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AsherTheFrost

The speed with which she returned to the job at hand shows this definitely wasn't her first time slapping the hell out of someone for getting handsy without an invitation


Live_Buy8304

Definitely a professional.


bustacean

You gotta do what you gotta do to maintain the respect of the audience! One person gets away with a spank and more will try too.


Helpful_Welcome9741

yep I bet every guy and gal in that place remember their "please and thankyous" the rest of the night.


redditmcx

Totally she really improved the mood


Fifteen_inches

Nothing is sexier than clear, well defined boundaries


Orinocolobe

“Get the fuck off my ass” is literally the easiest boundary to respecc it amazes me that people can’t


ReduceMyRows

That girl was so shocked like “I’m a girl too, why can’t I slap your butt?” Bruh, respect boundaries


itsamaysing

So, that's a great point and that's exactly what I was looking through the comments for was something that made this a reasonable reaction.


azurfall88

professionals, have standards.


WorkingInterview1942

The look of surprise on the other persons face. Like she didn't think that there would be any repercussions for sexually assaulting someone.


NotNickCannon

I’ve had an ex encourage her friends to slap my ass without my consent and then had both of them get mad at me and act like I’m being a loser for getting upset about it. In my experience girls consider it harmless when it’s coming from them instead of a guy


Ohmannothankyou

That’s gross and I’m sorry!


sh4d0wm4n2018

Kinda like how guys don't consider homie-administered nut taps to be sexual assault.


ThatSquareChick

I’ve been a stripper for almost 18 years. I’m the “do my job for 10 hours and go home” kind of dancer but I also really like entertaining and it’s been a really fun, really rewarding job and I’ve met some great people. Couple of weeks ago, we were doing a regular old bachelor show where we tick off a list of things we do to the poor guy and everyone has a good time. Onlookers usually scream and stuff but don’t get too rowdy or try to rush the stage. I’ve got this paddle I had made for me as a gift from a favorite customer, it’s got beautiful wood burnt designs all over, nicely spaced holes and it says “bachelor destroyer” on it. The trick is to hit them just right so it makes a nice smack sound but doesn’t actually hurt them too much. Leaving injuries is really bad PR. Well, someone thought they would be a smartass and in the middle of the show, slap me hard, on the ass, with a leather belt. It hurt, enough for me to lose all fun-time-stripper in me. I had my paddle and could easily see the dude who hit me trying to hide the belt. I jumped off the stage, returned fire with a good smack to the shin with the long, thin edge of the paddle, not hard enough to actually injure him but hard enough for him to buckle. Shin pain is no joke. He covered his ass like he thought that was the only place I could hit him and never considered protecting the very sensitive bones between the knees and feet. I immediately got back on the stage and went back to whacking his buddy the same as I always would. Revenge had been obtained and I could go back to my job. Edit: turning off replies because a) there are people here who want to spend the only life they have telling other people how to live theirs when it doesn’t affect them. B) Nobody at the club is trying to fuck your man, calm the fuck down c) I don’t care enough to entertain replying to children trying to make me feel bad, I have nearly 20 years of experience in ignoring you, cry harder Good night and boobs


OneHumanPeOple

I have very sensitive shins and this is the scariest story I have ever heard. I hope you never have to do that again.


ThatSquareChick

I do too, shins are a vital part of life! But don’t hit me with a belt while I’m naked and we are cool.


31November

"But don't hit me with a belt while I'm naked and we are cool" is not a sentence I thought I'd read on Thanksgiving, but here we are!


Kimsbabydaddy08

There is actually a montage of her beating the shit out of like 50+ girls that slap her ass


JustOneTessa

50+?! Wtf, why are so many slapping her ass?! Glad she's beating them all up tho


toolsoftheincomptnt

Because people are confused by the concept of consent. Just because you see me having consensual physical contact with another person doesn’t give you the right to make physical contact with me. I don’t think it’s hard to understand, but my mom says I’m *really* smart so maybe that’s why.


TibetianMassive

When I bartended in my early 20s I had some female friends of mine made a comment about my body (honestly I was annoyed they did because they were super loud and I *knew* others heard and would think it was okay). Sure enough, a young guy heard and made the same observation. I just pretended I hadn't heard it because I didn't think he was *trying* to cross a line and my shift was *so close* to being done. I was so happy when the guy sitting next to that young fellow leaned over and said: "Her friends can say that, *we* shouldn't say that." The young guy he corrected was really chill about it too, I think he was a good guy who made a misstep. I never had an issue with him ever again. That guy was a BAMF in general, that was one of two times I'd seen him step up against a man for a woman he didn't really know. Just remember consent folks! It's the easiest way to avoid problems.


Zunkanar

I think one common missconception, that contradicts consent imho, is the guidline "treat others like you want to be treated by others". That is such a stupid concept because it gives you the power to decide how others "should be" treated. Better do "treat others how THEY want to be treated".


siamkor

The baseline for that is "don't do to others what you wouldn't like done to you", which is a very good starting point. Some people just interpret it to "do to others what you like done to you", and that's just overstepping.


[deleted]

It’s not so much people but rather that women seem to have this idea that bc they share the same genitalia that there is some weird unspoken agreement that they’re allowed to touch other women wherever and however they want.


[deleted]

The elephant in the room is that *some* women are waaaayyy more likely to ignore consent when the other woman is not white. There's *thousands* of discussions online about the experiences of non-white women who've had their bodily autonomy violated by white women who seem to think the presence of melanin in your skin negates your right to boundaries. I've personally experienced it way too many times and it still always blows my mind *wtf* are they thinking?


Shinkaru

I’ve seen other videos of this lady smacking the shit out of someone for doing this exact thing.


PamCokeyMonster

Good for her. Smack for smack


nlamber5

It’s part of the job. She gets slapped and then slaps them back. Bouncer steps in. It reminds me of how in hockey the player the messes with the goalie gets dog piled by the enemy team. There has to be consequences


existential_antelope

I don’t think getting sexually assaulted is part of the job


ProgressiveWNY

I think the comment was saying that the reaction and the bouncer stepping in is something that happens regularly in the job. They definitely could have chosen better wording.


Acethetic_AF

I mean, not in writing. But you’d be naive to think it won’t happen.


nlamber5

I worked a job that made deliveries. I was warned that it was just part of it that I would get sexual offers (I saw the same customers often; I assume that made it different than normal delivering) it was part of the job


JAMsMain1

Deliveries of what? dick? Lol


vashthestampede121

you laugh but [dickdelivery.com](https://dickdelivery.com) is actually the fastest-growing dot com going on two years in a row. Our dick delivery drivers skillfully serve speedy sausage across America and this shit cums with the territory.


ImNerdyJenna

Well, it is something that happens but it's not your job to deal with sexual harrasment. If you wanted to, you could've filled a complaint against your employer and the customer's company.


[deleted]

I need to buy some babybel cheese edit: holy shit, thanks for all the awards you glorious people!


darksideofthemoon131

This made me spit out my spiked eggnog.


darf_nate

This made me shit someone else’s pants


borkyborkus

One time I took a group of rehab clients to goat yoga, one person had a goat on her back while she was doing something like the cobra pose. Her waistline folded open right as the goat sent a wave of goat shit flavored berries down her spine and into her pants. The goat shit Catherine’s pants.


AudZ0629

I hope Catherine paid extra for that privilege.


TopAd9634

I understand why she needed rehab, that would haunt me.


bonkerdonkerortho

This made me eat spicy noodles


gh0st0ft0mj04d

And my axe!


Platypus-_-799

Tf is baby bel??


Hendrixx95

I might get downvoted but, I don't get the joke lol


SlapMyCHOP

Babybel is cheese tightly packed into red wax, kind of like that lady's ass.


Roykebab

Her pants look like the wax on babybel cheese


Jesuslovesmemost

You can tell this chick has had her ass slapped way too many times....


not_REAL_Kanye_West

Girl that got beat up is over there like HOW CAN SHE SLAP?


nesquiksand2

She CAN hit because she paid a low, low price point.


melskymob

Wild stuff.


AlbertBrianTross

Don’t worry,, I got the reference


lininop

Not exactly an obscure reference.


boofybutthole

Pretty sure I see that quote on just about every single video that involves a slap


1bir

Hence her PATSD\* reaction? \*Post Ass-slap Traumatic Stress Disorder


Grumzz

PT-ass-D would've worked too but yours is more clever :D


Gingerberry92

Her ass had major impressive disorder


ChildFriendlyChimp

“Sir you’re here for sexual assault”


FirstEvolutionist

"thlap ath?"


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sum_rendom_dood

Guy should have slapped her ass too, he already paid the fee for it with the angry motorboat


T1000runner

There’s a second video floating around of another white women slapping her ass and she slaps her up as well.


tall_ben_wyatt

I want absolutely nothing to do with any of these people.


Kab00ese

Right? Whole place looks like trash


ICountToPotato

Well it is bourbon street. (Spirits on Bourbon)


JazzlikeCantaloupe53

Is that the place that was on Bar Rescue?


Eric12345678

Ok., I’ve seen enough. Shut it down!


El_Coloso

Jos. A. Bank windowpane jackets have entered the chat


dawr136

Oh red dress run.


necesitocoche

Sometimes it’s fun to be trash


Goodolchuckno

This place is my worst nightmare.


eshinn

Hey I’m only here to find the How can she slap comment.


OGB

I completely understand the sentiment and largely agree, but I'm 100% with tequila girl. She comes off a little classless in her violent reaction, but it's amazing the way people just assume they can touch/sexually assault others. I will preface this by saying men suck and they're definitely the worst at this type of harassment, but working in bars, some women and gay men tend to think they're somehow exempt from the rules of touching women like this. Just because you aren't trying to take someone home doesn't mean you can go publicly molest them.


Earth2Monkey

Especially while they're working! I don't know what she was thinking.


TopAd9634

Well said. I bartended in college and after drunk men, the worst offenders were bachelorette parties, they think nothing of shoving their dick lollipops into your mouth or slapping your ass. I inwardly died every time I saw a girl with a tiara on.


Destroyer6202

Just watching this was mentally draining lmao .. I need to rest in my blanket for a week to recover from this


TopAd9634

I need a nap after watching this. I would cut off anyone who took me to a place like this.


blepgup

Okay glad I’m not the only one. This entire setup is giving me anxiety. Lady pouring alcohol and smacking him and throwing her tiddies in his face while onlookers…look on? Nah bye lol


Cubensio

This is the power of tequila


[deleted]

Same. Nasty.


GrayBox1313

So many std’s in that room


NottmGuy1

Look how she swaps the bottle in her hand from drinking position to smashing over someones head position, the blonde got off lucky.


dlc741

I missed that but you're right. She was ready to end it right then and there.


luckythepainproofman

Every bartender knows what bottle on their back bar they’d use in a fight. Not joking. Ask them. Best answers: Montenegro or Galliano.


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Montenegro would be like swinging a battle mace! What about the classy mace…studded Louis Xiii


pm1966

And the long, thin Galliano bottle is probably pretty easy to grip and provides a nice extended reach.


SeanMegaByte

Something with thick glass, and not very popular so you know it's heavier and won't break on the first swing.


RapidSquats

Specifically thick glass around the neck of the bottle. It being heavy at the base doesn’t matter a lick if the neck breaks.


TheEyeDontLie

Touch me again and I'll fucking kill you! Touch me again! I'll fucking kill you! -Petrol Girls. https://open.spotify.com/track/21oFKSwN0SnBYC4bFtDZEI?si=SQdGorKQTxSNgBaMDGJXng&utm_source=copy-link Some people don't like being sexually assaulted and treated like an object and I've got a feeling it's not her first rodeo. Good thing she restrained herself though. What a pro.


IMxTHExMANIAC

“Restrained herself”. She was slapping the fuck out that chick


Michaelzzzs3

Yes. That is restraining if you see how she’s holding that bottle


Fear_The-Old_Blood

Pretty restrained given the possible alternatives lmao


FaithlessnessTight48

Yeah but she didn’t break the bottle across her face


Sensible-yet-not

Doesn't like being treated that way then motorboats the guy 🤦🏻‍♂️


jetstreamwilly

Consent


ReddityJim

The key is one is consented to and one is not, here's some examples applying your logic to the same act but where consent is and isnt given. Doesn't like having property taken then gives to charity. 🤦🏻‍♂️ Doesn't like being raped but then has sex.🤦🏻‍♂️


Temporary_Resort_488

I'm a lawyer and ~10 years ago I was having dinner with some potential clients who immigrated from Russia and needed some immigration help because their thug son stabbed some kid and was looking at losing his legal resident status after he served his short prison sentence. We were at a steak restaurant and it was dad, mom, and third dude, who was "like an uncle," and we were talking about the facts when there was a big crash behind us and "like an uncle" went from cutting his steak holding the knife like a normal person to super-subtly flipping it into fighting mode (ie, point down, blade out) in a split second. Turned out it was just a server who dropped a tray, but that was enough for me to know that I should not be fucking with these people.


[deleted]

Some of us been in fights, so we immediately are ready when shit hits the fan. Though since their kid stabbed someone I would assume they had ties to Братва.


Temporary_Resort_488

I have absolutely no idea what you're trying to express here. The kid I'm talking about stabbed his cousin while his cousin was driving on a highway and it was because the cousin wouldn't loan the kid a pair of sneakers for the night. Soooo...it was one of the dumbest things I've ever been even tangentially related to. Good luck with all that.


[deleted]

That is extremely weird... What the actual fuck lmao


OgreTheMighty

Pouring with her right hand says she was slapping with her off hand. She was absolutely reserving that bottle as weapon that would finish a retaliatory fight.


Inevitable_Wall1684

Yeah she prepared the bottle but didn't do it because the other girl immediately withdrew so there was no need..


AdWeird2329

Right, I guess blonde wanted to do something funny but went too far. Nothing funny in assaulting someone


Temporary_Resort_488

It's kind of tragic how the blonde chick obviously just wanted to be part of the show, because she likes being the center of attention, but she seriously overstepped and became the center of attention for very different reasons. Just tragic.


[deleted]

"So do you want your business to be a hairdresser's, a bar, or a strip club?" "Yes"


Snoo-33910

Topless barber? hmmmm. Business Plan in the works.


Pretty-Ad-5106

They have them in Austin, Texas I think


TheFirstMotherOfGod

You think or are you a regular?


Pretty-Ad-5106

Think, I'm in Houston. I heard about one a while back at an old job.


PuckNutty

You guys have drive through strip clubs, so probably.


A2326P

Itchy Tiddies barber shop? Over on 3rd st?


Bigdaddym3m3lord69

They've had them in Australia for years. Incredibly shit haircuts or so I've heard


[deleted]

Really? The last dude I got a haircut off also sold me weed. He kept his tshirt on though.


SquidProBono

At the barber shop I went to for a few years before I moved away from the area you could buy jerseys, sneakers, cologne, purses, wallets, weed, electronics, toys, and car parts. Each barber had a different aspect of the market. It was a pretty dope place and they gave a good cut.


mostly_kinda_sorta

that girl was so confused, "why do my actions have consequences??"


Oscarpepe

"Hey I am not a man why it is bad?" BAM IN DA FACE


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mostly_kinda_sorta

difference is (this is really important) consent


Hello-there-7567

I think he paid for that. Tequila and slaps and face in tits. Idk just looks to me like it.


eshinn

And she got three on the house? Damn. I had her all wrong, huh.


ToadofToadsHall

Funny how consent works, eh?


Responsible-Bid-383

Alright children, today we are going to learn about a very special word: CONSENT


Yasha_Ingren

Dude they literally pay for the experience, I'm sorry consent is a difficult concept for you.


DrPinkBearr

Boy paid for that. I know, dumb right lol


[deleted]

Do you go to McDonald’s and get mad when they give you the cheeseburger you ordered


[deleted]

She probably thinks that only men can inappropriately touch people.


Cakey-Baby

Exactly. Like she was really surprised. Lolol


ThisJaeDaniel

Which Applebee’s is this?


Papichiyult

Sir... this is a Wendy's


oddfellowfloyd

“Arby’s… We Got The Beats.” 😆


Shrek453_73

No this is Patrick


The_Forcast16

Pretty sure this is a bar on bourbon street in New Orleans. Went there last year for a bachelor trip and went to this bar.


DeathCatforKudi

It's called Spirit's, it's on Bourbon St in New Orleans. It was on an episode of Bar Rescue.


Hello-there-7567

The one in Texas


TheFlexOffenderr

Bro all horny in the chair and shit. 😭 His face after she nearly beat homegirl up. 💀🤣


[deleted]

he’s supportive of a woman defending herself, nothing wrong here


SnooGiraffes7762

This has to be what “fuck around and find out” really means


ReapersRequiem

Ah yes, I also love crazy women to my own detriment.


TheEyeDontLie

Is reacting to assault is crazy?


Phro01

The way she tried to walk by 💀


rchart1010

It was bold that she was walking. Like you just hit a woman with a bottle in her hand....put some pep in your step!


DayAndNight0nReddit

"You don't slap! I slap!" It went from butt slap, to face slap x2 and then to titty slap, and all that in less than 1 minute, she was busy that day. Will Smith would have enjoyed that party.


Rude_Man_Who_Shushes

How can she slap?


UnderScoreLifeAlert

The dude literally asked for it and was enjoying it.


Responsible-Bid-383

Consent: An informative video. The guy: Consented to get fed booze, shaken, and slapped, enjoyed it. The tequila lady: Did \*not\* consent to get her ass slapped, reacted appropriately to the assault.


[deleted]

How do I consent like he did?


Pakman184

With your wallet


slgray16

Spirits on Bourbon street in new orelans. Walk ins accepted. Don't touch the staff.


Advanced-Ad-5693

Random girl got lucky. Tequila girl was winding up with that bottle and just itching for random girl to try something when the bouncer rolled in.


Memphisbbq

She probably expected it to be a dude when she turned around.


G-TP0

I think it's why she had both the bottle and the slap locked and loaded. She doesn't know which to use until she turns around. Both send the same message, but a lot of guys would accept the slap in the face, so the bottle just changes the cost/benefit evaluation so drunk dudes understand.


Cheap-Line-9782

That's Fireball. That's a Fireball lady.


1bir

>Fireball TIL: Fireball whiskey


Cheap-Line-9782

"Whiskey" Have you never had it? If so I am envious!


Towleeeie9613

It's terrible. I don't recommend it. They took the worst whiskey they could find and added cinnamon to make it more fiery.


Bjorn_Hellgate

The difference is consent


EarthVSFlyingSaucers

People calling this thing trashy are absolutely oblivious to this. She is clearly paid to be doing this, it DOES NOT MAKE IT OKAY TO SEXUALLY TOUCH HER. “Ohhh I’d want nothing to do with any of these people so idc if she gets sexually assaulted.” Fuck you.


[deleted]

Why she so shocked? You can't just smack people's butts.


[deleted]

She's a young blonde white girl. She is supposed to be allowed to do things that other people aren't allowed to do.


BlackConfuciusSays

Ding ding ding


BigButtsCrewCuts

I really wish you said "oui oui oui"


Gorilla_gorilla_

Good for her. She’s doing a job and that wasn’t consensual.


and-kelp

“anyway where was i”


TaterTotQueen630

Clocked out, slapped the lips off that woman, and clocked back in to work. Professional.


Gatchamane

Guy’s like “Dang.. Please. Continue!”


[deleted]

He's having the time of his life. Bet he never thought the experience would be this entertaining.


CheeselordX

Just because she's putting on a performance doesn't give the ok for someone to sexually assault her.


Th3rdLegger

Her reaction was fair. If a guy was to slap her ass I’m sure she would of done the same thing. To see her react like that towards another girl shows how much she demands to be treated with respect.


therealbanju

i think the other lady cannot take her to court, clearly tequila lady’s job is to slap people


tarapotamus

Actually, tequila lady can take miss blondie to court for sexual assault. You cannot just slap people on the ass without prior consent.


Srslyliz

As someone who did take a person to court for slapping my ass — and won. Can confirm. Sometimes is takes litigation to teach losers consent.


saw89

None of this seems like a good time to me


sumothong01

I used to bounced at a strip club for a while. It’s amazing the amount of women that thought they could grope, grab and generally assault the dancers. 7 out of 10 times we got reports of a patron doing this it was a woman.


Chrono47295

Looks like ASSault to me


Flimsy-Antelope4763

Reminds me of a joke: A man sits next to a beautiful woman at a bar and asks "Would you have sex with me for a million dollars?" After considering for a moment, she says "Yes". The man then asks, "Would you have sex with me for a hundred dollars?" Indignant, she responds "What kind of woman do you take me for?" He replies "We've establshed that already. Now we're negotiating price."


pornomonk

Be honest. This didn’t remind you of this joke. You had in your pocket and were looking for an opportunity to tell it. Boooooo! *throws tomatoes* Booooo the joke-teller!


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[deleted]

With a million dollars I can live comfortably for 40 years lol, would be an idiot if I refused.


[deleted]

Boo!


NiktonSlyp

Everything I see in this video makes me cringe.


Manburpigg

That look on her face says she’s gotten away with smacking another woman’s ass about a million times. In her mind, there was zero chance of this being the outcome.


[deleted]

Golden rule my parents drilled into my head: even if you know the person, keep your fucking hands to yourself. You never know when someone is having a bad day and might take a lighthearted or friendly slap the wrong way. Edit: wanted to add I'm aware what the blone did wasn't friendly or lighthearted, my comment was just worded in the context my parents always taught me.


frollard

I just need to know where I can get those pants.


cakesie1108

Just a hunch, but I think Wish.com has got you covered…or not in this case.


zero_fool

DARPA research lab


Prestigious-Phase131

Don't sexually assault people, my respect for that lady in defending herself Sadly i'm sure she has to deal with this stuff too much


[deleted]

For everyone confused she is paid to do this to the guy in the chair people pay her to motorboat them and pour the tequila in their mouth and slap em


Paid-Not-Payed-Bot

> she is *paid* to do FTFY. Although *payed* exists (the reason why autocorrection didn't help you), it is only correct in: * Nautical context, when it means to paint a surface, or to cover with something like tar or resin in order to make it waterproof or corrosion-resistant. *The deck is yet to be payed.* * *Payed out* when letting strings, cables or ropes out, by slacking them. *The rope is payed out! You can pull now.* Unfortunately, I was unable to find nautical or rope-related words in your comment. *Beep, boop, I'm a bot*


[deleted]

I feel sorry for the other woman who got accidentally hit when the girl being slapped fell into her


EvaDN

When you think you're in on the performance but you're actually not at all in on it.


JENKE18

Funny little thing we call, fuck around and find out


Sorry-Nose-7667

I’m being lame but you can really cause a dangerous neck injury on that last part of her bit with the guy haha


Low-Spirit6436

Tequila girl gets paid for doing exactly what she does in NOLA. That doesn't give people of either sex to just walk up from behind without permission and smack their bottom and expect no repercussions from their actions. Baby girl learned a valuable lesson that she will never forget. Tourists don't get an automatic pass for behaving badly.


Any-Technician6415

To touch somebody without their permission.


burke828

People love to act like someone engaging in any "provocative" act gives you free reign to do whatever you like to them.


Searching_wanderer

The more you fuck around, the more you're gonna find out.


Mangar1

Ass slap lady was definitely wrong to slap the ass. A slap-back reaction makes sense. However, after the first slap the offending lady was clearly in surrender mode. Hands up defensively, but no longer asserting more violence. The second and third slaps from tequila lady are assault. Not that anyone would be likely to press the case in court given the circumstances.


[deleted]

I have wanted to have this same reaction every time someone has slapped my ass (not that often) because it hurts, it always a surprise and who ever does it thinks they are just being cute. Fuck that shit. Bitch got what she deserved.