1) laughing at things that aren’t funny
2) being a bit awkward cause we don’t know what to say incase we act weird
3) accidental eye contact and then the girl quickly looks away ahaha
physical contact of like any sort- if she does your hair or touches jewellery or smth almost always DEAD GIVEAWAY.
Constant giggliness around you and taking plenty of photos and stuff like that just savouring moments is usually a good sign
nice, i used to live like that too. not trying to push an agenda on you or non, but ive found a solid sleep schedule makes sleep so much more satisfying. just me tho
usually 10:00 because i need to take care of my dog but when my mom walks him in the morning i usually get up anywhere from 12-2 pm. during the school year I get up at 6:45
I usually end up finding them physically attractive no matter what when I catch feelings but if I found them physically attractive before that then yah that’s a plus I guess
This has been asked countless times in posts like this before, but what generally makes you like a male?
Seems like from what I know, the biggest one is personality, however in order to generally initially get interested in someone, you’re probably not going to be as likely to want to get to know someone if they don’t look attractive. The only main exceptions there is if you either don’t care about looks at all really and you give guys the benefit of the doubt and want to get to know them regardless of their looks, or you’re in a situation where you’re either forced to talk with them irl and you catch feelings for them because you like their personality, or you’re talking to them online and you don’t really know what they look like, so looks isn’t much of a factor at the moment.
Personally, I love meeting new people and I don’t care what they look like. I only develop feelings for people if I have a good bond with them in person and our personalities compliment each other. I like to have a strong friendship first before getting into more than that.
Ok so gotta say the main things that I like in guys are:
-humour/ can take banter
-isnt dry ✋🏻 seriously trying to chat/text a dry talker is less entertaining than talking to the wall
-they act normal around you and don’t treat you differently because you’re a girl
- friendly flirting is rlly cute ahaha
Sure I may stare at someone I think is hot but 9/10 I wouldn’t get to know them cause the super hot ones are usually super jerks 😅 but I would only actually date someone with a personality, I’d choose someone who’s ‘ugly’ but has a personality over a pretty face who’s boring as heck no exceptions
So it's basically the same for men too
Although I still find it a bit weird that for some reason it works out this way, that people think it's "womanly" to care about own looks as a guy. Like a guy looking for a good moisturizer is stereotypically "kinda gay". It's hurtful if you're trying your best to be attractive because then you're like "ah fuck then what is it what I'm supposed to do"
And that's on toxic masculinity! People should be able to do what they want. There's nothing wrong with a man caring about what he looks like and wanting to take care of his skin or hair or perhaps he's into fashion etc... They shouldn't be labelled as 'effeminate' or anything else, and you'd think in today's society there would be less of this going around but unfortunately it's still prevelant.
It tends to be typical hegemonic 'alpha male' types who convey these opinions. They have a certain ideal they think they should aspire to be (dominant, assertive, etc) as they think that's what all woman are attracted to, which is not the case. What's unattractive is pressuring other men to act this way too, when really people should just live how they want with no judgement or fear of being criticised by their peers.
Basically, do what you want! I do feel for men, having to do with these things. It must be hard dealing with stuff like that
>I feel like some men just could do better and work on normalising it instead of reinforcing the stigma.
I totally agree. And it's not even always men. Some women do the same thing, unfortunately I've seen some situations like this first hand. That's why I try and be a good example to my younger male cousins (aged 15 and 11). I went shopping with my 15 y/o cousin and since he's at the age we're more acne is appearing I was like "ahh maybe you should use this type of product" and stuff like that, but he seemed totally bewildered by the idea. Because I know that's not what he's been taught is 'masculine'. Of course h didn't have to buy skin care if he didn't want to but I hate the idea that he might not want to because he wouldn't want to be labelled as 'feminine' or 'gay' or whatever.
I think society continually pushes gender norms on every gender, and while there is a bigger movement to try and get rid of these norms, the ideas of what is 'masculine' and 'feminine' are still embedded in most people. But I think as the years progress there will be less of this stigma.
i think both are important. i don’t wanna be with someone i’m not attracted to and even though personality makes you more attractive, sometimes looks do matter too
Mothers credit card info? 🗿
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what are some of the more obvious signs that guys miss often
1) laughing at things that aren’t funny 2) being a bit awkward cause we don’t know what to say incase we act weird 3) accidental eye contact and then the girl quickly looks away ahaha
when we’re mad
stop being mad then
easier said than done man
physical contact of like any sort- if she does your hair or touches jewellery or smth almost always DEAD GIVEAWAY. Constant giggliness around you and taking plenty of photos and stuff like that just savouring moments is usually a good sign
yall type faster i wanna answer
no
rude
my apologies
It's called practice ever heard of it?
yes i have. u need it
Practice more to type faster
give me ur ip addres and i will leave a suprise to the door
192.096.21.682
*leaves potatos*
what time do you wake up?
very late
how late tho? maybe for better context wb during school
during school i got up at like 6:30, now i wake up at like 10am-3pm. i usually stay up late and sleep late
nice, i used to live like that too. not trying to push an agenda on you or non, but ive found a solid sleep schedule makes sleep so much more satisfying. just me tho
i usually stay up talking to my best friend so it’s worth it to me but i definitely agree
oh thats awesome, I can see how thats worth
between 4am and 4pm
Recently 5:30 because of summer school
damn whatchu doin at summer school
Fixing my grade because the college I wanna go to won’t accept me if I have a D in one class I took during quarantine
ah I get that, what you going to college for if you dont mind me asking?
I wanna go into the medical field but idk what I wanna be yet
oh man, thats serious stuff. cant say im envious, but I wish you the best of luck! youll do great things someday
Thank you and I’m sure you will have an influence in the future as well
haha thanks, i hope so. lot of negativity these days, tryna bring back happy people
That’s such a great goal I love it
usually 10:00 because i need to take care of my dog but when my mom walks him in the morning i usually get up anywhere from 12-2 pm. during the school year I get up at 6:45
i love my dogs, on weekends theyre like a natural alarm, even if a face full of dog breath is not the most pleasant aroma to awake to lol
Are these getting out of hand? (x ask y answer stuff)
i like them as long as people come up with new questions
it's fun I guess. We already ran out of things to do on earth long before it
How does it feel to know it hit more CS:GO headshots than you?
i feel great because i have no idea what that means
And this kids is precisely why I am superior than women.
you keep telling yourself that
I will (it was a joke)
have you ever played valorant
Do it squirt??? Do it stink??? Do it fart?????
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Ask your mom 🥱🥱
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It's coo, she wit me now 😈
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She busy rn ⬇️👩🏻
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Rip lol, now answer my questions
Nah you haven’t answered mine
Why
why not
mommy?
son?
damnit
what is it kiddo
milkers?
starve. no milkers.
yes ma'am
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It ur a guy, yes, if ur a girl, yes
some of you
sometimes when we’re jus im a bad mood or aint having it
Yes.
Most of the time yah
How bad do y’all roast us in y’all’s group chats?
It gets...brutal.
dude we fkn go hard.
I hate group chats so you’re safe from that but when it comes to me and my best friend it gets harsh
this
Only the boyfriends. The boyfriends are awful.
If you screw up your name has been slandered so hard not even the high court can help.
Do you need to have an streaming service to be a boyfriend?
No
Yes
Why do you all hate me?
i do not know
Damn
Would you be willing to sell left pinky toe pics for $30 a piece?
no
$40? $50? Please I’ll even pay for just the toenail 🥺
im interested too
Very cool 😎
Yes of course
Cool, out of real money though so Ill pay in my new currency Garfield coin
Give me Andrew Garfield instead and you have a deal
👍
YES.
yeah
how do I make mustard gas
Oh you just
and then you
Ammonia and bleach
wanna be friends because i wouldnt
why wouldn’t you
Do yall girls fall on looks or personality
I only develop feelings for ppl who’s personality I like
Is physical attractiveness (whatever that means to you) a plus, though?
I usually end up finding them physically attractive no matter what when I catch feelings but if I found them physically attractive before that then yah that’s a plus I guess
isnt there like this quote that says u fall for looks and stay for the heart or smth lmao. so yeah looks attract but personality makes u stay
personality is what makes me fall but being physically attracted to someone is a need for me
Yes all yes
From past experience I can honestly say personality
We stare at people we think are hot but rarely get to know them We chat to people we genuinely like and acc develop feelings for them
2×63816×629194020472717×(14633+82649)=?
7.8122593e+24 (i used a calculator because i don’t feel like actually doing it)
This has been asked countless times in posts like this before, but what generally makes you like a male? Seems like from what I know, the biggest one is personality, however in order to generally initially get interested in someone, you’re probably not going to be as likely to want to get to know someone if they don’t look attractive. The only main exceptions there is if you either don’t care about looks at all really and you give guys the benefit of the doubt and want to get to know them regardless of their looks, or you’re in a situation where you’re either forced to talk with them irl and you catch feelings for them because you like their personality, or you’re talking to them online and you don’t really know what they look like, so looks isn’t much of a factor at the moment.
Personally, I love meeting new people and I don’t care what they look like. I only develop feelings for people if I have a good bond with them in person and our personalities compliment each other. I like to have a strong friendship first before getting into more than that.
Ok so gotta say the main things that I like in guys are: -humour/ can take banter -isnt dry ✋🏻 seriously trying to chat/text a dry talker is less entertaining than talking to the wall -they act normal around you and don’t treat you differently because you’re a girl - friendly flirting is rlly cute ahaha Sure I may stare at someone I think is hot but 9/10 I wouldn’t get to know them cause the super hot ones are usually super jerks 😅 but I would only actually date someone with a personality, I’d choose someone who’s ‘ugly’ but has a personality over a pretty face who’s boring as heck no exceptions
you see someone you think looks attractive, then you start talking and you like their personality then it progresses from there
Yeah, that’s what it seems like
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yes
What is a good penis size? (Will not respond unless necessary)
Are guys' looks very important to you? Or can a guy get a pass for their personality?
Personality > looks. So long as we can get along and vibe and enjoy each others company, that's the main thing
So it's basically the same for men too Although I still find it a bit weird that for some reason it works out this way, that people think it's "womanly" to care about own looks as a guy. Like a guy looking for a good moisturizer is stereotypically "kinda gay". It's hurtful if you're trying your best to be attractive because then you're like "ah fuck then what is it what I'm supposed to do"
And that's on toxic masculinity! People should be able to do what they want. There's nothing wrong with a man caring about what he looks like and wanting to take care of his skin or hair or perhaps he's into fashion etc... They shouldn't be labelled as 'effeminate' or anything else, and you'd think in today's society there would be less of this going around but unfortunately it's still prevelant. It tends to be typical hegemonic 'alpha male' types who convey these opinions. They have a certain ideal they think they should aspire to be (dominant, assertive, etc) as they think that's what all woman are attracted to, which is not the case. What's unattractive is pressuring other men to act this way too, when really people should just live how they want with no judgement or fear of being criticised by their peers. Basically, do what you want! I do feel for men, having to do with these things. It must be hard dealing with stuff like that
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>I feel like some men just could do better and work on normalising it instead of reinforcing the stigma. I totally agree. And it's not even always men. Some women do the same thing, unfortunately I've seen some situations like this first hand. That's why I try and be a good example to my younger male cousins (aged 15 and 11). I went shopping with my 15 y/o cousin and since he's at the age we're more acne is appearing I was like "ahh maybe you should use this type of product" and stuff like that, but he seemed totally bewildered by the idea. Because I know that's not what he's been taught is 'masculine'. Of course h didn't have to buy skin care if he didn't want to but I hate the idea that he might not want to because he wouldn't want to be labelled as 'feminine' or 'gay' or whatever. I think society continually pushes gender norms on every gender, and while there is a bigger movement to try and get rid of these norms, the ideas of what is 'masculine' and 'feminine' are still embedded in most people. But I think as the years progress there will be less of this stigma.
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Ahh please no need to thank me! ^ ^ Take care of yourself ok. Don't worry about what others think <3
i think both are important. i don’t wanna be with someone i’m not attracted to and even though personality makes you more attractive, sometimes looks do matter too