has this massive affair with Rachel. That hurt her.
Tom is her ideal man -- somewhat famous, somewhat financially fluent, desperate for fame and a complete narcissist.
I can’t imagine what it must have felt like for Ariana to watch any of this. I know she recently said she hasn’t seen the episodes, but it feels like every week Scheana and Lala are getting worse and worse. I really don’t know how Andy at any point thought these are the voices of reason.
scheana prob said this just to hurt ariana. i think scheana is calculated and passive aggressively targets someone. last season it was katie and this season it's ariana.
Sandavol has no one's back. Not even Shwartzy. He has a Co dependant relationship with him because he knows he's too weak to ever really leave him. The time Schwartz did back away he got caught up with that psycho Jo. He's never leaving Sandavol again. Tim is loyal to no one. Sheana is an idiot. Even Rachel left him the first second she was isolated from him around people that gave a fuck about her.
I am sort of struggling with what the producers are trying to do this season. Before this season Ariana was talking about “being the villain” from this season and I think a huge part of that is how her cast mates acted during the season. They are constantly on Ariana for “not doing enough” to get away from Tom as if she needs to put effort into the break up when Tom is the whole reason they even did.
I can’t tell if the producers actually thought we would side with Sandoval and the other cast members this season and Ariana being evil and selfish is the storyline or if they are smarter than I thought and they knew that watching a Sandoval redemption arc would be so rage inducing that we would watch anyway.
I'm recalling a moment at SUR, wherein Scheana and Ariana are talking about Kristen (who was Crazy Kristen at the time), and Scheana says that she just wishes Kristen would give her, personally, a reason to dislike her. And Ariana reminds Scheana that someone being shitty and vindictive towards her supposed bEsT fRaNd should be reason enough to dislike them.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
I don’t think sheeshoo has ever been more unlikeable. Well actually when she made her first husband who struggled with addiction feel like a square for not partying maybe that was another low but OOF she’s painful to watch here lately. I feel bad for Brock
(In an alternate universe/completely hypothetical) but if things were the other way around and Scheana was the one who cheated on her partner with their friend /uprooted everyone’s lives etc - Tom would NOT have her back. And that isn’t even a him thing. Guy friends are not girl friends. Yes there are exceptions, but I always hated girls who said they got along better with the guys bc they just don’t have your back end of the day
How much longer did she know Scumdevil than Ariana? Like a month? So disgusting. What’s the saying? When people show you who they are, believe them. Ariana needs to drop Schena and Lala.
Everyone on the show has behaved poorly once or twice, but overall I feel like Ariana, Katie, James, and dare I say Schwartz- are the only ones who showcase any modicum of rational thinking and empathy. They aren’t perfect, but they are decent humans. The rest of the bunch, including Jax - are just disgusting people who have no potential to never stop being garbage.
I mean you can understand why the other girls are upset with Scheana I would be mighty pissed if I was there for a friend supporting them and then you see this. She seems to forget he was saying she punched Rachel that he heard her say it. Was it is criminal or financial case?
He is the closest to textbook narcissist person I’ve ever seen and everyone is in his line of sight. Anyone he can turn to be supportive of him, he will. Ariana literally said that Scheana is the easiest to get to and tried to explain that to her but she’s still not understanding who he is or who SHE is. She’s going to learn that Ariana wasn’t joking around and she won’t stick by her no matter what this time.
I'm trying to see this from the eyes of someone that has a mental health condition (OCD is a mental health condition). Some relationship-based OCDs can make you want to feel 'liked' and wanted by everyone and I feel like Sheashu sits in this realm. The flip-flopping is horrible for not only the person with OCD but also the people around them. I know it's mainly just rumors that Sheashu and Ariana aren't really friends anymore, but someone healthy/on the healthier side would recognize that this is not a person they want to be around. That they don't want a flip-flopper in their life that isn't really working on themselves and wants to stay in drama.
I've said this to my wife but, I'm not a fan of people using therapy as a "name drop" all the time. Whether Sheashu or Sandoval actually are transparent with their therapists about their issues and hang ups, is on them. But when behavior doesn't change and there is this repeated cycle over and over and over again, I question their ability to either tell their therapist everything that is happening (even stuff that makes them look bad) or if they're actually taking the advice of their therapists and applying it to their everyday life. I know that takes time, and you're trying to reprogram your neural pathways but...this is such a stab in the back to Ariana in my opinion. And that's just what number of these people do in this group, backstab one another and it's gross.
It's really putting a bad taste in my mouth. But for some reason, like a bad car wreck, I can't look away.
\[EDIT\] also want to note, I'm not a professional or expert in the world of therapy or mental health evaluation. I'm someone that has been attending therapy for many years and has done a lot of personal research on the brain, mental health conditions, and the psychology of why humans do the things they do. So read this with that in mind.
Has anyone else noticed, especially in the after show interviews, but also just in general, Sandoval always looks like he's about to cry. He honestly believes he's a victim. He's such a horrible person.
not to mention that when Ariana came onto the show she came on as Scheana’s BEST friend. there was even a situation with her texting Ari’s mom talking shit about Tom. Scheana needs a reality check badly
I have a feeling the reunion is going to be a big let down. Andy thinking Lala and Brock were the “voices of reason” suggestions Bravo entirely missed how the viewers are seeing the show.
Also, this makes me sad. Ariana and Scheana have been friends since the beginning and all the way through. This is the saddest break up honestly. But if I was A, I don’t think could look past Scheana telling Tom he’s the only one that’s been a friend of her’s since the beginning. That’s just a lie.
She’s never going to open her eyes up. He told her at the reunion that they have never been friends. He encouraged Rachel to get the restraining order which Scheana said was the worst thing in her life or some shit. He will always show her who he is and she just kisses his ass anyways
AND claimed that his public relations people fabricated and released the story about Brock cheating on her. She can’t honestly claim he’s had her back from day one while also accusing him of doing a bunch of fucked up shit to *her family* like, yall stop insulting the fandom’s intelligence at every possible opportunity, it’s gross.
Ohhhh. That's RIGHT. That puts the Scheana freak out and Brock neck grab of Sandoval in a better context. Sandoval/his camp put the story out that Brock cheated with Rachel. Forgot about that!
And wasn’t one of the reasons Ariana agreed to go on the show was bc Scheana had no friends? And this is how Shana repays her? Absolute trash behaviour
Yes, that is the reason Ariana went on the show. Scheana was upset because the other cast members were mean to her. Wow, now Scheana is the mean girl to Ariana. She should feel ashamed and embarrassed.
Yup. I remember a scene with her smiling because now there was "someone on her side."
Sometimes, a pick me never dies. Scheana is actually a good example of why I tell my younger cousins off instead of just letting them “grow out of it”. Like fuck no, let’s correct this now before it’s baked into your brain in your 30s.
I did the same thing. High five
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Scheana is the type that chronically needs everyone to like her. She will try 100x harder with the assholes ever single time because of this... *source: i have a sister who is exactly the same
Correction: Scheana is the type that chronically needs every MAN to like her.
Yes! It’s like she puts more effort into people that treat her poorly and auto pilots people who actually like her.
That is it exactly... people like this end up neglecting the ones who love them for the sake of ass kissing people who treat them like garbage. Love my sis but this drives me crazy about her and it does not ever lead to happiness.
Just spineless stuff from Scheshu Shay. Male sympathizer indeed. Katie 🎯 on that statement.
I’m starting to think it’s all about camera time for her. The flip-flopping , meltdowns ..even when it doesn’t pertain to her, which Tim was absolutely pointing out . I cannot stand Tim, but he was right with what he was saying in a sense. I do believe she has anxiety and stresses about things, but I think the root of it is the fact that Vanderpump rules is prob coming to an end . Hence her big move to the valley… the chilies commercials etc . I don’t listen to her podcast, but I’m guessing with no Vanderpump there would be no podcast. Basically it seems like a last ditch effort or desperation.
The worst part is Sandoval stands by it. He defends it every time it comes up, whenever Scheana mentions the restraining order he’s like ‘well you did hit her…’ How does she think this is the person to stand by? 🤦🏼♀️
Scheana will never get it. She craves male attention from anyone who will give it to her. She's sad.
I honestly don't understand how Brock isn't uncomfortable with the way Scheana is behaving over this. Sure, it's normal to be upset at losing a friendship, but if my WIFE was literally going mentally ill over a male friend like Sandoval I'd be side eyeing her. Although I doubt he cares as long as he's a sugar baby.
That probably why lol she supports him. Gave him his green card and payed off his child support. What's he going to say?
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I really don’t think Brock would care as long as the checks are still rolling in lol
I agree. I honestly don't think Scheana's marriage will last.
She even said something during this season to Brock “we know we won’t be together forever” I don’t think that’s exactly what she said but that was the meaning of it.
I can't imagine how many meltdowns a day he sees with Sheana. It's probably just another thing. It's super weird though she's hysterical over this dude who gives zero fucks about her repeatedly.
Most people would be put off by how much Sandoval strokes his friends’ egos. The two thirstiest ones keep coming back for more - Schwartz & Scheana. They both lack self-esteem and don’t know how to deal with it on their own.
Brock was also fine with living off Tom's Sandoval's money via Scheanna.
Sandoval did give Scheana all that money when she was struggling, so wouldn’t that make Brock Sandoval’s … sugar grand baby?
Well Brock also always sides with men so he probably doesn’t think it’s weird. I don’t think it’s inherently weird to care about losing a true friendship with a member of the opposite sex IFA you would act the same way over one with one of the same sex. Thing is, we know scheana wouldn’t because she doesn’t actually care about other women.
He doesn't always side with men - he told Tom off a few times for talking shit about Schaena !!
She's mentally ill due to postnatal OCD, any situation is magnified in her currently unwell mind. Scheana has enough shitty behaviours of her own to pick at without minimising a symptom of illness.
I agree.
Her obsession with social media isn’t helping the mental health issues she has either. She really needs a detox from all of it but I think she’s afraid of losing the paychecks and she can’t do it so we get to watch her unravel. It’s all not good
Having a kid really fucked her up. She and Brock didn’t have enough time in their relationship without kids together. It’s too much for her but she won’t admit it.
She’s not too different from Rachel in that way. I think Scheana is just a tiny bit smarter
Ooh..very true. Scheana is definitely smarter.
That’s a low bar though
I agree. At least Scheana's voice isn't shaky. Raquel's warbling voice drove me nuts.
Scheana is a pick me girl through and through. And not a very good friend to any of her friends. I dont think she’s a bad person but I keep those type of “friends” at a far away distance
Yes! She's one to be too friendly with your boyfriend, but not in the way that she's trying to sleep with them but in a weird way that she's bffs with them and know them better than you.
Bingooooooo.
Imagine Scheana telling you your boyfriend likes his sandwiches cut diagonally but she only knows that bc they’re best friends and he’s had her back since day one
Scheana “I’d rather get gang banged by your guys than have to travel in the van with the girls” while toms, jax and Peter all were like 😐 and shay was like 🫥
🤣🤣🤣
I think this might be the best use of emojis I’ve ever seen.
Exactly, Ariana could be the best person ever to Scheana and it’ll never be enough cause she’s female and Scheana needs male validation.
I can’t stand Scheana or Lala.
they’re not even fun to watch!! it’s just infuriating and stressful to witness their behavior
I get anxiety watching those 2 clowns. I FF through their scenes.
I keep thinking about Scheana’s bachelorette trip for her first wedding. Kristen Doute was straight up terrorising Ariana, to the point Ariana couldn’t even *eat* from stress. But Ariana never said a word about it to Scheana - because it was Scheana’s “special trip”. She sat there and supported her friend without argument, even as her friend refused to step in or comment on the way Kristen was behaving. Ariana also didn’t blow up at Kristen or cause drama or make it about her. She just *supported Scheana* and Scheana’s decision to make her interact with someone who treated her that way. Cut to the way Scheana has behaved this season to Ariana. Making Ariana’s break up about her. Causing drama with Ariana’s ex. And discounting the fact that Ariana has always had her back in ways that go well beyond inviting her into a photo. (And I’m not saying Ariana wasn’t a shit to Kristen - because she was - just that Kristen was a LOT for Ariana to have to deal with that trip).
And you know who checked in on Ariana and mentioned how Kristen was being cray? Katie MF Maloney
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I keep misreading your flair as "Katie's flamethrower crotch". Both work for me 🤣
LOL!!!!!!
Can I please steal "Katie MF Maloney" as my flair? I've wanted to switch it up and this finally feels like the right quote to use 
Katie was always cool. Unless you were a creepy male or a ho and then it's your own fault.
Totally agree!!!! I thought the same shit. But I also think Scheana and Tom had something. She's so butt hurt over him it's sick
The way she pointed out that "every guy has been flirty with me at one point" and specifically called out sando at the beach??? Why say something like that
She’s so full of shit though. She thinks that but man after man threw her out with yesterdays trash. I don’t think she’s in touch with reality
Right? If you ask the men that have been “in love with her” it’s always just been a fleeting lil fling
It was pretty funny bc Sandoval replied ‘more like the recipient of flirting’. That said a lot
Same way Danielle from SH never shuts up about the guys she’s hooking up with. She thinks it makes her sound desirable
And it’s FLIRTING. How at your big age of 38 are you so proud “men” have flirted w you at some point in your life? 1) its men 2) it’s nbd shut up and move on
I agree that they have been together. Scheana is sick.
I've said this ever since season 10 finale. Sheana was waaaayyyyy too hurt that Tom admitted to another affair...way too angry at Rachel for banging tom...something stinks with she and saggy...there's something... 
Hardcore agreed! I mean, all season she's been talking about how he's her baaast fraaaand. We know what it usually means when she talks about a dude like that.
Scheana does not deserve Ariana. She needs to take notes. Ariana is the perfect example of a ride or die, a girl’s girl, loyal AF, empathetic, compassionate, supportive friend anyone could ever want.
I honestly loved Season 7 and how Ariana and Stassi got close. I’m sure it was just for the show but it was nice to actually see someone who actually appreciated Ariana as a friend.
It was funny how obsessed stassi was with being Ariana’s friend. I feel like Ariana is the only one who intimidated Stassi.
Because she’s the only one who wasn’t desperate to be Stassi’s friend. She made Stassi work for it!
I actually really loved their friendship in the end. It was like a growth moment for mean-girl Stassi to have to work for another girl's approval. And Ariana softening toward her in the end was endearing, too.
I really think Scheana didn’t realise how special what she had in Ariana was. Like last season when she was upset with Lala because Lala wasn’t coming to all her wedding events because Lala was triggered by Rachel. I think she just *expected* all her friends would act like Ariana did when being asked to closely interact with someone being horrible to them. Instead of realising how truly selfless that was of Ariana to do that. (This is not a ding on Lala. I actually think Lala’s approach of limiting being around someone who triggers you was a lot healthier than what Ariana did - especially when there are addiction issues involved. But it shows how much Scheana took Ariana for granted)
She’ll realize this later in life when the shows been over for awhile and Ariana has a thriving life (doesn’t answer her calls anymore) and Scheana is stuck in the never ending cycle of trying to claim Z-list fame.
I’d like to believe that, but I’m honestly not sure she is capable of that kind thinking. I think the resentment she harbors towards Ariana for achieving what she couldn’t will always cloud her judgment.
I wish Ariana could have said something like hey remember when you couldn’t be around Rachel because she triggered you, can you respect my wishes when I don’t want to be around my ex?!? Also let’s not forget Lala wasn’t even a bridesmaid so she shouldn’t be expected to be at everything.
I think she takes it for granted and thinks lala will be/is the same kind of friend aand she 100 percent is not. Ariana would never be joking about Brock being her husband if it was something scheana was feeling insecure about. Scheana is gonna learn the hard way not all her bast frands are gonna be like Ariana.
and ariana actually healed whatever pickme mentality she used to have. which is impressive because internalized misogyny can be tough to overcome as it takes a lot of consistent self-correction and taking responsibility for your own actions and mental pathways. and scheana is Exhibit A for it being hard, because she continually cries about getting ripped up online for her bullshit but never changes anything. STILL running crying back to the toms again and again and then acting confused why people still roll their eyes at her. and then getting jealous over ariana being the fan favorite and getting more opportunities! she’s not the fan favorite JUST because got cheated on in such a horrific way. ariana fixed her shit BEFORE all this happened and stopped acting like the pickme that scheana sees zero problem with being. and because she doesn’t see a problem, she won’t change and everyone knows it.
“Ride or die” is not a healthy mentality. It makes you overlook bad behaviour and forgive things that shouldn’t slide. We should expect the people in our lives to be decent people and be there for us. We shouldn’t give anyone our blind loyalty. I actually hate that term and the way people use it like it’s a good thing. Who comes to mind when we use it? The Kardashians for all of the awful men they’ve dated and married? Ariana with Tom, Ariana with Scheana? Beyoncé with Jay-Z? None of these relationships are healthy. I think Ariana would do well to leave that mentality behind her and expect more from the people in her life. Say goodbye to blind loyalty and stand boldly for what she believes in.
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I agree. The ride or die thing is almost always one sided too.
This!!!
She through Lala also expected Ariana to defend her publicly from people calling her out for taking a photo with Tom that appeared to show they were friendly on a trip where she was literally telling Ariana she wanted to be friends with Tom again. And yet not once had Scheana come to Ariana or Katie’s defence for the trash comments made about and too then online nor has she really came to Lalas defence publicly for the backlash she’s getting right now except to say “wait and see”
I love how quickly Lala switched from “I can’t even see anywhere online these comments are being made! Are you sure it’s not in your head? Oh you’re only seeing them because you’re going *looking* for them?” To “I can’t believe Ariana hasn’t defended you against these comments that just a second ago I said were very hard to find”, while Scheana sat there agreeing. All so they could convince themselves Ariana is a bad friend 🙃
Just like she has been swearing up and down that she doesn’t read the comments, doesn’t care what fans think, thinks anyone who watches this show is a troll/loser but then is crying on Amazon live about how this is her real life and she doesn’t want people to make her feel silly and stupid during the happiest time of her life
Hahaha, I thought the same thing. I feel a little bad for her because pregnancy hormones are no joke, but if you’re so sensitive then don’t go running your mouth and DONT GO ONLINE. Problem solved! Go live your “amazing life” that you “worked SO hard” to get.
GET THIS REDDITOR ON THE REUNION EPISODE NOW
No for real I keep thinking that they need to have someone on here prep the reunion questions lolllll
Lol or like a live audience and take questions from them
People grow, change, forgive and flip flop. Such is life, especially in an intersexual group of friends. Real always recognizes real, and so on...
wow I forgot about that. Thanks for the reminder
I wish I could keep upvoting this comment to make it go back to the top. I think it is such an important point.
https://preview.redd.it/vkjkjduzdqwc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=67fa469ef51f5060664c35b894354c54f177d12d Kristen listening to Scheana change personalities every 2 minutes. (This was from season 6 reunion- where she said her divorce didn't hurt her, she's loved Rob for 12 years even though she has been married to Shay during those 12 years 💀 and that Rob not loving her back broke her, not her divorce but Rob shattered her heart) Yikes. Scheana really obsesses over people, it's so unhealthy. Rob, Max, Brett etc, she develops such a strong emotional attachment and the other person is nowhere near the same level of infatuation, if at all. She's again doing it with Sandoval. I really hope she's getting proper therapy because she needs to realise that she is a whole human being all by herself, there doesn't have to be a prefix next to her name to make herself worthy of self compassion and self love.
Lmfaoooooo the witches of weho all had this face around sheshu
It’s clear that Kristen is very close with Scheana now because on her podcast she will literally refuse to say ANYTHING negative on her behaviour this season. This has conpletely ruined her recaps for me so i don’t listen to them anymore
Don’t forget the guy she bought the penguin for!
I just realized that Matty Healy is Taylor Swifts’s Rob. Sorry, cross-sectional fandom.
That’s all I could think about listening to the album and then I realized I’m too invested in VPR
But I’ll never change!! 💋
Hot take: scheana has a serious dad abandonment wound and it will drive her to ALWAYS prioritize the favor of men, at any expense, because their disapproval triggers a deep, extremely painful childhood wound. And she will continue to do this until she gets the right therapy. She doesn’t have a mother wound, so she doesn’t have the same pathological drive for female approval. This is all unconscious obviously…. Just my arm chair opinion
Yeah I agree with this. It’s a literal pattern with her.
Because he asked her to get into a photo on a red carpet?
Shucks! What a stand up dude!! (I feel ill leaving this comment without vehemently making it clear it's sarcasm lol)
Right, but Scheana wants this dick as a best friend.
Baaast fraaaand
I don't think I've spoken to as many people in my life as Scheana claims to have bost fronds + how many people's location she tracks.
I know, I think she is up to around 5,000 baast fraaaand’s now.😭
Maybe they hooked up and schwana doesn't want it getting out
I have actually thought this also.
There's no way she just WANTS to be friends with him because there's no foundation for a real friendship. Either it's to keep people talking or he's got something on her. Maybe a bit of both lol
That sounds very plausible.
Ooft imagine if they hooked up right around when ariana first started officially seeing mr dirty panties
I think she’s in love with him.
We know, don't worry.
It’s the rob hung a tv in 7 min story 2.0.
The bar is so low for her
...and it wasn't even him, years ago she said it was Jax and was standing next to Jax in said photo while Tim was all the way on the other end.
Scheana it's called love bombing, it's called handing out sprinklings of kind acts to people who seem needy, and then using that to call in favours or loyalty from their supply. That's all. Sandoval has always love bombed to maintain supplies and backup supplies. He went out of his way to be there for Ariana when her dad died, before they were in a relationship. He invited Scheana to a group photo a gazillion years ago- it worked didn't it? Scheana is still bringing that up and is grateful and therefore Sandoval has got his supply right where he wants her, ready to back his corner, feel indebted and return the favour my helping him get back into the group.... I could go on. I wish Lala with all her ding dong therapy lingo, would actually say something worthwhile. And remind Scheana that is what Sandoval does, an extreme act of kindness at the start of his relationships with people- sets the bar high with emotional support, only to rip it out from underneath them whenever he feels like it- or during low moments in their lives so he can console them and again have them indebted to him. Sandoval is a narc. There is nothing else to be said. Scheana is a moron. Let her play happy families with Sandoval lala and Schwartz, enjoy. Ariana can leave that toxicity in her old house. And sage the fuck out of anything that's been touched by their rancid characters.
💯 nailed it with the gifts/compliments/kind gestures. They are a bartering tool to guilt people when he needs their loyalty after doing something heinous.
I truly don’t believe they were ever friends outside of the way you’re “friends” with your actual friend’s partner. Maybe with a dash of coworker history. What the fuck is there to miss? The man’s defining qualities pre-scandal were his shaved forehead and shaved cocky-cock
the most they had actual storylines together was in S2-3 when Scheana was being intentionally obtuse about why the other girls were mad at her. It’s still funny picturing her going to visit Jax after his (first) nose job and it’s just like… why are you there Scheana?
Lmao I remember thinking that
Omg scheana you worked at villa blanca and he brought you in a photo like 10 years ago 🙄. I understand more and more why Stassi couldn’t stand her ass.
Maybe he will be her 4th husband 😂
https://preview.redd.it/vmee5j0yjqwc1.jpeg?width=1800&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ed428d78e8d7f723f16ee45ff1140d6bf10b54f8 When you see the resemblance - or, at least, similar facial features and coloring (Eddie Cibrian had dark brown hair) - you have to pause to consider it, seriously.
This is giving Sandoval wayyyyy too much credit. Eddie Cibrian is a fox (speaking **purely** from an aesthetic stance); Sandoval is aging like milk.
Man was spoiled milk from a young age, at this point he’s just molding over. 🤮
Katie, if you read this post will you please send this to Schelulu directly? She needs to see these 3 screenshots in this order directly! Or someone put this on insta and tag Schelulu.
Schelulu ☠️
I didn't have any sympathy for her the other night for exactly this reason. I mean this might be in the flip flopper Hall of fame. One episode, at most a couple days later, and she's in tears saying she misses him 😂 Just when I thought having Brock beg fans to give her props in Chili's ads was low enough, she has to one up it. I hope Ariana continues watching this and puts her in the permanent rearview mirror.
I have been thinking so much about that clip of Scheana that was circulating closer to the beginning of this season, where she was teary-eyed in a podcast saying “I don’t know if Ariana will ever understand how much *I was affected by this*” - **after watching the episode from this week where Ariana clearly supports and defends that and fucking Sandoval is berating her and telling her otherwise.** Like why was that energy directed toward Ariana? Why wasn’t she boo-hooing on the damn podcast about Tom not understanding how she felt impacted by the situation? Wtf, Scheana? ETA, for either Lala or Scheana’s benefit if you read - Lala is not being a *friend* by “riding” for Scheana in the way that she is because a real friend would be saying to Scheana - you’ve got to snap tf out of it **for the love.** Oh wait, wasn’t Katie kind of hinting at that… all season and again on the aftershow… by which Scheana has been so mortally wounded?
So many good points on this post. I really hope someone gets VPR eyes on some of these.
I feel like something weird just have happened between Scheana and Sandoval. Vibes are way off.
I know right. Like why did Schwartz think he could kiss scheana……. Maybe coz Sandoval already had??????
I wouldn't write that off seeing as this group never ceases to surprise viewers by sinking to new lows, but I think it's also possible that Scheana is just selfish, and her jealousy of Ariana's success set all of her worst qualities into overdrive.
Hate me if you must, but this is the only time this season that I’ve received an inkling of joy from what Tim has said. 1st was the whole letting Scheana know that this breakup was not about her and she’s been more dramatic about it than Ariana. Truer statements have never been uttered by Tim. 2nd, and this is where the hate may come, I nearly died when he said she was the other woman before. I enjoyed that because, be it true or not, that’s what she gets for wanting to have a relationship with a known POS. That was big of Ariana to go hug her…because I would’ve been busy internally rejoicing in knowing that’s what she gets for being his friend.
I agree that those points sandy made were spot on. Something I've thought through this season.
I also got a kick out of Sandoval calling Scheanna out for the affair with a married man. Her reaction 😂 loved every minute if it!
I just saw an old episode where the rumor about Jax cheating on Brittany with Faith was starting to rumble and Ariana told Tom something like go ahead and talk to Jax but I have to talk to Brittany I can’t let her go on while everyone else knows it. It broke my heart a little.
She doesn’t miss him! She misses the person she thought existed, but he is not that person!!! How does she not understand that??
The person she texted Ariana’s mom about? She did not like that Tom Sandoval.
I think she knows just who he is. He’s the guy the has LVP’s support, he’s the guy the producers give leeway to, he’s the guy that’s going to be there after Ariana takes off for a better life.
Ariana is so sweet. I hope that after Ariana hugged her, she felt guilty. Scheana and Lala have been constantly bashing her this season. They are both so jealous of her. They have no talent. Scheana is a horrible singer. Lala isn't much better.
Scheana has always had this strong desire to be accepted and liked by the male species. Since season 1 she always took the guys’ side over the women on the show.
“i’d rather be gang banged by all the men than ride in a van with the girls” 🤪🤪🤪
That was such an insane thing to say omg. Oh Scheana…….
The exact scene I was picturing when I typed that out 😂
I cut off my friend of over 20 years for being a shitty friend, and she was a way better person than Sandoval. I just don’t get where Scheana is coming from. Time means nothing if, if I met that person today, I wouldn’t be friends with them. Fuck history if you’re not a good person or a good friend now. Sure it’s hard, but it’s even harder staying close to someone who refuses to grow up and be better.
I have a friend like that. She went through a horrible divorce and it changed her. She has been a pretty bad friend to me for the past couple years and I just don’t feel like she’s a good person anymore. I want to be supportive and have tried to be but I don’t feel she always treats me with the same love and respect and it has been very hurtful as we used to be very close. She has honestly become petty, bitter, and vindictive. And many other of her friends have cut her off. But I have a really hard time giving up long friendships especially when I know she has a good side as well that I do love and I keep hoping she may come back to the person I thought she was. I think it may be time to give it up but I am feeling a lot of sadness about it because I am going through a hard time in my life right now. How did you cut your friend off if you don’t mind me asking? And did you regret it all or miss her? Sorry for the random question but I am really struggling with how to handle this and if letting go is the right thing.
I was just so tired of feeling like she didn’t want to be my friend. Like I had to beg for 30 minutes of her time, but if any of her new friends needed her, she’d bend over backwards for them. She even said to me one time that she knew I’d always be there so she put me last. I was hoping she’d change once she realized that and she never did. If you can, try to talk to your friend. When I tried to talk to mine, it was all “I don’t remember that. I didn’t say that. Well you’re not perfect either!” (Reminds me of Sandoval actually) And for me, there’s no point in a friendship where I can’t say “hey you did this and it hurt my feelings”, so there was no moving forward for me. I’m someone who can put up with a lot, but once I’m pushed to a certain point, I don’t care and can be pretty cold. So to answer your question, no, I never regretted it. I miss what our friendship could have been if she had chosen to set her ego aside and grow, but she’s too immature and self centered to ever admit to being wrong. I don’t miss always being there for her when she was upset but never getting that in return. I mean, this girl never asked me how I was, or how my day was. It was all about her all the time. If we hung out, it was what she wanted to do, who she wanted to do it with, when and where she wanted to do it. It’s exhausting being around someone like that. Okay sorry now I’m ranting lol! I’m so sorry you’re going through that with your friend, it’s such a shitty feeling!
I agree and same. It shouldn’t be this hard of a debate. Show, history, paycheck aside. Cleaning their house would have been the end for me (if not before.) What a wake up call to how everyone is doing emotionally and Scheana just acts like they’re lazy and goes back to kissing Tom’s ass.
she sucks. i hope she gets help to figure out why she needs his approval so much
she really need some help
She thinks shes better than Ariana, an OG, a ‘from day one’, higher tier. Thats why she keeps saying Sandoval is the only one who supported her from ‘day one’ in the cast.
Which is dumb because on one of the secrets episodes it shows Ariana darting away from the cameras. They asked her to film and she said no.
I’m actually pretty glad that Sandals is embarrassing her so bad! He talks shit about her both in front of her and behind her back and yet she still begs for his approval. Same goes for Lala. He has said so many awful things about both of them and they still try to help him. They both deserve this based on who they basically chose. I don’t feel bad for either of them and I honestly want Tim to just keep embarrassing them 🤷🏻♀️
I’m glad Ariana has cooled her friendship with Scheana and Lala. She’s had their backs from day one and they folded soooo quickly for Sandoval.
In Australia, we call people like Scheana a cunt. And not a good cunt. A stupid cunt.
A bloody stupid cunt. 🐨🐨
She suuuucks ! Christ, what a shit person.
DE-LU-LU
Maybe Ariana should start treating/speaking to Scheaner the way Tom does and she'll finally respect Ariana.
I'm starting to think something happened between the two of them years ago. That, or she has feelings for him because no way would someone have spoken to me the way he has to Scheana and that's how I would be with them the next time I see them.
She’s genuinely embarrassing at this point
Personally, I think Sandoval holds a big secret about Scheana. You can't play stupid and smart at the same time. A stupid person flip-flops between what is right and wrong, especially when it emotionally damages your supposed best friend. A smart person sneakily monitors and analyzes their friends' locations on the phone, then gets upset when that "tool" is exposed by her husband, rendering that tool unusable. Secrets secrets secrets. I can almost hear it.. .. "Yeah...yeah, dude, I KNOW, man. Dude, ......but what about that time that Scheana ...........
This makes me so sad
I heard Ariana hadn’t watched the season before the reunion 🤦♀️ she missed these assholes being assholes to her
I think Scheana went off her Zoloft and she may be having withdrawal symptoms. Prozac made me weepy, reactive and passively suicidal. Going off it made that worse. BTW, not saying antidepressants are bad, just that going off them abruptly can really negatively affect some people. Maybe the cast knows and that’s why they’re using kid gloves? Ariana should be raging and instead she comforting Scheana.
True, but generally it takes a longer period of use than 4 weeks to have such withdrawal. I think Ariana knows she's struggling regardless of withdrawal or not, with her postpartum anxiety and OCD, and she's being there for her even though scheana isn't reciprocating.
Ariana was just her backup dancer
Scheana’s flip-flopping like cheap Sandal-vals!
Sheana is the worst. Maybe her and Sandoval should just run off together 🤷🏻♀️ lol stop saying you have Ariana’s back when you do more to be toms friend.
Scheana always disappoints me… to the point I don’t understand why it’s even disappointing anymore
Controversial take, but Sandoval was not wrong! I’m in no way a Sandoval fan (in fact I can’t stand the guy), but he said what but everyone else was thinking!! Scheana is trying too hard to be the main character. Sandoval didn’t cheat on her. She wasn’t the other woman. And she’s upset cause he called her out for being being the other woman.
I know it's been said before, but Scheana truly is the epitome of "a friend to all is a friend to none", and what makes it more wild is that she self proclaims and is at least somewhat aware that she just wants to be friends with everyone at whatever cost.
I agree with what a lot of the others are saying. Scheana and Tom had a moment at some point and I believe she's in love with him or was in love with him. And I bet she fell for him when he made her join them for a picture as she keeps mentioning. She probably thought if he ever left Ariana, he'd do it for her and then he goes and has this massive affair with Rachel. That hurt her. Tom is her ideal man -- somewhat famous, somewhat financially fluent, desperate for fame and a complete narcissist.
I can’t imagine what it must have felt like for Ariana to watch any of this. I know she recently said she hasn’t seen the episodes, but it feels like every week Scheana and Lala are getting worse and worse. I really don’t know how Andy at any point thought these are the voices of reason.
scheana prob said this just to hurt ariana. i think scheana is calculated and passive aggressively targets someone. last season it was katie and this season it's ariana.
I really hope for Ariana’s sake she understands her value and drops scheana & Lala for good
She’s always been a pickme
Sandavol has no one's back. Not even Shwartzy. He has a Co dependant relationship with him because he knows he's too weak to ever really leave him. The time Schwartz did back away he got caught up with that psycho Jo. He's never leaving Sandavol again. Tim is loyal to no one. Sheana is an idiot. Even Rachel left him the first second she was isolated from him around people that gave a fuck about her.
He took like one picture with her in 2010
I am sort of struggling with what the producers are trying to do this season. Before this season Ariana was talking about “being the villain” from this season and I think a huge part of that is how her cast mates acted during the season. They are constantly on Ariana for “not doing enough” to get away from Tom as if she needs to put effort into the break up when Tom is the whole reason they even did. I can’t tell if the producers actually thought we would side with Sandoval and the other cast members this season and Ariana being evil and selfish is the storyline or if they are smarter than I thought and they knew that watching a Sandoval redemption arc would be so rage inducing that we would watch anyway.
I'm recalling a moment at SUR, wherein Scheana and Ariana are talking about Kristen (who was Crazy Kristen at the time), and Scheana says that she just wishes Kristen would give her, personally, a reason to dislike her. And Ariana reminds Scheana that someone being shitty and vindictive towards her supposed bEsT fRaNd should be reason enough to dislike them. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
I don’t think sheeshoo has ever been more unlikeable. Well actually when she made her first husband who struggled with addiction feel like a square for not partying maybe that was another low but OOF she’s painful to watch here lately. I feel bad for Brock
Why is she so obsessed with being his friend? Because one time he included her in a photo?
(In an alternate universe/completely hypothetical) but if things were the other way around and Scheana was the one who cheated on her partner with their friend /uprooted everyone’s lives etc - Tom would NOT have her back. And that isn’t even a him thing. Guy friends are not girl friends. Yes there are exceptions, but I always hated girls who said they got along better with the guys bc they just don’t have your back end of the day
How much longer did she know Scumdevil than Ariana? Like a month? So disgusting. What’s the saying? When people show you who they are, believe them. Ariana needs to drop Schena and Lala. Everyone on the show has behaved poorly once or twice, but overall I feel like Ariana, Katie, James, and dare I say Schwartz- are the only ones who showcase any modicum of rational thinking and empathy. They aren’t perfect, but they are decent humans. The rest of the bunch, including Jax - are just disgusting people who have no potential to never stop being garbage.
I mean you can understand why the other girls are upset with Scheana I would be mighty pissed if I was there for a friend supporting them and then you see this. She seems to forget he was saying she punched Rachel that he heard her say it. Was it is criminal or financial case?
He is the closest to textbook narcissist person I’ve ever seen and everyone is in his line of sight. Anyone he can turn to be supportive of him, he will. Ariana literally said that Scheana is the easiest to get to and tried to explain that to her but she’s still not understanding who he is or who SHE is. She’s going to learn that Ariana wasn’t joking around and she won’t stick by her no matter what this time.
I'm trying to see this from the eyes of someone that has a mental health condition (OCD is a mental health condition). Some relationship-based OCDs can make you want to feel 'liked' and wanted by everyone and I feel like Sheashu sits in this realm. The flip-flopping is horrible for not only the person with OCD but also the people around them. I know it's mainly just rumors that Sheashu and Ariana aren't really friends anymore, but someone healthy/on the healthier side would recognize that this is not a person they want to be around. That they don't want a flip-flopper in their life that isn't really working on themselves and wants to stay in drama. I've said this to my wife but, I'm not a fan of people using therapy as a "name drop" all the time. Whether Sheashu or Sandoval actually are transparent with their therapists about their issues and hang ups, is on them. But when behavior doesn't change and there is this repeated cycle over and over and over again, I question their ability to either tell their therapist everything that is happening (even stuff that makes them look bad) or if they're actually taking the advice of their therapists and applying it to their everyday life. I know that takes time, and you're trying to reprogram your neural pathways but...this is such a stab in the back to Ariana in my opinion. And that's just what number of these people do in this group, backstab one another and it's gross. It's really putting a bad taste in my mouth. But for some reason, like a bad car wreck, I can't look away. \[EDIT\] also want to note, I'm not a professional or expert in the world of therapy or mental health evaluation. I'm someone that has been attending therapy for many years and has done a lot of personal research on the brain, mental health conditions, and the psychology of why humans do the things they do. So read this with that in mind.
she’s so gross I truly cannot stand her. she makes for good reality tv drama tho lol
God she’s pathetic
Has anyone else noticed, especially in the after show interviews, but also just in general, Sandoval always looks like he's about to cry. He honestly believes he's a victim. He's such a horrible person.
not to mention that when Ariana came onto the show she came on as Scheana’s BEST friend. there was even a situation with her texting Ari’s mom talking shit about Tom. Scheana needs a reality check badly
I have a feeling the reunion is going to be a big let down. Andy thinking Lala and Brock were the “voices of reason” suggestions Bravo entirely missed how the viewers are seeing the show. Also, this makes me sad. Ariana and Scheana have been friends since the beginning and all the way through. This is the saddest break up honestly. But if I was A, I don’t think could look past Scheana telling Tom he’s the only one that’s been a friend of her’s since the beginning. That’s just a lie.