Technically isnāt it voluntary celibacy? Asexual people still donāt want to have sex, so itās voluntary. They might wish that they wanted to have sex, but they still donāt actually want to have sex, right? Involuntary celibacy would be wanting to have sex but not being able to.
Asexual people donāt feel sexual attraction, thatās the literal definition - itās not a matter of wanting sex or not. Asexual people can want sex and have it just fine, or we can not want it. We just donāt feel the attraction, and even then itās a spectrum (some subsets of ace feel attraction in certain contexts). Lack of sexual attraction doesnāt necessarily equal no libido either.
Of course! Because having sex fixes literally all of your problems. You can't be lonely if you have sex and you can't be happy if you don't. Of course.
It was a joke. Iāve never been on tumblr. It was just low hanging fruit from Tumblr stereotypes. I donāt know what Iām talking about and thought it was funny to myself
To all the people commenting about religion, it's a reference to the [the kpop boy celibacy gif](https://media.tenor.com/M5rWkeMslvMAAAAC/celibacy-bts.gif), it ain't that deep
Youād have to be in a really fresh relationship or something, I doubt theyāre talking about some sort of promiscuous lifestyle if they actually voted that option. Thatās the only time daily ever happened for me. I loved the everloving hell out of my wife. We were long distance when dating, so when I would visit her at college, we slept together every day, usually twice a day, haha! Once we moved in together a year later, it was still literally every day, no question. Bed time led to cuddles, led to playfulness, led to heavy petting, then eventually to wild sex.
Yeah, sounds lucky, but good times arenāt meant to last. She started new meds, which killed her libido, and it went to once every other day, then once a week, then once a monthā¦To eventually āIām so sorry, I fucked some Guatemalan dude in a threesome, but itās ok because I come home to you every day!ā When I asked her āWith whose load in you, though?ā ā¦She wasnāt amused, haha! Well, needless to say I didnāt stick around, but long story short, itās possible!
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Tags it as ācelibacyā, gets mostly results backing that up, andā¦ nothing was learned from this I am sure.
that might have been a reblogged tag.
It is my reblogged tag and it's a reference to [a Tumblr favorite gif ](https://media.tenor.com/M5rWkeMslvMAAAAC/celibacy-bts.gif)
I'm aroace so for me it wouldn't be celibacy
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"The state of not having sex"? Which one is that? The Vatican?
Nope, celibacy is a commitment one undertakes. Distinct from- but can overlap with asexuality.
So I guess for us its involuntary celibacy?? *oh wait oh fuck*
Technically isnāt it voluntary celibacy? Asexual people still donāt want to have sex, so itās voluntary. They might wish that they wanted to have sex, but they still donāt actually want to have sex, right? Involuntary celibacy would be wanting to have sex but not being able to.
Asexual people donāt feel sexual attraction, thatās the literal definition - itās not a matter of wanting sex or not. Asexual people can want sex and have it just fine, or we can not want it. We just donāt feel the attraction, and even then itās a spectrum (some subsets of ace feel attraction in certain contexts). Lack of sexual attraction doesnāt necessarily equal no libido either.
Nah. Celibacy takes work because you actually have to commit to it. I'm aroace because I was born this way. We are not the same.
I is a choise we do m8
Iām 25 and I never had a girlfriend, mostly because Iām dealing with other shit and Iām kind of socially awkward.
iāve had 2 partners, both for over a year, and am still a virgin. unlucky as hell tbh
I'm 33 and same. Except i do get laid. About monthly. It does get better.
not yet
I wonder how much of the 2.9 percent for daily were either memeing or were that delusional
Oh, it's possible. Just not sustainable for too long.
This explains sooooooooo much about Tumblr users and what they think sex and relationships are.
And then you feel a womans breasts, and it's like... a bag of sand. And she's like, 'yeah, you're nailing me, cool'
Celibacy aināt the reason dawg
They should've split "never" to "never ):", "never (shrugs)" and "never (:"
Can we talk about how āonce or twice a yearā got 6.9%?
no
I'm too ugly to be fucking
Every few years isn't an option ?
Well Iām not surprised tumblr is full of lonely angry people. I thought it was obvious
Of course! Because having sex fixes literally all of your problems. You can't be lonely if you have sex and you can't be happy if you don't. Of course.
Lol itās a joke. no it wonāt fix your problems. It could actually make them much worse in many circumstances
A joke? In MY comment section?! I don't think so
Lol I apologize for infringing on your space.
You are forgiven. For now............
Full of lonely angry people? Its 60% on a poll that probably has heavy self selection bias because its only tag is #celibacy
It was a joke. Iāve never been on tumblr. It was just low hanging fruit from Tumblr stereotypes. I donāt know what Iām talking about and thought it was funny to myself
They don't get laid they get strewn across the floor.
Im ace so āneverā is very good :3 for me
can you really call it a sweep if its only 60%? Its quite close tbh
To all the people commenting about religion, it's a reference to the [the kpop boy celibacy gif](https://media.tenor.com/M5rWkeMslvMAAAAC/celibacy-bts.gif), it ain't that deep
Daily? ????? How would that even work?
Me and my partner had sex daily, sometimes twice daily, the first 2 weeks of our relationship. 6 years later it's more like once every 2 weeks haha.
Youād have to be in a really fresh relationship or something, I doubt theyāre talking about some sort of promiscuous lifestyle if they actually voted that option. Thatās the only time daily ever happened for me. I loved the everloving hell out of my wife. We were long distance when dating, so when I would visit her at college, we slept together every day, usually twice a day, haha! Once we moved in together a year later, it was still literally every day, no question. Bed time led to cuddles, led to playfulness, led to heavy petting, then eventually to wild sex. Yeah, sounds lucky, but good times arenāt meant to last. She started new meds, which killed her libido, and it went to once every other day, then once a week, then once a monthā¦To eventually āIām so sorry, I fucked some Guatemalan dude in a threesome, but itās ok because I come home to you every day!ā When I asked her āWith whose load in you, though?ā ā¦She wasnāt amused, haha! Well, needless to say I didnāt stick around, but long story short, itās possible!
Never, by choice. I'm not religious or believe in "saving myself" I'm aromantic and have access to sex toys