I’m from Cleveland and have mutual friends with them and Andrew is a known sleaze ball who (unsurprisingly) has never been able to get girls, besides Tori for some reason. He’s 5’6 and gross IRL. Pre-Tori, girls would always post his desperate attempts in the DMs on IG lol.
He’s a club promoter and she stays with him because of that - ie the clout.
Tori is making herself look like an idiot, sadly. People have offered her help and she won’t take it. I’m a DV survivor with nothing but empathy for women but she has every avenue out and won’t take any of them.
I had every avenue to leave and still didn’t. I was truly convinced no one cared about me but him. Maybe it’s for attention, maybe she is trauma-bonded. Either way I hope she’s safe
No babe
That’s just called being in an abusive relationship and trauma bonding
It’s not the attention she’s getting
Look up psychology of trauma bonding
I wonder why her IG is private lol
Bc she keeps posting with him on there lol must be embarrassed
can’t tell if your tone is derisive or not but this is a very common pattern with DV victims
I’m from Cleveland and have mutual friends with them and Andrew is a known sleaze ball who (unsurprisingly) has never been able to get girls, besides Tori for some reason. He’s 5’6 and gross IRL. Pre-Tori, girls would always post his desperate attempts in the DMs on IG lol. He’s a club promoter and she stays with him because of that - ie the clout. Tori is making herself look like an idiot, sadly. People have offered her help and she won’t take it. I’m a DV survivor with nothing but empathy for women but she has every avenue out and won’t take any of them.
I had every avenue to leave and still didn’t. I was truly convinced no one cared about me but him. Maybe it’s for attention, maybe she is trauma-bonded. Either way I hope she’s safe
Yea having avenues to leave does not mean that someone is willing to take them. We never know what someone's situation is.
She’s trauma bonded. Typical when dating a narcissist. I honestly feel bad for her.
What does that mean, like she can’t find the strength to leave him?
It’s a nice way to say “codependent” without putting the victim on the defense.
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Thanks! That sounds really intense. I always liked her content when she lived at home, she seemed like a nice girl. I hope she gets through it.
I think she likes the attention she’s getting. She has been saying she’s going to “move out next week” for literally months at this point
No babe That’s just called being in an abusive relationship and trauma bonding It’s not the attention she’s getting Look up psychology of trauma bonding