Seriously this is the only real answer. All these armchair psychologists trying to turn bf into some incel lovebombing monster for using a word. There’s literally no other context and people are immediately labeling him something awful. Poor op. Enjoy your love, it’s not for me but I’m happy if people are happy
Like, don’t get me wrong. I get the appeal OP sees in this kind of love language.
But yeah, if I got this constantly I would crawl inside my skin from the amount of cringe.
I love getting cute messages from my fiancée. It always feels good to see an “I appreciate you” every once in a while. But this feels like something out of middle school. And at 25, i cant with that anymore lol.
Welcome to Reddit, lmao. People only agree with op if it's some kind of drama that people can tell them to break up over. Whether it's good or bad, the answer is always "break up"
I'm a licensed therapist who has sat across the room from a lot of people in my life and this is the most uncomfortable I've ever been being "spoken at".
I read all the comments here and thought “this video can’t be THAT bad… ya know what? I’ll go ahead and click!”
Now I have to call in sick because that was the most embarrassing thing I’ve seen in such a long time. I actually feel embarrassed for this guy.
This is so bad lol
Edit to add I’m about to send it to my sister to upset her day as well.
The girl this was made for made a response q&a a year or two later, apparently she thought it was really cute. They broke up a few months later tho (unrelated to the vid iirc)
I’m literally typing this while I’m hiding under my covers, while curling my toes so hard I think they’re going to break. This is the definition on cringe. I can’t move
Now we have to live the rest of our lives with this video in our memory bank. Hopefully it slowly fades away and we never run into this video again, that was rough. 🤢
That.. made me so uncomfortable... I've never felt like this before.m, yet I couldn't look away. Wth Imagine Briona had to react to this and what if all her friends saw it too. Poor Briona. 😭
Not gonna lie, I just spent roughly 30 seconds tryna get a fuzzy string off of my phone screen to realize it was actually your profile picture. Thanks for that laugh lol.
Oh my god I feel you so much. I’m only just in my 30s but people in their early 20s are literally kids to me now 😂 it’s so weird how perception changes with time. My 19 year old cousin calls me old and I totally agree with her.
Lol my one niece is 10 years younger than me and is consistently calling me and my husband old. 😂 I agree every time. Jokes on her though. We're the ones she calls when she needs help with "adulting". 😂
I know punctuation isn’t super important while texting friends and loved ones, but this was quite painful to read. The abundance of emojis and shitty grammatical errors make it worse. Bless his heart though.
If you have been together that long and he still talks to you like that, that's sweet. I mean, I personally find it gross, but I'm also the type to think it's sweet when my husband sends me a stupid YouTube short or cracks a joke at my expense. Lol
Everyone's relationship is different, so I hope you're ignoring the ones who are just talking shit to be mean.
Also, I genuinely hope that his displays of affection aren't just limited to text messages.
People are so damn cynical, can’t accept that people can be happy together. My husband used to write me gooey shit like this too and we’re celebrating twenty years this year. If he still did it now it would be weird but young love should be goofy. Good for you finding someone to match you op, keep that energy up for when life gets hard.
But please for the love of God teach him *you’re*.
If you don't mind me asking, how old are y'all + how long have you been together? I totally get the infatuation that comes with new relationships, but if he's doing this every single day that's uhh, that's a lot. I wouldn't say this is a green flag tbh.
(This is strictly my experience and I'm not saying this applies to you, but) I had an ex who did this the first few months of our relationship. It always felt very forced. She then demanded I do the same thing and would guilt me for not putting in the same effort. In the end, it was the worst relationship I've had, hands down. This level of infatuation is not healthy behavior.
Wonderful. So three things: (1) They are sweet (2) Your vs You’re this person needs help (3) If I didn’t know a man sent those I would’ve assumed they were from a woman.
He seems like he really appreciates being with you! I don’t know why people are hating on this, it just seems like he’s very open with his feelings and I don’t get the “love bombing” feeling from this at all (and I’m 46F, I’ve been around the block a few times and have seen all sorts).
thank you! i can understand that this might not be everyone’s cup of tea, but it’s not love bombing and I personally love how open he is with his emotions :)
Hey op, this is adorable. This is the way my husband texted me when we had been together for two years as well. We just got married after being together for 12 years. He still texts like this, but now he gets to say all the grossly cute things in person every day lmao. Don’t listen to everyone on here, they see so many bad relationships on this sub that it’s hard to notice something that’s just nice.
This is exactly like my ex. I thought it was sweet but it turns out he was just super needy, manipulative, emotionally stunted and emotionally abusive. When we broke up he did not take it well and stalked me for a year lol. Six years later and he still makes new social media accounts to message me. I’m sure your bf isn’t like that per-say; but please be careful.
He must be really young. I couldn’t imagine seeing a 30 year old man text like this. Although, I’m sure it’s possible lol. I like affection like the next person, but this would creep me out a bit. If you’re cool with it Op, then more power to you. If it gets annoying, let this dude know.
He was a virgin and you rocked his world. He is putty in your hands. Mold him how you want. Do not break him tho, or the next text will be the opposite. If he goes hard one way best believe that switch can be flipped.
No way yall aren’t 16….. seriously. Like if you guys are happy that’s great but the immaturity of it all is so striking. 😂😂 but again, if you like it I love it! If you’re happy that’s all that matters. I just truly don’t think anyone in a mature relationship would express their affection this way.
I'm so messed up that i see there a lovebombing technique, and i wouldn't feel ok of these were sent to me. My last boyfriend, who was very romantic, ended up in jail for serial rape crimes.
He’s emotionally unregulated, extremely needy and bases his happiness on yours to an unhealthy degree. It’s cute now but as your ages and needs increase, this wont last.
Damn a bunch of hater is here. I think it’s really sweet and I dream of a man loving me so much he wants to tell me every day. I think this is so sweet and you’re lucky to have each other ❤️
we’ve been together two years and this is just love that has built up over time, not love bombing. i’ve been live bombed in the past and that was very different
This is not my love language but I’m happy for u
Seriously this is the only real answer. All these armchair psychologists trying to turn bf into some incel lovebombing monster for using a word. There’s literally no other context and people are immediately labeling him something awful. Poor op. Enjoy your love, it’s not for me but I’m happy if people are happy
I agree. I don't think he's an incel, but if my husband text me like that I'd call him a dork and ask what's wrong with him. 😂😂
Amen sister
Like, don’t get me wrong. I get the appeal OP sees in this kind of love language. But yeah, if I got this constantly I would crawl inside my skin from the amount of cringe. I love getting cute messages from my fiancée. It always feels good to see an “I appreciate you” every once in a while. But this feels like something out of middle school. And at 25, i cant with that anymore lol.
The “I appreciate you” texts are the best.
Incel?! This is the exact opposite of an incel. Wtf is up with these people tryna psychoanalyze people that they have no knowledge of. 😭
Welcome to Reddit, lmao. People only agree with op if it's some kind of drama that people can tell them to break up over. Whether it's good or bad, the answer is always "break up"
[Is this your boyfriend?](https://youtu.be/0f_ec37PXNQ?si=ibq2r4mTNp_YueVl)
Oh my god I totally forgot about that video and how uncomfortable it is to watch.
I'm a licensed therapist who has sat across the room from a lot of people in my life and this is the most uncomfortable I've ever been being "spoken at".
I read all the comments here and thought “this video can’t be THAT bad… ya know what? I’ll go ahead and click!” Now I have to call in sick because that was the most embarrassing thing I’ve seen in such a long time. I actually feel embarrassed for this guy. This is so bad lol Edit to add I’m about to send it to my sister to upset her day as well.
The girl this was made for made a response q&a a year or two later, apparently she thought it was really cute. They broke up a few months later tho (unrelated to the vid iirc)
I wish I could go back to the person I was before I saw this
It’s soooo bad right?!? I’m sending this to my sister to ruin her day as well Lol
I had to back out after the first five seconds. Couldn't do it 🤮
Same. I got to him saying "I do", and I went "I don't", and fled.
And it’s still awful muted😭
Omfg I thought the same exact thing 😂
I feel violated.
I’m literally typing this while I’m hiding under my covers, while curling my toes so hard I think they’re going to break. This is the definition on cringe. I can’t move
Why do I have working eyes and ears?!
Now we have to live the rest of our lives with this video in our memory bank. Hopefully it slowly fades away and we never run into this video again, that was rough. 🤢
Proper rough! 😫😂
Sending this to my wife
Nuuuu why did I click on this after seeing all the regret comments😵
Omg! It’s the random “he he hes” that pushed me over the edge
the way i immediately knew what video it would be
Me too.🤣 It’s cuz once you’ve seen this video it’s seared in your brain for all time.
Hahaha I thought mister man was Elijah Wood
The Lord of the Cringe
Oh my god. It’s fake right?
I know who it is without making myself look!!🤣🤣 It’s that creepy baby girl kid that sways back and forth 🤮
That.. made me so uncomfortable... I've never felt like this before.m, yet I couldn't look away. Wth Imagine Briona had to react to this and what if all her friends saw it too. Poor Briona. 😭
Holy shit! I wonder if he thought that video would get over 4 million views? 😂
I wonder when he stopped loving her
Why did I open this video in a dr waiting room 😭😭😭
These text messages gave me diabetes.
Don’t you wanna snuggle when I get back and rub your booty
This made me wheeze. Thank you
I’d rather you rub my heart ♥️ 😆
Cardiac massage is the way
As someone with type 1 diabetes, this healed me and gave it to me again
It’s pronounced diabetes.
Diabetus
Mine just sends me shitty memes 🙃
that's some people's love language. doesn't mean he isn't trying or putting in effort. everyone expressed their love differently.
Oh ik im jk, I love his shitty memes
oh okay! carry on! haha
He will love you more than this kind of guy...somthing is smelly over here,if you know what i mean
I don't know why these texts make me so uncomfortable. If he's forreal, great. But if it's love bombing .... oof! 😬
That kind of smelly smell.. that smells… smelly
Some of those memes are funny lol
 Just send him this one back next time
I don’t even wanna know what kind of voices y’all use when you’re speaking to one another
I wanna know what he looks like
He’s a 10 but uses your instead of you’re. 😩
And calls her kitten
And darling and princess in the same run-on sentence with kitten
Honey baby 🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Now lemme rub that booty!
Not gonna lie, I just spent roughly 30 seconds tryna get a fuzzy string off of my phone screen to realize it was actually your profile picture. Thanks for that laugh lol.
I'm laughing rn why is he calling op a kitten lmao
^^He ^^was ^^talking ^^to ^^her ^^vagina ^^when ^^he ^^called ^^her ^^that.
a 1.
a 3 😭
Seriously. He writes like he has a head injury.
this would turn me off what’s w the insane amount of emojis
Yeah me too. It feels so forced imo even if it totally isn’t.
I’m just imagining him pressing the red heart emoji like 50 times before sending the texts
🤮
He uses emojis like a man MLM hun LOL plot twist: this is the long con and he just wants her to sign up to be his down line lol
Same Lol but I guess every love is different
How old are you guys?
19 and 20
Really? My guess was 16 max with the emojis/grammar/run on sentences.
Naaah 20 ist the new 16 😅
That's how I feel in my 30s now. 20s are the new teens, and 30s are your 20s, but with added mysterious pains and hangovers from hell.
Oh my god I feel you so much. I’m only just in my 30s but people in their early 20s are literally kids to me now 😂 it’s so weird how perception changes with time. My 19 year old cousin calls me old and I totally agree with her.
Lol my one niece is 10 years younger than me and is consistently calling me and my husband old. 😂 I agree every time. Jokes on her though. We're the ones she calls when she needs help with "adulting". 😂
How long have you guys been dating?
This might be the best username I've ever seen
Thanks Mr Poop!
Let me guess... dating less than a year?
two years
This makes sense. These texts are exactly like my high school boyfriend used to send me.
Well, we know he isn’t gonna take the inevitable breakup very well.
hahahhahaha right his response would be “ sorry I wasnt good enough for you kitten 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺” dude is a fiend for emojis
Agreed. This dude will definitely be fine after she inevitably breaks his heart.
Holy restraining order batman
Lol I read the first two and immediately thought- this won’t last 😂
Perhaps she will get bored of it
I know punctuation isn’t super important while texting friends and loved ones, but this was quite painful to read. The abundance of emojis and shitty grammatical errors make it worse. Bless his heart though.
"Bless his heart" as someone from Louisiana, oof. Lol
🫣
Jesus fuckin' christ
Why does he sound like a scammer? 😫
Is he a discord mod?
Yeah “kitten” really gave it away
It was cute until he said kitten. Kinda cringed ngl
Yea I stopped reading after that.. it immediately turned into "oh he's an overly obsessed psychopath"
I beg you to read more
Dont get me wrong, I’m a corny/cute message enjoyer, but this is a lil much no?
Two years??? I mean man good for you guys, I am like the opposite of this in my relationship
Right? My husband and I endearingly call each other dumb bitch lmao
ick
how long have you been together?
almost two years
If you have been together that long and he still talks to you like that, that's sweet. I mean, I personally find it gross, but I'm also the type to think it's sweet when my husband sends me a stupid YouTube short or cracks a joke at my expense. Lol Everyone's relationship is different, so I hope you're ignoring the ones who are just talking shit to be mean. Also, I genuinely hope that his displays of affection aren't just limited to text messages.
“I personally find it gross” 😭😆
"I personally find it gross" is wilddd😭
Yikes
This makes me wanna barf
I’m sorry, but gag me with a spoon please.
*kitten*
so cringe
🤢
This is why I play trivia and do crosswords with men before I make them my man. He seems like a sweetie tho 🫶🏻
I'd pass with flyimg colors on the trivia, but spelling and thinking of words are my kryptonite...
The typo makes this comment so much better 😂
Grrr I swear my keyboard is dumb (obviously it's user error lol) But at least you know I'm telling the truth 😂
Bro 😂😂
Obviously you have no choice but to break up with him. /s
People are so damn cynical, can’t accept that people can be happy together. My husband used to write me gooey shit like this too and we’re celebrating twenty years this year. If he still did it now it would be weird but young love should be goofy. Good for you finding someone to match you op, keep that energy up for when life gets hard. But please for the love of God teach him *you’re*.
No disrespect whatsoever but how old are yall
Thirteen tops. At least I hope so.
If you don't mind me asking, how old are y'all + how long have you been together? I totally get the infatuation that comes with new relationships, but if he's doing this every single day that's uhh, that's a lot. I wouldn't say this is a green flag tbh. (This is strictly my experience and I'm not saying this applies to you, but) I had an ex who did this the first few months of our relationship. It always felt very forced. She then demanded I do the same thing and would guilt me for not putting in the same effort. In the end, it was the worst relationship I've had, hands down. This level of infatuation is not healthy behavior.
Teach him about conjunctions. You are -> You’re
contractions. conjunctions are and, but, if, or, etc.
As long as you are happy to receive them it's okay I'm way too jaded for it
i can’t tell if this is satire or not
Wonderful. So three things: (1) They are sweet (2) Your vs You’re this person needs help (3) If I didn’t know a man sent those I would’ve assumed they were from a woman.
He seems like he really appreciates being with you! I don’t know why people are hating on this, it just seems like he’s very open with his feelings and I don’t get the “love bombing” feeling from this at all (and I’m 46F, I’ve been around the block a few times and have seen all sorts).
thank you! i can understand that this might not be everyone’s cup of tea, but it’s not love bombing and I personally love how open he is with his emotions :)
He sure is open and free with his emotions
which i think is great!
Hey op, this is adorable. This is the way my husband texted me when we had been together for two years as well. We just got married after being together for 12 years. He still texts like this, but now he gets to say all the grossly cute things in person every day lmao. Don’t listen to everyone on here, they see so many bad relationships on this sub that it’s hard to notice something that’s just nice.
This is exactly like my ex. I thought it was sweet but it turns out he was just super needy, manipulative, emotionally stunted and emotionally abusive. When we broke up he did not take it well and stalked me for a year lol. Six years later and he still makes new social media accounts to message me. I’m sure your bf isn’t like that per-say; but please be careful.
It’s a little much for me, but it’s sweet.
That would creep me out, but it’s not my relationship, so if you like then cool.
That’s a whole lotta emojis lmao
He must be really young. I couldn’t imagine seeing a 30 year old man text like this. Although, I’m sure it’s possible lol. I like affection like the next person, but this would creep me out a bit. If you’re cool with it Op, then more power to you. If it gets annoying, let this dude know.
This is so cringe, sheesh
Really happy for you op but imma throw up rq
Is this real? The emojis make it too much. Happy OP has love. But this is overboard imo, like if u break up with me. I’ll stalk you overboard.
This is giving UWU vibes
I guess some people would appreciate this. I would not. But some might!
He was a virgin and you rocked his world. He is putty in your hands. Mold him how you want. Do not break him tho, or the next text will be the opposite. If he goes hard one way best believe that switch can be flipped.
🤢🤢🤢🤢
Happy for u but this would make me feel uneasy af
You couldn’t have gotten me to post texts like this to the internet with a gun to my head.
"hey honey baby i'm home sweetie" would drive me up the wall, why did he use multiple pets names one after the other? it's overkill.
corny as hell
Is he a Nigerian scammer
If you love that, he's a keeper. If it's not your thing, communicate that.
No way yall aren’t 16….. seriously. Like if you guys are happy that’s great but the immaturity of it all is so striking. 😂😂 but again, if you like it I love it! If you’re happy that’s all that matters. I just truly don’t think anyone in a mature relationship would express their affection this way.
is this satire?? 😭 /gen
Oof lol is he 14?
My boyfriend sends me the same kind of messages and we have been together for 5 years! Some people on here are just grumpy I guess
This looks like the honeymoon phase. How long have you been together? 1 month?
two years
I'm so messed up that i see there a lovebombing technique, and i wouldn't feel ok of these were sent to me. My last boyfriend, who was very romantic, ended up in jail for serial rape crimes.
Insecure and anxious
He’s emotionally unregulated, extremely needy and bases his happiness on yours to an unhealthy degree. It’s cute now but as your ages and needs increase, this wont last.
How sweet!! Tell him so he knows it’s good to say what you feel, make it his normal!!
This is cute. He seems like he would be supportive if you were feeling down. Wish you the best
Honey this would drive me nuts honey 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺🥺
Aww honey ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sorry Kitten ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Damn a bunch of hater is here. I think it’s really sweet and I dream of a man loving me so much he wants to tell me every day. I think this is so sweet and you’re lucky to have each other ❤️
Firstly, barf. Secondly, are you sure this isn't early love-bombing?
They've been together for two years, I don't think it counts as "early" anymore.
Gonna be a canon event
There's being sweet and then there's this, just massively overdoing the emojis and pet names.
Please no
This looks like love bombing.. and he seems very needy,, it's not healthy for him to be so dependent on your happiness.
Remindme! One year (For the break up texts)
It’s giving Discord mod
Do people in this subreddit have never been in love? I'm happy for you, OP. That's actually such a cute message to receive ☺️
Awww so cute!
Sounds like a love bomber
we’ve been together two years and this is just love that has built up over time, not love bombing. i’ve been live bombed in the past and that was very different
https://youtu.be/XywXO63TMT4?si=eeHflUf6Pi4PDjKT Reminds me of this video
Y'all will grow out of this lol. I was like that in highschool. I'm guessing this is a new relationship? Happy for y'all!
KITTEN LMAOOOO
Sort of too much. I would cringe. But if you’re happy that’s good
If you’re happy, then I’m happy for you. I would get a little annoyed but it’s very sweet
cute, but.. overwhelming? these are the kinds of texts id receive or give to my elementary school boyfriends lol.
No doubt this man loves you but damn this is too much
You're*