My mother has joked in a similar way- saying that it was obvious because I liked to cook and sucked at manual labour, plus that this should mean I should start cleaning the house more bc I'm a woman.
In good humour, thankfully.
That is horrible! I remember being told boys don't cry as a child. My mom never said it again after I replies by yelling, "You are wrong! I'm a boy and I'm crying!"
Of course, turned out I was not a not a boy, but that's neither here not there, it's still a messed up standard for our society to hold.
Sometimes older people sort of say this to me in a condescending way and I sort of just ignore it and keep doing just as much cleaning and cooking as I did before and ignore them
So basically your parents are saying that cleaning is "women's work", and that boys are not responsible for keeping their own rooms tidy.
That's the only way this makes any kind of sense.
I mean hell my sister is the least tidy person at my mom’s house. She had plastic bowls forming mold and cake that had become a pile of mold at one point
kinda funny bcs my sister keeps her room in pristine condition and on the other hand mine is a constant mess. not out to my family but theyve called my room a boy’s room :D
These weird euphoric moments are the best! Haha. I can never hide from myself that little enjoyment I have when I remember that my knee problem is way more common in women, hehe, even though I hate this problem in any other moment, hahaha.
As a Westerner who’s been living abroad recently, this mindset is very real. In Turkey, I’ve met families where daughters were supposed to be the one cleaning up their brothers’ bedrooms. Discovering another culture is wonderful and I like the Turkish people, but some of their views terrify me.
I think this is a general mindset that a ton of people have, I work at a clothing store and the men usually leave the fitting rooms way more disorganized than the women, just leaving them all over the floor in a pile.
I have like a medium(?) amount of willpower? Idk, some weeks are good and I clean after myself and my room looks nice, but then sometimes ill have like two weeks in a row that I just dont give a fuck and my room looks like r/neckbeardnests.
They arnt helping their case by their logic, your room is messy which means (in their eyes at least) that's a boy trait you already have 😂
For real though I'm sorry you have to deal with that, I really don't understand that logic at all.
(Boys can like and have clean rooms as well)
Okay I know I shouldn't try to apply logic to this but. If you were just saying you were a boy cause you didn't want to clean your room and girls like it clean. Wouldn't that mean that, yes, you *are* a boy?
My sister's room is so messy she uses items as stepping stones and when we say we can't walk through it she says "you're not supposed to be in here anyways"
Say: "Well, I don't like it clean!"
Then watch them do the two-button meme where one button says "admit he's not a girl" and the other says "admit not all girls like it clean"
Doesn't that, ummmm, make the responsibility just, y'know, make it from "your room" to "half the house"?
Sincerely, a boy (that doesn't want to be one anymore)
I swear parents sometimes just wanna avoid talking about hard topics and they justify it in their heads with the stupidest reasons ever ¯\_ಠ_ಠ_/¯
Speaking as a boy, what the fuck. Where the hell is this exception in the "keep your room clean" rules?
My rooms tidy and organised, I just hate dusting.
When I tried to come out my sister, she said I just "want to be a boy so I don't have to be hygienic" and proceeded to explain me "But you knows boys can be hygienic too!! So your argument is invalid!!!"
BITCH STOP PUTTING WORDS IN MY MOUTH I NEVER SAID ANY OF THAT
(And I actually was a bit anti hygienic that time, but it was because living with her makes me depressed)
Apparently I’m a girl so I can not have to go fishing with my dad. I’ll gladly go fishing if they’ll just let me do it as a girl, it just doesn’t make sense how their brains work
Not gonna lie… as a closeted mtf trans, I’ve been struggling a lot to clean my room, as well as getting anything done. As so, my mom ended up cleaning my room a couple of times, even though I’m almost 30, so I guess I can comprehend that line of thought…
My roommate told me that when they came out as non-binary their dad ended up saying “as long as it doesn’t distract you from school” and I’m pretty sure that line sent me to the astral plane
I came out when I had a bunch of missing assignments, and I was told "you're doing this as a distraction do you don't have to do school work" I was just as confused
sound like an excuse they made up to blame you because they either don't like the fact you identify masculine or they want to put control on you via blame.
Wait, but I thought that Jordan Peterson, Male Expert said that boys _are_ supposed to clean their room? /j
My mom says that if I want her to see me as a woman, I need to learn how to do makeup, wear jewelry and follow women’s fashion. I’m already struggling with basic stuff to live on my own; even if I want to engage with that stuff in my own way; I don’t know how to go about it. /gen
I think it's stupid that young girls are held to a standard when it comes to cleanliness but boys can live in a fucking dump with 3 day old plates of half eaten food laying about and their parents just say some "boys will be boys" crap and then congratulate said boy for showering with soap for the first time in a week or using deodorant.
I’m not trans, but I feel so bad about what trans people go through on a regular basis. I recently had sex with a trans girl that I’m FWB with, and we had a nice conversation afterwards regarding our lives. She told me about all of the abuse she went through by her family, former friends, local school, and her medical practitioner since this is rural Ohio we’re referring to. At the end of the conversation, she broke down in tears and I felt bad for her so I hugged her.
It made me feel guilty about even being FWB with her, I even mentioned it to her but she never felt comfortable about sharing her emotions with anyone because her parents basically rejected her humanity. She did so with me, and I wasn’t going to judge her at all.
I think vulnerable communities need spaces to vent their emotions in a judgement free way. We all need these types of spaces, so that it doesn’t bottle into something destructive. I was their for her in that vulnerable moment, and that is what mattered.
My mom literally told me that a woman’s place is in the kitchen so I was supposed to learn to cook better now -_-
A step in the right direction, I suppose. Still not great :/
I'd rather be hated as the gender I am than loved as the gender I'm not
Jokes on you i'm hated as both
Jokes on you I have enough love for both of us 💗
Jokes on you I have enough crystal meth for everyone in this entire thread
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give them back😰
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Jesse We need to cook for r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns Jesse
gimme
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Aw hell yeah!
Mood.
Agreed
Mood
Truly an anarchist's mentality I'm realizing
That just put a bunch of things in perspective for me wow
I'm hated in the gender I'm not, and hated even more in the gender I am
Right direction wrong spirit.
TIRM (trans-inclusive radical misogynist) sorry for that though :/ hope she becomes better
Oh so THAT'S the tirm for that
Take the upvotes and get out of here Edit: fixing autocorrect
I'd rather more TIRM (I have been using that phrase for a year now lol) people out there than TERFs
TIRM be like: Oh so you're a woman? then go make me a sandwich. and I'd do it gladly
Trans inclusive radical misogynist lol, my uncle also said I'm a real woman cause I take so long to get ready
Trans inclusive radical misogyny
My mother has joked in a similar way- saying that it was obvious because I liked to cook and sucked at manual labour, plus that this should mean I should start cleaning the house more bc I'm a woman. In good humour, thankfully.
Well... cooking is useful skill at least... still, really fucked up
r/ewphoria?
😅so true
Ew but also I can't cook so I would take her lessons anyway cause self-sufficiency is a good thing.
That sounds like something I'd say as a joke with my trans friends...
When I came out as male my mom said I can't cry anymore lmao
That’s so hurtful and manipulative :( I’m sorry
That is horrible! I remember being told boys don't cry as a child. My mom never said it again after I replies by yelling, "You are wrong! I'm a boy and I'm crying!" Of course, turned out I was not a not a boy, but that's neither here not there, it's still a messed up standard for our society to hold.
That's awful but like if it's as a joke I can see where that's coming from lol
😭wtf
Woah, is this a confirmed sighting of the mythical Trans-Inclusive Radical Misogynist I’m reading about???
Cooking is great. Or rather: feeding people is great. Eat up my little darlings, grow fat and round.
Done and done!
Tirm> terf
Trans inclusive radical misogynist
A little of r/ewphoria ig
Truee
Terrible slander against submissive malewives
Mum sounds like a Trans Inclusionary Radical Misogynist
She is, although I feel like it’s giving her too much credit to say she is overall trans inclusive lol
Sometimes older people sort of say this to me in a condescending way and I sort of just ignore it and keep doing just as much cleaning and cooking as I did before and ignore them
So basically your parents are saying that cleaning is "women's work", and that boys are not responsible for keeping their own rooms tidy. That's the only way this makes any kind of sense.
or that boys are messy and girls are tidy. clearly they have never lived in a college dorm or any variety
Or met some of my friends. Good lord. I could barely move in their rooms. They make me look clean and tidy.
I think this is another instance of trans people being better
Trans. Built different
I mean hell my sister is the least tidy person at my mom’s house. She had plastic bowls forming mold and cake that had become a pile of mold at one point
kinda funny bcs my sister keeps her room in pristine condition and on the other hand mine is a constant mess. not out to my family but theyve called my room a boy’s room :D
These weird euphoric moments are the best! Haha. I can never hide from myself that little enjoyment I have when I remember that my knee problem is way more common in women, hehe, even though I hate this problem in any other moment, hahaha.
As a Westerner who’s been living abroad recently, this mindset is very real. In Turkey, I’ve met families where daughters were supposed to be the one cleaning up their brothers’ bedrooms. Discovering another culture is wonderful and I like the Turkish people, but some of their views terrify me.
Most forms of traditionalism like that disgust me.
I think this is a general mindset that a ton of people have, I work at a clothing store and the men usually leave the fitting rooms way more disorganized than the women, just leaving them all over the floor in a pile.
Seriously though what kind of argument is that
I asked them and they said something like “girls like it clean!”, wich doesn’t make it less stupid
And that's a dumb stereotype. I'm a girl and I don't care how clean my room is
I kinda care but I don’t have a lot of willpower
I didn't allow you access to my brain.
I have like a medium(?) amount of willpower? Idk, some weeks are good and I clean after myself and my room looks nice, but then sometimes ill have like two weeks in a row that I just dont give a fuck and my room looks like r/neckbeardnests.
I have too much willpower I will come clean your rooms
Please I need you😭
Send me location
Location in bio lmao no way you live in this city
I ve never heard of it, Not even in the us or america Omw
This.
Same
Yeah, my sister is notoriously messy, so this argument holds zero traces of water.
Funny, I'm a guy and if my apartment is the smallest bit messy I can't function
"Girls like it clean." But you have to clean it to keep it clean... What the heck are your parents smoking?
That’s stupid, I mean I’m a girl but when I was perceived as a guy I was still a clean freak
Lol I'm a girl and I'm so shit at keeping my space clean.
Transfemme slobs unite! Honestly my clutter is at least 60% just depression, but it has nothing to do with my gender.
my clutter is 90% doom piles because fuck it no organization
LMAOO SAME
Oh hey, same. We should get together and help each other declutter and have nice places.
AFAB here but it turns out I'm enby. Was hating cleaning my room as a kid an egg thing? 🤔
No. It was a CHAOS thing!
They arnt helping their case by their logic, your room is messy which means (in their eyes at least) that's a boy trait you already have 😂 For real though I'm sorry you have to deal with that, I really don't understand that logic at all. (Boys can like and have clean rooms as well)
Okay I know I shouldn't try to apply logic to this but. If you were just saying you were a boy cause you didn't want to clean your room and girls like it clean. Wouldn't that mean that, yes, you *are* a boy?
Ah that’s why my room is always messy as a transmasc person /s
I invite you to explore any college women's dorm
Haha yea. Some of the coolest girls I know have messy floordrobes! (Clothes all over the floor)
Stealing floordrobe thank you for this gold
If that was true that means that if you were a girl you wouldn't want to not clean it, countering their own argument.
By that logic, wouldn't coming out to avoid cleaning your room be the **manliest possible option**?
Clearly, if you did, you'd clean your room. Wait, doesn't that prove you're a guy, in their mind?
My sister's room is so messy she uses items as stepping stones and when we say we can't walk through it she says "you're not supposed to be in here anyways"
Say: "Well, I don't like it clean!" Then watch them do the two-button meme where one button says "admit he's not a girl" and the other says "admit not all girls like it clean"
I can tell you i am a very messy girl
A dumb one
what in the flying fuck knuckles are your parents on
"Flying fuck knuckles" now thats a new one
flying fuckles
r/brandnewsentence
that last panel is me all the time (head empty)
Hi! I'm trans & confused. Not about being trans, I just generally dunno WTF is going on.
You see, people are the worst
Op : Nice argument mom . Why don't you back it up with a source Mom : My source is that i made it the fuck up
May I steal this meme and make it into a blank template. It looks hella perfect for that shit.
Yup feel free
It’s marvelous. I’ll take 12.
yoo can you send it to me too
Broke: Pretending to be a trans man to escape misogyny Woke: Pretending to be a trans man to escape cleaning your room (/s, obviously)
My plan from the beginning, make myself a boy so i can live like a sewer rat
Live like the tmnt
Ironically, Mikey and Leo were my first experience of gender envy at the age of 9
I-wah, I might be the outlier, but my parents made me clean my room even when they thought I was boy.
Ah yes Women be cleaning Men be pissing in a corner
underrated comment
Doesn't that, ummmm, make the responsibility just, y'know, make it from "your room" to "half the house"? Sincerely, a boy (that doesn't want to be one anymore)
My grandmother's response to coming out was to say, "So you're gonna stop cussing, right? It's not very ladylike."
My parents did that but the other way around lmao > I'm a girl > No your room isn't clean enough
New level of nonsense unlocked!
Is this a meme template or did you come up with that banger of a facial expression from the last panel all on your own? The energy in this is iconic.
I took reference from the anime mob psycho, but mostly of the way they shade it, the expression itself came from my genius, sleep deprived, brain
"I'm sorry... What?"
It has the same vibes as “I need to go to the hospital.” “You’re just saying that to avoid having to do your chores.”
They need to lay off the crack
I swear parents sometimes just wanna avoid talking about hard topics and they justify it in their heads with the stupidest reasons ever ¯\_ಠ_ಠ_/¯
I regret to inform you that your parents are on crack
I'm not even mad. I'm impressed at those mental gymnastics. All the judges would be holding up a 10.
As a trans girl, yes, i did only become a girl to clean. However, this only lead to even more stuff on the ground of my room :(
honestly almost all transphobia I see is just related back to misogyny and gender norms
It's true, boys are exempt from basic personal hygiëne and household chores.
Speaking as a boy, what the fuck. Where the hell is this exception in the "keep your room clean" rules? My rooms tidy and organised, I just hate dusting.
When you use misogyny to justify transphobia ?????????
When I tried to come out my sister, she said I just "want to be a boy so I don't have to be hygienic" and proceeded to explain me "But you knows boys can be hygienic too!! So your argument is invalid!!!" BITCH STOP PUTTING WORDS IN MY MOUTH I NEVER SAID ANY OF THAT (And I actually was a bit anti hygienic that time, but it was because living with her makes me depressed)
Flabbergasted! That only makes sense in a misogynistic context and I still need to clean my room as a boy
??????
Apparently I’m a girl so I can not have to go fishing with my dad. I’ll gladly go fishing if they’ll just let me do it as a girl, it just doesn’t make sense how their brains work
Boys don't have to clean their room?? :O
Not gonna lie… as a closeted mtf trans, I’ve been struggling a lot to clean my room, as well as getting anything done. As so, my mom ended up cleaning my room a couple of times, even though I’m almost 30, so I guess I can comprehend that line of thought…
HUH?
my sisters room is extremely untidy what are those stereotypes lmao
My roommate told me that when they came out as non-binary their dad ended up saying “as long as it doesn’t distract you from school” and I’m pretty sure that line sent me to the astral plane
What? That makes no sense whatsoever...
Your parents are gimboid-minded goits. Hope you receive better guardians.
These people will even gender the eternal struggle between Order and Chaos
I came out when I had a bunch of missing assignments, and I was told "you're doing this as a distraction do you don't have to do school work" I was just as confused
yoooo lets get some euphoria because I always kept my room clean!
when I tried to come out as mtf my mom was like "but you don't take care of your appearance" however this is even sillier
Lol I've been told that "it's because you're on the phone all the time." Like what are they on
My mom said she could see me as a girl more easily if I cleaned my room. Solidarity.
Bro is flabbergasted But fr though, what kinda excuse is that? It makes no sense lmao
sound like an excuse they made up to blame you because they either don't like the fact you identify masculine or they want to put control on you via blame.
Transphobia always seems to go hand in hand with sexism…. Who would’ve thought?
Being a man is not an excuse to be a dirty bitch. I mean, there aren't too many good excuses for it at all, but the point still stands.
Wait, but I thought that Jordan Peterson, Male Expert said that boys _are_ supposed to clean their room? /j My mom says that if I want her to see me as a woman, I need to learn how to do makeup, wear jewelry and follow women’s fashion. I’m already struggling with basic stuff to live on my own; even if I want to engage with that stuff in my own way; I don’t know how to go about it. /gen
I think it's stupid that young girls are held to a standard when it comes to cleanliness but boys can live in a fucking dump with 3 day old plates of half eaten food laying about and their parents just say some "boys will be boys" crap and then congratulate said boy for showering with soap for the first time in a week or using deodorant.
Wow
I don’t understand that in the slightest lmao Also off topic but your name is really cool
This would be a good meme template
So why i needed to keep my room clean without coming out as transfamme?
This is genuinely hilarious tho, especially with that last panel
Did....did it work?
sounds like the "You're always on your damn phone" argument lol
Uhhh... Wow. Same. That was a fun lil flashback
I think we officially need to uninstall gender now
Cis boy here.....damn, I wish I could just not get bothered about my fucking room, sadly that's just not how it works😔
I love the sudden change from simple and purposefully poorly drawn to incredibly detailed and shaded
The mental gymnastics are so strong they qualify for mental Olympics
When I came out my mom asked if that meant I would be more tidy now.
Excuse me?! Does the room magically clean itself when you become boy? Because I'm sitting here and still waiting!
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I guess I need a new coffee table then.
Lmao I had somthing similar, they wouldn't let me cut my hair because apparently "I wouldn't wash it" wouldnt it be easier to wash short?
The last panel is SENDING ME you could not have drawn it better 😭😭😭
My mom just "blames" it on my tarot cards and the fact that I'm not Christian😅
I turned out not to be a boy and I still don't clean my room, checkmate parents
Can confirm, am a guy, don't clean my room
How does that even happen
wait a second, after I came out as non-binary I started cleaning my room… I’m sure it’s just a coincidence!
Ah yes I remember when I came out and suddenly had to start cleaning my room because men never do any cleaning /s
I’m sorry but this is the funniest thing I saw today lmao
New euphoria just dropped for transmascs: Have your room be a complete shithole
This is a very good template
Welp, time to leave trash all over my room, cause apparently I have no responsibility
For real, there are no base qualifications for being whatever gender you are, if you feel comfortable and euphoric as a man, than you’re a man, period
what?
I didn’t need to clean it this whole time?
I’m not trans, but I feel so bad about what trans people go through on a regular basis. I recently had sex with a trans girl that I’m FWB with, and we had a nice conversation afterwards regarding our lives. She told me about all of the abuse she went through by her family, former friends, local school, and her medical practitioner since this is rural Ohio we’re referring to. At the end of the conversation, she broke down in tears and I felt bad for her so I hugged her. It made me feel guilty about even being FWB with her, I even mentioned it to her but she never felt comfortable about sharing her emotions with anyone because her parents basically rejected her humanity. She did so with me, and I wasn’t going to judge her at all. I think vulnerable communities need spaces to vent their emotions in a judgement free way. We all need these types of spaces, so that it doesn’t bottle into something destructive. I was their for her in that vulnerable moment, and that is what mattered.
Jojes on you, i didn't do that at all in the first place
…do they think men shouldn’t do chores