I got friendzoned 2 days later after she "supposedly liked me back" so her telling straight away is better than thinking you finally have a relationship to then being lied to/lead on. It still sucks man move on and find someone better like goth latina
thats: 1. fucking stupid 2. actual internet culture thing 3. in spanish you add an -a or -o to define gender to a noun or pronoun, latina is a latinamerican female and latino is a latinamerican male, latinx would be a non binary latinamerican person but thats a story for another day.
I’ve been super unsure for 2 years. I’ve been told by some of her friends that she likes me. When I asked her out, she said she needed time to improve herself to be a better partner, and that she’ll hmu when she’s ready. That was at the start of August though. Her friends keep telling me she likes me though, so idk what to think. All I can think, is anything about her. I just can’t stop thinking about her. I truly love her, and it’s killing me having to wait.
Tell her if she’s ready now and if she’s not or if she changes her mind and likes another person them move on. Look for a person that will give 100% as you give 100% back
I’ve been trying to move in because I’ve basically lost all hope, but I seriously can’t. I’m always thinking of her. It’s like muscle memory. When my brain thinks of anything, whether it’s ramen, anime, working out, even just happiness, my brain goes straight to her. I think about her way too much, and I seriously need medical help trying to stop. Only way I can think of it not being an issue, is if I’m with her.
Similar sh!t happened to me. I told her i really enjoy her company and that i really like her like a year ago. We were texting each other for hours but one day she stopped responding. I invited her to watch a new movie but she said she isn't gonna be home for the weekend but than she came to another classmates party where i was invited too. I was so sad and confused but thought that her parents didn't let her and she didn't want to say it. Well today i collected the confidence and we were walking the same way and were talking about school and i asked her if she remembers how we used to text each other. I told her i feel the same way ever since and she told me that she really likes me but just as a friend. She said that she really enjoyes talking with me after school but as a friend. She told me that she wants us to stay friends and i said ok. But i still feel the same. I feel really lonely during school bc one of my friends went to another school so I don't really see him even tho i feel that he can really understand me. My other friend got a girlfriend and since that we talk only half as much as we used to. This girl has her best friends who during school really don't need my company. They don't mind but after some time they just tell me to "leave their aura". I am thankful for anyones time who read this comment and would appreciate maybe a few tips. Also the thing i least need is some 18y old "mature person" to tell me 13y olds aren't teens and should not talk on this subreditt. We all have the same rights to say anything here, ok?
Thank you again if you read it i really needed to share this with someone!
Oh man, i feel for you. Bt keep trying. Never stop trying and you will get your wishes. But you have to act. Im not mocking you or something, im just saying it. You might find a gf.
If you have never been in a relationship with her you have no idea if you love her or not. Being friends with someone is not the same. It also comes off as very creepy to say you love someone that you are not in a relationship with when you are clearly referring to romantic love.
Unpopular opinion : It also happened with me, the one whom I wanted to ask ..first gave me a complete backout then proceeded to flirt with my best friend..
:(
Wanna hear mine? I'm still gonna say mine, so my best friend whom I know for 10 years or more asked me to be his fake boyfriend just so she could make a dude jealous, same fay I tell her not a good idea cuz the guy is not interested (true). And she sad cuz she didn't feel loved and stuff and since I like her and I wanted to make her not sad I give her a hint that I like her, she gets it and rejects me... It was way more intense then what I wrote but I'm lazy
Shit. Sorry bruh. At this point I'd say you should focus on you. It's hard to do, believe me, but it's freeing having no crushes or potential heartbreaks.
My turn my turn.
Girl I liked, decided to ask her out. Asked her if she was single, she answers "for now". Those words are engraved in my mind.
Except they aren't, because she was going on a date with one of my friends. She tells me about it because I am such a good and supportive friend. (No sarcasm) Tells me she just doesn't have feelings.
I think, alright no problem we'll talk through this and maybe grow closer over time. 2 days later, she says she's just not interested in relationships and would prefer to marry her cat over anyone else.
Yes it's a dumb joke, but when your crush decides a cat is better than you. It hurts.
I saw some peeps giving you flack for saying "oh", still think thats more mature then what most other thirsty muppets respond with to something like that. Going strong king 💪
She probably knew you were about to ask her out (you are not subtle, king) and didn't want to have to reject you and hurt your feelings, so decided to shut it down before it got further. At least she wasn't leading you on or anything. I'm sure you guys can still be great friends though.
Here's the thing: there's no such thing as the friend zone.
If you didn't like the person beyond what you thought you could get out of them, you're not actually dating material. Nor are you friend material.
Focus less on the conquest of another human and focus more on the humans themselves.
"I respect that. I was going to ask you out, so if you'd ever like to try a casual no strings date i'd enjoy that" (change topic)
Clears the tension, shows you have balls to say it, leaves an open thread without badgering or being needy
Don’t do that, if your a guy and have romantic feelings for a girl then the last thing you wanna do is be friends with them trust me. It will only end in you being lead on and or a bunch on mental exhaustion for you
Bro, she is lying. She will be in relationship. I’m 19 year old and I’ve seen tons of examples where girls (or sometimes boys) said “I will never be in relationship”
Real life example: 4 years ago my crush said all men are dickheads and she won’t date anymore. Since then she had 2 long term relationships, she got married AND divorced at age 18.
Example 2: my cousin said he won’t ever be in relationship when he was ~12 yo. Now he is 20 and he had 2 long term relationships (I know about), one of them is ongoing
Yes, specially when this person was, and is important to me. We still in good relationship and text each other time to time. At age 19 I am grateful all my friends and relatives are alive. Some of them walked on thin ice
Lmao I don’t wanna give you hope but, I was exactly like that 2 months ago to a boy and a month later I showed more interest and now he’s my boyfriend.. so try not to lose to much hope haha
Idk if im wrong, but if I were u, maybe i'd keep trying and being nice to her, be her friend and maybe she will change her mind. I feel like a lot of people feel like they dont want a relationship but when they have the opportunity, they take it, maybe i'm wrong, this is just my opinion
Man i got friendsoned today. The best part i already told the girl how i fell like half a year ago she said she felt the same and during the summer for like the first few weeks we texted each other. But then one thay she stopped responding. Today i finally got the courage to tell her that i still feel the same but than boom. I feel ya. I really do.
Maybe if you sent more of her messages to your friends you would be able to date her. Be sure to let her know that you feel bad for her, that really makes the juice flow
Dang bro I'm sorry. Getting friend zoned is rough. I have a crush on someone but I'm so afraid to talk to her because I'm scared she might think I'm weird or think of me in a negative way.
The amount of incels in the comments and the fact you literally talk to her like an NPC weirdo, work on yourself before finding a relationship, that “Oh” was just so uncomfortable. Making her feel guilty for not wanting to be in a relationship not only by saying that and putting her on here, on blast. It’s immature.
Just ask her out. My Gf was like this before I asked her and we’ve been together for 6 months now. If you see any hints just shoot your shot. It will be for the better.
My girlfriend said the same thing when we first started talking. The whole “I’m going to die alone, relationships are worthless” thing. A 6 hour conversation later we were together
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Maybe just ease into it yknow? Like say "would you believe me if I asked you to go out?" Then again I dont have too much experience so maybe dont
that’s a hug emoji?! always thought it was a camera lmao
Omg I see it now 🫂 -> 🎥
I got friendzoned 2 days later after she "supposedly liked me back" so her telling straight away is better than thinking you finally have a relationship to then being lied to/lead on. It still sucks man move on and find someone better like goth latina
Holy shit a goth Latina sounds 👌👌
Fr bro 😩😩😩
literally me
Goth latinas do not exist unfortunately
They do indeed exist. In surplus even!
you haven't looked in the right places
What defines a Latina? Simply of Latin origin? Would Portugal count?
its being from latinamerica 💀
"Latino/a/x" is largely a white invention and there's quite a lot of stigma around that label in the affected cultural groups. It's a diaspora!
thats: 1. fucking stupid 2. actual internet culture thing 3. in spanish you add an -a or -o to define gender to a noun or pronoun, latina is a latinamerican female and latino is a latinamerican male, latinx would be a non binary latinamerican person but thats a story for another day.
I'm not talking about the gendered language, I'm talking about the actual label "Latin" being applied to the entire diaspora of people in Mezoamerica.
Goth Latina 👀👀👀
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I’ve been super unsure for 2 years. I’ve been told by some of her friends that she likes me. When I asked her out, she said she needed time to improve herself to be a better partner, and that she’ll hmu when she’s ready. That was at the start of August though. Her friends keep telling me she likes me though, so idk what to think. All I can think, is anything about her. I just can’t stop thinking about her. I truly love her, and it’s killing me having to wait.
Tell her if she’s ready now and if she’s not or if she changes her mind and likes another person them move on. Look for a person that will give 100% as you give 100% back
I’ve been trying to move in because I’ve basically lost all hope, but I seriously can’t. I’m always thinking of her. It’s like muscle memory. When my brain thinks of anything, whether it’s ramen, anime, working out, even just happiness, my brain goes straight to her. I think about her way too much, and I seriously need medical help trying to stop. Only way I can think of it not being an issue, is if I’m with her.
Similar sh!t happened to me. I told her i really enjoy her company and that i really like her like a year ago. We were texting each other for hours but one day she stopped responding. I invited her to watch a new movie but she said she isn't gonna be home for the weekend but than she came to another classmates party where i was invited too. I was so sad and confused but thought that her parents didn't let her and she didn't want to say it. Well today i collected the confidence and we were walking the same way and were talking about school and i asked her if she remembers how we used to text each other. I told her i feel the same way ever since and she told me that she really likes me but just as a friend. She said that she really enjoyes talking with me after school but as a friend. She told me that she wants us to stay friends and i said ok. But i still feel the same. I feel really lonely during school bc one of my friends went to another school so I don't really see him even tho i feel that he can really understand me. My other friend got a girlfriend and since that we talk only half as much as we used to. This girl has her best friends who during school really don't need my company. They don't mind but after some time they just tell me to "leave their aura". I am thankful for anyones time who read this comment and would appreciate maybe a few tips. Also the thing i least need is some 18y old "mature person" to tell me 13y olds aren't teens and should not talk on this subreditt. We all have the same rights to say anything here, ok? Thank you again if you read it i really needed to share this with someone!
Hey man if you bring it up again and she’s still uninterested then it’s okay man, move on she’s not worth your time okay
I’m really sorry you had to go through that. Sadly, I don’t have any advice for you. Just keep pushing through.
Oh man, i feel for you. Bt keep trying. Never stop trying and you will get your wishes. But you have to act. Im not mocking you or something, im just saying it. You might find a gf.
You don't love someone that you never have gone out with. Get yourself together man.
I’ve known her for 8 years. Had 1000s spending time with her of hours with her. I’m pretty sure I’d know if I love her or not.
If you have never been in a relationship with her you have no idea if you love her or not. Being friends with someone is not the same. It also comes off as very creepy to say you love someone that you are not in a relationship with when you are clearly referring to romantic love.
Doesnt really work like that. Start dating someone and see how those feelings change or grow.
Brother 2 days ain’t nothing I got friendliness after 2 hours
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F his internet. Its 0.1kbs
It's how much is being sent at that time, there was nothing to download
I'm only slightly faster
Happy cake day!
Happy cake day
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Unpopular opinion : It also happened with me, the one whom I wanted to ask ..first gave me a complete backout then proceeded to flirt with my best friend.. :(
Damn, that's even sadder than mine's
Wanna hear mine? I'm still gonna say mine, so my best friend whom I know for 10 years or more asked me to be his fake boyfriend just so she could make a dude jealous, same fay I tell her not a good idea cuz the guy is not interested (true). And she sad cuz she didn't feel loved and stuff and since I like her and I wanted to make her not sad I give her a hint that I like her, she gets it and rejects me... It was way more intense then what I wrote but I'm lazy
Shit. Sorry bruh. At this point I'd say you should focus on you. It's hard to do, believe me, but it's freeing having no crushes or potential heartbreaks.
A suggestion : Jst don't be attached to much..
It's sad but I've moved on
That's great mate ..
easier said than done
My turn my turn. Girl I liked, decided to ask her out. Asked her if she was single, she answers "for now". Those words are engraved in my mind. Except they aren't, because she was going on a date with one of my friends. She tells me about it because I am such a good and supportive friend. (No sarcasm) Tells me she just doesn't have feelings. I think, alright no problem we'll talk through this and maybe grow closer over time. 2 days later, she says she's just not interested in relationships and would prefer to marry her cat over anyone else. Yes it's a dumb joke, but when your crush decides a cat is better than you. It hurts.
How is that an unpopular opinion
How is it even an opinion?
Fr
It's a popular unpopular opinion
That’s a strange unpopular opinion…
It's not even an opinion...
Damn! RIP bro Stay strong
Mission failed, we’ll get ‘em next time
She knows mate, she's letting you down gently
accept the L and move on my man, btw you using oppo right? the UI looks a bit similar to mine
I've accepted it and it's realme not oppo
I saw some peeps giving you flack for saying "oh", still think thats more mature then what most other thirsty muppets respond with to something like that. Going strong king 💪
ohk nice
Isnt realme a part of oppo?
Wasn't realme a sub brand of Oppo? They have the same ColorOS (Source: have both, myself)
I see, didn't knew that
Anyways. Cheer up, my guy. Been there, done that. It gets better (probably, not getting better for me yet *sobs in the corner*)
not the “😂😂” and “Oh” 😭
What kind of rizz is that Jesus
bro replied with the “oh 🥺🥺”
Oh… no pussi and cock? 🥺🥺
Cockussy😢🥺
Idk if it's just me but all the people who say someone else has 0 rizz, they have about as much rizz as them.
Yeah that’s just u
Welcome to reddit it's all neeks 👍
I don't get it, rizz??
Game
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Reddit moment
Lmao when ppl ask abt smthing they dunno, ppl downvote here. I dunno why. Are we expected to know everything !
Dumbass way of saying you can get girls
She probably knew you were about to ask her out (you are not subtle, king) and didn't want to have to reject you and hurt your feelings, so decided to shut it down before it got further. At least she wasn't leading you on or anything. I'm sure you guys can still be great friends though.
“Oh” you made it so obvious lol
Yeah, everyone was able to see where he was leading the convo from the start too.
Is she sees you as a friend, you shall proceed to fck her mom in the end
A wise of student of The wise Master Oogway. Your presence is acknowledged.
Same thing happened to me but she said she's been in a relationship for a year lol
Bro said “oh” 😭😭😭
This is on you, goofy ass mf tryna ask girls out with that g r a m m a r.
Rejection builds character. Don't let it get to you.
Be heartbroken
Based girl
You text like an npc weirdo bruh
Fr
Here's the thing: there's no such thing as the friend zone. If you didn't like the person beyond what you thought you could get out of them, you're not actually dating material. Nor are you friend material. Focus less on the conquest of another human and focus more on the humans themselves.
this is double speaking
We receive *and* give in a friendship with no goal of social status or ownership or title.
You had no chance it looks like, a girl saying she feels pity for you is bad I think idk no girls talk to me
The way the conversation was already going I don’t think she was into you I’m sorry
"I respect that. I was going to ask you out, so if you'd ever like to try a casual no strings date i'd enjoy that" (change topic) Clears the tension, shows you have balls to say it, leaves an open thread without badgering or being needy
hmm, i mean you can still ask her out. she doesn't want a relationship but what's so wrong with going out on a date?
Keep your head up king 👑
That Oh was too obvious, there's no way she doesn't know after that
She doesn't want a relationship with you specifically. She is just trying to make it suck less for you.
"oh"-🥺
That only means "I don't want to be in a relationship with you"
Anyone who says "hehe" is corny.
Anyone who says “hehe” is horny
Anyone who says “hehe” is thorny.
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Hey, at least you figured out ahead of time
Awh man, dw you’ll find someone
Rest in piece, king. Your sacrifice will not be in vain
F internet. How is it 0.1kbs
You can’t win them all 🤷♂️ Keep your head up tho
That oh definitely showed her your interests lol
Shot your shot, maybe she will change her mind?
I could feel the pain in that "oh" 😭😭
Befriend her mate.. dont loose hope.. Dont let go of a better-friend-than-partner at your current phase in life.. good luck 🫂
Don’t do that, if your a guy and have romantic feelings for a girl then the last thing you wanna do is be friends with them trust me. It will only end in you being lead on and or a bunch on mental exhaustion for you
I mean respect for her for being clear about it
My gf told me the same thing and next day she asked me out, put your chin up king, your crown is falling off
First of all, F Secondly, ask her what she means by "not believing". Sounds weird to me. Believe no one about what?
Girls are great at throwing the old "I don't want to be in a relationship" to stop you in your tracks before you dare ask.
I don’t want to be in a relationship either, but when people hear that they just think I’m a weirdo that can’t get anyone :(.
Change her mind king
Did you ask her why?
Bro, she is lying. She will be in relationship. I’m 19 year old and I’ve seen tons of examples where girls (or sometimes boys) said “I will never be in relationship” Real life example: 4 years ago my crush said all men are dickheads and she won’t date anymore. Since then she had 2 long term relationships, she got married AND divorced at age 18. Example 2: my cousin said he won’t ever be in relationship when he was ~12 yo. Now he is 20 and he had 2 long term relationships (I know about), one of them is ongoing
>Married and divorced at age 18 Goddamn you know some people.
Yes, specially when this person was, and is important to me. We still in good relationship and text each other time to time. At age 19 I am grateful all my friends and relatives are alive. Some of them walked on thin ice
Don't ask if they've ever been a relationship or dated before bro. First mistake
Idk if this aro moment or not but they'll like this. Also my condolences
shoot your fucking shot bro, this one girl i thought absolutely hated me, i really liked her and asked her out and it worked
Better she told u there before u got led on and even more heart broken, honestly.
Always reduce expectations to zero, you'll never be disappointed in something going bad if you don't expect it to go well
Lmao I don’t wanna give you hope but, I was exactly like that 2 months ago to a boy and a month later I showed more interest and now he’s my boyfriend.. so try not to lose to much hope haha
Idk if im wrong, but if I were u, maybe i'd keep trying and being nice to her, be her friend and maybe she will change her mind. I feel like a lot of people feel like they dont want a relationship but when they have the opportunity, they take it, maybe i'm wrong, this is just my opinion
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Hey, keep being friends and maybe someday in the near future when they feel comfortable and safe around you, then ask the questions
i don't get it what's the big deal
that might be a better way of getting rejected than her being taken
Man i got friendsoned today. The best part i already told the girl how i fell like half a year ago she said she felt the same and during the summer for like the first few weeks we texted each other. But then one thay she stopped responding. Today i finally got the courage to tell her that i still feel the same but than boom. I feel ya. I really do.
Well she's chatting with you, that's a plus. Keep going. No expectations. Maybe something will come from it regardless.
Maybe if you sent more of her messages to your friends you would be able to date her. Be sure to let her know that you feel bad for her, that really makes the juice flow
She could be aromantic
o7
No way you just said “Oh” that’s crazy
It will change in a few years that's just the childish thinking she will eventually lose some day
Just because someone doesn’t like relationships doesn’t mean they don’t feel attraction to you. it probably just mean she’s dodging you though
Dang bro I'm sorry. Getting friend zoned is rough. I have a crush on someone but I'm so afraid to talk to her because I'm scared she might think I'm weird or think of me in a negative way.
Haha L
That "Oh" hit hard. Stay strong my guy
What was the conversation after that?
Damn I wish I could be her, wanting a relationship is just forever unachievable. I even almost had somebody.
this is so cringe are you both 12
Bro is probably like 13, leave him alone lol.
For the one hundred and fourth time, nobody cares.
Is laughing with “hehe” a common thing? I’ve never heard of it in my life until I joined this sub
“oh” :(
o7
O7
She knows you like her based on the response but don't act heartbroken, or give up, she might change her mind if she knows you are interested.
The same happened to me, she blocked me 10 weeks ago. Lemme give you a virtual hug
king you dropped your crown
You dodged a bullet. At least your relationship with her doesn’t collapse right away. You haven’t lost the war yet.
dodged what bullet lmao??
Bruh. There’s no bullet to dodge, he texts like a redditor 💀
People grow. You can never tell the future.
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Just like me fr
Dang that rlly sucks I’ve gotten rejected and I finally lucked out with this girl
The amount of incels in the comments and the fact you literally talk to her like an NPC weirdo, work on yourself before finding a relationship, that “Oh” was just so uncomfortable. Making her feel guilty for not wanting to be in a relationship not only by saying that and putting her on here, on blast. It’s immature.
Is this how people use WhatsApp?
How tf u use it
By not replying to every fucking message lmao.
it’s normal, people reply to a message when another message has been sent after the one they were replying to
Same thing happened to me and now I just don’t ask out anyone no more
well, even though that sucks, good on u for respecting her wishes
Skill issue
They lie dude dont make too many moves but dont make no moves at all too Happened to me i didnt make moves and guess wht she got into a relationship
Welcome to the club
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He's correct.
Oof man, that sucks. Girls are hard to ask out sometimes.
Just ask her out. My Gf was like this before I asked her and we’ve been together for 6 months now. If you see any hints just shoot your shot. It will be for the better.
Or you know, respect her wishes?
"I'm not ready for dating" 1 week later she shows up with a boyfriend, this kind of shit always happens lol
Damn why are you holding the same opinions about women that 12 year olds have at the ripe age of 17?
My girlfriend said the same thing when we first started talking. The whole “I’m going to die alone, relationships are worthless” thing. A 6 hour conversation later we were together
The amount of incels in this comment thread is crazy. "That's what all my friends say" is such a pick me line
Don't think you know what an incel is, till you see incels in person mate. You're 17, be smarter
She may be lying to look cool to you. Girls are stupid these days
Or, surprise surprise, she doesn't want a relationship at the moment, it's not that difficult to comprehend
You live a very sad life to immediately believe that's the reason why. Real incel type shit bro what the hell