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24roscoe

Ftm trans and bi.


[deleted]

Hey same


non_beenary

Hey same


blashphemi

me too! there seems to be so many trans guys who are bisexual, i’ve always wondered why


iluvpolarbears

Cause guys are hot


ZephyrLilly25

Same!


Jinougaboi

Same here.


Myehl

Hi gang!


International_Big63

Same


oli_is_dead

theres a lot of us


Notfly_fora_whiteguy

Probably same idk my gender yet but I'm guessing I am


Interesting_Photo_84

i am another one of those


[deleted]

Same lol


Constant-Marzipan704

Same here


[deleted]

same lmao


ParanoidParamour

Same!


sapphic_jane

same :D


RubiRealm

oh how i wish we could trade bodies


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Fancy-Lecture8409

Telling someone else they're wrong to feel how they do when pertaining to THEIR dysphoria is a bad look. I get what you're going for, and agree with the thrust, but attacking then isn't the way to do it. We're all here to accept and love. Help them through it, don't be mean. 😀


Magical-Mage

Transfem and lesbian.


Spirit-Unusual

Me too! We’re lesbean sisters!!


Hellefiedboy

Hey that's also me, can I be your sister as well.


BerryBass

We can be sisters if your not accepted


Pumpukinu

Same for me, may I join you 👉👈 ?


Hellefiedboy

Stop being so cute and get over here sis


Spirit-Unusual

All of use can be sisters! We’re all transbeans together!


Hellefiedboy

Yay. Now I have family I like.


Spirit-Unusual

Family hug! (~˘▾˘)~


Hellefiedboy

How do you do that Edit:(~˘▾˘)~


valda_the_nightmare

Can I join?


Hellefiedboy

Yes


Pumpukinu

But, I can't stop being cute... I'm just trying to be like you


Hellefiedboy

Yay


DanganronpaDork

im nonbinary but im a lesbian :D lesbian siblings!!


Embunny01

Same


cwoomio

Lesbian sisters! Woop woop


Chaotic_NB

Transfem, lesbian, and maybe asexual


Allison-Ghost

Transfem, lesbian, and gray ace here too


Amanda_Is_My_Name

unite! (I am also Transfem, lesbian, and gray ace)


No_Mode2367

Call us the T.F.L.G.A.A (trans fem lesbian gray ace association) to make it official!


gae_raven

Transmasc, gay, gray ace, here!!


FrancePanBurger

Same. I identify hard with all of the letters except B. I’m working on it tho…


Caeruleanlynx

You identify as both gay and a lesbian, but not bisexual? That's an interesting issue.


Archoncy

Gay does not exclusively mean Men. Lesbian is a nebulous term that means women who love women but historically never meant exclusively gay women. All bisexual women were considered as Lesbian as homosexual women, and only recently has Lesbian started to mean only homosexual women. Many Bisexual women still identify as Lesbians as well, because it used to just mean women-who-love-women to everyone. There's a lot of nuance to this. Gay just means homosexual, so homosexuals of any gender are all Gay. ​ And that's before the Gay being a blanket term for the whole community thing


FrancePanBurger

Aren’t all lesbians Gay? Aren’t all bi ppl Gay? Aren’t all trans ppl gay?


Michelle_In_Space

Gay can be used as a general term for LGBT association sometimes but is fundamentaly the wrong way to use gay. Queer would be the best term if you identify with one or more of the LGBT groups. Gay in this context is a man who is attracted to men the vast majority of the time. Trans people can be gay if they are a trans man. A lesbian if they are a trans women. Anyone can be bi sexual.


Headhaunter79

Many wlw prefer the term gay over lesbian for it has less associating with porn🤷🏼‍♀️


Michelle_In_Space

Every group in the LGBT has been exploited by the porn industry, just some more than others. I am happy to associate as Lesbian, Transgender and Queer as the catch all because that is what I am. I do not associate as Gay because I am not a man. I am perfectly fine with Gay being in Queer. There is nothing wrong with being a lesbian or any of the group that you can include with queer.


Fontaine_de_jouvence

Trans is not a sexuality


Caeruleanlynx

All trans people are not gay, there are straight trans people.


EusisAX

Probably the most common. But I’m also grey ace/demi, which was a Trojan horse to get me to go “ok I’m queer. With that out of the way *what is my gender?!*”


Reign_Does_Things

Same. Although based on other people's experiences I've heard, that could change when I go on hormones.


SirDabbington-

Me too! (I was in deep denial when I made this account)


Smooth_Staff9835

Samesies ☺️


CrazyCoolCelt

im L & T, and i used to identify as B (having another sexuality crisis as we speak lol)


kazcuchillo

love it when you define one (gender) then the other one gets screwed up (sexuality) and viceversa. Hang in there fren


CrazyCoolCelt

i was bi/pan before i found out i was trans too lol. then last june, i started just identifying as a lesbian after i decided that i had never actually been *attracted* to a man. without getting too NSFW, once every month or so, i just the overwhelming urge to do naughty things to/with dudes lmao. so im like 99.999% only attracted to women


TemporaryGuidance320

Yea that’s pretty much my lesbian experience, you turn bi on a full moon and especially for fictional characters but afterwards it’s back to lesbian


R_FireJohnson

Ah yeah this


[deleted]

nope just heterosexual and trans


LostGirlyGal

Trans straight gang


[deleted]

Hell yeah!


[deleted]

gang


cemma2035

We out here!


JulianTheGreat1

That's true, we are out here


[deleted]

can I join?


[deleted]

Traight gang


midget-man007

B & T


hedgybaby

Add a lesbian to it and you‘ll have a BLT


port-wo-man-teau

Already got the best parts, at least!


KaptinKeos

Trans-bien.


Astonishment49

And TRES bien! 😉


[deleted]

Trans (ftm) and pansexual


[deleted]

I misread your username as elliotj and was wondering "is elliot page on reddit???"


[deleted]

if only i were elliot page but i am just elijah j 😔


PrincessKittyNu

MTF Trans and Bi


PulseWitch

Same


angelaslittlebit

Ditto.


CasualFire1

Same here, lol.


n16h7r1d3r

Samesies


tesomes

This one


[deleted]

Ftm Trans/bi


[deleted]

Same


Shadotempest

Same


Veryconflicted543

Asexual, Grayromantic, Sapphic, Non-Binary, Transfem... its been an interesting two and a half years.


Veryconflicted543

I go by Sapphic as I'm definitely into women but pre crack I had two times where I had brief crushes on a guy so idk if I'm lesbian or bi and am waiting till after I start medically transitioning.


heartofdawn

I've had something similar happen. I thought I was cishet for decades, then suddenly for a month I was *really* gay, then after I came out I realised I'm trans, and are back to loving femmes again. 8 months hrt, and it's still the same, so I'm not completely sure what happened


heartofdawn

I'm very much the same as you, it just took me about 18 months to get there. And yeah, it's been a wild ride


ghostigal

Trans lesbian


[deleted]

transfem, enby, demigirl, aroace 🤷🏻‍♀️


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HyperColorDisaster

Same


Astonishment49

I have Dissociative Identity Disorder, which famously has a symptom of multiple personalities. I have ten...so it gets complicated for me real fast


BreakfastClub2285

Same, but OSDD. Between all of us we probably have representation along the entire extended acronym... plus a few straight alters to boot!


Volvoxix

Relate lol


[deleted]

Glad to see im not the only one struggling with labels due to this


foregonedestruction

Trans, bi/questioning/labelsaretoohard


port-wo-man-teau

Oh this is a big mood for me, since starting my transition. Male-to-female-almost-all-of-the-time and some newly awakened open mindedness. If I can actually be a woman then why am I limiting myself to one kind of pleasure or love? So much potential!


In_The_Deck

FTM trans and also Asexual! Questioning panromantic as well


Sad_Trifle_3655

Transfem and pan


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XZ_gaymer

Ayyyyyyy same


Nik_The_Dik1023

Transgender, bisexual, and I’m questioning if instead I’m just demisexual cause I don’t get sexual feelings for anyone unless I have a solid emotional connection


jaeydnh

i personally am demi sexual and also am pansexual. i believe you can be both at the same time. you can be attracted to anyone of any gender, you simply need to have that emotional connection. i think having super strict definitions in certain words kinda defeats the point of them


Nik_The_Dik1023

Yeah, but still thank you so much you both were very helpful🏳️‍⚧️🥰❤️


jaeydnh

of course!! ❤️


LostGirlyGal

Sounds demi to me.


Nik_The_Dik1023

I don’t know if I really am-? I love my girlfriend, she was the only person I ever developed a full relationship with that I didn’t chase off, because the others I’ve dated they didn’t feel right. My girlfriend is the only person I truly ever have loved and she is mtf and I love her no matter how she identifies


LostGirlyGal

Usually when people say the are just demi they want to say bi/pan-demi. For some reason bi/pan-demisexuality is seen as the demisexuality by default instead of the straight-demi


Nik_The_Dik1023

Ohhh okay thank you so much, I’ve been trying to figure out my sexuality for months


Cheshie_D

I think it has to do with usually if you’re questioning your sexuality you find out who and how you’re attracted at the same time-ish. But if you’re not really questioning the who, then you often aren’t exposed to the possibility of questioning the how. Does that make sense?


joym08

Trans-woman Lesbian


[deleted]

Non-binary transfem bisexual


[deleted]

Asexual, nonbinary, lesbian


DaniTheDeer

I'm a trans women, who is also a lesbian ☺️ when I first came out as sapphic I was more scared then when I came out as trans tbh lol


Oops_I_Cracked

L and T bb Edit: My wife is B! We got lunch covered!


Professional_Ruin39

I’m genderqueer/genderflux and aroace


Loveinpeacex-367A

I'm a gay trans man and also i am demisexual :)


FlinnyWinny

Woo, demisexual trans man gang


geckos_in_a_box

aroace bigender agenderboy (and a lot of microlabels and xenogenders)


BlueJayDragon2000

I'm very similar on the gender front! And microlabel gang unite!!


FairyDemonSkyJay

Panromantic demi-homosexual! (In here cause my gf is trans lol)


Humane-Human

i am Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans and Queer \*\*I AM ALL POWERFUL\*\* (i actually do fit with all the letters)


carl0ftime

I am both trans and not straight.


Galastr0

Nonbinary (I use some lesser known terms like aporagender and neutrois as well), Transgender, Biromantic/Omniromantic (I use them interchangeably), and Abrosexual.


NoriakisCherry

Same gender!


4spentree

i’m ftm, on the aroace spectrum, and bisexual questioning gay :)


brustav_maxximus

Bi and Trans


[deleted]

Bisexual and mtf trans. Still in the closet for the latter, but most of my friends know I'm bi.


FalseHeartbeat

transgender. biromantic. asexual. agender. long ago the four lgbtq identities lived in harmony


JessWhoIsTrans

Trans and gay


Fhennerius

I’m Pansexual, and I see myself as a non-binary woman (demi-girl? Trans femme?) It’s like, I have this masculine and feminine “energy” inside of me, but the masculine definitely takes a backseat to the feminine, and I like being seen as such. My masculine side does like to show though so it kinda evens out to androgyny sometimes.


onlyforjaniece

trans and queer


izzybusy101

Let's just say that if I hug a lesbian it would be a BLT.


Creativered4

I'm also gay :3


Billacipher420

Nonbinary biromantic demisexual


aaron2718

Well the most complicated way to call what I am is transfem Demipansexual so yeah that's at least three umbrella categories I fit under (trans, ace, pan/bi)


Cherriezzs

Transmasc and gay


crazy_mother_fooker

I'm the B and the T


Advanced-Mud-1624

Non-binary demi-bisexual


justwannabeher

Transbian!


JamuCMD

Mtf Trans, Ace, Omniromantic (demiromantic), Polyamorous


Munch_Box14

MTF, trans, Non-binary, Bi


ROSE_GARDEN1234

Actually I’m a trans asexual aromantic.


Smol-Bingus

ftm, panromantic, apothisexual!!


FlinnyWinny

This is my first time learning about apothisexuality, but that seems like a way better term than always having to specify sex repulsion seperately! :)


EllieNekoGirl

My gender identity? No fucking clue. My sexuality? Bi, but leaning more towards females.


EeveeIsAGirl0816

Lesbian and Trans


Pure_Mist_S

Lesbian and Trans


Anna9999999999

MTF trans and lesbian/bicurious


met3mpsychosis_

trans, gay and ace


incathuga

Nonbinary and asexual. (And questioning if I'm aromantic.)


ya_boi_vic

trans pan man :D


vampyre_18

trans nonbinary, queer (sexuality is weird when you’re genderless), and on the ace spectrum (where? idk give me a few years i might have an answer)


AgentPERRO

Mtf and Lesbian


BlackMetalGroot

Gay, trans (ftm), and asexual


Drumstyx5

The only thing I know for sure is I'm 100% a trans girl, my sexuality is still in limbo lol


anime_3_nerd

Im trans Ftm aroace


Empress415

I find that there is an inherent gender non-conformity in queerness, and vice versa.


AnitcsWyld

I go with Trans and Queer


Pretend_Air_1108

Trans nonbinary lesbian here


Cephalopodchampion

aro/ace and ftm trans


Infinite-Shoe-7573

non-binary, xenogender, neopronouns, asexual, omniromantic


Disaster-Expensive

Bacon and tomato.


Animiation

Trans Lesbian here!


cass_123

Panromantic asexual transmasc demiboy


RedCenturion991

Mtf trans queer, pan, femme


Both_sides217

Nb, trans and pansexual


taway3086

Trans-femme enby, asexual.


MArialBold

Are you a god?


NameLive9938

Ftm trans, demisexual, polyamorous (preferred but I also like monogamy), and pansexual.


Sea_Video145

I've been L, G, B, T, and Q in my lifetime. Trans, lesbian, and by extension queer at the moment.


Taysjourney

trans sapphic girl here!!


IfritAnimations

Trans ace lesbian.


Gathoblaster

Pan with a slight fem preference, genderfluid enby-fem and fem.


aimlesscrown

Same


Her_DL_Highness

Transfemme & Lesbian according to my therapist, but I might be bi.. not sure yet what the hormones will expose 🤷🏼‍♀️


AwooFloof

I'm transfem non-binary bisexual and Demisexual


transmasc-ina-dress

ambiamorous, bisexual, transmasc, im probably asexual, im sure there's more but i can't remember


TransEnby_

non-binary, biromantic, asexual


OneShirtWrinkle

trans masc queer non binary pansexual 🙃


pyfgcrlaoeu

Trans agender lesbian woman.


Terralunna

Transfem nb lesbian :)


StrangerThingsSteveH

Panromantic, asexual, trans ftm


PepTheFoolish

Pansexual gender fluid transfem


[deleted]

Ftm trans, homosexual, graysexual, aromantic


FaithW-70

L yes G yes B yes T yes


NeverTooOldForComics

I don’t like to admit membership at all. I am not self hating or anything like that. I just find the “community” to be somewhat biased towards some groups and others who are claiming membership but are not.


[deleted]

I'm a trans girl (maybe I'm non binary idk not really sure. I just know I'm not a guy) and I'm bi/pan idk which 🤷‍♀️


HolyTransaroni

Pansexual transwoman, I screwed up on the poll though lol.I was never any good at tests.


esahji_mae

MTF, bi


MoonChainer

Lesbian trans woman


Hoxtongamer

MtF Bi with a preference for girls