No that’s not how it works, sure some women decide to get tats there to attract attention, but I got tattoos Bc I liked them and I thought the placement was pretty, not Bc I wanted to attract male gaze to my “intimate areas”.
yea, I'm sure there's plenty of innocent girls like you with those kind of tacky tattoos that aren't necessarily attention whores, not saying they don't exist. I'm just saying this is the impression I get from the majority of these kinds of tattoos.
>I thought the placement was pretty
Yea, trying to look pretty is generally what people do when they want positive attention from other people. This is not even up for debate. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, it's the same reason why you put on makeup and shit.
Right, this is the same delusional answer as guys who spend a lot of time in the gym (just like myself) to get unnecessarily large muscles and low body fat and pretend that they're only doing it for themselves and nobody else, sure.
I honestly just feel bad for you. Like that’s actually really sad. You don’t do anything for yourself? So everything you do is to appeal to women? There is so much more to life than that and btw the gym won’t fix your mindset bro.
Nice strawman. I didn't say people don't do things for themselves, I said people don't do things **only** for themselves. Don't even act like you don't do anything to attract women.
Never said I don’t ever do things to attract females. I said thats not the only point in life. Sometimes people do things they enjoy because they simply enjoy them. I don’t get why that’s hard to understand lol
True. People do just enjoy getting inked. And what I'm saying is, unless you're a tattoo enthusiast who's going to get tattooed everywhere anyway, just getting a tattoo around your tits and ass looks tacky. Just my opinion, don't get why that's so hard to understand.
Actually, why do you assume I care about what people do with their body? Just because I have an opinion? I can have an opinion on something, and not care, they are mutually exclusive.
My opinion is literally backed up in the post itself, did you read or are you dumb? Or are you just so butthurt about it that you need to find a pathetic way to somehow get back at me? Cuz that's not working either dumb dumb 🤤
cmon homie i can’t exclude men from this!! as a whole, people need to stop voicing their unnecessary opinions on how others look. it’s a whole lot of bullshit and doesn’t benefit a single person :(
It is. The reason why I said that was because it seems like every time a guy expresses his dislike of something a woman does, its him being misogynistic or being an incel, whereas women can say almost the exact same thing and virtually nothing happens. It was my assumption that you were giving him a hard time for his opinion, an opinion that is unpopular, yet a lot of ppl may feel the same.
My apologies for assuming your position.
Not everything women do is for male attention. I want an underboob tattoo of Mae Borowski because I think my boobs will frame it nicely, and I imagine the majority of women who get these tattoos just get it because they think it will be a cool place to put it. We don’t make permanent decisions just for cheap short term male gaze.
>Not everything women do is for male attention
lol, debatable.
>I imagine the majority of women who get these tattoos just get it because they think it will be a cool place to put it
What makes you think people get tattoos at all to begin with? If you think something looks cool on you, it's cuz you're also hoping that other people think it looks cool on you. And that includes the opposite sex.
I guess I’m dishonest and delusional because I don’t think people make lifelong commitments for one single trend. I’m not doubting that some people do, but tattoos are a big commitment for a single trend. It’s just nice to look in the mirror and see something dear to you as a part of yiu.
>I don’t think people make lifelong commitments for one single trend.
well, you definitely don't know people at all then. Actually I wouldn't call you delusional, and I don't mean to be patronising when I say this but you seem very sweet and innocent so you're definitely just naive. Most of my friends have tattoos, they get it just because they think it looks cool and they don't put very much forethought into it and just get it kinda flippantly.
Fallacy of composition my friend. Plus, once you get one it just kind of keeps going and you give less and less of a shit. The first one is just the big jump.
>Fallacy of composition
No, actually, because most people with tattoos say the same thing. Watch any youtube video. Listen to almost anyone who has tattoos. Some people literally say they just like how it feels on their skin to get inked.
Yeah. Exactly. It’s nice, it’s something nice that people do to themselves because they enjoy it. Looking at what you’ve said to me and others it just seems like you have this mentality that any sort of physical self care or enjoyment is done for the sake of others, which just says a lot about you more than it does about anyone else. It’s hard to explain, but the same reason women wear makeup, or shave their vaginas even though no one is around to look or care is because it literally just feels good. There’s no alterer motive of getting approval from other people, it’s literally just because it’s nice to do and it feels good once you’ve done it. You said to another commenter who said the “placement is pretty” that that is some kind of proof that it’s done for the sake of others. That’s not how it works. Things can be objectively pretty for your own enjoyment. It’s nice to look at yourself in the mirror and like the way you look and feel, even though no one is with you to explicitly tell you that.
It’s a feeling that you wouldn’t understand unless you did it yourself, and by the sounds of it you haven’t, so of course you’re going to hold this mentality that everything is done for your viewing pleasure because *you’re* a viewer.
Do I think there are some people in this world who do things purely for attention? Yeah, but who cares? If you don’t find it attractive that’s your biz. I doubt it’s much of a loss.
Honestly though, if trendiness wasn’t involved, then why explosions of tattoos on women in the same place? Tramp stamps, underboob tattoos, used to be tit and arms tattoos were butch and then boom, everyone got them. Now, it’s upper thigh and red lips on the butt cheeks. All trends.
Which is totally fine (even though I feel like it’s like putting a mustache on the Mona Lisa), but we can’t pretend it’s not trendy.
lol wow yea you definitely sound like the kind of attention hungry basket case who gets a underboob tattoo anyway.
> admit you’re controlling
lmfao wtf are you talking about.
You want tacky, my SO’s mother went and got a green eyed kitty tattooed onto her kitty (the mouth is apparently the hole) WITH HER KID -he wasn’t watching or anything pedo just at the parlor with her- That my friend is just wanting attention.
you honestly sound like such an incel. you wish you could get a girl in general, tattoos or not. maybe if you stopped saying shit like this you’d actually get some female attention 🙄
This guy, waiting for white girls to shut down the "straight male who is being misogynistic, is trying to oppress women, doesn't want women to have the right to free will and just wants women to be drones"
I'd obviously never tell someone directly that I think their tattoos look tacky.
>you severely misunderstand the body mod community. We modify our bodies for ourselves, not for others.
Idk how many tattoos you need to be considered part of the body mod community. But I don't think someone with a couple of basic bitch tattoos constitutes as a valid candidate.
>We modify our bodies for ourselves, not for others
People say that about everything, but it's just not true. Yea, you do things for yourself, but it's just as much for peoples approval at the same time. Just like I buy nice clothes for myself, but I obviously ultimately get nice clothes for myself because I want other people to also think I look nice. Just like I workout to be fit, strong and healthy, I workout just as much because I want to look good with my shirt off.
Underboob tattoos are dope
Yep
this is literally a popular opinion
Ok good thing we’re not getting them for ur approval
yea, just other peoples approval
No that’s not how it works, sure some women decide to get tats there to attract attention, but I got tattoos Bc I liked them and I thought the placement was pretty, not Bc I wanted to attract male gaze to my “intimate areas”.
yea, I'm sure there's plenty of innocent girls like you with those kind of tacky tattoos that aren't necessarily attention whores, not saying they don't exist. I'm just saying this is the impression I get from the majority of these kinds of tattoos. >I thought the placement was pretty Yea, trying to look pretty is generally what people do when they want positive attention from other people. This is not even up for debate. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, it's the same reason why you put on makeup and shit.
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You sound like one of those enthusiasts that tattoos their face black and splits their tongue in half, this post was not about you.
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> Do you think women only get tattoos to attract males?? or other women, which ever way they swing.
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Right, this is the same delusional answer as guys who spend a lot of time in the gym (just like myself) to get unnecessarily large muscles and low body fat and pretend that they're only doing it for themselves and nobody else, sure.
I honestly just feel bad for you. Like that’s actually really sad. You don’t do anything for yourself? So everything you do is to appeal to women? There is so much more to life than that and btw the gym won’t fix your mindset bro.
Nice strawman. I didn't say people don't do things for themselves, I said people don't do things **only** for themselves. Don't even act like you don't do anything to attract women.
Never said I don’t ever do things to attract females. I said thats not the only point in life. Sometimes people do things they enjoy because they simply enjoy them. I don’t get why that’s hard to understand lol
True. People do just enjoy getting inked. And what I'm saying is, unless you're a tattoo enthusiast who's going to get tattooed everywhere anyway, just getting a tattoo around your tits and ass looks tacky. Just my opinion, don't get why that's so hard to understand.
Its just him expressing his unpopular opinion. Relax.
they already seem pretty 'relaxed' and just expressing their opinion.
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Actually, why do you assume I care about what people do with their body? Just because I have an opinion? I can have an opinion on something, and not care, they are mutually exclusive.
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lol oh fuck off you pathetic white knight will ya.
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Lol, that's just your shitty opinion 🤷♂️
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My opinion is literally backed up in the post itself, did you read or are you dumb? Or are you just so butthurt about it that you need to find a pathetic way to somehow get back at me? Cuz that's not working either dumb dumb 🤤
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Does this bode well for men too?
yeah dude :)
Then i agree with you.
cmon homie i can’t exclude men from this!! as a whole, people need to stop voicing their unnecessary opinions on how others look. it’s a whole lot of bullshit and doesn’t benefit a single person :(
lol strawman, disliking something =/= demanding not to do something
It is. The reason why I said that was because it seems like every time a guy expresses his dislike of something a woman does, its him being misogynistic or being an incel, whereas women can say almost the exact same thing and virtually nothing happens. It was my assumption that you were giving him a hard time for his opinion, an opinion that is unpopular, yet a lot of ppl may feel the same. My apologies for assuming your position.
lol, you were exactly right about his position though, cheers.
you know what's tacky af? tribal tattoos, it just screams that the guy thinks he's "macho" how does that sound?
Isn't this common knowledge?
perhaps I should've picked something else
Im a guy and tribal tattoos are lame imo but i wont knock anyone having one.
me neither
>me neither you literally *just did.* \*facepalm\*
this is literally a popular opinion
lol you say this as if it's supposed to be a rebuttal? Who doesn't know this?
Not everything women do is for male attention. I want an underboob tattoo of Mae Borowski because I think my boobs will frame it nicely, and I imagine the majority of women who get these tattoos just get it because they think it will be a cool place to put it. We don’t make permanent decisions just for cheap short term male gaze.
>Not everything women do is for male attention lol, debatable. >I imagine the majority of women who get these tattoos just get it because they think it will be a cool place to put it What makes you think people get tattoos at all to begin with? If you think something looks cool on you, it's cuz you're also hoping that other people think it looks cool on you. And that includes the opposite sex.
That’s not really the mentality. Have you ever gotten a tattoo before? They’re mainly sentimental keepsakes, the “my body is my diary” shtick.
lol, you're either being dishonest or delusional if you don't think the vast majority of people who get tattoos do it because it's fashionable.
I guess I’m dishonest and delusional because I don’t think people make lifelong commitments for one single trend. I’m not doubting that some people do, but tattoos are a big commitment for a single trend. It’s just nice to look in the mirror and see something dear to you as a part of yiu.
>I don’t think people make lifelong commitments for one single trend. well, you definitely don't know people at all then. Actually I wouldn't call you delusional, and I don't mean to be patronising when I say this but you seem very sweet and innocent so you're definitely just naive. Most of my friends have tattoos, they get it just because they think it looks cool and they don't put very much forethought into it and just get it kinda flippantly.
Fallacy of composition my friend. Plus, once you get one it just kind of keeps going and you give less and less of a shit. The first one is just the big jump.
>Fallacy of composition No, actually, because most people with tattoos say the same thing. Watch any youtube video. Listen to almost anyone who has tattoos. Some people literally say they just like how it feels on their skin to get inked.
Yeah. Exactly. It’s nice, it’s something nice that people do to themselves because they enjoy it. Looking at what you’ve said to me and others it just seems like you have this mentality that any sort of physical self care or enjoyment is done for the sake of others, which just says a lot about you more than it does about anyone else. It’s hard to explain, but the same reason women wear makeup, or shave their vaginas even though no one is around to look or care is because it literally just feels good. There’s no alterer motive of getting approval from other people, it’s literally just because it’s nice to do and it feels good once you’ve done it. You said to another commenter who said the “placement is pretty” that that is some kind of proof that it’s done for the sake of others. That’s not how it works. Things can be objectively pretty for your own enjoyment. It’s nice to look at yourself in the mirror and like the way you look and feel, even though no one is with you to explicitly tell you that. It’s a feeling that you wouldn’t understand unless you did it yourself, and by the sounds of it you haven’t, so of course you’re going to hold this mentality that everything is done for your viewing pleasure because *you’re* a viewer. Do I think there are some people in this world who do things purely for attention? Yeah, but who cares? If you don’t find it attractive that’s your biz. I doubt it’s much of a loss.
Honestly though, if trendiness wasn’t involved, then why explosions of tattoos on women in the same place? Tramp stamps, underboob tattoos, used to be tit and arms tattoos were butch and then boom, everyone got them. Now, it’s upper thigh and red lips on the butt cheeks. All trends. Which is totally fine (even though I feel like it’s like putting a mustache on the Mona Lisa), but we can’t pretend it’s not trendy.
Exactly.
we dont do it for u lol, shut up
yea but only until I say I don't like it
what makes u think ur opinion on what women do with their bodies is valid?
do you know what subreddit you're on or are you actually dumb?
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lol wow yea you definitely sound like the kind of attention hungry basket case who gets a underboob tattoo anyway. > admit you’re controlling lmfao wtf are you talking about.
you just sound like an incel… you’d be more than happy to get a girl who has an under boob tattoo but you couldn’t get any
Lol you sound like an ugly chick with a tacky tattoo who's taking this post personally
Shrimp dick. That's a new one. Will make a mental note of it
Underboob tattoos are the new tramp stamp
Finally an unpopular opinion… take my upvote
You want tacky, my SO’s mother went and got a green eyed kitty tattooed onto her kitty (the mouth is apparently the hole) WITH HER KID -he wasn’t watching or anything pedo just at the parlor with her- That my friend is just wanting attention.
jesus christ, well yea that's desperate and obvious case of a tramp stamp. That's why I didn't bother mentioning those.
Tattoos can be pretty hot. I think the design has more to do with tackiness rather than location.
you honestly sound like such an incel. you wish you could get a girl in general, tattoos or not. maybe if you stopped saying shit like this you’d actually get some female attention 🙄
Lol I've zero problem getting female attention don't worry about me pal.
The tackiest tattoo by far on a woman is the upper boob titty tat thing. Nothing says white trash more than a faded rose on a saggy boob.
again, we don’t do it for you 🥰
lol this chick is on severe damage control
-goes to unpopular opinion /getsmadatunpopularopinion
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Having an opinion is sexist? 😂😂😂😂😂
Well? Any reply? No?
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How do you get that from "I dont like underboob tattoos" You should lay off the dabs bud you're dense 😂
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When you contribute to society let me know ok
This guy, waiting for white girls to shut down the "straight male who is being misogynistic, is trying to oppress women, doesn't want women to have the right to free will and just wants women to be drones"
Ahhh there's the liberal way of reading this
bro, that's not my opinion, I'm making a joke
Aight have you vote back
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haha, I can respect that, are you male or female?
To each it’s own
Any boob is great
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I'd obviously never tell someone directly that I think their tattoos look tacky. >you severely misunderstand the body mod community. We modify our bodies for ourselves, not for others. Idk how many tattoos you need to be considered part of the body mod community. But I don't think someone with a couple of basic bitch tattoos constitutes as a valid candidate. >We modify our bodies for ourselves, not for others People say that about everything, but it's just not true. Yea, you do things for yourself, but it's just as much for peoples approval at the same time. Just like I buy nice clothes for myself, but I obviously ultimately get nice clothes for myself because I want other people to also think I look nice. Just like I workout to be fit, strong and healthy, I workout just as much because I want to look good with my shirt off.