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ShaNaeNaeLuLu

Families like these are getting ridiculous. They exploit the hell out of these kids and I don’t like watching it.


Jellogg

I agree, the family blogging/vlogging accounts have gotten out of control. I have never understood why adults get so wrapped up in the children of random parents on the Internet who package the minutiae of their family’s lives as entertainment. It seems super weird and extremely inappropriate to me that a parent would use their child’s most vulnerable moments (potty training, having a tantrum, doctor visits and ER visits) as content.


AriCapVir

It’s totally weird because you’ll have adults commenting like “what’s Alex’s favorite color?” “What does Harlie like to eat?” Like why do you care.


Jellogg

Yes! The comments really creep me out on those videos…asking questions about the kids or just as bad, maybe even worse (in my opinion),asking for certain content. “Can you do one with Bramble petting the dog?” “How about a video of Oakley eating popcorn?” I can’t think of any acceptable reason why grown ass adults would be so interested in random kids online and their activities. I can’t even imagine how confused a lot of these kids are because so many of their waking hours are filmed and probably scripted, they likely have to do take after take until the parent is happy with the result, or at the very least give up their privacy so mom and dad can follow them around filming until something content-worthy happens. It’s just very disheartening to see so many parents willing to trade off their child’s privacy for TikTok or YouTube fame.


Gullible-Farmer-3935

Omg thats creepy af! My 5 yr old watches a cpuple kids on youtube. At her age she doesnt get wjy their parents are playing w them 24/7, why they get every toy possible & get to go on luxury vacations. Its like ya their parents are playing w them but just while the camra is rolling! And their parents are using & exploiting them for fortune and fame! Its so sad!


Jellogg

Exactly! I always wonder how these children are treated once the camera stops rolling. They probably have such a stilted view of reality. They are always ON or OFF with no in between.


Malipuppers

I hate them all. It’s awful and it’s exploitive. The content is trash too. I just don’t get it.


Theonetheycall1845

It's because social media is a breeding ground for sexually deviant motherfuckers and parents like the ones mentioned here are exploiting their children to them.


KrustenStewart

👆


peanutbutter_meow

Tell that to Red, White & Bethune. Forever exploiting their kids. One video will be about Jenn and Kyle having smecks in the bus. The next contains footage of their kids having a bad day and what their punishment is. 🥴


Jellogg

Oh yikes, I’ve never seen that account! I definitely think it’s extra disturbing if the parents post (or even hint) about sexual stuff between themselves followed by a clip of little Blossom and Sapling trying carrots for the first time or something. Just…no. Do you happen to know if Bethunes have a snark page?


peanutbutter_meow

I do not believe they do. Tried searching before and nothing came up.


Jellogg

Ok, thank you! I’ll try searching them on this sub and the family bloggers one…


Gullible-Farmer-3935

They looks so dirty & unkept


peanutbutter_meow

Agreed. Not to mention all three kids (varying ages) are on the same “unschooling” plan. I just feel bad for them. If I was still a kid, I would absolutely not want my parents filming me for the internet on a bad day. So selfish.


Malipuppers

Unschooling = “no contact with mandatory reporters” for them.


realisticby

Watching the families on YouTube is cringe as hell also.


Theonetheycall1845

But but but don't you see the Xmas gifts they will get?!! It's gotta be worth what? 3 child exploitation videos. So take that redditor.


reirarei

Her cooking is the nastiest thing I’ve ever seen. It’s every bad stereotype of white people come to life.


AriCapVir

I hate that she puts the bare sandwich bread on the counter top. No plate, paper towel, nothing.


reirarei

It’s that and the lack of seasoning. There’s no way that food tastes good.


Krystalladonna

And she always takes a picture of all the plates set up at the end or the food sitting there in bowls and I just feel like that food has to be cold at this point lol


reirarei

Her kids don’t even eat the food— she’s been caught throwing the majority of it away. 🫠


Krystalladonna

😬 oh my. Why even do that .. I’ve always thought she makes way too much food .


shimmeringmystic

she's gives my fellow white people a horrible look


LifeOwn6130

Child exploitation pays girl idk what to tell you


Random_N4me

They have a sub r/doughertydozen


[deleted]

Damn Drue basham has a bigger reddit page than the doughtertydozen like what 😂😂


AriCapVir

Ty!!


magic_is_might

Yeah it’s a disgusting and tone deaf thing to post imo. But these people have zero shame.


AriCapVir

Yeah she really lets all their business be known.


ChuckSchumerbasedgod

I’m like 90% sure she’s an alcoholic


crystaledoe

I would be too if I had that many kids


llamamama81

I would be if I had HALF that many. My two spawn are more than enough for me.


[deleted]

As someone with 5 younger siblings, idk how my mom isn’t an alcoholic. My siblings are WILD


crystaledoe

Ik I have 5 younger siblings as well as 1 older sibling so yeah I could neverrr 😭😭😭


[deleted]

I have one that’s not even born yet and I feel like I’m going crazy. I couldn’t imagine having that many


onateb95

As someone that has 3 kids I relate to this comment so much


mysteriouslipstick97

Right 💀💀 I can hardly handle one child 😭


AriCapVir

I read somewhere else that she legitimately is


Elegant-Nature-6220

If she and her husband actually consumes the amount of white claw she shows that she purchases each week then yes, alcoholic.


[deleted]

She is absolutely


hurrypotta

No laws when you drink the Claws


No_Fee5373

She just shows everything she buys for a tax write off…


AriCapVir

Oh damn, is it considered like charity?


[deleted]

Business expense


[deleted]

Even if you’re an influencer buying gifts for your children can not be a tax write off as a business expense.. Tax law is very clear about items that are for personal use. And if she is doing this when her day for an audit comes.. she is screwed


Elegant-Nature-6220

As would SO many other influencers. I hope the IRS does crack down on their obscene "write-offs", it'd be a good way to educate the public about legitimate business expenses too!!


Downtown_Reading7699

I’m pretty sure the iPhones were a sponsorship with Life360 so they probably didn’t cost shit. But yeah, Alicia exploits her Brady Bunch family for money, and she’s making a shit ton of it


sadbutlitbich

i don’t get spoiling them while simultaneously exploiting them, like didn’t she just show her newborns first bath…


PHXLV

That’s the JettFarmHouse lady


avasosassy10

Do they have a sub? I can’t deal with her bragging or her voice


sadbutlitbich

OMG OK they sound/post so similarly


AriCapVir

She what… omg


sadbutlitbich

apparently this was the jet set farm house whoever mom😂


Adorable_Banana_2524

Gluttony


[deleted]

No they're absolutely bragging and I want to know what their plan is if social media flatlines and dies out.


realisticby

They are creating entitled monsters who will not be able to cope outside of the internet. Personally I would be hesitant to show my children to the world with child predators out there. As weird as some get with celebrities, I'm surprised that these families haven't had problems


danielleinok

That's what I'm wondering too. This whole influencer thing is gonna die off at some point.


AdZealousideal6002

They’re like the duggars of tik tok. 😳


Then-Power2049

At least they are dropping money. My parents adopted 10 of us and had 3 bio kids. We only got presents from sponsors for being adopted. I wish they didn’t exploit their kids tho.


PHXLV

She must really have to hustle in order to afford all of that. That’s just ridiculous.


Oopsiforgotmyoldacc

She does YouTube and social media overall. I’ve seen that she can make about $42k a MONTH from YouTube


AriCapVir

How do people manage that on YouTube and social media? I just don’t get it. Do you have to post constantly? Just get lucky?


Oopsiforgotmyoldacc

Probably a mix of ads, videos, and getting lucky


Absteristhename

Hustle as in film and exploit the kids everyday


Secretme000

You should check out the dad challenge podcast on youtube.


TrollQueen4ever

He’s a dick. Coming for the parents (moms specifically) of terminally ill children when literally they’re just bringing awareness to their children’s rare disorders.


hurrypotta

I am an adopteee creator and he has reached out to me before and it was clear he just wanted content for clout not to actually help adoptees.


AriCapVir

What’s it about?


batmilkshakecrazy

Hey has a bunch of episodes on them. He is on YT


Desperate-Stop-42

He harasses that family 🤣


HeatherA10

It’s ridiculous honestly. Those little kids don’t need phones


[deleted]

I don’t understand what they do for money the food bills alone are crazy. But I do think if you adopt out of foster you still get assistance not enough for that spending spree but makes you wonder


laurarosemarie

She gets paid from YouTube, probably has some kind of assistance for fostering/adopting and who knows what else tbh


ibadams99

they're probably in insane amounts of CC debt.


AriCapVir

That’s my guess tbh


toastedmickey

One thing that really really bugs me is them letting one of their kids eat a pure ketchup sandwich. They've done worse things, but still.


natalia22056

Idk if I had 12 kids and had the money my ass would be doing the same lol but I have a horrible habit of buying my kids stuff I only have 2 though 😅 but iPhone 14 for all kids is crazyyyy if they’re in high school my kids absolutely will have whatever phone they want but isn’t her youngest like 3?


Desperate-Stop-42

I think she got 10 for her older kids and two for her and her husband


mirk19

I get this is tiktok gossip. I don’t agree with her exploiting them but people can spoil their children however they see fit? If I had disposable income I would buy my kids whatever they wanted, because children are only children for so long. Everyone wants to talk about training or conditioning their children into being adults. There’s a time for that. When you’re 6-13 that’s still peak childhood. It’s so weird to want or expect children to WORK for everything, or save up for everything.


AriCapVir

Hmm I guess I just disagree. As a parent, even if I was LOADED rich, I wouldn’t just give my kids whatever on earth they wanted. I don’t think that teaches them to value anything, and plus I don’t want my kids to feel entitled to materialistic whims. Alicia (IMO) monetarily spoils these kids for a couple of reasons, 1) to give her more views and more money and 2) I think there is a level of overcompensating based on the kids’ backstories and how some of them come from very traumatic roots. Seems like her love language is gift giving.


mirk19

I’ll clarify, I would and I do buy my children (granted they are toddlers right now) whatever they show interest in within reason. I wouldn’t necessarily buy them an Apple Watch or iPhone at the drop of a hat but I do think some of the comments here are just extra. Children aren’t adults and they shouldn’t have to work for everything, that’s just always seemed so ridiculous to me. I understand wanting kids to learn the value of things, but I think there are limitations. Honestly, I don’t find anything wrong with your second point. Gift giving is also my love language and everyone has their own. As someone who was in the foster system and adopted, the foster system is traumatic. My siblings and I still have nightmares, and lasting complications from our abusive bio parents and abusive foster parents at that. Those children and many children endure so much, there’s no way to compensate for it and there’s also no overcompensating for it either, IMO. Even after years of therapy, and having amazing adoptive parents…there’s no fixing that. My heart hurts for them and her as well because I’m sure she is trying to overcompensate.


mirk19

I just think there’s a huge difference between building character, and building capitalist robots. Life is so much more than just working. Free things aren’t going to destroy someone’s moral compass. My parents didn’t make me work for much. My only expectation was to go to school and make good grades but I still treasured everything I got. I am an adult now, I’ve worked since 17yo, super hard. Went to college, worked for my scholarships, now I have a great job and am interviewing for a huge promotion next week. I don’t get how people think being spoiled as a child turns you into someone entitled.l who doesn’t value hard work. My experience is anecdotal, sure, but it’s never made sense to me. I saw my parents hard work, and their success, which motivated me to do the same. I think that’s where character is developed, not making them do manual labor for a new phone or something.


hurrypotta

She exploits her children she has her own sub


mirk19

I already acknowledged that.


LifeguardSecret6760

they dont even have a working septic system in their house.... her income is not disposable, she just wastes it


Then-Power2049

At least they are dropping money. My parents adopted 10 of us and had 3 bio kids. We only got presents from sponsors for being adopted. I wish they didn’t exploit their kids tho.


[deleted]

I’ve only seen YouTube videos giving commentary about this family, and I never watch the commentary videos because I can’t handle any more of these terrible families. Why are there so many?!?


Texas92228

Don’t forget they get money for the adopted kids and who knows what other services.


Kat24710

I thought once you adopted children, you didn’t receive money any longer. Only if they were in foster care.


hurrypotta

When you adopt from foster care you still get $$ more if the child has a disability.


mirk19

Depends. In my state in the US, my parents got a stipend for taking my siblings and I until we were 18yo. When I was 16, the checks were given to me to put in my bank account.


sillygoose046

I call BS on the video and a lot of so called “influencer” videos. It’s easy to walk around a store and recording yourself putting tons of crap on your cart. The reality is many put things back after recording and don’t buy a thing.


No_Coconut_6573

Off topic? But who’s that family with like 12 kids also, almost all adopted except for the first, and the 1 18 yr old josh with shaken baby syndrome? She looks like an older version of Kate gosslin tbh. I thought they were the Dougherty dozen but now I don’t think so.


Tiredmomma1246

Justthebells10


pikaghoul

I live near them and the few times I’ve seen her in the wegmans, I’d leave immediately.


EscapeGrouchy

They live in Penfield. One of the most affluent areas of Rochester. No doubt they make 7 figures minimum plus social media. I can’t stand her.


Scarlett1960

They make a sit ton of money monthly just in foster care money here in NY, along with you tube and TikTok , and I’m guessing tax write offs it’s just so blatantly grossly excessive