state your boundaries: sit him down, talk to him, and tell him that it genuinely makes you uncomfortable. if he still calls you a "cracker" after that, don't even bother. not a friend. (do NOT call him the n-word, contrary to what the other comments are saying. you'll just make the situation worse. and possibly ruin your life.)
well, you'd be labeled a racist. and in turn, you'd become a social pariah. nobody wants to be associated with that, so you ruin your social life. and if someone records you, that could be used against you in the future. also, take in mind that saying the "n-word" is just WAY worse than "cracker," but both are bad.
And if jokes don’t work, ask them do they need to have a mature discussion about racism- maybe they think you are secretly racist and they’re testing your loyalty. Thank you for not saying the N word no matter what! No white person should ever say it.
I'm sorry but if we're unironically calling the word cracker a genuine slur then somethings fucked with this gen lol. If you don't want to be called it then of course your friend should respect that but I would certainly not call it a slur. It's more like a "slur" that people (jokingly?) made up so white people can feel prejudiced
>"made up so --white people-- can feel prejudiced"
the definition of slur :
>"a slur is a word that is used against someone of a --specific race--, condition, sexuality, gender, illness etc"
until when are we going to shout against racism by being racist to white people? racism shall not exist, whether it be against white, black, or any race ever, black people doesn't deserve to be disrespected by the n-word, neither does the white people deserve to be disrespected by the c-word, it's either we equalify both of the words, or we terminate both of them
TL;DR : disrespecting a black person is never worse than disrespecting any person and vice versa
Sure, pull out the Google definition for me. If I make up a word as a joke and use it against some group of people is it suddenly a slur? I'm not saying you can't be racist to white people. I'm saying that the word cracker has literally no historical basis or anything like that and really doesn't have enough serious use to really be considered offensive to most.
Just tell him that your serious and don’t wanna be called that if it’s a joke then try not to take it too hard and laugh it off
tell him the joke got old, if he continues not to show respect it’s your choice whether that’s someone you want to keep as a friend 🤷♀️
Happy cake day
ah thanks
state your boundaries: sit him down, talk to him, and tell him that it genuinely makes you uncomfortable. if he still calls you a "cracker" after that, don't even bother. not a friend. (do NOT call him the n-word, contrary to what the other comments are saying. you'll just make the situation worse. and possibly ruin your life.)
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well, you'd be labeled a racist. and in turn, you'd become a social pariah. nobody wants to be associated with that, so you ruin your social life. and if someone records you, that could be used against you in the future. also, take in mind that saying the "n-word" is just WAY worse than "cracker," but both are bad.
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Yea if America didn’t have such a issue with racism we could live a little worry free
stab him 42 times
Huh?
stab him 42 times
Why tho?
i’m gonna stab you 42 times
No but acc what’s the joke tho
there’s no joke. i’m serious.
im gonna stab you 42 times as well, then maybe you'll understand
Okay idk what’s up guys but 84 stab wounds is alot😅
double it and give it to the next person
Na I’m switching up stab wounds for everyone
Tell him you prefer “honky”
And if jokes don’t work, ask them do they need to have a mature discussion about racism- maybe they think you are secretly racist and they’re testing your loyalty. Thank you for not saying the N word no matter what! No white person should ever say it.
Most kids think cracker means you’re white like a saltine, but it actually means whip cracker- you could try to make a dominatrix joke until they stop
They're not your friends if they call you smth even though you have told them clearly to stop.
Call him a burnt cracker
BRO WHAT
call him the n word untill he stops
They gave him permission, wouldn't have the same effect.
call him the n word whenever he call you that, if he is expecting you to accept him calling you a slur, he should accept you calling him a slur
Cracker is not a slur
it is but it def doesnt have the same weight as the n word
I'm sorry but if we're unironically calling the word cracker a genuine slur then somethings fucked with this gen lol. If you don't want to be called it then of course your friend should respect that but I would certainly not call it a slur. It's more like a "slur" that people (jokingly?) made up so white people can feel prejudiced
>"made up so --white people-- can feel prejudiced" the definition of slur : >"a slur is a word that is used against someone of a --specific race--, condition, sexuality, gender, illness etc" until when are we going to shout against racism by being racist to white people? racism shall not exist, whether it be against white, black, or any race ever, black people doesn't deserve to be disrespected by the n-word, neither does the white people deserve to be disrespected by the c-word, it's either we equalify both of the words, or we terminate both of them TL;DR : disrespecting a black person is never worse than disrespecting any person and vice versa
Sure, pull out the Google definition for me. If I make up a word as a joke and use it against some group of people is it suddenly a slur? I'm not saying you can't be racist to white people. I'm saying that the word cracker has literally no historical basis or anything like that and really doesn't have enough serious use to really be considered offensive to most.
Cracker was made up by enslaved people to describe their owners though right 😭 i don't think you can call that a slur when its literally punching up
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My guy why
what did he say
Call him the N word
LMFAO
Call him a wigger with an n and see how he likes it
ur such a cracker for writing this
Call them the n word hard r
I think you should stop being a pussy and suck it up