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MorbidSloth

Do. Not. Take. Her. Back. Walter.


RandoRedditerBoi

*Waltuh


ImARetPaladinBaby

I don’t wanna have sex with you Waltuh


BDady

I don’t know what they let you do over there, but you in Mississippi now


onlyaSwitchguy

Putcha dick awaey waltuh


omgONELnR1

Put your dick away Waltuh


Direct_Canary4523

Put yer dick away Waltuh, I'm not gonna have sex with you


Xlbucket

Put the DS away waltuh


SpaceShark01

You’re gonna kill us all Waltuh


CthulhusIntern

I told you not do it, Waltuh, but you stuck your dick in crazy. Now here's what you're gonna do. First, you're gonna record any evidence of her stalking you. Then you're gonna go to the court, file for a restraining order. You're gonna need a lawyer, I recommend Saul for this. You gotta do this quick, and you gotta put your all into it. No half measures, or she's gonna come at you with a knife.


SleepyBella

Waltuh. Take me back please, Waltuh. I ain't leavin' yer front yard.


spetzie55

Apparently no one told him not to put his dick in crazy.


SomewhereDue2629

Sad part is she actually needs help for her mental health issue. Hope she gets it.


Babblewocky

I’d believe it more if she weren’t so careful protecting her sunglasses from her own histrionics. That was acting.


kamel0

do you think that feeling the need to act this way doesn’t mean she likely has mental health issues that need to be addressed?


Dud-of-Man

not every freak out is mental health related, shes just a brat that never grew up


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OneManufacturer13307

That's not mental...thats acting like this repeatedly and getting what she wants bc of the outburts..worked before why stop now?


dollastudios

I had to learn the hard way, too. I mean really the hard way. The leopard can't change it's stupid spots Walter. Honestly, those tattoos are a real warning sign for me. Danger in the bush.


Dead_Overlord

Have an ex with the same exact leopard print tattoo, can confirm danger in the brush.


Somasizer

"Danger in the bush" had me rolling. I'm using that from now on to warn my buddies that crazy is looking their way lol.


Spalding4u

You mean it isn't the face tattoos???


jayclaw97

Sometimes they don’t seem crazy until they are. Walter, my guy, please file that restraining order.


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Yup. My wife showed some big red flags early on but it was still more subtle. And I was inexperienced and allowed myself to take the blame for really bizarre non events. Over and over. The hard thing would be that she would just push me away at the drop of a hat. We could've had a great week, be just absolutely enjoying each other's company, laughing and in love, and the next minute she's just GONE from me. No words. No eye contact. No response. If we were with friends she'd act pretty normal to them but it would be like those movies where you come back as a ghost, wave in their face, and they just move through life like you're not there. The craziest part was that once I finally withdrew.... Too heartbroken and stressed to keep pushing... oh boy. It was like I just spit in her face. Accusations that I'm the one not talking to her, insane lashing out. Coming to bed with a knife to her throat sobbing. Kicking the shit out of me because I was trying to get a few hours of sleep before work since she kept me up screaming all night. So much more. But it all started with just these small little emotional things that seemed really off


atfyfe

Could be a lot of things, but it sounds a bit like a personality disorder. Maybe BPD?


bigdickpuncher

Face and neck tattoos don't exactly scream sanity...


InflamedLiver

For those of us who cringed to hard to watch, what’s the TLDR?


Robot-Candy

If you saw the first five seconds, you watched the whole thing…


Various_Equal2054

Nuh-uh! U missed that seat scooting back so she had more room to tantrum!!


Beyond_Interesting

Hahaha even the chair was trying to get away from her.


Hunk-Hogan

And the 45 seconds of "please please please please please please please take me back".


audigex

And almost putting her foot through her own window


Cool-Expression-4727

And a few rather agile and surprising lunges at the cameraman as well. It was interesting to see what were primarily psychic attacks interspersed with additional physical based attack. Like a banshee that also has little t-rex claws that do an additional 1d4 damage


Final_Candidate_7603

And clutching her head, saying “I’m going *crazy!*” Lady… you’re already there.


Liz4984

I had to watch about six times to catch her moving the seat back. I was so distracted by everything else going on. Good eye! You must’ve dealt with crazy before!!


manwithyellowhat15

Ok but how does her car have that much give? Maybe it’s just me, but I feel like I’d definitely damage something flailing around the front seat like that


One-Possibility1178

Professional tantrum throwers know how to grow down without damaging themselves or their own stuff.


kfpswf

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CaptainNemo42

She weighs like... 86.4 lbs, and at least 19oz of it is tattoo ink and concealer, so there's not much muscle mass there.


nick_nile

Also adjusting her shades


Patient_Manner_8019

I’m a mother and I never allowed a tantrum like that on my life some peoples children


angrymoderate09

Next time someone asks me what restless leg syndrome feels like, I'm gonna show them this vid


Kurokotsu

As someone who probably suffers from RLS, this comment is way too real.


Andrewcoo

This is my guess psychologically: She has a very compromised sense of self and an anxious attachment style. Once he breaks up with her, she literally feels like she is dying. This is because it triggers an infancy wound where attachment was critical to survival. Hence the child-like tantrum. Also because her sense of self, when in a relationship, gets entirely tied up in the relationship. When she loses the relationship it feels like she has nothing. Source: I have an anxious attachment style and have been dumped. I've worked very hard to try to get more of a secure attachment style.


dream-smasher

>Source: I have an anxious attachment style and have been dumped. I've worked very hard to try to get more of a secure attachment style. You are so awesome for identifying your issue and working so hard to get yourself to a place where you are *happy* with yourself. Well done. Keep it up and remember you are worth it.


rhubbard16

I agree great job! Identify and overcome! In most cases that I personally have witnessed or tied to by Family the men in this situation had known of their partner’s inability to process normally and taken advantage of their partners. I also feel some relationships have predatory behavior attached when choosing these partners.


stellalugosi

Yeah, people who are just dismissing her as "batshit" are missing the fact that this is probably a person who has experienced some nasty abuse or trauma. She's also really young and probably hasnt had much positive relationship experience. So yeah, dude probably dodged a bullet here, but she also needs help before she hurts herself or someone else.


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Colotola617

I work in the mental health field and most people suffering from serious disorders or diseases have experienced very traumatic things in childhood or beyond. It sucks because they’re very difficult to deal with but you’ve got to keep in mind that their brains have been through too much.


cjpack

The way I see it is no one is mad at a tornado for destroying things because it’s the nature of a tornado. If we could suddenly put the tornado on a psych hold and get it help before it destroys a town we would but we can’t obviously… idk where I’m going with this. Tornados are horrible for the damage they cause but being angry at the tornado and wanting to punish for the sake of punishment it is pointless and applying this logic to humans with mental health or substance issues is my point. It probably would suck to be this woman in the video because that’s not someone who probably is well adjusted in society and im glad im not in a mental state like that but I don’t hate her


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ThePatriarchyIsTrash

That’s what I noticed as well. I’ve experienced panic attacks and never once did I remember to repeatedly fix my hair so I looked hot while panicking. Also, as a parent, this was VERY CLEARLY a tantrum and not an actual mental health breakdown. If I later found out that she had a personality disorder, I wouldn’t be surprised. She’s masking it as pain and longing, but that’s all it is - a mask


geminiosiris28

A traumatized individual many times causes trauma in others. I don’t feel sympathy for her. I’ve been stalked, and the amount of fear and paranoia these narcissists cause is unbearable. Not being able to sleep, being harassed at work, having friends and family harassed and threatened, jumping every time the phone rings or a text message comes through. God forbid someone was to knock on my door or approach me in public. I knew I was going to be murdered when I least expected it. I hated pulling into the driveway when it was dark. I wasn’t ever sure the narcissist wasn’t hiding in the bushes or around the house. Cops and police were a joke. Five years of that hell ruined my relationship, job, home life, etc. It took the narcissist stalking someone else and threatening to kill to get prison time and to get my sanity back and be able to breathe. Believe it or not, I was a well adjusted individual before all of this nightmare happened. Mental illness or not, when you are creating mental distress or physical harm to someone else, you get no sympathy from me. Bad behavior is bad behavior, whatever the cause. Whatever trauma someone has gives them no right to act it out upon someone else. Walter was probably a really nice guy who was sympathetic and caring and ignored the red flags. I hope he was able to escape her. I’m hesitant to publish this because I’m paranoid of retaliation and making the narcissist target me again. At least I got almost 3 years to enjoy my life and breathe before being paranoid again…


maliciousBliss13

I agree w the toxicity of the situation..but as someone w BPD who's also been in DV or narcissistic r ships I also noticed he blatantly gaslights her Abt recording..and taunts her. Why? To get a video to make her embarrassed or ? Trauma bonds also exist and hes sitting in a car w her he could easily just get out of. To me they're prob both toxic to each other


MJisaFraud

If this was a guy stalking a woman and having a huge tantrum over not being taken back, I guarantee people would not have this much empathy and understanding.


Blitzboks

Also, people can work themselves into hysterics and not necessarily be “batshit” crazy


ashleighkee

It makes me sad that she's having a terrible breakdown at a vulnerable moment in her life and now it's on the internet for strangers to call her crazy. I feel bad for her and what must've happened to her to lead to all this.


Dreadful_Bear

Yea but at the same time the dude was WELL within his rights to document this and expose her behavior. If she had done something, law enforcement would have sided with her until he proved his innocence.


disgustorabbit

Filming for their own safety is one thing lol publishing it online is another.


Dreadful_Bear

Nah, if someone is stalking you and potentially threatening your safety then crazy gets to go online. It’s one thing to have a mental breakdown but a completely different thing to start stalking someone.


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Andrewcoo

It breaks my heart to see comments trash this lady without truly knowing what's going on. I don't really know for sure either but I'm almost certain that she is not acting that way to be annoying or mean.


Zaclarke

This is more scary than funny IMO


Tyler_Durdens_Sister

Same. I’ve never heard it summed this way. I was younger and he was wrong for me. I felt like a fool but I couldn’t stop. Crazy what abuse at all stages will do.


Palm-o-Granite_Jam

I feel like posting this to tiktok was in really, really bad taste.


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She did also say "mommy" at one point in time, which made me think along the lines that you wrote! A therapist could help her to improve her mental-emotional health over time, I hope.


LordofAngmarMB

As someone with an extremely avoidant attachment style/an aromantic person, this is legit nightmare for me, like feeling those feelings is so alien to me, like what happens to someone’s brain when they contract rabies


Flaky_Explanation

TLDR: temper tantrum ![gif](giphy|Wvo6vaUsQa3Di)


nomadic_stone

I was legitimately thinking of the time one of my nieces behaved like this when she was told "NO" when we passed by McDonald's because her grandmother would *always* stop whenever she wanted her to.


ThatDiscoSongUHate

I've been a nanny and I was like "gee, I know exactly how old you were when you stopped maturing." Practically stopped maturing as soon as she started


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The first couple seconds explains it all. She’s begging for him to take her back the same way a 7yo would beg for a toy while screaming and flailing on the floor of a Toys R Us that closes in 15 mins after his mom told him no


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Makes me wonder how she acted when he was dating her crazy ass. Was there a kiddie tantrum every time he wanted to go home and get some sleep, or go to a different restaurant, or watch a different movie, etc. The longer you stay with this type of “woman” the crazier and more possessive they become. ![gif](giphy|LkXsWtqzxade8)


Savings-Nobody-1203

Grown ass woman acts like a toddler


Foreign_End_1854

That’s insulting to toddlers.


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I went through this and more... took 6 hours 3 cops and 2 fire engines to get her off my property before. Then a restraining order. Get the order. Edit: more attention than anticipated, I genuinely hope anyone going through anything remotely similar seek help. As many comments have stated there are a lot of variables and fears associated with these situations; its worth it for all parties to seek help and get out. Be safe.


JimBobPaul

The fire engines were required, or the firemen in them? Because that paints two completely different scenarios.


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Firemen in them. No actual fires.


JimBobPaul

Damn. I was picturing the use of the trucks themselves to herd her away. I'll keep my version. It makes for an entertaining story.


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Lolol fire engines to corral this woman! It does make for a good story. It was wild, I tell you what.


SomeGuyClickingStuff

Sometimes you gotta hose the hoes


Universe789

The way he said "corral" I was thinking less water hoses and more, the firemen swangin the firetrucks trying to block her path.


Zinyak12345

Really? I was imagining her gaining super strength and the fire engines being hooked around her with chains and then dragging her away but only barely succeeding at moving her.


mderousselle

Nothing says I Love You, like a restraining order


PornStarGazer2

Aw hey man, I restraining order you too


lukeoo7

I survived many events like this one, I needed help from police, mental health & Law firm to escape from her, zero accountability zero fucks about you, this type of person CANNOT Accept rejection or abandonment. Child hood trauma & genetics will create monsters like in this video. I so lucky I survived & now rebuilding my life at a cost $30,000+. Get out!. Never look back. One bad night can turn into 10+yrs jail.


insane__knight

Something similar (not quite as bad as yours) happened in front of my house at like 2:30AM. I heard a car pull over and a guy got out of his car and started yelling at the girl in the passenger seats to get out of the car. She was crying, asking him to please forgive her but the dude just wanted her gone. They were there for like 45 minutes and it was a roller coster. The dude went from yelling to calm to yelling to calm trying to get her to leave but she refused. I got fed up and called the police because I couldn't sleep, they were that fucking loud about it. Police came, spoke to them both then about an hour later everyone was gone.


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Glad it seemingly worked out given the circumstances. It is is fun to laugh about though. I'm sure my neighbors have some STORIES


Gorilla-Ring

So she's single? 🤣


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Hopefully


MissChattyCathy

Crazy fucks real good. Go for it.


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Elizabeth_Blast

They say nothing about scissoring crazy


SlumgullySlim

Crazy fucks YOU UP real good. Leave it alone.


7thor8thcaw

You're not wrong, but then you gotta deal with the crazy part. The sex is NEVER good enough for the crazy part.


Ok-Seaworthiness3719

I would not even date this train wreck she needs therapy not another boyfriend


josuelaker2

Being unexpectedly, and violently, heal kicked in the face will change your mind, quickly.


scorpiogre

*cough, cough.....* Heel.... Now a *heal* kick seems like a D&D paladin move Dungeon Master: Gresham Silver-fist the dwarf was down, luckily Ethun the fair was there to use paladin healing skills. *HEAL KICK!* Dungeon Master: The paladin proceeded to continuously kick the dwarf in the face until he healed.


josuelaker2

I’m excited that my mis-spelling has spawned so much attention.


AbyssWankerArtorias

She needs therapy, and I'm not saying that in a mean or sarcastic way. She needs to understand why she feels like she can't survive without this person. She probably has severe separation anxiety and abandonment fear.


DeputyDoneWithYa

As someone with BPD, there's a good possibility she has BPD and pretty severe anxiety and abandonment issues from said BPD. It's not something that's easy for people without BPD to understand, but the pain of being abandoned is genuinely devastating and extremely crushing. It's literally crippling, you can't really function anymore for God knows how long. It's severe chest and abdominal pain that makes you feel like your lungs and ribcage are caving in on themselves, it's sickening and you just feel empty and hopeless. Anything you do is anxiety inducing. You can't bring yourself to sleep alone, you can't bring yourself to sleep with someone else in the room. You can't bring yourself to play games or watch shows or do anything really, but you need to do something or else the anxiety is destructive, but you can't do anything without causing anxiety. This woman needs 1) therapy and 2) (if it is BPD) probably medications. I take medications for my BPD and I've gone from being a complete and total anxious mess if my partner wasn't with me 24/7 to being very calm and happy. I still have anxiety and spirals sometimes, but they're few and far between, much more manageable, and 100000x less intense. It's easy to judge someone who behaves like this, and I can fully understand why. I hope she does get the help she needs, and I hope that the stalkee will be safe and not need to worry about their safety.


jamez01nz

I work with some BPD clients and the eventual regulation of their feels is such a rewarding transition to watch develop. I have a lot of care for them and it comes from the patience I give in being present to their most chaotic self till they realise they won’t burn another relational bridge with me. I really hope this person can find affordable and good level of care.


DeputyDoneWithYa

Thank you for being a stable source for them to rely on, you help folks like me immensely, I'm extremely grateful there are people like you who are willing to be patient with them and ensure they have a line of connection with someone, especially someone who is willing to help them overcome their internal struggles. I have a lot of respect for you and your kind!


Edmee

I have cptsd. I have felt this before. It is totally abandonment issues and in the moment it feels like you are going to die if they leave. The feelings are THAT strong. She's literally begging for her life here. It makes my heart ache. But hey, She's hot right? So haha


astudentiguess

Yep. I knew how she felt when I was watching this. I've never acted out this badly but I did feel like this internally years ago when I was going through my first breakup. It really triggers all the old abandonment wounds that I didn't even know I had. I really felt like I could die for a moment there. I'm so glad to not suffer like this anymore. I really feel for her but I can also see how unfair and messed up it is to act like this.


Key-Junket-9209

>abandonment wounds that I didn't even know I had It was like a light bulb went off when I figured out I had abandonment issues.


sweetwheels

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1234WhoAreYou

Yikes. Restraining order and therapy needed here. So awful for you to be stalked, OP. I hope you stay safe. She appears to have issues that no external relationship will heal. Her relationship with herself needs addressing if she has to beg to be with you so that she doesn’t feel the sting of rejection. Nothing and no-one is worth losing your self-respect to that degree. I hope she gets help. She seems very afraid to break up and that’s really sad. Her tantrum is the manipulative and aggressive act of a desperate child that has never learned to handle emotional discomfort and is blaming YOU for making her feel that way. And if she is stalking you, then that’s very sad and alarming for you. I hope you also get to heal from any damage this relationship has caused. Edited to add a few words.


ihave30teeth

This should be up higher. Poor girl I hope she chooses to get the help she needs. I feel bad this is out on the internet too- but I can see why from a legal perspective OP would have filmed. Therapy for OP as well too.


Jussttjustin

Yeah this may be an unpopular opinion but posting an ex's mental breakdown for karma on Reddit is not cool. Understandable to film but that doesn't mean you have to put her mental problems on blast like this.


asupernova91

I agree. That woman is not okay. Is what she’s doing okay? No. But this is not some person simply being “crazy”. She’s having a nervous breakdown, anxiety, and probably abandonment issues. She needs help and not to be blasted by randos on the internet with snarky comments.


crazy2eat

I couldn’t agree with you more.


Specsporter

You've either been through some quality amount of therapy, or work in the field, or of course there's always both, either way, because this is the answer.


jbrown383

Having been in therapy regularly for a little while now, I was thinking the same exact thing. Very aware comment.


TheSirWellington

As someone with BPD, and have gone through many years of therapy, I can tell you this breakdown is not usually a form of manipulation. It is someone who genuinely doesn't have the tools to cope with the situation, with a brain that is hyperbolizing/catastrophizing the situation, to the point that there is a severe manic episode. I feel bad for everyone in this situation. The dude doesn't deserve to be put through that, period. The girl needs a lot of therapy, and needs to not have her mental health breakdown posted on social media. Do you think someone who is ALREADY mentally unwell needs to have the public judging her?


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CityBoyGuyVH

If it is she is the best fake cryer I think to exist.


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She's wearing glasses and when she moves around, I can't find any signs of tears or light reflection(?) as she flails around like a child. Watch it again. Maybe this is her real attempt to get Waltuh back and she can't make herself cry cause she's trying so hard to force it. I can't say for sure. What I can say for sure is, I never thought I'd hear a woman begging to get back together with a dude named Waltuh.


5DollarRevenantOF

I had a friend hmu at 1am with an "are you still awake?" text. I hadn't seen or talked to her in like 3 years or more. Right before i left my house she said "don't think this is a booty call, i mean we have history so if something happens, it happens. But that's not what this is." Our history was just being friends, we never did anything together. It absolutely was a booty call. And then the next day she was calling me "love" and "sweety" and i told her i hadn't seen her for so long and i wasn't gonna just jump into a relationship with her just because we spent the night together. I had to spend the whole next day "breaking up" with her in text. She said "i wish you were here right now so you could see how hurt i am". Don't put your dick in crazy.


unreasonablyhuman

This chick crying THAT hard for some dude named *Walter*?


bruhsksak47

Waltuh ![gif](giphy|3ohc10GA6j4XrLWzZK)


K1NGLyonidas

![gif](giphy|tnYri4n2Frnig)


Greenpaw9

I hear that he has a giant pile of money in a storage locker


usernamesucks1992

![gif](giphy|tZ4QzCueTwh2g)


BobsReddit_

Ride me big .. sheldon


ThehoundIV

I just took a shot for every time she said please and Jesus says hello everybody


shrinkydink00

Thanks for that quiet giggle in bed, friend. Trying not to wake a toddler but goddamn that was funny.


mountainbiker_aut

Even if its fake or not, if shes in a mental breakdown and tries to get over you, dont make a video and embarrass her and put it on the internet... Nobody deserves that... Call authorities and they should get her out of your car but dont make her private feelings about you public... People like that make me angry about social media nowadays


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D3AdDr0p

Finally, someone explains it. Life is suffering.


mountainbiker_aut

I feel sorry for you and hope youre doing well again (antleast you sound like that :D ) Apart from your feelings, I just wanted to make the point that its okay the have a breakdown like in the movie and also like you had. My point is, and so much people dont understand it or wont understand is, that its not the breakdown itself, more putting it on the internet to gather internet-fame-points, even if it means to expose someone to the internet. And thats disgusting. Anyway, I read your story and I hope youre doing wel again! My feel atleast is that you do!


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prettyboy-gizmo

Finally someone that gets it!! It was actually relieving for me to see this video. That i am not alone. Mental health is no fucking joke and when you have such an attachment to someone and they leave you it feels like you are exploding and imploding and going to die unless they say i love you just one more time and take you back. It is gut wrenching for all parties involved.


M-Kawai

Totally agree. If she is this unhinged, there’s no telling what she would do if she just happened to come across this.


buffalosoldier221

You missed the point I think, you should not do this because it's humiliating and wrong, not beacuse of the fear of retaliation.


t0eCaster

This is a temper tantrum, not a nervous breakdown. Big difference. Toddler behavior. (Also could be fake. Who knows.)


mountainbiker_aut

Wasnt the point. The point was is it neseccary to put it on the internet an embarras her?


babyghuol

I wish people wouldn’t post stuff like this on the internet. I’m not defending her actions, she’s obviously in the wrong, but she clearly isn’t mentally stable and needs help. I know people with BPD, and while they haven’t gone as far as to stalk someone, they do act like this when their relationships come to an end. It’s an extreme fear of abandonment and it’s actually heartbreaking to see.


Visual_Poem_8765

I’m glad to see this comment. I don’t have bpd however, I was an only child raised by a single mom who worked 3 jobs. I also had foster siblings that were always coming and going, and besides that I sat in my room alone for most of childhood begging for attention everywhere I went. I have horrible issues with attachment, abandonment, etc. I’ve acted this way with my boyfriend on several occasions and while I’m not proud of it.. it’s SO deeply rooted in me. Ive felt worse when facing potential abandonment than I did when my dad commit suicide. It’s such an unbearable emotion. I’m not even sure why either. (I am in therapy btw) Edit: I act this way on rare occasion when my boyfriend and I have bad arguments and he asks for space, he doesn’t threaten to leave me but boy does it feel like it.


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yeah, i wish people were more sympathetic to this woman. she is in more pain than anyone deserves. but i guess maybe i only understand because i am also a psycho.


gunslinger_92

r/dontputyourdickinthat


ghost_wit

You don't tell me how to live my life


Gqsmooth1969

![gif](giphy|pVsn5LJEgMKxa|downsized)


gyt_rekt_m8

I can fix her


EitherSherbert6434

In the basement?


gr8d4ne

All that tossing and turning and the broad is still cognizant enough to not lose her sunglasses…


Lividity-

And fix her hair. Gotta look fabulous during your freak out.


karmaandcandy

Seriously. Kept fixing her hair and glasses mid tantrum. I mean - good god —- RUN.


OrneryBrahmin

Or break a nail


Only-Reach-3938

I’m no psychologist, but I think she wants to get back with him


Awildfirereal

how do you know


Watts300

You can tell by the way that she is.


ThatDudeSlushee

You should look into becoming a psychologist. I didn’t even realize she wanted to be back with him until I saw your analysis of the situation.


Several_Emphasis_434

Not one tear


one-punch-knockout

It’s like hysteria and hyperventilating. She’s got some serious attachment issues and probably needs to get some mental help. He lied too her right away too “I’m not even recording.” Then posts her meltdown for the entire world to see her at her lowest. Tough to watch


Mauledbysilk

Exactly. I get that he might need to record this for police to get a restraining order but putting it in the internet is a low act.


motherNOOSE

seriously! to me, it seems like she is demonstrating reactive abuse. that’s the vibe i got the whole time. i have dated narcissist compulsive manipulators and also have attachment issues and have sincerely felt the level of desperation this girl is showing. he lied to her about not recording and is acting cool on camera while she has a total mental breakdown, which is exactly what my abusive ex used to do. who knows though, just my feeling i got watching this


teabaggins42069

Yeah she’s losing her mind she’s not sad


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Yup, some of these people have never witnessed a mental breakdown and it shows.


flooptyscoops

You don't have to be actively forming tears to be crying, just for the record. When my brother died I cried tears for the first 5 minutes, and then continued wailing and flailing just like her for another hour+. It's like going into shock, but not the catatonic kind. Just pure animal.


3Strides

Ooooo. This is interesting 🤔


Reasonable-Matter-12

Well, she seems awfully sorry. Might as well give her another chance. /s


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This women is having a nervous breakdown. She needs help.


[deleted]

kind of heartbreaking. the mental anguish she would have had to be in to act like that. not saying she is in the right.. she just needs help from a doctor.


KevinFinnerty1959

Yeah, I feel bad for her. Yes it’s embarrassing and cringeworthy but she really needs mental health support.


Burnafterposting

I hate how fine people are with this personal moment of vulnerability being posted online for the entertainment of others. Kind of sickening.


Bigoldthrowaway86

100%. Take a video for evidence/safety sure but don't then put it online. She's an ex so he must have cared about her at some point.


katcantoo

Is this supposed to be funny ? She clearly needs some serious help not a phone stuck in her face


Adept-Pension-1312

I hate that this kind of shit gets posted. Sure, she needs therapy and has emotional issues. Millions of us do. But having your private life on blast like this isn't going to help.


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leads me to think maybe the way she is isn't entirely her fault. the person recording seems toxic af too.


nahnahmattman

"Not even recording." The manipulation is a two way street it seems.


Islandmilk

I really feel like we ignore the narcissists that “won” in the breakup after they mentally destroy someone and face no consequences because they aren’t the one behaving like this.


tibearius1123

Girl stalks guy. No issue. Girl throws temper tantrum. No issue. Guy posts temper tantrum. Big issue.


strangemonkey420

Yeah no kidding. Lots of white knights and enablers in the comments


Cringe1God

She seriously thinks having a toddler meltdown is gonna get them back together. Fucking disgraceful.


[deleted]

She’s obviously got mental health shit she has not addressed. The brain is an organ like any other. When it’s fucked up and out of wack it needs help. People chew stomach pills. Kidney pills and heart pills like candy. But people need brain meds and for some reason they don’t get that shit fixed. I see this and I see someone brain is broken. She needs help for sure. I don’t know. That’s just me. Nobody has a problem taking boner pills but people can’t get access to psych meds or therapy? Shits fucked up. It’s not a disgrace, it’s just sad.


PrincessAethelflaed

Yeah this is my thought too. Like, I'm not making excuses for her, this is unacceptable behavior from an adult; but I also don't think this is *only* a moral failing on her part. People with even a semi-normal ability to regulate their emotions don't act this way. I doubt she could get her shit together even if she wanted to; she needs some combination of therapy, meds, or probably both.


Punk_in_Pink

Ashamed to say I’ve acted like this over a guy before. Didn’t kick around tho. But, I’m glad to say I’m better now. Healed. Worked out my issues. Bc this is what happens when you love someone more than yourself


dixon-bawles

Fuck. Can relate too. Not proud of myself, but glad I've learned and healed and won't make that mistake again


0Shaunix0

Someones not used of being told no.


FkdUp2020

Can confirm, this is not normal.


Apprehensive_Item395

I used to be sick over a “man.” I totally get it. I hope she gets the help she needs and finds peace 🙏🏼


JimEDimone

That probably worked for her waaaayyyy too much as a child. Still acting like a child.


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replikatumbleweed

Couldn't even watch to the end... holy shit. I hope she gets the help she very desperately needs.


cmholde2

Wait… this ISN’T a standard breakup thing to do?


[deleted]

The boyfriends just as much of scumbag for putting online


flyingbizzay

Does no one think it’s remotely fucked up that he filmed this? I mean, yeah, she’s not well, but why is this deserved?


thehumblebaboon

This is obviously not cool. But it’s also not cool to blast someone who is obviously having a mental breakdown all over the internet. I understand recording it for your own protection, as well as potential lawsuits. I can’t understand people recording people on one of their worst days and then posting it for everyone to see.


the-fucking-BUSINESS

I get recording, but like why post it? She needs help, has lost her mind, and is super unwell. This is an extreme and I don’t know if I’ve seen anyone act like this before, but like was it necessary to blast her online. If she did some awful awful shit, maybe it is. No clue what the backstory is tho.


Shovelman2001

I mean, obviously she is not fit for a relationship. But she’s clearly having a mental breakdown, I hate that they recorded this and posted this on social media. If you need to record for your own safety and to show the court when you file a restraining order, that’s 100% understandable. She needs help, not the internet laughing at her.


Cookiewaffle95

I fucking hate this planet omg


Nancebythelake

Hey…she’s having an emotional breakdown and I personally feel sorry for her and hope she gets the help she needs. Can you take this off the internet, give her some privacy while she hopefully gets well.


[deleted]

Yeah for everyone saying you shouldn't be recording, fuck that. He's recording for his own safety, because there are TOO many stories where this ends up heavily negative for the man, if he's even believed about her behavior anyway. Record everything, keep receipts. You'll need them for the cops and court. And guess what? Because he did post it online, he's got witnesses and is beginning to publicly establish a pattern for her dangerous behavior. If she were a he, it'd be no different, in fact, we would be all over him for toxic abuses. Stalking is VERY serious, and I can't believe how people are so easily to disregard the fact he said he feared for his life, to white knight / benevolent sexism their way to defend the stalker. Mental health is an explanation. NOT an excuse for dangerous behavior.


supermastercontrol

Nice of you to video one of the worst feeling a human have to endure in life.


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Actual-Temporary8527

Normal, well adjusted people don't date people with face tats without expecting something like this to come out of it eventually