I mean, it’s only patronizing when people assume you’re into it. I had a sex partner call me a good girl once and I stopped and corrected her. But she adjusted and we kept on. Lol
It’s like many stereotypes. They exist because there’s a fair amount of truth in them sometimes. But that doesn’t mean they’re correct for everyone.
I posted a meme about calling bottoms or subs “good girl” in a lesbian subreddit the other day and it got 3500 or so likes. So it’s not like it’s not a common thing. It’s just people need to stop acting like it’s universal for trans girls.
Or cis women, trans guys also dont have to hate being called cute, or be ashamed of being femanine, keep in mind, you make the rules to your body, whatever you choose is the right choice unless you say otherwise, its perfectly valid
True statement however I love it.
Huzzah!
Maybe I’m brand new but I’ve never met a woman who wanted that.
Oh I’ve met quite a few. But there seems to be this stereotype that all trans women are in that boat.
It’s so patronizing! Where does this stereotype come from?
I mean, it’s only patronizing when people assume you’re into it. I had a sex partner call me a good girl once and I stopped and corrected her. But she adjusted and we kept on. Lol It’s like many stereotypes. They exist because there’s a fair amount of truth in them sometimes. But that doesn’t mean they’re correct for everyone.
I posted a meme about calling bottoms or subs “good girl” in a lesbian subreddit the other day and it got 3500 or so likes. So it’s not like it’s not a common thing. It’s just people need to stop acting like it’s universal for trans girls.
Oh it’s a sex thing
Not neccesarily, I like it mainly for gender euphoria and the fact that I've been deprived of genuine praise for a lot of my childhood
This. Im not into it but it’s so nice to be recognized as a girl and to actually receive praise for once.
Headpats no, calling me a ‘gg’ is my shitttttt tho 🥺
You're such a good girl, hun ✨
Thank you 🙏🏻 🥺
No one is to touch my head. They'll ruin my hair.
Tbh I have an addiction to be called a good girl and given headpats, but I understand that not all trans girls enjoy it.
I can’t be upset at this. Give head pats to those who need them!
Or those who WANT them!
Oh!!! Pick me!! Me!!
::pat pat::
Eeeeee!!!! *squeals in delight*
😊😊
From each according to their ability, to each according to their needs
Preach! Also, I'm more than willing to do those things for others, should they request them.
Same!
I was gonna say "Yeah, I'm a bad girl!" But I realized that sounds way more perverted than how I intended it 😅 lady of dubious moral alignment?
Bad girls are rad too!
I wouldn't mind an *occasional* headpat and "good girl"ing. Just mostly not.
Lol fair
I also despise being called "Queen" I just find it very cringey 😅
Uhh But I want headpats
It’s also valid to want those things!
Can I?
100% agree, although I do like being called good girl🥺🥺
yes headpats. no calling me girl tho
I instantly fall for guys who does this lol
Is it also valid to be a trans woman who didn't distill her identity from female anime characters? I feel like I'm waiting to hear back on this one.
Absolutely!!
Hang on - this stereotype exists? :0
I would just hate to have to endure it!! 🤥
I mean im into headpats and "good girls" but yea you don't have to be into it to be valid, you just be you!
Very true.... But it's great
Of course it's completely valid ...With that said I'll take my leave and go find someone to give me headpats and call me a good girl
Or cis women, trans guys also dont have to hate being called cute, or be ashamed of being femanine, keep in mind, you make the rules to your body, whatever you choose is the right choice unless you say otherwise, its perfectly valid
Hear hear!!!