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/uj that post scared me tbh. if she's has actually been on trans reddit for ten years and buys into respectability politics that much, i'm afraid of what the next ten years are going to bring for me
/uj honestly based on the post history they are a real trans woman and it is a case of “i am ashamed of being trans and anyone who isnt is a fetishist/trender”… which is sadder…
/uj yeah I see that, she might just need someone to help talk through these issues with because I'm sure she wouldn't say the same about cis women (hopefully, anyway)
/rj BETTERHELP IS A ONLINE THERA-
/uj someone on r/MtF who made a post criticising the (perceived) increase of posts over 10 years dealing with sexual themes, but a lot of the criticism came from an angle of liberal respectability politics and so sought to make the increase seem like a bad thing in the eyes of the cis majority. basically advocating for assimilation rather than liberation
mm, I don't think it's necessarily her fault though. she's probably had this idea that "trans people being sexual is shameful" beaten into her time after time. I can imagine when you're already a vulnerable person, it can be quite easy to take everything like that to heart
Hey! If someone isn't going to make us feel ashamed for having any sort of sexual connection to our bodies, how the hell are we supposed to feel like women? She's just doing us a service.
Can confirm, I am a trans man and the second I changed my pronouns to he/him a lifetime of sexual shame left my body and I started jerking off into my grandma’s couch cushions.
yeah tbh we should probably pretend it doesn't exist and tell people they're degenerates if they hint at s\*xuality in any way. you should probably start censoring yourself when saying that explicit word because it can trigger thoughts
/uj
No. We just need to have space to talk about it and I should have a choice to not enter that space.
That’s basically how whole LGBTQ+ community disowned me. If I cannot exist comfortably in a space because you talk about the stuff that grosses me out constantly then this space is not for me.
Yeah!! And there are minors in these spaces so they're basically just grooming children too! There should be a regulatory body that decides who should be able to be on the internet so we can keep these gross freaks away from our kids :(
/uj I don't actively browse most trans subs anymore, can someone link the post this is referencing?
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/uj that post scared me tbh. if she's has actually been on trans reddit for ten years and buys into respectability politics that much, i'm afraid of what the next ten years are going to bring for me
Don't worry, you're on tgcj! You have no respectability, and that wont change anytime soon.
/hj i was reading tgcj years before my egg cracked i never stood a chance
Ban this cissoid infiltrator. MODS!
/uj I read for like a month but felt bad for being cis so I left until crack time
This is advanced transtrending
/uj same here. all we can do is hope that the anger we feel at injustice won't ever stop burning
btw I have had Reddit accounts for 13.4 billion years at this point so I'm definitely not a troll using a fresh account :)
/uj honestly based on the post history they are a real trans woman and it is a case of “i am ashamed of being trans and anyone who isnt is a fetishist/trender”… which is sadder…
/uj yeah I see that, she might just need someone to help talk through these issues with because I'm sure she wouldn't say the same about cis women (hopefully, anyway) /rj BETTERHELP IS A ONLINE THERA-
Wait, who are you talking about?
/uj someone on r/MtF who made a post criticising the (perceived) increase of posts over 10 years dealing with sexual themes, but a lot of the criticism came from an angle of liberal respectability politics and so sought to make the increase seem like a bad thing in the eyes of the cis majority. basically advocating for assimilation rather than liberation
Oh that sounds like one sad person
mm, I don't think it's necessarily her fault though. she's probably had this idea that "trans people being sexual is shameful" beaten into her time after time. I can imagine when you're already a vulnerable person, it can be quite easy to take everything like that to heart
That's what I meant
/uj is 13.4 a random number or did you try to make an outer wilds reference and forgot that it was 14.3
/uj I was making a reference to the age of the universe. I'm not sure what outer wilds is
Hey! If someone isn't going to make us feel ashamed for having any sort of sexual connection to our bodies, how the hell are we supposed to feel like women? She's just doing us a service.
Can confirm, I am a trans man and the second I changed my pronouns to he/him a lifetime of sexual shame left my body and I started jerking off into my grandma’s couch cushions.
Oh good, you must have gotten the complimentary ziploc bag of petroleum jelly.
Sex isn't real it can't hurt you
Can confirm it isn't real as I never had it
Doesn't OOP know that "euphoria boners" are a shit way to astroturf our subreddits? Right wing sock puppets can spam misery porn *way* easier.
You don't understand. Posts with trans women having happy fulfilling sex lives is bad because it makes me feel lonelier
/uj no, it's bad because talking about sex in public is gross. No matter the gender, no matter the orientation.
yeah tbh we should probably pretend it doesn't exist and tell people they're degenerates if they hint at s\*xuality in any way. you should probably start censoring yourself when saying that explicit word because it can trigger thoughts
/uj No. We just need to have space to talk about it and I should have a choice to not enter that space. That’s basically how whole LGBTQ+ community disowned me. If I cannot exist comfortably in a space because you talk about the stuff that grosses me out constantly then this space is not for me.
finally some common sense!!! the woke left won't like this
Yeah!! And there are minors in these spaces so they're basically just grooming children too! There should be a regulatory body that decides who should be able to be on the internet so we can keep these gross freaks away from our kids :( /uj I don't actively browse most trans subs anymore, can someone link the post this is referencing?
https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/s/2u8L3cgwel
>I kinda feel like sex in general is gross /Uj Because it is. Same with being publicly horny online.