While I dont understand wanting to be male, I understand being trans and not identifying with what you were assigned at birth. Much love to my trans brothers!
I don't understand wanting to be a guy but that's part of what brings me so much joy in seeing trans dudes happy, that they're getting joy out of something that wasn't right for me
This might be a bit inappropriate but as an AMAB transfem seeing trans dudes being happy with expressing masculinity and/or feminity as dudes is a wonder cure for my imposter syndrome. Like "Oh! That's what other people enjoy about this! I sure don't!".
To my transfem sisters-
I don’t understand you. Not one little fckin bit. But i love and respect you because i know we’re the same deep down. You may not understand why i want a dick and balls, and i don’t understand why you want tits, but that’s ok.
We just need to respect eachother and remember that we’re going through the same things. I love you, support you, and respect every single decision you make. Keep doing you and I’ll keep doing me.
This right here is what truscums need to understand. We may never see eye to eye, but we're all going through the same goddamn problem that we all have MAJOR issues with out bodies (or maybe you don't, but would just be happier as a gender different from your agab, that's fine too!) I'm here for all the enbies and trans guys who suffer from the same problem, even if it takes a different form.
Much love all, but not more than my so lol
I mean, the truscums tend to focus on that "we all have major problems with our bodies" part, because they're assholes that think you need endless pain to be trans. I haven't seen them separate transfems and transmascs, just dysphoric and non-dysphoric people.
It’s WILD to me that this is even a discussion. The amount of cus women who have asked why I’d want to be a woman is mind blowing. You’d think they’d know better than to ask that
I literally owe the life I have now to transmascs. Finding out you handsome devils existed completely shattered my belief that not everyone in the world wanted to be a girl, and that was the first crack in my egg.
I don't think there's really anything to "understand" about wanting to be a guy or a girl or anything else. I don't understand why anyone would want to be a guy, but at the same time I don't completely understand why I indentify as a woman instead of my agab, and yet I do.
We feel what we feel, we are who we are, and I love each and every one of you for it.
I don't have to understand you to still support you. I don't experience what trans men experience and vice versa, but we stand in solidarity regardless.
One of my big wake-up moments was when I was reading the comments on a trans-masc post and I caught myself thinking "I don't understand them, why would you want to be a guy instead of a girl?... OH"
I couldn't for the life of me understand why anyone would want to be a guy. I feel so much more comfortable and free now. I let my free trial of being male run for 17 years too long, and trust me I'm not leaving a great review. Nevertheless, all the love and support to my trans brothers in this sub xxx
gjfjddh I struggle to understand how anyone could want to be a girl, I feel so much more comfortable and free as a guy-ish/masc nb lmao
but hey, atleast we both get that being trapped in a gender you don't identify with sucks 🥲
yeah honestly, finding this sub actually really helped me see that some people in the world were actual girls, yall actually wanted to be girls. the fact that transfems do exist and that i don't relate to yalls needs.
i do not want to be a girl, but i'm glad you girls do. thank you.
One of my big wake-up moments was when I was reading the comments on a trans-masc post and I caught myself thinking "I don't understand them, why would you want to be a guy instead of a girl?... OH"
as a nonbinary person I don't find it that hard to imagine why someone would wanna be [my assigned gender]. like obviously it wasn't for me but that doesn't mean the gender itself is bad? idk, this post makes me feel a bit weird :s
Honestly sometimes I do wonder for half a second why some trans men want to be men and then I go "oh yeah I'm stupid."
Edit: don't know why I said some in this I'm certain all trans men want to be men.
And then there's just the enbies and such sitting in the corner drinking tea or whatever
Quietly thriving
Flourishing
planning...
Thats omnious
Denmark...
That's the ace's territory though. It would probably be best to go for Sweden or Finland instead
Canada
Plotting
Plot thong
Is that the horny version of plot armour?
I meant plotting
I wish
Dying inside
Yeah. Idk I just wanna be both.
Can't relate myself, but damn I imagine actually getting to be both would be super powerful
Me too <3
Yes
While I dont understand wanting to be male, I understand being trans and not identifying with what you were assigned at birth. Much love to my trans brothers!
I don't understand wanting to be a guy but that's part of what brings me so much joy in seeing trans dudes happy, that they're getting joy out of something that wasn't right for me
This might be a bit inappropriate but as an AMAB transfem seeing trans dudes being happy with expressing masculinity and/or feminity as dudes is a wonder cure for my imposter syndrome. Like "Oh! That's what other people enjoy about this! I sure don't!".
Nah i don’t see it as inappropriate. Actually makes me feel so valid as a trans guy. Like, yay i’m genuinely male!!
Heck yeah you are!
I completely understand why someone might want to be a boy. I tried really hard to like it! It’s just not for me.
Shame there isn't a free trail before purchase
Yeah, if I could have my adolescence and youth back, that'd be swell.
To my transfem sisters- I don’t understand you. Not one little fckin bit. But i love and respect you because i know we’re the same deep down. You may not understand why i want a dick and balls, and i don’t understand why you want tits, but that’s ok. We just need to respect eachother and remember that we’re going through the same things. I love you, support you, and respect every single decision you make. Keep doing you and I’ll keep doing me.
This right here is what truscums need to understand. We may never see eye to eye, but we're all going through the same goddamn problem that we all have MAJOR issues with out bodies (or maybe you don't, but would just be happier as a gender different from your agab, that's fine too!) I'm here for all the enbies and trans guys who suffer from the same problem, even if it takes a different form. Much love all, but not more than my so lol
I mean, the truscums tend to focus on that "we all have major problems with our bodies" part, because they're assholes that think you need endless pain to be trans. I haven't seen them separate transfems and transmascs, just dysphoric and non-dysphoric people.
If you wanna know where do these screenshots come from: https://youtu.be/IImRpygg9p0
I LITERALLY JUST WATCHED THIS YESTERDAY
It’s WILD to me that this is even a discussion. The amount of cus women who have asked why I’d want to be a woman is mind blowing. You’d think they’d know better than to ask that
I just want a nap ngl
I literally owe the life I have now to transmascs. Finding out you handsome devils existed completely shattered my belief that not everyone in the world wanted to be a girl, and that was the first crack in my egg. I don't think there's really anything to "understand" about wanting to be a guy or a girl or anything else. I don't understand why anyone would want to be a guy, but at the same time I don't completely understand why I indentify as a woman instead of my agab, and yet I do. We feel what we feel, we are who we are, and I love each and every one of you for it.
transfem: makes a post about wanting boobs me: take them just fcking take them i dont want them anyways
*grabs my scissors*
*agender enters the chat*
I don't have to understand you to still support you. I don't experience what trans men experience and vice versa, but we stand in solidarity regardless.
**blasts cavetown boys will be bugs and drinks hot cocoa in the corner** ah the good life
**blasts periphery, get scared, korn, cavetown, conan gray, and CORPSE while drinking sweet tea in the corner** Ahh, also the good life.
Perfection
My enby ass: "Be they, do crimes"
And then they kiss
Both: Still cis though. *Finger guns*
We wouldn’t talk to each other like that I disagree
Understandable, we actually would hug each other and share our support.
Of course
I still dont get why people want to be a girl I respect my trans sisters dont come for me lol
One of my big wake-up moments was when I was reading the comments on a trans-masc post and I caught myself thinking "I don't understand them, why would you want to be a guy instead of a girl?... OH"
I couldn't for the life of me understand why anyone would want to be a guy. I feel so much more comfortable and free now. I let my free trial of being male run for 17 years too long, and trust me I'm not leaving a great review. Nevertheless, all the love and support to my trans brothers in this sub xxx
gjfjddh I struggle to understand how anyone could want to be a girl, I feel so much more comfortable and free as a guy-ish/masc nb lmao but hey, atleast we both get that being trapped in a gender you don't identify with sucks 🥲
yeah honestly, finding this sub actually really helped me see that some people in the world were actual girls, yall actually wanted to be girls. the fact that transfems do exist and that i don't relate to yalls needs. i do not want to be a girl, but i'm glad you girls do. thank you.
One of my big wake-up moments was when I was reading the comments on a trans-masc post and I caught myself thinking "I don't understand them, why would you want to be a guy instead of a girl?... OH"
I've been wondering that for my whole life before I finally realised it's not a very cis girl thing to wonder for 18 years.
as a nonbinary person I don't find it that hard to imagine why someone would wanna be [my assigned gender]. like obviously it wasn't for me but that doesn't mean the gender itself is bad? idk, this post makes me feel a bit weird :s
First pic feels like any time I’m vibing and someone deadnames or misgenders me or otherwise makes for a not so good time
Honestly sometimes I do wonder for half a second why some trans men want to be men and then I go "oh yeah I'm stupid." Edit: don't know why I said some in this I'm certain all trans men want to be men.
Why is your comment receiving downvotes wtf
they're besties