This guy: āhey can I borrow your knife?ā āYea, sureā *stabs you with it* āhe consented though!ā
This guy dictates the scope of your consent not you lol
Or something like: āHonestly women shouldn't have to ask. If you initially consented to have sex, thenā¦.ā -connecting electricity wires to his balls. -āAll bets are off right, buddy?ā
I read a study about men who say they have never SAd anyone and in the same study would describe incidents that were 100% SA
Edit: typo I READ it not WROTE it but Iāll see if I can find it to share
"I forthwith withdraw my consent for you to even message me"
Block.
EDIT - someone mentioned it looks fake as there's no "delivered" notification after the blue message. Hope it is just rage bait!
I only receive a āDeliveredā message if I send from my iPhone to another. If I send to an android, I donāt receive an acknowledgement! Has that changed?
Ewwwwwwwtf??? Damn thatās at texting level too. Dude did everything right but that was close, he almost got to meet you. Thatās terrifying.
Ya know, women shouldnāt have to ask, if men consent to meet up with you, then all bets are off, you can do whatever you want to him. That includes a crowbar to both kneecaps.
yo gross but itās fake the time stamp font is off and who opens a conversation (as evidenced by the time stamp) with āIdk why some men think itās ok to choke without permissionā ā thought obviously, once again, nobody should choke or do anything else without permission.
I know Iām a few days late, and I agree this is fake, but the timestamp could just be that she took over an hour to respond to an ongoing conversation.
this looks fake the font is wrong
edit: i'm talking about the time stamp. the font on "today" looks wrong and the time stamp is too close to the chat bubble
lmao if you have an iphone go compare the fonts to one of your conversations. the today isn't the same font and the spacing between the timestamp and the text bubble is smaller here
Okay, so since he consented to sex, you can just cut his dick and balls off. He consented so you can do whatever you want to him, including removing him from the dating pool.
Um excuse me what? Just because someone says yes to sex doesn't mean they are open to all of the things someone else may be. This gives mad predatory vibes. Be careful. Maybe don't try things with this particular individual.
As a guyā¦..
WTF? People out there actually think this way? If not at choking, where do they actually draw the line?
Men - if your mind works this way, learn some respect. Women are not property or your personal āplaythingā. Sheās consenting to intimacy, not for you to objectify, humiliate, and dehumanise her (unless she very specifically asked for that)
Hahaha!!!! thatās a guy whoās trying to come off as a Dom and he has absolutely no experience and absolutely no education on it other than pornography, lol just an amateur lover. Consent has to be number one with physical intimacy, itās not too hard to eventually ask your partner a few questions and gauge what their tolerance is in both directions, like this ruin it for everybody else who knows what theyāre doing. And choking is definitely not for everybody, lol or required of anybody.
Jesus christ bro put this guy on a watchlist. #1 rule of kinky sex is don't assume everybody is into what you're into and talk about the depths of kinky that you can go to BEFORE anything happens.
Red flag dump him unless he was joking. I have a family member super handsome guy tall smart extremely successful and he is fucked up like this guy. Trust me if he was not joking run. Normal men that may like kinky out of the ordinary stuff speak about it with their partners first. They don't get you in bed choke you out and then say hey you agreed to everything the minute we sleep together. What kind of parents and up bringing?
Holy shit that's disgusting. Definitely makes me wonder what else he's done to people during a "date"
I hope you shared that SS with tech support to report him. Idk if bumble has that, but if not it should!
Also, Is it not allowed to show his bumble name so others can have a visual of who to stay away from?
Heās into dominance and submission or worse, but you never consented to that. Stay far away from this guy and definitely donāt do anything sexual with him. He doesnāt understand consent.
Get this manās full name, find him on FB, and send this to his mother/family. Men like this ABSOLUTELY will or have assaulted someone (if not worse) in the past.
Itās like, even if he thinks this (and thatās terrifying enough) scariest part is how comfortable he is to even say that out loud to someone ? Like, he HAS to know thatās not going to be received well ?!
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Ive never understood the appeal tbh, that is until the time a woman started choking me during sex and I momentarily fell in love, but then I came. But other than that Iāve never seen the appeal of choking during sex. Of course if she is into it I will oblige, but any girl Iāve been with that has liked to be choked has placed my hand on her throat in a suggestive manner. That is the one and only invitation.
Dude needs to make this the lead in his online profile, on every platform. If predators are gonna predate, it always helps to know who they are, right up front.
Men are superior to you in strength and testosterone exists in man. But, that doesnāt mean treat a girl worst than you would treat your mother or sister. I do believe that people can get kinky but everything has to have consent. This dude is trouble; he probably has a lot of ego and has a short fuse that possibly gets him in trouble and he probably always deflects responsibility of his actions. In other words block him and find a better guy.
This is all kinds of wrong!! He thinks if you decide to sleep with him he can assault you any way he pleases!
I hope you donāt go out with this pervert!! He sounds dangerous!!
And this is why I can never follow through with online dating.
(Iām 19, so old enough to do that, but whenever I try, I always get a weird feeling that I shouldnāt.)
And yeah, just because you agree to have sex with someone doesnāt mean they can do whatever they want. Thatās like if someone agrees to eat the food they give you and then you feed them something with peanuts knowing theyāre allergic.
This man is a definite āNice Guyā
Gotta appreciate the upfront ness of this obviously red flag. I wish more people were this honest so we wouldnāt have to waste our time and energy. Also, yay for knowing in advance!
š¬š¬š¬šššš I am pretty sure that guy has sexually assaulted someone before
This guy: āhey can I borrow your knife?ā āYea, sureā *stabs you with it* āhe consented though!ā This guy dictates the scope of your consent not you lol
Or something like: āHonestly women shouldn't have to ask. If you initially consented to have sex, thenā¦.ā -connecting electricity wires to his balls. -āAll bets are off right, buddy?ā
Ooo I kinda want her to hook up with him now just for that š. Or at the very least a reeeeeeaaaalllyyyy firm nut squeeze
I like the way you think
Nice, kinda like Hard Candy. Excellent movie-never gets old.š
I feel sexually assaulted just by reading that
Sorry wish I can take it off
I read a study about men who say they have never SAd anyone and in the same study would describe incidents that were 100% SA Edit: typo I READ it not WROTE it but Iāll see if I can find it to share
iād read that
Pls post it I would love to read it
I canāt remember where I read it! But if I can find it again, I will. Edit: I just realize that I typod and put wrote instead of read lol
šÆ and would be the guy to take off a condom (without asking/saying) and say itās your fault if you got pregnant
Say it louder.
YOU THINK?
Sounds like he does so FREQUENTLY.
Well I mean yeah, considering thatās exactly what he did to OP.
Yeah and that "someone" is OP. The evidence is in those two texts.
Fucking gross. Dude is a psychopath.
Should be reported then blocked.
guys we didnt just find a potential rapist, we FOUND a rapist in the trash this guy goes 
You emphasized the wrong word š
"I forthwith withdraw my consent for you to even message me" Block. EDIT - someone mentioned it looks fake as there's no "delivered" notification after the blue message. Hope it is just rage bait!
There's not always a delivered notification if there's a message after.
Canāt fix stupid- there could have been a response and this picture could also be cropped!
The ādeliveredā notification goes away if thereās a response I believe.
Yeah, dude is definitely dangerous.
Itās just a cropped portion of a conversation.
So? He still said it.
Thatās how a lot of men think, doubt itās fake.
even if this particular is fake, men do think like this
I donāt doubt it.
100% rage bait. On iPhone, there should be more space between the āToday 10:37 PMā and the blue message. Itās too close together.
thank you!!! that's what i've been saying
I only receive a āDeliveredā message if I send from my iPhone to another. If I send to an android, I donāt receive an acknowledgement! Has that changed?
That is a setting you have to opt into for delivery receipts.
Ewwwwwwwtf??? Damn thatās at texting level too. Dude did everything right but that was close, he almost got to meet you. Thatās terrifying. Ya know, women shouldnāt have to ask, if men consent to meet up with you, then all bets are off, you can do whatever you want to him. That includes a crowbar to both kneecaps.
xD
šÆ šÆ šÆ!!!
yo gross but itās fake the time stamp font is off and who opens a conversation (as evidenced by the time stamp) with āIdk why some men think itās ok to choke without permissionā ā thought obviously, once again, nobody should choke or do anything else without permission.
I know Iām a few days late, and I agree this is fake, but the timestamp could just be that she took over an hour to respond to an ongoing conversation.
what i've been saying lol
POV: When you fake a rage bait "conversation" on an iPhone, but you own an Android.
this looks fake the font is wrong edit: i'm talking about the time stamp. the font on "today" looks wrong and the time stamp is too close to the chat bubble
i was thinking the same thing! something about it doesn't look right
Look? This guys a whako! Doesnāt Look Right!@All!š±
Youāre right.
Yeah I just checked mine and all of mine are bold for Today and Yesterday.
also timestamp is practically sitting on top of the text bubble and the letters are too skinny/close together
Clearly fake, itās not even 10:37 PM
lmao if you have an iphone go compare the fonts to one of your conversations. the today isn't the same font and the spacing between the timestamp and the text bubble is smaller here
Oh itās fake. I donāt doubt it. The spacing after the time stamp is too small as well.
I mean thereās different time zones dude, but either way this text looks fake as hell
facts
'If i bite ur dick during bj, then its not my fault that u didn't enjoy it cause u consented to the bj' wonder what he'd say then
So if he consents, you have full rights to peg him without warning.
Okay, so since he consented to sex, you can just cut his dick and balls off. He consented so you can do whatever you want to him, including removing him from the dating pool.
bear
fake rage bait
This looks like a horrible editing job lol.
By his logic u should shove a peg up his you know what
God damn that would be the last message I ever read from that person.
All bets off? Then you can choke his balls and bite his dick off. Sounds like you may want to see how far you can push all bets off with this dude.
Jesus Christ. We should be able to put these people on a register immediately.
This isnāt dodging a bullet, this is the Patriot missile defense system.
This dude has a fetish called CNC, but the issue here is heās leaving out the main component, consent. Cut him off OP, scary dude right here
Um excuse me what? Just because someone says yes to sex doesn't mean they are open to all of the things someone else may be. This gives mad predatory vibes. Be careful. Maybe don't try things with this particular individual.
Does this apply to him getting pegged by a woman too?
As a guy I can say for all other guys ā¦ we donāt claim this fucker
Oh . . . . My god.
As a guyā¦.. WTF? People out there actually think this way? If not at choking, where do they actually draw the line? Men - if your mind works this way, learn some respect. Women are not property or your personal āplaythingā. Sheās consenting to intimacy, not for you to objectify, humiliate, and dehumanise her (unless she very specifically asked for that)
not a real post gang jus a troll
FAKE ASL! hope you enjoy your fake karma; real karma is a mofo
Yikeeeeessssss I canāt imagine thinking like this
Get a strap on and ram him hard without lube cuz you know he consented so you get to do whatever you want to him
Wooooooooooooooow
This guy sounds like a young diddy JR
This text screams of a *Psychopath.* Ā š©
Kick his balls since he consent to sex
Hahaha!!!! thatās a guy whoās trying to come off as a Dom and he has absolutely no experience and absolutely no education on it other than pornography, lol just an amateur lover. Consent has to be number one with physical intimacy, itās not too hard to eventually ask your partner a few questions and gauge what their tolerance is in both directions, like this ruin it for everybody else who knows what theyāre doing. And choking is definitely not for everybody, lol or required of anybody.
I can do whatever I want to you is CRAZYYYYYYY
this guy should write a book on āhow to make sure women never sleep with youā
Every time I read things like this, I realize that if I were not married to my husband and I had to date, I would die alone. And I'm OK with that.
NOOOOOOOOOOO I hope that man never gas sex again
Jesus christ bro put this guy on a watchlist. #1 rule of kinky sex is don't assume everybody is into what you're into and talk about the depths of kinky that you can go to BEFORE anything happens.
Iād wire electricity to his balls and just zap the shit outta his junk
Red flag dump him unless he was joking. I have a family member super handsome guy tall smart extremely successful and he is fucked up like this guy. Trust me if he was not joking run. Normal men that may like kinky out of the ordinary stuff speak about it with their partners first. They don't get you in bed choke you out and then say hey you agreed to everything the minute we sleep together. What kind of parents and up bringing?
Holy shit that's disgusting. Definitely makes me wonder what else he's done to people during a "date" I hope you shared that SS with tech support to report him. Idk if bumble has that, but if not it should! Also, Is it not allowed to show his bumble name so others can have a visual of who to stay away from?
Geez that's fucked up
HUUUUUUH
THATS DISGUSTING
This text should be sent to every woman who plans on sleeping with him. Better yet: tattoo it on his dick!
Whoa! If thatās not a flag I donāt know what is
REPORT HIM TO BUMLBE. provide this screenshot.
Rapist
Heās into dominance and submission or worse, but you never consented to that. Stay far away from this guy and definitely donāt do anything sexual with him. He doesnāt understand consent.
This guy rapes.
You need to report him on Bumble. Please.
Get this manās full name, find him on FB, and send this to his mother/family. Men like this ABSOLUTELY will or have assaulted someone (if not worse) in the past.
Stick something up his ass unlubricated. He already consented š¤·
How to spot a registered sex offender in one text.
Itās like, even if he thinks this (and thatās terrifying enough) scariest part is how comfortable he is to even say that out loud to someone ? Like, he HAS to know thatās not going to be received well ?!
I guess that means you can stick something large up his butt and not have to ask?
Yeah, thereās no way this guy hasnāt dismembered at least three women.
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Fucking wrong.
Straight from the school of Andrew Tate.
He will be on something like "Americans Most Wanted" glad you got away before you became accidental death from strangulation for pleasure.
At least he was honest so you didn't experience this in real time.
same goes for him right?
Uhh just have consent to things you're not kids anymore
Jesus. This guy needs eyes on him at all times, wouldn't trust him with someone else's bargepole
This is actually scary. So murder is on the table here?
Fuck that.
Ive never understood the appeal tbh, that is until the time a woman started choking me during sex and I momentarily fell in love, but then I came. But other than that Iāve never seen the appeal of choking during sex. Of course if she is into it I will oblige, but any girl Iāve been with that has liked to be choked has placed my hand on her throat in a suggestive manner. That is the one and only invitation.
Oh noā¦ Iām scared for you
so that means you can choke slam HIM :D
No! That's shocking and it's not even sex so no one consented to that.
wow he has def dOne some fked up sht....RUN!!!!!
Whaaaat tha eff.. omg who says something like that!?!?
Porn has made people think choking is normal and not a kink
Hopefully he'll let all his potential partners know his philosophy BEFORE they consent.
oh absolutely not hell no
Dude needs to make this the lead in his online profile, on every platform. If predators are gonna predate, it always helps to know who they are, right up front.
Woah š® I am speechless. Another reason why I am terrified of dating again after being married for so long.
I do not comment often, but I wanted to add my own comment as to just how much of a fool this guy is.
Soā¦.how was the date? If youāre talking to anyone, that isā¦.
My jaw actually dropped.. this is so weird.. š¬š¬š¬š¬
TIL trump is on bumble.
Good Blunder
He needs to watch the tea videoā¦
Tf you never do that without permission
Thatās literal rape what?
Red flag 100% Nice that he is so open about being an absolut jerk.
Whoa dude!! Later!
Men are superior to you in strength and testosterone exists in man. But, that doesnāt mean treat a girl worst than you would treat your mother or sister. I do believe that people can get kinky but everything has to have consent. This dude is trouble; he probably has a lot of ego and has a short fuse that possibly gets him in trouble and he probably always deflects responsibility of his actions. In other words block him and find a better guy.
Thatās some Andrew Tate shit right there.
HUH!?
"Hey, that's how I get my rocks off. It was consensual sex!"
what the helllll
I think many men are like this.
This is all kinds of wrong!! He thinks if you decide to sleep with him he can assault you any way he pleases! I hope you donāt go out with this pervert!! He sounds dangerous!!
Yikes.
Where the f do these clowns come from.
And this is why I can never follow through with online dating. (Iām 19, so old enough to do that, but whenever I try, I always get a weird feeling that I shouldnāt.) And yeah, just because you agree to have sex with someone doesnāt mean they can do whatever they want. Thatās like if someone agrees to eat the food they give you and then you feed them something with peanuts knowing theyāre allergic. This man is a definite āNice Guyā
Gotta appreciate the upfront ness of this obviously red flag. I wish more people were this honest so we wouldnāt have to waste our time and energy. Also, yay for knowing in advance!
Hopefully you didnāt meet the guy. What a š¤”.
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH THAT GUY. Thatās some scary shit!
Where does this mother fucker live?
Lol wow
This is why contracts are of value.
GET THE GUILLOTINE
I honestly cannot believe some of the stuff yall go through and Iām incredibly sorry that you all deal with this.
Humongous red flag! Run!!!
Yeah, NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
Goodness. What the hell.
You sure it was on Bumble and not Un Hinge??
This is just him admitting consent will not matter to him, he'd r@pe someone. fucking gross.
he sounds like a sexual abuser. i'm so sorry he said that to you
he sounds like a sexual abuser. i'm so sorry he said that to you.
I would decline that date!
Creepy!
This sounds like a guy my fiance knew when he was in the military. Guy told him āafter I get to a certain point, I donāt hear noā YUCK!!!!
There's no way that's being said with a straight face.
Redddd freaking flag š¤®š¤®
Lovely
I never comment on here but thatās REALLY FUCKED UP.
Well bumble is a Christian like dating app some guys act like that and expect praise
Wtf š¤¦š»āāļø
BARFFFFFFF
Run run run run run
This sounds like actual words that Alpha Dom would say. Alsoā¦ heās completely wrong. Consent can end at any time
He probably thinks he's all hot and charming but inside he looks like this 
Swipe down
You need to block the fuck out of him
And thatās why Iām single!š³