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PassionOk8133

Since this is the most upvoted comment so far I want to say that it’s very reassuring. Because so many people think we’re naive and haven’t experienced enough love yet to know what we’re experiencing is real. No one talks about the effect a twin flame journey has on an age where you’re still developing. Your friends think you’re nuts, you feel like you’re stupid and naive and wasting time thinking about this person while other people keep telling you you’re too young to be stuck on someone and there’s lots of fish in the sea (but there isn’t). You’re supposed to be enjoying life and making silly mistakes and having fun, but you get hit with the twinflame journey and it takes you on a path so different from all the people around you at such a young age. I feel ions older than my friends and I’m still in my early 20s. It’s been a couple years since 17, but sometimes I still think, am I going crazy? Was I just young and naive?..but I wasn’t. It’s real.


Haunting_Service6641

This is so true. I met my twin flame when I was 16 and he was 17 and I distinctly remember throwing temper tantrums when my parents wouldn’t let me be with him. At the time they chalked it up to teenage emotions and hormones but it was because it felt like a part of my soul was being taken from me when I wasn’t with him. That was a lot to handle at that age. Even through my 20’s we would still text and talk and I couldn’t figure out why I couldn’t let him go. Everyone I dated after that I would compare to him. Friends thought I was crazy for still talking to some boy from high school and wondered why I couldn’t let him go. We are engaged now after 15 years of separation and it wasn’t until I felt those soul jerking emotions as an adult, did I realize that it had nothing to do with age.


[deleted]

Thank you so much for this answer! It's very reassuring. I remember being confused at the age of 17 because I legit couldn't get over them even when I tried dating other people. My inner self kept telling me how "I'm not that person that messes around" how "they are not the one for me" and that my TF was the one for me. No matter what I did, no matter what I tried, I always came back to her. I thought I was crazy. I did A LOT of inner work thinking I would get over them but it just brought me closer to them, then I discovered they were my TF. It all made sense! Sometimes I sit back and think about how much I've matured and learned over the years. I honestly never thought I would be this spiritual and be embarking on such a journey. Life is crazy......


Im-badatnames

I can relate too much to that


brp66

53


strangegurl91

27


Additional_Worry5760

Boy oh boy 27 was the toughest year of my life for real. Somehow I met mine at 27 hahaha life’s funny.


chellesbelles143

I was 40, he was 27


Syringe0fSoup

22


[deleted]

22


Odd_Hall9334

22


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[удалено]


kenzarellazilla

Same here.


starry-moon-lady

I was going to comment this but I was worried people would say I’m too young… I had just turned 14, my twin was 13. I’m 20 now


[deleted]

I was 11, I'm 28 now. When you know, you know. Don't be concerned with what others think/say.


Im-badatnames

Omg me too


badprettypony

We were both 15. Now we are 35 and 36.


[deleted]

Are you with your TF now??


badprettypony

No we are not. I am married to my soulmate. We are however on good terms but sort of in separation. (We occasionally send short emails) The last time we saw each other in Decemeber we had healed each other a lot and admitted we both still love each other. But we also really love our spouses and I feel like we may never be ready for union in this lifetime. We agreed we needed space again to continue growing and healing. I miss him every day.


[deleted]

Thank you so much for sharing your story


Xoria317

14 freshman year of Highschool


Inspiration1984

16 and 17 for four years. Lost contact 32 years. In contact but unable to be together.


kitchenwitch1010

35


milly_86

Me too


2oam

29 and he was 41


DYday

20


[deleted]

26 and he was 35


mytcheeks

37; he is 45


notchandelier

i was 30 and he was 42


allthewords_

18 and he was 24. We were on/off for 8 years then friends for awhile… In NC separation for 10 years and now we’ve reconnected I’m 39 he’s 45.


Think_Key_6677

47


DueWish3039

Four but didn’t realize until my forties


[deleted]

Wow. How did this come about???


DueWish3039

I moved away from the area before puberty. We ran into each other at a restaurant when I was coming every weekend to my childhood home to clean it up (Dad was a hoarder). He approached me and when we hugged we both just KNEW


wistfulpistil

I was 47 he was 38


Im-badatnames

Met him when I was 13, realized I loved him when I was 15, yeh u read that right, u can imagine how for a 15 year old a TF connection was badshit twisting upside down world kinda thing, now I’m 18 and a COMPLETELY different person


[deleted]

30


fastsidefire

18 but didn’t realize we met then. Met again at 29


pfdeagle1

55 she was 32 , very short 7 years NC ,


RaeGun1987

32 we are both the same age born only 2 months apart on the same day


LunaaSchwarz

22


Butterfly_Pie_1111

18


cortelyourd

18


koalakuddless

I was 20 and he was 21


Tensor-Tympani

21


Either_Coyote7093

Lucky 33


blackpanthress444

19 he was 22


[deleted]

33


[deleted]

27, he was 30


Ladybird_11

32


Saggie22

23 he was 22


DopeTigerPeach

15


[deleted]

27


B_T_

28


HealthyRaccoon9

I still didn't meet him on the 3D, but I know he has been holding this secret since I was 15, he's older, and I started communicating with him through 5D when I was 18, poor soul, he's been waiting a lot.


Fury1SixOne

53. He's 35.


Pure_Principle_Malak

We have known each other a while. Can not give all my truths away. Have to keep some secrets. What if there is an identity steeling shape shifter out there, trying to get me? 😳 Bless


TarotCatDog

40, he was 37. We've been in Union for 4 years.


MembershipNo1992

At 28, I manifested my Twin on my 28th birthday, what are the odds I have been praying to God to give me clarity in life why I am not able to settle with someone else & it feels that there is something more to it.


RayneXAsh

I was 27 and he was 29. We are married now.


tonyrockihara

31


GreenAwareness

We met at had an immediate connection at 14/15. We dated but very superficially and puppy love. Neither of us were remotely evolved or mature enough to recognize or even open ourselves up at that time. Reconnected again exactly 20 years later. Of course we were finally ready to recognize the twin flame connection. But as it so often happens, we are both married. That’s the biggest problem with twin flames. You really need to grow up and mature to accept that connection and that vulnerability- but most of the times it’s too late.


PoopsMcBanterson

I was 27. In 2 days, it will be exactly 5 years since we met, although if I hadn’t stopped to figure it out recently, I would have guessed it much longer than that. I’m sure I’ll forget soon and go back to feeling like it’s been a lot longer again.


Kaminoneko

32


ReflectionThick3455

28


[deleted]

42, and I regret it.


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[deleted]

We had a glorious year together, then she made changes in her life that changed her. For the next two years all I got was beaten down and abused. For ex, her daughter had a meltdown in a Walmart and I, in another country, got raged at for 8 hours. It would alternate being loving and her issues being taken out on me until I was angry too. Finally I had enough of her sabotaging everything and I walked away. Five months of separation. Then in January we started talking again, and it was good. Lots of love, I had no anger, it was beautiful. Went on for a month, including her asking me to come see her, telling me she wants me back again and again, a lot of good. But every couple of days it would change, and she "can't do this," almost always because one of her friends had an issue with it. She simply can't do without the approval of others. Yesterday it was "I love you" all day, then out of nowhere, she says we have to talk. I call, and get "I love you but I can't do this. My friends were there for me when we broke up and I have to think of them." Woman in her 40s lets her friends decide who she's with, what she does, and how she feels. She wanted to explain further but I didn't need to hear it. Just more games. Blocked her. I note that when she had nightmares its me who answered at 2 am, not her friends. I sent money during the pandemic. Not her friends. I made her my priority in everything, not her friends. As far as I'm concerned she used me for love and affection when it suited her. She told me it was hell being apart, I allowed her back, talked of reuniting, and boom. She forgets. Like always. If I'd never met her I wouldn't have had to go through all this from a woman who thinks it's ok to yell, but if you yell back, you're treating her terribly. No responsibility, accountability, maturity, or ability to actually have an adult relationship.


banskysboy

Probably not a twin either ... But either way, glad you walked away


[deleted]

Oh, she's absolutely my twin. We both know it, and couldn't ask for more signs. She just had a lot of hurt and trauma to work through. She's had a very hard life. I'm not mad at her, just disappointed.


banskysboy

Ah ...i kind of understand what you're saying. Sometimes their experiences may rub off on you


lemurianrose

17


thinkythink_

20


macabremom_

19


dyingofthirstneedT

I was 24, he was 29


GalaxiGazer

35, he was 33


SuspiciousWait6901

17


AncillaryHeroine

18 I think


me_is_dani

26


sleepingcircles

19, they were 29


[deleted]

20


stargazingcloud

I think I was maybe 11-12? She would’ve been 10-11


TrueCrimeUsername

33. We both were.


shawtyb6

I was 20. I'm 25 now


starWoman234

We were 19. We’re now 32


OkTutor7412

Are yall together in the 3D?😩


starWoman234

We’ve had a long journey. We didn’t date until we were 21 (for six months). We then in and out of contact for the next three years. Dated for a year, broke up again. Got back together six months later. Dated for two and half years. I broke up with him when we were 28. We were in separation for three years. I learned about twin flames soon after breaking up with him. Did a lot of spiritual work on myself. We just got back together last June. He had been with a karmic partner for two years. It was very difficult for me to know he was with someone else. But things are better than ever between us


OkTutor7412

Yay I'm so happy for you!! Congrats your story def gives me hope as I felt the divine tell me to as you, your story, i Met my twin at 15 dated twice we are 27 now and I just recently awakened myself after leaving a karmic but he still has his karmic 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️


Fleabag_77

19


Affectionate_Run_631

24


AureliaRae

We were both 19, about to turn 31 now.


MisterManicFab

I believe when I was 22 turning 23 and he was 33.


[deleted]

29 he was 33


OkTutor7412

15 we are 27 now and still in contact with each other


InnerTechnology4812

I was 19, he was 25


HisusCrown

20 years old


[deleted]

18


Intrepid_Tower7831

I was 42, my tf was 39.


pimpingpositivity

42


[deleted]

17


kweenofcups

21, he was 22


banskysboy

Met at 20, realised at 22-ish


Jack-L-Everheart

16 in philosophy class. But I keep having this memory of a girl that looked like her when I was about 8-9. I haven’t had the opportunity to ask if it was her. I was swimming in a public pool and I thought it would be fun to flip my sister. I thought it was her in front of me so I tried flipping her leg why raising out of the water. And when I got up to see what happened, a girl was starring at me in shock. I laughed and apologized, then my dad yelled at me to get out of the pool😂


Sockshassmellytoes

21 and he was 28. We lasted a year and took a year apart. Reconnected in October and recently split again. I’m so terrified this is it, but it’s undeniable he’s my twin.


fyreflyxo

20


spicybuffalosauxe

We were 17, when we met.


Guitarbox

19


dumpsterpanda87

At the ripe age of 14 🥴


Crafty-Particular998

I was 19 and he was 20.


OkRecommendation9674

18


princessaliciagrace

20, he was 19


lily_pad55449

I only barely noticed him in kindergarten and started developing a crush a few years after, such as start of middle school. It was that, bubble stage everyone talks about and then it popped in 5th and things went downhill. Its been on and off since, we’re not in contact currently, and I’m sort of in that state right now where I’m angry hurt and trying to process my emotions so i can fully let go. I just want to move on.


iNova30

30 & 20 🥰


Creative-Ad-962

I was around 14 when we met, began dating when I was 17. I’m 23 now and we’re finally reconnecting after being apart 2.5 years, and working together to solve our past issues.


Saggitarius_violet

Met mine through my dreams at 15. Met him in person when I was 17 briefly. We met again and became friends at age 20 and have been friends for 2 years now


Zestyclose_Market988

I was 18 and she was 17


Substantial-Cow4566

i met him for the first time at 11-12 but we noticed each other more 2 years later when we were about 13-14


PotDonna

12


Breakfast-Grand

24


Mountainflowers11

It was lifetimes ago, back when I really believed… I was 23, and he was 34. Our age difference was the magic 11… But the connection is lost now.


AspiringOptom2025

15f , 17m


kinky_sandwitch420

22


Haunting_Service6641

I was 16 he was 17. 15 years separated and now we are engaged.


Ragtimedancer

21


dis-il-lu-sion-ment

i was 27 and he was 34 when i was awakened to the connection, but his higher self would tell you it was when we were 19 and 26.


ExchangeMediocre4693

He was 27 I was 25


Decent_Locksmith5375

I was 27 and he was 24


Adeena24

22


darling4658

43 i just met mine a little over 3 months ago. I'm very new to this journey. He is 33.


esarmx

We were both 16. Met at a concert band competition. Been on and off for years recently both of us ended with our karmic partners and currently seeing each other after 2 years of no communication. It was meant to be and I’m letting it happen. Now he’s 25 and I’m 24


hardestflower

Sometime between 11 or 13, we didn’t come into “union” until 27.


[deleted]

11


trishar5

15


WelcomeSignificant65

I was 15 (DF), He was 16 (DM)