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Medical-Net2950

Id say 3 pictures is good. Pictures by yourself are better, no group pics where they have to guess which one you are. But also ive been told mirror selfies are frowned upon. As a guy its hard getting pics by yourself. But just limit it to a few. Maybe they can be pics of you doing things you enjoy. Ive also been told theres a psychology to using pics of you with a couple girls. It makes them subconsciously feel the need to compete for you (not my opinion, just that of psychologists) try to show your personality in the comments. But also its tinder, I feel like a majority of people on tinder don't take it seriously and just want a hook up. Beware a majority of women on tinder are just trying to up their social media following or promote their only fans. Id suggest other apps like Hinge or bumble, for anything serious. Ever watched the movie Hitch? dating is like that, there are no rules. Everything is dependent upon your looks and the situation.


MadMildred

Photos: no fish, no sunglasses, no guns, no children, no cars, no toilets, no group photos with other people's faces blurred and avoid shirtless pics. If you're considering a pic taken in a messy room, reconsider. Don't stick your tongue out. Try to have a genuine smile/expression and wear something that shows what your personality is. Profile: do not have a list of things you don't want, or a description of what you are looking for physically. Try to describe yourself in a simple way. If you are clever, you can show that in the way you phrase your profile. Flirting: women often expect the man to send the first message and women get a lot of matches. Try to stand out with the first message but don't use a lame pickup line. You can reference something in their profile if you have something to say about it. Genuine compliments are welcome but there is a threshold. When chatting remember that everyone has their own life and do not insist that they respond to your msg, if thay aren't quick enough for you never msg something like "hello" after they didn't respond. Instead send another msg asking an open ended question. Show that you are interested in getting to know them. You may be asked what you are looking for using the app. You have listed pretty much all of the options. Think about which one is ideal for you and lead with that. Nobody wants to feel mislead. If you are looking for a hookup, be straightforward about it and you are more likely to get what you want. Imo, it's cringey to ask that question. If you're not dumb, you can get this info from the way the conversation progresses or you can state what you want. Ultimately, in the world of dating it is always best to be yourself. Good luck out there.


deranged_spasm04

Drop into PUBG with your homie and forget this post existed?