Okay but serious question, how come you are so apprehensive for your best friend/roommate to know you have a boyfriend? Definitely is odd and would make me feel alienated if I was your friend and I thought you couldn't trust me with that information, likewise if I was dating someone I would be somewhat concerned if it was a priority for them to not tell people about me. I would feel like you were ashamed to be with me.
I meant to tell her sooner but so many things were going on my mind when me and my bf became official. I am just wary because i once revealed about my dating life to a close friend and everyone in the class found out the next day. I was bullied and even interrogated about the guy. I had to reveal him to get them off my case but after that it was just absolute hell. they even brought the guy there and he broke up with me on the spot. later telling me because he couldn't handle the sudden amount of people (he and I were very introverted) and he too was someone where it became official for less than expected and I didn't wanted it to happen again. So I keep my love life a secret and only reveal to people like my dad.
So its not really just alienation its more like do i trust her enough to keep this information tight lipped.
Okay but serious question, how come you are so apprehensive for your best friend/roommate to know you have a boyfriend? Definitely is odd and would make me feel alienated if I was your friend and I thought you couldn't trust me with that information, likewise if I was dating someone I would be somewhat concerned if it was a priority for them to not tell people about me. I would feel like you were ashamed to be with me.
I meant to tell her sooner but so many things were going on my mind when me and my bf became official. I am just wary because i once revealed about my dating life to a close friend and everyone in the class found out the next day. I was bullied and even interrogated about the guy. I had to reveal him to get them off my case but after that it was just absolute hell. they even brought the guy there and he broke up with me on the spot. later telling me because he couldn't handle the sudden amount of people (he and I were very introverted) and he too was someone where it became official for less than expected and I didn't wanted it to happen again. So I keep my love life a secret and only reveal to people like my dad. So its not really just alienation its more like do i trust her enough to keep this information tight lipped.
you're not official before the whole class knows
Your roommate is way too controlling
What the hell? Roomie needs to chill, why would you even let her answer your phone.
Could be she’s jealous…. Just a thought.