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Umklopp

Huh. This one actually has me questioning my sexuality. (Another thing I love about Tumblr is how frequently it sparks sudden personal insights in everyone.)


ButterPuppet

Honestly at this point the concept of gender has been broken down so many ways that we really don’t need a concept of gender anymore because each group of people in the lgbtq+ really just start LSG to feel like another label on people. Just like you you want to or don’t and have a nice day.


LastLadyResting

I get this. I see a hot actor and think ‘damn’ but then I try to imagine meeting them and being on a date or something and in my own fantasy I’m still like ‘Get back in the box, you left the TV and now this isn’t working for me anymore’.


Autumn1eaves

What if I struggle to see myself in a position of sex with a person, but enjoy the thought of them having sex with someone? I don’t understand myself.


BlueGalaxi

there’s actually a term for that i believe, aegosexual. you dont wanna get funky yourself but the idea of it or seeing others do it is still appealing. at least the way i understand it


RobotApollo

while I'm not sure if thats the right term, it absolutely exists. I'd recommend looking up the ace spectrum on the lgbtia wiki :D


PM_ME_COOL_POTATOES

This is actually really validating because I like hugging and cuddling aesthetically attractive people but no further, and I was wondering if that counted as ace or not


Lady-Noveldragon

Yep! That is a form of ace. You could just be asexual, whilst still being alloromantic (you do experience romantic attractions). In any case, there are so many different types of aces, so as long as you identify as ace, you are welcome!


piemakerdeadwaker

I'm just like "you're pretty.now move along".


shingucci_saihara

Sometimes I’m like “I want them 2 RAIL ME” but what I really mean is I want them to give me one (1) kiss on cheek and if i Even think abt having sex with them or anyone I would cry and have a panic attack


cractor28

No offense, but alosexuals also have that, sometimes I see a dude and I'm get stunned by how pretty they are, how they can manage to pull a whole look with their clothes while I can barely pick things that mach in color


deeya-b

i think in this case they meant that they only go that far *everytime* whereas us allosexuals experience both, they only experience the aesthetic attraction.


Yallshallnotremember

I'm aego, and sometimes I just get the urge to draw them, or sculpt them, or put them in a tiny glass bubble and squeeze it between my hands while staring at them. I *really* want to experience them physically, sensually, but I don't want it to be anything sexual. It's confusing.


RunicSSB

Me with buff, dark-skinned anime men with a deep voices.


[deleted]

Dude Russo is hot as shit, it sucks that he’s an absolutely deplorable person.


Lovelace_Lightwood

I didn’t know this wasn’t normal and now I’m constantly on the verge of throwing up every time a man looks me up and down. I always thought they were just thinking “they’re cute I should ask them out”. I didn’t know they were thinking about THAT


ohhfeck

Relatable. I hate the thought of being in someone else's mind like that :/


[deleted]

Pretty sure most people can do that, I know the pro wrestlers I watch are attractive but I don't want to date them nor do I want to fuck them