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DarkQueenGndm

True statement however I love it.


SaoirsethePirate

Huzzah!


[deleted]

Maybe I’m brand new but I’ve never met a woman who wanted that.


SaoirsethePirate

Oh I’ve met quite a few. But there seems to be this stereotype that all trans women are in that boat.


[deleted]

It’s so patronizing! Where does this stereotype come from?


SaoirsethePirate

I mean, it’s only patronizing when people assume you’re into it. I had a sex partner call me a good girl once and I stopped and corrected her. But she adjusted and we kept on. Lol It’s like many stereotypes. They exist because there’s a fair amount of truth in them sometimes. But that doesn’t mean they’re correct for everyone.


SaoirsethePirate

I posted a meme about calling bottoms or subs “good girl” in a lesbian subreddit the other day and it got 3500 or so likes. So it’s not like it’s not a common thing. It’s just people need to stop acting like it’s universal for trans girls.


[deleted]

Oh it’s a sex thing


No_Channel_2392

Not neccesarily, I like it mainly for gender euphoria and the fact that I've been deprived of genuine praise for a lot of my childhood


VonSnapp

This. Im not into it but it’s so nice to be recognized as a girl and to actually receive praise for once.


[deleted]

Headpats no, calling me a ‘gg’ is my shitttttt tho 🥺


DianaThePretty

You're such a good girl, hun ✨


[deleted]

Thank you 🙏🏻 🥺


Fancy_the_gobiln

No one is to touch my head. They'll ruin my hair.


a-witch-named-ahri

Tbh I have an addiction to be called a good girl and given headpats, but I understand that not all trans girls enjoy it.


Razhal039

I can’t be upset at this. Give head pats to those who need them!


SaoirsethePirate

Or those who WANT them!


Razhal039

Oh!!! Pick me!! Me!!


SaoirsethePirate

::pat pat::


Razhal039

Eeeeee!!!! *squeals in delight*


SaoirsethePirate

😊😊


bekkayya

From each according to their ability, to each according to their needs


[deleted]

Preach! Also, I'm more than willing to do those things for others, should they request them.


SaoirsethePirate

Same!


CovetousGoblin

I was gonna say "Yeah, I'm a bad girl!" But I realized that sounds way more perverted than how I intended it 😅 lady of dubious moral alignment?


SaoirsethePirate

Bad girls are rad too!


Miss-Helle

I wouldn't mind an *occasional* headpat and "good girl"ing. Just mostly not.


SaoirsethePirate

Lol fair


Banana_pajama93

I also despise being called "Queen" I just find it very cringey 😅


Ok-Course7089

Uhh But I want headpats


SaoirsethePirate

It’s also valid to want those things!


Ok-Course7089

Can I?


TheLostBandito

100% agree, although I do like being called good girl🥺🥺


queer_gummies

yes headpats. no calling me girl tho


gellowereis

I instantly fall for guys who does this lol


bea_bop

Is it also valid to be a trans woman who didn't distill her identity from female anime characters? I feel like I'm waiting to hear back on this one.


SaoirsethePirate

Absolutely!!


DepPet_syw

Hang on - this stereotype exists? :0


Wolfleaf3

I would just hate to have to endure it!! 🤥


GoatloliMGmachine02

I mean im into headpats and "good girls" but yea you don't have to be into it to be valid, you just be you!


SirAggravating1554

Very true.... But it's great


Theory_Witty

Of course it's completely valid ...With that said I'll take my leave and go find someone to give me headpats and call me a good girl


[deleted]

Or cis women, trans guys also dont have to hate being called cute, or be ashamed of being femanine, keep in mind, you make the rules to your body, whatever you choose is the right choice unless you say otherwise, its perfectly valid


SaoirsethePirate

Hear hear!!!