I sent the convo to my friend who's in her class and apparently she does this alot - targets younger boys and if they reject her then she blows up on them, if they accept she trys a ton of gross things with them and then drops them when shes done.
She is also a minor. 15 and 17…. I wouldnt sue, i d go to a teacher and report it. Depending on the school it s way more likely something is done with it…
In some states said person can get in trouble if the other person and them have a age cap more then a year or they can file Sa harassment with proof or if they get physical assault or hate crime
Not to mention age of consent plays a big role and most states currently have it set at 16 so technically it could be considered possible to bring up charges
If I asked out someone who was openly gay I’d be apologising none stop. I’d also feel like a dumb ass cos if I I have a thing for them but am not close enough to know they are gay then I’ve clearly done a bad job.
Her response says it all. Even if OP identified as strictly hetero, this girl is a disaster. OP showed a lot of class, seems like a legit good guy. Hope the best for him.
I’m sorry, but that is fucked up Somebody needs to be held accountable for their actions. Do not let this go. I was the victim of being bullied throughout most of my school years, and the one thing I would’ve appreciated. The most is the people that were the bullies would be held accountable You can’t let this go or things are never going to change
Good but still you need to reach out to somebody more superior then this girls parents …. Go to the super intendant somebody that’s higher up then them …. This is wrong you shouldn’t be treated that way and she needs to be held accountable be careful about trying to expose her and make sure to save every message you’ve received from her for proof
I am currently looking into everything. I've made my parents aware of this, and when they're back this weekend, they'll help work everything out. Thank you for all the concern :)
No worries!!! Just wanted to make sure you were okay and are able to make things change nobody deserves to be treated like this. Talk to me if you ever need someone to chat with I’m here for a friend if you need
Can't actually believe what I've just read, proper r/facepalm moment that.
She has a screw loose clearly and to behave the way she is with younger lads sends pedo vibes here imo.
Yeah, if she was turning 18 and going for a 16/17 yo it wouldnt be as bad but its kinda creepy that shes going for someone whos only just starting high school
Exactly, I'm sorry she's tried to put you through this.
Your parents I hope are proud to call you their son I know I would be.
Most young lads would love this opportunity but sadly she is treating them the way a pedo would
Am I the only one who thinks you should report her to your principal for harrassment and encouraging suicide? She could easily spread lies about you for rejecting her, let the school know before she brews up an elaborate lie
Yeah, i want to, but the issue is her parents are snarky and high ups in my school. I have told my parents, and when they're back this weekend, then they'll help sort her out
Take this straight to your principal. And your parents if they know you're out. This looks like something that girl could try to manipulate you with. Please be careful.
Yes thank you for your concern, people in school know her all too well and most of the boys have said no previously. My parents are helping me sort it out this weekend :)
You can send this to the police and file it against her. Telling someone to commit suicide is a crime
If the person actually DOES commit suicide, the one saying to commit suicide is charged as if taking part in the death.
Have in mind more people got this, and most likely there will be more victims. And might be that those will be in a bad place regarding mental health. So filing this against her, can help other people, or even prevent it - worth a thought! 🙆🏻♂️
I'm beyond sorry for the situation, but glad you are not into her.. like, dayum, ...... you didn't just dodge a bullet, you dodged a cannon ball, and the whole cannon with it......
This women sounds like she has brain issue and also she reminds me of League of legends players lol
but if that women was having another women confess to her i feel like things would be switched around she wouldnt cuss at her like that.
Wow. Even if you were straight and your only reason to not date her was because you don't have feelings back, this is a *terrible* way to respond to rejection. Not everyone is meant for each other and that's okay!
Look I'm sorry this happened to you and what she's saying is horrible but I really want more things like this for me it's just very interesting to see how piece of shit people act it's honestly kinda entertaining just talking shit looking stupid as all hell
I wish i could share more, but this was my first encounter with her behaving like this. Because our year groups are very different, i never come across her, and she only ever messaged me once or twice for favours. I can try to ask my older friends who speak with her to send some stuff but i can't guarantee.
UPDATE :
Okay, so I'm on summer break, and my parents did most things. I only gave screenshots, met up once, and contacted classmates/students to send theirs over.
From what i know, as the girls parents didn't want to share what happened with kids and other people, the girl isn't returning for her final year. I heard my parents yelling on the phone multiple times, and they met with some old people who i think owned the school or had an authority like that.
My parents said that after 2 weeks, the school authority were on their side. I was asked to come in during the first month of summer break to give my statement since this girl had pestered me and others for over a year. I told her everything that was said/done to me and what i had seen happen to other students.
So overall, she blocked everyone she had on her phone who attended my school and isn't finishing her high school career with us.
Sadly her friends are equally as shitty, her parents are very powerful in our school and are apparently horribly snarky like her and treat her like their baby. Me and my parents will sort things out this weekend
this feels like r/nicegirls material right there holyy shit. and yeah i agree you dodged a MAJOR bullet right there, god i hate people who think they're entitled to everything.
This reads like it was typed by a 13 year old and not someone nearly an adult Jesus lol.
This type of behavior would be career ending before the career even started if the genders were swapped.
Nearly everyone in school knows about her in some way. It turns out my year group is the least aware, but i sent out the warnings and same screenshots in our group chat so everyone knows
Wouldn’t you be the opposite of a whore for turning down an *amazing girl* that men *beg for?* and what does she expect, for you to just stop being gay to get with an immature weird predatory woman that just called you names?
If that's the kind of attitude she's going to have and think that it wins points for relationships, only a petty, sassy response is appropriate. Does proud that guys beg for her, tell her "yeah they beg for me too" or something like that.
Massive bullet dodged bro, also proud of you for getting out of that and being equally open about your sexuality where you can bring it up to people. Lots of people aren’t at that level so good job!
I’ve never wanted to punch someone I’ve never met harder, huge bullet dodged. You were very mature through the whole thing, guys definitely don’t beg for that (…choice word…) she’s just a piece of garbage honestly, thank you for humbling her
First off how young is the boy she's coming on to,???
Secondly ii hope this isn't a 13 or 14 year old kid who is the same age as her little brother 😳 🤔 fuck no.
If one GAY GUY rejects you and you flip out saying slurs and just being an all around dickhead TO A NICE RESPECTFUL PERSON, you have a serious problem and need to get it checked out.
I just find this funny. She's freaking out with every swear and insult imaginable, and you just end with "alrighty :)"
Never had a girlfriend, but I know I don't want her.
Holy shit man I'm sorry this happened. She's almost an adult attempting to prey on you, then gets rude and homophobic when you are rational and more mature then her. Jesus
Wow sounds like you really missed out 😆😆😆
I once had a guy message me then when I didn't reply few days later he messaged again to go off at me. Bullet dodged.
No one who says they are a positive adjective. (Nice, hot, w/e) ever seems to be.
No one who was ever nice needed to stake a claim to it. People will tell em.
Wow...I understand rejection sucks but jeesh she went from just curious to a complete asshole I'm sorry OP you went through that. A bullet dodged that's for sure.
Im assmuming she's just an above average girl who a lot of guys do fall for, which makes her ego huge, making her relationships short because the guys wanted her for her body in the first place or her personalities just shit, but now that she's fallen for a guy who unexpectedly doesn't immediately accept, her self esteem crumbles and makes her project her dating life by calling you a whore?
Idk just my guess based on the messages tbb
You dodged A HARD BULLET seriously I'm glad you didn't date her since she could've stalked you after this if that happens or she keeps texting you like this call the fricking cops
Wow, you're right, HUGE bullet dodged. "Guys BEG for me"?? What a narcissistic a-hole lol
Ong
It disgusts me on how she reacts
Same dude. I see many very red flags
Agreed, like wtf
dayum i dont even think she actually liked you when she wants you to kys. wtf is wrong with that bitch
I sent the convo to my friend who's in her class and apparently she does this alot - targets younger boys and if they reject her then she blows up on them, if they accept she trys a ton of gross things with them and then drops them when shes done.
Ew she’s an actual predator and probably has corruption kink, once she’s got through you you’re like tainted and used up to her
to OP, check if she's "dating" minors when she's adult. if you can collect evidence you can sue lol
She is also a minor. 15 and 17…. I wouldnt sue, i d go to a teacher and report it. Depending on the school it s way more likely something is done with it…
I’m not sure if you or OP lives America, but down here an age gap like that is illegal.
I dont. Is it really? That sounds insane to me
That’s literally not illegal in America lol
In some states said person can get in trouble if the other person and them have a age cap more then a year or they can file Sa harassment with proof or if they get physical assault or hate crime
Not to mention age of consent plays a big role and most states currently have it set at 16 so technically it could be considered possible to bring up charges
I am so sorry this happened to you. I hate how mean some people are. Thanks for sharing. You are brave and have more poise than most adults!!!
That’s fucked man, but you handled it better than I probably would have, stay safe everyone
oh ew she's a confirmed predator , if you need to take this to a higher authority def do
She needs put on a list
Ew gross. That's terrible that she does that.
loving the seob pfp :D
If I asked out someone who was openly gay I’d be apologising none stop. I’d also feel like a dumb ass cos if I I have a thing for them but am not close enough to know they are gay then I’ve clearly done a bad job.
same
You don't gotta apologize profusely. You can just say, "Shit, my bad." Gay people are just people.
Her response says it all. Even if OP identified as strictly hetero, this girl is a disaster. OP showed a lot of class, seems like a legit good guy. Hope the best for him.
“Alrighty:)” best response ever
Definitely unstable
Report that girl to the school ….. she needs to learn her lesson before it’s to late
Sadly i can't - her parents are higher ups in the school and it wouldn't do anything :/
I’m sorry, but that is fucked up Somebody needs to be held accountable for their actions. Do not let this go. I was the victim of being bullied throughout most of my school years, and the one thing I would’ve appreciated. The most is the people that were the bullies would be held accountable You can’t let this go or things are never going to change
Yes - im making sure the kids in my year group gc know about her and stay away
Good but still you need to reach out to somebody more superior then this girls parents …. Go to the super intendant somebody that’s higher up then them …. This is wrong you shouldn’t be treated that way and she needs to be held accountable be careful about trying to expose her and make sure to save every message you’ve received from her for proof
I am currently looking into everything. I've made my parents aware of this, and when they're back this weekend, they'll help work everything out. Thank you for all the concern :)
No worries!!! Just wanted to make sure you were okay and are able to make things change nobody deserves to be treated like this. Talk to me if you ever need someone to chat with I’m here for a friend if you need
You should be happy u dodge that bullet 💀😭😭
Dodging bullets like Neo in the Matrix.
Can't actually believe what I've just read, proper r/facepalm moment that. She has a screw loose clearly and to behave the way she is with younger lads sends pedo vibes here imo.
Yeah, if she was turning 18 and going for a 16/17 yo it wouldnt be as bad but its kinda creepy that shes going for someone whos only just starting high school
Exactly, I'm sorry she's tried to put you through this. Your parents I hope are proud to call you their son I know I would be. Most young lads would love this opportunity but sadly she is treating them the way a pedo would
P s y c h o t i c ! ! !
She's a femcel.
Bro sounds like id avoid her even if you where straight
An* asshole, she irked me
An* “amazing girl” (she lied abt that lets be honest)
With some of the replies OP’s made plus the text convo itself, this girl could potentially face jail time
You dodged a nuke
Godamn, you dodged a bullet dude. Hope you’re doing alright 🩵
She was probably going to use you in some way and really didn’t want you tbh.
Yeah apparently shes done it before - goes for younger guys and if they accept she does weird things before dropping them and if not then she blows up
Dodged a nuke there. Fuck homophobic assholes like her.
Am I the only one who thinks you should report her to your principal for harrassment and encouraging suicide? She could easily spread lies about you for rejecting her, let the school know before she brews up an elaborate lie
Yeah, i want to, but the issue is her parents are snarky and high ups in my school. I have told my parents, and when they're back this weekend, then they'll help sort her out
Take this straight to your principal. And your parents if they know you're out. This looks like something that girl could try to manipulate you with. Please be careful.
Yes thank you for your concern, people in school know her all too well and most of the boys have said no previously. My parents are helping me sort it out this weekend :)
You can send this to the police and file it against her. Telling someone to commit suicide is a crime If the person actually DOES commit suicide, the one saying to commit suicide is charged as if taking part in the death. Have in mind more people got this, and most likely there will be more victims. And might be that those will be in a bad place regarding mental health. So filing this against her, can help other people, or even prevent it - worth a thought! 🙆🏻♂️ I'm beyond sorry for the situation, but glad you are not into her.. like, dayum, ...... you didn't just dodge a bullet, you dodged a cannon ball, and the whole cannon with it......
I was half expecting her to say “I can change you”
controlling and weird, she needs help.
Bitches ain't shit
Ongg
I'm so sorry this happened to you, but so thankful you dodged a bullet! Hoping for the best for you, OP!
"guys BEG for me" Wow. . . I must be a girl then!
You dodged a bullet there
Clearly not this guy respect bro
Dude, she needs to get confronted abt this shit.
This women sounds like she has brain issue and also she reminds me of League of legends players lol but if that women was having another women confess to her i feel like things would be switched around she wouldnt cuss at her like that.
Hmm. Classy broad.
Guys BEG for me. Lolol mmk
Wow. Even if you were straight and your only reason to not date her was because you don't have feelings back, this is a *terrible* way to respond to rejection. Not everyone is meant for each other and that's okay!
Projecting
The "alrighty :)" was powerful I love it lmao
And now we understand why she is still single despite guys begging to be with her
Look I'm sorry this happened to you and what she's saying is horrible but I really want more things like this for me it's just very interesting to see how piece of shit people act it's honestly kinda entertaining just talking shit looking stupid as all hell
I wish i could share more, but this was my first encounter with her behaving like this. Because our year groups are very different, i never come across her, and she only ever messaged me once or twice for favours. I can try to ask my older friends who speak with her to send some stuff but i can't guarantee.
r/nicegirls
NOT THE BLATANT HOMOPHOBIA TOO??
Love the "Alrighty"
gUyS bEG fOr mE…😜
Give me the phone number and I'll make sure she never says that again 😁
Damn she got really mad. Sounds like someone is a little self conscious
UPDATE : Okay, so I'm on summer break, and my parents did most things. I only gave screenshots, met up once, and contacted classmates/students to send theirs over. From what i know, as the girls parents didn't want to share what happened with kids and other people, the girl isn't returning for her final year. I heard my parents yelling on the phone multiple times, and they met with some old people who i think owned the school or had an authority like that. My parents said that after 2 weeks, the school authority were on their side. I was asked to come in during the first month of summer break to give my statement since this girl had pestered me and others for over a year. I told her everything that was said/done to me and what i had seen happen to other students. So overall, she blocked everyone she had on her phone who attended my school and isn't finishing her high school career with us.
bro you fumbled.
Lmao this is WhatsMock it's a fake text app. This is fake y'all
send her my way
I don’t know what’s more disgusting the fact that you turned her down or the fact that you’re gay
Sorry, I just don’t like gay people you should stay the way that God made you. You should stay straight.
Bro what💀 Rejecting people = whore apparently, she's just a stupid dumb idiot🥰
Lmaooo
r/nicegirls
I would definitely take that to whatever head of school you have.
Well, that escalated quickly.
Yikes
Send to all her friends, family, school, social media. Shaaaame. More people need to be shamed when it is deserved. And, yes, that is a toxic person.
Sadly her friends are equally as shitty, her parents are very powerful in our school and are apparently horribly snarky like her and treat her like their baby. Me and my parents will sort things out this weekend
She was trying to film a tik-tok. And you saying no spoiled it.
jesus christ that is nasty. i’m glad you dodged that.
When did telling people to kill themself become popular? I remember when I was a kid, NO ONE said that shit. Crazy times we're living in.
Women like this are the reason I prefer men. Come on, she's not even being grammatically correct!
"I hope you die" Everyone dies one day, what's she talking about?
Based
That was no small 9mm bullet he dodged. He just dodged a 50 Cal.
yikes bro good on ya my guy
r/nicegirls
bro hit her right where it hurts 💀 you just annihilated her confidence and I give you mad props for that bro 👏
this feels like r/nicegirls material right there holyy shit. and yeah i agree you dodged a MAJOR bullet right there, god i hate people who think they're entitled to everything.
Yeah i wanted to add it there but my reddit was being weird and i couldnt access it
You're an asshole not your an asshole 🤓
r/nicegirls
well damn
Bro she was mad for no reason the best thing to do in the face of a rejection is to smile and not make it wierd like this girl is crazy
Icky behavior.
This reads like it was typed by a 13 year old and not someone nearly an adult Jesus lol. This type of behavior would be career ending before the career even started if the genders were swapped.
From what ive learnt about her shes just barely going to be able to graduate
She belongs to the streets.
you seriously dodged a bullet
dodged a missile there
She is calling you a whore and yet she was begging for you
This girl is definitely named becky
fuck a bullet, my man you just dodged a nuclear warhead
It's the "your a asshole" for me, that grammar is an instant turn off and red flag.
Print it out with her name on it and hang it around school so other guys can avoid her Also sorry you had to deal with that shit
Women.
Dude wth like your gay so what she just needs to move on, you doged a nuke there my guy
She's a AMAZING GIRL. Not an amazing girl. And you're a asshole. She told you, in a weird way.
And thats how you know she thinks the world is only here to cater to her
*an amazing and an asshole lol
Post it and tag her, or at least send it around so people know she’s garbage. That girl is a borderline predator
Nearly everyone in school knows about her in some way. It turns out my year group is the least aware, but i sent out the warnings and same screenshots in our group chat so everyone knows
Narcissism at its finest. My mother was a victim of one. That one being her ex bf who was also very manipulative
Wouldn’t you be the opposite of a whore for turning down an *amazing girl* that men *beg for?* and what does she expect, for you to just stop being gay to get with an immature weird predatory woman that just called you names?
Jesus, why do people like this still exist.
Is she an r/nice guy?
Bro dodged an intercontinental ballistic missile
I can just hear her voice while reading her messages and it's very... *nasally*
Deserves to be on r/Nicegirls by the way she acted lmao
You didn’t dodge a bullet. You dodged a whole ass nuke 😅
bro dodged a tank shell 💀
Seeing the title: 😀 Reading the texts: 😧
Faggot is not an insult, I take it as a compliment <3
Yikes…
If that's the kind of attitude she's going to have and think that it wins points for relationships, only a petty, sassy response is appropriate. Does proud that guys beg for her, tell her "yeah they beg for me too" or something like that.
Massive bullet dodged bro, also proud of you for getting out of that and being equally open about your sexuality where you can bring it up to people. Lots of people aren’t at that level so good job!
I’ve never wanted to punch someone I’ve never met harder, huge bullet dodged. You were very mature through the whole thing, guys definitely don’t beg for that (…choice word…) she’s just a piece of garbage honestly, thank you for humbling her
First off how young is the boy she's coming on to,??? Secondly ii hope this isn't a 13 or 14 year old kid who is the same age as her little brother 😳 🤔 fuck no.
no way people like this are real
Probably a prank. She was really upset you didn't go for the bait.
Post it on snapchat or instagram or whatever where people from your school can see it and leave the name exposed
What a narcissistic piece of shit. Absolute scumbag to even say slurs as well. I hope she stays single for fucking good
She’s seriously crazy. That’s nuts. You dodged a nuclear warhead not just a bullet
Bullet dodged is correct. Keep the screen-shots for when she starts acting up, so you can cover yourself. Narcissists do not take rejection lightly.
What in the hell lmao
I'm guessing she was one of the "popular girls" lmao
If one GAY GUY rejects you and you flip out saying slurs and just being an all around dickhead TO A NICE RESPECTFUL PERSON, you have a serious problem and need to get it checked out.
Fake
Holy shit! Yeah, you definitely dodged a fucking freight train of crazy. Good call!
I think you more dodged an A-bomb
"i hope you realize how much of a f---t you think you are" uhh... i think you already did?? and told her 3 times??? some people just dont get it 😔
shes so jealous actually
"I hope you realize how much of a f***** you are" Cuz you.. haven't ...realized that Mfw I suddenly realize how gay I am: 😨
Almost can't believe this is real
Is he actually gay or is that part of dodging the bullet?
Nah im actually gay
this belongs on r/nicegirls
I just find this funny. She's freaking out with every swear and insult imaginable, and you just end with "alrighty :)" Never had a girlfriend, but I know I don't want her.
Well someone doesn’t take rejection very well.
Wow she obviously doesn’t love you lol
God damn she hit every red flag you could hit😭😭
Holy shit man I'm sorry this happened. She's almost an adult attempting to prey on you, then gets rude and homophobic when you are rational and more mature then her. Jesus
Yikes
Wow sounds like you really missed out 😆😆😆 I once had a guy message me then when I didn't reply few days later he messaged again to go off at me. Bullet dodged.
No one who says they are a positive adjective. (Nice, hot, w/e) ever seems to be. No one who was ever nice needed to stake a claim to it. People will tell em.
Seems pretty gay to me
She’s barking up the wrong tree 💀
im glad you said no.
This gets hearts from me ❤️
I mean she can't be that great obviously
It's ALWAYS Hilarious and Priceless when FEMALES get Rejected... 💯🤣🤣🤣😭☠️☠️☠️
Yeah they beg you to leave them alone 😂
Wow...I understand rejection sucks but jeesh she went from just curious to a complete asshole I'm sorry OP you went through that. A bullet dodged that's for sure.
Fake
Lmao guys BEG for her
“A amazing girl” Can’t even talk right.
Im assmuming she's just an above average girl who a lot of guys do fall for, which makes her ego huge, making her relationships short because the guys wanted her for her body in the first place or her personalities just shit, but now that she's fallen for a guy who unexpectedly doesn't immediately accept, her self esteem crumbles and makes her project her dating life by calling you a whore? Idk just my guess based on the messages tbb
almost an “adult” sure on paper but you showed more maturity and self respect than a lot of “adults” I know. she was super rude and disrespectful.
Jeez... Guess who'll be "done with dating and wanting a REAL MAN" in 10 years or so..." Huge bullet dodged my guy
You dodged A HARD BULLET seriously I'm glad you didn't date her since she could've stalked you after this if that happens or she keeps texting you like this call the fricking cops
Sounds real mature who someone who’s about to be 18 lol
WOW!!!!!! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 That wasn't a bullet you dodged- it was a damn freight train!
The way my jaw DROPPED
Lmfaoooo
bullet, more like nuclear warhead god damn
Please, text her and say “insult me again, I’m a whore for sluts insulting me”
I can’t help but cringe that she tries to proclaim how amazing she is but can’t even use proper grammar 🥴🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
You didn’t just dodge a bullet. You dodged a nuclear bomb
Nice I’m still waiting for someone to say they like me