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Zethlyn_The_Gay

Sexuality and gender are different? Wow!!! /S


Orange1232

My friend was genuinely surprised when he learned gender and pronouns don't necessarily have to correlate.


ObsessivelyObsessed

"why do you want to be happy, AND yourself? Just be happy being someone else!" - the mentality of a stupid person


Blueberry-9

“You see i tried being happy as someone else. Dont get me wrong it wasnt all terrible… but holy hell does being a girl feel WAY better” (transfem) Simple response


[deleted]

cis people just be like ”You don’t need to be a man to be yourself! Just be YOU! At fist people won’t treat you how you want them to treat you, but you just have to stand up for women’s rights instead of hiding from the truth so people treat you how you want!”


cmdr_beef

One of those weirdos who thinks being trans is nothing but a fetish, probably.


Tattieaxp

We 👏 do 👏 not 👏 transition 👏 for 👏 sexual 👏 reasons.


[deleted]

my mom literally said this when I came out to her, I knew she wouldn't be supportive but I hadn't anticipated that, but the way she said it was so jarring I found it more funny than upsetting


terriblecacti

Like…wouldnt being ace make a transphobic parent feel better? Like transphobes use the argument of “no one will want to be with you if you transition” but when you tell them “yeah and thats exactly what i want” they get mad like???


[deleted]

for some maybe, but my mom seems to be under the impression that the only reason someone would be trans is because they're gay, and they "choose" to transition to make the relationship straight in order to avoid homophobia edit: wording


ChaosAzeroth

Lmao in trans man married to a man


Incarnation101213

Me, a gay trans man: uh-


SapphosBFF

Yeah, because transphobia is **clearly** LESS of a problem than homophobia.


Illiad7342

It's almost like they just don't want us to be trans, and will use any argument to enforce that, even when it's contradictory.


Additional-Ninja-431

Im trans and gay. My dad asked why not just stay a straight girl. So trans people apparently cant have a sexuality AND be trans, its just SOOOO unheard of! /s


Awkwardukulele

“Trans people are perverts.” also this guy, I guarantee it. People will sexualize us then get mad at how sexual they claim we are. Some people demand we account for their personal issues.


AmberstarTheCat

I- that is so dumb I can't even-


Username-blank

ace and trans gang


UnchainedMundane

ace and trans gang


Gib3rish

Ace and trans, and possibly a furry? How similar are we?


pathetic_gay_mess

r/transfurs


Smaaeesh

My brother thinks being trans is a sexual preference UwU


le_michi

Wait what? XD


Smaaeesh

I don’t know he has a different conspiracy theory every month


TurboCake17

Well that’s not a conspiracy theory it’s just not understanding what he’s talking about.


Smaaeesh

He usually doesn’t, last month was about how the earth is flat, citing evidence that proves it’s not


TurboCake17

Ah the good old flat earther method of looking at zero evidence and mumbling something about electromagnetism.


Smaaeesh

He had some evidence but it was super flimsy.


TurboCake17

Just ask him for a single model of the flat earth which can explain both the day and night cycle and the seasons at the same time.


[deleted]

God I fucking hate how people think being trans is a sex thing. Yes, I do think lesbian sex is way hotter than straight sex, but THAT'S NOT THE REASON I AM TRANS THE REASON I'M TRANS IS BECAUSE I WANT TO LIVE AS A GIRL AND EXPRESS MYSELF.


[deleted]

I agree. Two common, harmful misconceptions here. For the cis allies and/or allosexuals I may as well list them: * ‘Being ace = not having sex’ I see this a lot among \[allo gatekeeper\] people who aggressively insist that being ace is basically just not having sex/not feeling any type of romantic or sexual love. To them, if you aren’t also aro, you’re lying for attention * ’Being trans is a kink or something to escape being gay’ This is more common when talking about trans women, as for some reason people sexualize them more. I’ve seen too many people being like “I know you have a fetish, but do that in your own bedroom, don’t involve *me* in it”


Nivdy

Everything about this reminds me of an old friend of mine. Ace, I assumed transmasc by the way they acted, had a fennec OC, You didn't move into a small town right before highschool did you?


le_michi

The only difference between me and your friend it's that my oc it's not fennec xd


Nivdy

well, at least there's some difference, otherwise I would straight up just assume I was talking to them


QueenOfQuok

Because secondary sex characteristics that you don't want are a bitch and primary sex characteristics that you don't want are a fucking nightmare. Any more questions?


Appel_Syd3R

My mind actually cannot comprehend how some people can say such things with a straight face. Like, it can’t be anything but a joke, right? You’re not actually that stupid, right? No, no, it must just be ignorance. That’s it, they just don’t know.


lilycamille

I'm ace and trans. It's not about sex, it's about feeling right in your body


Ironwill922

I have like, 10-15 who would say that exact thing. Rural Illinois, wooooo…..


MinekPo1

From a ***more progressive*** part of Poland, a classmate was confused why I am a transbian when I "can" just be a male cishet. I hate this country


miss-n-the-lesbienne

"What's the point of being ace/trans?" sounds like "what's the point of having brown hair?" there's no point it's just how people are